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The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#203 What If You Built Your Career Around Feeling Aligned?
Rick Kahler sits down with Joetta Johnson to explore how designing a career around how you want your life to feel can lead to deeper fulfillment and authenticity. From her early days at Deloitte to becoming a pioneer in conscious financial coaching, Joetta’s story is a powerful reminder that clarity doesn’t always start with a job title—it starts with values. This inspiring conversation dives into how aligning your work with your inner life can reshape your relationship with money, purpose, and the path ahead.#CareerDesign, #FinancialWellness, #MoneyAndMeaning, #JoettaJohnson, #ConsciousFinance, #LifeAlignment, #FinancialTherapy, #PurposeDrivenCareer, #MoneyMindset, #RickKahler
2025-08-12
28 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#202 Why Financial Breakthroughs Fade—And How to Make Them Stick
Have you ever had a breakthrough about money that felt like it changed everything—only to find yourself slipping right back into the same patterns days later? You’re not alone. In this video, Rick Kahler shares why those “aha” moments don’t always stick and what the latest brain science reveals about making lasting change. Drawing on insights from Unlocking the Emotional Brain, Rick explains how memory reconsolidation works and why slowing down after a breakthrough can help your brain actually rewrite old emotional money stories. Whether you tend to overspend, avoid financial conversations, or get stuck in anxiety, t...
2025-07-29
28 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#201 Creating Brave Spaces and Celebrating Big Hearts
Rick Kahler and Partha Iyengar dive into a heartfelt conversation about creating brave spaces to explore money, culture, and personal growth. From Mumbai to the world, Partha shares powerful insights about financial freedom, the contradictions in money worship, and the emotional stories that shape our financial behaviors. With passion, a big heart, and boundless energy, Partha inspires us to think deeper about the role of money in our lives and how understanding our money scripts can lead to true independence and security. A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions t...
2025-07-15
28 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#198 - Why Most Financial Planners Aren’t Equipped to Help Couples—And How to Find One
Merging finances as a couple isn’t just about numbers—it’s about navigating emotions, values, and long-held money beliefs. Many financial planners aren’t trained to handle the dynamics of couples’ financial decision-making, which can lead to unresolved conflicts and misaligned goals. But some advisors are embracing skills from financial therapy and conflict resolution to better support couples in making shared financial choices. Rick Kahler shares insights from his own journey, including training designed for couples therapists, to help couples find an advisor who truly understands their unique challenges. The right planner can help both partners feel heard, reduce mon...
2025-06-03
28 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#197 When Economic Fundamentals Shift - Financial Therapy Without a Map
In this sobering yet grounding episode, Rick Kahler explores what it means to be a financial planner—and a human being—when the economic and social fundamentals we've long relied on begin to feel unstable. From tariffs and a declining dollar to fractured alliances and shifting client fears, Rick unpacks how historical echoes and present-day signals are asking us to lead differently. This isn’t about panic—it’s about presence. He offers a powerful blend of financial insight and emotional guidance, reminding listeners that amid uncertainty, leadership begins with calm, connection, and courageous honesty.A podcast th...
2025-05-20
26 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#193 - Why Your Money Struggles Are Rooted in Self-Talk (and How to Fix It)
Ever feel torn between saving and spending? That internal dialogue reveals so much more than you think! Rick Kahler explores how Internal Family Systems Therapy (IFS) can transform your relationship with money. By understanding the “parts” of you—like the risk-taker, the cautious planner, and even the inner child—you can uncover the stories behind your financial decisions and start healing old patterns. This compassionate, curiosity-driven approach can help you move from financial conflict to balance. Are you ready to explore your inner financial boardroom?A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the...
2025-03-25
28 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#192 - Your “Last Love Letter” – One Thing Your Kids Want to Hear From You
What’s the one thing you’ve always longed to hear from your parents? Gayle Colman suggests it’s not advice or instructions but something much deeper—a simple acknowledgment of love and connection. In this conversation, Rick Kahler explores the idea of “last love letters,” a powerful practice that goes beyond estate planning to nurture relationships and create a lasting emotional legacy. These letters capture what truly matters: the love and appreciation we often leave unspoken. Why wait to share these heartfelt words? Learn how to begin writing your own letter and why starting today can transform your relationships...
2025-03-11
30 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#191 - The Nine Enneagram Types Walk Into a Restaurant - Who Pays the Bill
When the check arrives at a group dinner, the reactions can be as varied as the personalities at the table. Rick Kahler and Enneagram expert Joan Ryan explore how different types approach this everyday financial moment. Whether it’s a Type Two offering to pay to foster connection, a Type Five calculating their exact share, or a Type Seven suggesting “Let’s split it and move on,” these responses reveal our deeper money motivations. Learn how to navigate these dynamics with empathy and awareness—and transform financial interactions into opportunities for growth.A podcast that blends the nuts a...
2025-02-25
30 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#190 - Saving, Spending, and Security - How Enneagram Patterns Explain Financial Behavior
Why do some people save every penny while others spend like there’s no tomorrow? The answer may lie in your Enneagram type. Rick Kahler and Enneagram expert Joan Ryan unpack the emotional drivers behind our financial habits, from the cautious saving of Type Sixes to the thrill-seeking spending of Type Sevens. This episode highlights how understanding your personality can transform the way you approach money—whether you’re battling inner conflict about saving or navigating the emotional pulls of spending. Discover how to align your habits with what truly matters to you.A podcast that blends...
2025-02-11
26 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#189 - Money Scripts and Enneagram Types: Understanding Your Financial Behaviors
Our financial choices aren’t just about dollars and cents—they’re shaped by the stories we believe about money, called money scripts. In this video, Rick Kahler explores how these scripts, passed down through generations, influence everything from saving to spending. Joined by Enneagram expert Joan Ryan, the conversation delves into how personality types add a fascinating layer to our financial habits. Whether you're a Type Three overspending to impress or a Type Nine avoiding budgets to keep the peace, understanding these patterns is key to rewriting your financial story. Awareness is the first step to lasting change!
2025-01-28
30 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#188 - Who's Really Running Your Finances? Meet Your Inner Money Managers
Rick Kahler uses a vivid boardroom metaphor to show how clashing internal financial parts of you, like a strict Project Manager, cautious Risk Manager, and bold Entrepreneur—can create chaos in your financial life. Without your calm, capable CEO (the Self) leading, these parts clash, leading to stress and indecision. This episode explores how to identify these financial “managers,” understand their roles, and unblend from their extreme behaviors. By unlocking the Self, you can harmonize these parts, making thoughtful, balanced money decisions and reclaiming leadership of your financial life."A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts...
