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Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence69 | Myers Briggs ENTP and Enneagram Type 7 Mom Gives Insights on Parenting her ENTP SonSara Van Rensburg CEO of Potential Arena and ENTP, Extroverted, Intuitive, Thinking and Perceiving, talks about how she was in school.
She shares how you can keep your ENTP from jumping from one thing to another
How to collaborate, negotiate and how to communicate in a way that gets them to listen.
How they take things apart and cans seem disrespectful
How to handle their fast-acting creative mind
How their mind works conceptually rather than linearly
Understanding their impatience, explosivity and lagging emotional development
How...
2025-06-2558 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence68 | INTJ Type 1 Mother Parenting Her Opposite ENFP DaughterIn this eye-opening episode, we delve into the dynamic world of an INTJ Type 1 mother raising her free-spirited ENFP Type 7 daughter. With a focus on the contrasts and complements between the thinking and feeling brains, we explore how these personality types uniquely influence their parenting and child-rearing experiences. Shana, an INTJ mother known for her structured approach and keen sense of order, shares her personal journey towards understanding and embracing her daughter Savannah's exuberant and spontaneous ENFP personality. This episode sheds light on the challenges and triumphs of letting her free-spirited child learn valuable life lessons through experience, while...
2025-06-1144 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence67 | Highly Intelligent, Perfectionistic and Introverted. How to Parent the Rare INTJAre you raising a future innovator, strategist, or systems architect? The INTJ is one of the rarest and most independent types—especially in girls—and their complex inner world can leave even the most insightful parent scratching their head. In this episode, we dive into the psychology behind the INTJ temperament, from their mysterious inner vision to their intense need for autonomy, structure, and meaning.
Learn how to parent an INTJ child with confidence by understanding their four psychological functions (Ni, Te, Fi, Se), how they show up in babies, grade schoolers, teens, and adults, and what kinds of r...
2025-06-0321 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence66 | Neurodivergent Parenting: Real Advice from an Autistic Mom and Special Ed TeacherJoin us this week as we dive into a powerful conversation with Maggie Albrow, a special education teacher who brings a unique perspective to autism. Diagnosed herself and raising two children on the spectrum, she shares practical parenting strategies that anyone can use to better understand their child’s needs, whether or not they have autism. We’ll explore how her ISTJ personality shapes her approach and dive into her son’s ISTP traits, showing how personality and autism intersect to create unique parenting paths. Plus, we’ll break down the differences between high-functioning autism and a naturally withdrawn personal...
2025-05-2734 min
The Rob Carson ShowThe Pushback Against D.C. Corruption
Media Shakeup at CBS: CBS News President Wendy McMahon resigned amid internal turmoil and legal issues, including a $20B lawsuit from Trump over manipulated interviews.
Dan Bongino and Kash Patel Controversy: Both downplayed conspiracy concerns about Jeffrey Epstein’s death and assassination plots against Trump, sparking backlash among conservative listeners.
Tom Borelli on the “Newsmax Hotline”: Borelli joined to criticize Comey, defend skepticism of the Epstein case, and echo calls for accountability in alleged federal misconduct and surveillance failures.
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2025-05-2041 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence65 | Is Your Child a Sensitive ISFP? Take the Temperament Test and Learn How to Parent Their TypeISFP children are sensitive, creative, and deeply attuned to the world around them—but they express it quietly. In this episode, we explore their core functions: Introverted Feeling (Fi), Extraverted Sensing (Se), Introverted Intuition (Ni), and Extraverted Thinking (Te) to help you understand their temperament across all life stages.
Tune in to discover:
How ISFPs process feelings internally but express through art, movement, or music
What ISFPs need to feel safe and supported in a noisy world
Why discipline must be gentle and flexible
The difference between shyness and inward sensitivity
If your child is emotionally ri...
2025-05-1520 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence64 | Inside the Mind of an ISTP, Type 8 Female. Strong-Willed, Independent and LogicalIntroverted Thinking Lion ISTP (Introverted Sensing Thinking and Perceiving), Type 8 individuals are intellectually sharp but may lack emotional intelligence, making self-awareness essential. Their affinity for systems makes understanding temperament valuable. Female thinkers constitute only 25% of the population, underscoring the importance of teaching appropriate interactions with women. It's crucial to acknowledge and validate their uniqueness. Encourage Introverted thinking (Ti) individuals to explore logical subjects like engineering, philosophy, or theology, aligning with their strategic, independent nature. For ISTPs, action trumps reading, so practical books with real-life scenarios are ideal. As they mature, purpose-driven books become more appealing. Engage ISTP children by...
2025-05-0857 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence63 | Is Your Child Struggling in Reading, Writing or Math? Possible Reasons From a Literacy SpecialistDoes your child reverse letters and numbers, struggle to read aloud, forget how to spell simple words—or have a hard time memorizing their times tables? Do they seem bright but often frustrated by schoolwork? These could be signs of dyslexia or dysgraphia, which are often present alongside ADHD, making it even harder for kids to focus, retain information, and feel confident in the classroom.
In this episode, I talk with Maggie Pike, a literacy and dyslexia specialist with over 20 years of experience supporting kids with learning differences. We’ll explore:
What dyslexia really is—and how to...
2025-05-0130 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence62 | Is Your Child an ISTP? Decode Their Quiet, Strong-Willed and Independent SpiritThe ISTP child is a natural-born problem-solver. Quiet, observant, and fiercely independent, they don’t cry for help—they look for tools. In this episode, we break down their four psychological functions: Introverted Thinking (Ti), Extraverted Sensing (Se), Introverted Intuition (Ni), and Extraverted Feeling (Fe), and explore how they shape this hands-on learner at every age and stage.
You’ll learn:
What ISTP babies need to feel secure and independent
How ISTPs learn best (hint: not by sitting still)
How to parent an ISTP without micromanaging
Their strengths and potential struggles in school, friendships, and adulthood
This t...
2025-04-2122 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence61 | Parenting by Personality: What Makes the Social, Fun, Disorganized ESFP Child Thrive?ESFP children are magnetic, expressive, and full of joy. They’re known for their love of fun, their strong connection to others, and their ability to turn every moment into a celebration. But behind that sparkle is a need for emotional safety and real-world experience. In this episode, we unpack the ESFP’s psychological functions—Extraverted Sensing (Se), Introverted Feeling (Fi), Extraverted Thinking (Te), and Introverted Intuition (Ni)—and explore how they shape everything from discipline to career choices.
You’ll learn:
Why ESFPs respond better to praise and play than punishment
How to handle their impulsivity with empat...
