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RMTS PodcastYou Are Acting Like Your Mother | RMTS 147 W/ DSO & VerlisifySponsors: @GFuelEnergy: use code RMTS for 20% off at checkout Guest: @DadStartingOver Join us as we delve into the intriguing world of ADHD and its impact on relationships. Discover how being neurodivergent shapes interpersonal dynamics and the surprising parallels between white knights and the women they criticize. This thought-provoking episode offers unique insights and engaging discussions that you won't want to miss! 🔊 Topics Covered: ADHD and its effects on relationships Neurodivergence and its influence on social interactions The phenomenon of white knights mimicking the women they resent Tune in now for an eye-opening conversation that will challenge your perspectives and provide valua...2024-06-191h 52
Dad Starting OverInterview With Coach JJason, or "Coach J" as he is known by our group, is one of the founding members of the DSO Fraternity and acts as the director for our DSO coaches. J has recently retired from the U.S. Army and brings with him a wealth of life experience.In this very candid conversation, DSO and Coach J talk about what got him into the world of Dad Starting Over, his struggles, and his current extremely stressful life situation with divorce and his ex-wife's alcohol addiction issues. Thank you, J, for all that you do for...2024-03-041h 43Dad Starting OverInterview With Coach JJason, or "Coach J" as he is known by our group, is one of the founding members of the DSO Fraternity and acts as the director for our DSO coaches. J has recently retired from the U.S. Army and brings with him a wealth of life experience.In this very candid conversation, DSO and Coach J talk about what got him into the world of Dad Starting Over, his struggles, and his current extremely stressful life situation with divorce and his ex-wife's alcohol addiction issues. Thank you, J, for all that you do for...2024-03-041h 43Dad Starting OverDear DSO: "I've just been told my wife doesn't love me anymore..."A follower reaches out and tells the story of his wife who wants nothing more to do with him. It's time that he listens and stops hanging on...You can ask DSO a question by filling out the form here: https://dadstartingover.com/dear-dso2023-11-1510 minDad Starting OverDear DSO: "I've just been told my wife doesn't love me anymore..."A follower reaches out and tells the story of his wife who wants nothing more to do with him. It's time that he listens and stops hanging on...You can ask DSO a question by filling out the form here: https://dadstartingover.com/dear-dso2023-11-1510 minDad Starting OverDear DSO: Have You Ever Heard About An Affair SAVING A Marriage?A follower asks if I have ever heard about an affair saving a marriage. "John" says that he has been in a dead bedroom relationship for a while, tried all kinds to rekindle his marriage, but it wasn't until he actually stepped outside of his marriage that things seem to improve. Interesting! Let's talk about it. You can submit your own question to Ralph/DSO here: https://dadstartingover.com/dear-dso2023-11-1113 minDad Starting OverDear DSO: Have You Ever Heard About An Affair SAVING A Marriage?A follower asks if I have ever heard about an affair saving a marriage. "John" says that he has been in a dead bedroom relationship for a while, tried all kinds to rekindle his marriage, but it wasn't until he actually stepped outside of his marriage that things seem to improve. Interesting! Let's talk about it. You can submit your own question to Ralph/DSO here: https://dadstartingover.com/dear-dso2023-11-1113 minDad Starting OverDSO & Dr. Psych Mom - Do Women Experience Lower Libido After Marriage?DSO and DPM tackle a popular topic: What happens to the average woman's libido after marriage?IMPORTANT LINKS:https://www.liinks.co/dadstartingoverFOLLOW ME ON💥 Facebook https://facebook.com/dadstartingover💥 TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@dad.starting.over2023-07-0511 minDad Starting OverDSO & Dr. Psych Mom - Do Women Experience Lower Libido After Marriage?DSO and DPM tackle a popular topic: What happens to the average woman's libido after marriage?IMPORTANT LINKS:https://www.liinks.co/dadstartingoverFOLLOW ME ON💥 Facebook https://facebook.com/dadstartingover💥 TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@dad.starting.over2023-07-0511 min
The Dr. Psych Mom Showwith clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman WhitenDad Starting Over: My First Podcast Guest!!Today I have my very first and possibly only podcast guest! Ralph who created Dad Starting Over gives me his thoughts on men, women, relationships, vulnerability, and of course SEX. Why don't men share their vulnerable feelings with women? What is the metric by which men assess their lives? And how did Ralph even come up with DSO in the first place (hint: a divorce is involved), nevermind sell over 100,000 copies of his book?? Note that Ralph will be presenting a zoom event with me Thursday May 19 6:30p EST (link below) so please sign up!!
