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Counselling Tutor podcast344 – Ethical Use of AI in TherapyIntroducing Therapy for Addiction - Learning Never Stops – Planning Your CPD
In Episode 344 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week’s topics:
Firstly, in ‘Ethical, Sustainable Practice’, we look at the ethical use of AI in therapy, highlighting potential risks and ethical responsibilities.
Then in ‘Practice Matters’, Rory speaks with Caroline Evers Endicott about her lecture Introducing Therapy for Addiction - a vital area of practice that’s often underrepresented in core training.
And finally, in ‘Student Services’, Rory and Ken discuss how learning never stops in counselling - and why planning your...
2025-06-2800 minCounselling Tutor podcast341 – Everyday TraumaWorking with Parents of Children with Disabilities – What to Do if You Don’t Get Onto the Next Course
In Episode 341 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts, Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly, take us through this week’s three topics:
Firstly in ‘Ethical, Sustainable Practice’, we explore the concept of everyday trauma.
Then in ‘Practice Matters’, Rory speaks with Ellie Finch and Dr. Jo Griffin about their CPD lecture, which focuses on working with parents of children with disabilities, complex medical conditions, and special educational needs.
And lastly in ‘Student Services’, Rory and Ken discuss what to do if you don’t get acce...
2025-06-0700 minCounselling Tutor podcast336 – Building your Counselling CVPathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) – Reviewing Client Progress
In Episode 336 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week’s three topics:
Firstly, in ‘Ethical, Sustainable Practice’, we look at building your counselling CV – including key features to include, ways to stand out, and how to present yourself professionally.
Then in ‘Practice Matters’, Rory speaks with Nicola Durrant about working with clients who have Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) – a profile on the autism spectrum that requires a unique and flexible therapeutic approach.
And lastly in ‘Student Services’, Rory and Ken look at how to review a client’s...
2025-04-2600 minCounselling Tutor podcast335 – Extra-Therapeutic Factors in SupervisionSupporting Male Clients in Therapy – How to Begin a Counselling Session
In Episode 334 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly guide us through this week’s three topics:
Firstly in ‘Ethical, Sustainable Practice’, we look at extra-therapeutic factors in Supervision and how a client’s world outside the therapy room can influence outcomes.
Then in ‘Practice Matters’, Rory interviews James Hawes, author of The Secret Lives of Men, exploring how we can better understand and support male clients in therapy.
And lastly in ‘Student Services’, Rory and Ken talk about how to begin a counselling session, and what...
2025-04-1900 minCounselling Tutor podcast333 – Dunning-Kruger Effect in Trauma-Informed TherapyAutistic Therapists in Practice - The Essential Skill of Academic Referencing
In Episode 333 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly, take us through this week's three key topics:
Firstly, in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice' we look at understanding the Dunning-Kruger Effect in trauma-informed therapy and how it can impact professional competence.
Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory interviews an autistic therapist who has chosen to stay anonymous to allow for an open and honest conversation. This discussion is about their lived experience and insights into neurodivergence in the profession.
And lastly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken...
2025-03-2200 minCounselling Tutor podcast332 – Developing an Online MindsetAI in Therapy - Comparing Ethical Frameworks
In Episode 332 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly guide you through this week's three topics:
Firstly, in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at developing an online mindset to effectively work with clients online.
Then, in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Richard Miller, a counsellor, supervisor, and AI ethicist, about the ethical use of AI in therapy, its possibilities, challenges, and implications.
Lastly, in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken discuss comparing ethical frameworks and why it's an important exercise in counselling training.
In this section, Rory and Ken...
2025-03-1500 minCounselling Tutor podcast331 – Ethical Dilemmas in SupervisionWorking with Life-restricting Conditions - Challenging Stereotypes in Counselling
In Episode 331 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics:
Firstly, in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we explore ethical dilemmas in supervision and discuss strategies for resolving them effectively.
Then, in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Dorothy Hodgkinson about working with clients who have 'life-restricting' conditions and how these conditions impact the therapeutic relationship.
And lastly, in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken discuss the importance of challenging stereotypes in counselling training, offering insights into how counsellors can avoid stereotyping clients in...
2025-03-0800 minCounselling Tutor podcast330 – Working with Clients AbroadImportance of Psychosexual Therapy - Meeting Supervision Hour Requirements
In Episode 330 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics:
Firstly, in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we explore the challenges and considerations of offering online therapy to clients abroad, particularly focusing on legal, ethical, and practical concerns.
Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Lohani Noor about the importance of psychosexual therapy and how therapists can gain the skills to support clients navigating intimate issues.
Lastly, in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken provide practical advice for counselling students on meeting course...
2025-03-0100 minCounselling Tutor podcast329 – Distinguishing PTSD and Complex PTSDNavigating Client Complaints Effectively - Managing Observed Skills Sessions
In Episode 329 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics:
Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', Rory and Ken discuss distinguishing PTSD and Complex PTSD, exploring the evolution of trauma therapy and the importance of understanding physiological responses in trauma-informed practice.
Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Susie Jamieson about how to navigate client complaints effectively, sharing practical strategies and personal experiences to help therapists be complaint-ready.
And lastly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken talk about managing overwhelm during...
2025-02-2200 minCounselling Tutor podcast328 – Professional Letter WritingCouples Therapy using the Developmental Model - Choosing the Therapy Modality
In Episode 328 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics:
Firstly, in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we delve into professional letter writing by counsellors when communicating with other professionals.
Then, in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Claire Ratcliffe about relationship therapy using the developmental model, focusing on how couples evolve and how therapists can support growth at each stage.
Lastly, in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken discuss how to choose the therapy modality that is the best fit for...
2025-02-0800 minCounselling Tutor podcast327 – 7-eyed Model of Supervision in Clinical PracticePD Groups for Counsellors - Supportive Supervision before Placement
In Episode 327 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics:
Firstly, in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we explore the 7-eyed model of supervision in clinical practice.
Then, in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Dr. Sonja Falck about facilitating personal development (PD) groups and their importance for both trainees and qualified counsellors.
And lastly, in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken discuss the essential topic of accessing supervision before going into placement and why it's crucial to be well-prepared.
7-eyed Model of Supervision...
2025-02-0100 minCounselling Tutor podcast326 – Ambiguous LossVirtual Reality in Therapy - Vicarious Trauma
In Episode 326 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics:
First up in Ethical, Sustainable Practice: Understanding ambiguous loss, its complexities, and how it presents in therapy.
Then in Practice Matters: Rory speaks with Nina Solomons about the innovative use of virtual reality in therapy.
Lastly, in Student Services: Rory and Ken discuss a critique of the person-centred model, addressing its strengths and limitations.
Ambiguous Loss [starts at 03:07 mins]
In this week's Ethical, Sustainable Practice, Rory and Ken explore ambiguous loss...
2025-01-2500 minCounselling Tutor podcast325 – Applying Attachment TheoryNeurodivergence and Eating Disorders - Managing Overwhelm
In Episode 325 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics:
Firstly, in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice,' we look at applying Attachment Theory in therapy and how understanding attachment styles helps build a strong therapeutic relationship.
Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Bernie Wright and Lisa Smith about the connection between eating disorders, disordered eating, and neurodivergence.
