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Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
69 | Myers Briggs ENTP and Enneagram Type 7 Mom Gives Insights on Parenting her ENTP Son
Sara Van Rensburg CEO of Potential Arena and ENTP, Extroverted, Intuitive, Thinking and Perceiving, talks about how she was in school. She shares how you can keep your ENTP from jumping from one thing to another How to collaborate, negotiate and how to communicate in a way that gets them to listen. How they take things apart and cans seem disrespectful How to handle their fast-acting creative mind How their mind works conceptually rather than linearly Understanding their impatience, explosivity and lagging emotional development How...
2025-06-25
58 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
68 | INTJ Type 1 Mother Parenting Her Opposite ENFP Daughter
In this eye-opening episode, we delve into the dynamic world of an INTJ Type 1 mother raising her free-spirited ENFP Type 7 daughter. With a focus on the contrasts and complements between the thinking and feeling brains, we explore how these personality types uniquely influence their parenting and child-rearing experiences. Shana, an INTJ mother known for her structured approach and keen sense of order, shares her personal journey towards understanding and embracing her daughter Savannah's exuberant and spontaneous ENFP personality. This episode sheds light on the challenges and triumphs of letting her free-spirited child learn valuable life lessons through experience, while...
2025-06-11
44 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
67 | Highly Intelligent, Perfectionistic and Introverted. How to Parent the Rare INTJ
Are you raising a future innovator, strategist, or systems architect? The INTJ is one of the rarest and most independent types—especially in girls—and their complex inner world can leave even the most insightful parent scratching their head. In this episode, we dive into the psychology behind the INTJ temperament, from their mysterious inner vision to their intense need for autonomy, structure, and meaning. Learn how to parent an INTJ child with confidence by understanding their four psychological functions (Ni, Te, Fi, Se), how they show up in babies, grade schoolers, teens, and adults, and what kinds of r...
2025-06-03
21 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
66 | Neurodivergent Parenting: Real Advice from an Autistic Mom and Special Ed Teacher
Join us this week as we dive into a powerful conversation with Maggie Albrow, a special education teacher who brings a unique perspective to autism. Diagnosed herself and raising two children on the spectrum, she shares practical parenting strategies that anyone can use to better understand their child’s needs, whether or not they have autism. We’ll explore how her ISTJ personality shapes her approach and dive into her son’s ISTP traits, showing how personality and autism intersect to create unique parenting paths. Plus, we’ll break down the differences between high-functioning autism and a naturally withdrawn personal...
2025-05-27
34 min
The Rob Carson Show
The Pushback Against D.C. Corruption
Media Shakeup at CBS: CBS News President Wendy McMahon resigned amid internal turmoil and legal issues, including a $20B lawsuit from Trump over manipulated interviews. Dan Bongino and Kash Patel Controversy: Both downplayed conspiracy concerns about Jeffrey Epstein’s death and assassination plots against Trump, sparking backlash among conservative listeners. Tom Borelli on the “Newsmax Hotline”: Borelli joined to criticize Comey, defend skepticism of the Epstein case, and echo calls for accountability in alleged federal misconduct and surveillance failures. Today’s podcast is sponsored by : BIRCH GOLD - Protect a...
2025-05-20
41 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
65 | Is Your Child a Sensitive ISFP? Take the Temperament Test and Learn How to Parent Their Type
ISFP children are sensitive, creative, and deeply attuned to the world around them—but they express it quietly. In this episode, we explore their core functions: Introverted Feeling (Fi), Extraverted Sensing (Se), Introverted Intuition (Ni), and Extraverted Thinking (Te) to help you understand their temperament across all life stages. Tune in to discover: How ISFPs process feelings internally but express through art, movement, or music What ISFPs need to feel safe and supported in a noisy world Why discipline must be gentle and flexible The difference between shyness and inward sensitivity If your child is emotionally ri...
2025-05-15
20 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
64 | Inside the Mind of an ISTP, Type 8 Female. Strong-Willed, Independent and Logical
Introverted Thinking Lion ISTP (Introverted Sensing Thinking and Perceiving), Type 8 individuals are intellectually sharp but may lack emotional intelligence, making self-awareness essential. Their affinity for systems makes understanding temperament valuable. Female thinkers constitute only 25% of the population, underscoring the importance of teaching appropriate interactions with women. It's crucial to acknowledge and validate their uniqueness. Encourage Introverted thinking (Ti) individuals to explore logical subjects like engineering, philosophy, or theology, aligning with their strategic, independent nature. For ISTPs, action trumps reading, so practical books with real-life scenarios are ideal. As they mature, purpose-driven books become more appealing. Engage ISTP children by...
2025-05-08
57 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
63 | Is Your Child Struggling in Reading, Writing or Math? Possible Reasons From a Literacy Specialist
Does your child reverse letters and numbers, struggle to read aloud, forget how to spell simple words—or have a hard time memorizing their times tables? Do they seem bright but often frustrated by schoolwork? These could be signs of dyslexia or dysgraphia, which are often present alongside ADHD, making it even harder for kids to focus, retain information, and feel confident in the classroom. In this episode, I talk with Maggie Pike, a literacy and dyslexia specialist with over 20 years of experience supporting kids with learning differences. We’ll explore: What dyslexia really is—and how to...
2025-05-01
30 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
62 | Is Your Child an ISTP? Decode Their Quiet, Strong-Willed and Independent Spirit
The ISTP child is a natural-born problem-solver. Quiet, observant, and fiercely independent, they don’t cry for help—they look for tools. In this episode, we break down their four psychological functions: Introverted Thinking (Ti), Extraverted Sensing (Se), Introverted Intuition (Ni), and Extraverted Feeling (Fe), and explore how they shape this hands-on learner at every age and stage. You’ll learn: What ISTP babies need to feel secure and independent How ISTPs learn best (hint: not by sitting still) How to parent an ISTP without micromanaging Their strengths and potential struggles in school, friendships, and adulthood This t...
2025-04-21
22 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
61 | Parenting by Personality: What Makes the Social, Fun, Disorganized ESFP Child Thrive?
ESFP children are magnetic, expressive, and full of joy. They’re known for their love of fun, their strong connection to others, and their ability to turn every moment into a celebration. But behind that sparkle is a need for emotional safety and real-world experience. In this episode, we unpack the ESFP’s psychological functions—Extraverted Sensing (Se), Introverted Feeling (Fi), Extraverted Thinking (Te), and Introverted Intuition (Ni)—and explore how they shape everything from discipline to career choices. You’ll learn: Why ESFPs respond better to praise and play than punishment How to handle their impulsivity with empat...
2025-04-16
18 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
60 | Is Your Child an ESTP? Take the Free Temperament Test and Learn How to Parent Their Type
ESTP kids are movers, doers, and thrill-seekers. Known for their charisma, quick reflexes, and love for excitement, they thrive when they can learn by doing rather than sitting still. In this episode, we break down the ESTP’s cognitive functions—Extraverted Sensing (Se), Introverted Thinking (Ti), Extraverted Feeling (Fe), and Introverted Intuition (Ni)—and show how these influence their strengths, struggles, and motivations at every age. You’ll learn: How to work with their impulsive nature, not against it Why consequences need to be immediate and physical What kinds of careers and paths this type thrives in How to g...
