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2026-01-0922 min2025-05-1344 min2025-04-2936 min2025-04-0932 minXena RomanovaLife As A Dominatrix - Sissy StoriesSend us a textNew Poetry Book: Peace, Love, and Chaos: A Woman’s Emotional Roller Coaster:http://tinyurl.com/peaceloveandchaosFirst Book: Xena: Life as a Dominatrix:www.amazon.com/author/xenaromanovaSupport the show
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Xena RomanovaLife As A Dominatrix - What Haven't I Done (in a BDSM scene)Send us a textSupport the show
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Xena RomanovaLife As A Dominatrix - What Women WantSend us a textOops…. I meant to say Wednesday Sept 4. Support the show
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Xena RomanovaLife As A Dominatrix - How To Become A DominatrixSend us a textEpisode 60 - Life As A Dominatrix - How To Become A DominatrixSupport the show
2024-06-1155 min
Xena RomanovaLife As A Dominatrix - JournalSend us a textI've created a substack page.Enjoy reading & subscribe to my journal today:https://xenaromanova.substack.comSupport the show
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Xena RomanovaLife As A Dominatrix - Past PartiesSend us a textMore stories are found in My book, "Xena: LIfe As A Dominatrix"Available via Amazon: www.amazon.com/author/xenaromanovaSupport the show
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Xena RomanovaLife As A Dominatrix - Q&A With Matthias BlackSend us a textYou can find Matthias on Fetlife : SirMatthiasBlackMatthias also writes for Free The Kink, found at www.freethekink.comSupport the show
2024-02-2721 min
Xena RomanovaLife As A Dominatrix - Q&A With Dahlia KakeSend us a textEnjoy this 50 minute conversation with Mistress Xena & Dahlia Kake.Discussing: Polyamory, The BDSM Lifestyle, The Swinger Community, and much more. You can find Dahlia on Fetlife at : https://fetlife.com/users/18134620?sp=1Support the show
2024-02-2049 min
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Xena RomanovaLife As A Dominatrix : My Advice For You !Send us a textEscapismForms of positive escapism. Going to the movies, attending a concert, seeing live plays, trying out floatation tanks, attending a workout class, trying out a BDSM scene with an experienced player, taking a mini-retreat, going on a vacation.Negative escapism: Turning to substances (i.e. drugs and alcohol). Word of advice: Don't do it ! It's not worth it.DatingPut yourself out there. Give a dating app a shot. Or, strike up a conversation in person. Don't give up. And if you enjoy being single? More p...
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Xena RomanovaLife As A Dominatrix - Q&A With Domina Pari SoltaniSend us a textLife As A Dominatrix - Q&A With Domina Pari Soltani - of ChicagoDomina Pari Soltani can be found on:IG: saffronbarbie / Chat online with Domina Pari on Sextpanther & Niteflirtand you may find Domina Pari on Tryst: tryst.link/bdsm/pari-soltaniSupport the show
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Xena RomanovaLife As A Dominatrix - Random TopicsSend us a textThis episode: A whole lotta topics.I have a lot to get off of My chest.Topics discussed in this episode:A big thank youSession storyEventsSpicing it upThe crushAssistanceGrieving (note: I meant to say 'personal', not 'personable')Support the show
2023-05-2338 min
Xena RomanovaLife as a Dominatrix - It's Q&A Time (part 6)Send us a textMistress Xena answers your questions for this episode.1 What are my musical influences2 Describe individuality3 What are your fetishes4 What are some good traits you look for in a newbie5 Describe self care6 Why NYCThe audio cut at 31 minutes.I just want to say thank you again for the birthday wishes!Also, both Chicago and NYC are great cities. And if you've never been to either city, don't get discouraged.Support the show
2023-05-0931 min
Xena RomanovaLife As A Dominatrix - Men and FeminintySend us a textXena discusses Men and FeminintyDiscusses personal storiesFemininity in men refers to someone who possesses traits that would be considered more feminine than masculine.Enjoy this 35 minute episode.Support the show
2023-05-0235 min