Lastly, in 'Student Services, Rory and Ken discuss how counselling students can manage overwhelm and stay motivated through their training journey.
Applying Attachment Theory [starts...
2025-01-1800 minCounselling Tutor podcast324 – Regulation of Counselling and PsychotherapyManaging Risk in Online Therapy - Contracting in Counselling
In Episode 324 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics:
Firstly, in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at managing risk in online therapy and the considerations for safe practice.
Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Meg Moss about the regulation of counselling and psychotherapy.
And lastly, in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken discuss the importance of contracting in counselling.
Managing Risk in Online Therapy [starts at 04:30 mins]
Managing risk in online therapy is essential to ensure the safety of...
2025-01-1100 minCounselling Tutor podcast323 – Engaging with Clinical SupervisionRegulation in Counselling and Psychotherapy - Power Up your Counselling Skills through Observation
In Episode 323 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics:
Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at engaging with clinical supervision and how to get the most from it.
Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Susie Jamerson in the second part of a three-part series exploring regulation in counselling and psychotherapy.
And lastly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken discuss powering up your counselling skills through observation.
Engaging with Clinical Supervision [starts at 03:54 mins]
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2025-01-0400 minCounselling Tutor podcast322 – Theory of MindStatutory Regulation in Counselling and Psychotherapy - Dual Relationships in Counselling
In Episode 322 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics:
Firstly, in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we discuss the theory of mind and its implications in neurodivergence.
Then, in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Dr. Anne Guy about the pros and cons of statutory regulation in counselling and psychotherapy.
And lastly, in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken explore managing dual relationships in counselling.
Theory of Mind [starts at 04:38 mins]
In this section, Rory and Ken discuss Theory of Mind...
2024-12-1400 minCounselling Tutor podcast321 – Online Counselling for Neurodivergent ClientsCounselling Boys and Men Part 2 - Managing Boundaries in Counselling
In Episode 321 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly guide us through this week's three topics:
Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice' we look at effective online counselling for neurodivergent clients.
Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory interviews Phil Mitchell about part two of his lecture on counselling boys and men.
And lastly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken discuss managing boundaries in counselling.
Online Counselling for Neurodivergent Clients [starts at 03:41 mins]
In this section, Rory and Ken explore the unique considerations of offering online counselling for n...
2024-12-0700 minCounselling Tutor podcast319 – Double Empathy ProblemNavigating the Complaints Process - Developing Your Inner Supervisor
In Episode 319 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics:
Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at understanding the Double Empathy Problem in Neurodivergent Therapy.
Then in 'Practice Matters', we have the first part of an interview where Rory speaks with Susie Jamieson about her journey navigating the complaints process.
And lastly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken discuss developing your inner supervisor.
Double Empathy Problem [starts at 03:33 mins]
When working with neurodivergent individuals, we might encounter barriers to...
2024-11-2300 minCounselling Tutor podcast317 – Strengths and Challenges in AutismFinding Work through EAP - Closing a Skills Session
In Episode 317 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly look at this week's three topics:
Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at the different strengths and challenges in autism that individuals may face.
Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Sharon McCormick about how an ethical EAP (Employment Assistant Program) operates and the benefits for both clients and employers.
And lastly in 'Student Services, Rory and Ken discuss closing a skills session.
Strengths and Challenges in Autism [starts at 02:55 mins]
There are some traits that...
2024-11-0900 minCounselling Tutor podcast315 – Neurodivergence and AutismDigital Tools in Online Therapy Sessions - Developing an Emotional Vocabulary
In Episode 315 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics:
First up in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', Rory and Ken discuss Neurodivergence-Affirming Psychotherapy.
Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Ellie Finch about using digital tools in online therapy sessions.
And lastly in 'Student Services', we look at developing an emotional vocabulary.
Neurodivergence and Autism [starts at 03:19 mins]
All clients deserve to feel seen and understood within the therapy room. In this section, Rory and Ken discuss neurodivergence and...
2024-10-2600 minCounselling Tutor podcast314 – Perspectives and Definitions of TraumaLanguage and the Therapeutic Relationship - Research Projects and What to Research
In Episode 314 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics:
Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at understanding the diverse perspectives and definitions of trauma.
Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Nadine Pittham about how our use of language can develop and strengthen the therapeutic relationship.
And lastly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken talk about research projects, and more specifically, what should you research?
Perspectives and Definitions of Trauma [starts at 03:19 mins]
Working with...
2024-10-1200 minCounselling Tutor podcast313 – What is Trauma-Informed PracticeTransitioning from Student to Qualified Practitioner - Working Around Barriers in Communication
In Episode 313 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics:
Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', Rory and Ken ask what is trauma-informed practice?
Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Alex Gulland about her transition from student to qualified counsellor.
And lastly in 'Student Services', we look at barriers in communication.
What is Trauma-Informed Practice [starts at 03:13 mins]
Understanding and responding to the impact of trauma is essential to be able to best serve our clients. In...
2024-10-0500 minCounselling Tutor podcast312 – Working Within Your CompetenceCritical Incident Debriefing - The Importance of your 'Why'
In Episode 312 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics:
Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at working within your competence in counselling and psychotherapy.
Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Karen Moore about Critical Incident debriefing.
And lastly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken talk about using your 'why' when things get tough.
Working Within Your Competence [starts at 03:41 mins]
Understanding working within your competence with clients is so important. In this section, Rory and Ken highlight wh...
2024-09-2800 minCounselling Tutor podcast309 – How to Recognise Vicarious TraumaOnline Trauma Therapy - Exploring Neurodivergence Creatively in Therapy
In Episode 309 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics:
Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at online trauma therapy.
Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Amy Peters about exploring neurodiversity creatively.
And lastly,in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken talk about how to recognise vicarious trauma.
Online Trauma Therapy [starts at 03:10 mins]
Online and telephone counselling have become increasingly popular in recent years, making it even more important that we're aware of the challenges that can come...
2024-09-0700 minCounselling Tutor podcast308– Grounding Techniques for TraumaWriting Creatively in Therapy - Trauma: What Counselling Students Need to Know
In Episode 308 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics:
Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at grounding techniques for trauma.
Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Dr Jessica J. Clapham about writing creatively in therapy and its benefits to well-being.
And lastly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken talk about trauma, and what to know as a counselling student.
Grounding Techniques for Trauma [starts at 03:43 mins]
Grounding techniques are an essential skill when working...
2024-08-3100 minCounselling Tutor podcast306 – Recognising Suicide Risk in Therapy ClientsUnmasking Neurodivergence and Ethnicity Using Digital Tools - Giving Feedback to Your Tutors
In Episode 306 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics:
Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at recognising suicide risk in your therapy clients.
Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Lesley Simpson-Gray about unmasking neurodivergence and ethnicity using digital tools.
And lastly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken talk about how to give feedback to your tutors.
Recognising Suicide Risk in Therapy Clients [starts at 03:41 mins]
Supporting a client who is at risk of...
2024-06-2258 minCounselling Tutor podcast304 – Autism-Informed SupervisorPsychotherapeutic Needs of Mothers Returning to Work after Maternity Leave - Taking a Course during the Summer Break
In Episode 304 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly are back for this week's three topics:
Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', Rory and Ken go through what to look for in an autism-informed supervisor.
Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Cathy Sansom about the psychotherapeutic needs of mothers returning to work after maternity leave.
And lastly in 'Student Services', we look at things to consider when taking a course over the summer break between your studies.
...
2024-06-0851 minCounselling Tutor podcast303 – Safeguarding Clients in Online or Phone TherapySupporting Frontline Workers: Interview with Frontline19 CEO - Getting Books and Resources for the Next Leg of Your Studies
In Episode 303 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly are back with this week's three topics:
Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at safeguarding clients in online or phone therapy.
Then in 'Practice Matters' Rory speaks with Claire Goodwin-Fee about her role as CEO of Frontline19, an organisation that provides confidential psychological support for people working in the NHS and other frontline services in the UK.
And lastly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken offer...
2024-06-0149 minCounselling Tutor podcast299 – Differences between Counselling Young People and AdultsTaking Risks in Therapy - Referencing for Assignments
In Episode 299 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly are back with this week's three topics:
Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at the differences between counselling children and young people vs. adults.
Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Sally-Anne Armitage about taking risks in therapy.
And lastly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken look at the art of referencing in your assignments.
Differences between Counselling Young People and Adults [starts at 03:24 mins]
Some students might already know that they want to work with children...
2024-04-271h 11Counselling Tutor podcast298 – Self-Care for CounsellorsAddressing Racial Identity - Neurodivergence within PD Groups
In Episode 298 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly are back with this week's three topics:
Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at resilience and self-care for counsellors and therapists.
Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Sarah Henry about the significance of addressing racial identity.
And lastly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken discuss neurodivergence within PD groups.
Resilience and Self-Care for Counsellors [starts at 02:00 mins]
In order to look after your practice, you need to look after yourself. In this section, Rory and Ken...
2024-04-201h 18Counselling Tutor podcast296 – Counsellor SafetyWorking with Men Abused by Women - Preparing for Your Counselling Residential
In Episode 296 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly are back with this week's three topics:
First up in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at counsellor safety and self-care strategies when navigating lone working.
Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Phil Mitchell about abuse by women towards men, delving into misandry and how it is viewed.
And lastly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken discuss preparing for your counselling residential experience.
Counsellor Safety during Lone Working [starts at 03:25 mins]
It's never nice...
2024-03-231h 02Counselling Tutor podcast295 – Outdoor Therapy for ChildrenEnhancing Your First Contact with Counselling Clients - Challenges of Compulsory Placement Supervision
In Episode 295 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly are back with this week's three topics:
Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at crafting meaningful connections and enhancing that first contact with potential clients.
Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Kate Beckwith about how she uses the outdoors, animals, and art to provide children and young people with a unique therapeutic experience.
And lastly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken look at the challenges of being asked to have compulsory...
2024-03-161h 23Counselling Tutor podcast294 – Linking Theory to Practice in CounsellingFinding New Therapy Clients through Blogging - Combining REBT with Fitness Coaching
In Episode 294 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly are back with this week's three topics:
First up in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at how to unlock new clients through blogging.
Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks to Ruth Hill about how she combines REBT with fitness coaching.
And lastly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken look at linking theory to practice in counselling, or recognising where theory applies to actual practice in the therapy room.
Finding New Therapy Clients through Blogging...
2024-03-091h 05Counselling Tutor podcast293 – EAP CounsellingWhy Hire an Accountant - How to Handle Negative Feedback
In Episode 293 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly discuss this week's three topics:
Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we take a deep dive into Employment Assistant Programs or EAP counselling.
Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Kassim Harunani about why you might hire an accountant as a counsellor in private practice.
And lastly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken look at how to handle, receive, and process negative feedback.
EAP Counselling Pros and Cons [starts at 03:28 mins]
The EAP are there for companies...
2024-03-021h 17Counselling Tutor podcast290 – Trauma-Informed TherapistCounselling Transgender People - Why Students Should Have Their Own Insurance
In Episode 290 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly are back with this week's three topics:
Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at 5 reasons to become a trauma-informed therapist.
Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Dorothy Hodgkinson about working with transgender people.
And lastly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken discuss some of the reasons students should have their own insurance.
5 Reasons to Become a Trauma-Informed Therapist [starts at 02:56 mins]
With trauma coming up more frequently in the therapy room, there has...
2024-02-031h 09Counselling Tutor podcast289 – Why Become a Clinical SupervisorUsing Digital Tools in Online Therapy - Comparing and Contrasting Counselling Theories
In Episode 289 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly discuss this week's three topics:
Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at 5 reasons why become a clinical supervisor.
Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Ellie Finch and Lesley Simpson-Gray about using digital tools in online practice.
And lastly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken compare and contrast some of the main counselling theories.
Why Become a Clinical Supervisor [starts at 04:23 mins]
If you've been wondering how you can take your career a...
2024-01-271h 10Counselling Tutor podcast285 – Canine TherapyGetting Your Counselling Assignment in Order - How Abuse Narratives in the Media Generate Inquiries
In Episode 285 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics:
Firstly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken share their advice for getting your assignments in order.
Then in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at the ripple effect - how the abuse narratives in the media can generate specific inquiries.
And lastly in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Hilary McNair about canine therapy and her work with her own dog, Oscar.
Getting Your Counselling Assignment...
2023-12-161h 06Counselling Tutor podcast284 – Dangers of Smart Devices in the Therapy RoomWhy We Learn Counselling Theory - Managing Client Breaks Over the Holidays
In Episode 284 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly are back with this week's three topics:
Firstly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken think about why we learn counselling theory.
Then in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at managing client breaks over the holidays.
And lastly in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Cath Knibbs about the dangers of having smart devices in the therapy room.
Why We Learn Counselling Theory [starts at 02:28 mins]
If you've ever questioned the importance of learning counselling theory...
2023-12-091h 07Counselling Tutor podcast283 – Legal Obligations of CounsellorsIdiosyncratic Empathy - Being a Placement Manager
In Episode 283 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics:
Firstly in 'Student Services', we look at idiosyncratic empathy.
Then in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', Rory and Ken discuss the legal obligations of counsellors, particularly in relation to the coroner's court.
And lastly in this week's 'Practice Matters', Rory interviews Nikaela Morrison about her work as a placement manager, and her project Trainbee.
Idiosyncratic Empathy [starts at 02:56 mins]
Idiosyncratic empathy is a term coined by Gerald Bozarth, and in this section, Rory and...
2023-12-0259 minCounselling Tutor podcast281 – Cancellation Policy for TherapistsCounselling Fundamentals - Aphantasia
In Episode 281 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics:
Up first in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken discuss the benefits of going back to the counselling fundamentals.
Then in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at the importance of cancellation policy for therapists.
And lastly in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Sassy Smith, founder of Aphantasia Academy, as she shares her insight into one specific area of neurodivergence, aphantasia - the inability to visualise.
Counselling Fundamentals [starts at 02:30 mins]
Whether you're a student or an...
2023-11-181h 01Counselling Tutor podcast276 – Career CounsellingCarl Rogers' Potato Analogy - Client-Centred Ethics
In Episode 276 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly are back with this week's three topics:
First up in 'Student Services' we look at Carl Rogers' potato observation, focusing on self-actualisation and hopes.
