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Cheaters IRL PodcastEpisode 14 Part 2: Summary of All 6 Stories Up to NowEpisode 14 Part 2: Summary of All 6 Stories Up to Now
Summary of All 6 Stories up to the point of the cheated-on partner accepting and confirming that they have, in fact, been cheated on.
Patterns of Cheating are common in most cases, these 6 stories represent common patterns.
2026-02-1354 minCheaters IRL PodcastEpisode 14 Part 1: Evidence of Cheating: How do you know if your partner is cheating?Episode 14 Part 1: Evidence of Cheating: How do you know if your partner is cheating?
2026-02-0339 minCheaters IRL PodcastEpisode 13 Part 2: Raquel & Kyle Confirmation of CheatingEpisode 13 Part 2: Raquel & Kyle Confirmation of Cheating
2026-01-2224 minCheaters IRL PodcastEpisode 13 Part 1: Listen to your Head, Your Heart is an idiotEpisode 13 Part 1: Listen to your Head, Your Heart is an idiot
2026-01-0722 minCheaters IRL PodcastEpisode 12 Part 2: Danny & Michelle Confirmations of CheatingEpisode 12 Part 2: Danny & Michelle Confirmations of Cheating
2025-12-1635 minCheaters IRL PodcastEpisode 12 Part 1: Motivations for Lying, Effect of Images Popping into the Cheated-On Spouse's MindEpisode 12 Part 1: Motivations for Lying, Effect of Images Popping into the Cheated-On Spouse's Mind
2025-12-0835 minCheaters IRL PodcastEpisode 11 Part 2: Jeff & Tanya Confirmation of CheatingEpisode 11 Part 2: Jeff & Tanya Confirmation of Cheating
2025-12-0227 minCheaters IRL PodcastEpisode 11 Part 1: Lying About the "Whys" behind Cheating BehaviorEpisode 11 Part 1: Lying About the "Whys" behind Cheating Behavior
2025-11-2641 minCheaters IRL PodcastEpisode 10 Part 2: Nicole and Dave Confirmation of CheatingEpisode 10 Part 2: Nicole and Dave Confirmation of Cheating
2025-11-2024 minCheaters IRL PodcastEpisode 10 Part 1: Cheaters' Lies, Emotions Experienced by Cheated-On Spouse, Common Apps used for CheatingEpisode 10 Part 1:
Cheaters' Lies when Confronted About Cheating. Cheaters lie about all aspects of cheating, not just about IF they are cheating. They lie about how many times, where they cheated, how they cheated and most of all WHY they cheated. They often even find a way to blame the cheated-on for their cheating.
Emotions Experienced by Cheated-On Spouse. The cheated-on spouse often feels surprised by how much anger they feel toward the person their cheating spouse cheated with. They often feel more hurt than expected, are surprised at feeling relief at discovering they were r...
2025-11-1931 minCheaters IRL PodcastEpisode 9 Part 2: Stacy & Todd Confirmations of CheatingEpisode 9 Part 2: Stacy & Todd Confirmations of Cheating
2025-11-1245 minCheaters IRL PodcastEpisode 9 Part 1: Support Systems, Vehicles and Work Schedules as Red FlagsEpisode 9 Part 1: Support Systems, Vehicles and Work Schedules as Red Flags
Support Systems are critical for physical, mental and emotional health
Vehicles can often contain a lot of evidence of cheating, as they are common hiding places for cheaters
Work is one of the most common claims to conceal cheating incidents
2025-11-1219 minCheaters IRL PodcastEpisode 8 Part 2: Amy & Chad Confirmations of CheatingEpisode 8 Part 2: Amy & Chad Confirmations of Cheating
2025-11-0853 minCheaters IRL PodcastEpisode 8 Part 1: Rumors, No Smoke Without Fire, Confessions by Cheating Partners, The Impact of Cheating on a Cheated-on SpouseEpisode 8 Part 1: Rumors, No Smoke Without Fire, Confessions by Cheating Partners, The Impact of Cheating on a Cheated-on Spouse
Rumors, No Smoke without Fire
The impact of rumors of cheating on relationships
Why do cheaters confess their cheating to others
Why do Cheaters' Cheating Partners Confess to the Cheated-On Spouse
The Impact of Cheating on a Cheated On Spouse's Feelings of self-worth
2025-11-0528 minCheaters IRL PodcastEpisode 7 Part 2: Michelle & Danny Suspicions of Cheating Arise, Raquel & Kyle Suspicions of Cheating AriseEpisode 7 Part 2: Michelle & Danny Suspicions of Cheating Arise, Raquel & Kyle Suspicions of Cheating Arise
