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Art of ClassinessEP63: Friendfluence Era: How Online Support Is Reshaping Women’s RelationshipsIn 2026, dating and relationships for women aren’t just private anymore — they’re public, viral, and full of friendfluence on steroids. Your group chat used to be the vibe check; now it’s thousands of strangers in the comments dropping “you’re not crazy,” spotting red flags, and turning leaving a bad situation into a movement.
Robin and Deborah break down the magic (collective storytelling, contagious empowerment, “girl, same” moments) and the mess (absolute advice, surveillance pressure, blurred support vs. judgment). We share relatable stories, debate classy vs. crass online dynamics, and talk about healthy ways to take the wisdom wi...
2026-01-2149 minArt of ClassinessEP62: From Blind Dates to First Texts: Adult Friendships Are Basically DatingEver notice how making new friends as a grown woman feels exactly like dating — minus the romance? From the awkward first coffee “dates” and overthinking texts to the slow fades and quiet ghosting, adult friendship is full of the same vulnerability, hope, and second-guessing we know all too well.
In this episode, Robin and Deborah break down why finding your people feels harder now, how it mirrors dating at every stage (mindset, exposure, follow-ups, red flags), and the practical, classy ways to put yourself out there without losing your mind.
Whether you’re quietly craving deeper c...
2026-01-1450 minArt of ClassinessEP61: Would You Rather? DilemmasGet ready for the most unhinged game of Would You Rather we’ve ever played. Robin and Deborah dive into high-stakes, scream-laugh dilemmas that range from gross body betrayals (sneezing glitter vs. crying ranch dressing) to social exposure nightmares (friends hearing your annoyed inner monologue) to soul-crushing life trade-offs (eternal youth vs. perfect health, career success vs. deep friendships).
We debate every impossible choice, overshare our own fears, and judge which option is the classier survival move. This one’s equal parts hilarious chaos and accidental therapy — perfect for anyone who’s ever lain awake wondering what they’d a...
2026-01-0753 minArt of ClassinessEP60: Am I the Asshole? Exes, In-Laws & Boundaries (or the Lack Thereof)Workplace drama is the gift that keeps on giving — especially when it involves fake firings, stolen lunches, and managers who ghost their own shifts. In this Am I the Asshole? episode, Robin and Deborah tackle four wild Reddit stories that test boundaries, petty revenge, and the fine line between self-protection and selfishness.
From a teen barista’s hilarious customer takedown to a boss offering a tough choice after a no-show fiasco, we’ll unpack the psychology, debate the judgments, and share why these tales hit so close to home.
Episodes like this remind us: Classy doesn’...
2025-12-3148 minArt of ClassinessEP59: Actually… No: The Things We're Ditching in 2026 for More Peace & EnergyAs we close out 2025 and step boldly into 2026, Robin and Deborah are finally saying “Actually… no” to everything that no longer serves them. In our late 30s and 40s, classiness isn’t about doing more — it’s about discernment, peace, and the best energy ROI we’ve ever had.
From romanticizing burnout to uncomfortable fashion trends, financial shame to one-sided friendships, and exhausting travel to guilt-driven obligations, we’re lovingly releasing the hustle, the pressure, and the things that drain us. Instead, we’re embracing consistency, comfort, values-based choices, deeper connections, and slower, richer experiences.
This isn’t shade —...
2025-12-2350 minArt of ClassinessEP58: Imposter Syndrome Is My Toxic Bestie (And I’m Finally Done)We were promised “you can have it all” …and now we’re terrified someone’s going to find out we’re faking it.
In this raw, funny, zero-BS episode, Robin and Deborah drag imposter syndrome out of the workplace and into the places it really lives: the getting-ready mirror, the group chat, and even your relationships.
From the millennial meltdown that birthed it to the friendship antidotes that actually work, we’re calling out the lies, sharing the scripts, and proving you’re not a fraud — you’re just a woman in 2025.
If you’ve ever heart-re...
2025-12-1655 minArt of ClassinessEP57: 3 Friendship Getaways to Cure the Winter BluesJanuary is the emotional hangover nobody prepares you for. One minute it’s lights, cookies, and full calendars—and the next it’s gray skies, low energy, and the quiet realization that your friendships have gone into hibernation.
In this episode, we unpack why winter hits our mood and our relationships so hard—and why running away with your friends might actually be science-backed self-care, not avoidance. From the post-holiday slump and Seasonal Affective Disorder peaks, to the very real reason social activity drops nearly 40% in January, we break down what’s happening in your brain, your body, and...