Then in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', Rory and Ken speak about client-centred ethics and navigating outcomes and limitation in therapy.
And lastly in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Richard Rotberg on career counselling.
Carl Rogers' Potato Analogy [starts at 02:50 mins]
Carl Rogers' potato observation offers a new perspective for us to take into the therapy room...
2023-10-0751 minCounselling Tutor podcast272 – Roleplaying Games in TherapyThe Myth of the Core Conditions - Should You Become an Accredited Counsellor?
In Episode 272 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly are back with our latest three topics:
Firstly in 'Student Services' we look at the myth of the core conditions.
Then in 'Ethical, Sustainable Counselling', Rory and Ken discuss reasons you might, and might not, look into becoming an accredited counsellor.
And lastly in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Daniel Hand about using roleplaying games in therapy.
The Myth of the Core Conditions [starts at 03:12 mins]
In this section, Rory and Ken discuss...
2023-09-0952 minCounselling Tutor podcast270 – Looking Up Therapy Clients on Social MediaProcessing Endings - Pet Bereavement
In Episode 270 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast - the last of this academic year - your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly discuss three new topics:
First up in 'Theory in Practice', we look at processing endings.
Then in 'Practice Today', Rory and Ken discuss their opinions on looking up therapy clients on social media.
And lastly in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Carrie Kearns about pet bereavement.
Processing Endings [starts at 02:44 mins]
When it comes to the end of your time with a group you've become comfortable with, it can sometimes be difficult to...
2023-07-0156 minCounselling Tutor podcast268 – Recovered Memory TherapyPost-Modern Counselling Theories - The ABC Grief Model
In Episode 268 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts, Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly bring us this week's three topics:
Firstly with 'Theory in Practice', we look at what is post-modern counselling and its theories.
Then in 'Practice Today', listen as Rory and Ken discuss recovered memory therapy.
And lastly in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Mandy Gosling about the ABC grief model.
Post-Modern Counselling Theories [starts at 02:25 mins]
For anyone that hasn't previously looked at post-modern counselling theories, it can be difficult to grasp straight away. Listen as Rory and Ken...
2023-06-1751 minCounselling Tutor podcast267– How to Write a Counselling CVHow to Protect Yourself as a Therapist - Working as an Interpreter for Counselling
In Episode 267 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly discuss this week's three topics:
Firstly in 'Theory in Practice', how to write a counselling CV.
Then in 'Practice Today', Rory and Ken discuss protecting yourself as a therapist.
And lastly in this week's 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Eniko Koncz about being an interpreter for counselling.
How to Write a Counselling CV [starts at 02:26 mins]
When it comes to putting together a CV, you want to be presenting the best of...
2023-06-101h 00Counselling Tutor podcast266 – Anti-Oppressive Practice in CounsellingMoving to the Next Level in Your Counselling Journey - Can You Be Too Congruent?
In Episode 266 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly are back with this week's three topics:
Up first in 'Theory in Practice', we look at moving to the next level in your counselling journey.
Then in 'Practice Today', Rory and Ken have an interesting discussion about whether you can be too congruent
And lastly in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Mamood Ahmad about anti-oppressive practice in counselling.
Moving to the Next Level in Your Counselling Journey [starts at 02:25 mins]
Taking...
2023-06-0351 minCounselling Tutor podcast265 – How to Set Up a Therapy RoomBarriers to Communication in Therapy - Interview with the NCS Chief Executive
In Episode 265 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly are back with this week's three topics:
Firstly in 'Theory in Practice' we look at barriers to communication in counselling.
Then in 'Practice Today', Rory and Ken discuss how to set up a therapy room.
And lastly in 'Practice Matters', we see the end of our 6-week-long series looking into the National Counselling Society (soon to be the National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society) by speaking with CEO Jyles Robillard-Day.
Barriers to Communication in Therapy...
2023-05-2055 minCounselling Tutor podcast264 – Counselling a Client You Don’t LikePhenomenology in Philosophy and Counselling - NCS Campaigns
In Episode 264 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics:
Up first in 'Theory in Practice', we look at the philosophy of phenomenology and counselling.
Then in 'Practice Today', Rory and Ken speak about counselling a client you don't like as a person.
And lastly in 'Practice Matters', Rory is once again speaking with Meg Moss, head of policy and public affairs at the National Counselling Society (soon to be the National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society) about some of the campaigns...
2023-05-1350 minCounselling Tutor podcast258 – Touch in TherapyPsychological Contact - Managing Risk in Counselling
In Episode 258 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly are back with this week's three topics:
Firstly in 'Theory in Practice', we look at psychological contact.
Then in 'Practice Today', Rory and Ken share their thoughts on touch in therapy.
And finally in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Sally-Anne Armitage on managing risk.
Psychological Contact [starts at 02:30 mins]
Psychological contact was recognised by Carl Rogers as an important condition of person-centered therapy. In this section, Rory and Ken discuss psychological contact, and the things that may stand in...
2023-03-1847 minCounselling Tutor podcast246 – Paid Advertising for TherapistsPetruska Clarkson's 5 Relationship Model - Working with Otherness in Counselling
In Episode 246 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly are back to discuss this week's three topics:
Firstly in 'Theory in Practice' we'll look at Petruska Clarkson's 5 Relationship Model.
Then in 'Practice Partner', Rory and Ken discuss options when it comes to paid advertising for therapists, and the possible pros and cons.
Then lastly in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Dr. Dwight Turner about working with otherness.
Petruska Clarkson's 5 Relationship Model [starts at 02:48 mins]
In this section, Rory and Ken go through some of the...
2022-12-031h 01Counselling Tutor podcast239 – Carl Rogers’ Fully Functioning PersonGetting the Best from Directory Listings - Breathwork for Counsellors
In Episode 239 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics:
Firstly, in 'Theory in Practice' we look at the fully functioning person according to Carl Rogers.
Then in 'Practice Partner', Rory and Ken look at ways to get the best from a directory listing.
Lastly in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Barbara Pidgeon about breathwork for counsellors.
Carl Rogers' Fully Functioning Person [starts at 02:54 mins]
In this section, Rory and Ken discuss the term fully functioning person as used...
2022-10-0857 minCounselling Tutor podcast235 – Making a Counselling Business PlanIntrojected Values - Carl Jung's Theories on Ego and Self
In Episode 235 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly are back with this week's three topics:
Firstly in 'Theory in Practice', we look at introjected values.
Then in 'Practice Partner', Rory and Ken discuss making a counselling business plan.
And lastly in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Dr. Jessica Bockler about Carl Gustav Jung's theories on ego and self.
Introjected Values [starts at 02:40 mins]
We start today with Rory and Ken discussing introjected values, and how these may present themselves in the therapy room.
The...
2022-09-101h 00Counselling Tutor podcast230 – Metacognitive TherapyExistential Therapy - Adapting Your Therapeutic Model
In Episode 230 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics:
First, in 'Counselling Foundations', we look at existential therapy.
Then in 'Focus on Self', Rory and Ken discuss adapting your therapeutic model.
