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Turn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsCall a Time Out!Use a Time Out to Stop Explosive Anger in Your Marriage (Christian Marriage Coaching)In this episode, I share one simple tool—a time out—to stop an argument from exploding, protect your connection, and help you come back to actually solve the issue. I explain how anger can damage a marriage through blowups or silent hostility. I ground the teaching in scripture (Ephesians 4:26–27 and Proverbs 15:1, 14:29, 14:17) and explain the physical fight-or-flight response that makes clear thinking harder. I define what a time out is (a short, agreed-upon pause with a promise to return) and what it is not (storming off, p...
2026-02-2413 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsHearing God's VoiceHow to Hear God's Voice for Guidance in Your MarriageAre you praying and asking God to heal your marriage and guide you in becoming a better spouse but struggling to hear His voice? This video is for you. Hi, I'm Kelly Dupee, your Christian marriage coach and author of 'Turn It Up: How to Have The Lifelong Marriage that You Really Want'. In this episode, I'll show you simple and hopeful ways to recognize God's guidance in your marriage. We discuss how God speaks to us through scripture and the Holy Spirit's prompting, and the importance of testing these...
2026-02-0306 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsGod Heal My Marriage PleaseInviting God into Your Marriage: Steps to Healing and TransformationHave you ever wondered if God is listening to your prayers to heal your marriage? In this video, I assure you that God does care and is listening. I'm Kelly Dupee, your Christian marriage coach and author, here to guide you on how to genuinely invite God into your marriage for real transformation. Discover how to truly seek God's help with seven practical steps, including admitting you need help, asking God to change you, praying with open hands, seeking wisdom, trusting God to work in your spouse's heart, expecting God...
2026-01-2118 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsGrace and Truth for MarriagesTransform Your Marriage with Grace and TruthHas your spouse ever told you to change or felt the need to change for a better marriage? Often, we think trying harder is the solution. However, receiving and giving grace can bring real change. I'm Kelly DuPee, your Christian marriage coach, and in this video, I'll share five ways to bring grace into your marriage. We'll explore the true meaning of grace and how it involves acceptance, unconditional love, and truth to create a safe environment where your spouse can grow and change. Ready to build a grace-filled marriage? Watch...
2026-01-1410 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsEarn Your Wife's Respect6 Steps to Earn Your Wife's Respect and AdmirationIn this video, Kelly Dupee, a Christian marriage coach, explains how husbands can earn their wife's respect and admiration. Rather than attempting to change their wives, men are encouraged to become the kind of husbands that naturally deserve respect. Kelly shares six practical action steps, underpinned by biblical principles, to build the character and qualities women admire. Key points include understanding what your wife needs, building integrity through small commitments, engaging in honest self-examination, identifying areas for personal growth, making a commitment to change, and seeking help. Offering a free 30-minute strategy...
2026-01-0812 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsReconnect After Christmas3 Steps to Reconnect Your Marriage After Christmas |Christmas is over and the post-Christmas stress might be impacting your marriage. In this video, I offer you three simple steps to recover your connection: talk about what happened, rebuild intentional moments of connection, and make a plan for next year. These steps, backed by biblical wisdom, will turn any holiday tension into breakthroughs. Let's make your marriage stronger together!Don't forget to download my free couples communication guide: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguideI'm also offering a free 30-minute strategy call for personalized help on how to set and maintain healthy boundaries...
2025-12-2410 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsAvoid Christmas StressHow to Protect Your Marriage from Christmas StressFeeling the weight of Christmas stress? You're not alone. In this video, I share practical ways to protect your marriage during the festive season and make your Christmas more meaningful. From prioritizing each other and setting boundaries to rediscovering the true reason for the season, I'll guide you on how to keep your connection strong. My name is Kelly DuPee, Christian marriage coach and author of 'Turn It Up: How to Have The Lifelong Marriage that You Really Want.' Join me as I offer advice backed by biblical principles and practical...
2025-12-1708 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsMaintaining Your Parenting TeamHow to Maintain a Strong Parenting Team: Tips for Unity and Effective ParentingIn this video, you'll learn valuable insights on maintaining a cohesive parenting team with your spouse. Learn how to stay united with your spouse, protect your marriage from parenting stress, and build a calmer, more connected home. Key principles include focusing on your marriage, avoiding 'shoulding' on each other, committing to parenting in unity, showing appreciation and accountability, and evaluating your parenting strategies regularly. Additionally, this recording covers the importance of connecting before correcting, building structure and routine, training kids on life skills, allowing them to learn...
2025-12-0410 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsThe Gratitude Marriage ShiftWhat if the fastest way to feel closer to your spouse isn’t fixing a problem, but noticing a blessing?In this video, Christian marriage coach Kelly DuPee shares how one simple shift—gratitude—can lower tension in your home, soften sharp reactions, and help you feel more connected to your spouse, starting today.You’ll discover: - How a daily gratitude practice can quietly transform the way you see your spouse - Why gratitude calms stress and helps you respond instead of react - How it gives your marriage a steadier foundation during conflict and busy seasons - A powerf...
2025-11-2105 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsBe the Parent your Kids WANT to be AroundBecoming the Parent Your Kids Want to Be Around | 4 Key Shifts for Lifelong ConnectionHave you ever thought that parenting is more about becoming the parents your kids want to spend time with? In this video, I explore the transformative goal of not only raising good kids but becoming parents they love being around. I share four key shifts that will help build lifelong connections with your children: moving from controlling to coaching, from perfection to presence, from correction to connection, and from worry to faith. Stick around to learn how these shifts can bring you closer to your kids...
2025-11-1911 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsDiscipline your Kids without YellingEffective Parenting: Calm Discipline Without YellingIn this video, I share techniques for disciplining your kids calmly and effectively. You will learn how to create a peaceful home, maintain unity with your spouse, and teach your kids responsibility without power struggles. I also discuss important parenting resources, including the books 'Boundaries with Kids' by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend and '1-2-3 Magic' by Dr. Thomas Phelan, which offer valuable insights on balancing grace and truth in discipline. I provide practical tips on using the 1-2-3 Magic method, the importance of being calm and consistent, and...
2025-11-1216 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsTeam Parenting is the AnswerParenting Together: 6 Practical Tips to Unite with Your SpouseHave you ever felt like you and your spouse are on opposite teams when it comes to parenting your kids? In this video, I share six practical suggestions to help you parent as a team and improve unity, communication, and consistency in your home. Hi, I'm Kelly DuPee, a pastor, police chaplain, Christian marriage coach, and author dedicated to helping couples strengthen their marriages. Join me to learn how to make united decisions, communicate with grace, and raise your kids from the same page. Don't miss out on tips like 'Don't...
