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Shameless Sex#438 Daddy Mashup: Dominance, Desire, and Daddy VibesAre you curious about the irresistible allure of daddies, dominance, and the playful power dynamics that spice up your sex life? Dive into our latest mashup episode of Shameless Sex, where we celebrate everything about the daddy universe — from nurturing to naughty, tender to commanding. This isn’t just about taboo; it’s about embracing desire in all its forms and exploring what makes your fantasies come alive.
What you’ll discover in this special episode:
The different facets of “daddy” — from caring protector to dominant force — and what they reveal about desire.
Insightful clips wit...2025-06-1749 min
Strictly Anonymous Confessions1133 - Zachary Zane is a Bisexual, Non-Monogamous, Self-Professed “Boyslut”Zachary Zane is a bisexual, non-monogamous self-professed "boyslut" and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear him discuss all the details including the open relationship he’s in now and how it’s set up, how being bisexual is interwoven into being non-monogmay for him, how and why he was in denial about his bisexuality early on and how he eventually came to terms with it, where and how he first started explored with guys, when he came out as bisexual to his parents, how and when he realized he was non-monogamous, the first guy...2025-06-041h 04
Girl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesWild Breakup Stories: Suzannah and ZacharySuzannah Weiss had a psychic reading that made her wonder if the sex mishap she and her soon-to-be ex experienced was predestined. Zachary Zane went through a breakup that changed his approach to relationships. His next one brought heartache in a shocking way. Suzannah’s’ books: https://suzannahweiss.com/book Zachary’s book: https://www.zacharyzane.com/books Check out the latest specials at thepleasurechest.com! IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TT:: @augustmclaughlin.gb augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner patreon.com/girlboner Get free shipping at Crav...2025-05-2833 min
First WitnessesFaith with Fathers with Fr. ZaneJoin Fr. Zane Langenbrunner to hear how his family life shaped his vocation and how he is living his priestly ministry now!2025-05-2138 min
In Bed With Alexa: Have Better SexHow to Suck Dick Like a Pro (ft. Zachary Zane)Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) sits down with bisexual writer, sex expert, and chaos king Zachary Zane for a juicy episode all about how to suck dick like a pro. Whether you’re a total beginner, looking to level up your skills, or just love talking about pleasure—we’ve got you covered.Zach shares his most helpful tips, wildest stories, and hard-earned wisdom from both personal and professional experience. We talk technique, confidence, communication, and why good oral isn’t just about what your mouth is doing—but also how present, excited, and connected you are.In this...2025-04-1758 min
Confidently Insecureemotionally horny book club 📚PUT ON THOSE GLASSES AND OPEN UP THOSE PAGES! We're introducing the 'Emotionally Horny Book Club', where we discuss three books that explore themes of sexuality, dating, and emotional health! THE BIG THREE THAT MATTER! Kelsey dives into the narratives of 'Boy Slut' by Zachary Zane, 'How to Date Men When You Hate Men' by Blythe Robertson, and 'Open Deeply' by Kate Laurie, offering insights and saucy personal reflections on each. Chapters00:00 Welcome to the New Studio!03:27 Exciting Film Premiere in Miami06:46 Reflections on Art...2025-04-0748 min
Free Sex042 - Tone shift - Zachary ZaneAre sex-positive people too self-righteous?My guest in this episode is Zachary Zane, a writer whose work focuses on sex and, well, his own experiences as a bisexual slut. Zach literally wrote the book on being a Boyslut.Zach came on Free Sex to talk about how writers like him (and me), and anyone else talking about sex politics, can improve how we talk about sex. If we are hoping to build a world of free sex, we need to share information about sex in a way that doesn’t alienate people or ‘call...2025-03-1743 min