And lastly in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Dr Pia Callesen about metacognitive therapy.
Existential Therapy [starts at 01:45 mins]
In this section on existential therapy, Rory and Ken briefly discuss the philosophy behind existential thoughts and some things you can give clients to think about in order to help them...
2022-06-1145 minCounselling Tutor podcast222 – Time-Limited CounsellingCounselling and the Law - Developing a Safe Emotional Space for Clients
In Episode 222 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly are back with this week's three topics:
In 'Counselling Foundations' - counselling and the law.
Then in 'Focus on Self', Rory and Ken discuss creating a safe emotional space for clients.
And finally in 'Practice Matters', Ken speaks with Amy Launder on time-limited counselling in the NHS.
Counselling and the Law [starts at 2:15 mins]
As a counsellor, it is our responsibility to be aware of the laws we must abide by when dealing with...
2022-03-2657 minCounselling Tutor podcast214 – Social Media Considerations for TherapistsThe Skill of Questioning in Counselling - Leaving Client Material Behind
In Episode 214 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, listen as Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly discuss this week's three topics:
In this episode's 'Counselling Foundations', Rory and Ken look at the skill of appropriate questioning.
Next in 'Focus on Self', we think about leaving client material behind.
And lastly in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with James Taylor on social media considerations for therapists, with a focus on online etiquette.
The Skill of Questioning in Counselling [starts at 02:03 mins]
Your approach to asking questions will differ depending on the modality of...
2022-01-2252 minCounselling Tutor podcast213 – Using Role-Playing Games in TherapyRelational Depth in Counselling - Dealing with Failure
In Episode 213 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly discuss this week's three new topics:
In 'Counselling Foundations', Rory and Ken explore the relational depth.
Then in 'Focus on Self', we think about failure.
And finally in this week's 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Daniel Hand on introducing role-playing games (RPGs) in therapy.
Relational Depth in Counselling [starts at 02:54 mins]
Relational depth is connecting with each other in a meaningful way, not necessarily just in therapy. In this section, Rory and Ken look further into this idea of relational...
2022-01-1548 minCounselling Tutor podcast212 – Psychosexual TherapyThe Skill of Summarising - Managing Personal Relationships during Counselling Training
In Episode 212 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics:
In this episode's 'Counselling Foundations', Rory and Ken discuss the skill of summarising.
Next, in 'Focus on Self' we'll look at managing our personal relationships.
And finally in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Michelle Harrison-Lee on psychosexual therapy.
The Skill of Summarising [starts at 2:07 mins]
Listen as Rory and Ken discuss the benefits and applications of the skill of summarising:
It can be used at the end of sessions to...
2022-01-0854 minCounselling Tutor podcast211 – Self-Disclosure and Immediacy in CounsellingChoosing Your Ethical Body - Engaging with Supervision
In Episode 211 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly return with three more topics:
First in 'Counselling Foundations', Ken and Rory will go over self-disclosure and immediacy in counselling.
Then in 'Focus on Self', we'll look at choosing your ethical body.
And finally in this week's 'Practice Matters', Ken will speak with our very own Rory Lees-Oakes on his upcoming lecture about engaging with supervision.
Self-Disclosure and Immediacy in Counselling [starts in 1:55 mins]
In this week's 'Counselling Foundations', listen as Rory and Ken discuss the skill of...
2021-12-1853 minCounselling Tutor podcast209 – Working as a School CounsellorBuilding a Therapeutic Relationship - Counselling through Personal Adversity
In Episode 209 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly discuss this week's three topics:
In 'Counselling Foundations' this week, Rory and Ken look at the therapeutic relationship.
Next in 'Focus on Self', we look at counselling through your own adversity.
And finally, in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Caroline Peacock about working as a school counsellor with children and young people.
Building a Therapeutic Relationship [starts in 1:37 mins]
Your relationship with a client can be the backbone of your sessions, and in this section, Rory and Ken discuss...
2021-12-0449 minCounselling Tutor podcast207 – The Wounded Healer CounsellorFirst Counselling Session - Counselling Paperwork
In Episode 207 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly return with your favourite three sections:
This week's 'Counselling Foundations' looks at the first counselling sessions - both your first session as a counsellor and the first session with each client.
Then in 'Focus on Self', Rory and Ken discuss the wounded healer counsellor.
And finally in this week's 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Tamara Howell about paperwork.
First Counselling Session [starts in 1:50 mins]
First counselling sessions are bound to be nerve-racking, whether it's your first session with a new client or...
2021-11-2049 minCounselling Tutor podcast204 – What is Ambiguous LossBarriers in Communication - Applying Theory to Self
In Episode 204 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly return with three new topics of discussion:
In today's 'Counselling Foundations' we look at barriers in communication.
Then in 'Focus on Self', Rory and Ken discuss applying theories to self.
And finally in 'Practice Matters', Rory and Chloe Swinton discuss what is ambiguous loss.
Barriers in Communication [starts at 1:40 mins]
Counselling is all about communication, but sometimes there are certain things that can get in the way such as simply not listening or not knowing how to respond.
In this...
2021-10-2356 minCounselling Tutor podcast203 – Counselling Clients with Sex AddictionImportance of Ethics in Counselling - Knowing your Attachment Style
In Episode 203 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly discuss this week's three segments:
'Counselling Foundations' - where we look at why ethics are important.
'Focus on Self' - where we look at knowing your attachment style.
And finally in today's 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Karen Lawrence about counselling clients with sex addiction.
Importance of Ethics in Counselling [starts at 1:33 mins]
The very basics of ethics can be boiled down to doing the right thing, but during this section, Rory and Ken will discuss in greater...
2021-10-1644 minCounselling Tutor podcast202 – Counselling LGBTQ ClientsPacing Yourself in Counselling - Importance of Journaling
In Episode 202 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly discuss today's three topics:
'Counselling Foundations' - where today's focus lies in pacing yourself within your sessions.
'Focus on Self' - where Rory and Ken discuss the importance of journaling.
And finally 'Practice Matters', where today Rory is speaking to Chloe Foster about counselling LGBTQ clients and working inclusively in your practice.
Pacing Yourself in Counselling [starts in 1:26 mins]
Being able to control your pace is an important skill to have when in the therapy room. During this...
2021-10-0952 minCounselling Tutor podcast201 – Non-judgemental Attitude in TherapySetting Boundaries as a Therapist - Talking Respectfully about Sexuality and Gender Identity
In Episode 201 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly return to discuss today's three topics:
'Counselling Foundations' - where today Rory and Ken focus on developing a non-judgemental attitude in therapy.
'Focus on Self' - with how we set our boundaries as a therapist.
And lastly in today's 'Practice Matters', Rory discusses talking respectfully about sexuality and gender identity with Daniel Winstanley.
Non-Judgemental Attitude in Therapy [starts at 1:17 mins]
Developing a non-judgemental attitude is a difficult step in the counselling journey, putting aside the...
2021-10-0246 minCounselling Tutor podcast200 – Working with Addictions in TherapyBecoming Congruent - Feeling Incompetent as a Therapist
In Episode 200 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes celebrate nearing 2 million podcast downloads before outlining today's three segments:
'Counselling Foundations' where in this episode Ken and Rory discuss becoming congruent.