2025-10-3114 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsFix Frustrations in Marriage4 Steps to Effectively Change Your Marriage Without ConflictHave you ever wanted to change something in your marriage without starting an argument? I'm Kelly Dupee, pastor, police chaplain, and Christian marriage coach. In this video, I teach you a four-step progression to bring up changes in your marriage that build connection instead of conflict. Learn how to make a suggestion, express a wish, make a request, and set a healthy boundary. Watch till the end for specific instructions on how to implement these strategies in your marriage right away. Timeline: 0:00 - Introduction and purpose of the video 1:12 - Step 1: Making...
2025-10-0809 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsRespect Your Husband6 Biblical Ways to Show Respect to Your Husband: Combat Disrespect in MarriageHave you ever wondered why a simple question or suggestion to your husband can sometimes lead to an unexpectedly hostile or distant reaction? In this video, I explain why men often equate respect with trust and how a perceived lack of trust can deeply hurt them. I share six biblical strategies for effectively communicating respect to your husband, helping build a stronger, more loving marriage. These strategies include watching your tone, expressing confidence, and making requests instead of accusations. Join me, Kelly Dupee, as I delve into ways...
2025-10-0216 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsBe the Spouse your Spouse NeedsBe the Spouse Your Spouse NeedsIn this episode, Pastor Kelly DuPee discusses the transformative power of focusing on becoming the spouse your partner needs you to be, rather than trying to change them. Emphasizing the importance of a prayer asking God to help one become the best spouse, Kelly shares five Bible-based steps to improve your marriage. He addresses common relationship challenges, such as assumptions and defensiveness, and offers actionable advice, including asking curious questions, listening without defending, paying attention to stress points, learning your spouse's love language, and staying flexible. The video encourages couples to focus on their...
2025-09-2608 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsHow to Grieve TogetherNavigating Marriage Through Grief and Loss: Bible-Based GuidanceHave you ever wondered how your marriage would be affected by a major loss? In this video, I discuss how loss can change a marriage and provide Bible-based steps to help you and your spouse navigate grief together. From giving each other space and grieving together to guarding your connection from resentment and focusing on the hope in Jesus Christ, I offer practical advice and spiritual guidance to strengthen your relationship during challenging times. Don't forget to request your free couple's communication guide to improve your relationship. Here's the link to my...
2025-09-1910 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsBenefit of the DoubtBenefit of the Doubt in Marriage: 6 Biblical Strategies for a Stronger RelationshipAre you ready to transform your marriage by learning how to give your spouse the benefit of the doubt? Hi, I’m Kelly DuPee—pastor, police chaplain, Christian marriage coach, and author of "Turn It Up: How to Have the Lifelong Marriage That You Really Want." In this video, I’ll show you how the biblical principle of giving the benefit of the doubt can change your relationship, prevent misunderstandings, and help you build a marriage that reflects God’s love.Timestamps:00:00 – Introduction: Why we jump to conclusions in marriag...
2025-07-2509 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsOvercoming "I Forgot"Overcoming 'I Forgot': 5 Biblical Steps to Strengthen Your MarriageHave you ever found yourself saying, 'I forgot' to your spouse more often than you'd like to admit? Join me, Kelly DuPee, as I dive deep into the implications of forgetting important things your spouse requests. In this video, I uncover why 'I forgot' signifies deeper issues in your marriage, such as priorities, communication breakdowns, and lack of systems. I share five Biblical action steps to help you move past this habit, foster intentionality, and build a healthy, thriving relationship. Download my free Couple's Communication Guide and learn how to remember...
2025-07-1810 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsForgiveness - the Why and HowHow and Why to Forgive by Kelly DuPee - Pastor, Police Chaplain, Christian Marriage CoachIn this video, I discuss the important topic of forgiveness and its role in healing from deep hurt caused by others. I explain why forgiveness is essential for followers of Jesus and provide five compelling reasons to embrace it. I also outline actionable steps to help you forgive those who have wronged you, even when it feels impossible. By following these steps, you can find freedom from the prison of hurt and bitterness, and improve your relationships with others and with God...
2025-06-2709 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsThe Short Getaway TransformationReignite Your Marriage: The Power of a One Night GetawayFeeling like your marriage needs a boost? A one-night getaway can be a surprisingly effective way to recharge your connection. Prioritizing that time for your relationship advice and intimacy can help you reconnect amidst the chaos. Consider this simple but powerful way to save your marriage. 🙏In this episode, Pastor, Police Chaplain, and Christian Marriage Coach Kelly DuPee shares his secret to recharging your marriage—a simple one night getaway. Kelly discusses how taking a short break with your spouse can refocus your energy on each other, reprioritize your marriage, and h...
2025-06-2007 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsDon't say "Calm Down!"Why Telling Your Spouse to Calm Down is Hurting Your MarriageJoin Kelly DuPee, pastor, police chaplain, Christian marriage coach, and author, as he explains why telling your spouse to calm down can escalate rather than diffuse tension. Learn seven biblical action steps to respond with compassion and wisdom: listening first, validating feelings, asking questions, offering presence, speaking gently, allowing space for processing, and following up. These principles promote deeper intimacy and stronger connections in marriage.Want to improve the communication in your marriage? Here's the link to Kelly's free Couple's Communication Guide: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguide00:00 Introduction: The...
2025-06-1810 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsTrusting God in MarriageTrusting God Through Marriage Challenges: The ABCD MethodMarriage can be challenging, but it doesn't have to be walked out alone. This video encourages trusting God in hard times and finding strength in your faith. In this episode, Pastor Kelly DuPee discusses how to trust God during marriage challenges. He introduces the ABCD method to help couples strengthen their faith amid marriage struggles. The ABCD steps include Admitting you have a problem and asking God for help, Believing God will help you, Confessing and aligning your words with God's promises, and Doing what God says to do. Kelly emphasizes the...
2025-06-1110 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsStop Arguing, Start Connecting7 Biblical Steps to Stop Arguments and Bring Peace to Your MarriageArguments in marriage often stem from deeper emotions like frustration or miscommunication, not just the surface topic. To avoid hurt, focus on building real emotional connection and practice good conflict resolution. Remember to meet your needs and respond thoughtfully, not reactively.In this episode, Kelly DuPee, a pastor, police chaplain, Christian marriage coach, and author, offers practical biblical advice for married couples on how to prevent arguments and foster peace in their relationship. He outlines seven action steps: 1. Respond, don't react, 2. Listen to understand, not to win, 3. Check your...
2025-06-0411 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsDon't Use this WordHave you ever found a simple conversation with your spouse spiraling into conflict despite your best intentions? This video by Kelly DuPee, a pastor, police chaplain, and Christian marriage coach, delves into the power of 'I' statements over 'You' statements for healthier, more empathetic communication in relationships. Kelly offers six practical steps to effectively utilize 'I' statements, along with scriptural advice and a prayer for guidance. Watch now to discover how replacing blame with vulnerability can foster deeper connection, understanding, and love in your marriage.Want to improve the communication in your marriage? Here's the link to Kelly's free...