2025-04-08
19 min
Transforming The Toddler Years-A Conscious Parenting Podcast Turning Tantrums into Teachable Moments
How Your Child's Brain is Wired for Success with Wendy Gossett
Have you ever thought, 'what is my child thinking'?!Wendy Gossett joins me to talk about brain wiring and what parts of children's brain light up and make them act the way they do. We talk about how knowing your child’s brain wiring will help give you new focus to see their strengths that may seem like weaknesses, a new framework for setting realistic expectations and a new way to forecast for their future development!Wendy has a Master’s Degree in education, is a certified Youth Mental Heal...
2025-04-03
30 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
59 | The #1 Parenting Strategy for Reducing Tantrums and Behavior Issues (Backed by Research)
What if one parenting technique could reduce whining, tantrums, and interruptions by up to 80%? In this episode, we dive into the research-backed power of planned ignoring, based on the work of Dr. Alan Kazdin of the Yale Parenting Center. Research from Yale's Parenting Center shows that planned ignoring—when used correctly with consistent positive attention—can reduce negative behaviors in children by up to 80%. But here's the deal—planned ignoring only works when paired with intentional, strength-based attention. And take a guess where you can get a detailed roadmap of your child’s unique strengths? My website of cours...
2025-04-01
17 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
58 | Are You Too Smart for Friendship? What MBTI NT Types Really Need
NT personality types—ENTP, INTJ, INTP, and ENTJ—are known for their sharp intellect, fierce independence, and big-picture thinking. But when it comes to friendship, their strengths can also be their biggest struggles. In this episode, we break down how NTs approach relationships using the TRUE framework: Trust, Respect, Understanding, and Encouragement. You’ll learn: ✅ Why NTs need mental stimulation to feel connected ✅ What makes them loyal (and what pushes them away) ✅ Why emotions can feel like a foreign language ✅ How NTs support friends in practical—but often overlooked—ways Whether you're an NT yours...
2025-03-25
19 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
57 | The Insecure Friend: Why MBTI NF Personality Types Feel Too Much in Relationships
Do you have a friend who craves deep, meaningful conversations, champions your dreams, and feels emotions with unmatched intensity? If so, you might have an NF (Intuitive Feeler) friend! Known for their depth, passion, and emotional intelligence, NFs (ENFJ, INFJ, ENFP, INFP) are the visionaries, dreamers, and counselors of the friendship world. But with their high expectations, sensitivity, and desire for novelty, friendships with NFs can be both deeply rewarding and occasionally challenging. In this episode, we break down the NF friend using the TRUE framework (Trust, Respect, Understanding, Encouragement) to explore: ✅ Why NFs form so...
2025-03-18
30 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
56 | Are You a Controlling Friend? Strengths and Struggles of the MBTI SJ Personality
Are you looking for a steady, dependable friend who always remembers birthdays, follows through on commitments, and shows up when it counts? Then you need an SJ friend! In this episode, we explore the Guardian temperament (SJ types: ESFJ, ISFJ, ESTJ, ISTJ)—the friends who hold everything together with their structure, loyalty, and strong sense of responsibility. But just like every type, SJs have friendship strengths and struggles. While they’re incredibly reliable and thoughtful, they can also be overly rigid, controlling, or struggle with emotional connection and encouragement. Join me as we break down the...
2025-03-11
28 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
55 | Are Your Friendships Too Shallow? Strengths and Struggles of the Free-Spirited MBTI SP
SP's or Sensory Perceivers in the Myer's Briggs system, are the thrill-seekers, the spontaneous adventurers, and the friends who can turn an ordinary Tuesday into a legendary night. But are they reliable friends, or just here for a good time? In this episode, we break down: Different types of SP friends—from the Party Starter to the Flaky Friend Why SPs struggle with commitment and deep listening How to appreciate their energy while setting healthy boundaries The TRUE framework—where SPs shine and where they struggle If you’ve ever been frustrated by a last-minute cancel...
2025-03-04
26 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
54 | Love Personality Tests? Recognizing the Four People Patterns in Yourself and Others
In this episode, we delve into the age-old debate of nature versus nurture and its impact on our temperament. Discover the findings of an eighty-year Harvard happiness study, revealing that 50% of our happiness capacity is determined by our temperament, which is set at birth. Despite this, we often focus on changing our circumstances rather than accepting our inherent strengths. We explore how temperament influences our reactions to life's challenges and how understanding our children's temperament is crucial for effective parenting. Drawing from real-life examples and psychological research, we examine how temperament manifests from infancy and...
2025-02-27
40 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
53 | Feeling Lonely or Isolated? How to Find Community and Build Friendships as an Adult
Making friends as an adult is harder than anyone ever warned us about. Unlike childhood, where friendships formed effortlessly on the playground, or college, where connections were built into dorm life, adulthood throws us new challenges—busy schedules, shifting priorities, and the reality that making (and keeping) friendships takes effort. This is a topic I love and have spent a lot of time thinking about. Years ago, I led a seminar on friendship and connection, and despite facing plenty of obstacles, I’ve been able to build an incredible, supportive group of friends. But it wasn’t by acc...
2025-02-18
23 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
52 | Raising Resilient Kids with Lee Benson. Building Grit, Confidence and Financial Skills
Every parent dreams of setting their kids up for success—protecting them from pain, offering them opportunities, and giving them the tools to thrive. But what if, in trying to shield our kids from struggles, we’re actually limiting their potential? What if you could give your child a superpower—a mindset that turns challenges into opportunities, builds confidence through healthy struggles, and equips them to create value for themselves and others? I had my first paper route in the 3rd grade! Getting up early, rain or shine, instilled a work ethic in me and taught me so muc...
2025-02-10
22 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
50 | Agonizing Over Gender Dysphoria in Your Teen? 5 Strategies Every Parent Should Know
Set up a FREE Chat: https://wendygossett.as.me/ChatwithWendy Take my FREE child temperament test: https://wendygossett.com/child-inner-drive-assessment-product/ Request a FREE Adult Temperament/Enneagram/Instincts Test: https://wendygossett.com/ Website: Wendy Gossett.com Get FREE resources on my website: https://wendygossett.com/ or email me at WendyGossett.com Facebook Podcast Page: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61565445936367 Book: Your Child's Inner Drive:Parenting by Personality from Toddlers to Teens on Amazon or https://wendygossett.com/product/your-childs-inner-drive-parenting-by-personality-for-toddlers-to-teens/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCaaOCjoDyOk4_gS...