2025-04-1618 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence60 | Is Your Child an ESTP? Take the Free Temperament Test and Learn How to Parent Their TypeESTP kids are movers, doers, and thrill-seekers. Known for their charisma, quick reflexes, and love for excitement, they thrive when they can learn by doing rather than sitting still. In this episode, we break down the ESTP’s cognitive functions—Extraverted Sensing (Se), Introverted Thinking (Ti), Extraverted Feeling (Fe), and Introverted Intuition (Ni)—and show how these influence their strengths, struggles, and motivations at every age.
You’ll learn:
How to work with their impulsive nature, not against it
Why consequences need to be immediate and physical
What kinds of careers and paths this type thrives in
How to g...
2025-04-0819 min
Transforming The Toddler Years- Parents and Educators Raising Calm, Connected, Capable KidsHow Your Child's Brain is Wired for Success with Wendy GossettHave you ever thought, 'what is my child thinking'?!Wendy Gossett joins me to talk about brain wiring and what parts of children's brain light up and make them act the way they do. We talk about how knowing your child’s brain wiring will help give you new focus to see their strengths that may seem like weaknesses, a new framework for setting realistic expectations and a new way to forecast for their future development!Wendy has a Master’s Degree in education, is a certified Youth Mental Heal...
2025-04-0330 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence59 | The #1 Parenting Strategy for Reducing Tantrums and Behavior Issues (Backed by Research)What if one parenting technique could reduce whining, tantrums, and interruptions by up to 80%? In this episode, we dive into the research-backed power of planned ignoring, based on the work of Dr. Alan Kazdin of the Yale Parenting Center. Research from Yale's Parenting Center shows that planned ignoring—when used correctly with consistent positive attention—can reduce negative behaviors in children by up to 80%.
But here's the deal—planned ignoring only works when paired with intentional, strength-based attention. And take a guess where you can get a detailed roadmap of your child’s unique strengths? My website of cours...
2025-04-0117 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence58 | Are You Too Smart for Friendship? What MBTI NT Types Really NeedNT personality types—ENTP, INTJ, INTP, and ENTJ—are known for their sharp intellect, fierce independence, and big-picture thinking. But when it comes to friendship, their strengths can also be their biggest struggles. In this episode, we break down how NTs approach relationships using the TRUE framework: Trust, Respect, Understanding, and Encouragement.
You’ll learn:
✅ Why NTs need mental stimulation to feel connected
✅ What makes them loyal (and what pushes them away)
✅ Why emotions can feel like a foreign language
✅ How NTs support friends in practical—but often overlooked—ways
Whether you're an NT yours...
2025-03-2519 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence57 | The Insecure Friend: Why MBTI NF Personality Types Feel Too Much in RelationshipsDo you have a friend who craves deep, meaningful conversations, champions your dreams, and feels emotions with unmatched intensity? If so, you might have an NF (Intuitive Feeler) friend! Known for their depth, passion, and emotional intelligence, NFs (ENFJ, INFJ, ENFP, INFP) are the visionaries, dreamers, and counselors of the friendship world.
But with their high expectations, sensitivity, and desire for novelty, friendships with NFs can be both deeply rewarding and occasionally challenging. In this episode, we break down the NF friend using the TRUE framework (Trust, Respect, Understanding, Encouragement) to explore:
✅ Why NFs form so...
2025-03-1830 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence56 | Are You a Controlling Friend? Strengths and Struggles of the MBTI SJ PersonalityAre you looking for a steady, dependable friend who always remembers birthdays, follows through on commitments, and shows up when it counts? Then you need an SJ friend! In this episode, we explore the Guardian temperament (SJ types: ESFJ, ISFJ, ESTJ, ISTJ)—the friends who hold everything together with their structure, loyalty, and strong sense of responsibility.
But just like every type, SJs have friendship strengths and struggles. While they’re incredibly reliable and thoughtful, they can also be overly rigid, controlling, or struggle with emotional connection and encouragement.
Join me as we break down the...
2025-03-1128 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence55 | Are Your Friendships Too Shallow? Strengths and Struggles of the Free-Spirited MBTI SPSP's or Sensory Perceivers in the Myer's Briggs system, are the thrill-seekers, the spontaneous adventurers, and the friends who can turn an ordinary Tuesday into a legendary night. But are they reliable friends, or just here for a good time?
In this episode, we break down:
Different types of SP friends—from the Party Starter to the Flaky Friend
Why SPs struggle with commitment and deep listening
How to appreciate their energy while setting healthy boundaries
The TRUE framework—where SPs shine and where they struggle
If you’ve ever been frustrated by a last-minute cancel...
2025-03-0426 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence54 | Love Personality Tests? Recognizing the Four People Patterns in Yourself and OthersIn this episode, we delve into the age-old debate of nature versus nurture and its impact on our temperament.
Discover the findings of an eighty-year Harvard happiness study, revealing that 50% of our happiness capacity is determined by our temperament, which is set at birth. Despite this, we often focus on changing our circumstances rather than accepting our inherent strengths. We explore how temperament influences our reactions to life's challenges and how understanding our children's temperament is crucial for effective parenting.
Drawing from real-life examples and psychological research, we examine how temperament manifests from infancy and...
2025-02-2740 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence53 | Feeling Lonely or Isolated? How to Find Community and Build Friendships as an AdultMaking friends as an adult is harder than anyone ever warned us about. Unlike childhood, where friendships formed effortlessly on the playground, or college, where connections were built into dorm life, adulthood throws us new challenges—busy schedules, shifting priorities, and the reality that making (and keeping) friendships takes effort.
This is a topic I love and have spent a lot of time thinking about. Years ago, I led a seminar on friendship and connection, and despite facing plenty of obstacles, I’ve been able to build an incredible, supportive group of friends. But it wasn’t by acc...
2025-02-1823 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence52 | Raising Resilient Kids with Lee Benson. Building Grit, Confidence and Financial SkillsEvery parent dreams of setting their kids up for success—protecting them from pain, offering them opportunities, and giving them the tools to thrive. But what if, in trying to shield our kids from struggles, we’re actually limiting their potential?
What if you could give your child a superpower—a mindset that turns challenges into opportunities, builds confidence through healthy struggles, and equips them to create value for themselves and others? I had my first paper route in the 3rd grade! Getting up early, rain or shine, instilled a work ethic in me and taught me so muc...
2025-02-1022 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence50 | Agonizing Over Gender Dysphoria in Your Teen? 5 Strategies Every Parent Should KnowSet up a FREE Chat: https://wendygossett.as.me/ChatwithWendy
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2025-02-0620 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence51 | Is Punishment Failing Your Child? Discover the Science of Random PraiseWhat if the key to motivating your child wasn’t punishment or rewards, but when and how you give recognition? In this episode, we explore the science of random praise and variable reinforcement—a proven method that builds self-motivation and resilience. Learn how to adapt traditional reward systems, foster trust, and tailor your praise to your child’s unique temperament. Whether your child is bold, sensitive, curious, or cautious, you’ll gain practical strategies to help them thrive. Tune in for relatable stories, actionable tips, and insights to transform your parenting journey.