2025-05-2608 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsStop Being Defensive in your MarriageOvercoming Defensiveness in Marriage: 7 Biblical Steps to Build a Healthier RelationshipIn this episode, Kelly DuPee, pastor, police chaplain, Christian marriage coach, and author, addresses the harmful effects of defensiveness in marriage. He explains how defensiveness, whether it manifests as anger or emotional shutdown, damages relationships. Kelly provides biblical principles and practical steps to help couples respond constructively rather than react defensively. Key steps include choosing to respond, focusing on understanding, empathizing, repeating back concerns, clarifying with questions, apologizing, and committing to change. With these insights, couples can foster trust, empathy, and real connection in their marriages.Want to improve...
2025-05-2111 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and Tools7 YR. Marriage Struggles7 Reasons Marriages Fail in the first Seven Years and How to Rebuild Yours In this video, Christian marriage coach Kelly DuPee discusses why many marriages fall apart between years five to eight and provides practical Biblical advice on how to avoid these pitfalls. Learn about the importance of prioritizing your marriage, effective communication, handling conflict, expressing your needs, maintaining emotional intimacy, including God in your marriage, and seeking help when needed. Kelly also offers a free couples communication guide and invites viewers to book a free clarity call for personalized support.Want to improve the communication in your marriage...
2025-05-1410 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsHandle Conflict without Hurting Each Other7 Biblical Ways to Handle Conflict in Marriage Without Hurting Each OtherDo you struggle with handling conflict in your marriage? In this video, Kelly DuPee, a pastor, police chaplain, and marriage coach, shares seven biblical ways to handle conflict without hurting each other and how to grow closer through it. Learn how to navigate disagreements with compassion, empathy, and effective communication skills based on biblical principles. Conflict is normal, but how you handle it can make a world of difference in strengthening your relationship. Tune in to find out how you can turn conflict into a path toward greater closeness...
2025-05-0710 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsBe Grateful for your Spouse5 Ways Gratitude Can Transform Your Marriage - With Pastor Kelly DuPeeIn this episode, Pastor Kelly DuPee highlights the transformative power of gratitude in strengthening marriages. Through a detailed exploration of five distinct ways gratitude can improve a relationship, Kelly emphasizes the importance of shifting perspective, inviting God's presence, healing emotional wounds, building resilience in tough times, and reinforcing the choice to love. This recording aims to help couples foster deeper connection and spiritual growth through daily acts of thankfulness.Here's the link to Kelly's free Couple's Communication Guide: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguide00:00 Introduction: The Power of Gratitude in...
2025-04-2909 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsFight or Flight Defeated!Overcoming the Fight or Flight Response in Marriage Conflicts Do you find yourself stuck in a cycle where every conflict with your spouse turns either into a heated argument or total disengagement? In this video, Kelly Dupee, a pastor and Christian marriage coach, discusses why the 'fight or flight' response occurs in marital conflicts, its damaging effects, and how you can overcome it. Learn biblical strategies to stay engaged during tough conversations, understand the root of your flight response, and hear tips on how to communicate effectively to build a stronger and more loving marriage. Kelly offers practical advice...
2025-04-2311 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsLove Like Jesus DidLove Like Jesus: Transform Your Marriage with Sacrificial LoveIn this video, Pastor Kelly DuPee, a Christian marriage coach, delves into the essence of real love in marriage, drawing parallels from the sacrificial love of Jesus Christ. Based on Ephesians 5:25, he emphasizes how husbands should love their wives as Christ loved the church, through selfless acts and enduring challenges. Kelly recounts the suffering Jesus endured and highlights the importance of husbands and wives loving each other not just in grand gestures, but in daily, often unseen moments. He concludes with an invitation to follow Jesus and a prayer for forgiveness...
2025-04-1608 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsHelp Your Grieving Spouse7 Ways to Support Your Spouse Through Grief Kelly DuPee, a pastor and Christian marriage coach, shares seven ways to help your spouse cope with grief. The steps include being present, giving hope, praying, listening, offering practical help, being patient, and supporting professional help. With biblical references and practical advice, this video aims to offer comfort and guidance for those navigating the challenging seasons of grief with their loved ones.Here's the link to my free Couple's Communication Guide: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguide 00:00 Introduction: Supporting a Grieving Spouse00:51 Be Present: The Power of Presence in...
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Tools for MarriageE04 - 5 Most Common Marriage Mistakes with Kelly DuPéeE04: 5 Most Common Marriage Mistakes with Kelly DuPée | Tools for MarriageIn this episode Trevor & Laura sit down with Kelly DuPée. Coach Kelly, a pastor, police chaplain, marriage coach, and author, shares 5 Most Common Marriage mistakes and how to avoid them.(00:00:00) Introduction of Marriage Coach Kelly DuPée (00:00:54) Kelly's Journey into Marriage Ministry (00:04:12) How Personal Hardships Shaped Kelly's Passion (00:06:22) Learning Humility: Asking God to Change Me (00:08:35) From Pastor to Marriage Coach & Author (00:14:40) Common Marriage Mistake #1: Communication & Understanding (00:24:55) Common Marriage Mistake #2: Prioritizing the Relat...
2025-04-081h 00Turn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsReduce Anxiety in your Marriage7 Biblical Ways to Reduce Anxiety in Your MarriageIn this video, pastor and Christian marriage coach Kelly DuPee discusses the impact of anxiety on marriages and relationships. He provides seven Biblical strategies to help reduce worry and anxiety, such as prayer, replacing worry with God's word, loving communication, trusting God, serving each other, quickly addressing issues, and seeking help from a Christian marriage coach. He emphasizes the importance of faith and action in overcoming fear and building a loving, peaceful marriage.Here's the link to Kelly's free Couple's Communication Guide: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguide00:00 Introduction: Anxiety in Marriage00:50 Biblical...
2025-04-0209 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsWhy Loving God Helps your Marriage6 Biblical Principles for a Strong and Lasting MarriageIn this episode, discover why loving God is essential for a successful and enduring marriage. The recording presents six biblical principles demonstrating how God’s love strengthens a marriage, especially during difficult times. These principles highlight the importance of sacrificial love, forgiveness, peace, and lifelong commitment. By putting God at the center of their relationship, couples can build a resilient and thriving marriage. The discussion includes relevant scriptures and practical advice on how to integrate these principles into your marriage.Want to improve the communication in your relationship? Download my free guide at...
2025-03-1211 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsMake Her Feel Special7 Ways to Make Your Wife Feel Truly Special | Kelly DuPeeIn this recording, Kelly DuPee—pastor, police chaplain, Christian marriage coach, and author—gives husbands practical advice on making their wives feel loved, cherished, and valued. Drawing from biblical principles, Kelly explains seven actionable steps: loving her as Christ loved the church, speaking words of encouragement, prioritizing quality time, leading with humility, protecting and providing, praying for her, and pursuing her heart daily. He emphasizes that a strong, Godly marriage requires intentionality and daily effort. Listen to this episode to enrich your marriage and make your wife feel truly special ever...