2025-02-06
20 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
51 | Is Punishment Failing Your Child? Discover the Science of Random Praise
What if the key to motivating your child wasn’t punishment or rewards, but when and how you give recognition? In this episode, we explore the science of random praise and variable reinforcement—a proven method that builds self-motivation and resilience. Learn how to adapt traditional reward systems, foster trust, and tailor your praise to your child’s unique temperament. Whether your child is bold, sensitive, curious, or cautious, you’ll gain practical strategies to help them thrive. Tune in for relatable stories, actionable tips, and insights to transform your parenting journey. Set up a FREE Chat: https...
2025-02-04
15 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
49 | Butting Heads Because You Are Parenting Your Strong-Willed Clone?
Welcome to Not So Normal Parenting, where we dive into the complexities of raising children through the lens of This mom first connected with me after finding my videos on YouTube and reading my parenting book, not just once, but twice. Through our coaching sessions, we developed practical strategies like a token system that gives her daughter the independence and structure she craves while teaching essential skills like collaboration and flexibility. One of the biggest challenges we explore is how this mom is learning to model empathy for her daughter. As an ENTJ, empathy isn’t...
2025-01-22
31 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
48 | Struggling to Connect with Your Sensitive Child? A Type 2 Mom’s Transformational Story
Are you struggling to find a therapist who truly understands and connects with your child? You’re not alone. Pediatricians tell me that over half of the concerns they see in their practice are tied to mental health—whether it’s the child the parents, or both. Tody, I’m thrilled to introduce you to a mom I’ve had the honor of coaching. She’s an incredible parent, a natural caregiver, and a community leader. As a Type 2 on the Enneagram and an ESFJ in the Myers-Briggs system, her personality is known for warmth, compassion, and generosity...
2025-01-14
28 min
Motherhood Intended
Elevating Your Parenting: The Power of Understanding Temperament
HAPPY NEW YEAR! Happy Season 5! Happy 2 Year Podcast Anniversary! Happy Birthday to your host, Jacqueline Baird! The podcast is back after a brief end-of-year hiatus and there is a lot to celebrate...To kick off a new season of the Motherhood Intended Podcast, Jacqueline welcomes onto the show Wendy Gossett, a parenting and relationship coach, author, and host of the Not So Normal Parenting Podcast. Wendy discusses the significance of understanding children's unique temperaments to tailor parenting effectively. She shares insights on using brain mapping and temperament testing to identify individual strengths and challenges in children. Wendy...
2025-01-09
51 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
47 | How to Manage Post Holiday Tantrums. Tested Strategies for Explosive Toddlers with Cara Tyrell
Do you ever feel trapped in a cycle of triggers, reactions, and meltdowns with your child? You’re not alone, and today we’re diving into how to break that exhausting pattern. In this episode, we’ll explore the Trigger Trap Reaction Cycle and why it can make us sound like our own moms or dads—despite our best intentions. You’ll learn how to respond calmly instead of reacting in the heat of the moment, reset your child’s regulation through intentional connection, and build their executive function skills. Plus, we’ll talk about why one-size-fits-all tantrum strategies don’t work and...
2025-01-07
27 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
46 | Feeling Stuck? The Simple Exercise To Transform Your Perspective Now
What do you really want? It’s a question we often answer with things we don’t have—a bigger house, a better job, more time. But what if the most powerful wants are the ones you already have? The partner you chose, the kids you prayed for, the home you once dreamed of, or the life you built step by step. In this episode, we’ll explore: ✨ Deciding again: Stop living in default mode. Revisit your goals, your routines, your identity, and ask yourself: “Do I still choose this?” ✨ Wanting what you already have: Go beyond gratit...
2024-12-18
21 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
45 | Are Your Kids Acting Entitled? 5 Parenting Strategies That Work
Does your teen claim they’re the last person on earth with an iPhone 12? Or maybe your younger child is begging for a Barbie dreamhouse with a party room and pool while you’re still saving for a dishwasher that works. Entitlement can sneak into our homes, especially during the holidays, but there’s hope! In this episode, we’ll explore 5 practical ways to address entitlement in kids. From getting them involved in chores to fostering gratitude, we’ll discuss how to redirect their focus from “I deserve” to “I appreciate.” Plus, we’ll tackle the tricky "But everyone has one...
2024-12-11
25 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
44 | Complete Holiday Gift Guide For Every Enneagram Type
The holidays are a season of gratitude and connection, and finding the perfect gift for your loved ones can make it even more special. But what if you could tailor your gifts to reflect the unique personality of each person? In this episode, we break down the perfect gift ideas for every Enneagram type—both adults and kids—so you can give with intention and thoughtfulness. From the practical, high-quality picks that Type 1s love to the adventurous and joyful surprises perfect for Type 7s, we’ll help you match each gift with the qualities that make each t...
2024-12-03
20 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
43 | How to Value the Quality of Every Enneagram Type
This Thanksgiving season, let’s pause to recognize and celebrate the unique qualities that each Enneagram type brings to our lives. Inspired by expert insights, we’ll explore how appreciating specific traits in your loved ones can deepen connections and strengthen family bonds. From the wisdom of Type 5s to the joy of Type 7s, you’ll discover how these qualities shape the world for the better. Plus, I’ll share a fun and creative family activity—The Turkey in Disguise Game—that’s perfect for bringing everyone together for some laughter and creativity this holiday season. Join me for a thoughtf...
2024-11-26
22 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
42 | Overcome Holiday Overwhelm. Intentional Focus for Every Enneagram Type
Overcome the holiday hustle with intentional focus tailored to your Enneagram type! In this episode, we kick off a six-part holiday series filled with lighthearted lists and meaningful activities for all the Enneagram types. You'll discover how to avoid holiday traps, embrace your unique gifts, and connect with the deeper meaning of the season. Plus, every type is matched with a famous Christmas song to help you stay grounded, inspired, and intentional throughout the holidays. Whether you're a busy Type 3 Achiever, a generous Type 2 Helper, or a reflective Type 4 Individualist, there's something here for everyone. Tune in for practical...
2024-11-19
23 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
41 | Feeling Unfulfilled? The 1-on-1 Sexual Instinct and the Search for Meaningful Connection
In today’s episode, we are exploring the 1-on-1 sexual instinct and how it shapes our relationships, desires, and even our personal growth. Many of us experience an intense need for deep, one-on-one connections, but few realize how much this instinct impacts not just our romantic lives but all areas of connection. Whether you're wondering why you crave intense relationships, struggle when the ‘honeymoon phase’ ends, or want to better understand your own instinctual needs, this episode is for you. Stay tuned to learn about the types that become countertypes due to this powerful instinct, and discover practical steps to find f...
2024-11-12
25 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
40 | How Do Status and Community Drive the Enneagram Social Instinct
Wendy Gossett helps parents understand their children by using temperament psychology and neuroscience. She has over 10,000 hours of experience in education, both in the classroom and corporate sector. Even though she holds a Master’s degree in education, she struggled to understand her neurodivergent and oppositional kids. Inspired by her experience using Myers Briggs and the Enneagram with business teams, she spent over a decade researching temperament pattens to help family teams. She is a best-selling author and host of the Not So Normal Parenting podcast. Her podcast is entitled Not So Normal Parenting bec...