2025-12-0941 minArt of ClassinessEP56: AITA: Workplace Chaos EditionWorkplace drama is the gift that keeps on giving — especially when it involves fake firings, stolen lunches, and managers who ghost their own shifts. In this Am I the Asshole? episode, Robin and Deborah tackle four wild Reddit stories that test boundaries, petty revenge, and the fine line between self-protection and selfishness.
From a teen barista’s hilarious customer takedown to a boss offering a tough choice after a no-show fiasco, we’ll unpack the psychology, debate the judgments, and share why these tales hit so close to home.
Episodes like this remind us: Classy doesn’...
2025-12-0247 minArt of ClassinessEP55: Friendsgiving Rules 2025: The Class or Crass Debate You Need Right NowThanksgiving is here — which means food, feelings, and some very questionable etiquette choices. In this special holiday edition of The Art of Classiness, we’re putting your favorite friendships on trial with Class or Crass: Thanksgiving Edition.
We’re breaking down the most chaotic, relatable, and debate-worthy holiday dilemmas, including:
The friend who publicly critiques your cooking
The emotional hijacker who derails the gratitude circle
The host who charges a fee for the meal
The friend who brings their own tupperware for leftovers without having contributed anything themselves
The no-show RSVPer, and mor...
2025-11-2549 minArt of ClassinessEP54: The TV That Raised Us: The Midlife Crisis Show Every Millennial Can Relate ToFriendship without flirtation? Revolutionary, apparently.
In this week’s episode, Robin and Deborah dive into Platonic — the millennial masterpiece that finally proves men and women can be friends without the Ross-and-Rachel tension. They unpack why Platonic hits so close to home for every adult still figuring out who they are, even after “having it all.”
We explore:
Why Platonic is the millennial friendship mirror we didn’t know we needed
Emotional labor, codependency, and why Sylvia’s burnout feels too real
How the show nails the “midlife adolescence” so many of us quietly feel
It’s raw, funny...
2025-11-1845 minArt of ClassinessEP53: High-Functioning Depression: The 4 Lies You’re Telling YourselfYou’re killing it on the outside — promotions, plans, polished vibes — but inside, you’re whispering lies like “I’m fine” and “I can handle it alone.”
In this eye-opening episode, Robin and Deborah bust the 4 lies that fuel high-functioning depression, the hidden struggle of the woman who never lets the mask slip.
We’ll explore:
Why “functioning” doesn’t mean “fixed”
The busy badge, the isolation trap, and the superwoman myth
Scripts to challenge these lies in real time
How friendship can be the mirror that shatters the illusion
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2025-11-1155 minArt of ClassinessEP52: Misplaced Loyalties and Betrayal.... Who’s the Asshole?This week, Robin and Deborah dive into the gray area between loyalty and boundaries with a friendship-themed Am I The Asshole? episode. From an ex turned wedding host to a birthday betrayal, these stories test what it really means to be a “classy” friend when things get complicated.
Stories We'll Cover:
The best friend uninvited from a wedding—but still asked to host it
When caring turns into controlling: telling your best friend to break up
Road rage, recklessness, and the line between calling out vs. showing up
A birthday dinner ditched for a date—where do prior...
2025-11-0449 minArt of ClassinessEP51: Haunted Friendships: When People Vanish Without a GoodbyeToday, we’re reading real life ghost stories from friends who have been left on read, felt abandoned, and even one from the ghost themselves!
Not all ghosts live in haunted houses. Some live in old text threads, quiet friend circles, and the unanswered “Hey, are we good?” messages. In this episode of The Art of Classiness, we’re sharing Friendship Ghost Stories—the emotional disappearances no one warns you about. We’ll be reading real life ghost stories from friends who have been left on read, felt abandoned, and even one from the ghost themselves!
We explore...
2025-10-2859 minArt of ClassinessEP50: Would You Still Be Friends If…? Friendship Dilemmas You Actually FaceFriendships aren’t always defined by the good moments—they’re revealed by the choices, conflicts, and quiet tests in between. In this episode, we play “Would You Still Be Friends If…?”, a friendship dilemma game that exposes where your real boundaries are.
We’ll go from fun and harmless to emotionally complicated:
Light Dilemmas
Always late?
Only texts memes?
Boyfriend at girls’ night—again?