2025-02-2609 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsRespect: key to marriage successIn this episode, Kelly DuPee, pastor, police chaplain, Christian marriage coach, and author, shares five actionable suggestions for wives to show respect to their husbands. Drawing from biblical teachings, he emphasizes the importance of listening genuinely, expressing gratitude, speaking with kindness, valuing your husband's perspective in decision-making, and showing love through actions. Respect, as highlighted in this video, builds a cornerstone of trust, emotional intimacy, and a flourishing marriage. Tune in for practical tips backed by scripture and learn how respect transforms relationships.Get my free Couple's Communication Guide here: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguide00:00 Introduction: Building a Lasting...
2025-02-2008 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsGrace Filled MarriageHow to Cultivate a Grace-Filled Marriage In this insightful video, Coach Kelly DuPee, Pastor, Police Chaplain, and Author, delves into the essential concept of grace and its importance in marriage. Starting with a reflection on how we wish to be treated when we make mistakes, he defines grace as understanding, forgiveness, and acceptance, and explains that God offers us grace through Jesus Christ. However, often we desire grace from others yet hesitate to extend it ourselves, especially within marital relationships. Learn actionable ways to foster a grace-filled marriage, emphasizing the reciprocal nature of grace, the importance of graceful confrontation...
2025-02-1206 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsPrevent Infidelity in you Marriage
Preventing Infidelity: Biblical Wisdom for a Lifelong Marriage
In this episode, Pastor Kelly DuPee shares practical tips from the Bible on preventing infidelity in marriage. With statistics highlighting the high prevalence of cheating and its role in divorces, this video explores wisdom from the Book of Proverbs about sexual purity and provides actionable steps to safeguard marriages. Topics covered include recognizing vulnerability, surrendering sexual desires to the Lord, avoiding explicit content, seeking help, confessing to your spouse, meeting each other's needs, and enjoying the gift of marriage.
Here's the link to get a free digital copy of Kelly's book...
2025-02-0415 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsSpeak Life into your Marriage
In this insightful recording, Kelly DuPée, pastor, police chaplain, Christian marriage coach, and author, explores the profound impact that words can have on your marriage. Drawing wisdom from the book of Proverbs in the Bible, Kelly emphasizes how your words can either build up or destroy your relationship. Learn practical advice on speaking life into your marriage, including asking God for help, thinking before you speak, listening actively, and using words of love and respect. Kelly offers seven actionable suggestions to improve communication and ensure a thriving partnership.
Here's the link to get Kelly's free Couple's Communication Guide: h...
2025-01-2809 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsOvercome Anger God's Way
In this recording, Pastor Kelly DuPee discusses how uncontrolled anger is a leading cause of damaging relationships and marriages. Drawing wisdom from the Book of Proverbs, Kelly explains the different types of anger—quick-tempered, hot-tempered, and easily angered—and offers practical steps on how to manage and respond to anger effectively. Learn how to calm yourself, communicate calmly, and prevent anger from destroying your relationships.
For more tips to strengthen your relationship, get Kelly's free Couple's Communication Guide here: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguide
00:00 Introduction: The Real Relationship Killer
00:30 Biblical Wisdom on Anger
01:40 Understanding Different Types of Anger
04:19 Steps to M...
2025-01-2209 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsMarriage and Money
Join Kelly DuPée, a pastor, police chaplain, and Christian marriage coach, as he shares seven transformative principles from the book of Proverbs to help couples handle finance-related conflicts.
Here's the link to get the free Marriage and Money Course: https://systeme.io/course/share/2341644a23efa2f244f38109ea2c835bb6d508
Learn how to put God first, understand each other's financial perspectives, work diligently, track and budget your spending, save wisely, and practice generosity. By applying these biblical principles, you can not only improve your financial situation but also strengthen your relationship.
00:00 Introduction: Money and Relationships
01:23 Principle 1: P...
2025-01-1411 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsWisdom for your Marriage
Unlocking The Secrets To Wisdom: A Step-by-step Guide | Coach Kelly DuPée
Get my free Couple's Communication Guide here: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguide
Discover the essential steps to acquire the wisdom necessary for a thriving marriage and successful life. Coach Kelly DuPée, a pastor, police chaplain, and Christian marriage coach, shares insights from the book of Proverbs on how to gain wisdom. Learn how to admit you need wisdom, build a relationship with God, learn from your mistakes, learn from others, and apply wisdom in your daily life. This episode includes practical advice and tips to enhance yo...
2025-01-0708 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsPost Christmas Recovery for your Marriage
Post Christmas Marriage Recovery - Here's How
🎄 Did the holiday season test your relationship? Discover how to recover and strengthen your marriage after a stressful Christmas with practical, faith-based advice. In this episode, I explore the common pitfalls couples face during the holidays, like disappointment, disagreement, and even disloyalty. But don't worry—I'm here to guide you through ways to heal and grow stronger together.
Learn how to have calm and constructive conversations, express your true feelings, and effectively manage conflicts. I'll share the importance of taking responsibility, showing remorse, and seeking forgiveness, all while aligning with Biblical wisdom. With...
2024-12-2408 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsConfrontations at Christmas
Have a Great Christmas without Hurting your Marriage - Confront if Needed
In this episode of the Turn It Up Marriage Tips and Tools Show, Coach Kelly DuPée shares valuable advice on handling conflicts with your spouse during Christmas. Learn how to accept imperfections, plan ahead, manage your reactions, and communicate effectively to avoid ruining your holiday celebration. With his faith-based insights, Kelly aims to help couples maintain a strong and happy marriage. Don't miss out on these essential tips for a great Christmas without hurting your relationship!
00:00 Introduction: Handling Holiday Conflicts
00:25 Series Overview and Previous Tips
01:36 Tip 1: E...
2024-12-1606 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsHave a Great Christmas - Set Boundaries
Have a Great Christmas without Hurting your Marriage -
Join Coach Kelly DuPée in the Turn It Up Marriage Tips and Tools Show as he offers faith-based advice on having a great Christmas without hurting your marriage. This episode focuses on setting boundaries to overcome common holiday challenges like overspending, overeating, and overcommitting. Learn how to manage time, budget, and family dynamics to ensure your celebrations are joyful and stress-free, keeping the spiritual essence of the season alive.
Subscribe for more tips and get a free digital copy of Kelly's book at https://turnitup.coach/75 for m...
2024-12-1109 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsIs "Happy Wife, Happy Life" Bad Advice?
Is happy wife happy life bad advice?