2024-11-05
26 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
39 | 3 Enneagram Instincts: Introducing Self Preservation and It's BFF; Anxiety
Uncover a new layer of the Enneagram as we dive into the incredibly impactful world of the instinctual subtypes. In this episode, we focus on the self-preservation instinct—a survival-driven instinct that influences every part of life, from daily routines to family dynamics. Learn how self-preservation types prioritize safety, comfort, and health, and why they often feel the need to be prepared for any situation. Whether it's turning their home into a cozy sanctuary or meticulously planning for the future, self-preservation types bring a unique sense of stability to their families. We’ll explore how to recognize self-preservation tendencies in y...
2024-10-30
24 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
38 | How Productivity Make Enneagram 1's, 3's and 5's Neglect Happiness
In this episode of Not So Normal Parenting, we take a deep dive into the Competency Triad of the Enneagram, focusing on both parents who identify as Type 1 (The Perfectionist), Type 3 (The Achiever), or Type 5 (The Observer), and how to parent children with these types. Whether you are a Type 1, 3, or 5 yourself or raising a child with these tendencies, you’ll discover how these types push emotions aside to solve problems logically, especially in relation to systems like work, family, or school. We’ll explore the 3 key ways each type strives for competency and how this impacts thei...
2024-10-23
23 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
37 | Overly Sensitive, Impatient or Angry? 3 Remedies for Reactive Types
In this episode, we’re tackling a common struggle for many parents: reactivity—especially for those in the Enneagram reactivity triad: Types 4, 6, and 8. If you often feel frustrated or overwhelmed in those tough parenting moments, this episode is for you. What you’ll learn today: How to Hold Realistic Expectations for yourself and your child’s behavior. How to Harness Your Triggers so they no longer control your reactions. How to Heal Through Guided Thoughts, personalized for your Enneagram type. If you’ve ever been told that you just need to be more patient, but it only ma...
2024-10-16
26 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
36. 4 Ways to Help Enneagram Reactive Types 4, 6 and 8
Welcome back to our 9-part series on the Enneagram triads! In today’s episode, we’re diving into the Reactivity Triad, which includes Types 4, 6, and 8—personalities that tend to respond to stress with emotional intensity and immediate reactions. These types externalize their feelings when they don’t get what they want or when their needs are unmet, often displaying frustration, anxiety, or anger. We’ll explore the three key aspects of how these types cope: how they process emotions outwardly, why they react so strongly, and what they seek from others through their emotional responses. In this episode, y...
2024-10-09
42 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
35. Understanding the Positive Outlook Types: Exploring Enneagram Types 2, 7, and 9
In this episode, "Understanding the Positive Outlook Types: Exploring Enneagram Types 2, 7, and 9," we kick off a 9-part series by diving into the Harmonic Triads of the Enneagram. We explore the Positive Outlook Triad, focusing on: Type 2 (The Helper): Learn how Type 2s maintain harmony by focusing on others' needs, often neglecting their own, and how they can grow by embracing self-care and acknowledging their own emotions. Type 7 (The Enthusiast): Discover how Type 7s avoid discomfort by seeking constant excitement and reframing negative experiences, and the importance of slowing down to engage with deeper emotions for...
2024-10-01
24 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
34. How Self Control Indicates Future Success; 3 Tactical Parenting Strategies From The Marshmallow Experiment.
Did you know that a simple marshmallow can predict your child's future success? In this episode, we dive into the Stanford Marshmallow Experiment, a groundbreaking study packed with insights for parents. Here’s what you’ll learn: The Power of Delayed Gratification: Understand how a child's ability to wait for a reward is linked to greater success in academics, health, and social skills. Consistency Builds Trust and Self-Control: Discover how consistent parenting, with clear rewards and consequences, helps children develop the self-discipline needed for long-term achievements. The Role of Clear Expectations: Learn why sett...
2024-09-17
22 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
33. Anxiety: Symptoms, Triggers and Coping Strategies with Dr. Jaylynne Koch
Tune in to Episode 33 of Not So Normal Parenting as Wendy discusses the important topic of childhood anxiety with Dr. Jaylynne Koch, Developmental Psychologist, counselor and play therapist. Topics covered are: How personality factors into anxiety. Nontypical symptoms that may not look like anxiety. How anxiety and ADHD can be interchangeable. The four triggers: Physical, The Unknown, Incongruance and Shoulds. Coping Strategies such as coregulation, externalizing, exposure therapy and attachment. The importance of “special playtime”, consistency in parenting and managing transitions. Dr. Jaylynne Koch https://www.facebook.com/BloomBetween What to Do When You Wor...
2024-09-09
51 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
32 | Got Impulsive or Scattered Kids? Top Proven Tips From ADHD Experts
I am so thrilled to have Dr. Brandon, pediatrician and founder of Colorado Kid's Pediatrics, to chat about how traits like social awkwardness, anxiety, defiance, OCD, homework struggles or impulsivity could be symptoms of ADHD. This episode will be beyond helpful if you have a child that is exhibiting any of these traits: Many parents don't realize that all of these behaviors can be symptoms of ADD or ADHD which are on the rise due to all the stimulation children are experiencing in this generation of screens. In this episode we talk about: ...
2024-09-03
43 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
31. INTJ Enneagram Type 1 Mom and ENFP Type 7 Daughter: Parenting Your Opposite
In this eye-opening episode, we delve into the dynamic world of an INTJ Type 1 mother raising her free-spirited ENFP Type 7 daughter. With a focus on the contrasts and complements between the thinking and feeling brains, we explore how these personality types uniquely influence their parenting and child-rearing experiences. Shana, an INTJ mother known for her structured approach and keen sense of order, shares her personal journey towards understanding and embracing her daughter Savannah's exuberant and spontaneous ENFP personality. This episode sheds light on the challenges and triumphs of letting her free-spirited child learn valuable life lessons through experience, while...
2024-08-27
44 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
30. Screens and Your Child's Mental Health: Tips for Tempering Technology
Today’s episode tackles the critical issue of smartphone use and excessive screen time among children, specifically focusing on Generation Z, born between 1997 and 2012. As a parent to two "Zoomers," the host shares personal insights and expert research to confront the rising mental health challenges faced by today's youth. This discussion will cover: Impact on Brain Development: Highlighting how screen time can negatively affect the frontal cortex of children's brains, impairing impulse control and mirroring the effects seen in substance addiction. Social and Emotional Consequences: Examining the decline in face-to-face interactions among children, which contributes to...
2024-08-20
23 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
29. Master the Morning Routine: Tips for a Smooth Back to School Transition
In this episode, we dive deep into the back-to-school season, a time both exciting and daunting for parents and children alike. As some families have already begun the new academic year, the focus shifts to establishing a productive morning routine—one that sets the tone for a successful day ahead. Benjamin Franklin famously said, "By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail." This wisdom underscores our discussion as we explore practical strategies to help your family avoid morning chaos and start the day with positivity and purpose. We cover: Conducting a Family Meeting: How to eff...