Real Friendship Dealbreakers
Didn’t defend you when it mattered
Shared something private without permission
Made you feel small on purpose
Ultimate Loyalty Tests
Left when you needed her most
Fought dirty
Chose a partne...
2025-10-2156 minArt of ClassinessEP49: The Science of Connection: Why We Bond Through What We LoveFinding your people isn’t about luck — it starts with what you love. In this episode, we explore how shared passions create instant connection and why adults are turning to online subcultures and fandom communities to find real belonging.
From BookTok girlies and Swifties to cozy gaming corners, true crime communities, and niche Reddit threads, today’s friendships are being built in unexpected places. But what makes these spaces feel so magnetic? Why does shouting your favorite lyrics with strangers feel like home? And how do you actually find the people who get you — especially in adulthood?
We...
2025-10-1450 minArt of ClassinessEP48: AITA: Slaps, Secrets, and Social MediaThis week, we’re bringing back one of our favorite episode styles: diving into the wild world of Am I the Asshole? If you’ve spent any time on Reddit, you know these posts are part confessional, part courtroom — strangers sharing their messy situations and asking the internet to decide if they’re in the wrong.
In today’s batch, we’ve got a little bit of everything: family drama, friendship struggles, and even a baby who somehow manages to cause a thousand-dollar disaster. We’ll talk through each story, share our takes, and maybe even reflect on how these s...
2025-10-0756 minArt of ClassinessEP47: Beyond Locker Room Talk: How Men Build Real ConnectionOn this episode of The Art of Classiness Podcast, we’re turning the spotlight onto male friendship. What happens when men move beyond the old script of being stoic or emotionally guarded, and instead build relationships grounded in honesty and vulnerability?
We’re joined by Seth and Jason — two best friends who’ve ditched the “man up” stereotype and built a friendship that thrives on openness, humor, and loyalty. Together, we’ll explore:
What men can share with each other that they often don’t share with anyone else
How they support one another through breakups, family struggles...
2025-09-3045 minArt of ClassinessEP46: The Jealous Friend (And When It’s You)Jealousy in friendship doesn’t have to be toxic — it can actually teach you something. In this week’s episode of The Art of Classiness Podcast, we’re breaking down the different ways jealousy shows up between friends and how to turn it into growth instead of guilt.
From the friend who ghosts when you’re thriving, to the one who peppers you with “concern” questions, to the classic “must be nice” side-comment, we explore what’s really going on — and how not to be that friend yourself.
Why jealousy is often a mirror for our own unmet desires
How...
2025-09-2345 minArt of ClassinessEP45: Fantasy Friendship Draft: TV & Movie Characters as Your Dream Friend GroupWhat if building your friendships was as strategic (and hilarious) as drafting a fantasy football team? In this episode, Robin and Deborah play the Fantasy Friendship Draft — picking celebrities and fictional characters to fill positions like “Quarterback Friend,” “Wild Card,” and even “Protector.” Expect laughter, roasting, and plenty of debate over who belongs on the ultimate friend roster.
You’ll leave with a smile, maybe a new appreciation for the roles your friends play in your life, and definitely a few ideas for your own Fantasy Friendship Draft.
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2025-09-1656 minArt of ClassinessEP44: I Slept with My Best Friend’s Husband… and 3 More AITA Friendship StoriesThis week, Robin and Deborah are back in the Reddit trenches with another Am I the Asshole? episode — and the stories are messier than ever. From a shocking betrayal between lifelong friends, to the fallout of uninvited weddings, to drawing boundaries with men who don’t want relationships, we’re digging into the drama and asking: who’s really at fault?
Expect debates, devil’s advocate moments, and plenty of hot takes as we unpack what these stories say about loyalty, boundaries, and how to know when a friendship has run its course.
Perfect for anyone who...
2025-09-0951 minArt of ClassinessEP43: Busting the Biggest Myths About FriendshipAre your friendships being held hostage by old rules that don’t even make sense anymore? In this episode, Robin and Deborah debunk five of the biggest myths about friendship — from “you can’t make real friends as an adult” to “true friends never let you down.”
In this episode, Robin and Deborah unpack the most common myths about friendship, exploring why we believe them, why they fall apart in practice, and how friendships actually thrive when we stop playing by outdated rules. Expect pop culture examples, honest commentary, and a reminder that the best friendships are the ones you b...
2025-09-0255 minArt of ClassinessEP42: The Friendship Game: Questions That Bring You CloserWhat if friendship wasn’t just background noise in your life, but the main storyline? In this special episode, Robin and Deborah ditch the research and play a friendship game inspired by intimacy decks.