Are you familiar with the saying "happy wife, happy life"? While it might sound charming, it could be causing more harm than good in your marriage. Join me, Coach Kelly DuPée, pastor, police chaplain, and Christian marriage coach, as we dive into a more balanced and faith-based approach to achieving marital bliss.
In this episode of the Turn It Up Marriage Tips and Tools Show, we challenge misconceptions and explore God's design for marriage, which emphasizes mutual support and 100% commitment from both partners.
We'll discuss the power of mutual submission, highlighting h...
2024-11-2707 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsDe Escalating Conflict at Home
De Escalating Conflict at Home - The Bible has the solution!
🗣️ **Ever wondered how a simple change in your response could transform the way you handle arguments with your partner?**
In this recording, I challenge you to think about your last disagreement—could it have ended better with a different response? Many couples face the problem of escalating conflicts instead of resolving them. We instinctively react defensively when confronted with anger, leading to heated arguments. But there's a way to change this dynamic!
Join me, Coach Kelly DuPée—pastor, police chaplain, Christian marriage coach, and author—as I share a powe...
2024-11-1310 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and Tools5 R's of an Apology - Here's how
Apology not accepted? There's a reason. Join Coach Kelly DuPée on the Turn It Up Marriage Tips and Tools Show for an insightful episode on the art of apologizing in relationships.
Have you ever felt that your apology just didn't hit the mark with your spouse or loved one? You're not alone. In this video, Kelly explores why some apologies fail and shares the five essential elements that make an authentic and effective apology. Rooted in faith-based wisdom, these five "R's" – Repeat, Responsibility, Regret, Repentance, and Request – are designed to help mend and strengthen your relationships.
As a...
2024-10-2209 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsInvite God into your Marriage
Invite God into your Marriage - Here's 5 Ways
In this episode of the Turn It Up Marriage Tips and Tools Show, Coach Kelly DuPée discusses how inviting God into the center of your marriage can address feelings of emptiness and strengthen your relationship. By shifting focus from self-solutions to divine guidance, couples can avoid frustration and failure.
This recording shares biblical advice and practical steps for building a marriage on spiritual foundations, embracing faith-based communication, and growing together spiritually. It also addresses concerns for those with non-believing spouses and offers a free digital copy of his book for f...
2024-10-1110 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsWhy it's Hard to Ask Your Spouse for what you need and how to do it.
Why it's Hard to Ask Your Spouse for What you Need - and how to do it.
Are you tired of feeling unheard or unfulfilled in your relationship? Do you wish your partner would do something specific to meet your emotional needs? In this episode of the Turn It Up Marriage Tips and Tools Show, Coach Kelly DuPée shares a critical mistake that couples make when it comes to asking for what they need - and how to overcome it!
Discover:
Why it's hard to ask for what you need (and how to overcome those obstacles)
The 5-step p...
2024-10-0108 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and Tools#1 Thing a Woman Looks for in a ManWhat do you think is the number one thing a woman looks for in a potential husband? Is it money or good looks? Well, the answer may surprise you! Welcome to the Turn It Up Marriage Tips and Tools Show, where I provide faith-based tips and tools from God's word to strengthen and enhance your marriage.
Hi, I'm Coach Kelly DuPée, Pastor, police chaplain, Christian marriage coach, and author of "Turn It Up: How to Have the Lifelong Marriage that You Really Want." According to relationship expert Dr. John Gottman, the most important q...
2024-08-2104 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsIt Takes More than Knowledge
It takes more than knowledge to strengthen your marriage, it takes action.
Could it be that the missing piece in your marriage is not more knowledge but more action? Are you ready to move from being a hearer of marriage advice to a doer of that advice and see real change in your relationship? Well, welcome to the Turn It Up Marriage Tips and Tools Show where I provide faith-based tips and tools from God's Word that will strengthen your marriage and make it better.
Hi, I'm Coach Kelly DuPée, Pastor Police Chaplain, Christian Marriage Coach, and author o...
2024-08-1304 min
God's Diamonds In The Ruff Podcast#126 S4 EP 36:Is My Marriage Failing: Pastor Kelly DuPee’s Guide to Lifelong LoveSend a textUnlock the secrets to a lifelong, fulfilling marriage as we sit down with Pastor Kelly DuPee, author of "Turn it Up - How to Have the Lifelong Marriage that you Really Want." Engaging in a heartfelt discussion with Catherine, Pastor DuPee shares his inspiring journey and passion for guiding couples through the complexities of marital life. Together, we tackle one of the critical warning signs of marital trouble—frequent trivial arguments—and offer practical advice grounded in faith and understanding to help couples strengthen their bonds.Discover how to transform anger into cons...
2024-08-0828 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsFour R's of an Apology
Four R's of an Apology -How to clean up when you mess up.
In this episode of the Turn It Up Marriage Tips and Tools Show, Coach Kelly DuPée shares the four essential elements of a sincere apology. Learn how taking responsibility, expressing regret, repenting, and requesting forgiveness can help mend relationships and strengthen your marriage. Tune in to discover faith-based tips that promote reconciliation and improve communication with your loved ones.
00:00 Introduction: The Importance of Apologizing
00:40 Welcome to Turn It Up Marriage Tips and Tools
01:36 The Four Critical Elements of a Sincere Apology
01:43 Responsibility: Owning Your Mistake
02:09 R...
2024-08-0706 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsAre Words Damaging your Relationship?
Are words damaging your relationship? Say this instead. Words are powerful, they create and destroy.
In this episode of the Turn It Up Marriage Tips and Tools Show, Coach Kelly DuPée shares faith-based strategies to improve your marriage by focusing on the power of words. Discover 10 harmful words and phrases that can damage your relationship and 10 positive alternatives to strengthen your bond.
Learn how to communicate effectively with your spouse and build a stronger, lifelong connection.
For additional support and a free communication guide, type 'HELP' or 'GUIDE' in the comments.
00:00 Introduction: Strengthening Your Marriage
00:09 The Power of W...
2024-07-3104 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsThe Ultimate Marriage Guide - The Bible
The Bible is the Ultimate Marriage Guide. Why? The Bible guides us, the Bible demonstrates love, the Bible comforts us, the Bible encourages us. The Bible shows us how to live and love.
In this episode of the Turn It Up Marriage Tips and Tools Show, Coach Kelly DuPée provides faith-based insights on how to strengthen your marriage. Highlighting the divine creation and purpose of marriage, he offers three key reasons why the Bible serves as the ultimate guide for marital success. From understanding the unique needs of spouses to practical advice from scriptures like Ephesians 5:33 and James 1:19, l...
2024-07-2306 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsDate Nights Made Easy
Date nights made easy - here's how. Using the acronym P.L.A.N. you can easily incorporate date nights with your spouse back into your busy schedule. Date nights are essential to the health and success of your marriage or relationship.
Follow Coach Kelly's faith-based insights and practical advice to strengthen your marriage and ensure it thrives.