2025-10-3148 minCheaters IRL PodcastEpisode 7 Part 1: Difficulty in Identifying Emotional Abuse is Occurring, Types of Evidence of Cheating, the Impact of Cheating on a Couple's Sex LifeEpisode 7 Part 1: Difficulty in Identifying Emotional Abuse is Occurring, Types of Evidence of Cheating, the Impact of Cheating on a Couple's Sex Life
It is often difficult for people to realize they are being emotionally abused
Emotional abusers often don't realize that their behavior is abusive
Emotional abusers are often self-centric
Types of evidence of cheating, four main categories (claims of others, confessions, physical and witnessing it)
The impact of cheating on partners' sexual relationship with each other, misconceptions about this and red flags
2025-10-2828 minCheaters IRL PodcastEpisode 6 Part 2: Nicole and Dave Suspicions of Cheating Arise, Tanya and Jeff Suspicions of Cheating AriseEpisode 6 Part 2: Nicole and Dave Suspicions of Cheating Arise, Tanya and Jeff Suspicions of Cheating Arise
2025-10-2328 minCheaters IRL PodcastEpisode 6 Part 1: Why Doesn't Amy Leave? Stacy & Todd's Retaliatory Behavior, Keeping Fit Does Not Guarantee a Partner's Fidelity, Trusting InstinctsEpisode 6 Part 1: Why Doesn't Amy Leave? Stacy & Todd's Retaliatory Behavior, Keeping Fit Does Not Guarantee a Partner's Fidelity, Trusting Instincts
Why doesn't Amy leave Chad if she's so lonely? The barriers to leaving and reasons for staying.
The impact of avoidant behavior, cheating or emotional abuse on a partner
The importance of getting the right kind of help, and harm that can result from wrong help
Stacy and Todd's retaliatory behavior pattern, where they respond with harmful behavior if they perceive harm has been done to them
Keeping Fit and Looking Good does not guarantee the fidelity of y...
2025-10-2231 minCheaters IRL PodcastEpisode 5 Part 2: Chad & Amy Suspicions of Cheating, Todd & Stacy Suspicions of CheatingEpisode 5 Part 2: Chad & Amy Suspicions of Cheating, Todd & Stacy Suspicions of Cheating
Chad & Amy Suspicions of Cheating Arise. Chad spends far too much time away from home. The word divorce is brought up by Amy. She is achingly lonely. Chad doesn't respond to her efforts to spend time on their marriage. Baffling incidents occur that don't make sense to Amy.
Todd & Stacy Suspicions of Cheating Arise. Therapy is only slightly helping. Stacy looks forward to flirting with exes at church each week. Todd engages in behavior that causes another rift in their marriage. T...
2025-10-1740 minCheaters IRL PodcastEpisode 5 Part 1: \Raquel Struggling to Believe Rumors, Shooting the Messenger, Cheaters Flipping the Script to Impeach the Credibility of Rumors of Their Cheating, Financial Evidence of CheatingEpisode 5 Part 1: Why is Raquel Struggling to Believe Rumors, Telling Someone About a Partner Cheating, Shooting the Messenger, Cheaters Flipping the Script to Impeach the Credibility of Rumors of Their Cheating, Financial Evidence of Cheating
Why is Raquel Struggling to Believe Rumors of Kyle Cheating? Including an upsetting rumor about her husband getting another woman pregnant? What makes it difficult for people to accept that what they are hearing about their spouse from others might be true?
The difficulty of reconciling our personal experiences with a person with information that is contrary to that impression of them.
Telling someone about the...
2025-10-1536 minCheaters IRL PodcastEpisode 4 Part 2: Michelle and Danny After the Alter, Raquel and Kyle After the AlterEpisode 4 Part 2: Michelle and Danny After the Alter, Raquel and Kyle After the Alter
Michelle and Danny struggle with intimacy, Michelle is highly uncomfortable with engaging in physical intimacy with Danny. She feels immense guilt over this, but Danny is very understanding. Danny excels at work and they move into a good neighborhood. They have twins and Michelle is determined to get into shape and hopefully that will help solve her intimacy issues.
Raquel and Kyle begin their life together, rumors of infidelity begin immediately. Kyle is a huge flirt and will not s...