In today's 'Focus on Self,' we look at feelings of incompetence.
And finally in today's 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Marion Elkin-Greener about working with addictions in therapy.
Becoming Congruent [starts at 3:35 mins]
Being congruent and genuine, both with yourself and with the client, is an important skill to bring into the therapy room. In this section...
2021-09-2551 minCounselling Tutor podcast199 – Resilience in the Counselling PracticeEmpathy in Counselling - Maternal Mental Health
In Episode 199 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly return with your three favourite segments:
'Counselling Foundations' - where today's focus is enhancing your empathy.
'Focus on Self' - where Rory and Ken introduce how to gain the necessary resilience in your counselling practice to cope with a client's personal struggles.
And once again ending with 'Practice Matters', where today Rory is joined by Emma Chapman to discuss maternal mental health.
Empathy in Counselling (starts at 1:16 mins)
If there's something you will use from beginning to end during your journey...
2021-09-1840 minCounselling Tutor podcast198 – Use of Silence in CounsellingDoes Your History Inform Your Practice? - Race and Culture
In Episode 198 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through three topics:
'Counselling Foundations' - where in this episode the use of silence within counselling will be explored.
'Focus on Self' - where Rory and Ken discuss the question, "Does your history inform who you are in your practice?"
And lastly in today's 'Practice Matters', an interview with psychotherapist Mamood Ahmad focusing on race and culture.
Use of Silence in Counselling (starts at 2.15 mins)
The importance of silence within the therapy room can be a...
2021-09-1141 minCounselling Tutor podcast197 – Academic Writing in CounsellingWho Are You in Your Practice? - Working with Moral Injury
In Episode 197 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast - the first of the new season, as we enter the start of the 2021/22 academic year - presenters Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly introduce two new regular slots:
'Counselling Foundations' - this section will explore theory, skills and practice points that underpin counselling practice, and is intended to be useful to both students and qualified practitioners. The focus in this episode is on academic writing in counselling.
'Focus on Self' - this recognises the importance of self in counselling training and work...
2021-09-0447 minCounselling Tutor podcast196 – Importance of Self-Care in SupervisionInterview with a Student - Goals in Therapy
In Episode 196 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast - the last of this season, prior to the summer break - presenter Rory Lees-Oakes interviews student Ruth Watson in 'Student Check-In'. 'Focus on Supervision' then sees Rory and Ken Kelly looking at self-care in supervision. Finally, Rory talks with Professor Mick Cooper about using goals in therapy.
Interview with a Student (starts at 4.05 mins)
Rory talks with student Ruth Watson about her experience of counselling training.
Ruth explains:
where she is based and is studying
her training journey, from a fast-track level 2 qualification to...
2021-07-0346 minCounselling Tutor podcast193 – Tackling Destructive Thought PatternsPersonal Development Linked to Theory - Boundaries in Supervision
Episode 193 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast opens with 'Student Check-In', in which presenters Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly discuss the importance of personal development for both trainee and qualified counsellors, and how this links to theory. Next - in our new slot 'Focus on Supervision' - Ken and Rory talk about the importance of boundaries in supervision. Finally, in 'Practice Matters', Rory interviews Clint Adams about how to support clients in tackling destructive thought patterns.
Personal Development Linked to Theory (starts at 1.55 mins)
Personal development is a topic that arises frequently...
2021-06-1247 minCounselling Tutor podcast192 – The Supervision TriangleKey Theory in Counselling - Creative Arts Therapy
In episode 192 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, presenters Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly talk in 'Student Check-In' about key theory in counselling. Then - in the first instalment of 'Focus on Supervision' - Ken and Rory talk about the supervision triangle. To end, in 'Practice Matters', Rory talks to counsellor and trainer Ani de la Prida about working with creative arts therapy.
Key Theory in Counselling (starts at 1.30 mins)
Understanding counselling theory can be tricky, coming as it does with a whole new language. And as a student of counselling or psychotherapy...
2021-05-2936 minCounselling Tutor podcast179 – Counselling Research Projects: Tips for StudentsNew Book from Counselling Tutor - Peek into Rory's Practice
In episode 179 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly offer tips for students on succeeding in their counselling research projects. There's then an exciting announcement in 'Digital Counselling Revolution' about a brand-new book from the team. Finally, in 'Practice Matters', the presenters launch a new feature - 'Peek into Practice' - which they illustrate through a conversation about Rory's experience as a school counsellor.
Counselling Research Projects: Tips for Students (starts at 1.50 mins)
All practitioner-level counselling training courses include a research project as one of the final-year...
2021-02-0647 minCounselling Tutor podcast166 – Is Online Therapy Effective?Self-Concept and the Johari Window - Writing Counselling Notes
In episode 166 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes kick off with the Student Check-in, talking about self-concept and how the Johari window can be used to promote personal development.
'The Digital Counselling Revolution' then focuses on the question 'Is online therapy effective' and the research evidence for its effectiveness.
Then, in 'Practice Matters', the presenters provide tips on writing counselling notes.
Self-Concept and the Johari Window (starts at 1.20 mins)
We choose topics for this section from emails that we receive or from posts on our Facebook page...
2020-10-1736 minCounselling Tutor podcast161 – Synchronous and Asynchronous Communication in CounsellingManaging Study Anxiety - Is Assessment Misunderstood?
In episode 161 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes provide tips on how to manage the anxiety that you may naturally be feeling at the prospect of starting the new academic year. 'The Digital Counselling Revolution' then looks at synchronous and asynchronous communication in counselling - what these are and the various pros and cons of each.
Last, in 'Practice Matters', the presenters discuss counselling assessment, with reference to a lecture in Counsellor CPD.
Managing Study Anxiety (starts at 1.30 mins)
Ken recalls his feelings of anxiety when beginning his counselling...
2020-09-1239 minCounselling Tutor podcast115 – How to Grow as a CounsellorValuing Yourself as a Professional - Using Academic Breaks Productively
In episode 115 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes look at the importance of valuing yourself as a professional. Then - in 'Practice Matters' - Rory explores how to grow as a counsellor. Last, the presenters discuss how you can use your academic breaks productively.
Valuing Yourself as a Professional (starts at 1.47 mins)
It is easy for students starting on placements to undervalue themselves and what they have to offer. Ken and Rory urge you to remember:
You have earned your seat!
You are the client's counsellor...
2019-06-0125 minCounselling Tutor podcast108 – Personal Development as a CounsellorWriting Letters to Other Professionals - Working with a Client's Emotional Age
In episode 108 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes describe why it is important to link theory to your personal development as a counsellor, and how you can do so. In 'Practice Matters', Rory explains how to write letters to other professionals. Finally, the presenters discuss the challenges of working with a client's emotional - as opposed to chronological - age.
Linking Theory to Personal Development as a Counsellor (starts at 1.44 mins)
Why might you wish to link theory to your own personal development as...
2019-03-3035 minCounselling Tutor podcast100 – Success in CounsellingCelebrations in the Counselling Room - Achieving 100 Client Hours
Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes are very proud and excited to present the 100th episode of the Counselling Tutor Podcast! There have been over 600,000 downloads of the podcast since it began - that's about the population of Glasgow - with a total running time of over 20 years (day and night)! To mark this special episode, Ken and Rory focus on the theme of celebration, looking first at owning your success. In 'Practice Matters', Rory then explores his experience of celebrating clients' success in counselling. Finally, the presenters talk about reaching 100 client...