2025-01-14
27 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#187 - The Intersection of IFS and Coaching - Transforming Financial Planning with Saundra Davis
Rick Kahler is joined by Saundra Davis, a leader in financial coaching and the director of Golden Gate University’s Financial Planning Program, to explore how Internal Family Systems (IFS) and coaching are revolutionizing the financial planning profession. Saundra shares her inspiring journey from traditional financial planning to a behavior-focused approach, offering practical insights on using IFS and coaching to help clients align money decisions with their values. Learn how these innovative tools empower both professionals and clients to heal money wounds, create new financial narratives, and transform their relationships with money.A podcast that blends th...
2024-12-31
29 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#118 – Exploring the Psychology of Compulsive Financial Behaviors
Compulsive behaviors are often due to an individual’s need to self-medicate unresolved wounds. Deb Kaplan and Rick Kahler explore the psychology of compulsive financial behaviors through the lens of Internal Family Systems (IFS). IFS focuses on a person's internal “parts” and “Self.” Partners can apply IFS to understand themselves and heal their coupleship's money conflicts.A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions that drive making them.Rick Kahler, CFP®, CFT-I™, has helped people make better money decisions by integrating financial planning. He blends the nuts and bolts of fina...
2023-08-01
30 min
Elizabeth Robins Diary Podcast
When Literature Became a Weapon
In the battle for women’s suffrage, Elizabeth and some friends formed the Women Writers Suffrage League. Their weapon? The pen. Over the next decade the group would flood the market with suffrage literature of all types such as plays, novels, editorials, and poetry. How did they come up with this strategy? And more importantly, did it work? Elizabeth’s play Votes for Women! Elizabeth’s novel The Convert Elizabeth’s essays Way Stations Suffrage Collection Treacherous Texts Virginia Woolf’s Night and Day Want more...
2023-05-17
18 min
Elizabeth Robins Diary Podcast
Why Does Elizabeth Robins Get Her Own Podcast?
Let us start this journey with the question everyone is dying to know the answer to– Why does Elizabeth Robins get her own podcast? Today we start the series off with special guest expert Joanne Gates as she joins Natalie to help introduce you to Elizabeth. In this episode, we explore a diary entry from March 18, 1895. Saddle up for this extraordinary ride in a special double length episode! Read Dr. Gates’ compelling biography, Elizabeth Robins, 1862–1952: Actress, Novelist, Feminist Elizabeth Robins Web Elizabeth depicted in a graphic novel Want more? Connect with us at...
2023-05-17
51 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#102 - Talking Couples Therapy, IFIO, IFS and Narcissism
Join a conversation on couples therapy with an emphasis on IFIO, IFS, and Narcissism with a former GGU student Louis Wellmeier, a former attorney whose role was adversarial, to an integrated financial planner whose role is to collaborate with his clients to make their lives better. The session was taped as a part of my monthly “Talking Financial Therapy with Rick Kahler” office hours session. If you would like to join a free session with "Talking Financial Therapy with Rick Kahler", check out https://advanced-wellbeing.com/events/A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts...
2023-04-11
25 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#92 – Money Scripts 2.0 - Part A
The concept of Money Scripts was coined by Drs. Ted and Brad Klontz and Rick Kahler in 2005 and first appeared in Conscious Finance – Uncover Your Hidden Money Beliefs and Transform the Role of Money in Your Life, co-authored by Rick Kahler and Kathleen Fox. They have become common language in describing the underlying thoughts and beliefs a person has about money, that drive financial behaviors. In this podcast, Rick updates listeners on his latest thinking of how money scripts form that differs from the original teaching. A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advic...
2023-01-31
28 min
Kahler and Khan
Go Trick or Treating
In this episode Kahler and Khan are exploring the history of HalloweenThings we discussed in this episode About Kahler and KhanWe are Kahler and Khan - your hosts as we explore the historical, scientific, and social roots that underlie the everyday world around us. Even the simplest of things, like the word "Wednesday" have deep roots that lie beneath their seeming mundanity. We believe that exploring and learning about these deeper roots awakens us to the beauty hiding around us and reinforces our common humanity.
2022-10-30
28 min
Kahler and Khan
Kan't Spel
In this episode Kahler and Khan are exploring the puzzling and difficult to master English language!Things we discussed in this episodeThe historical events that make spelling in the English language so difficult. The history underlying some of the curious conventions in the English language.why our names of the week are different from the Romance languages' names (or are they??)About Kahler and KhanWe are Kahler and Khan - your hosts as we explore the historical, scientific, and social roots that underlie the everyday...
2022-07-16
27 min
Kahler and Khan
Kahler and Khan: speak
Have you ever wondered why Spanish, Italian, and French seem to draw from a very similar pool of words? Where did these languages come from? And what are the benefits of being multi-lingual? These are the questions Kahler and Khan will be diving into during this episode. Things we discussed in this episodeWhy Study a Foreign Language?Language enrollment dataThe Root of All Human Languages - angmohdan.comA language family tree - in pictures | Education | The GuardianAbout Kahler and KhanWe are Kahler and Khan - your hosts as we...
2022-05-23
32 min
Kahler and Khan
Kahler and Khan Have Gas(oline)
Welcome to Kahler and Khan High gas prices have you down? Join Kahler and Khan as we explore the causes of the price surge, and strategies you can use to combat those rising prices. Check out the resources linked in the show notes for more information on this episode's subject.
2022-04-16
32 min
Kahler and Khan
Kahler and Khan Make an Impact: Daylight Saving Part 2
00:00 - Kahler and Khan's growing influence01:41 - Senate passes permanent DST bill02:03 - More Hershey's nonsense03:55 - back to the Senate Bill04:48 - what will the House do?05:09 - we tried permanent DST in the 70s06:00 - pros and cons06:16 - disruption of circadian rhythm08:03 - what permanent DST would do to latest sunrise time10:41 - parents with children at dark bus stops in the morning weren't fans of DST in the 70s11:00 -ski industry: not a fan of...
2022-03-27
17 min
Kahler and Khan
Kahler and Khan Spring Forward
In this episode Kahler and Khan explore the history of Daylight Saving Time. They take the pulse of public and interview a few people to get their thoughts on DST, and delve into the question of if farmers are to blame for this annual chronological mayhem!