Seggs Talk Radio36 - Zachary Zane: Male Bisexuality & LTRsIn this episode of Seggs Talk Radio, Thea welcomes guest Zachary Zane to dive into themes of polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, and bisexuality. Zane reflects on his personal journey, discussing how he used non-monogamy to avoid emotional investment and his experiences at swinger and bisexual events. He addresses societal stigmas around male bisexuality, his evolution in relationships, and moving from polyamory to an open relationship with his current partner. Zachary also talks about his upcoming book projects, his transition from writing personal narratives to fiction, and shares insights into his mental health journey, including his use of somatic therapy. Throughout...2024-12-201h 08
VTVThe BoySl*t Zachary ZaneIn this sizzling episode of VTV, we're joined by author and sex columnist Zachary Zane for an unfiltered conversation about love, lust, and everything in between. From the nuances of polyamory to the complexities of bisexuality, we dive deep into topics that challenge traditional views on sex and relationships. Zachary shares his personal experiences, insightful wisdom, and bold perspectives, making this an episode you won’t want to miss. Whether you're curious about non-monogamy, exploring your sexuality, or simply looking for a spicy conversation, this one’s for you! Tune in for a no-holds-barred discussion about...2024-12-1643 min
The Bleeders: about book writing & publishingZachary Zane on the Book Proposal for "Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto" & How He Built His Writer PlatformWelcome, writers and book lovers. The Bleeders is a podcast about book writing and publishing. Make sure you subscribe to the companion Substack: https://thebleeders.substack.com/welcomeToday's guest is Zachary Zane, author of Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto. Follow Zachary on Instagram @zacharyzane_ and Twitter @ZacharyZane_.>>> Watch the full interview with Zach on YouTube: https://youtu.be/7_qeIcK1N7g?si=j7EN2zy3y6dnxCxa The Bleeders is hosted by Courtney Kocak. Follow her on Twitter and Instagram @courtneykocak. For more, check out her website courtneykocak.com.Courtney is...2024-12-0908 min
Tell Me Something Messy with Brandon Kyle GoodmanFind Your Coven Of Doms w/ Zachary ZaneColumnist and sexual-health-advocate Zachary Zane joins Brandon to share some hilarious messy stories that raise a few really interesting questions about sexual freedom. Then, a question from the community sparks a full discussion on sex party etiquette. https://www.zacharyzane.com/articles https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00GRQKOF2/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1 Find Zach on IG @ZacharyZane_ Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gma...2024-11-2155 min
The Pineapple Express: A Millennial’s Guide to Love, Sex Positivity, Non-Monogamy, Polyamory & Swinging87: Male Bisexuality And It's Evolution In Non Monogamy with "Boyslut" Zachary ZaneSend us a textGet ready for an eye-opening and no-holds-barred conversation on this episode of The Pineapple Express Podcast! We’re joined by Zachary Zane—an acclaimed writer, and the brilliant mind behind Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto. We talk all things evolutionary, including the evolution of male bisexuality in the world of swinging and non-monogamy.Zachary shares personal stories and insights on what it’s like to navigate bisexual identity as a man, breaking down outdated stigmas and discussing how the swinging community is becoming more inclusive. We talk openly about the challenges and tr...2024-11-011h 10
I Could Never...In Too DeepThe Boyslut, Zachary Zane, dishes on diving into the deep end with non-monogamy, how he's scaled back romance responsibly and why he loves the label of bisexual slut.