2024-08-11
22 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
28. INFJ Human, Enneagram Type 3: Author Elizabeth Watkins, Highly Sensitive and High Achieving Kids
INFJ’s are one of the rarest types representing less than 1% of the population. Today my interview is with Elizabeth Reed Watkins who just published a memoir of her life growing up in Maine entitled the Maine Thing. We will discuss how she parents her four very different kids and she gives advice for parents with an INFJ child. She is also an Enneagram Type 3, so this episode will resonate with all the over achievers out there as well. Going back through her journey we talk about vivid dreams, imagination, friendships, sports, learning, deep emotional struggles and balancing her hi...
2024-08-05
41 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
27. Should My Child Go To College? INFJ, Emma B. Perez, Career Coach Talks About Today's Current Landscape
Do you have a child who is facing college in the next few years or a child who has dropped out? Many students drop out of college early because they weren’t ready. Maybe you know that the classroom is not your child’s happy place or your child hasn’t done their best in school. This episode discusses how college is not the only path to consider for your child’s future. Sometimes practical lion types and other perceiving free-spirited, creative or neurodivergent types prefer non-traditional paths. Episode 2 talks about the four people patterns and my last two episodes...
2024-07-30
25 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
26. Enneagram Type 7 April Fallon on Parenting 4 Adopted Kids. Enneagram Types 9, 7 4 and 3.
April Fallon is host of the Adoption Now podcast. She and her husband Noah, adopted four kids from birth, AJ, Lilly, Vivvy and Malia. In this episode she talks about parenting her kids as a type 7 and how she has had to adjust her parenting based on her kids unique needs. She wondered what behaviors were trauma related and what was personality. She talks about how knowing their type has helped her finally relax and know her kids love her. She talks about spending three years serving in Africa and how her inspiration to adopt started very early in...
2024-07-23
38 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
25. Restlessness, Escapism FOMO and Feelings of Inadequacy. Overcome Enneagram Type 7 Struggles
In this episode, we dive into the vibrant Type 7 personality, also known as The Enthusiast or "the straw that stirs the drink" Type 7s are characterized by their exuberance and ability to juggle multiple interests, yet they often face challenges with escapism, FOMO (fear of missing out), and feelings of isolation, inadequeacy, exhaustion and frustration. This episode is full of practical strategies for Type 7s to reframe their thoughts and navigate these emotions. Whether you're a Type 7 yourself, in a relationship with one, or parenting a spirited child, this episode offers insights on fostering deeper connections, managing o...
2024-07-16
30 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
24. Anxiety, Insecurity and Indecision. Overcome Enneagram Type 6, the Loyal Skeptic, Struggles
In this episode, we explore Enneagram Type 6, often called the Loyalist or the Loyal Skeptic. Type 6s, part of the head center, are concerned with safety and security, often struggling with fear and anxiety. We discuss five common thought patterns they face: Anxiety, Indecision, Insecurity, Distrust, and Overwhelm. Key Highlights: Anxiety: Overthinking worst-case scenarios is common for Type 6s. Examples include Mike Wazowski from Monsters, Inc. and Marlin from Finding Nemo. Strategies to cope include facing fears directly, using grounding techniques, and practicing reality checking. Indecision: Chronic second-guessing affects Type 6s, who often prioritize others' happiness over their...
2024-07-09
25 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
23. The Private, Socially Resistant, Introverted Enneagram Type 5: Autism Spectrum or Personality?
In this episode, we dive into Enneagram Type 5, known as "The Investigator," exploring their unique traits and challenges. Whether you're parenting a Type 5 or are one yourself, you'll relate to their deep introspection and desire for knowledge, often likened to feeling like a unicorn in a world of more outgoing personalities. Type 5s are intensely private and introverted, preferring solitary activities to conserve their emotional and intellectual resources. We discuss their core struggle, termed Avarice, which isn't about greed but rather a fear of depletion—be it emotional, energetic, or informational. This fear manifests as a reluctance to engage fu...
2024-07-02
25 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
22. ESFJ Ox, Type 2, Erin Lockwood, Gifted, ODD, ADHD, Boundaries and Non Traditional School, ie. "Whack a Mole Parenting"
In this episode I interview Erin Lockwood who travels all over the world with her family to create their YouTube channel called Always Be Changing. Erin is an ESFJ Ox, type 2 on the Enneagram. She is parenting three children and two of them are her opposites. Her son Colt is an ENTP Eagle, who tested as gifted, but doesn’t respond well to discipline and a typical school environment. Her daughter Brooklyn is an ISTP, the same type as my daughter, but a type 5 on the Enneagram, which will be the next episode now that we have wrapped up th...
2024-06-25
29 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
21. The Highly Sensitive Type 4 Enneagram Romantic. Overcome Mental Health Issues by Reframing Damaging Thoughts.
In this episode, we delve into the intricate world of Enneagram Type 4, also known as the Romantic or Individualist. If you are a Type 4 or raising one, you are likely familiar with their deep emotional landscape, creativity, and struggles with feelings of envy and loneliness. Host [Your Name], a Type 4 herself, shares personal insights and practical strategies learned from years of transforming negative thoughts and emotions. This episode provides valuable tips for understanding and supporting Type 4s in navigating their intense emotions and finding fulfillment. Key Points: Characteristics of Type 4: Emotional, intuitive, often feeling misunderstood, and...
2024-06-18
22 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
20. Competition: Type 3 Enneagram "Achiever" Struggles. Overcome Fear of Failure by Transforming Your Thoughts.
Today’s episode is about the Type 3 Achiever, which is a type that almost everyone resonates with. Because America is the land of the three, the land of chasing success. Almost everyone, including myself has fallen into the comparison trap and found themselves feeling inadequate or like they aren’t enough. Is your to do list a mile long? Do you have a hard time relaxing? Type 2, 3 and 4 are all in the heart center, focused on receiving attention and presenting a certain image. A Type 2 wants to be seen as likable and helpful and a type 3 wants to be seen...
2024-06-11
17 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
19. What the Compliant, Helpful, Emotional Type 2 Struggles With
In this episode, we shift focus from the body center to the heart center, which includes Enneagram types 2, 3, and 4. The heart center deals with issues of attention and self-image, often grappling with feelings of grief, shame, and worthlessness. We dive deep into the characteristics of Type 2s, who derive their self-worth from being helpful and appreciated by others, but may struggle with insecurity and dependence on external validation. We'll discuss how to identify and reframe negative thought patterns common to Type 2s, providing strategies for fostering self-awareness and healthier relationships. An illustrative listener's story about a Type 2...
