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Connected Parenting MinuteFinding Calm in Chaos Part 2 - S03 E11 (#32)In this insightful episode of Connected Parenting Minute, hosts Will and CarrieAnn Standfest continue their exploration of finding calm amidst the chaos of parenting. Building on their previous discussion, they recap essential points about the misconception that peace is just around the corner and emphasize that finding peace is a skill that requires practice.The Standfests dive into the impact of chronic stress on our health, highlighting the importance of modeling calmness for our children. They discuss the stories we tell ourselves in response to daily challenges, encouraging listeners to recognize how these narratives...2025-03-1924 minConnected Parenting MinuteFinding Calm in Chaos Part 1 - S03 E10 (#31)In this thought-provoking episode of Connected Parenting Minute, hosts Will and CarrieAnn Standfest tackle the challenge of finding calm amidst the chaos of parenting. Drawing from their personal experiences, they explore the common misconception that peace is just around the corner and discuss how this mindset can lead to frustration and disappointment.Will and CarrieAnn emphasize the importance of recognizing that life is a series of mountains to climb, and peace is not simply a destination but a journey. They delve into the inherent tension that exists in the space between not knowing and...2025-03-0520 min
The Adoption & Foster Care JourneyEpisode 463 - Connected Parenting with Will & CarrieAnn Standfest"And whatever you do, in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him." -Colossians 3:17
Welcome to The Adoption & Foster Care Journey—a podcast to encourage, educate and equip you as you care for children in crisis through adoption, foster care and kinship care.
On this episode, host Sandra Flach talks with adoptive parents, Will and CarrieAnn Standfest.
The Standfests are dedicated parents with over two decades of hands-on parenting experience, raising eight forever children through biolo...2025-01-201h 07Connected Parenting MinuteWhat is FASD? An Interview with Sandra Flach - S03 E09 (#30)In this episode, hosts Will and CarrieAnn Standfest engage in a compelling conversation with Sandra Flach. Together, they delve into the often misunderstood world of Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorders (FASD), shedding light on this invisible disability that affects many children, especially those in foster and adoptive families.
Listeners are introduced to the complexities of FASD, a spectrum of disorders resulting from prenatal alcohol exposure. Sandra Flach shares her expertise, explaining the behavioral symptoms that often lead to misinterpretations of willful disobedience or laziness. The episode emphasizes the importance of understanding these symptoms as brain-based...2025-01-1528 minConnected Parenting MinuteSibling Dynamics: Navigating Change and Connection - S03 E08 (#29)In this enlightening episode, hosts Will and CarrieAnn Standfest dive into the intricate dynamics of sibling relationships and the impact of change within the family unit. Drawing from personal experiences, they explore how hosting, fostering, and family gatherings can alter sibling interactions and emotions.
Will and CarrieAnn emphasize the importance of recognizing and validating children's feelings during times of change, reminding parents that it's natural for kids to have mixed emotions. They discuss the critical role parents play in setting the tone for these transitions, offering practical advice on how to manage expectations and...2024-12-1126 minConnected Parenting MinuteNavigating Holidays: Expectations vs. Reality - S03 E07 (#28)In this engaging episode of the Connected Parenting Minute, Will and CarrieAnn Standfest delve into the complexities of managing expectations during the holiday season. With humor and insight, they explore how unmet expectations can lead to disappointment, especially during festive times when family dynamics are at play. The Standfests share personal anecdotes, including the challenges of blending family traditions and the humorous mishaps that have become cherished memories.
Listeners are invited to reflect on their own holiday expectations and are encouraged to recognize, clarify, and create backup plans to manage them effectively. Will and...2024-11-2727 minConnected Parenting MinuteFinding Your People: Building Intentional Community - S03 E06 (#27)In this inspiring episode of the Connected Parenting Minute, hosts Will and CarrieAnn Standfest engage in a heartfelt conversation with Meredith Schumann from James Trail. Together, they explore the profound impact of community and support in the journey of parenting, especially within the realm of foster and adoptive families. Meredith shares the mission behind James Trail, emphasizing the importance of being trauma-informed and creating spaces where families feel seen and supported.
The episode delves into the significance of intentionally seeking out community, particularly in the aftermath of the pandemic, which highlighted...2024-11-1328 minConnected Parenting MinuteUnpacking the Replanted Conference: Stories of Connection and Growth - S03 E05 (#26)💬 Show Notes
In this episode of the Connected Parenting Minute, hosts Will and CarrieAnn Standfest share their experiences from the Replanted Conference in Chicago, a gathering dedicated to supporting foster and adoptive families. They recount the inspiring moments and connections made during the event, emphasizing the importance of community and feeling seen in the challenging yet rewarding journey of parenting.