00:00 Introduction and Common Struggles
00:48 Meet Coach Kelly DuPée
01:29 The Importance of Planning
01:50 The PLAN Acronym: Prioritize
02:50 The PLAN Acronym: Logistics
04:37 The PLAN Acronym: Act
05:00 The PLAN Acronym: Enjoy
05:16 Biblical Inspiration and Final Challenge
05:58 Closing Remarks and Call to Action
If y...
2024-07-1706 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsMaking the Most of Summer Together - Here's How
Making the most of summer together - here's how. Summer is a great opportunity to strengthen your marriage. Making the most of it will help you grow closer together. This recording gives you 6 ways to do that.
Learn how to plan ahead, unplug from work, engage with your spouse, give up control, have realistic expectations, and most importantly, have fun. Kelly also highlights the importance of incorporating faith and wisdom into your relationship, drawing from Ephesians 5:15-16. For those looking to improve communication, Kelly offers a free guide with the best communication tips. Tune in to discover how to...
2024-07-0905 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsStop Telling your Spouse What to Do
Stop Telling Your Spouse What To Do: Strengthen Your Marriage with Respect
In this episode of the Turn It Up Marriage Tips and Tools Show, Coach Kelly DuPée discusses the negative impact of telling your spouse what to do and offers three alternative strategies to foster respect and partnership in marriage. By making requests with a time element, providing suggestions instead of commands, and waiting for your spouse to ask for advice, you can enhance your relationship dynamics. Coach Kelly emphasizes the importance of treating your spouse as an equal and shares faith-based tips from God's word. He a...
2024-07-0306 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsGentleness - Your Marriage Needs this
What your Marriage Needs is Gentleness - Here's How. Gentleness or being gentle with each other can be a game changer in strengthening your marriage. But do you know how to cultivate gentleness?
In this episode of the Turn It Up Marriage Tips and Tools Show, Coach Kelly DuPée explores the essential role of gentleness in marriage. Drawing on faith-based principles from the Bible, particularly the fruit of the Holy Spirit, Kelly explains how gentleness can transform your relationship. He offers practical tips such as growing closer to Jesus, listening to understand, responding gently, prioritizing your spouse, and t...
2024-06-1208 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsFaithfulness in Marriage
What your Marriage Needs is Faithfulness! Listen and learn how to cultivate faithfulness in your marriage.
Here's the link to get a free digital copy of Turn it Up! - how to have the lifelong marriage that you really want, just go to www.turnitup.coach/75
In this episode of the 'Turn It Up Marriage Tips and Tools Show,' Coach Kelly DuPée explores the importance of faithfulness in marital relationships. He discusses the broad definition of faithfulness beyond just avoiding infidelity, emphasizing trustworthiness, commitment, and reliability.
The episode examines the biblical principle of the Fruit of the S...
2024-06-0409 min
The Life Affairs Podcast - echte levensverhalen (EN/NL)19. How To Handle Our Couple Disagreements in Grace And Kindness to Build Stronger Relationship, Better Communication And Lot Of Appreciation With Kelly DupeeSend us a textMy guest Kelly Dupee shares a personal story about a pivotal moment in his marriage when his wife expressed her unhappiness and desire to feel special. He reflects on the changes he made to prioritize her feelings and improve their relationship. The discussion covers practical tips for men to better understand and communicate with their wives, the importance of handling conflicts calmly, and strategies for both partners to feel valued and trusted. Kelly also introduces concepts like 'just because' gifts and the importance of expressing appreciation in a marriage. In...
2024-05-301h 06Turn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsGoodness - What your Marriage Needs!
What your Marriage Needs is Goodness.
In this episode of the Turn It Up Marriage Tips and Tools Show, Coach Kelly DuPée explores the importance of 'goodness' in strengthening marital relationships.
Looking at Galatians 5:22-23, Coach Kelly outlines how goodness, a fruit of the Spirit, can transform your marriage through integrity, honesty, and acts of kindness. He emphasizes growing closer to Jesus and practical steps to enhance goodness in daily life.
The episode also addresses handling situations where your spouse may not reciprocate goodness and offers actionable advice for maintaining a loving, supportive relationship grounded in faith.
00:00 Introduction a...
2024-05-2908 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsKindness - Your Marriage Needs It
What your marriage needs is kindness. Here's what it is and how to cultivate it in your life and marriage.
In this episode of the Turn It Up Marriage Tips and Tools Show, Coach Kelly DuPée, a pastor, police chaplain, and Christian marriage coach, delves into the importance of kindness in marriages, describing it as a critical and essential element. Citing Galatians 5:20-23, Kelly identifies kindness as a fruit of the Spirit and offers practical advice on how to cultivate it within a marriage. Methods include growing closer to Jesus Christ, actively choosing to be kind through actions s...
2024-05-2110 min
Dads Making a Difference PodcastThe 5 Marriage-Killing Mistakes Husbands Must Avoid with Kelly DuPéeAre you struggling to keep your marriage strong and healthy? Do you find yourself making the same mistakes over and over again, causing tension and distance in your relationship? Look no further! In this episode of the Dads Making a Difference podcast, Cam sits down with Kelly DuPée, a pastor, police chaplain, and marriage coach, who shares his expertise on the five most common marriage mistakes and how to overcome them."Problems are easier solved the smaller they are. So don't wait until the big thing or until the little things that you're struggling with now g...
2024-05-1538 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsPatience - What your Marriage Needs
What your Marriage Needs is Patience. Have you ever wondered if having more patience would help strengthen your marriage?
In this episode of the Turn It Up Marriage Tips and Tools Show, Coach Kelly DuPée, a pastor, police chaplain, Christian marriage coach, and author, explores the critical role of patience in strengthening marriages.
Highlighting patience as a fruit of the Spirit detailed in Galatians 5:22-23, the episode delves into understanding patience, its importance in relationships, and practical suggestions for cultivating it in marriage. Kelly provides insights on patience, its necessity for enduring difficult circumstances without annoyance, and its r...
2024-05-1410 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsPeace - What your Marriage Needs
What your marriage needs is peace.
This episode of the Turn It Up Marriage Tips and Tools Show, hosted by Coach Kelly DuPée, delves into the transformative power of peace as a fruit of the spirit, found in Galatians 5:22. It underscores the significance of peace as essential for emotional safety, effective communication, greater intimacy, and spiritual harmony.
Coach Kelly provides faith-based tools and seven practical suggestions for cultivating peace, such as improving communication, forgiveness, praying together, and dealing with anxieties by leaning into one's faith. The aim is to strengthen marriages by encouraging couples to practice peace daily, t...
2024-05-0812 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsJoy - what your marriage needs!
What your marriage needs is joy!
In this episode of the 'Turn It Up Marriage Tips and Tools Show,' Coach Kelly Dupee, a pastor, police chaplain, professional marriage coach, and author, explores the essence of joy in Christian marriages and differentiates it from happiness.
