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Garlic Marketing ShowElliot Connie on How Better Questions Drive Personal and Business GrowthCan asking better questions change your future? Elliot Connie believes it can. As a psychotherapist, author, and founder of The Solution Focused Universe, Elliot has built a multi-seven-figure business, amassed 150,000 email subscribers, and inspired countless lives—all by asking the right questions.In this conversation, Elliot shares:The importance of focusing on one person when creating content.How to make questions actionable and transformative.The surprising power of gratitude in building an audience.Discover his unique mindset and strategies, including insights from his book, Change Your Qu...2024-12-0431 min
SaaS FuelElliott Connie - Gratitude as a Game-Changer: Excelling in Life and LeadershipWelcome to SaaS Fuel! In this special Thanksgiving episode, we sit down with Elliott Connie, a psychotherapist, author, and founder of the world’s largest solution-focused therapy training organization. Elliott shares insights on gratitude, resilience, and the power of asking the right questions to create meaningful change in life and leadership.If you're a scaling SaaS founder or entrepreneur, this episode is packed with actionable takeaways to help you navigate the pressures of leadership while building a business of significance.Key Takeaways00:00:51 - "Gratitude isn’t just a feel-good concept; it’s a leader...2024-11-2852 min
Naked Sports with Cari ChampionDon't Give Up On The Dream: Election Day Special with Elliott ConnieWith the election this week and so many experiencing understandable concern, this special episode with Elliott Connie offers hope amidst political turmoil. This conversation highlights women's empowerment in sports and politics, the impact of mental health on political discourse, and the pervasive issues of racism and confirmation bias in society. The episode opens with a special message from Thomas Booker and concludes with encouraging words of hope for listeners to fight for what matters to them, emphasizing the importance of voting and civic engagement. Connect: @CariChampion @ThomasBooker @ElliottConnie Subscribe: Naked Sports wi...2024-11-0435 min
Relationships RuleChange Your Questions, Change Your FutureEver wonder how a psychotherapist becomes a stand-up comic?In this episode, we dive into the fascinating world of Elliot Connie, a psychotherapist, author, podcaster, and founder of Solution Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT). Elliot shares his journey from a tough childhood and a stint in marine biology to discovering his passion for helping others through psychology. He talks about how SFBT flips traditional therapy on its head by focusing on hope and asking the right questions to inspire change, rather than just digging into problems.Elliot opens up about facing pushback from...2024-10-0135 min
Social Work SpotlightEpisode 116: SidonieIn this episode I speak with Sid, who in her early years of social work has discovered a deep passion for engaging with and supporting individuals navigating PTSD and mental health challenges. Her journey into social work was driven by a profound love for aiding others and a genuine interest in listening to their stories, empowering them to feel like the protagonist in their own lives.Links to resources mentioned in this week’s episode:Braiding Sweetgrass by Robin Wall Kimmerer - https://www.penguin.com.au/books/braiding-sweetgrass-9780141991955Elliott Co...2024-08-1649 min
Family Therapy, The PodcastBONUS: QuestionsIn this bonus episode of Family Therapy, host Elliott Connie guides listeners through a series of questions to help them adopt a new way of thinking and create the life they want. He emphasizes the importance of focusing on the things in life that are improving and shifting from asking unproductive questions to asking useful ones. Connie shares examples of how asking positive 'what if' questions can lead to action and increased hope. He also discusses the significance of being outcome-led, making small intentional changes, and discovering one's purpose. The episode encourages listeners to pay attention to the positive...2024-08-1425 minFamily Therapy, The PodcastBreaking Generational TraumaThe conversation covers two main themes: the impact of police violence on the Black community and the importance of breaking generational trauma within a family. Elliott's opening statement focuses on the traumatic experiences of witnessing police brutality and the fear and trauma it instills in the Black community. The second theme explores the desire to heal and reconnect within a family that has been plagued by generational trauma, estrangement, and inconsistency. This week's session highlights Jay and Freddie and the importance of forgiveness, understanding, and building strong family bonds for future generations. Freddie shares his...2024-07-2457 minFamily Therapy, The PodcastA Possibility For HealingThis week’s session highlights a conversation with Freddie after making his first attempts to contact his estranged son. Although his son was not interested in speaking with him Freddie shares what he learned from his efforts. He plans to