Will and CarrieAnn discuss their speaking engagements at the conference, including sessions on connecting with teenagers and the role of fathers in parenting. They highlight the powerful advice from the...2024-10-3023 minConnected Parenting MinuteThe Power of Being Seen: Interview with Daniela Coates - S03 E04 (#25)In this heartwarming episode of the Connected Parenting Minute, hosts Will and CarrieAnn Standfest invite listeners to a special conversation with Daniela Coates, author of the children's book "The Day Lily Turned [un]Invisible." This episode explores themes of visibility and self-worth within the context of foster and adoptive families. Daniela shares insights from her own experiences as a licensed master social worker and mother of six, offering a unique perspective on the challenges and joys of fostering and adoption.
The Standfests and Daniela discuss the inspiration behind her book, which centers on Lily...2024-10-1630 minConnected Parenting MinuteWhen Kids Lose It: Understanding the Window of Tolerance - S03 E03 (#24)In this enlightening episode of Connected Parenting Minute, hosts Will and CarrieAnn Standfest delve into the complexities of children "losing it" and how parents can navigate these challenging moments. They introduce the concept of the "window of tolerance," explaining how different children have varying capacities for handling stress before they reach their breaking point. Using vivid analogies and personal anecdotes, Will and CarrieAnn provide practical insights into understanding and expanding this window through connection and empathy.
Will and CarrieAnn share their experiences from a recent conference, including their talk on connecting with teenagers at...2024-10-0222 minConnected Parenting MinuteFrom Hurt to Healing: The Power of Relationships - S03 E02 (#23)In this insightful episode, hosts Will and CarrieAnn Standfest explore the profound role that relationships play in the healing process, particularly for children. They delve into the concept that healthy relationships are the catalyst for healing, drawing wisdom from experts like Dr. Bruce Perry. The Standfests emphasize how crucial it is to model gratitude and genuine apologies to foster an environment where children feel seen and valued.
Will and CarrieAnn share personal stories and practical advice on navigating the complexities of parenting, especially when engaging your teens. They discuss the importance of not shielding...2024-09-1828 min
Connected Parenting MinuteCalm Reactions: Emotional Regulation Through Example - S03 E01 (#22)Welcome back to Season 3 of Connected Parenting Minute! In this kickoff episode, your hosts Will and CarrieAnn Standfest dive into the crucial topic of emotional regulation and its impact on parenting. This episode emphasizes the importance of managing our own emotions and modeling healthy coping strategies for our children. The Standfests discuss why it's essential for parents to take responsibility for their emotions, rather than placing that burden on their kids. They offer practical advice on recognizing and addressing our own emotional states to better support our children.
Will and CarrieAnn share personal stories...2024-09-0425 minConnected Parenting MinuteListener questions with guest Kayla North - S02 E11 (#21)💬 Show Notes
In this special Q&A episode of Connected Parenting Minute, your trusted hosts, Will and CarrieAnn Standfest, along with their guest, Kayla North, delve into the complexities of parenting adopted children and managing challenging behaviors. The trio tackles hard-hitting questions from listeners, providing insights into how to discern between a child's needs and "naughty" behavior, strategies to address persistent lying rooted in trauma, and the importance of understanding one's own reactions as a parent.
The Standfests, with their characteristic empathy and experience, share personal stories and offer act...2024-04-1732 minConnected Parenting MinuteFlipping Lids and Finding Calm: Brain Science Part 2 - S02 E10 (#20)💬 Show Notes
In this episode of Connected Parenting Minute, Will and CarrieAnn Standfest return for the much-anticipated part two of their brain science series. They continue to unravel the mysteries of the brain, focusing on the powerful concept of 'flipping one's lid.' With their signature blend of warmth and wisdom, the Standfests explain how the brain's processing systems—from the survival-oriented brainstem to the emotional limbic system and the logical cortex—can sometimes go offline during moments of stress, leading children (and adults) to react in survival mode, unable to access reasoning or languag...2024-04-0327 min
The Empowered Parent PodcastWhen Teens and Young Adults Make Decisions We Don't Agree With - S11 E04 (#164)
Chris, Ryan, and Kayla are joined by Will and CarrieAnn Standfest for this episode. They discuss how to respond when our teens make decisions we don't agree with.
You can hear Will and CarrieAnn on The Connected Parenting Minute Podcast.