Highlighting joy as a fruit of the Holy Spirit, Coach Kelly emphasizes that true joy is enduring and comes from within, anchored in God's love.
Through a practical JOY acronym - Jesus, Others, and You - he provides actionable advice on how to cultivate joy in marriage by growing closer to Jesus, serving and...
2024-04-3009 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsLove - what your marriage needs
What your marriage needs is - Love! Here's how to have more of it in your relationship.
In this episode of the 'Turn It Up Marriage Tips and Tools Show,' Coach Kelly discusses the importance of going beyond human love to enrich marriages through the fruit of the Spirit, as mentioned in Galatians 5:22-23.
He highlights the limitations of human love and proposes that God's perfect love, characterized by attributes such as joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control, can profoundly impact and strengthen marriages.
Coach Kelly outlines five essential aspects for nurturing the fruit of...
2024-04-2410 min
Faith and Family Trailblazer PodcastCultivating a Marriage You Love with Kelly DupeeWelcome to the Faith and Family Trailblazers Podcast! In this episode, we dive into cultivating a marriage you love.
Kelly DuPee is a husband, Dad, Grandpa, Pastor, Police Chaplain, Marriage Coach and Author but most importantly he is a follower of Jesus Christ. He has been married to his wife, Carrie for over thirty six years and they’ve been blessed with a son, daughter, son in law, daughter in law and three grandkids.
Kelly is a dedicated pillar of Faith Church in Glendora California, where he faithfully served as on...
2024-04-1722 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsDon't "Should" on Yourself in your marriage
Don't "should" on yourself. We all struggle with putting a should on ourselves when we fail. Instead of putting a should on yourself, this recording will give you several tips so that you can stop this destructive cycle and start becoming the spouse you want to be.
In this episode of the 'Turn It Up Marriage Tips and Tools Show,' Coach Kelly discusses the common issue of self-criticism in marriage, specifically the tendency to focus on what we should have done better, known as 'shoulding' on ourselves.
He emphasizes the negative impact this can have on personal well-being...
2024-04-1611 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsTips for Daily Check Ins with your Spouse
Here are some tips for daily check ins with your husband/wife.
If you want to have a great marriage, a daily check in conversation is a must. But you can maximize the effectiveness of these daily check ins by following a few simple suggestions.
In this episode of the 'Turn It Up Marriage Tips and Tools Show', host Kelly, a marriage coach, discusses the significance of daily check-ins in strengthening marital relationships. Kelly emphasizes the importance of asking open-ended questions, sharing feelings, and listening to understand as key strategies to make these check-ins more effective.
Tips include transforming...
2024-04-1011 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsImprove Problem Solving with your Spouse
Would you like to improve problem solving with your spouse?
Problem solving can be challenging in a marriage. When you both have different points of view, how do you blend those together?
🔥 Hey, amazing community! Coach Kelly here - your go-to for all things marriage transformation. In today's power-packed episode of the Turn It Up Marriage Tips and Tools Show, we're diving deep into a topic that hits home for so many couples: Problem Solving within Your Marriage. 🌟
Ever felt like you and your spouse are on opposing teams, fighting each other instead of the problem at hand? What if I s...
2024-04-0209 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsFocus on Understanding Each Other
Great things happen in your marriage when you focus on understanding each other. Understanding is the key to knowing each other, avoiding conflict, solving problems and so much more.
Feeling disconnected in your marriage? Miscommunication and misunderstandings can lead to unnecessary arguments and distance between you and your spouse. In this episode of the Turn It Up Marriage Tips & Tools show, Coach Kelly shares his insights on the importance of understanding each other in building a thriving, God-centered marriage.
Join Kelly, pastor, police chaplain, marriage coach, and author of "Turn it Up: How to Have the Lifelong Marriage that...
2024-03-2708 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsStruggle Pleasing Spouse?
Do you struggle with pleasing your spouse?
In this episode of the Turn It Up Marriage Tips and Tools Show, Coach Kelly, a pastor, police chaplain, marriage coach, and author, addresses the common struggle of not being able to please one’s spouse and offers insightful solutions. Drawing from personal experiences and biblical teachings, specifically Psalm 4:5, Kelly emphasizes the importance of learning one's spouse's likes and love languages to offer 'right sacrifices'.
Through a humorous story about a husband's missing wife, Kelly illustrates the profound lack of knowledge some partners have about each other compared to material possessions. He un...
2024-03-1913 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsSpouse Mad at You?
Is your spouse mad at you? Here's what to do so that you don't make the situation worse.
In this episode of the Turn It Up Marriage Tips and Tools Show, join me as I share my insights on how to manage confrontations effectively, focusing on responding rather than reacting to ensure constructive dialogue.
Drawing from personal experience and the wisdom of leadership author John Maxwell, I introduce the metaphor of carrying two buckets - one with gasoline and the other with water - to illustrate how our reactions can either exacerbate or calm confrontational situations. I delve into...
2024-03-1208 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and Tools10 Warning Signs your Marriage Needs Help
10 warning signs your marriage needs help. Do you know what they are? These 10 signs are like the lights on the dashboard of your car. They tell you something is wrong and you need to do something about it.
In this episode of the Turn It Up Marriage Tips and Tools Show, Coach Kelly, a pastor, police chaplain, marriage coach, and author, discusses 10 warning signs indicating a marriage might be in trouble, including frequent arguments, lack of communication, and a nonexistent sex life. Kelly emphasizes the importance of recognizing these signs early and taking proactive steps to address them. He...
2024-03-0707 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsHealing the Hurt in your Marriage
Healing the hurt in your marriage - do you know how? If you are feeling pain in your marriage, there is a reason for your pain. The pain is telling you something is wrong that needs to be addressed.
Coach Kelly, a pastor, police chaplain, and marriage coach discusses emotional hurt in marriages and how to heal it. The episode highlights five main steps; acknowledging the pain, confronting the person who caused the hurt, seeking external assistance if necessary, forgiving the person, and choosing to rebuild the relationship. Coach Kelly also takes a faith-based approach, encouraging couples to pray...
2024-02-2011 min
The Kharisma Podcast10 Warning Signs Your Marriage Needs Help with Kelly Dupee | EP 103In this episode with Kelly Dupee, Marriage Coach and Author of Turn It Up, we explore warning signs in a marriage that indicate potential trouble. From lack of communication to growing apart, these signs can help couples identify areas for improvement and seek help if needed. Join us as we delve into the complexities of relationships and offer insights into maintaining a healthy, thriving marriage.
Currently Kelly is offering his book, Turn it Up – how to have the lifelong marriage that you really want, at an incredible 75% discount on both the print and digital versions. (print version is...
2024-02-2036 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsLove Never Fails
The Bible says that love never fails. What do you think about that? Perhaps you have failed at love. Do these words make you feel like God is condemning you?