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2025-02-0415 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence49 | Butting Heads Because You Are Parenting Your Strong-Willed Clone?Welcome to Not So Normal Parenting, where we dive into the complexities of raising children through the lens of
This mom first connected with me after finding my videos on YouTube and reading my parenting book, not just once, but twice. Through our coaching sessions, we developed practical strategies like a token system that gives her daughter the independence and structure she craves while teaching essential skills like collaboration and flexibility.
One of the biggest challenges we explore is how this mom is learning to model empathy for her daughter. As an ENTJ, empathy isn’t...
2025-01-2231 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence48 | Struggling to Connect with Your Sensitive Child? A Type 2 Mom’s Transformational StoryAre you struggling to find a therapist who truly understands and connects with your child? You’re not alone. Pediatricians tell me that over half of the concerns they see in their practice are tied to mental health—whether it’s the child the parents, or both.
Tody, I’m thrilled to introduce you to a mom I’ve had the honor of coaching. She’s an incredible parent, a natural caregiver, and a community leader. As a Type 2 on the Enneagram and an ESFJ in the Myers-Briggs system, her personality is known for warmth, compassion, and generosity...
2025-01-1428 min
Motherhood IntendedElevating Your Parenting: The Power of Understanding TemperamentHAPPY NEW YEAR! Happy Season 5! Happy 2 Year Podcast Anniversary! Happy Birthday to your host, Jacqueline Baird! The podcast is back after a brief end-of-year hiatus and there is a lot to celebrate...To kick off a new season of the Motherhood Intended Podcast, Jacqueline welcomes onto the show Wendy Gossett, a parenting and relationship coach, author, and host of the Not So Normal Parenting Podcast. Wendy discusses the significance of understanding children's unique temperaments to tailor parenting effectively. She shares insights on using brain mapping and temperament testing to identify individual strengths and challenges in children. Wendy...
2025-01-0951 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence47 | How to Manage Post Holiday Tantrums. Tested Strategies for Explosive Toddlers with Cara TyrellDo you ever feel trapped in a cycle of triggers, reactions, and meltdowns with your child? You’re not alone, and today we’re diving into how to break that exhausting pattern. In this episode, we’ll explore the Trigger Trap Reaction Cycle and why it can make us sound like our own moms or dads—despite our best intentions. You’ll learn how to respond calmly instead of reacting in the heat of the moment, reset your child’s regulation through intentional connection, and build their executive function skills. Plus, we’ll talk about why one-size-fits-all tantrum strategies don’t work and...
2025-01-0727 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence46 | Feeling Stuck? The Simple Exercise To Transform Your Perspective NowWhat do you really want? It’s a question we often answer with things we don’t have—a bigger house, a better job, more time. But what if the most powerful wants are the ones you already have? The partner you chose, the kids you prayed for, the home you once dreamed of, or the life you built step by step.
In this episode, we’ll explore:
✨ Deciding again: Stop living in default mode. Revisit your goals, your routines, your identity, and ask yourself: “Do I still choose this?”
✨ Wanting what you already have: Go beyond gratit...
2024-12-1821 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence45 | Are Your Kids Acting Entitled? 5 Parenting Strategies That WorkDoes your teen claim they’re the last person on earth with an iPhone 12? Or maybe your younger child is begging for a Barbie dreamhouse with a party room and pool while you’re still saving for a dishwasher that works. Entitlement can sneak into our homes, especially during the holidays, but there’s hope!
In this episode, we’ll explore 5 practical ways to address entitlement in kids. From getting them involved in chores to fostering gratitude, we’ll discuss how to redirect their focus from “I deserve” to “I appreciate.” Plus, we’ll tackle the tricky "But everyone has one...
2024-12-1125 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence44 | Complete Holiday Gift Guide For Every Enneagram TypeThe holidays are a season of gratitude and connection, and finding the perfect gift for your loved ones can make it even more special. But what if you could tailor your gifts to reflect the unique personality of each person? In this episode, we break down the perfect gift ideas for every Enneagram type—both adults and kids—so you can give with intention and thoughtfulness.
From the practical, high-quality picks that Type 1s love to the adventurous and joyful surprises perfect for Type 7s, we’ll help you match each gift with the qualities that make each t...
2024-12-0320 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence43 | How to Value the Quality of Every Enneagram TypeThis Thanksgiving season, let’s pause to recognize and celebrate the unique qualities that each Enneagram type brings to our lives. Inspired by expert insights, we’ll explore how appreciating specific traits in your loved ones can deepen connections and strengthen family bonds. From the wisdom of Type 5s to the joy of Type 7s, you’ll discover how these qualities shape the world for the better. Plus, I’ll share a fun and creative family activity—The Turkey in Disguise Game—that’s perfect for bringing everyone together for some laughter and creativity this holiday season. Join me for a thoughtf...
2024-11-2622 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence42 | Overcome Holiday Overwhelm. Intentional Focus for Every Enneagram TypeOvercome the holiday hustle with intentional focus tailored to your Enneagram type! In this episode, we kick off a six-part holiday series filled with lighthearted lists and meaningful activities for all the Enneagram types. You'll discover how to avoid holiday traps, embrace your unique gifts, and connect with the deeper meaning of the season. Plus, every type is matched with a famous Christmas song to help you stay grounded, inspired, and intentional throughout the holidays. Whether you're a busy Type 3 Achiever, a generous Type 2 Helper, or a reflective Type 4 Individualist, there's something here for everyone. Tune in for practical...
2024-11-1923 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence41 | Feeling Unfulfilled? The 1-on-1 Sexual Instinct and the Search for Meaningful ConnectionIn today’s episode, we are exploring the 1-on-1 sexual instinct and how it shapes our relationships, desires, and even our personal growth. Many of us experience an intense need for deep, one-on-one connections, but few realize how much this instinct impacts not just our romantic lives but all areas of connection. Whether you're wondering why you crave intense relationships, struggle when the ‘honeymoon phase’ ends, or want to better understand your own instinctual needs, this episode is for you. Stay tuned to learn about the types that become countertypes due to this powerful instinct, and discover practical steps to find f...
2024-11-1225 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence40 | How Do Status and Community Drive the Enneagram Social InstinctWendy Gossett helps parents understand their children by using temperament psychology and neuroscience. She has over 10,000 hours of experience in education, both in the classroom and corporate sector.