2022-03-10
36 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#44 - Oh, So Daddy Pays You
Kirsten was divorced and had primary custody of her eight-year-old son, Jack, who spent every other weekend with his father. One Friday evening when her ex-husband came to pick up their son, he handed Kirsten a piece of paper and said, "Here is your check." Jack looked up at his mother and said, "Oh, so Daddy pays you?". A divorce is more than the termination of a marriage. It’s also a major financial event that can have repercussions for many years to come. There is no greater threat to your financial wellbeing than divorce, unless you are very wea...
2022-03-01
28 min
Culture of Convenience
Episode 0055 | Open Sesame: Give Me My Password
What do Betty White and this week's episode have in common? Passwords. At Ready Training Online, password issues make up the majority of phone calls our support team receives. Passwords are great for security until they stop working or someone hacks your account. As time goes by, passwords seem to become more high maintenance, and the requirements more technical. This week, Jeff Kahler dissects passwords and discusses how to keep yourself safe online. Plus, where are passwords headed in the future? What are your thoughts on passwords and security? Visit https://www.cultureofconvenience.com/ to listen to this week's episode, a...
2022-02-22
42 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#43 - 21 Things Your Financial Therapist Wants You To Know - PART TWO
Last episode we covered the first 10 of 21 "Things your financial therapist wants you to know," by Bari Tessler, one of the early pioneers of financial therapy. I thought her points were excellent and worth repeating. Here is my take on the last 11 of them. A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions that drive making them.Rick Kahler, CFP®, CFT-I™, has helped people make better money decisions by integrating financial planning. He blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions that drive making them and share...
2022-02-22
28 min
Culture of Convenience
Episode 0054 | Give Me My Money: Discussion with DailyPay
These days, employers are pulling out all the stops when it comes to recruiting, even offering next day pay benefits. This week, Jeff Kahler interviews Jeanniey Walden, Chief Information Marketing Officer for DailyPay, a platform that gives employees access to earnings in real-time. Jeanniey fills us in on the benefits of enrolling in this new concept and answers questions like: How does it differ from payday loans? Is there a downside? Who pays for this benefit: the employee or the company? Jeanniey also explains why this option isn’t just for part-time employees. How do you feel about next day pay...
2022-02-15
32 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#42 - 21 Things Your Financial Therapist Wants You To Know - PART ONE
Bari Tessler was practicing financial therapy before most of the rest of us had ever heard the term. A psychotherapist, Bari decided to go into the bookkeeping business, quickly saw the union of psychology and money, and in 2001 began calling her work financial therapy. I met her a few years later and have been a fan of her work ever since. Last fall Bari posted two articles listing 21 "Things your financial therapist wants you to know." I thought her points were excellent and worth repeating. Here is my take on the first ten of them.A...
2022-02-15
27 min
Kahler and Khan
Kahler and Khan Fall in Love - the Valentine's Episode
Location - CVS in GreenlawnBest Candy (our opinion) - Hershey's and Cadbury'sFlowers - you're going to pay more on Valentine's Day!
2022-02-11
21 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#41 – Bari Tessler’s Journey Into Financial Therapy
Bari Tessler has spent over 20 years guiding thousands of people into happier, more empowered and refreshingly honest relationships with money. She was one of the early pioneers of financial therapy, and actually coined the term, by combining her Master’s degree in Somatic Psychology and her financial expertise in bookkeeping to create an integrated approach to deep money work. Join Bari and Rick for an insightful conversation on how Bari became a leader in the field of financial therapy.A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions that drive making the...
2022-02-08
30 min
Culture of Convenience
Episode 0052 | What the Heck is an LMS?!?
Every day, more and more people are searching for information about what is still a relatively new technology: the LMS, or learning management system. Not only do these searchers want to know what an LMS is, but they’re also wondering how to implement one at their organizations. This week, Jeff Kahler shares his knowledge about the usage and implementation of an LMS and also details the evolution of his company, Ready Training Online, and its LMS, trainingGrid™. How can RTO serve your LMS needs? Let us know! Visit https://www.cultureofconvenience.com/ to listen to this week's episode, and share...
2022-02-01
47 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#40 - What Gives Your Life Meaning?
What makes life worth living? This question is at the heart of financial life planning and financial therapy. Where do we rate financial, emotional, and physical wellbeing? A recent study by Pew Research Center, November 18, 2021, on "What Makes Life Meaningful?’ finally resolved my curiosity. The survey asked respondents from 17 developed nations to rank 17 topics for their importance in bringing meaning to their lives. What do people around the world value in life as compared to the US? The results may surprise you.A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions tha...
2022-02-01
25 min
Kahler and Khan
Kahler and Khan make New Year's Resolutions
Kahler and Khan make New Year's Resolutions and help each other keep them.
2022-01-27
15 min
Culture of Convenience
Episode 0051 | ROAD Case Conversation with John Flood
In this week's episode, we're taking you back in time to October 2021 and the NACS Show in Chicago, where Jeff Kahler and Producer Kelly interviewed John Flood of ESS. John was at NACS introducing his newest product, the MyVideo ROAD Case, an all-in-one video and production solution. The ROAD Case keeps people working, trained, and connected. Check out our interview to find out how and to see if this is the right solution for you! Visit https://www.cultureofconvenience.com/ to listen to this week's episode, and share your thoughts in the comments!
2022-01-25
27 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#39 - Money Skills Are 21st Century Survival Skills
For our ancestors, even as recently as the 19th Century in many places, survival skills were hands-on. If you didn’t know how to build a house, farm, hunt, butcher animals, sew, and cook, you couldn’t provide well for your family. Money skills were largely worthless. It’s completely different today. Providing for yourself and your family requires knowing how to earn enough money, spend wisely, save for future needs, protect your assets, maintain good credit, and build an emergency fund. More importantly, you need to be able to apply these skills. Read more here. A podcas...
2022-01-25
26 min
Culture of Convenience
Episode 0050 | Season 4 Recap: Listener Complaints and Inquiring Minds Want to Know!
We're now fifty episodes in, and it's that time again—this week, we're recapping season four. Jeff Kahler really gets his feet held to the fire in this episode as we tackle emails questioning his politics, his inventions, and even his marriage and family life! Recap episodes are our favorites, because we love to hear what you're thinking. Visit https://www.cultureofconvenience.com/ to listen to this week's episode and share your thoughts in the comments. And special thanks to all of our faithful listeners out there!