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2024-03-2040 minConnected Parenting MinuteParenting Through the Lens of Brain Science, Part 1 - S02 E09 (#19)In this brainy episode of Connected Parenting Minute, Will and CarrieAnn Standfest unpack the fascinating world of brain science and its profound impact on parenting. Ever wonder why your reactions and your children's behaviors unfold the way they do? The Standfests delve into the intricate workings of the brain, from the survival instincts housed in the brainstem to the emotional connections of the limbic system, and finally to the logical reasoning of the cortex. They illuminate how understanding these systems can foster empathy, grace, and better parenting strategies. Whether it's decoding a child's meltdown or fostering a safe environment...2024-03-2024 minConnected Parenting MinuteChaos to Calm: Deciding What's Small in Parenting - S02 E08 (#18)In this episode of Connected Parenting Minute, join Will and CarrieAnn Standfest as they explore the fine line between sweating the small stuff and setting healthy expectations for our children. They share personal stories and insights on how our reactions as parents become the blueprint for our children's sense of normal. From managing time to the nuances of parenting both biological and adopted children, the Standfests discuss the importance of recognizing our triggers and teaching our children to navigate life's little challenges. Whether it's dealing with slow mornings or learning to set the tone for a peaceful home, this...2024-03-0622 minConnected Parenting MinuteMeltdowns in Aisle Five: Navigating Kids' Overreactions - S02 E07 (#17)In this enlightening episode, Will and CarrieAnn Standfest dive into the world of overreactions in children and how parents can skilfully navigate these emotional outbursts. From the cereal aisle meltdown to the scraped knee in the park, they explore why kids (and yes, adults too) sometimes respond more intensely than a situation warrants. The Standfests discuss the importance of emotional vocabulary, the science behind our brain's reactions, and the role of parents as calm co-regulators. With a blend of humor and practical advice, they offer insights into recognizing the difference between big and small problems, expanding your child's ability...2024-02-2120 minConnected Parenting MinuteTry, Try Again: The Art of the Redo - S02 E06 (#16)In this heartwarming episode, Will and CarrieAnn Standfest tackle the transformative power of the 'redo' in parenting. Discover how this simple yet profound tool can build resilience and teach children that mistakes aren't failures, but opportunities to learn and grow. The Standfests candidly share personal anecdotes, revealing how redos have shaped their family dynamics, fostering an environment where it's safe to be imperfect. They also turn the mirror on themselves, discussing the importance of parents giving themselves permission to try again, modeling humility and continuous improvement to their children. This episode is a treasure trove of insights for any...2024-01-2420 minConnected Parenting MinuteBites and Battles: A new way to Approach Picky Eaters - S02 E05 (#15)Navigating the dinner table with a picky eater can feel like a culinary obstacle course. In this insightful episode, Will and CarrieAnn Standfest delve into the personal nature of food preferences and the challenges that arise when children turn up their noses at the family meal. They share their own experiences and practical strategies for dealing with picky eaters, emphasizing the importance of understanding that food issues are deeply personal and how they can be tied to past experiences.
Season 2 Episode 5 of the Connected Parenting Minute Podcast
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...2024-01-1021 minConnected Parenting MinuteConnection over Perfection - S02 E04 (#14)How do you parent 8 kids and stay (somewhat) sane?! In this fun and relatable episode, Will and CarrieAnn Standfest give fellow parents an inside look at the loving chaos of their big family. With plenty of humor about parenting fails and poignant honesty about struggles, they share their top 3 tips for balancing it all. Learn how shifting your mindset to let go of being "everything" to your kids frees you up for self-care and focusing on each child's unique needs. You'll come away laughing, nodding along, and reminded that imperfect parents can keep getting better, one Connected Parenting Minute...2023-12-1323 minConnected Parenting MinuteScript your way to Connected Parenting - S02 E03 (#13)Emotions hijack logic, making it hard to respond well in heated parenting moments. In this episode, Will and CarrieAnn Standfest discuss the concept of "Scripting our Response." When we as parents practice empathetic phrases, we can avoid knee-jerk reactions when tensions run high.
As a parent, you get to decide how you react in a stressful situation, so make a plan to respond in a way you are proud of later.