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The Suzanne Venker Show104. The Dead Bedroom Fix: A Conversation with “Dad Starting Over”DSO is the pen name for Ralph, the founder of dadstartingover.com, host of the Dad Starting Over Podcast, and author of three books including his popular title, “The Dead Bedroom Fix”. The Dad Starting Over website is a resource for men that are “starting over” in life after divorce, after enduring a wife’s affair… or for those men who are still married and want to hit the reset button on their relationship, find their place in life, and finally do things the “right” way.
In 2020, Ralph started the DSO Fraternity, which is the members-only portion of dadstartingov...2021-07-111h 00Dad Starting OverShit Tests vs. Toxic Behaviordadstartingover.com2021-04-2709 minDad Starting OverShit Tests vs. Toxic Behaviordadstartingover.com2021-04-2709 minDad Starting OverNice Guys and Vulnerability - With Jack London and Austindadstartingover.comCheck out the DSO Fraternity2021-04-221h 00Dad Starting OverNice Guys and Vulnerability - With Jack London and Austindadstartingover.comCheck out the DSO Fraternity2021-04-221h 00Dad Starting OverDear DSO: "Isn't It Easier to Just Start Over?"dadstartingover.comClick here to learn more about the DSO Fraternity2021-03-1606 minDad Starting OverDear DSO: "Isn't It Easier to Just Start Over?"dadstartingover.comClick here to learn more about the DSO Fraternity2021-03-1606 minDad Starting OverBoundariesdadstartingover.comClick here to learn more about the DSO Fraternity2021-03-1610 minDad Starting OverBoundariesdadstartingover.comClick here to learn more about the DSO Fraternity2021-03-1610 minDad Starting OverLesbian Bed Deathdadstartingover.comClick here to learn more about the DSO Fraternity2021-03-1608 minDad Starting OverLesbian Bed Deathdadstartingover.comClick here to learn more about the DSO Fraternity2021-03-1608 minDad Starting OverAustin and Shannon - A Reader and His Wife Discuss The Dead Bedroom Fix and The Impact on Their MarriageDownload The Dead Bedroom FixLearn more about The DSO Fraternity.2021-02-091h 29Dad Starting OverAustin and Shannon - A Reader and His Wife Discuss The Dead Bedroom Fix and The Impact on Their MarriageDownload The Dead Bedroom FixLearn more about The DSO Fraternity.2021-02-091h 29Dad Starting OverWhat If We Were Never Really Sexual?Check out The DSO Fraternity.2021-02-0408 minDad Starting OverWhat If We Were Never Really Sexual?Check out The DSO Fraternity.2021-02-0408 minDad Starting OverThirsty MenCheck out the DSO Fraternity.2021-02-0409 minDad Starting OverThirsty MenCheck out the DSO Fraternity.2021-02-0409 minDad Starting OverThe Depressed WifeThe DSO Fraternity2021-02-0411 minDad Starting OverThe Depressed WifeThe DSO Fraternity2021-02-0411 minDad Starting OverLet's Talk About Sex! Mrs. DSO and I Get Down and Dirty About Our Sex Life and What We Do To Keep ConnectedClick here to download The Dead Bedroom Fix.Click here to learn about The DSO Fraternity.2021-01-281h 26Dad Starting OverLet's Talk About Sex! Mrs. DSO and I Get Down and Dirty About Our Sex Life and What We Do To Keep ConnectedClick here to download The Dead Bedroom Fix.Click here to learn about The DSO Fraternity.2021-01-281h 26Dad Starting OverHear Chris' Dead Bedroom Fix Success Story.. and How He Rediscovered His Old Self After Leaving a Toxic RelationshipClick here to read The Dead Bedroom FixClick here to learn more about The DSO Fraternity.2021-01-2156 minDad Starting OverHear Chris' Dead Bedroom Fix Success Story.. and How He Rediscovered His Old Self After Leaving a Toxic RelationshipClick here to read The Dead Bedroom FixClick here to learn more about The DSO Fraternity.2021-01-2156 minDad Starting OverNo Sex for TWO YEARS?! Hear Mike's Story and How He Turned His Marriage AroundClick here to read The Dead Bedroom Fix.Click here to learn more about the DSO Fraternity.2021-01-2049 minDad Starting OverNo Sex for TWO YEARS?! Hear Mike's Story and How He Turned His Marriage AroundClick here to read The Dead Bedroom Fix.Click here to learn more about the DSO Fraternity.2021-01-2049 minDad Starting OverIntroducing Mrs. DSO... and a BIG Announcement!Join the DSO Fraternity: dadstartingover.com/joinRead my books: dadstartingover.com/books2021-01-1056 minDad Starting OverIntroducing Mrs. DSO... and a BIG Announcement!Join the DSO Fraternity: dadstartingover.com/joinRead my books: dadstartingover.com/books2021-01-1056 min