2019-01-2631 minCounselling Tutor podcast093 – Personal Development Linked to Theory in CounsellingIn episode 93 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes talk about what it means to be dyslexic as a counselling student. In 'Practice Matters', Rory talks about immediacy as a skill. Last, the presenters discuss personal development (PD) and its connection to theory.
Dyslexia and Counselling Studies (starts at 1.48 mins)
Both Rory and Ken are dyslexic - and proud to be so! With their personal experience of what this means for counselling students, they offer the following tips:
Bear in mind that being dyslexic is in essence a form of neurodiversity - and, as we all know...
2018-11-1027 minCounselling Tutor podcast023 – Lone Working – Stereotypes – Creating a Brochure – ReferencingIn episode 23 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly discuss lone working. 'Theory with Rory' looks at stereotyping, and 'Person-Centred Business' explains how to create a brochure about your services. Finally, the presenters describe how to get the referencing right in your assignments.
Lone Working
If your counselling work involves you visiting clients in their homes, or seeing clients alone at your home, it is important to consider how best to ensure you stay safe. Rory and Ken give some top tips on this:
Plan ahead for every eventuality.
If working for an agency, make sure you...
2016-11-0543 minCounselling Tutor podcast020 – Gifts from Clients – Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs – Following Up Enquiries – Counselling PlacementsIn episode 20 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly discuss the dilemma of gifts from clients. Rory then explains Maslow's hierarchy of needs, and Ken - in 'Person-Centred Business' - looks at what to do following a telephone or email enquiry from a client. Last, the presenters discuss counselling placements.
Gifts from Counselling Clients
When a client offers you a gift at their final session, this can be symbolic to the journey you have accompanied them on. Refusing the gift may be hurtful to them or prevent them from experiencing a satisfactory ending to counselling - but...
2016-10-0847 minCounselling Tutor podcast017 – Returning to Study – Defence Mechanisms – Person-Centred Business – BACP Ethical FrameworkIn episode 17 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast – the first in season 2 – Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly talk about returning to study after the summer break. ‘Theory with Rory’ looks at defence mechanisms, while Ken introduces a new segment, ‘Person-Centred Business’, with ideas on using your counselling skills to earn money. Finally, the presenters turn to the new Ethical Framework for the Counselling Professions, published by the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP).
Returning to Study
Rory and Ken discuss the challenges and opportunities of returning to study after a break, offering various tips:
Keep calm – you will be given time to settle...
2016-09-1838 min
Counselling Tutor podcastCTP 015 - Counselling young people - Scripts Injunctions and Drivers - Appropriate Referrals in Counselling and ProgressionIn this weeks episode of the Counselling Tutor Podcast Rory and ken cover the topic of counselling children and adolescents. Rory takes a look at the Transactional Analysis theory of Scripts, Drivers and Injunctions. Ken speaks about making appropriate referrals in counselling and we end with a debate on progression. Counselling young people is a specialism that requires additional training post graduation. Rory and Ken explore some of the challenges of working with children and adolescents and they share some resources that will be useful if you would like to learn more about the subject.
2016-05-2956 min
Counselling Tutor podcastCTP 014 - Assignments - 19 Propositions - Rapport Building Integrative CounsellingIn this weeks episode of the Counselling Tutor Podcast Rory and Ken bring a valued packed episode number 14. This time of year many counselling courses are requiring assignments to evidence where learners are in their study. We look at assignment referrals and what learning we can take from this. Rory continues on from last week in his exploration of the Nineteen Propositions. Ken speaks about the importance that rapport building has in counselling and we close off by debating the difference between eclectic counselling and integrative therapeutic working. Assignment Time Many learners will b...
2016-05-2148 minCounselling Tutor podcast013 – Third Person in the Room – 19 Propositions 1 – Simile and Metaphor – Personal Philosophy in CounsellingIn episode 13 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly discuss the 'third person in the room'. 'Theory with Rory' introduces Carl Rogers' 19 propositions, and Ken looks at working with imagery. Last, Ken and Rory ask: what is your counselling philosophy?
The Third Person in the Room
When is it permissible to have a third person in the room? For example, a client might need an interpreter (when the counsellor and client do not share a language, including sign language). It is vital that clients have the support they need, but interpreters should be professional ones (not friends or r...
2016-05-1444 min
Counselling Tutor podcastCTP 013 - 3rd person in the room - 19 Propositions - Metaphor and Simile and Counselling Philosophyn this weeks episode of the Counselling Tutor podcast Rory and Ken explore the effect of having interpreters or careers in the counselling relationship. Rory digs deep into Carl Rogers' 19 Propositions while Ken speaks about Metaphor and Simile in the therapeutic relationship. We end with a debate about your philosophy of counselling and how this affects your practice going forward. 3rd Person in the Room How would you work with a client who has an interpreter or carer who needs to be in the room? Having someone other than th...
2016-05-1444 min
Counselling Tutor podcastCTP 012 - Self actualisation - Ethical Problem Solving - Seven Stages Of Process Part 2 and the difference between Counselling and PsychotherapyIn the 1960's Abraham Maslow developed a theory called 'Self
Actualisation. This was linked to his later theory we know as
Maslow's Triangle or Maslow hierarchy of needs.
Carl Rogers was influenced by Maslow's' theory and adopted self
actualisation as a core principle in his Person Centered Approach
to counselling. Ken and Rory debate the concept of self
actualisation and they examine the different stages of Maslow's
higher achy of needs.
Professor Tim Bond is the major author of the new BACP Ethical
Framework that will come into effect in the UK on the 1st...
2016-04-3058 min
Counselling Tutor podcast011 - Note Taking - Transactional Analysis - 7 Stages of Process in Practice and SupervisionNote Taking - Transactional Analysis - 7 Stages of Process in Practice and Supervision
In this weeks episode of the Counselling Tutor Podcast Rory and Ken look at note taking for counsellors. Rory explores the ego states of Transactional Analysis. In Skills with Ken the seven stages of process are related to practice. Ken and Rory end the podcast speaking about how to best use supervision.
Counsellor Note Taking
Rory and Ken discuss note taking for counsellors and look at some interesting ways of keeping notes.
Record are kept for 6 years then de...
2016-04-2355 minCounselling Tutor podcast011 – Note-Taking – Transactional Analysis – Seven Stages of Process in Practice 1 – SupervisionIn episode 11 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly look at note-taking for counsellors. 'Theory with Rory' explores the ego states of transactional analysis (TA), while 'Skills with Ken' relates the seven stages of process to practice. Our presenters end the podcast by speaking about how best to use supervision.
Note-Taking for Counsellors
Rory and Ken describe their own methods of formal note-taking, and explain the importance of these being purely factual, and not mentioning clients by name (for example, using code numbers). The new Ethical Framework for the Counselling Professions, published by the British Association for...