2024-06-05
26 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
18.Transform Your Thoughts, Emotions and Actions with the Enneagram
In this transformative episode, Wendy Gossett shares personal insights and practices that can change your life. Kicking off a new Enneagram series, Wendy discusses the struggles of all nine types, starting with Type 9, the Peacemaker. Learn how these struggles affect thoughts and feelings, and discover ways to reframe thoughts to improve your well-being and coach your children effectively. Explore Wendy's this podcast launched in April 2024, for more insights on Myers-Briggs and the Enneagram. Wendy's book, "Your Child’s Inner Drive: Parenting by Personality from Toddlers to Teens," provides additional guidance for parents managing diverse personality types within th...
2024-06-05
14 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
19. What the Compliant, Helpful, Emotional Type 2 Struggles With
In this episode, we shift focus from the body center to the heart center, which includes Enneagram types 2, 3, and 4. The heart center deals with issues of attention and self-image, often grappling with feelings of grief, shame, and worthlessness. We dive deep into the characteristics of Type 2s, who derive their self-worth from being helpful and appreciated by others, but may struggle with insecurity and dependence on external validation. We'll discuss how to identify and reframe negative thought patterns common to Type 2s, providing strategies for fostering self-awareness and healthier relationships. An illustrative listener's story about a Type 2...
2024-06-05
26 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
17. Overcome Type 1 Perfectionist Struggles. Transform Your Thoughts with the Enneagram
In this episode, we delve into the Enneagram Type 1, known as The Perfectionist. The Enneagram serves as a powerful tool to help parents recognize their unconscious thought patterns, enabling them to guide their children toward self-awareness and positive transformation. Type 1 children often fixate on imperfections in their environment and themselves, striving for perfection and control. We start with an introduction to Enneagram Type 1, explaining how these individuals tend to focus on what needs to be fixed. Their unconscious thought patterns can lead to feelings of frustration, anger, and rigidity. The host shares a personal anecdote about the...
2024-05-28
40 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
16. Overcome Type 8 Challenger Struggles. Transform Your Thoughts With the Enneagram.
In this transformative episode, we delve deep into the struggles of Enneagram Type 8, exploring how their quest for control and fear of vulnerability shape their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. Whether you’re a Type 8 or a parent of one, this episode offers vital insights into managing these powerful dynamics. We'll revisit some foundational concepts from Episode 15, emphasizing their importance in understanding all Enneagram types. For those familiar, feel free to jump ahead to the 12-minute mark to dive straight into Type 8 specifics. Type 8s, located in the body or gut center of the Enneagram, focus in...
2024-05-24
32 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
16. Overcome Type 8 Challenger Struggles. Transform Your Thoughts With the Enneagram.
In this transformative episode, we delve deep into the struggles of Enneagram Type 8, exploring how their quest for control and fear of vulnerability shape their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. Whether you’re a Type 8 or a parent of one, this episode offers vital insights into managing these powerful dynamics. We'll revisit some foundational concepts from Episode 15, emphasizing their importance in understanding all Enneagram types. For those familiar, feel free to jump ahead to the 12-minute mark to dive straight into Type 8 specifics. Type 8s, located in the body or gut center of the Enneagram, focus in...
2024-05-24
30 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
16. Overcome Type 8 Challenger Struggles. Transform Your Thoughts With the Enneagram .
In this transformative episode, we delve deep into the struggles of Enneagram Type 8, exploring how their quest for ontrol and fear of vulnerability shape their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. Whether you’re a Type 8 or a parent of one, this episode offers vital insights into managing these powerful dynamics. We'll revisit some foundational concepts from Episode 15, emphasizing their importance in understanding all Enneagram types. For those familiar, feel free to jump ahead to the 12-minute mark to dive straight into Type 8 specifics. Type 8s, located in the body or gut center of the Enneagram, focus intensely on co...
2024-05-24
42 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
16. Overcome Type 8 Challenger Struggles. Transform Your Thoughts With the Enneagram .
In this transformative episode, we delve deep into the struggles of Enneagram Type 8, exploring how their quest for control and fear of vulnerability shape their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. Whether you’re a Type 8 or a parent of one, this episode offers vital insights into managing these powerful dynamics. We'll revisit some foundational concepts from Episode 15, emphasizing their importance in understanding all Enneagram types. For those familiar, feel free to jump ahead to the 12-minute mark to dive straight into Type 8 specifics. Type 8s, located in the body or gut center of the Enneagram, focus in...
2024-05-23
29 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
16. Overcome Type 8 Challenger Struggles. Transform Your Thoughts With the Enneagram .
In this transformative episode, we delve deep into the struggles of Enneagram Type 8, exploring how their quest for control and fear of vulnerability shape their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. Whether you’re a Type 8 or a parent of one, this episode offers vital insights into managing these powerful dynamics. We'll revisit some foundational concepts from Episode 15, emphasizing their importance in understanding all Enneagram types. For those familiar, feel free to jump ahead to the 12-minute mark to dive straight into Type 8 specifics. Type 8s, located in the body or gut center of the Enneagram, focus in...
2024-05-22
33 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
15. Transform Your Thoughts with the Enneagram. Overcome Type 9 Peacemaker Struggles"
I am not exaggerating when I tell you that this episode could transform your life! I speak from personal experience because the practice I am going to tell you about changed mine. This will be the first of an Enneagram series where I talk about the struggles of all nine types, how those struggles effect our thoughts and feelings and then how you can reframe the thoughts and coach your children to do the same. I started a podcast in mid April 2024 called Not So Normal Parenting. There are some episodes there that are not on this...
2024-05-13
27 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
14. Are You a Convertible or Sedan? Free Spirit Perceivers and Scheduled Judgers: How We Live Our Lives
Since this entire podcast is based on the Myers-Briggs system as well as the Enneagram, I highly recommend you listen to episode 2 and 3 at some point. For a quick review the Ox is a stable rule follower… think Ox living in a stable, the Lion is brave and craves freedom, the Eagle is independent, curious and proud, and the Human is emotional and relational. Lions and Eagles are challengers and difficult to parent! You will also hear me referring to “Types 1-9” and this comes from Episode 3 which is an introduction to an amazing system for growing human potential called...
2024-05-07
35 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
2. Nature Versus Nurture: Four Child Behavior Patterns: Ox, Lion, Eagle and Human
In this episode, we delve into the age-old debate of nature versus nurture and its impact on our temperament. Discover the findings of an eighty-year Harvard happiness study, revealing that 50% of our happiness capacity is determined by our temperament, which is set at birth. Despite this, we often focus on changing our circumstances rather than accepting our inherent strengths. We explore how temperament influences our reactions to life's challenges and how understanding our children's temperament is crucial for effective parenting. Drawing from real-life examples and psychological research, we examine how temperament manifests from infancy and...
2024-05-02
39 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
13. How to Parent a Unicorn. Two Ways of Perceiving the World: Sensing and Intuition
Do you feel like you are parenting a unicorn? Does it ever seem like they are the H CH Cr dog in a dog park of golden doodles? Or maybe I just described how you feel? Some personality types are rare, making up only .05% of the population! These lovely souls often go around feeling insecure because they feel like something is wrong with them since they aren’t like everyone else. It is like being a lefty in a righty society! These are the intuitive types. The Scarecrows from the Wizard of Ox also known as the Eagle face of...