Dad Starting OverDSO Fraternity Meeting Sample - EntrepreneurshipHere is a sample of one of our hour-long DSO Fraternity meetings. In this meeting, we discussed being an entrepreneur and my own personal journey starting up dadstartingover.com.2020-12-1404 minDad Starting OverDSO Fraternity Meeting Sample - EntrepreneurshipClick here to join the DSO Fraternity today! 2020-12-1404 minDad Starting OverInterview with "Dr. Nick" - A Psychiatrist and DSO Fraternity memberLearn more about the DSO Fraternity: https://dadstartingover.com/joinDownload The Dead Bedroom Fix today: https://dadstartingover.com/the-dead-bedroom-fix2020-12-0948 minDad Starting OverInterview with "Dr. Nick" - A Psychiatrist and DSO Fraternity memberLearn more about the DSO Fraternity: https://dadstartingover.com/joinDownload The Dead Bedroom Fix today: https://dadstartingover.com/the-dead-bedroom-fix2020-12-0948 minDad Starting OverInterview with "Scott" - New DSO Fraternity Meeting Host and Coach!https://dadstartingover.comBook a session with Scott here: https://dadstartingover.com/biography/scott-mLearn more about the DSO Fraternity here: https://dadstartingover.com/join2020-12-091h 06Dad Starting OverInterview with "Scott" - New DSO Fraternity Meeting Host and Coach!https://dadstartingover.comBook a session with Scott here: https://dadstartingover.com/biography/scott-mLearn more about the DSO Fraternity here: https://dadstartingover.com/join2020-12-091h 06Dad Starting OverYou Can't Trust Yourself. Take Time To Heal.https://dadstartingover.com2020-12-0720 minDad Starting OverYou Can't Trust Yourself. Take Time To Heal.https://dadstartingover.com2020-12-0720 minDad Starting OverListen to Jack London on the "Regular Infantry Guys" Podcast!Subscribe and listen to the Regular Infantry Guys podcast here!Learn more about the DSO Fraternity here.Get The Dead Bedroom Fix here.2020-12-011h 04Dad Starting OverListen to Jack London on the "Regular Infantry Guys" Podcast!Subscribe and listen to the Regular Infantry Guys podcast here!Learn more about the DSO Fraternity here.Get The Dead Bedroom Fix here.2020-12-011h 04Dad Starting OverYou Can't Beat Emotion. Stop Trying.https://dadstartingover.com2020-11-3020 minDad Starting OverYou Can't Beat Emotion. Stop Trying.https://dadstartingover.com2020-11-3020 minDad Starting OverDSO Fraternity Meeting - PUBLIC - 11/15/20Join the DSO Fraternity today and get:Access to all of my books in PDF, MP3, and audio streaming formats.Access to private Facebook discussion groups for men in dead bedrooms, dads starting over, and men dating after divorce.Access to member-only articles and audio.Access to live member meetings hosted by myself, Jack and ThomasDiscounted one-on-one coaching rate.Click here to learn more!2020-11-161h 14Dad Starting OverDSO Fraternity Meeting - PUBLIC - 11/15/20Join the DSO Fraternity today and get:Access to all of my books in PDF, MP3, and audio streaming formats.Access to private Facebook discussion groups for men in dead bedrooms, dads starting over, and men dating after divorce.Access to member-only articles and audio.Access to live member meetings hosted by myself, Jack and ThomasDiscounted one-on-one coaching rate.Click here to learn more!2020-11-161h 14Dad Starting OverInterview with "Jason" - A Dead Bedroom Fix Success StoryBuy your copy of The Dead Bedroom Fix here!2020-11-121h 09Dad Starting OverInterview with "Jason" - A Dead Bedroom Fix Success StoryBuy your copy of The Dead Bedroom Fix here!2020-11-121h 09Dad Starting OverMarriage is Like CollegeThis is an example of an article and audio posted at on the DSO Fraternity. Click here to learn more about our group and how you can join. 2020-11-1013 minDad Starting OverMarriage is Like CollegeThis is an example of an article and audio posted at on the