Xena RomanovaLife As A Dominatrix - Promotions - Upcoming ShowsSend us a textXena discusses upcoming shows she will be hosting in NYC.Show dates:May 5thMay 6thMay 12thand there will be more !Learn about the shows when you follow Xena on social media !IG: xenaromanovaTwitter: xenaromanovanycSupport the show
2023-04-1830 min
Xena RomanovaLife As A Dominatrix - MasturbationSend us a textXena talks: MasturbationIt's good for the mind and the body.There are so many benefits to masturbation. Hear all the benefits in this episode today!Support the show
2023-04-1120 min
Xena RomanovaLife As A Dominatrix - 2nd Ave ChroniclesSend us a textXena talks "Public Masturbating: DON'T DO IT"This incident is what Xena witnessed while waiting for the F train.We'll also call it: 2nd Ave ChroniclesSupport the show
2023-04-0425 min
Xena RomanovaLife As A Dominatrix - Storytime (part 5)Send us a textMany more stories are found in My Book,"Xena: Life As A Dominatrix" found on Amazon.This particular story time, I discuss: 30 tips for the slavesNote: Meant to say : Chapter 9The tips are all in Chapter 9.Support the show
2023-03-2830 min
Xena RomanovaLife As A Dominatrix - Chastity TrainingSend us a textXena talks Chastity Training:::Why are people into Chastity Training?What is Chastity Training?Scenes Involved in Chastity Training.Safety TipsWhich ones to ChooseStorytimeClipsSupport the show
2023-03-2125 min
Xena RomanovaLife as a Dominatrix - It's Q&A Time (part 5)Send us a text Mistress Xena answers your questions for this episode.Question #1: How does one prepare for a session?Question #2: My Mistress wants me to be a sissy. What should I prepare for?Question #3: Any dating sites you recommend?Question #4: I'm not into pain. Can I still be into BDSM?Question #5: Do you host sessions in person?Question #6: Any misconceptions?Support the show
2023-01-3121 min
Xena RomanovaLife As A Dominatrix - Storytime (part 4)Send us a textMany more stories are found in My Book,"Xena: Life As A Dominatrix" found on Amazon.This particular story time, I discuss: My previous parties back in Chicago.Support the show
2023-01-2422 min
Xena RomanovaLife As A Dominatrix - Random Topics (Part 2)Send us a textMistress Xena discusses: A movie recommendationA band recommendationA book recommendationQuestion of the dayA fetish to discussStory timeandBack in the daySupport the show
2023-01-1723 min
Xena RomanovaLife As A Dominatrix - Q&A With HoodmanSend us a textMistress Xena has a Q&A with Hoodman.Questions:How or what inspired you to be Hoodman? How did you get into BDSM?How old were you when you were introduced to BDSM?What's your favorite type of content to shoot?What is your novel about? How many novels have you written?What inspired you to write novels?Check out Hoodman's novels on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/The-Surge-Series-3-book-series/dp/B0BHBQ6KJRCheck out Hoodman's videos: https://c...
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Xena RomanovaLife As A Dominatrix - Story Time (part 3)Send us a textEnjoy this 40 minute listen.Xena discusses life events in the 15th chapter in her self-published book,"Xena: Life As A Dominatrix"found on Amazon.Support the show
2022-12-1340 min
Xena RomanovaLife As A Dominatrix - Q&A With RossBoundSend us a textMistress Xena has a Q&A with RossBound. Questions:When did we meet?How did you get into bondage?What's your favorite bondage predicament?What's your most memorable scene?How many Women have tied you up?Do you enjoy tying Women up too?What advice do you have for the listeners who are bondage beginners?What's your favorite show (or movie) involving bondage?Support the show
2022-12-0632 min
Xena RomanovaLife As A Dominatrix - Discussing Balenciaga GarbageSend us a textEpisode 25:Mistress Xena discusses the controversy behind Balenciaga;They recently posted their campaign which featured children holding Bondage Teddy Bears. WTF !Support the show
2022-11-2920 min
Xena RomanovaLife As A Dominatrix - Q&A With CSend us a textMistress Xena interviews C for this podcast.Support the show
2022-11-2232 min
Xena RomanovaLife As A Dominatrix - BDSM HumorSend us a textLaughter is the best medicine.Hear some goofy jokes & hear some of Mistress Xena's personal real life stories:Stories from Her filming days with Her video company, "Bizarre Cinema."Stories from Her party hosting days in Chicago.Support the show