2016-04-2355 min
Counselling Tutor podcast010 - REBT - Endings in Counselling and Ethics vs CultureIn this episode of the Counselling tutor Podcast Rory takes a close look at Albert Ellis’ REBT, Ken talks about endings in counselling and in Ask Ken and Rory we debate ethics vests culture in counselling.
Albert Ellis developed the behavioural therapy Rational Emotive Behavioural Therapy known as REBT. Rory gives some examples that explain how the ABC model of (A) activating event leads to (B) a faulty belief that results in (C) consequences. Rory gives us some real life examples of how the belief can be (D) disputed using (E) evidence.
En...
2016-04-1650 min
Counselling Tutor podcast009 - Power in Counselling - Carl Rogers Biography - Skill of Challenge and Psychopathology vs Person Centred TherapyIn this weeks episode of the Counselling Tutor podcast Rory and Ken look at Power in the therapeutic relationship, Rory shares a biography of Carl Rogers, Ken looks at the skill of challenge and we end with a debate about Psychopathology and how it varies from the Person Centred Approach.
This weeks question comes from Anne Walker who asks We are talking about power role in a therapeutic relationship. Who has the power how does it shift Etc. Just wondered your thoughts are.
Power in Counselling
Ken and R...
2016-04-0952 minCounselling Tutor podcast009 – Power in Counselling – Carl Rogers’ Biography – Skill of Challenge – PsychopathologyIn the ninth episode of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes talk about the role of power in the therapeutic relationship. Rory presents on the life of Carl Rogers, while Ken explains the skill of challenging. In 'Ask Ken and Rory', there is a debate about different models in psychopathology.
Power in Counselling
While in some modalities of therapy, counsellors may choose to portray themselves as experts, the person-centred approach advocates reducing the power imbalance between client and therapist. Making the power balance completely equal is impossible, simply because the client comes to us in distress, wanting o...
2016-04-0952 min
Counselling Tutor podcast008 - Real World Counselling Skills - Carl Rogers' Hidden Conditions - Immediacy and Therapeutic ProcessIn this weeks episode of the Counselling Tutor Podcast Rory and Ken look at the difference between simulated skills practice and using counselling skills with clients in the real world. Rory looks at the theory of the hidden conditions of Carl Rogers and Ken explores the counselling skill immediacy. The podcast ends with a discussion on what therapeutic process is and how you can identify when it is taking place.
We received a question asking “Does anybody else find skills practice completely different to working with real clients?”
Rory and Ken debate the differences between simu...
2016-04-0239 min
Counselling Tutor podcast007 - Phenomenology - Therapeutic Pace - Skill of Questioning and BACP Accredited coursesIn this weeks episode of the Counselling Tutor Podcast Ken and Rory look at Phenomenology - Therapeutic Pace - Skill of Questioning and BACP Accredited courses for those who wish to study counselling.
A question that came in through our Counselling Tutor Facebook Group asked
“I have noticed that I find it challenging to balance client needs when they come in and want results fast, effectively putting pressure on me as a clinician to perform quickly and efficiently.” Isiah Palm.
Rory and Ken discuss the pace of therapy and how separate a clients expe...
2016-03-1941 minCounselling Tutor podcast007 – Therapeutic Pace – Phenomenology – Skill of Questioning – BACP-Accredited CoursesIn this seventh episode of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes discuss how to manage client expectations about therapeutic pace, and your reaction to these. Rory looks at the theory of phenomenology, while 'Skills with Ken' examines questioning. Finally, the presenters explain about course accreditation by the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP).
Managing Clients' Expectations
How do we deal with the challenge of some clients' desire for fast results? Rory and Ken discuss the pace of therapy, and the importance of patience in counselling. John Shlien, one of Carl Rogers' students, used to visit a f...
2016-03-1941 min
Counselling Tutor podcast006 – Counselling assignment tips – Conditions of Worth – Focusing and Measuring self developmentIn this weeks episode of the Counselling Tutor podcast Rory and Ken give some counselling assignment tips. In Theory with Rory you will learn about Conditions of Worth and in Counselling Skills with Ken we explore the skill of focusing. The episode ends with a look at ways we can measure our own self development as a student counsellor during our training.
Counselling Assignment Tips
Rory has been lecturing and training counsellors for over an decade and in that time he has seen what the most common mistakes are that cause assignments to be referred.
2016-03-1241 min
Counselling Tutor podcast005 PD Group, Critique of Carl Rogers, Idiosyncratic Empathy and Counselling PlacementsThis episode of the Counselling Tutor podcast kicks off with Ken and Rory exploring the roll of the Personal Develop Group. Rory presents a critique of Carl Rogers and Ken delves into idiosyncratic empathy. The episode ends with a debate about what student counsellors should be mindful of what looking for a counselling placement.
A big part of studying counselling is self growth and the “personal development group” (PD) or “process group” acts as a respectful and safe place to explore self.
Carl Rogers called the PD group an Encounter Group and towards the end of his c...
2016-03-0459 minCounselling Tutor podcast005 – PD Groups – Critiques of Carl Rogers – Idiosyncratic Empathy – Counselling PlacementsIn the fifth episode of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes discuss personal-development (PD) groups. 'Theory with Rory' looks at critiques of Carl Rogers, and 'Skills with Ken' at idiosyncratic empathy. Finally, in 'Ask Ken and Rory', the presenters offer tips on choosing a counselling placement.
PD Groups
A big part of studying counselling is self-growth; the PD group (also known as a 'process' group) acts as a respectful and safe place to explore self.
Carl Rogers called the PD group an 'encounter' group; in his later career, he facilitated many such groups throughout the world, especially i...
2016-03-0459 min
Counselling Tutor podcast004 - Equality and diversity - configurations of self - opening a session - CPDIn this weeks episode of the Counselling Tutor Podcast Ken and Rory take a look at equality and diversity and how this effects the counselling relationship. In Counselling Theory with Rory, configurations of self is explored and in Counselling Skills with Ken, Ken looks at the opening and closing of the counselling session. Equality and diversity is defined Nonmaleficence (do no harm) is an ethical requirement of the BACP, communicating with clients in a multicultural society is vital in upholding this principle “The practitioner has an ethical re...
2016-02-2757 minCounselling Tutor podcast003 – Counselling ‘Volume’ – Transference & Countertransference – Paraphrasing – UPRIn this third episode of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes explore how to turn down our counselling 'volume'. 'Theory with Rory' looks at transference and countertransference; and in the skills section, Ken examines paraphrasing. In a new slot, 'Ask Ken and Rory', the presenters look at the challenge of showing unconditional positive regard (UPR).
Turning Down Our Counselling 'Volume'
Following a question in the Facebook group about how not to be drawn into counselling family and friends, Rory and Ken use a range of personal experiences and anecdotes to illustrate how they 'turn down the volume' on...
2016-02-1947 min
Counselling Tutor podcastContracting - The Core Conditions and the Skill of SilenceCounselling Tutor Podcast about contracting in counselling, the skill of silence and theory talk about the core conditions of Carl Rogers.
In this the first podcast episode of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken and Rory speak about contracting as a counsellor. The theory section looks at the Core Conditions of Carl Rogers and in the skills section of the podcast Ken introduces the skill of silence.
The counselling contract
As counsellors we are expected to contract with our clients before therapy begins. The British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) recognises contracting in the...
2016-02-0153 min