DSO Fraternity. Click here to learn more about our group and how you can join. 2020-11-1013 minDad Starting OverInterview with "Thomas" - DSO Fraternity meeting host and coach. He has one very INTERESTING story.Click here to book a coaching session with Thomas!Click here to join the DSO Fraternity! Articles, audio, live meetings, discussion groups, and discounts on coaching.2020-11-091h 14Dad Starting OverInterview with "Thomas" - DSO Fraternity meeting host and coach. He has one very INTERESTING story.Click here to book a coaching session with Thomas!Click here to join the DSO Fraternity! Articles, audio, live meetings, discussion groups, and discounts on coaching.2020-11-091h 14
Dad Starting OverInterview with "Jack London" - DSO contributor, meeting host and coach... and a Dead Bedroom Fix success story!Join the DSO Fraternity today!Book your one-on-one coaching session with Jack (Note: Fraternity members get a big discount on coaching!)2020-10-301h 02Dad Starting OverInterview with "Jack London" - DSO contributor, meeting host and coach... and a Dead Bedroom Fix success story!Join the DSO Fraternity today!Book your one-on-one coaching session with Jack (Note: Fraternity members get a big discount on coaching!)2020-10-301h 02Dad Starting OverInterview with "Austin" - A Dead Bedroom Fix Success StoryCheck out The Dead Bedroom Fix by clicking here.Learn more about The DSO Fraternity by clicking here. 2020-10-291h 06Dad Starting OverInterview with "Austin" - A Dead Bedroom Fix Success StoryCheck out The Dead Bedroom Fix by clicking here.Learn more about The DSO Fraternity by clicking here. 2020-10-291h 06Dad Starting OverDSO Coaching Session - "Jeff"Jeff married the wrong woman. The argument could be made that he never had the tools necessary to properly navigate the marriage waters. Early on in the relationship, the bedroom died and Jeff took his frustrations out on a one night stand. Years later, after kids and lots of stress took over, the same coping mechanism came back. Jeff had a long term affair. Needless to say, that didn't end well.https://dadstartingover.com/2020-10-121h 07Dad Starting OverDSO Coaching Session - "Jeff"Jeff married the wrong woman. The argument could be made that he never had the tools necessary to properly navigate the marriage waters. Early on in the relationship, the bedroom died and Jeff took his frustrations out on a one night stand. Years later, after kids and lots of stress took over, the same coping mechanism came back. Jeff had a long term affair. Needless to say, that didn't end well.https://dadstartingover.com/2020-10-121h 07Dad Starting OverInterview with Dr. Robert Glover - 2019https://dadstartingover.com2020-09-2653 minDad Starting OverInterview with Dr. Robert Glover - 2019https://dadstartingover.com2020-09-2653 minDad Starting OverDSO Coaching Session - "Russell"What do you think of Russell's story? Does he have hope of turning this around? If you would like to book your own coaching session, you can do so here. Don't worry, I won't put your session on the podcast!: http://dadstartingover.com/one-on-one-coaching/ 2020-09-091h 05Dad Starting OverDSO Coaching Session - "Russell"What do you think of Russell's story? Does he have hope of turning this around? If you would like to book your own coaching session, you can do so here. Don't worry, I won't put your session on the podcast!: http://dadstartingover.com/one-on-one-coaching/ 2020-09-091h 05Dad Starting OverBecause you are NEEDYNeediness is the source of so much pain and anguish when it comes to personal relationships.2020-09-0707 minDad Starting Over"Dear DSO" - Questions From ReadersIn this episode, I tackle some recent emails that readers have sent in. These types of questions are VERY common.2020-09-0725 minDad Starting OverDSO Coaching Session - "Matt"How many men out there can relate to Matt's story? A LOT. It's the story as old as time. Matt is pissed. Matt is negative. Life is just not intending to go the way he wants. Nothing is going according to plan... if he actually HAD a plan. He knows what he needs to do... just... how does one go about doing it? As