"I Could Never..." is a Chill Polyamory podcast. For more info and episode transcripts: https://www.chillpolyamory.com/icouldnever
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Cover Artwork by Anni Jyn - @annijyn ...2024-09-1946 min
Big Dating EnergyFirst Kiss, First Time, First Sex PartyThis week is all about firsts! Ely Kreimendahl, Dan Savage and Zachary Zane share their best first time stories. Jeff shares a few firsts of his own, too. From first kisses, to first sex parties, there are so many memorable first times in this one.Listen to Jeff's podcast Problem Solved here: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/Order your copy of Big Dating Energy Available now!Follow Ely Kreimendahl on Instagram: @elykreimendahlSubscribe to Ely’s SubstackRead Dan Savage's column, listen to Savage Lovecast, learn more about the HUMP! Festival and more here.Follow Zachary Zane on In...2024-07-1849 min
Sex Ed with TimS4: E18 - BOYSLUT with Zachary ZaneColumnist, author, tall bisexual. Zachary Zane from Men's Health Magazine has got it all. And he's here to talk about his new book, "Boyslut" to recount all of the shenanigans and trouble that slutdom has led him to. Tim gets hot under the collar. Boy is flustered in the presence of sexiness.Website______________________________________________________________________________Use code SEXEDWITHTIM for awesome discounts!Get 15% all regular-priced items off when you shop at Love ShopKink closet need a glow-up? Head to dalekuda.com for 25% off your entire purchase plus free shipping.2024-07-111h 00
Wild & SublimeZachary Zane is a BOYSLUT! [Rebroadcast]Send us a textIn this lively interview with bisexual mega influencer and Men’s Health columnist Zachary Zane, he discusses Boyslut, his recent book, now in paperback, that chronicles his sexual journey, as well as how to live a more shame-free, sex-positive life. [Rebroadcast]Get tix to our Chicago Pride Show on Friday, June 28, 8pm!Help us continue to spread the message of sex-positivity! Leave a tip for our work or join our monthly Patreon members’ club!In this episode:Zachary Zane - author and sex columnist Boyslut, the book...2024-06-1357 min
The Unity ProjectZachary Zane || Boyslut, OCD, PolyamoryAuthor of the amazing memoir, Boyslut, and sex and relationship columnist Zachary Zane joined me on the podcast this week to talk about allllll the things. We talked about bisexuality, navigating polyamory, the importance of therapy and medication, and how he developed a healthy relationship with his body along the way.
I first came across Zach when I was working a slow morning at my local bookstore. I was sipping a coffee, shelving all the new releases of the week, minding my own business, then BAM. I saw Boyslut on the shelving cart and instantly had to...2024-06-1059 min
Directionally ChallengedREPLAY: Boyslut with Zachary ZaneOriginal Air Date: May 22, 2023Kayla is joined by sex activist, columnist, and author Zachary Zane to discuss his personal journey in healing from sexual shame and living with OCD as a bisexual man. If you’re ready to get out of your comfort zone and also have some laughs along the way, listen in to expand not just your mind but vocabulary to unpack social stigmas surrounding sexual desire. Follow ZachZach’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zacharyzane_/?hl=enCheck out “Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto”: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/boyslut-z...2024-06-0345 minBig Dating EnergyLetting Go of Sexual Shame with Zachary ZaneThis week on Big Dating Energy, Jeff welcomes Zachary Zane to the podcast. Zachary wears many hats–columnist, author, speaker, and sex expert. His book Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto offers a vulnerable and informative exploration of sexuality, societal norms, and serves as a call to everyone let go of sexual shame. He is also the founder and editor-in-chief of Boyslut Zine. With columns in Men’s Health and Cosmopolitan, Zachary encourages readers to understand and embrace who they really are, free from all those pesky societal messages. He’s also just a really thoughtful person and a great storyt...2024-05-0952 min