Even though she holds a Master’s degree in education, she struggled to understand her neurodivergent and oppositional kids. Inspired by her experience using Myers Briggs and the Enneagram with business teams, she spent over a decade researching temperament pattens to help family teams. She is a best-selling author and host of the Not So Normal Parenting podcast.
Her podcast is entitled Not So Normal Parenting bec...
2024-11-0526 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence39 | 3 Enneagram Instincts: Introducing Self Preservation and It's BFF; AnxietyUncover a new layer of the Enneagram as we dive into the incredibly impactful world of the instinctual subtypes. In this episode, we focus on the self-preservation instinct—a survival-driven instinct that influences every part of life, from daily routines to family dynamics. Learn how self-preservation types prioritize safety, comfort, and health, and why they often feel the need to be prepared for any situation. Whether it's turning their home into a cozy sanctuary or meticulously planning for the future, self-preservation types bring a unique sense of stability to their families. We’ll explore how to recognize self-preservation tendencies in y...
2024-10-3024 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence38 | How Productivity Make Enneagram 1's, 3's and 5's Neglect HappinessIn this episode of Not So Normal Parenting, we take a deep dive into the Competency Triad of the Enneagram, focusing on both parents who identify as Type 1 (The Perfectionist), Type 3 (The Achiever), or Type 5 (The Observer), and how to parent children with these types.
Whether you are a Type 1, 3, or 5 yourself or raising a child with these tendencies, you’ll discover how these types push emotions aside to solve problems logically, especially in relation to systems like work, family, or school. We’ll explore the 3 key ways each type strives for competency and how this impacts thei...
2024-10-2323 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence37 | Overly Sensitive, Impatient or Angry? 3 Remedies for Reactive TypesIn this episode, we’re tackling a common struggle for many parents: reactivity—especially for those in the Enneagram reactivity triad: Types 4, 6, and 8. If you often feel frustrated or overwhelmed in those tough parenting moments, this episode is for you.
What you’ll learn today:
How to Hold Realistic Expectations for yourself and your child’s behavior.
How to Harness Your Triggers so they no longer control your reactions.
How to Heal Through Guided Thoughts, personalized for your Enneagram type.
If you’ve ever been told that you just need to be more patient, but it only ma...
2024-10-1626 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence36. 4 Ways to Help Enneagram Reactive Types 4, 6 and 8Welcome back to our 9-part series on the Enneagram triads! In today’s episode, we’re diving into the Reactivity Triad, which includes Types 4, 6, and 8—personalities that tend to respond to stress with emotional intensity and immediate reactions. These types externalize their feelings when they don’t get what they want or when their needs are unmet, often displaying frustration, anxiety, or anger. We’ll explore the three key aspects of how these types cope: how they process emotions outwardly, why they react so strongly, and what they seek from others through their emotional responses.
In this episode, y...
2024-10-0942 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence35. Understanding the Positive Outlook Types: Exploring Enneagram Types 2, 7, and 9In this episode, "Understanding the Positive Outlook Types: Exploring Enneagram Types 2, 7, and 9," we kick off a 9-part series by diving into the Harmonic Triads of the Enneagram. We explore the Positive Outlook Triad, focusing on:
Type 2 (The Helper): Learn how Type 2s maintain harmony by focusing on others' needs, often neglecting their own, and how they can grow by embracing self-care and acknowledging their own emotions.
Type 7 (The Enthusiast): Discover how Type 7s avoid discomfort by seeking constant excitement and reframing negative experiences, and the importance of slowing down to engage with deeper emotions for...
2024-10-0124 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence34. How Self Control Indicates Future Success; 3 Tactical Parenting Strategies From The Marshmallow Experiment.Did you know that a simple marshmallow can predict your child's future success? In this episode, we dive into the Stanford Marshmallow Experiment, a groundbreaking study packed with insights for parents. Here’s what you’ll learn:
The Power of Delayed Gratification: Understand how a child's ability to wait for a reward is linked to greater success in academics, health, and social skills.
Consistency Builds Trust and Self-Control: Discover how consistent parenting, with clear rewards and consequences, helps children develop the self-discipline needed for long-term achievements.
The Role of Clear Expectations: Learn why sett...
2024-09-1722 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence33. Anxiety: Symptoms, Triggers and Coping Strategies with Dr. Jaylynne KochTune in to Episode 33 of Not So Normal Parenting as Wendy discusses the important topic of childhood anxiety with Dr. Jaylynne Koch, Developmental Psychologist, counselor and play therapist.
Topics covered are:
How personality factors into anxiety.
Nontypical symptoms that may not look like anxiety.
How anxiety and ADHD can be interchangeable.
The four triggers: Physical, The Unknown, Incongruance and Shoulds.
Coping Strategies such as coregulation, externalizing, exposure therapy and attachment.
The importance of “special playtime”, consistency in parenting and managing transitions.
Dr. Jaylynne Koch https://www.facebook.com/BloomBetween
What to Do When You Wor...
2024-09-0951 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence32 | Got Impulsive or Scattered Kids? Top Proven Tips From ADHD ExpertsI am so thrilled to have Dr. Brandon, pediatrician and founder of Colorado Kid's Pediatrics, to chat about how traits like social awkwardness, anxiety, defiance, OCD, homework struggles or impulsivity could be symptoms of ADHD.
This episode will be beyond helpful if you have a child that is exhibiting any of these traits: Many parents don't realize that all of these behaviors can be symptoms of ADD or ADHD which are on the rise due to all the stimulation children are experiencing in this generation of screens. In this episode we talk about:
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2024-09-0343 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence31. INTJ Enneagram Type 1 Mom and ENFP Type 7 Daughter: Parenting Your OppositeIn this eye-opening episode, we delve into the dynamic world of an INTJ Type 1 mother raising her free-spirited ENFP Type 7 daughter. With a focus on the contrasts and complements between the thinking and feeling brains, we explore how these personality types uniquely influence their parenting and child-rearing experiences. Shana, an INTJ mother known for her structured approach and keen sense of order, shares her personal journey towards understanding and embracing her daughter Savannah's exuberant and spontaneous ENFP personality. This episode sheds light on the challenges and triumphs of letting her free-spirited child learn valuable life lessons through experience, while...
2024-08-2744 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence30. Screens and Your Child's Mental Health: Tips for Tempering TechnologyToday’s episode tackles the critical issue of smartphone use and excessive screen time among children, specifically focusing on Generation Z, born between 1997 and 2012. As a parent to two "Zoomers," the host shares personal insights and expert research to confront the rising mental health challenges faced by today's youth. This discussion will cover:
Impact on Brain Development: Highlighting how screen time can negatively affect the frontal cortex of children's brains, impairing impulse control and mirroring the effects seen in substance addiction.
Social and Emotional Consequences: Examining the decline in face-to-face interactions among children, which contributes to...