Expect laughter, nostalgia, and a few vulnerable truths as they ask each other deeper, more surprising questions. Some answers will make you cringe, others will make you laugh out loud, and a few might even tug at your heart.
Perfect for sharing with your bestie—or using as a blueprint for your own friendship night.
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2025-08-2652 minArt of ClassinessEP41: Things We Hate (and You Probably Do Too)Today, we’re diving into the hyper-specific annoyances that can derail your mood in record time, the ones you can’t really justify being mad about, but oh… you are.
From everyday sensory betrayals like water trickling down your arm while you wash your face, to public offenses like slow walkers and people who treat speakerphone like a podcast, we’re calling out the petty little things that drive us all nuts.
We’ll break it down into categories: Everyday Body & Sensory Betrayals, Public Offenses & Social Crimes, Technology Frustrations, Domestic Disappointments, and Food & Kitchen Rage, and swap s...
2025-08-191h 01Art of ClassinessEP40: AITA: Lines Crossed and Feelings HurtToday, we’re diving into the hyper-specific annoyances that can derail your mood in record time — the ones you can’t really justify being mad about, but oh… you are.
From everyday sensory betrayals like water trickling down your arm while you wash your face, to public offenses like slow walkers and people who treat speakerphone like a podcast, we’re calling out the petty little things that drive us all nuts.
We’ll break it down into categories — Everyday Body & Sensory Betrayals, Public Offenses & Social Crimes, Technology Frustrations, Domestic Disappointments, and Food & Kitchen Rage — and swap stories...
2025-08-121h 00Art of ClassinessEP39: Attachment Theory, But Make It FriendshipIn this episode, we’re unpacking attachment theory—aka, the psychology behind why we love the way we do—and flipping it toward friendship. Whether you're always texting first, dodging emotional conversations, or suddenly realizing you trauma-bonded at brunch, your attachment style might explain more than you think.
We’ll break down the four main styles, how they show up in platonic relationships, and what it looks like when different styles collide. Think of this as a friendship audit—with a little therapy, a little humor, and zero shame.
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2025-08-061h 03Art of ClassinessEP38: Let’s Rewind to the 2000s: A Classy Flashback (Sort Of)Burned CDs. Away messages. Mall lurks. Emotional warfare disguised as AIM status updates. This week, we’re taking a wildly nostalgic, and slightly traumatic, trip back to the early 2000s. From sleepovers and three-way calls to mall culture and teen movie tropes, we’re unpacking what friendship looked like during the era of side parts, glitter gel, and personality-defining eyeliner.
We dive into the sacred rituals of LiveJournal confessions, the coded language of Top 8 rankings, and the harsh social rules we all tried to survive. But beneath the nostalgia is a deeper conversation: how those formative years shap...
2025-07-291h 02Art of ClassinessEP37: The TV That Raised Us: When Best Friends Aren’t the Best for YouIn this episode of The Art of Classiness Podcast, we’re digging into the moments that test even the closest friendships, when your best friend pulls away, misses the mark, or just flat-out lets you down.
Through the lens of Girls, Sex and the City, and How I Met Your Mother, we explore how betrayal in friendship doesn’t always come with a blowout fight, it can show up in distance, denial, or silence.
From navigating life transitions to quiet sabotage, we’re asking the big question: what do you do when the person you count on isn’t...
2025-07-2259 minArt of ClassinessEP36: AITA: Judging Other People’s Drama (So You Don’t Have To)In this episode of The Art of Classiness Podcast, we’re diving headfirst into the wonderfully messy world of the Am I The Asshole subreddit. From secret recordings that blow up weddings, to surprise houseguests who overstep big time, to navigating friendships with former flings, these stories are packed with awkward tension and moral gray areas.
We’re breaking down who crossed the line, who needs a reality check, and where boundaries and loyalty get hilariously tangled. Plus: is it ever okay to keep a secret from your partner if it’s “for their own good”? Or to priorit...
2025-07-1558 minArt of ClassinessEP35: The Classy Commandments: 10 Friendship Rules to Live ByIn this episode of The Art of Classiness Podcast, we’re laying down our personal, slightly sacred guide to friendship—aka our “Classy Commandments.” From canceling plans without guilt to speaking in chaotic voice memos, protecting each other’s soft spots, and dreaming about our future friend compound, these are the rules that keep our relationships strong, real, and joyfully unhinged.