Girls Gone Deep066: Guys Gone Deep on Prostate Play, Squirt Juice Facials, Spit Play and Latex Fetish feat. Zachary Zane and The BuilderIn today’s episode, Elle and Vee bring back two male guest for a GUYS GONE DEEP edition to play WHOREible Life the game.First up, Zachary Zane @zacharyzane_ :from Episode 057: Bisexuality with Boyslut Author Zachary Zane: Shameless Sexuality, The Importance of Visibility, and Living Your Best Slutty Life! Then, The Builder:from Episode 012: Guys Gone Deep: The Builder and M on Double Penetration, Short Men, and Friendships in the Lifestyle and mentioned in multiple other episodes! Fucking yourself in the ass...2024-04-111h 10
Sex Ed with DB: smart, science-backed sex educationBEST OF: LGBTQ+ STORIESIn this minisode, hear snippets from some of our fav queer trailblazers. Zachary Zane reminds us that yes--you ARE bi enough, while Jamie and Shaaba share their experiences of finding radical support through sharing their queer journeys online Hear the full episodes: Coming Out As Bisexual with "Boyslut" Author, Zachary Zane Sharing Your LGBTQ+ Journey with The World with YouTubers, Jamie Raines PhD (@Jammidodger) and Shaaba Raines PhD (@Shaaba) 2024-03-2021 minGirls Gone Deep057: Bisexuality with Boyslut Author Zachary Zane: Shameless Sexuality, The Importance of Visibility, and Living Your Best Slutty Life!In this episode, Vee and Elle go deep with Zachary Zane on everything from coming out as bisexual to overcoming shame, the importance of community and the nerdiness of polyamorous people. Being “closeted” as a sex positive swinger. (3:42)Pansexual vs bisexual. (7:12)From sexually confused to "The Bisexual Mega Influencer." (13:13)Bisexual visibility/audibility. (18:46)Untangling anal stigmas - can you be seen as masculine AND enjoy anal play? (23:44)Common myths or misrepresentations of bisexuals. (27:28)Overc...2024-02-081h 06
Self-Growth Nerds156. Authentic Sexual ExpressionUnshaming and celebrating our sexuality is an essential step toward self-acceptance. In this deeply personal episode, I share my story of sexual liberation while also exploring the societal pressures that often repress sexual expression and how overcoming these can lead to personal growth and fulfillment. We dive into 3 books that helped me shift my limited perspectives and own my true desires — "Sex Outside the Lines" by Chris Donaghue, "Boyslut" by Zachary Zane, and "Pleasure Activism" by Adrienne Maree Brown.
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📚Books:
Unbound, by Kasia Urbaniak
Sex Outside the Lines, by Chris Donagh...2024-02-0542 minIn Bed With Alexa: Have Better SexBisexuality, throat-fucking & unique anal tips (ft. Zachary Zane)In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined once more by the fabulous Zachary Zane, we're diving deep into these taboo topics with humor, honesty, and a whole lot of sass. From breaking down bisexual stereotypes to exploring the dynamics of throat-fucing, expert anal tips and navigating the complexities of unprotected sex, this episode is a rollercoaster of exploration and revelation.
A special thank you to our incredible sponsor, Beducated, for supporting "In Bed With Alexa." Beducated is committed to empowering individuals on their sexual wellness journey with expert-led courses that foster intimacy, communication, and pleasure. Thank you, B...2023-12-3153 minIn Bed With Alexa: Have Better SexWE WENT TO A SEX RESORT (ft. Zachary Zane)In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Zachary Zane, sex columnist and author of Boyslut: a Memoir and Manifesto. Zach and I spill the tea and take you behind the scenes of our wild adventure at Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica —expect all the fun, frolics, and a few surprises! Join the laughter as we dish on everything we got up to, and share our thoughts on who these spaces are perfect for (or maybe not so much). Discover why being surrounded by an amazing community of bisexual folks made this experience so unforgettable.
A special tha...2023-12-2240 min
Gays ReadingZachary Zane (Boyslut) on Sex, Sexuality, and Sexual Expression, among other thingsJason and Brett talk to sexpert Zachary Zane (Boyslut) about bisexuality, kinks, overcoming shame, and the importance of talking openly and honestly about sexual expression in its many forms. In case the title of the episode doesn't make it clear: sex comes up a lot in this episode. Zachary Zane is a Brooklyn-based columnist, sex expert, and activist whose work focuses on sexuality, culture, and the LGBTQ+ community. He is the author of Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto. He’s also the coauthor of Men’s Health: Best. Sex. Ever...2023-11-2158 min