continue trying and believes that being persistent will eventually lead to a stronger relationship. Elliott shares his perspective and emphasizes the importance of allowing someone to apologize and heal. He encourages Freddie's son to listen to his father's attempts at reconciliation and consider the possibility of healing and growth in their relationship. Join Us Live for BIPOC Me...2024-07-1754 minFamily Therapy, The PodcastCreating a Shared Vision for the FutureToday's episode begins with thoughts on the importance of mental health in BIPOC communities and how the current political climate affects mental health. The fear and anxiety caused by political changes and the rollback of rights are highlighted. The conversation then transitions to a therapy session with Jay and David, where they discuss the future of their relationship. They explore topics such as their shared vision, co-parenting, and the possibility of marriage. The importance of being mission-driven and having clear goals is emphasized. Jay and David explore the idea of marriage and how it would change their...2024-07-101h 12Family Therapy, The PodcastSeeing The Evidence Of PositivityIn this conversation, the principal themes discussed are the importance of finding a therapist who understands one's cultural background, the dynamics of gender roles in relationships, the need for self-care and self-love, the role of trust in therapy, and overcoming obstacles and achieving goals. Elliott and Jay discuss the importance of giving oneself grace and focusing on one's accomplishments rather than flaws. They explore the impact of negative thoughts and the need to shift focus to positive aspects of life. They also emphasize the importance of setting boundaries to protect one's energy and mental health. ...2024-07-031h 00
Deeply Well with Devi BrownThe Power in Asking the Right Questions with Elliott ConnieElliott Connie, a psychotherapist and author, discusses solution-focused brief therapy (SFBT) and its emphasis on the client's desired future rather than their problem orientation. He explains that SFBT focuses on the client's strengths and resilience, helping them overcome obstacles and transform their lives. Elliott shares his personal journey of healing and how he became passionate about inspiring others. He also talks about his new podcast, Family Therapy, where he conducts therapy sessions with families to explore their traumas and work toward healing. Connect: @DeviBrown @ElliottSpeaks Learn More: ElliottConnie.com Listen: Family Therapy, The...2024-06-1344 minFamily Therapy, The PodcastRestoring Self Worth After Trauma and AddictionIn this episode, we will be focusing on Jay and Freddie and the challenges they have ahead. Freddie opens up about his past addictions and the fear of reconnecting with his nine children. While Jay is learning how her childhood has affected her positive outlook on life and her self-value. Jay discusses her current state of well-being, describing it as neutral. She struggles to recognize and embrace positive experiences, often perceiving them as neutral. Elliott challenges her to shift her perspective and notice the positive changes in her life. They discuss the importance o...2024-06-121h 01Family Therapy, The PodcastFamily Therapy: Life is What You NoticeThe Black Effect Presents... Family Therapy! In this episode Jay and David have separate sessions that both revolve around the theme of personal growth and self-improvement. They also explore the concept of rediscovering one's true self and finding happiness and fulfillment in life. The conversation is divided into two main chapters: 'Jay's Journey to Personal Growth and Being Present' and 'David's Desire for Consistency and Understanding How to Live with Grief.' During Jay and Elliott’s session, Jay expresses her desire for change and a clear strategy to move...2024-06-0959 minFamily Therapy, The PodcastMastering Inner PeaceIn this episode, Jay and David have separate sessions that both revolve around the theme of pivoting and the power of seeing opportunity within unexpected changes. The conversation is divided into two main chapters: Mastering Peace and Joy and Seeing the Opportunity. In this session with Jay, she discusses her experiences and emotions related to her partner moving out and potentially returning. She initially felt relief and empowerment when her partner left, but the situation changed when he lost his job. Jay expresses her desire to focus on herself and be at peace, but she...2024-06-051h 09