We’re sharing what we’ve learned (sometimes the hard way) about midlife friendships—how they evolve, how to keep them close, and why a little bit of cringe is actually the glue.
Join us for laughs, l...
2025-07-0852 minArt of ClassinessEP34: When Classy Gets Messy: Our Most Embarrassing StoriesIn this episode of The Art of Classiness Podcast, we’re peeling back the curtain on our most mortifying moments, plus reading some absolutely chaotic stories from listeners who were kind enough to share their own disasters. From falling asleep mid-pee at a Cowboys game to getting sniped by a bidet, dodging police lights with your pants down, and receiving a very unexpected voicemail from karma itself... this episode is proof that no one is above a truly embarrassing story.
Laugh with us (or at us) as we celebrate the messy, human, totally unclassy moments that make fo...
2025-07-0159 minArt of ClassinessEP33: From Wild Nights to Chill Vibes: Navigating the Shift in Social Plans After 30In this episode of The Art of Classiness Podcast, we explore a relatable topic: the decline of social stamina as we age. What once felt effortless—like 9 PM concert starts or last-minute bar crawls—now requires mental prep, naps, and a solid plan.
Join us as we dive into why we’ve shifted from spontaneous nights out to carefully-planned hangs, and how we can reclaim our social energy without completely losing our comfort zones. From small acts of spontaneity to leaning into the joys of low-pressure plans, we share how to get your friendship mojo back while mainta...
2025-06-241h 02Art of ClassinessEP32: AITA: We Need to Talk About Weddings (And Who’s Really the Problem)In this episode of The Art of Classiness Podcast, we tackle some of the most controversial wedding-related AITA stories. From family dynamics and hurt feelings to navigating difficult wedding decisions, we explore the dilemmas that arise when personal boundaries, expectations, and family drama collide.
Join us as we break down four real-life stories — including the choice to skip a sibling’s wedding, a sisterly dress dilemma, and wedding venue disputes — and ask the tough question: who’s in the wrong?
We’ll dive into why these situations are so complicated, what they reveal about fami...
2025-06-1757 minArt of ClassinessEP31: The Art of the Relationship Launch: Meeting Your Partner’s Friends (and Vice Versa)Starting a new relationship is thrilling—but introducing them to your carefully curated circle of friends? That’s an entirely different game. In this episode, we’ll guide you through the art of seamlessly weaving your partner into your social fabric (and how to handle it if the vibes are… complicated).
Whether you’re the one bringing your new love to the group chat or you’re the friend group welcoming the fresh face, we’re covering everything you need to navigate this milestone with class. From first impressions to the awkward “do we even like each other?” phase, w...
2025-06-101h 02Art of ClassinessEP30: Reality TV and Emotional Intelligence: Why We Can’t Look AwayIn this episode, we’re peeling back the layers of reality TV... the shows we love to call “trash,” but can’t stop watching. From Love Is Blind to Vanderpump Rules, we’re exploring why these chaotic storylines hook us, what they reveal about our own friendships, and how they shape the way we navigate loyalty, jealousy, and vulnerability.
We’ll unpack why these stories feel so real, how they mirror our own group chats, and what it means to watch them with emotional intelligence. Not just as entertainment, but as an unexpected window into human nature.
Join u...
2025-06-031h 01Art of ClassinessEP29: Why Work Friendships Feel So Intense — And What to Do When They Don’t LastWe’re diving into the world of office BFFs, coffee run confidants, and that work bestie who might just be your real bestie… or not. In this episode, we’re talking all about work friendships — why they form so fast, what happens when promotions or quitting throw them for a loop, and how to tell the difference between a forever friend and a proximity pal.
We’ll share real-life stories of friendships that survived (or didn’t) beyond the break room, the messy emotions that can come up, and our best tips for keeping things classy when work drama h...
2025-05-271h 05Art of ClassinessEP28: 'Am I the A*hole': When Friends Expect Too Much — And Give Too LittleWhat do you do when a friend asks for too much, or you’re caught in the middle of a family secret? In this ‘Am I the Ahole?’ episode of The Art of Classiness Podcast, we’re breaking down four sticky scenarios where boundaries, loyalty, and friendship collide. From being labeled the ‘rich friend’ to feeling pressured to reveal a devastating secret, we’re asking: Who’s the A*hole here — and what can we learn from it?
What You’ll Learn:
How to set financial boundaries without feeling guilty
When honesty is the best policy — and when it’s just pla...