2022-11-1527 min
Xena RomanovaLife As A Dominatrix - Discussing IdentitySend us a textEnjoy this 32 minute listen.Xena discusses Identity.Support the show
2022-11-0832 min
Xena RomanovaLife As A Dominatrix - Story Tme (part 2)Send us a textEnjoy this 33 minute listen.Xena discusses life events in the 10th chapter in her self-published book,"Xena: Life As A Dominatrix"found on Amazon.Support the show
2022-10-1933 min
Xena RomanovaLife As A Dominatrix - Story Tme (part 1)Send us a textP.S. My throat / voice was a touch raspy in this episode.Weather change = Allergies = Boo !At any rate, Enjoy this 35 minute listen.Xena discusses life events in the first chapter in her self-published book,"Xena: Life As A Dominatrix"found on Amazon.Support the show
2022-10-1135 min
Xena RomanovaLife As A Dominatrix - WTF Is Going On ?! (part 2)Send us a textMistress Xena discussesWTF is going on ?!part 2Only My Opinions.What I've been stumbling upon...and it is mind-boggling !Support the show
2022-10-0524 min
Xena RomanovaLife As A Dominatrix - WTF Is Going On ?!Send us a textMistress Xena discussesWTF is going on ?!Support the show
2022-06-2216 min
Xena RomanovaLife as a Dominatrix - It's Q&A Time (part 4)Send us a text Mistress Xena answers your questions for this episode.Question #1 : You spoke previously about what characteristics and qualities make for a good Dom/Domme and a good Submissive. Do these qualities and approaches change at all in a relationship where the D/s aspect of it is contained only to the bedroom or play space?#2: I am having difficulty finding the right person. How does someone like myself find the right person?#3: What's your favorite type of bondage?#4: How do I get my wife to say y...
2022-05-2426 min
Xena RomanovaLife as a Dominatrix - Discussing Spicing It UpSend us a textMistress Xena discusses Spicing It Up : Specifically:Kinky Sex Shopping For Toys / LingerieDirty TalkBondageNaughty TextsForeplaySpankingVocalMasturbationRole PlayDifferent PositionsMaking A Home MovieWatching PornThreesomesRemember, it's all about SAFE, SANE, and CONSENSUAL !COMMUNICATION IS KEY !SET YOUR OWN BOUNDARIES & RESPECT BOUNDARIES, AS WELL !Support the show
2022-05-1723 min
Xena RomanovaLife as a Dominatrix - Discussing Kink (in Alphabetical Order)Send us a textIn the episode, I stated this was Episode 16.This is actually Episode 15.Mistress Xena discusses Kink, from A-Z.She reads from Her book, "Xena: Life As A Dominatrix"Podcast Length: 25 minutes.Disclaimer:Remember, it's all about SAFE, SANE, and CONSENSUAL !COMMUNICATION IS KEY !SET YOUR OWN BOUNDARIES & RESPECT BOUNDARIES, AS WELL !Support the show
2022-05-0325 min
Xena RomanovaLife as a Dominatrix - Discussing Impact PlaySend us a textMistress Xena discusses Impact Play.Specifically:Why people enjoy impact play?NecessitiesVarious ToolsWhere to / Where not to hitStories Disclaimer 1 :- I would suggest good quality bondage toys.- There are BDSM stores online which you may purchase toys.- Eat a well balanced meal and hydrate before playing.Disclaimer 2 :Remember, it's all about SAFE, SANE, and CONSENSUAL !COMMUNICATION IS KEY !SET YOUR OWN BOUNDARIES & RESPECT BOUNDARIES, AS WELL !
2022-04-2624 min
Xena RomanovaLife as a Dominatrix - It's Q&A Time (part 3)Send us a textMistress Xena answers your questions for this episode.1. What's a typical day of your life as a Dominatrix?2. How do you set aside time for yourself as well as your sessions?3. How do you keep your professional and your private life separate?4. Latex or Leather?5. Any rituals you prepare for your sessions?6. If you weren't a Dominatrix, what would you be doing?7. How has the pandemic affected you? What protocols or precautions do you take?Support the...
2022-04-1925 min
Xena RomanovaLife as a Dominatrix - Discussing The Art of BondageSend us a textMistress Xena discusses the Art of Bondage.Specifically:Why people are into Bondage?Different Bondage TechniquesDifferent Bondage SuppliesSafety and TrustAnd StoriesDisclaimer 1 :- I would suggest good quality bondage toys.- There are BDSM stores online in which you may purchase your bondage goodies.- Eat a well balanced meal and hydrate before being placed in bondage.And- ROPE DOES NOT GO AROUND THE NECK.Disclaimer 2 :Remember, it's all about SA...