2025-10-0835 minCheaters IRL PodcastEpisode 4 Part 1: What is Legal Marriage? Is a Cheater Always a Cheater? Changed Appearance as a Sign of CheatingEpisode 4 Part 1: What is Legal Marriage, Is a Cheater Always a Cheater, Changed Appearance is a Sign of Cheating
In Episode 4 Part 1, we discuss what Legal Marriage is, it's not about Love. It's about granting rights to the person you are marrying, as to you, including rights to the income you earn and property you accrue. This makes it particularly important that you keep your marriage strong and do not remain married to someone whom you don't want to have those rights. And to be careful not to be in a marriage where harm is occurring. We...
2025-10-0727 minCheaters IRL PodcastEpisode 3 Part 2: Nicole & Dave After the Alter and Tanya & Jeff After the AlterEpisode 3 Part 2: Nicole & Dave After the Alter and Tanya & Jeff After the Alter
Things begin to crack immediately for Nicole & Dave, but Dave is able to smooth things over
Things are looking really good for Tanya & Jeff, they aren't showing any cracks well into their marriage
2025-09-3035 minCheaters IRL PodcastEpisode 3 Part 1: Lying in Family Law, "It Didn't Mean Anything to Me" and the Impact of Infidelity on Property Division in DivorceEpisode 3 Part 1: Lying in Family Law, "It Didn't Mean Anything to Me" and the Impact of Infidelity on Property Division in Divorce
We discuss why it's not a good idea to accuse the opposing party of lying in Family Law, and why it's better to use evidence to show that they aren't being honest instead. We discuss the loaded impact of certain words and why it's important to be careful about how you approach your case in the court system.
We also discuss the "After the Alter" episodes of both Amy & Chad and Stacey & Todd
2025-09-3031 minCheaters IRL PodcastEpisode 2 Part 2: Chad & Amy After the Altar, Stacy & Todd After the AlterChad and Amy begin their married life. Cracks are already appearing. They get jobs at the same company, in different departments with schedules that make spending time together difficult. Chad struggles dealing with Amy's emotions. Amy struggles dealing with Chad's tendency to shut down in certain situations. Both are excited about the arrival of the baby, which is the thing really holding them together.
Stacy and Todd begin their married life. They are really enjoying an active social life, at school and church. But family is beginning to be a problem. Especially Todd's mom. Todd's need for...
2025-09-2447 minCheaters IRL PodcastEpisode 2 Part 1: Difficulties in Family Law, Gaslighting, Love Bombing, Conflict Avoidant Personalities and Impact of Adultery on AlimonyEpisode 2 Part 1: In this episode we discuss the difficulties in Family Law including the importance of being honest with your attorney and the reasons you don't want to end up in Court. Definitions of Gaslighting and Love Bombing. We discuss what Conflict Avoidant Behavior is, and the negative impact it has on intimacy and how it can result in infidelity and abusive behavior toward the cheated-on Spouse. We also discuss a Red Flag for those tempted to cheat to identify a sign that they may be headed to do so. We end with the impact of Adultery on Alimony...
2025-09-1928 minCheaters IRL PodcastEpisode 1 Part 2: How They Met and Married Stories of our 6 CouplesCheaters IRL is a podcast discussing cheating in real life (IRL) experiences. It shares 6 true stories of cheating and discusses the commonalities, misconceptions, red flags and even legal implications of cheating. It is written and produced by an experienced family law attorney. Each episode has two parts. Part 1 of each episode is the discussion portion of the episode, where relationships are discussed including common misconceptions about cheating, red flags to spot cheating and the legal implications of cheating. Part 2 of each episode takes us through the 6 couples' real-life stories of cheating where we can see real life examples of...
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Cheaters IRL PodcastEpisode 1 Part 1: Introduction to Cheaters IRL (In Real Life) PodcastCheaters IRL is a podcast discussing cheating in real life (IRL) experiences. It shares 6 true stories of cheating and discusses the commonalities, misconceptions, red flags and even legal implications of cheating. It is written and produced by an experienced family law attorney. Each episode has two parts. Part 1 of each episode is the discussion portion of the episode, where relationships are discussed including common misconceptions about cheating, red flags to spot cheating and the legal implications of cheating. Part 2 of each episode takes us through the 6 couples' real-life stories of cheating where we can see real life examples of...
2025-08-2350 min