with most stories like Matt's, it all starts at the beginning. Matt is introspective and wise enough to recognize the origin of his story... it's just a matter of taking what he knows a...2020-08-211h 16Dad Starting OverDSO Coaching Session - "Matt"How many men out there can relate to Matt's story? A LOT. It's the story as old as time. Matt is pissed. Matt is negative. Life is just not intending to go the way he wants. Nothing is going according to plan... if he actually HAD a plan. He knows what he needs to do... just... how does one go about doing it? As with most stories like Matt's, it all starts at the beginning. Matt is introspective and wise enough to recognize the origin of his story... it's just a matter of taking what he knows a...2020-08-211h 16Dad Starting OverDSO Coaching Session - "Dave"Dave is in a very typical state of "limbo" with his relationship. His story is by no means unique. His wife is at a very typical and predictable crossroads in her life, and she's not quite sure she wants to go down the path that includes her husband. When you hear Dave's story, you hear the story of a typical "nice guy" who lacked a father figure and looked at his wife as a source of stability and security during his emotional ups and downs.If you'd like to learn more about one-on-one sessions with me and...2020-08-061h 10Dad Starting OverDSO Coaching Session - "Dave"Dave is in a very typical state of "limbo" with his relationship. His story is by no means unique. His wife is at a very typical and predictable crossroads in her life, and she's not quite sure she wants to go down the path that includes her husband. When you hear Dave's story, you hear the story of a typical "nice guy" who lacked a father figure and looked at his wife as a source of stability and security during his emotional ups and downs.If you'd like to learn more about one-on-one sessions with me and...2020-08-061h 10Dad Starting OverA Look Inside The Mind of a Cheating Wife Who Filed For Divorcehttps://dadstartingover.com2020-08-0517 minDad Starting OverA Look Inside The Mind of a Cheating Wife Who Filed For Divorcehttps://dadstartingover.com2020-08-0517 minDad Starting OverSeven Signs That Your Wife is Cheatinghttps://dadstartingover.com2020-08-0319 minDad Starting OverSeven Signs That Your Wife is Cheatinghttps://dadstartingover.com2020-08-0319 min
Dad Starting Over"Should I Take Her Back?"Your wife cheated on you and left... now she's crawling back. The moment you've been waiting for. Do you take her back?2020-07-0910 min
Dad Starting OverReal LoveWhat exactly is "Real Love"? How do you find it? How do you maintain it? Is it for everyone?2020-07-0914 min
Dad Starting OverThe Provider is DeadThe classic role of "Provider" is dead, gentlemen. It's time to wake up.2020-07-0914 min
Dad Starting OverMy One and Only Marriage Counseling SessionLet's take a trip back in time and look at what happened during my one and only marriage counseling session with my ex-wife.2020-07-0809 min
Dad Starting OverPorn - The Four Letter WordLet's talk about that four-letter word: PORN2020-07-0811 min
Dad Starting OverNobody Gives a Sh*tThe fact that nobody seems to care about you and your predicament should be accepted... and a freeing concept.2020-07-0808 min
Dad Starting OverHow to be a Better WifeIn this episode, I talk about what I think every woman should know about what it takes to be a "better wife". The key word is VALIDATION.2020-07-0819 min
Dad Starting OverHow Do You Detach From Your Cheater Ex?Detaching from your cheating ex-wife is not easy... but it must be done. Here's the how and why for detaching from your ex.https://www.dadstartingover.com2020-03-2410 minDad Starting OverHow Do You Detach From Your Cheater Ex?Detaching from your cheating ex-wife is not easy... but it must be done. Here's the how and why for detaching from your ex.https://www.dadstartingover.com2020-03-2410 min
Dad Starting OverDead Bedrooms - The Importance of GETTING AWAYFor all of you Dead Bedroom Fix readers wanting to get closer to that "new relationship energy" level of intimacy you had early in your relationship, this episode is for you!2020-03-1114 min