2024-08-2023 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence29. Master the Morning Routine: Tips for a Smooth Back to School Transition
In this episode, we dive deep into the back-to-school season, a time both exciting and daunting for parents and children alike. As some families have already begun the new academic year, the focus shifts to establishing a productive morning routine—one that sets the tone for a successful day ahead.
Benjamin Franklin famously said, "By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail." This wisdom underscores our discussion as we explore practical strategies to help your family avoid morning chaos and start the day with positivity and purpose. We cover:
Conducting a Family Meeting: How to eff...
2024-08-1122 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence28. INFJ Human, Enneagram Type 3: Author Elizabeth Watkins, Highly Sensitive and High Achieving KidsINFJ’s are one of the rarest types representing less than 1% of the population. Today my interview is with Elizabeth Reed Watkins who just published a memoir of her life growing up in Maine entitled the Maine Thing. We will discuss how she parents her four very different kids and she gives advice for parents with an INFJ child. She is also an Enneagram Type 3, so this episode will resonate with all the over achievers out there as well. Going back through her journey we talk about vivid dreams, imagination, friendships, sports, learning, deep emotional struggles and balancing her hi...
2024-08-0541 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence27. Should My Child Go To College? INFJ, Emma B. Perez, Career Coach Talks About Today's Current LandscapeDo you have a child who is facing college in the next few years or a child who has dropped out? Many students drop out of college early because they weren’t ready. Maybe you know that the classroom is not your child’s happy place or your child hasn’t done their best in school. This episode discusses how college is not the only path to consider for your child’s future. Sometimes practical lion types and other perceiving free-spirited, creative or neurodivergent types prefer non-traditional paths. Episode 2 talks about the four people patterns and my last two episodes...
2024-07-3025 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence26. Enneagram Type 7 April Fallon on Parenting 4 Adopted Kids. Enneagram Types 9, 7 4 and 3.April Fallon is host of the Adoption Now podcast. She and her husband Noah, adopted four kids from birth, AJ, Lilly, Vivvy and Malia. In this episode she talks about parenting her kids as a type 7 and how she has had to adjust her parenting based on her kids unique needs. She wondered what behaviors were trauma related and what was personality. She talks about how knowing their type has helped her finally relax and know her kids love her. She talks about spending three years serving in Africa and how her inspiration to adopt started very early in...
2024-07-2338 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence25. Restlessness, Escapism FOMO and Feelings of Inadequacy. Overcome Enneagram Type 7 StrugglesIn this episode, we dive into the vibrant Type 7 personality, also known as The Enthusiast or "the straw that stirs the drink" Type 7s are characterized by their exuberance and ability to juggle multiple interests, yet they often face challenges with escapism, FOMO (fear of missing out), and feelings of isolation, inadequeacy, exhaustion and frustration.
This episode is full of practical strategies for Type 7s to reframe their thoughts and navigate these emotions. Whether you're a Type 7 yourself, in a relationship with one, or parenting a spirited child, this episode offers insights on fostering deeper connections, managing o...
2024-07-1630 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence24. Anxiety, Insecurity and Indecision. Overcome Enneagram Type 6, the Loyal Skeptic, StrugglesIn this episode, we explore Enneagram Type 6, often called the Loyalist or the Loyal Skeptic. Type 6s, part of the head center, are concerned with safety and security, often struggling with fear and anxiety. We discuss five common thought patterns they face: Anxiety, Indecision, Insecurity, Distrust, and Overwhelm.
Key Highlights:
Anxiety: Overthinking worst-case scenarios is common for Type 6s. Examples include Mike Wazowski from Monsters, Inc. and Marlin from Finding Nemo. Strategies to cope include facing fears directly, using grounding techniques, and practicing reality checking.
Indecision: Chronic second-guessing affects Type 6s, who often prioritize others' happiness over their...
2024-07-0925 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence23. The Private, Socially Resistant, Introverted Enneagram Type 5: Autism Spectrum or Personality?
In this episode, we dive into Enneagram Type 5, known as "The Investigator," exploring their unique traits and challenges. Whether you're parenting a Type 5 or are one yourself, you'll relate to their deep introspection and desire for knowledge, often likened to feeling like a unicorn in a world of more outgoing personalities. Type 5s are intensely private and introverted, preferring solitary activities to conserve their emotional and intellectual resources.
We discuss their core struggle, termed Avarice, which isn't about greed but rather a fear of depletion—be it emotional, energetic, or informational. This fear manifests as a reluctance to engage fu...
2024-07-0225 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence22. ESFJ Ox, Type 2, Erin Lockwood, Gifted, ODD, ADHD, Boundaries and Non Traditional School, ie. "Whack a Mole Parenting"In this episode I interview Erin Lockwood who travels all over the world with her family to create their YouTube channel called Always Be Changing. Erin is an ESFJ Ox, type 2 on the Enneagram. She is parenting three children and two of them are her opposites. Her son Colt is an ENTP Eagle, who tested as gifted, but doesn’t respond well to discipline and a typical school environment. Her daughter Brooklyn is an ISTP, the same type as my daughter, but a type 5 on the Enneagram, which will be the next episode now that we have wrapped up th...
2024-06-2529 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence21. The Highly Sensitive Type 4 Enneagram Romantic. Overcome Mental Health Issues by Reframing Damaging Thoughts.In this episode, we delve into the intricate world of Enneagram Type 4, also known as the Romantic or Individualist. If you are a Type 4 or raising one, you are likely familiar with their deep emotional landscape, creativity, and struggles with feelings of envy and loneliness. Host [Your Name], a Type 4 herself, shares personal insights and practical strategies learned from years of transforming negative thoughts and emotions. This episode provides valuable tips for understanding and supporting Type 4s in navigating their intense emotions and finding fulfillment.
Key Points:
Characteristics of Type 4: Emotional, intuitive, often feeling misunderstood, and...
2024-06-1822 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence20. Competition: Type 3 Enneagram "Achiever" Struggles. Overcome Fear of Failure by Transforming Your Thoughts.Today’s episode is about the Type 3 Achiever, which is a type that almost everyone resonates with. Because America is the land of the three, the land of chasing success. Almost everyone, including myself has fallen into the comparison trap and found themselves feeling inadequate or like they aren’t enough. Is your to do list a mile long? Do you have a hard time relaxing? Type 2, 3 and 4 are all in the heart center, focused on receiving attention and presenting a certain image. A Type 2 wants to be seen as likable and helpful and a type 3 wants to be seen...
2024-06-1117 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence19. What the Compliant, Helpful, Emotional Type 2 Struggles WithIn this episode, we shift focus from the body center to the heart center, which includes Enneagram types 2, 3, and 4. The heart center deals with issues of attention and self-image, often grappling with feelings of grief, shame, and worthlessness. We dive deep into the characteristics of Type 2s, who derive their self-worth from being helpful and appreciated by others, but may struggle with insecurity and dependence on external validation.