2025-05-201h 07Art of ClassinessEP27: Rich Friend, Poor Friend: When Money Gets Messy in FriendshipsWhat happens when one of you is living that bottomless brunch life and the other is barely making rent? In this episode of The Art of Classiness Podcast, we’re diving into the sometimes awkward, often unspoken tension of money and friendship — and why no one wants to talk about it.
What You’ll Learn:
How money can quietly shift friendship dynamics
Why it’s not rude to ask, “What’s the plan?” when splitting the check
How to handle group trips, birthday dinners, and “let’s all chip in” moments when you’re on different financial levels
How t...
2025-05-1354 minArt of ClassinessEP26: We’ll Raise Our Kids Together! (And Other Lies We Told Ourselves)You said you'd raise your kids together, plan matching playdates, and still text every day… and then real life happened. In this Mother’s Day episode of The Art of Classiness Podcast, we’re digging into how friendships evolve—and sometimes drift—when one of you becomes a mom and the other doesn’t.
What You’ll Learn:
Why motherhood can create both distance and deeper connection in friendships
How to navigate mismatched lifestyles, guilt, and unmet expectations
Real-life examples of staying close when your seasons of life don’t match
What to...
2025-05-061h 00Art of ClassinessEP25: The TV That Raised Us: Can Men and Women Really Just Be Friends?TV taught us a lot—but did it totally screw up how we see friendship between men and women?
In this episode of The Art of Classiness Podcast, we’re kicking off a new kind of conversation with The TV That Raised Us: a look at the shows that shaped how we think about friendship, romance, and everything in between. From Friends to New Girl to HIMYM, we’re breaking down the “will-they-won’t-they” trope and asking:
Can opposite-sex friendships really exist without turning romantic?
And why does Hollywood always need a kiss to make it count?
2025-04-291h 07Art of ClassinessEP24: 'Am I the A*Hole': Navigating Friendship FrictionWhat happens when your friend never has time for you—but still expects you to wait around? In this episode of The Art of Classiness Podcast, we're diving into real friendship dilemmas from Reddit’s “Am I The A-Hole” thread. From calling out flaky behavior to navigating post-divorce boundaries, we’re unpacking the moments where friendship etiquette gets complicated.
What You’ll Learn:
When it’s okay to walk away from a one-sided friendship
How to give feedback without being a jerk
Why setting expectations isn’t the same as being passive-aggressive
When it’s better to accept quirks v...
2025-04-2251 minArt of ClassinessEP23: Living with Your Best Friend: Tips, Truths, and What to ExpectLiving with your best friend might sound like a 24/7 sleepover dream—but what happens when someone leaves dishes in the sink or hogs the bathroom mirror? In this episode of The Art of Classiness Podcast, we’re exploring the beautiful chaos of bestie roommates, and how to navigate friendship and cohabitation without losing your mind (or your bond).
What You’ll Learn:
The pros and cons of living with your closest friend
How to spot red flags before you move in together
Common roommate conflicts—and how to resolve them with grace
Why friendship dynamics shift when you...
2025-04-1555 minArt of ClassinessEP22: When Burnout Makes You a Bad Friend (And What to Do About It)Burnout doesn’t just affect your job—it affects your friendships, too. In this episode of The Art of Classiness Podcast, we’re diving into the emotional exhaustion so many millennials are feeling, and how it quietly reshapes our social lives.
What You’ll Learn:
Why burnout makes it hard to show up for friends (and why that’s okay)
Signs you're in a friendship burnout loop
How to reconnect without overwhelming yourself
Tips for being a good friend when your tank is low
Why honest conversations about capacity might save your friendships
Did you know?
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2025-04-081h 00Art of ClassinessEP21: Golden Retriever, Black Cat, or Chaos Goblin: The 3 Friendship Types ExplainedEver wondered what kind of friend you are—or how your bestie would be classified in the wild world of friendship dynamics? In this episode of The Art of Classiness Podcast, we’re diving into the viral friendship personalities: Golden Retriever, Black Cat, and Chaos Goblin.
What You’ll Learn:
What each friendship archetype really means
How to identify the Golden Retrievers, Black Cats, and Chaos Goblins in your life
What makes these dynamics work—and when they clash
Real-life examples and friendship combos that just make sense
How to...