Dad Starting OverDead BedroomsThe super popular topic that every man wishes he didn't have to talk about... the dreaded DEAD BEDROOM. What is it with the "not tonight honey, I have a headache" stereotype? The frigid wife. What's going on there? Does a long term marriage really HAVE to mean a lack of a good sex life?2020-03-1008 min
Dad Starting Over"My Wife Wants an Open Marriage"The "wife wants an open marriage" phenomenon is growing. Fast. What is going on here? What does this mean for you?2020-03-0915 min
Dad Starting OverStop Blaming "The Other Man" - Enforce Your BoundariesIn this episode, I talk about the all-too-common scenario of men blaming "the other man" for their wife's affair. Then the conversation turns to the importance of enforcing boundaries and how your own wife may need your help enforcing boundaries that you may feel she should do herself. Don't be such a nice guy... grow a pair.2020-03-0825 min
Dad Starting OverAudiobook Sample - "The Dead Bedroom Fix"Here is a sample of the audiobook version of "The Dead Bedroom Fix".You can listen on Audible, Apple Books, Awesound or download the MP3 from dadstartingover.com/the-dead-bedroom-fix2020-02-0905 minDad Starting OverAudiobook Sample - "The Dead Bedroom Fix"Here is a sample of the audiobook version of "The Dead Bedroom Fix".You can listen on Audible, Apple Books, Awesound or download the MP3 from dadstartingover.com/the-dead-bedroom-fix2020-02-0905 min
Dad Starting OverAudiobook Sample - "NOW WHAT? A Guide for Men Starting Over in Life After Infidelity, Breakup and Divorce"Here is a sample of the audiobook version of "NOW WHAT?".You can listen on Audible, Apple Books, Awesound or download the MP3 from dadstartingover.com/now-what2020-02-0904 minDad Starting OverAudiobook Sample - "NOW WHAT? A Guide for Men Starting Over in Life After Infidelity, Breakup and Divorce"Here is a sample of the audiobook version of "NOW WHAT?".You can listen on Audible, Apple Books, Awesound or download the MP3 from dadstartingover.com/now-what2020-02-0904 min
Dad Starting OverWhat Did I Do Wrong in my Failed Relationship?In this episode I talk about what I did wrong in my failed relationship. No, I'm not all perfect... and no, it wasn't all her fault. I had work to do, and I didn't do it. But why?2019-11-2511 min
Dad Starting OverAre ALL Women Like This?!In this episode, I talk about the common question I see posted online all the time: "Are ALL women like this?!" As with most things in life, it's not as simple as "MGTOW!" and "HYPERGAMY!". It's time to put on our adult hats and look at what got us all in this mess in the first place.2019-11-2521 min
Dad Starting OverRed Flag: LyingWe’re so accustomed to being lied to that we let is slip by again and again with no consequence or action. When it comes to our saintly women, men like to fall all over themselves explaining away these indiscretions. Our women are just far too innocent to think that they would lie to us for insidious reasons. They’re just little fibs. 2019-03-3024 min
Dad Starting OverWhy Did She "Affair Down"?So your wife was caught in an affair. Let me guess, he was a loser, right? He was by no means the kind of guy that she should want in a long-term relationship partner. Your situation is not unique. It is the norm. Let's talk about it and explore the phenomenon.2018-09-1626 min
Dad Starting OverTestosterone Replacement Therapy - PART 2So I listened to the first episode I did about TRT... and realized I left a great deal out. In this episode we will talk about sperm, erections, roid rage, acne... it's a good one.2018-06-2629 min
Dad Starting OverTestosterone Replacement TherapyI've been a TRT patient for several years. I can say, without a doubt, it has changed my life for the better.In this episode I briefly go over my experience, the pros and cons and what you can do to get started (if you need TRT).DISCLAIMER: I am NOT a medical professional. At all. This is just my own experience as a TRT patient. Seek the physician or trained medical professional with experience in hormone replacement therapy.2018-06-2436 min