We'll discuss how to identify and reframe negative thought patterns common to Type 2s, providing strategies for fostering self-awareness and healthier relationships. An illustrative listener's story about a Type 2...
2024-06-0526 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence18.Transform Your Thoughts, Emotions and Actions with the EnneagramIn this transformative episode, Wendy Gossett shares personal insights and practices that can change your life. Kicking off a new Enneagram series, Wendy discusses the struggles of all nine types, starting with Type 9, the Peacemaker. Learn how these struggles affect thoughts and feelings, and discover ways to reframe thoughts to improve your well-being and coach your children effectively.
Explore Wendy's this podcast launched in April 2024, for more insights on Myers-Briggs and the Enneagram. Wendy's book, "Your Child’s Inner Drive: Parenting by Personality from Toddlers to Teens," provides additional guidance for parents managing diverse personality types within th...
2024-06-0514 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence19. What the Compliant, Helpful, Emotional Type 2 Struggles WithIn this episode, we shift focus from the body center to the heart center, which includes Enneagram types 2, 3, and 4. The heart center deals with issues of attention and self-image, often grappling with feelings of grief, shame, and worthlessness. We dive deep into the characteristics of Type 2s, who derive their self-worth from being helpful and appreciated by others, but may struggle with insecurity and dependence on external validation.
We'll discuss how to identify and reframe negative thought patterns common to Type 2s, providing strategies for fostering self-awareness and healthier relationships. An illustrative listener's story about a Type 2...
2024-06-0526 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence17. Overcome Type 1 Perfectionist Struggles. Transform Your Thoughts with the EnneagramIn this episode, we delve into the Enneagram Type 1, known as The Perfectionist. The Enneagram serves as a powerful tool to help parents recognize their unconscious thought patterns, enabling them to guide their children toward self-awareness and positive transformation. Type 1 children often fixate on imperfections in their environment and themselves, striving for perfection and control.
We start with an introduction to Enneagram Type 1, explaining how these individuals tend to focus on what needs to be fixed. Their unconscious thought patterns can lead to feelings of frustration, anger, and rigidity. The host shares a personal anecdote about the...
2024-05-2840 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence16. Overcome Type 8 Challenger Struggles. Transform Your Thoughts With the Enneagram.In this transformative episode, we delve deep into the struggles of Enneagram Type 8, exploring how their quest for control and fear of vulnerability shape their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. Whether you’re a Type 8 or a parent of one, this episode offers vital insights into managing these powerful dynamics.
We'll revisit some foundational concepts from Episode 15, emphasizing their importance in understanding all Enneagram types. For those familiar, feel free to jump ahead to the 12-minute mark to dive straight into Type 8 specifics.
Type 8s, located in the body or gut center of the Enneagram, focus in...
2024-05-2432 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence16. Overcome Type 8 Challenger Struggles. Transform Your Thoughts With the Enneagram.In this transformative episode, we delve deep into the struggles of Enneagram Type 8, exploring how their quest for control and fear of vulnerability shape their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. Whether you’re a Type 8 or a parent of one, this episode offers vital insights into managing these powerful dynamics.
We'll revisit some foundational concepts from Episode 15, emphasizing their importance in understanding all Enneagram types. For those familiar, feel free to jump ahead to the 12-minute mark to dive straight into Type 8 specifics.
Type 8s, located in the body or gut center of the Enneagram, focus in...
2024-05-2430 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence16. Overcome Type 8 Challenger Struggles. Transform Your Thoughts With the Enneagram .In this transformative episode, we delve deep into the struggles of Enneagram Type 8, exploring how their quest for ontrol and fear of vulnerability shape their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. Whether you’re a Type 8 or a parent of one, this episode offers vital insights into managing these powerful dynamics.
We'll revisit some foundational concepts from Episode 15, emphasizing their importance in understanding all Enneagram types. For those familiar, feel free to jump ahead to the 12-minute mark to dive straight into Type 8 specifics.
Type 8s, located in the body or gut center of the Enneagram, focus intensely on co...
2024-05-2442 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence16. Overcome Type 8 Challenger Struggles. Transform Your Thoughts With the Enneagram .In this transformative episode, we delve deep into the struggles of Enneagram Type 8, exploring how their quest for control and fear of vulnerability shape their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. Whether you’re a Type 8 or a parent of one, this episode offers vital insights into managing these powerful dynamics.
We'll revisit some foundational concepts from Episode 15, emphasizing their importance in understanding all Enneagram types. For those familiar, feel free to jump ahead to the 12-minute mark to dive straight into Type 8 specifics.
Type 8s, located in the body or gut center of the Enneagram, focus in...
2024-05-2329 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence16. Overcome Type 8 Challenger Struggles. Transform Your Thoughts With the Enneagram .In this transformative episode, we delve deep into the struggles of Enneagram Type 8, exploring how their quest for control and fear of vulnerability shape their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. Whether you’re a Type 8 or a parent of one, this episode offers vital insights into managing these powerful dynamics.
We'll revisit some foundational concepts from Episode 15, emphasizing their importance in understanding all Enneagram types. For those familiar, feel free to jump ahead to the 12-minute mark to dive straight into Type 8 specifics.
Type 8s, located in the body or gut center of the Enneagram, focus in...
2024-05-2233 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence15. Transform Your Thoughts with the Enneagram. Overcome Type 9 Peacemaker Struggles"I am not exaggerating when I tell you that this episode could transform your life! I speak from personal experience because the practice I am going to tell you about changed mine. This will be the first of an Enneagram series where I talk about the struggles of all nine types, how those struggles effect our thoughts and feelings and then how you can reframe the thoughts and coach your children to do the same.
I started a podcast in mid April 2024 called Not So Normal Parenting. There are some episodes there that are not on this...
2024-05-1327 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence14. Are You a Convertible or Sedan? Free Spirit Perceivers and Scheduled Judgers: How We Live Our LivesSince this entire podcast is based on the Myers-Briggs system as well as the Enneagram, I highly recommend you listen to episode 2 and 3 at some point. For a quick review the Ox is a stable rule follower… think Ox living in a stable, the Lion is brave and craves freedom, the Eagle is independent, curious and proud, and the Human is emotional and relational. Lions and Eagles are challengers and difficult to parent! You will also hear me referring to “Types 1-9” and this comes from Episode 3 which is an introduction to an amazing system for growing human potential called...
2024-05-0735 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence2. Nature Versus Nurture: Four Child Behavior Patterns: Ox, Lion, Eagle and HumanIn this episode, we delve into the age-old debate of nature versus nurture and its impact on our temperament.