2024-05-01
30 min
The Rob Carson Show
The Mary Walter/Rob Carson Show Pt 2 (04/30/24)
*Rob is on vacation this week, Mary Walter is today’s guest host-Former press secretary Jen Psaki reveals that if a Biden/Trump debate happens, “rules are going to have to be enforced.”-Columbia University will remain closed until their protests are safely resolved.-Today on the Newsmax Hotline: Legal consult Wendy Patrick gives insight on current Trump litigation.The Rob Carson Show on Newsmax Radio is sponsored by The Wellness Company. Rest assured knowing that you have emergency antibiotics, antivirals and anti-parasitics on hand to help keep y...
2024-04-30
1h 22
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
12. Intro to the Enneagram: Heart, Head or Body Center and What Each Type 1-9 Focuses On
In this episode Wendy talks about the 3 centers of intelligence in the enneagram system. The Bodoy center which is concerned with control, autonomy and centers around the emotion of anger. The Heart center concerned with attention and self image centers around grief or shame and the Head center, concerned with security and systems or beliefs centers around the emotion of fear or anxiety. We will talk about all nine types and what the fixate on. We will also talk about how people misunderstand and misuse the Enneagram, what it is and what it is not! W...
2024-04-26
25 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
11. INTERVIEW! Introverted Sensing: Highly Sensitive Kids, Sensory Processing and Anxiety with my Type 9 Ox, (ISFJ) College Son, Nathan Gossett
Because this personality type often feels overlooked, it is critical that they feel seen by the most important people in their lives: their parents and siblings. Sometimes their negative emotions can stay buried for weeks without your child even knowing what is bothering them. My 22 year old son Nathan (who is now graduating with a Pre-Med degree) struggled with ADHD, OCD, anxiety and sensory processing disorder. Through understanding his temperament, as a highly sensitive introvert and a peacemaker, he has learned many ways to build upon his strengths and overcome his weaknesses. Gain insights and he...
2024-04-24
58 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
10. INTERVIEW! My Type 8 LION (ISTP) College Daughter, Jordan Gossett. Introverted Thinking: Challengers, Emotional Intelligence
ntroverted Thinking Lion ISTP (Introverted Sensing Thinking and Perceiving), Type 8 individuals are intellectually sharp but may lack emotional intelligence, making self-awareness essential. Their affinity for systems makes understanding temperament valuable. Female thinkers constitute only 25% of the population, underscoring the importance of teaching appropriate interactions with women. It's crucial to acknowledge and validate their uniqueness. Encourage Introverted thinking (Ti) individuals to explore logical subjects like engineering, philosophy, or theology, aligning with their strategic, independent nature. For ISTPs, action trumps reading, so practical books with real-life scenarios are ideal. As they mature, purpose-driven books become more appealing. Engage ISTP children by...
2024-04-17
57 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
TRAILER: Not So Normal Parenting: Strengthen Family Connections With Insights From Myers Briggs and the Enneagram
Ever find yourself wondering if your child's behavior is normal? Some personality types don’t respond to traditional parenting. This could be why you are feeling stressed and uncertain how to handle their sibling rivalry, explosive tantrums, disorganization, picky eating, impulsivity, sleep problems, low empathy, high sensitivity or fill in the blank. Maybe you and your partner don’t feel as close as you once did. Due to all the crazy, you may have lost sight of the connection that brought you together? Are you struggling to identify the God given strengths in your child, connect with your child and b...
2024-04-15
08 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
9. INTP Eagle Adult Temperament Twin Advisor: Phil Lockwood: Reframing "Bad" Behavior, Exploration, Introverted Thinking
Phil and his family are You Tubers who travel the world. Their website is followabc.com. A B C stands for Always Be Changing which has been the theme of Phil's life. He talks about how his parent's use of simple logic made sense to him as a child. He talks about his exploration, wandering attention in school and round about career path. INTP's usually don't follow a conventional plan. He also talks about parenting his own ENTP son and redirecting his curiosity so that it isn't destructive Follow the Lockwood Family adventures at Always Be...
2024-04-10
37 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
8. Myers Briggs ENTP and Enneagram Type 7 Mom Gives Insights on Parenting her ENTP Son
Sara Van Rensburg CEO of Potential Arena and ENTP, Extroverted, Intuitive, Thinking and Perceiving, talks about how she was in school. She shares how you can keep your ENTP from jumping from one thing to another How to collaborate, negotiate and how to communicate in a way that gets them to listen. How they take things apart and cans seem disrespectful How to handle their fast-acting creative mind How their mind works conceptually rather than linearly Understanding their impatience, explosivity and lagging emotional development How...
2024-04-10
58 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
7. ENFP Human and Type 7 Adult Temperament Twin Advisor: Pediatrician Dr. Brandon Davison Tracy, Social Anxiety, Missing Details, Not Finishing
Dr. Brandon Davison Tracy, pediatrician and owner of Colorado Kids Pediatrics in Denver Colorado, has practiced medicine for over 20 years is an ENFP. Extroverted, Intuitive, Feeling and Perceiving. He talks about social anxiety versus shyness, overachieving to avoid feelings of fear, battling selfish thoughts and the need to be happy all the time. We talk about "taming the monkey brain", big picture thinking versus being detail oriented, being unaware in his senses, sports, OCD, deciding on a college and career and asking too many questions.` Dr. Brandon's practice: Colorado Kids Pediatrics: https://coloradokidspeds.com/
2024-04-09
39 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
6. Prickly or Pleasing? Logical Thinkers and Emotional Feelers. Gender Roles, Defiance and Drama
In this episode of Not So Normal Parenting, we delve into the fascinating realm of Thinkers and Feelers, exploring how these cognitive preferences shape not only decision-making but also parenting dynamics. Host [Host's Name] unpacks the essence of Thinking (T) and Feeling (F) in the context of the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator, shedding light on how individuals lean towards logic-driven judgments or decisions infused with empathy and consideration of emotions. Drawing from personal experiences and observations, [Host's Name] shares anecdotes about her own children, Nathan and Jordan, whose contrasting temperaments challenge societal norms. Nathan, a gentle...
2024-04-09
20 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
5. Introverted Extrovert or Extroverted Introvert? What is normal?
In this episode, we take a broad view of introversion and extroversion, delving into the nuances of each type. From rechargers to absorbers in introversion, and players to talkers in extroversion, we navigate through the varied behaviors associated with these personality traits. Join us as we address common concerns of parents regarding their children's introverted tendencies. We debunk myths surrounding introversion, highlighting the distinction between shyness and introversion, with insights from experts like Susan Cain, author of "Quiet". Our discussion extends to the neurobiological differences between introverts and extroverts, shedding light on how brain chemistry...