Black Effect RadioFamily Therapy, The Podcast - "Best Hopes"Family Therapy is a podcast that explores the power of love and care as a change agent in the therapy process. The host, Elliott Connie shares his personal journey of finding purpose in helping others overcome their pain and trauma. He introduces the concept of solution-focused brief therapy, which focuses on harnessing resources to create a more desirable future. We are introduced to the family members and their best hopes from the therapy sessions and positive conversations focused on change. We will follow the stories of these three individuals: Jay, David, and Freddie, as they navigate their relationships, rediscover themselves...2024-05-2449 minFamily Therapy, The PodcastBeing Better Together or SeparatelyCan you heal with someone? While you are in love with the person who has caused you trauma or turmoil? In this conversation, Jay and David discuss their relationship and hopes for therapy. They talk about how they met, what they appreciate about each other, and their desire to improve their communication and support each other's personal growth. Elliott helps David and Jay reconnect and rediscover the happiness and joy in their relationship. They discuss the importance of expressing happiness and supporting each other, and Elliott encourages them to plan a date where they can...2024-05-2253 minFamily Therapy, The PodcastAccountability?We open this episode defining, accountability, and Elliott expounds on the importance of taking ownership over one’s choices in life both positive and negative, to truly be liable over our full human experience. In this conversation, Elliott and Freddie discuss the importance of accountability within the scope of fatherhood. During the session, we delve into Freddie's journey of reconnecting with his children and his challenges in being consistent and dependable. We explore the impact of past mistakes and the need for forgiveness and self-acceptance. The conversation highlights the importance of releasing the past and cr...2024-05-1544 minFamily Therapy, The PodcastThe Brain Can Be A Negative Thought EngineDisclaimer: Please note this episode speaks on abuse both sexual and physical, please be prepared for any potential triggers or sensitivities that may come up while listening. The episode opens with examples of how to practice alleviating negative thoughts by intentionally focusing on positive thoughts. Elliott then expounds on the need for individual therapy sessions within a family therapy context to address sensitive issues and create a safe space. Offering Jay the opportunity to discuss various challenges they're facing, including separation from her partner, selling her investment property, and abuse during her childhood. She expresses...2024-05-0853 minFamily Therapy, The PodcastThe Power of Small ChangesIn this episode, the conversation is divided into two main chapters: 'Redefining Self Care with Jay and David’s Eagerness to Change and Set An Example For His Sons.' Jay’s session explores the importance of continuous self-care and the struggle to prioritize oneself. It delves into the concept of personal growth and the challenges of making internal changes. Jay describes an observation she makes when dropping her son at daycare, that offers Elliott insight into Jay’s thoughts on community and the power of positive energy. With David, he discusses the changes he has not...2024-05-011h 02Family Therapy, The PodcastBest HopesFamily Therapy is a podcast that explores the power of love and care as a change agent in the therapy process. The host, Elliott Connie shares his personal journey of finding purpose in helping others overcome their pain and trauma. He introduces the concept of solution-focused brief therapy, which focuses on harnessing resources to create a more desirable future. We are introduced to the family members and their best hopes from the therapy sessions and positive conversations focused on change. We will follow the stories of these three individuals: Jay, David, and Freddie, as they navigate their relationships, rediscover...2024-04-1742 min
Angels and AwakeningCrafting a Hopeful Future through Solution-Focused Therapy - with Elliott ConnieHello beautiful souls! We’re excited to have Elliott Connie on the podcast as we delve into the transformative world of solution-focused therapy, centered around his book, The Solution-Focused Brief Therapy Diamond. Together, we discuss the mechanics of a solution-focused therapy session and how creating a mind shift in discussing past issues can help one envision a positive future. Elliott shares a fresh perspective, leaving us with a powerful reminder: your brain may lie, but you are extraordinary.
To learn more about Elliott Connie and his work:
ElliottConnie.com
[IG] @elliottspeaks
His book...2023-10-1633 min
The Not So Average#28: Pushing past pain & limiting beliefs w/ Elliott ConnieHello friends! ELLIOTT CONNIE IS ON THE SHOW! I absolutely love his work and have truly learned so much from him. We dive deep into his approach to psychotherapy, how limiting beliefs hold us back, how to choose growth over fear and become the best version of yourself. There were so many things I needed the reminder of in this interview so I hope you love it as much as I did 2023-07-1947 min
The Self Care UnitElliott Connie for Mental Health MattersOn this week's Mental Health Matters, we are joined by Elliott Connie, MA, LPC to talk about his work with Solution Focused Brief Therapy, how to live the life we want, what gratitude means, and more. Elliott is a passionate and persuasive mental health advocate, and simply a fun conversationalist. His energy and enthusiasm for his vocation is absolutely infectious, as he relates his own journey to prioritizing mental health and gives concrete advice for anyone looking to prioritize their mental health themselves. We are so grateful he joined us for this conversation, check it out!