Join me Coach Kelly, a pastor, police chaplain, marriage coach, and author as we look to understand the true essence of love as depicted in 1 Corinthians 13.
This is the final part of 15 recordings that look at each aspect of love found in 1 Corinthians 13, the famous love chapter.
I'll talk about the meaning of 'Love never fails', explaining that it pertains to 'Agape' - the unselfish, sacrificial, and godly kind...
2024-02-0713 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsLove Always Hopes
In this episode of the 'Turn It Up Marriage Tips and Tools Show', Coach Kelly discusses the critical role hope plays in sustaining marriages and relationships. He outlines three situations in which hope is needed in a marriage: when drifting apart, when dealing with challenges outside the marriage, and when looking into the future. Sharing his own experiences and scriptures from the Bible, Kelly explains the importance of viewing your problems as opportunities for growth and how surrendering them to God can be beneficial. He strongly advocates to always maintaining hope, even in tough times. He...
2024-01-2414 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsLove Always Trusts
Trust, without it love won't last. God's word tells us that love always trusts. What is trust and how can it be developed so that you can have the marriage and relationships you really want?
In this episode, Coach Kelly, a pastor, police chaplain, marriage coach, and author of the book 'Turn It Up', discusses the concept of trust in a marriage inspired by 1 Corinthians 13. He shares four key points on how to build, develop, repair, and trust in God for a healthier relationship. He also shares tips from his book and ways to handle trust withdrawals and deposits...
2024-01-1814 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsLove Always Protects
Love Always Protects - do you know what that means?
This is part 11 of the series entitled "Love Is..."
In this informative and spiritual video, Coach Kelly deep dives into the meaning of Corinthians 13: 7, explaining why 'Love Always Protects'. He tackles real issues that threaten marriages, such as harmful content and inappropriate emotional intimacy, and provides concrete advice on how to combat these threats. Coach Kelly offers practical ways on how to protect your relationship and achieve a thriving marriage. If you aspire to attain a lifelong marriage by safeguarding it against external destructive factors, this video is for...
2024-01-0412 min
The Son of Man PodcastUnlocking the Secrets to a Lifelong and Fulfilling Marriage with Kelly DuPée - The S.O.M Podcast #39In this episode, Kelly DuPée shares his 36 years of wisdom and experience in navigating the journey of marriage. As a pastor and marriage counselor, Kelly sheds light on the keys to a lasting and fulfilling marriage. From overcoming challenges to celebrating milestones, Kelly discusses the importance of faith, commitment, and effective communication in building a strong marital foundation.
Discover practical advice on managing anger, the art of apology, and strategies for busy couples. Kelly also emphasizes the significance of investing time before saying "I do" and offers guidance on balancing different hobbies for a...
2023-12-2745 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsWhy Christmas is a Big Deal
Ever wondered why Christmas is a big deal?
In this episode, Pastor and marriage coach Kelly discusses the significance of Christmas and how it can influence and heal your marriage. He expresses why Christmas stands out amongst other holidays and its ability to bring hope and meaning in a world filled with violence, pain, and suffering. Highlighting the key biblical verse Matthew 1:23, he emphasizes on the importance of God's arrival to earth through Jesus - symbolizing hope in our lives.
Furthermore, he elucidates how the manifestation of this love and hope can positively impact marriage and family...
2023-12-2110 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsLove Isn't Easily Angered
The Bible says that love isn't easily angered. Do you know what that means?
In this podcast, Coach Kelly, a pastor, police chaplain, marriage coach, and author discusses how to manage and control our anger in the context of marriage. Analyzing 1st Corinthians 13:5, the video presents strategies for confronting anger including admission, repentance, forgiveness, support from others, and establishing boundaries, aiming to aid viewers in maintaining loving, long-lasting marital relationships.
00:00 Introduction and Topic Presentation
00:45 Welcome to the Show and Host Introduction
01:17 Understanding the Concept of 'Easily Angered'
02:39 The Impact of Uncontrolled Anger in Relationships
02:56 How to Not Be Easily...
2023-12-1411 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsLove Isn't Proud
Did you know that love isn't proud?
Pastor Kelly DuPee explores what pride and humility entail and how they impact relationships, particularly marriages. He asserts that excessive pride can damage relationships and advocates for humility as a secret ingredient for fostering lasting love.
Kelly explains the pitfalls of pride, such as it leading to self-sufficiency, overconfidence, difficulty listening, and inability to admit mistakes. He suggests four steps to overcome pride: admitting to having an issue, seeking forgiveness, changing behavior (repenting), and focusing on humility.
Kelly encourages listeners to seek help in overcoming their prideful tendencies and advises they practice...
2023-11-1713 min
The Vision-Driven MarriageFive Common Marriage Mistakes and Their Solutions: An Interview with Kelly DuPeeHave you ever wondered why, sometimes, a marriage that started on cloud nine suddenly finds itself in a rut? Want to learn how misplaced priorities can be a silent relationship killer? Well, today on The Vision-Driven Marriage podcast, we unwrap this complex web with the help of relationship maestro Kelly DuPee. With his vast experience in marriage coaching, Kelly shines a light on the five common mistakes that can potentially create fissures in your marriage, including misguided priorities and the lack of an active effort to maintain a strong connection with your spouse.Struggling with communication? We've...
2023-11-0334 min
Your Joyful Order With Leslie MartinezTurn It Up In Your Marriage with Pastor Kelly DupeeSend a textThis episode was an absolute honor to be able to interview Pastor Kelly Dupee. Pastor Kelly has been a mentor, pastor, coach and friend to my family for the past 20 years and I am delighted to have him share all about his newest book Turn It Up! How to have the lifelong marriage that you really want. Kelly Dupee is not only a pastor, but also a police chaplain, and marriage coach with over 30 years of ministry experience helping people. He has been speaking into the lives of many fo...
2022-10-2056 min
Turn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsAre your hobbies damaging your marriage? 5 steps to fix thisAre your hobbies damaging your marriage? This recording will give you 5 steps to fix this. Hobbies like playing golf, going shopping, riding dirt bikes, are not bad but they can take over your life and become more important to you than your marriage. There are many things that can damage a marriage - working too much, focusing too much on the kids even spending too much time serving at your church. Hobbies can be one of those things that start out good and can grow into something harmful if you're not careful. Time is valuable and it is also limi...
2022-03-1120 minTurn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsAccept your spouse's influenceHere's a great marriage tip - Accept your spouse's influence. Do you ever feel that you and your spouse are on different pages? You see things differently, have different ideas about what to do to solve a problem, have different needs, desires and wants. HOW DO YOU GET ON THE SAME PAGE? One tip is to accept his or her influence.
God’s plan for your marriage is found in Genesis 2:24. It says that two will become one. This means his will is that you work together to solve the challenges in life. That your marriage is one of...
2022-03-0411 min