2022-01-18
51 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#38 - Getting Married - Order a Credit Report
New couples tend to be great talkers. Young love can be a wonderful time of discovery and sharing. New couples, regardless of their ages, need to get to know one another and explore the possibilities of building a life together. They discuss their histories, their philosophies of life, their goals, and their dreams. Unfortunately, one thing young couples often don’t talk about is money, their money. We talk about the cost of government programs, the cost of living, our personal taxes, and public policy on taxing the profits of businesses. What we don’t talk about is our perso...
2022-01-18
25 min
Culture of Convenience
Episode 0049 | Making a Podcast: Moms Tell All (They Know)
Culture of Convenience is one year old! To celebrate, host Jeff Kahler looks back on the journey, describing the good, the bad, and the ugly of starting a podcast. We’ll also discover what our dearest mothers know about the show. Transitioning into a new year in the podcast, in life, and in your business, we ask the question: Do you choose your fate? Or does something else pave the way for you? Weigh in on the conversation on our Facebook page! Visit https://www.cultureofconvenience.com/ to listen to this week's episode and share your thoughts in the comments!
2022-01-11
53 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#37 - Hating The Rich Will Keep You Poor
How do you feel about the rich? While most Americans feel the rich are hardworking, only 10 percent think they are honest and one-third believe they are “greedy” and “self-centered.” It makes sense that if most people have a Money Script (a belief) the payoff for hard work is dishonesty, greed, and self-centeredness, that they might not want to work very hard. Money Scripts like these can keep you poor, according to Dr. Brad Klontz. Klontz. The problem with negative Money Scripts associated with the poor is that they are only partial truths. The article noted that many beliefs about the rich base...
2022-01-11
27 min
Culture of Convenience
Episode 0048 | We need Pizza!: An Automation Tale
Running businesses and interacting with people every day are two of Jeff Kahler's favorite things, but what he loves most is making the business run as smoothly as possible. How? Through automation. Join us this week as Jeff discusses some really great automation ideas…and some really not-so-great ones. It takes creativity, ingenuity, and grit - and you have to have them if you're going to get the pizza - and the software - to the people. Do you have any good (or bad) automation experiences to share? Visit https://www.cultureofconvenience.com/ and send us a me...
2022-01-04
34 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#36 – Couples and Money 2 – Debt
It’s shocking how many engaged couples don’t have substantive discussions around disclosing their finances to each other, much less their thoughts, feelings, and beliefs around money. It's common to get married and later discover that your partner has a huge amount of credit card debt that was not disclosed. This secret often comes to light unintentionally when bill collectors start calling, money seems to be unaccounted for, or a couple can’t qualify for a mortgage. According to a study by Dave Ramsey, “the larger a couple’s debt, the more likely they were to say money is one of...
2022-01-04
26 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#35 – Couples and Money 1 – Stay at home
A reporter recently asked me how a left-brain, number-crunching financial planner ironically ended up being one of the founders of financial therapy. The answer is simple, a divorce. Few would argue that divorce is life-changing and it was no different for me. When my wife told me she wanted a divorce, my first thought was, “I am going to grow.” Granted, that’s a strange first thought when informed your spouse wants to leave you, but it turned out to be 100% right.A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions that driv...
2021-12-28
26 min
Kahler and Khan
Kahler and Khan go Christmas Shopping
Join Kahler and Khan as they brave the local mall to find the perfect Christmas gift. Along the way they ponder the challenges of starting a podcast, the origins of Christmas traditions, and if they should get on line to visit Santa. Or, if you prefer: you can fast forward past the history stuff and listen to two buffoons thinking out loud as they peruse the mall.
2021-12-21
15 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#34 – Giving Yourself The Gift of Transformation
If you had a magic wand and could change anything about yourself that would improve your financial and emotional wellbeing, what would it be? This is a hard question. I am not talking about changing your financial circumstances, winning the lottery or getting a big inheritance. I am talking about changing yourself, your behaviors, thoughts or emotions that could ultimately change your financial situation. Ebenezer Scrooge did just that with the help of some of some skillful guides.A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions that drive making them.
2021-12-21
26 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#33 – The Financial Devastation of Grey Divorce
I spend a lot of focus helping my clients protect their hard-earned assets from the reach of a frivolous lawsuit. The chance of such a lawsuit in the US is always a risk when a person with a nest egg is perceived as “rich” and someone who “could afford” to shell out big bucks to make an unfounded lawsuit go away. As devastating financially as a frivolous lawsuit may be to one’s wealth, it’s nowhere near what I consider the number-one potential destroyer of financial wealth—divorce. Learn more here.A podcast that blends the nuts and b...
2021-12-14
27 min
Culture of Convenience
Episode 0046 | Supply Chain, WTF?!?: Where’s the Freight?!?
There's no doubt we're all experiencing the effects of labor shortages and delays with the supply chain. But don't lose hope! How can the average Joe help? What small changes could the government make? This week, Jeff Kahler discusses practical steps consumers can take to get back to what's really important this holiday season. This isn't a problem that will be solved overnight, but something needs to be done! Do you have better ideas? Visit https://www.cultureofconvenience.com/ to share your thoughts!
2021-12-07
41 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#32 – What To Do When You’re Stuck
What do you do when your find yourself in a state of being financially “stuck?” Stuck is not a very professional word, but it’s an accurate description of a very familiar financial condition. According to Vocabulary.com, stuck describes something that’s frozen or fixed in one place and can’t be moved. We can become stuck in almost any financial task; earning more money, drawing a will, drawing up a health power of attorney, investing a sum of money, being financially dependent on someone, reducing living expenses, setting up a retirement plan, the list is endless. Tune in and learn h...
2021-12-07
25 min
Culture of Convenience
Episode 0045 | Stop Sucking the Air Outta the Room!
Are you an energy giver or an energy taker? It's usually easy to be nice to a perfect stranger, but how often do we remember to pause, reflect, and manage our tone when speaking to those closest to us? This week, Producer Kelly puts Jeff Kahler to the test with random scenarios - can he successfully infuse energy into the situation instead of taking it? It may not always be easy to remember, but like anything else, it will become habit with practice. How well would you react in these scenarios? Email producer@cultureofconvenience.com or visit h...