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Season 2 Episode 3 of the Connected Parenting Minute Podcast
For more...2023-11-2927 minConnected Parenting MinuteRedefining Parental Success - S02 E02 (#12)We all want to be the best parents we can be, but how do we know if we're succeeding? In the latest episode of the Connected Parenting Minute, Will and CarrieAnn Standfest provide thoughtful insight into this parenting dilemma we all face. Sharing vulnerable stories and practical wisdom from their own parenting journey, they discuss the flawed and even harmful ways we often judge our parental success - by our children's behavior, other's opinions, or vague societal standards. With empathy and wisdom, they encourage parents to focus on their own development, rather than judging themselves by their child's behavior...2023-11-1524 minConnected Parenting MinuteHow do I Stop all these tantrums and meltdowns? - S02 E01 (#11)Every parent struggles when their child has a meltdown, or throws a fit/tantrum. It can be a difficult thing to handle with connection. When is a tantrum not a tantrum? When it's a fear based response. Listen in to this episode as Will and CarrieAnn Standfest discuss meltdowns, tantrums, and how we can respond to them as connected parents. Plus, enter our coffee giveaway!
Episode 1 of Season 2 of the Connected Parenting Minute Podcast.
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In this season we will release 10 new episodes covering topics like the brain science of connected parenting, tantrums and meltdowns, picky eaters, and the 're-do'.
If you are stressed out and overwhelmed, and don't know where to turn for parenting advice, we are here to help you.
Subscribe and make sure you don't miss a single episode. 2023-10-2501 minConnected Parenting MinuteHow fear and felt safety drive our kids behavior (Season 1 Episode 10)Many of the behaviors that we struggle most with as parents boil down to fear and felt safety. But what on earth is "felt safety"? Is it just some made up term soft parents use to excuse bad behavior?
In this episode, Will and CarrieAnn discuss real world examples of felt safety, and discuss how fear responses drive some of our children's biggest behaviors. Listen in.
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2023-07-2620 minConnected Parenting Minute"I was wrong" is not a dirty phrase (Season 1 Episode 9)Should adults apologize to their children? Should you apologize after an argument when you were correct? What is a good model to teach our children as they learn to apologize?
On this week's episode Will and CarrieAnn discuss these questions, as well as reflecting on how many of us raising kids now, were raised by a generation that never apologized to their kids. Many of us experienced a lot of frustration or disappointment in those situations. Listen in, and then join us for the discussion online.
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#connectedparenting #tbri #parenting #thisisfostercare #foster #fostercare #dad #fat...2023-06-2120 minConnected Parenting MinuteHow many compliments vs criticisms do our kids hear from us? - (Season 1 Episode 7)It's easy as a parent to get trapped in the cycle of always talking negatively to our children, to open conversations with a correction or critique. This feels bad, and we don't want to be the nagging, overbearing parent. We know our words have impact on our children, and yet we often struggle with trapped in a negative cycle. On this week's episode of the podcast, listen in as Will and CarrieAnn Standfest discuss the impact of being overly negative with our children, and practical strategies to break the cycle of negativity.
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Season 1, Episode 5 of the Connected Parenting Minute Podcast.
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You are a good parent, you can do this.
Season 1, Episode 4 of the Connected Parenting Minute Podcast.
...2023-04-2620 minConnected Parenting MinuteHave a better relationship with your teenager (Part 2) - Season 1 Episode 3If you are like a lot of parents, you struggle to have a good relationship with the teens in your life. We have been through those struggles over the last 20 years of parenting, and now we have a good relationship with our teenagers. You can do it too, the process to having a better relationship starts in Part 1 where we talk a lot about establishing a foundation of respect.
In Part 2, Will and CarrieAnn discuss the next steps of building that lasting, meaningful relationship with your teenager. It starts with fun. :-)
You are a...2023-04-1926 minConnected Parenting MinuteHow can I have a better relationship with my teenager? (Part 1) - Season 1 Episode 2Relationships with the teenagers in your life can be challenging for many parents. In this episode, Will and CarrieAnn discuss the first step in how to have a better relationship with the teenagers in your life. You can have a deep, meaningful, and fun relationship with your teenager, listen to the episode as we discuss the foundation to that good relationship. You are a good parent, you can do this.
Season 1, Episode 2 of the Connected Parenting Minute Podcast.
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Most parents have experienced those moments when a child acts out, or says something that drives you up a wall. It's a difficult situation for a parent to handle. On this episode, Will and CarrieAnn discuss what parents should do when they feel like a child is pushing their buttons. If you have experienced this before, you're not alone. Check it out.
Season 1, Episode 1 of the Connected Parenting Minute Podcast.
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This podcast is a conversation about parenting, using connection-first, trauma informed principles. Because when you lead with connection everyone feels seen, which is the foundation to a more peaceful home.
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