Discover the findings of an eighty-year Harvard happiness study, revealing that 50% of our happiness capacity is determined by our temperament, which is set at birth. Despite this, we often focus on changing our circumstances rather than accepting our inherent strengths. We explore how temperament influences our reactions to life's challenges and how understanding our children's temperament is crucial for effective parenting.
Drawing from real-life examples and psychological research, we examine how temperament manifests from infancy and...
2024-05-0239 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence13. How to Parent a Unicorn. Two Ways of Perceiving the World: Sensing and IntuitionDo you feel like you are parenting a unicorn? Does it ever seem like they are the H CH Cr dog in a dog park of golden doodles? Or maybe I just described how you feel? Some personality types are rare, making up only .05% of the population! These lovely souls often go around feeling insecure because they feel like something is wrong with them since they aren’t like everyone else. It is like being a lefty in a righty society! These are the intuitive types. The Scarecrows from the Wizard of Ox also known as the Eagle face of...
2024-05-0130 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence12. Intro to the Enneagram: Heart, Head or Body Center and What Each Type 1-9 Focuses OnIn this episode Wendy talks about the 3 centers of intelligence in the enneagram system. The Bodoy center which is concerned with control, autonomy and centers around the emotion of anger. The Heart center concerned with attention and self image centers around grief or shame and the Head center, concerned with security and systems or beliefs centers around the emotion of fear or anxiety. We will talk about all nine types and what the fixate on. We will also talk about how people misunderstand and misuse the Enneagram, what it is and what it is not!
W...
2024-04-2625 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence11. INTERVIEW! Introverted Sensing: Highly Sensitive Kids, Sensory Processing and Anxiety with my Type 9 Ox, (ISFJ) College Son, Nathan GossettBecause this personality type often feels overlooked, it is critical that they feel seen by the most important people in their lives: their parents and siblings. Sometimes their negative emotions can stay buried for weeks without your child even knowing what is bothering them.
My 22 year old son Nathan (who is now graduating with a Pre-Med degree) struggled with ADHD, OCD, anxiety and sensory processing disorder. Through understanding his temperament, as a highly sensitive introvert and a peacemaker, he has learned many ways to build upon his strengths and overcome his weaknesses. Gain insights and he...
2024-04-2458 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence10. INTERVIEW! My Type 8 LION (ISTP) College Daughter, Jordan Gossett. Introverted Thinking: Challengers, Emotional Intelligencentroverted Thinking Lion ISTP (Introverted Sensing Thinking and Perceiving), Type 8 individuals are intellectually sharp but may lack emotional intelligence, making self-awareness essential. Their affinity for systems makes understanding temperament valuable. Female thinkers constitute only 25% of the population, underscoring the importance of teaching appropriate interactions with women. It's crucial to acknowledge and validate their uniqueness. Encourage Introverted thinking (Ti) individuals to explore logical subjects like engineering, philosophy, or theology, aligning with their strategic, independent nature. For ISTPs, action trumps reading, so practical books with real-life scenarios are ideal. As they mature, purpose-driven books become more appealing. Engage ISTP children by...
2024-04-1757 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional IntelligenceTRAILER: Not So Normal Parenting: Strengthen Family Connections With Insights From Myers Briggs and the EnneagramEver find yourself wondering if your child's behavior is normal? Some personality types don’t respond to traditional parenting. This could be why you are feeling stressed and uncertain how to handle their sibling rivalry, explosive tantrums, disorganization, picky eating, impulsivity, sleep problems, low empathy, high sensitivity or fill in the blank. Maybe you and your partner don’t feel as close as you once did. Due to all the crazy, you may have lost sight of the connection that brought you together? Are you struggling to identify the God given strengths in your child, connect with your child and b...
2024-04-1508 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence9. INTP Eagle Adult Temperament Twin Advisor: Phil Lockwood: Reframing "Bad" Behavior, Exploration, Introverted ThinkingPhil and his family are You Tubers who travel the world. Their website is followabc.com. A B C stands for Always Be Changing which has been the theme of Phil's life. He talks about how his parent's use of simple logic made sense to him as a child. He talks about his exploration, wandering attention in school and round about career path. INTP's usually don't follow a conventional plan. He also talks about parenting his own ENTP son and redirecting his curiosity so that it isn't destructive
Follow the Lockwood Family adventures at Always Be...
2024-04-1037 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence8. Myers Briggs ENTP and Enneagram Type 7 Mom Gives Insights on Parenting her ENTP SonSara Van Rensburg CEO of Potential Arena and ENTP, Extroverted, Intuitive, Thinking and Perceiving, talks about how she was in school.
She shares how you can keep your ENTP from jumping from one thing to another
How to collaborate, negotiate and how to communicate in a way that gets them to listen.
How they take things apart and cans seem disrespectful
How to handle their fast-acting creative mind
How their mind works conceptually rather than linearly
Understanding their impatience, explosivity and lagging emotional development
How...
2024-04-1058 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence7. ENFP Human and Type 7 Adult Temperament Twin Advisor: Pediatrician Dr. Brandon Davison Tracy, Social Anxiety, Missing Details, Not FinishingDr. Brandon Davison Tracy, pediatrician and owner of Colorado Kids Pediatrics in Denver Colorado, has practiced medicine for over 20 years is an ENFP. Extroverted, Intuitive, Feeling and Perceiving. He talks about social anxiety versus shyness, overachieving to avoid feelings of fear, battling selfish thoughts and the need to be happy all the time. We talk about "taming the monkey brain", big picture thinking versus being detail oriented, being unaware in his senses, sports, OCD, deciding on a college and career and asking too many questions.`
Dr. Brandon's practice: Colorado Kids Pediatrics: https://coloradokidspeds.com/
2024-04-0939 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence6. Prickly or Pleasing? Logical Thinkers and Emotional Feelers. Gender Roles, Defiance and DramaIn this episode of Not So Normal Parenting, we delve into the fascinating realm of Thinkers and Feelers, exploring how these cognitive preferences shape not only decision-making but also parenting dynamics.
Host [Host's Name] unpacks the essence of Thinking (T) and Feeling (F) in the context of the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator, shedding light on how individuals lean towards logic-driven judgments or decisions infused with empathy and consideration of emotions.
Drawing from personal experiences and observations, [Host's Name] shares anecdotes about her own children, Nathan and Jordan, whose contrasting temperaments challenge societal norms. Nathan, a gentle...
2024-04-0920 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence5. Introverted Extrovert or Extroverted Introvert? What is normal?In this episode, we take a broad view of introversion and extroversion, delving into the nuances of each type. From rechargers to absorbers in introversion, and players to talkers in extroversion, we navigate through the varied behaviors associated with these personality traits.