2021-11-30
46 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#31 - Talking About or Feeling Feelings
Making sound financial decisions can be the best-paying job we’ve ever had. How do we obtain the skills needed to do this job well? Since 80 to 100% of all financial decisions are made emotionally, learning something about emotions and how they affect our financial decisions can be financially lifesaving. The first step is to become aware of what we are feeling, that we have emotions. While being aware of feelings is an important first step, without a method of successfully processing those feelings, reaching objectivity may not happen. We may just continue to make poor financial decisions even though we are...
2021-11-30
25 min
Culture of Convenience
Episode 0044 | Work from Home: Excuses, Excuses, Excuses
For many organizations, working from home has become the solution for keeping employees through the pandemic, and many companies plan to continue with a work-from-home or hybrid schedule. Chances are, you or someone in your household is currently working from home. While working from home may sound good, it requires self-discipline, which is a lifelong learning experience (we aren't born this way!). This week, Jeff Kahler shares some successful work-from-home practices. He also self-evaluates to see how he measures up! What are your best work-from-home tips? Email producer@cultureofconvenience.com or visit https://www.cultureofconvenience.com/ to...
2021-11-23
42 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#30 - How To Find a Real Financial Therapist
How do you find a comprehensive financial planner and a financial therapist that competently integrates both your humanity with the dollars and cents? First, it isn’t easy even to find a comprehensive financial planner. The term ‘financial planner’ is not regulated. Anyone can hold themselves out to be a financial planner. The same is true of the term financial therapist. The burden is on the consumer to figure out if a financial planner is actually doing comprehensive financial planning and a financial therapist is actually trained in financial therapy. A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of...
2021-11-23
26 min
Culture of Convenience
Episode 0043 | We Are Living in a Virtual Whirl and I Am a Virtual Nerd
The time of paper applications is over. In this week's episode, Jeff Kahler discusses navigating a virtual workplace and the best ways companies can now recruit, interview, hire, and train employees. Jeff also decides to put his money where his mouth is with our first ever contest, and a $150 Amazon gift card is up for grabs! We want to hear from you! Enter our "Broke as a Joke" contest by telling us how you hustled to make money or get a job. Listen for more details. Then email producer@cultureofconvenience.com or visit https://www.cultureofconvenience.com...
2021-11-16
39 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#29 - The Financial Planning Underground - The Nazrudin Project
You're probably unfamiliar with The Nazrudin Project. That’s understandable. They don’t have a website. There is no organization. They don’t have leaders. The Nazrudin Project is often described as a leaderless, eclectic, and holistic group of financial life planners, therapists, authors, educators, and coaches. So why should you care? Why a podcast on this group? To let you know there are financial professionals passionate about the heart and soul of helping people make good financial and life decisions. If your financial planner, therapist, or coach is a member of the Nazrudin Project, you are probably in good h...
2021-11-16
27 min
UnYielded: Thriving No Matter What
Resistance Doesn't Mean Stop
We all are born with greatness and creativity within ourselves. Although we might believe that it fades away with time, that does not mean we have to give up. Today, my guest is someone who challenges himself to get out there and serve the world in the best way he thinks he can. He started his first business at the age of 10 by selling used golf balls in his neighborhood. He is the creator of PodMatch, a website that helps podcasters and guests to find each other, which he started when COVID hit in March 2020. Alex Sanfilippo, a writer...
2021-11-10
41 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#28 – The Emotional Challenges of Leaving Money to a Spendthrift Heir
Perhaps the most common reason for wanting to control a legacy is a spendthrift heir. Giving a chronic over spender an inheritance in hope that it will help change their money behavior is almost always magical thinking. Most lump sum inheritances disappear within a few years in the control of an over spender. Does it make sense to leave inheritances with strings attached? My typical answer is “it depends.” It’s natural to want your legacy to be used wisely but trying to control from beyond the grave can have unintended consequences. Read more here. A podcast...
2021-11-09
25 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#27 – Change Money Behaviors With These Financial Therapy Tools
When someone in this position calls me for help in changing a hurtful financial behavior, I struggle with the next question: So what does a person do? What are the next steps? Typically, I explain that the solution does not lie in knowing more information, but in understanding the emotional baggage that underlies the behavior. The best thing to do is call a financial therapist. The next best thing is to employ some of the tools used by a financial therapist to begin to understand your interior financial landscape. Read more here. A podcast that blends t...
2021-11-02
26 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#26 - Eight Sources of Financial Trauma
Financial Trauma are money-related occurrences that, either as single extreme events or chronic patterns, can overwhelm a person and become traumatic. Some emotional signs of financial trauma are depression, ambivalence, regularly reliving the original event, anger, mood swings, overeating, trouble concentrating, chronic fear, shame, and anger. Emotional trauma can develop around eight general types of money events: giving, receiving, spending, saving, loaning, borrowing, earning, and taking. Typically, if you feel a sense of shame around any of these, there may be some past financial trauma. Read more here. A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts o...
2021-10-26
25 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#25 - Ignoring the Emotional Aspects of Retirement
One of my retired clients is fond of telling me, “Growing old is not for the faint of heart.” As we age, it becomes increasingly important for us to have a support system that will advocate for us, or “have our back.” Putting such a support system in place doesn’t just happen; it takes time, money, and intentionality. I know far too many people who have no one looking after their emotional, physical, or financial wellbeing as they go through retirement. Many struggle through their retirement unnecessarily because of the lack of past financial planning and the impact of poor fi...
2021-10-19
27 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#24 – Frugality Syndrome: Making the Emotional Shift From Saving To Spending
The FIRE (Financial Independence, Retire Early) movement advocates extreme frugality in order to retire as early as age 30. The biggest challenge with the skills and discipline needed for a FIRE plan is not starting it (which isn’t necessarily easy) but stopping (which can be very difficult). Why? Like building an actual fire, building frugality into one’s lifestyle starts slowly. For some savers, especially FIRE advocates, frugality can become a way of life, a game, and a habit that’s hard to break. It can become, not the means to reach the goal of financial independence, but the goal i...
2021-10-12
23 min
UnYielded: Thriving No Matter What
The "Delusional Optimist" Mindset
Everyone has struggles. No one’s life is more challenging than anyone else’s. Besides, nobody wants and deserves to be on average. Yet, only a few know how to be great. My guest today is someone who works to build a world in which every individual sees themself as the hero of their own story, dares to turn that story into reality, and has the confidence to share it with the world. After being diagnosed with a life-shortening disease, being told that he would have a life expectancy of 30 years and never have biological children, yet by today, he h...