2025-04-0146 minArt of ClassinessEP20: 'Am I the A*Hole': Boundaries, Betrayals & Birthday BlundersFriendship etiquette isn’t always black and white—and sometimes, it’s wildly messy. In this episode we’re diving into real “Am I The A-Hole?” stories where boundaries, expectations, and social norms clash in surprising ways. From strict house rules to awkward birthday energy, we’re weighing in and calling out what’s classy… and what’s not.
If you've ever been caught in a friendship gray area and wondered, “Am I in the wrong… or are they just being weird?”—this episode is for you.
Join the conversation, and don’t forget to send us your own friendship sto...
2025-03-2551 minArt of ClassinessEP19: The Ripple Effect: How Divorce Affects Friendships and How to CopeBreakups and divorces don’t just impact romantic relationships—they change friendships, too. Have you ever lost a friend in the split, struggled to support someone through heartbreak, or felt like your friendship dynamic was never the same? In this episode, we’re breaking down how breakups reshape friendships, how to navigate these shifts, and how to be there for a friend without losing yourself in the process.
What You'll Learn:
How breakups and divorces affect friendships over time
The challenges of mutual friends, shifting dynamics, and emotional burnout
Ways to support a friend through heartbreak without overextending yourse...
2025-03-1854 minArt of ClassinessEP18: Why Some Friendships Feels Unbalanced (And How Love Languages Can Help)Are You Speaking Your Friend’s Love Language?
We always hear about love languages in dating, but what about friendships? If you’ve ever felt unappreciated in a friendship—or wondered why your friendships sometimes feel unbalanced—this episode is for you.
We’re breaking down:
Why friendships can feel off – Is your friend not showing up for you, or are they showing love in a way you don’t recognize?
The 5 Love Languages in friendship – How each one looks in a platonic relationship, common misunderstandings, and how to adjust.
Giving vs. Receiving Love Languages – Why the way you show l...
2025-03-1154 minArt of ClassinessEP17: From War Elephants to Espionage: The Untold Stories of Women in HistoryHistory often remembers kings, conquerors, and lone heroes—but what about the women who led revolutions, defied empires, and changed history forever? This International Women’s Day, we’re diving into the untold stories of legendary female warriors and spies who refused to wait for permission.
Join us as we uncover the awe-inspiring tales of:
The Trung Sisters – Two Vietnamese warrior queens who led an 80,000-person army (yes, on war elephants!) to overthrow the Han Dynasty.
Pearl Witherington & Lise de Baissac – Special Operations Executive (SOE) agents who parachuted into Nazi-occupied France to sabotage the enemy and lead r...
2025-03-0443 minArt of ClassinessEP16: 'Am I the A*Hole' Stories: Friendships Gone WrongFriendship isn’t always smooth sailing—misunderstandings, crossed boundaries, and straight-up chaos can test even the strongest bonds. In this episode of The Art of Classiness Podcast, we’re diving into real "Am I The A-Hole?" friendship dilemmas, breaking down the drama, and deciding who’s right, who’s wrong, and who’s just being messy.
What You’ll Learn:
How to navigate tricky friendship situations with grace
When to call out bad behavior and when to let things go
The unspoken rules of friendship etiquette
Real-life examples of friendship red flags and how to handle them
If yo...
2025-02-2551 minArt of ClassinessEP15: Traveling with Friends 101: Rules for a Drama-Free TripTraveling with friends sounds like a dream—until mismatched budgets, clashing personalities, and unexpected chaos turn your trip into a disaster. Want to make sure your next getaway is all fun and no friendship-ending drama? We’ve got you covered.
In this episode, we’re breaking down the do’s and don’ts of group travel, sharing real-life trip horror stories, and giving you our best tips on:
- How to plan a stress-free friend trip (from budget talks to setting expectations)
- Navigating different travel styles so everyone enjoys the experience
- Avoiding c...
2025-02-1853 minArt of ClassinessEP14: Galentine’s Day: How to Celebrate the Power of Female FriendshipsGalentine’s Day isn’t just a made-up holiday—it’s a powerful reminder to celebrate the friendships that truly stand the test of time. In this episode, we’re diving into the meaning behind Galentine’s Day, why female friendships deserve as much attention as romantic relationships, and how to make this day special—no matter your relationship status.
Tune in as we explore:
- The history of Galentine’s Day and how it went from TV moment to real-life tradition
- Why friendships deserve as much celebration as romantic relationships
- Creative ways to...