Join us as we address common concerns of parents regarding their children's introverted tendencies. We debunk myths surrounding introversion, highlighting the distinction between shyness and introversion, with insights from experts like Susan Cain, author of "Quiet".
Our discussion extends to the neurobiological differences between introverts and extroverts, shedding light on how brain chemistry...
2024-04-0921 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence4. Change Your Kid's Behavior Instantly! My Proven C.R.E.A.T.E. MethodJoin us in the latest episode of the Not So Normal Parenting Podcast as we uncover a powerful strategy for shaping your child's behavior while strengthening your bond with them. Host [Host's Name] introduces the transformative CREATE method, designed to address challenging behaviors while nurturing connection and control.
Discover how understanding your child's emotions and strengths, revealing new rules in advance, and equipping them with coping strategies can pave the way for smoother parenting journeys. Tune in to learn how to foster resilience and empower your child to navigate life's ups and downs with confidence.
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2024-04-0919 minNot So Normal Parenting | Enneagram, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Emotional Intelligence3. Intro to the Enneagram: Body, Heart and Head Center, Types 1-9In this episode Wendy talks about the 3 centers of intelligence in the enneagram system. The Body center which is concerned with control, autonomy and centers around the emotion of anger. The Heart center cncerned with attention and self image centers around grief or shame and the Head center, concerned with security and systems or beliefs centers around the emotion of fear or anxiety. We will talk about all nine types and what the fixate on.
Website: Get Free resources at WendyGossett.com
Get a FREE Child Temperament Test when you join my...
2024-04-0920 min
ADOPTION NOWThe Brain Mapping Interview: Family Coach and Author, Wendy Gossett, Shares How She Helps Families [S7E3] Noah and April interview Wendy Gossett and share about their experience with brain mapping and discovering their family's personalities. Wendy helps parents understand their children by using temperament psychology and neuroscience. She has over twenty years of experience in education, working in the classroom and corporate sector. "We often believe we are seeing reality when we are actually looking through a skewed lens, because of our own personality and biases. As parents, we need to put on a different lens to see each one of our children clearly, so they can become the people they...
2022-12-1041 min
Family Personalities87 Type and Temperament in Kids with Wendy Gossett - Myers-Briggs MBTI ParentingSandra interviews Wendy Gossett, author of the best-selling parenting book, Your Child’s Inner Drive, about type and temperament in kids. Wendy helps parents understand their children by using temperament psychology and neuroscience. She has over twenty years of experience in education, working in the classroom and corporate sector. Because Wendy herself has struggled as a helicopter parent, an explosive parent and an embarrassing parent, she wants to help other parents struggle…a little bit less!Links and references:WendyGossett.comFind Your Child’s Myers-Briggs TypeMyers-Briggs BasicsCognit...
2022-06-1442 min
Single Parenting Reset Show: For Solo Parents of Tweens and Teens — Manage Behavior Problems, Reduce Screen Time & Improve Communication62. Why Understanding Your Child’s Temperament Is Key for Single Parents Navigating Tween Behavior"This episode first aired under the original name, The Parenting Reset Show. Now we are the Single Parenting Reset podcast–supporting single parents of tweens and teens with real talk on screen time, communication and managing behavior."Are your tween’s meltdowns or mood swings leaving you confused and second-guessing your parenting?This episode dives deep into a powerful tool single parents often overlook: your child’s temperament type. Understanding this can help you handle tricky behaviors, improve communication, and reduce emotional blowouts—especially during those tween and teen years when parenting feels most overwhelming.Learn...
2022-05-2545 min
Wholistic Hearts- A Journey from the Head to the Heart, Encounters with Jesus108. Parenting by Personality with Wendy Gosset, Family and Child Temperament CoachToday's episode we continue to learn the different personality frameworks. We have talked a lot about Enneagram, so I thought we could bring another expert on our show who helps us use another personality tool to navigate and understand some of our basic designs. Today, Wendy Gossett- Family and Child Temperament Coach, joins me to share her immense knowledge and understanding of Carl Jung's- 8 psychological brain functions. Do you look at your children and wonder what makes them tick? Or maybe you parent one child in a specific way but it doesn't work for another chi...
2021-11-2740 min
Parenting Well Podcast#10 Temperament: Parenting by PersonalityI am Dr. Shelly Mahon, your host, and today’s WELL source is Wendy Gossett. Wendy is a parenting and relationship coach based in the Denver metro area. Her primary focus is temperament psychology, which is a technique parents can use to understand what their child is doing and why they are doing it. By recognizing their brain functions, parents can learn to accept and pull the best out of their children.
This podcast focuses on:
Understanding temperament and how it can be recognized in your child as early as infancy.
Recognizing your own...
2020-01-1750 min
That's Total Mom Sense018: Wendy Goseett — What’s Your Child’s Personality Type?Wendy Gossett is a Parenting Specialist. She helps parents understand their children by using temperament psychology and neuroscience. She has over twenty years of experience in education, working in the classroom and corporate sector.However, all her educational experience didn’t help when parenting her daughter. Because they were opposites, she struggled as a helicopter parent, an explosive parent and an embarrassing parent. (Google “dancing mom in traffic to see for yourself.”) Because she has struggled, she wants to help other parents struggle…a little bit less!She is a speaker, author and contributing writer for mult...
2019-09-2632 min
Rebel Parenting with Ryan & Laura Dobson245 Wendy Gossett "Behaviors and Temperament" REBEL Parenting
2019-08-3058 min
Make It a Great One with Dr. Dan: #1 Podcast for Inspiring Conversations to Live and Lead On PurposeParenting To Your Child’s Temperament + Inner Drive with Wendy Gossett
Dr. Dan welcomes Wendy Gossett, M. Ed. (an author, Temperament Specialist and Founder of Temperament Coaching) to today’s show to discuss temperament and parenting.
Wendy is a child temperament specialist who helps parents learn how to “see” their kids, not through their own biased lens, but through the lens of their child’s natural temperament. Wendy starts off the show discussing her own parenting journey and how her own daughter inspired her life’s work.
Wendy Gossett’s Child Temperament test will help parents everywhere to understand their child or children (and her adult test will help parents understand themselves). ...
2019-07-0445 minRebel Parenting with Ryan & Laura Dobson125 Wendy Gossett "Understanding Your Kids BETTER!!"Wendy Gossett, founder of People Works Colorado, stops by the REBEL studio to educate us on temperaments through the Myers Briggs and other mind-blowing illustrations, so we can better connect with our spouse and children. This will change your whole perspective on your close relationships! Stop by Wendy's website to take a free adult or child temperament test. www.PeopleWorksCo.com IG: @WendyGossett FB: People Works of Colorado
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