2021-10-06
49 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#23 - The Harmful Power of Mistaken Money Beliefs
Dick Wagner, CFP, was fond of saying that understanding money and how it works is a 21st Century survival skill. This is not an exaggeration. What you don’t know about money—as well as what you think you do know about money—has the potential to literally kill you and those you love. A comprehensive research project done by Columbia University in 2011 on the impact of social factors on mortality found that 4.5% of U.S. deaths could be attributed to poverty. Research overwhelmingly supports a huge correlation between financial illiteracy and not having enough money. Read more here.
2021-10-05
26 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#22 - “Money should be saved not spent” - Understanding the Money Vigilant
People that have money scripts like, “You should not tell others how much money you have or make,” “Money should be saved not spent,” and “I would be a nervous wreck if I did not have money saved for an emergency,” typically struggle with Money Vigilance. “Work hard, play hard” is a foreign concept to Money Vigilants. This money script category is associated with poor relationships, lack of leisure time or activities, poor sleep, anxiety, and a lack of having “fun”. If you are a Money Vigilant there is a way to have money and serenity. A podcast that blends t...
2021-09-28
26 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#21 – “Your self-worth equals your net worth”- Understanding Money Status Money Scripts
People that have money scripts like, “People are only as successful as the amount of money they earn,” “If something is not considered the ‘best,’ it is not worth buying,” or “Your self-worth equals your net worth,” typically struggle with Money Status. This money script category is often predictive of compulsive buying disorder, gambling, financial dependence, and financial infidelity. We all want to be successful. These thoughts and feelings are normal, but when left unexamined they can lead to detrimental financial outcomes. . If this is you or someone you love, listen in to learn more and tips on how you can begin to...
2021-09-21
27 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#20 – “More money would solve all of my problems” – Understanding the Money Worshiper
Do you know someone that believes that “Things would get better if I had more money,” “More money will make you happier,” and “Money would solve all of my problems.” If so, their majority of their beliefs about money may fall into a category that financial therapists call Money Worship. People with a high level of these types of money scripts are associated with being young, single, lower levels of education, income and net worth higher levels of credit card debt, and often have a range of self-defeating money behaviors. If this is you or someone you love, listen in to learn m...
2021-09-14
25 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#19 – “Money is bad. I hate it.” – Understanding the Money Avoidant's Money Scripts
Do you know someone that believes money is bad, creates anxiety, and that rich people are greedy? Do they believe that they don’t deserve money? If so, their majority of their beliefs about money may fall into a category that financial therapists call Money Avoidance. People with these types of money scripts are associated with lower levels of education, income and net worth and often have a range of self-defeating money behaviors. If this is you or someone you love, listen in to learn more and tips on how you can begin to improve this financial condition.A...
2021-09-07
23 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#18 – My Money Behaviors Are Normal (Not!)
Money scripts, those beliefs that influence every money decision we make, underly and form chronic harmful money behaviors. We’ve identified 13 harmful money behaviors that can negatively affect a person’s financial wellbeing. Learn how these behaviors form in us, typically as young children and can destroy a person’s finances. Do you have any? Listen and find out. A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions that drive making them.Rick Kahler, CFP®, CFT-I™, has helped people make better money decisions by integrating financial planning. He blends the nuts and bo...
2021-08-31
24 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#17 – Money Scripts and Emotions Can Raise Your Taxes
How much is a tax deduction worth? Maybe less than your money scripts and the emotions that drive them would have you believe. Here are some common ways that over-emphasizing deductions may reduce your tax bill, but actually cost you more money than you save. Find out how separating your money scripts and emotions from the decision to deduct or not deduct can save you thousands and pay financial and emotional well-being dividends. Read more here. A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions that drive making them.Ri...
2021-08-24
23 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#16 - Emergency Room Financial Planning - It Isn't About The Crisis
“An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.” Most of us are familiar with this tidbit of immense wisdom. That doesn’t necessarily mean we follow it when it comes to either our physical, emotional or financial health. According to a Modern Healthcare article, 60% of visits to the emergency room in 2017 were preventable. A much higher percentage of financial “emergency” scenarios could be completely avoided. These fall into two categories: those with known deadlines and those that we know will happen but don’t know when. Read more here.A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts...
2021-08-17
22 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#15 – The Emotional Cost of Being “It”
"Mom, I can't take time off work today to take you to your doctor's appointment, so I've arranged to pay for an Uber driver instead." The elderly parent's need for transportation is met. The son or daughter's obligation and desire to help is fulfilled, with the Uber expense much less than the cost and disruption of taking time off work. It's a win/win for everyone, right? Only if one could strip all the emotional history and money scripts from the individuals involved. Read more here.A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial...
2021-08-10
24 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#14 - An Emotional Landmine - Part 2 - Compensating a Family Member to be an Executor
Does the executor of an estate deserve to be compensated for that service? Absolutely. Serving as an executor is often a time-consuming, emotionally draining, and thankless task. It means taking on a part-time job. Often, executors have day jobs so the duties of being an executor happen during lunch hours, after work, and on weekends. Yet the issue of payment for an executor, especially one who is a family member, is a common source of conflict among heirs. Over 40% of wills experience family conflict, with 19% of beneficiaries perceiving misconduct by the executor. Read more here.A pod...
2021-08-03
22 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#13 - An Emotional Landmine - Serving as Executor of a Will
Whether one is named as the executor or personal representative in a will or the trustee or successor trustee for a trust, being chosen to carry out someone’s last wishes can be viewed as a high compliment. The person selected often feels so honored to be named that the response is almost always a gracious agreement. In most cases, neither party understands the huge time commitment, complexity, and liability that being an executor entail. It’s possible that, if both did, fewer people would be asked and even fewer would accept the job. Read more here.A...
2021-07-27
24 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#12 - IFS Informed Financial Therapy - Part 2
IFS Informed Financial Therapy is a powerful mechanism for change. Becoming certified in IFS Therapy is accessible to every Certified Financial Therapist, even if they don't have a graduate degree specifically in mental health counseling. IFS certification, which is a lengthy and intense process, gives the Certified Financial Therapist an evidence-based model of therapy that can enhance the financial therapy process. A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions that drive making them.Rick Kahler, CFP®, CFT-I™, has helped people make better money decisions by integrating financial planning. He blend...