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Shaped by Dog with Susan GarrettBrilliance, Resilience And Gratitude: Inspiration And Motivation With Elliott Connie #208Visit us at shapedbydog.com Accomplished psychotherapist Elliott Connie of Solution Focused Brief Therapy graciously joined me for a conversation that turned into 10 minutes of inspiration and motivation for dog training and life in general. If you’ve ever had days when you doubt your dog training, you are not alone, and Elliott’s insights will carry you through when things are not going to plan. It starts with knowing you are awesome and that your brilliance is far more noticeable and far more impactful than your flaws. Enjoy this extract from our livestream celebrating 200 episod...2023-04-2110 min
The Hope-MakersEpisode 23. How a broken down bus led me from despair to helping others achieve their best hopes, with Elliott ConnieA complicated and less than ideal upbringing like the one experienced by Elliott Connie can often break a spirit. So, what then, is the reason that some of us gain strength from our shortcomings and trauma? It was this question that initiated Elliott's journey into the world of psychotherapy.Elliott has worked alongside some of the most prominent figures in the solution focused brief therapy (SFBT) field, and he has lectured all over the US as well as internationally, in places like the United Kingdom, Russia, India, and Australia, and he's the author of four books on t...2021-08-1638 min
Starting a Counseling Practice Success StoriesChanging Lives Through Solution-Focused Brief TherapyElliott, MA, LPC, is an expert in Solution-Focused Brief Therapy, author of multiple books on the therapeutic approach, Evolution of Psychotherapy presenter, and international speaker.He joined us on the podcast to discuss his journey from underappreciated agency worker to thriving business owner impacting others through SFBT. We talk about his personal journey, his overwhelmingly positive impact on kids struggling with substance abuse, the importance of your career aligning with your values, why the first session with clients is critical, and more!Learn more about Elliott at https://elliottconnie.com/...2021-08-0850 min
The Couples Therapist Couch154: Elliot Connie on Solution Focused Brief Therapy and CouplesIn this episode of the Couples Therapist Couch, Elliott Connie talks about using Solution Focused Brief Therapy when working with couples. He is an educator and author in the model of SFBT. Find out more about Elliott and Solution Focused Brief Therapy at elliottconnie.com. The Couples Therapist Couch is the podcast for Couples Therapists about the practice of couples therapy. The host, Shane Birkel, interviews an expert in the field of couples therapy each week. Please subscribe to the podcast for more great episodes. This episode is sponsored by Clearly...2021-03-3049 min
The Focused Mindset PodcastElliott Connie on Reaching Your Full Potential With A Solution Focused MindsetBe reminded of what really matters and hear real talk from Solution Focused Brief Therapy expert and host of The Details With Elliott and Adam podcast, Elliott Connie. Learn more at www.elliottconnie.com Welcome to The Focused Mindset community. Learn more at www.thefocusedmindet.com and get your free download full of fun ideas to keep your family close along Cher Kretz's Monthly Message when you do. To get connected with The Focused Mindset and Cher Kretz click here Help your child build lasting confidence by getting them THE BIG LIFE JOURNAL and explore all...2020-12-2754 minThe Couples Therapist Couch096: Elliott Connie on Solution Focused Brief TherapyIn this episode about Solution Focused Brief Therapy, Elliot Connie talks about some amazing strategies to help couples achieve great results in their relationships. He goes into details about how much of psychotherapy is all wrong, asking the right questions, and letting the client take the lead. He describes how asking people what they want in a skillful way and staying with it, requires them to move into deeper levels of vulnerability. Elliott Connie is a therapist, author, speaker, and educator in Solution Focused Brief Therapy. He has written several books on the topic and travels the...2019-09-1752 min