2025-02-1153 minArt of ClassinessEP13: Friendship or Flirtation: Can Men and Women Be Just Friends?Can men and women really be just friends? It’s one of the most debated relationship questions, and we’re diving deep into the dynamics, boundaries, and unspoken rules of opposite-sex friendships—especially when romance is in the picture.
In this episode, we’re tackling:
- The challenges and benefits of male-female friendships
- How opposite-sex friendships shift when you’re in a relationship
- Setting healthy boundaries—what’s okay and what crosses the line?
- Personal stories and real-life experiences that will make you rethink your take
Should you still text...
2025-02-0456 minArt of ClassinessEP11: BFFs on Screen: The Best Female Friendship MoviesJoin us as we dive into the world of friendship movies! Discover what defines a true 'friendship film,' hear our top picks for the best friendship flicks of all time, and find out which iconic fictional character we’d love to call our BFF.
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2025-01-211h 03Art of ClassinessEP10: It’s Not a Cult, It’s a Compound: Finding the Perfect Spot (Part 2)Tune in and dream with us—where would YOU build the ultimate friendship compound?
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Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health professional. Take care of yourselves and use what feels...
2025-01-141h 04Art of ClassinessEP9: It’s Not a Cult, It’s a Compound: Building Our Dream Life (Part 1)What if you and your best friends could design the ultimate dream compound—luxurious, cozy, and completely cult-free? This week, we’re diving into the fantasy of creating a stylish, village-style retreat where friendship takes center stage.
Join us as we break down:
- The perfect balance of personal space & communal living (because we love our besties, but we also love boundaries)
- Must-have features—from cozy cottages to a stunning shared clubhouse
- Aesthetic & vibe choices—chic, whimsical, or a little bit of both?
- How to make this dream both fun to i...
2025-01-071h 03Art of ClassinessEP8: New Year, New Mindset: Setting Goals Without the PressureNew Year, new mindset! In this episode, we’re diving into New Year’s resolutions, mindset shifts, and how to set the tone for an amazing 2025—without the pressure of perfection.
We’re sharing:
- Our personal goals for 2025—the realistic, the ambitious, and the just-for-fun
- Mindset shifts that actually work (because resolutions alone won’t cut it!)
- Creative & meaningful ways to celebrate the new year
- How to set goals that feel exciting instead of overwhelming
Whether you’re a vision board queen, a goal-setting skeptic, or just here for...
2024-12-241h 04Art of ClassinessEP7: Fake Snow & Real Feelings: A Christmas Movie ExtravaganzaIn this festive episode, we dive into the cozy, chaotic world of Christmas movies and explore why they hold such a special place in our hearts. We also sprinkle in some fun holiday games and debate a hot topic: are gift cards classy?
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Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace prof...
2024-12-171h 04Art of ClassinessEP6: The Art of Gift Exchanges: Fun Ideas for Friends, Family, and WorkToday we touch on a little nostalgia by bringing back early 2000s sayings, we also talk about the art of gift giving among friends and a new take on the traditional white elephant party.
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Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have ques...
2024-12-101h 02Art of ClassinessEP5: Who Even Are We? Taking the Ultimate Personality TestThis week, we’re talking about personality quizzes and how they reveal surprising insights into who we are and why we do what we do. Whether you’re a personality quiz fanatic or just curious about what drives people’s behavior, stick around as we explore the fascinating world of personality types!
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Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes o...
2024-12-031h 10Art of ClassinessEP4: Friendsgiving! How to Host the Perfect Celebration with FriendsThis week, we’re talking about Friendsgiving! We’ll cover new and old traditions, carb-loaded potlucks, and our personal experiences with the holiday.
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Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health...
2024-11-2656 minArt of ClassinessEP3: Changing Your Last Name After Marriage: Should You Keep It or Change It?This week, we dive into the complexities of modern-day name changes, Robin's food poisoning fiasco, and sharing streaming services with friends.
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Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health professional. Tak...
2024-11-1947 minArt of ClassinessEP2: Long-Distance Friendships: How to Stay Connected No Matter the MilesThis week, we’re talking about Long Distance Friends! We’ll recap our recent reunion with the Classy Ladies of Classiness and the challenges of making friends in a new city.
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Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach o...
2024-11-1253 minArt of ClassinessEP1: Welcome to The Art of Classiness: Meet Robin & DeborahToday, we’re introducing ourselves! We’re keeping it casual and touching on a bit of everything, from Robin’s fear of flying and Deborah’s experience with sleep paralysis to the important difference between cockroaches and beetles.
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Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. I...
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