2021-07-20
22 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#11 - IFS Informed Financial Therapy - Part 1
A panel presentation at the Global Wellness Summit held in November 2020 predicted several wellness trends in 2021. One that caught my attention was "A great 'un-tabooing': Wellness gets real about sex, money and death." One panelist said there is going to be "a massive and seismic cultural taboo toppling," suggesting we will see people getting "real about money with new financial therapy/wellness approaches." IFS Informed Financial Therapy is one of those approaches. A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions that drive making them.Rick Kahler, CFP®, CFT-I™, has h...
2021-07-13
27 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#10 - What Is Financial Trauma?
Have you ever had a financial shock, like a job loss, a bankruptcy, or identity theft? How about chronic financial stress around money, or continual worry and anxiety around money? All of these are deeply distressing or disturbing experiences, which is the definition of trauma. Trauma, especially financial trauma, may be much different than you think it is and it’s highly likely you’ve experienced it without knowing it.A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions that drive making them.Rick Kahler, CFP®, CFT-I™, has helped people ma...
2021-07-06
21 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#9 - Why Avoiding Financial Soothsayers Is Usually Financially and Emotionally Rewarding
Investment success requires that a person have a high tolerance for boredom, which means turning a deaf ear to the financial press’s investment panic-de-jour. It's good for your financial health to avoid following the advice of prognosticating financial soothsayers. Even when one of them is me. In May of 2020 as the pandemic was shutting down the economy, I made a firm recommendation to my clients and readers who could put off a decision to buy real estate, to wait a while before buying a new home. Anyone who acted on my advice and waited to buy residential real esta...
2021-06-29
22 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#8 - Your Money Scripts Run Your Finances
Every financial behavior makes perfect sense when we understand our underlying beliefs, our money scripts. While most money scripts form in your first decade of life, they drive your financial decisions. It’s sobering to discover a bunch of internal children are often in charge of our adult financial life! In this episode we talk about how our money scripts formed and how we can uncover the 50 – 200 that operate 24/7 touching every money decision we make. You can download a copy of the KMSI-R here. [I am not sure how to create a link to this. Maybe put it on our w...
2021-06-22
23 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#7 - Teaching Financial Literacy – Timing Is Everything
We hear a lot about financial literacy. What we don’t hear is why it usually doesn’t work. Learn the one time that financial literacy education is required. What are the three things that are usually left out of most financial literacy courses? How can you teach your kids financial skills that will be with them for life? Join Rick in this episode to learn the answer to these and other questions you may have about financial literacy. A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions that drive making them.
2021-06-15
25 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#6 – Who Tells You When Financial Advice Is Too Expensive
"If I was your financial adviser, I would tell you that engaging me is not a good deal for you." I’ve told hundreds of prospects this over my nearly 40-year career. While almost everyone would benefit from having a fee-only personal financial planner to advocate for their best interests, it’s not in everyone’s best interest to engage one, especially when they can’t afford one. While it certainly isn’t in an adviser’s own financial interest to turn away business, a true client advocate won’t hesitate to do so.A podcast that blends th...
2021-06-08
14 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#5 – Is Retirement The Time to Hire or Fire Financial Professionals
After you retire, do you still need financial planning or financial therapy? And can you afford it? The answer to the first question is clearly "yes." The answer to the second is "It depends." Ironically, if you have a fee-only financial planner who is your advocate, chances are when you retire and no longer can afford them that they will tell you to fire them before you do.Research tells us that 90% of all financial decisions are made emotionally, not logically. For nearly four decades, Rick Kahler, CFP®, CFT-I™, has helped people make better money decisions. What mak...
2021-06-01
23 min
UnYielded: Thriving No Matter What
The Truths about Your Future
In today’s episode, Bobbi Kahler talks about some of the key concepts that helped her reinvent her life path on multiple occasions. Bobbi shares three fundamental truths that’ll help you overcome the shadows of your past, build confidence in yourself, and take action to change your life path to a better direction. The future can be changed – Our past doesn't determine our future. Bobbi shares some of her experiences of consciously working to change her future.You’re the Hero – Bobbi shares her thoughts on why we don’t need someone else to be our...
2021-05-26
08 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#4 – Money Scripts: Does Financial Security Increase With Fame
A popular money script is to assume that fame, accomplishments, and excellence in one’s field equate to financial security. Like any money script, this can be true in some cases and incorrect in others. But it is interesting to me that the common attitude is that a famous or intelligent person is financially secure, until proven otherwise. This is all to often not the case...Research tells us that 90% of all financial decisions are made emotionally, not logically. For nearly four decades, Rick Kahler, CFP®, CFT-I™, has helped people make better money decisions. What makes his financ...
2021-05-25
16 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#3 – Emotions and Your Emergency Fund
For many Americans, one painful lesson of 2020 has been a first-hand demonstration of the importance of having an emergency fund. Yet knowing such a reserve matters is a far cry from creating one. Everyone “should” have one, which is precisely why many don’t. If “should” is the word you associate with creating an emergency fund, I suggest trying a different plan of attack. A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions that drive making them.Rick Kahler, CFP®, CFT-I™, has helped people make better money decisions by integrating fin...
2021-05-18
14 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#2 – What is the Well-being Business?
"What do you do for a living?" is a common question when we're introduced to someone new. If there's no time for conversation I’ll answer, "I am a financial advisor." The discussion is usually over. If the social situation allows for more of a dialogue, I’ve increasingly begun to answer, “I am a financial therapist.” This typically elicits a puzzled look and a response of, “What’s that? I have never heard of a financial therapist.” Research tells us that 90% of all financial decisions are made emotionally, not logically. For nearly four decades, Rick Kahler, CFP®, CFT-I™, h...
2021-04-27
14 min
The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money
#1 – What is Financial Therapy
Researchers tell us that about 90% of financial decisions are made in the emotional part of the brain. Financial Therapy is the intersection of the ‘nuts and bolts’ of financial planning and what we think, feel, and believe about money. This is a podcast that will explore the broad expanse of integrating sound financial decisions with the emotions that often block them. For nearly four decades, Rick Kahler, CFP®, CFT-I™, has helped people make better money decisions. Every financial behavior, whether it appears illogical to you or others, makes perfect sense when we understand the underlying beliefs, feelings, and thoug...