2022-04-1225 min
Xena RomanovaLife as a Dominatrix - Discussing Humiliation FetishSend us a textMistress Xena discusses the Art of Humiliation.Specifically:Erotic HumiliationVerbal HumiliationPhysical HumiliationandPublic HumiliationDisclaimer: Remember, it's all about SAFE, SANE, and CONSENSUAL !COMMUNICATION IS KEY !SET YOUR OWN BOUNDARIES & RESPECT BOUNDARIES, AS WELL !Support the show
2022-04-0525 min
Xena RomanovaLife as a Dominatrix - Discussing Medical FetishismSend us a textLife as a Dominatrix - Discussing Medical FetishismMistress Xena discusses some tips on :::::Role PlayPreparationTips For CouplesandStory-TimeSupport the show
2022-03-2925 min
Xena RomanovaLife as a Dominatrix - What Makes A Good submissiveSend us a textLife as a Dominatrix - What Makes A Good submissiveThis is For Aspiring, Beginning, and Current submissives.Mistress Xena discusses some tips on :::::Positive TraitsMannerismsBoundariesBehavior Modificationand so much more !Mistress also expresses negative traits to have / what to improve on. Support the show
2022-03-2220 min
Xena RomanovaLife as a Dominatrix - It's Q&A Time (part 2)Send us a textXena answers questions from various anonymous listeners.Questions answered in this episode:::1. Do you require aftercare after sessions? If so, which forms of aftercare do you prefer?2. What makes a good slave?3. My partner and I want to get into the lifestyle. Where do we begin?4. Were you a witness to someone having sex?5. What's your opinion on online BDSM play?6. What are good characteristics for a slave / submissive starting out?7. Have you ever come out about...
2022-03-1526 min
Xena RomanovaLife as a Dominatrix - What Makes A Good DominantSend us a textLife as a Dominatrix - What Makes A Good DominantMistress Xena discusses some tips on :::::TrustCommunicationRespectIntelligenceGood Self-EsteemKindnessGood UnderstandingSharing KinksCreativitySense Of HumorChecking InSupport the show
2022-03-0820 min
Xena RomanovaLife as a Dominatrix - BDSM Essentials For Your Play RoomSend us a textXena talks BDSM Essentials for your playroom / for your toy-box ! BDSM items within your budget.Enjoy this 20 minute episode, where Xena discusses:1. Main essentials - cleaning products, rubber gloves, safety scissors.2. Bondage equipment - start out small.3. Impact play - again, start out small.4. Sensual play - what goodies to have that can spice it up in the bedroom.5. Wardrobe 6. Role-PlaySupport the show
2022-03-0120 min
Xena RomanovaLife as a Dominatrix - Oh la la LatexSend us a textXena talks latex ! Enjoy this 20 minute discussion on LATEX. Yum !A few things I forgot to mention:1. I love that latex has gone mainstream. Singers, Dancers, Actresses wear lovely latex = it inspires fans to wear latex.2. Hydration: when wearing a latex catsuit, be sure to drink plenty of water.3. Take your time slipping on latex. Do NOT rush it.4. After washing the latex in your tub, don't forget to rinse. 5. Cover your latex in corn starch when your latex is completely D...
2022-02-2219 min
Xena RomanovaLife as a Dominatrix - It's Q&A TimeSend us a textXena answers questions from various anonymous listeners.Questions answered in this episode:::Question 1: How long of a tickle session have you done?Question 2: Where can I get a good paddle?Question 3: What is the strangest fetish request you have ever received?Question 4: Am I weird for being in this lifestyle?Question 5: Are you a switch?Question 6: I am into ball busting. Will I be able to have kids if I am into ball busting?Question 7: Some of...
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Xena RomanovaLife as a Dominatrix in NYC - What A Journey !Send us a textLife as a Dominatrix in NYC - What A Journey !Listen to why I got started in this wonderful world of BDSM &some tips for newbies !Support the show
2022-02-0838 min
Xena RomanovaLife as a Dominatrix in NYC - 2021Send us a textLife as a Dominatrix in NYC - 2021Discussing: The pandemic, yet again. What life was like in NYC in the year 2021.Plus: My travel experiences to Chicago and Florida. Support the show
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Xena RomanovaLife as a Dominatrix in NYC - 2020Send us a textLife as a Dominatrix in NYC - 2020Discussing: The pandemicWhat life was like in NYC when sh*t hit the fan in March of 2020.Support the show
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