2024-04-09
21 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
4. Change Your Kid's Behavior Instantly! My Proven C.R.E.A.T.E. Method
Join us in the latest episode of the Not So Normal Parenting Podcast as we uncover a powerful strategy for shaping your child's behavior while strengthening your bond with them. Host [Host's Name] introduces the transformative CREATE method, designed to address challenging behaviors while nurturing connection and control. Discover how understanding your child's emotions and strengths, revealing new rules in advance, and equipping them with coping strategies can pave the way for smoother parenting journeys. Tune in to learn how to foster resilience and empower your child to navigate life's ups and downs with confidence. ...
2024-04-09
19 min
Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence
3. Intro to the Enneagram: Body, Heart and Head Center, Types 1-9
In this episode Wendy talks about the 3 centers of intelligence in the enneagram system. The Body center which is concerned with control, autonomy and centers around the emotion of anger. The Heart center cncerned with attention and self image centers around grief or shame and the Head center, concerned with security and systems or beliefs centers around the emotion of fear or anxiety. We will talk about all nine types and what the fixate on. Website: Get Free resources at WendyGossett.com Get a FREE Child Temperament Test when you join my...
2024-04-09
20 min
ADOPTION NOW
The Brain Mapping Interview: Family Coach and Author, Wendy Gossett, Shares How She Helps Families [S7E3]
Noah and April interview Wendy Gossett and share about their experience with brain mapping and discovering their family’s personalities. Wendy helps parents understand their children by using temperament psychology and neuroscience. She has over twenty years of experience in education, working in the classroom and corporate sector. “We often believe we are seeing reality when we are actually looking through a skewed lens, because of our own personality and biases. As parents, we need to put on a different lens to see each one of our children clearly, so they can become the people they...
2022-12-10
41 min
Family Personalities
87 Type and Temperament in Kids with Wendy Gossett - Myers-Briggs MBTI Parenting
Sandra interviews Wendy Gossett, author of the best-selling parenting book, Your Child’s Inner Drive, about type and temperament in kids. Wendy helps parents understand their children by using temperament psychology and neuroscience. She has over twenty years of experience in education, working in the classroom and corporate sector. Because Wendy herself has struggled as a helicopter parent, an explosive parent and an embarrassing parent, she wants to help other parents struggle…a little bit less!Links and references:WendyGossett.comFind Your Child’s Myers-Briggs TypeMyers-Briggs BasicsCognit...
2022-06-14
42 min
Single Parenting Reset Show: For Solo Parents of Tweens and Teens — Manage Behavior Problems, Reduce Screen Time & Improve Communication
62. Why Understanding Your Child’s Temperament Is Key for Single Parents Navigating Tween Behavior
"This episode first aired under the original name, The Parenting Reset Show. Now we are the Single Parenting Reset podcast–supporting single parents of tweens and teens with real talk on screen time, communication and managing behavior."Are your tween’s meltdowns or mood swings leaving you confused and second-guessing your parenting?This episode dives deep into a powerful tool single parents often overlook: your child’s temperament type. Understanding this can help you handle tricky behaviors, improve communication, and reduce emotional blowouts—especially during those tween and teen years when parenting feels most overwhelming.Learn...
2022-05-25
45 min
Wholistic Hearts- A Journey from the Head to the Heart, Encounters with Jesus
108. Parenting by Personality with Wendy Gosset, Family and Child Temperament Coach
Today's episode we continue to learn the different personality frameworks. We have talked a lot about Enneagram, so I thought we could bring another expert on our show who helps us use another personality tool to navigate and understand some of our basic designs. Today, Wendy Gossett- Family and Child Temperament Coach, joins me to share her immense knowledge and understanding of Carl Jung's- 8 psychological brain functions. Do you look at your children and wonder what makes them tick? Or maybe you parent one child in a specific way but it doesn't work for another chi...
2021-11-27
40 min
Parenting Well Podcast
#10 Temperament: Parenting by Personality
I am Dr. Shelly Mahon, your host, and today’s WELL source is Wendy Gossett. Wendy is a parenting and relationship coach based in the Denver metro area. Her primary focus is temperament psychology, which is a technique parents can use to understand what their child is doing and why they are doing it. By recognizing their brain functions, parents can learn to accept and pull the best out of their children. This podcast focuses on: Understanding temperament and how it can be recognized in your child as early as infancy. Recognizing your own...
2020-01-17
50 min
That's Total Mom Sense
018: Wendy Goseett — What’s Your Child’s Personality Type?
Wendy Gossett is a Parenting Specialist. She helps parents understand their children by using temperament psychology and neuroscience. She has over twenty years of experience in education, working in the classroom and corporate sector.However, all her educational experience didn’t help when parenting her daughter. Because they were opposites, she struggled as a helicopter parent, an explosive parent and an embarrassing parent. (Google “dancing mom in traffic to see for yourself.”) Because she has struggled, she wants to help other parents struggle…a little bit less!She is a speaker, author and contributing writer for mult...
2019-09-26
32 min
Rebel Parenting with Ryan & Laura Dobson
245 Wendy Gossett “Behaviors and Temperament” REBEL Parenting
2019-08-30
58 min
Make It a Great One with Dr. Dan: #1 Podcast for Inspiring Conversations to Live and Lead On Purpose
Parenting To Your Child’s Temperament + Inner Drive with Wendy Gossett
Dr. Dan welcomes Wendy Gossett, M. Ed. (an author, Temperament Specialist and Founder of Temperament Coaching) to today’s show to discuss temperament and parenting. Wendy is a child temperament specialist who helps parents learn how to “see” their kids, not through their own biased lens, but through the lens of their child’s natural temperament. Wendy starts off the show discussing her own parenting journey and how her own daughter inspired her life’s work. Wendy Gossett’s Child Temperament test will help parents everywhere to understand their child or children (and her adult test will help parents understand themselves). ...
2019-07-04
45 min
Rebel Parenting with Ryan & Laura Dobson
125 Wendy Gossett "Understanding Your Kids BETTER!!"
Wendy Gossett, founder of People Works Colorado, stops by the REBEL studio to educate us on temperaments through the Myers Briggs and other mind-blowing illustrations, so we can better connect with our spouse and children. This will change your whole perspective on your close relationships! Stop by Wendy’s website to take a free adult or child temperament test. www.PeopleWorksCo.com IG: @WendyGossett FB: People Works of Colorado
2018-12-07
1h 07
Escuchando Peliculas
La Red (Thriller. Acción. Intriga 1995)
País Estados Unidos Director Irwin Winkler Guión John Brancato, Michael Ferris, Irwin Winkler, Rob Cowan, Richard Beebe Música Mark Isham Fotografía Jack N. Green Reparto Sandra Bullock, Jeremy Northam, Dennis Miller, Diane Baker, Ken Howard, Ray McKinnon, Wendy Gazelle, Kristina Krofft, Robert Gossett Sinopsis El primer día de sus vacaciones, una programadora de ordenadores recibe un extraño disquete para que lo investigue. Se lo guarda y descubre que posee una clave para acceder al control de las bases de datos protegidas de Estados Unidos. A la vez ve cómo todos los datos de su vida...
2016-02-02
1h 46