2021-03-12
22 min
UnYielded: Thriving No Matter What
Conversation with a Life Enthusiast - Britt Skrabanek
My guest today is one of those people whose creativity comes out in many flavors. She is a fiction author who has self-published four novels, a content strategist, and a co-founder of Superneat Marketing. She's been blogging since 2012, and last year, she launched her podcast, Love Your Enthusiasm, a podcast that helps women to pursue their greatest passion. She's also a yogi, ballet dancer, cat-mom, and life enthusiast. Let's dive into my conversation with Britt Skrabanek.Contact Britt SkrabanekWebsite: brittskrabanek.comPodcast:
2021-02-17
54 min
UnYielded: Thriving No Matter What
Discovering Embedded Choices
Bobbi Kahler describes how embedded choices, options that are invisible, can keep us stuck in a plateau or a dead end. She offers 5 ways to discover where we might be overlooking choices available to us. By recognizing new choices, we can find new ways forward and sometimes major breakthroughs.Contact Bobbi Kahlerwww.linkedin.com/in/bobbikahlerwww.unyielded.net/about/contactFollow Bobbi at: Sign up for Bobbi's free newsletter, Find Your Forward...
2021-02-10
17 min
Andrew Kahler Recordings
Andrew Kahler Recordings Trailer
My name is Andrew Kahler and these are recorded conversations with people I admire and care about so I have them available in the future. If you enjoy listening, that’s even better. Stay safe out there.
2021-01-27
00 min
UnYielded: Thriving No Matter What
How to Dismantle the Fear of Rejection
In today's episode, I want to talk about something that I see a lot in coaching: How do we dismantle the fear of rejection? It’s the new year, and we've all been busy, setting our resolutions and writing out good goals. And no matter how smart your goals are, you're not going to make the progress you really want if you have your foot on the brake.So we’re going to dive into a concept that I read in Tim Gallwey’s fabulous book, The Inner Game of Tennis. In...
2021-01-20
20 min
UnYielded: Thriving No Matter What
My New Year's Revelation
This week on the UnYielded podcast, Bobbi describes how hard work, though important, is not the only thing that matters for to change your life. At age 23, even though she was working 70 hours a week and making little progress, she felt hopeless about making her life better until she had a revelation on New Year’s Eve. This revelation and what she learned from it changed her life, and we hope this message will help some of you who are looking for hope and a way forward to change your life in 2021....
2020-12-30
20 min
UnYielded: Thriving No Matter What
Bobbi's Story and the Why of UnYielded - Bobbi Kahler with John Cerqueira
This is a special episode in which John Cerqueira interviews Bobbi Kahler about her life story and the meaning behind UnYielded. John and Bobbi have worked together at ASLAN Training & Development for over 10 years and knows some of Bobbi's story but not all. He heard from listeners of his episode that they wanted to know more about Bobbi, so he digs into some of her life experiences and how they shaped her to becoming who she is today and creating the UnYielded podcast Follow Bobbi at: Sign up for Bobbi's free newsletter, Find Your Forward a...
2020-10-21
1h 11
Kahler The Great
Playing it safe.. being the only person in a friendship being a good friend 🤷🏽♀️
It may just be me but I had to get a few things off of my mind concerning loyalty and longevity within a friendship. Not feeling valued.. or if you even care! **Tap in; share input --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kahler-hill/support
2020-08-19
07 min
UnYielded: Thriving No Matter What
UnYielded: Just Start - Bobbi Kahler
Bobbi Kahler describes one of her signature mindsets, Just Start, with several stories, examples, and methods for breaking through comfort zones to move forward on any goal, project, or journey.Follow Bobbi at: Sign up for Bobbi's free newsletter, Find Your Forward and receive her free guide: Thriving Forward: Master Your Inner Game for Greater Happiness, Well-Being and Success: https://www.bobbikahler.com/newsletterhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/bobbikahler/
2020-08-19
32 min
Kahler The Great
Family dilemma
Just a lil chit chat about acceptance and family connections... or disconnect --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kahler-hill/support
2020-08-17
13 min
Kahler The Great
Garage talk!!
Kahler the great tunes in with theee lovely Denita! Just a lil garage chat --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kahler-hill/support
2020-08-07
07 min
Kahler The Great
Anxiety/Depression
You ever felt like no one understands you, or you feeling in a dark space? You are not alone and there are people who can relate too the same issues that you are experiencing... united we stand! National Suicide hotline: 800-273-8255 --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kahler-hill/support
2020-07-06
13 min
Kahler The Great
Friendships & Loyalty
Welcome to Kahler The Great co hosted with the Lovely Denita!! Just running it one time about life friendships and past experiences.. and ways we've dealt with personal turmoil with past friends, or so called! Just venting #WeWillMakeThis #CovidRelief #StaySafe #LetsWork --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kahler-hill/support
2020-03-31
12 min
Kahler The Great
Parents Absent in the home
Good morning and Welcome to my simple Podcast Kahler the Great! I am here to fulfill you and release my thoughts.. we support positivity which is where you'll hear a few minutes of parents who are no longer together and also make it hard for the children to cope with the separation. Tell me what you think! #share --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kahler-hill/support
2020-02-28
10 min
Kahler The Great
Insight from the Males Perspective on todays episode of Men and their Boundaries
Got a little feedback from the homie! POF advocate, and his intentions upon meeting women from the sight and expectations. Stay Tuned.. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kahler-hill/support
2020-02-20
03 min
Kahler The Great
Men and their Boundaries
Hey Ya'll just gracing you today with a little girl talk, Men and boundaries or the lack of. You ever just thought a guy was for you, then turned out to be a creep? Talking about online dating, and so called expectations... So I'm not alone!? LOl Today we had a special guest with us my good girl friend Ms. Denita! Ya'll stay tuned.. give some feedback, what are somethings on your mind? --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kahler-hill/support
2020-02-20
16 min
Kahler The Great
New Beginnings; Welcome To Kahler The Great's Podcast
In this podcast we get loose we curse, we cry, we laugh and we talk about the unspeakable. Women and or men relating to topics of either your choice or picks of the day. Be unapologetic about who you are as a person. In this world you can't please everyone and you have to be for "self" sometimes and that's okay. We are all human let it out!! That's what were here for.. c'mon in There are days where you may feel that no one is listening, that no one understands what you are...
2020-01-29
02 min