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344 – Ethical Use of AI in Therapy
Introducing Therapy for Addiction - Learning Never Stops – Planning Your CPD In Episode 344 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week’s topics: Firstly, in ‘Ethical, Sustainable Practice’, we look at the ethical use of AI in therapy, highlighting potential risks and ethical responsibilities. Then in ‘Practice Matters’, Rory speaks with Caroline Evers Endicott about her lecture Introducing Therapy for Addiction - a vital area of practice that’s often underrepresented in core training. And finally, in ‘Student Services’, Rory and Ken discuss how learning never stops in counselling - and why planning your...
2025-06-28
00 min
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341 – Everyday Trauma
Working with Parents of Children with Disabilities – What to Do if You Don’t Get Onto the Next Course In Episode 341 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts, Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly, take us through this week’s three topics: Firstly in ‘Ethical, Sustainable Practice’, we explore the concept of everyday trauma. Then in ‘Practice Matters’, Rory speaks with Ellie Finch and Dr. Jo Griffin about their CPD lecture, which focuses on working with parents of children with disabilities, complex medical conditions, and special educational needs. And lastly in ‘Student Services’, Rory and Ken discuss what to do if you don’t get acce...
2025-06-07
00 min
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336 – Building your Counselling CV
Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) – Reviewing Client Progress In Episode 336 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week’s three topics: Firstly, in ‘Ethical, Sustainable Practice’, we look at building your counselling CV – including key features to include, ways to stand out, and how to present yourself professionally. Then in ‘Practice Matters’, Rory speaks with Nicola Durrant about working with clients who have Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) – a profile on the autism spectrum that requires a unique and flexible therapeutic approach. And lastly in ‘Student Services’, Rory and Ken look at how to review a client’s...
2025-04-26
00 min
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335 – Extra-Therapeutic Factors in Supervision
Supporting Male Clients in Therapy – How to Begin a Counselling Session In Episode 334 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly guide us through this week’s three topics: Firstly in ‘Ethical, Sustainable Practice’, we look at extra-therapeutic factors in Supervision and how a client’s world outside the therapy room can influence outcomes. Then in ‘Practice Matters’, Rory interviews James Hawes, author of The Secret Lives of Men, exploring how we can better understand and support male clients in therapy. And lastly in ‘Student Services’, Rory and Ken talk about how to begin a counselling session, and what...
2025-04-19
00 min
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333 – Dunning-Kruger Effect in Trauma-Informed Therapy
Autistic Therapists in Practice - The Essential Skill of Academic Referencing In Episode 333 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly, take us through this week's three key topics: Firstly, in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice' we look at understanding the Dunning-Kruger Effect in trauma-informed therapy and how it can impact professional competence. Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory interviews an autistic therapist who has chosen to stay anonymous to allow for an open and honest conversation. This discussion is about their lived experience and insights into neurodivergence in the profession. And lastly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken...
2025-03-22
00 min
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332 – Developing an Online Mindset
AI in Therapy - Comparing Ethical Frameworks In Episode 332 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly guide you through this week's three topics: Firstly, in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at developing an online mindset to effectively work with clients online. Then, in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Richard Miller, a counsellor, supervisor, and AI ethicist, about the ethical use of AI in therapy, its possibilities, challenges, and implications. Lastly, in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken discuss comparing ethical frameworks and why it's an important exercise in counselling training. In this section, Rory and Ken...
2025-03-15
00 min
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331 – Ethical Dilemmas in Supervision
Working with Life-restricting Conditions - Challenging Stereotypes in Counselling In Episode 331 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: Firstly, in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we explore ethical dilemmas in supervision and discuss strategies for resolving them effectively. Then, in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Dorothy Hodgkinson about working with clients who have 'life-restricting' conditions and how these conditions impact the therapeutic relationship. And lastly, in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken discuss the importance of challenging stereotypes in counselling training, offering insights into how counsellors can avoid stereotyping clients in...
2025-03-08
00 min
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330 – Working with Clients Abroad
Importance of Psychosexual Therapy - Meeting Supervision Hour Requirements In Episode 330 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: Firstly, in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we explore the challenges and considerations of offering online therapy to clients abroad, particularly focusing on legal, ethical, and practical concerns. Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Lohani Noor about the importance of psychosexual therapy and how therapists can gain the skills to support clients navigating intimate issues. Lastly, in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken provide practical advice for counselling students on meeting course...
2025-03-01
00 min
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329 – Distinguishing PTSD and Complex PTSD
Navigating Client Complaints Effectively - Managing Observed Skills Sessions In Episode 329 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', Rory and Ken discuss distinguishing PTSD and Complex PTSD, exploring the evolution of trauma therapy and the importance of understanding physiological responses in trauma-informed practice. Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Susie Jamieson about how to navigate client complaints effectively, sharing practical strategies and personal experiences to help therapists be complaint-ready. And lastly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken talk about managing overwhelm during...
2025-02-22
00 min
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328 – Professional Letter Writing
Couples Therapy using the Developmental Model - Choosing the Therapy Modality In Episode 328 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: Firstly, in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we delve into professional letter writing by counsellors when communicating with other professionals. Then, in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Claire Ratcliffe about relationship therapy using the developmental model, focusing on how couples evolve and how therapists can support growth at each stage. Lastly, in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken discuss how to choose the therapy modality that is the best fit for...
2025-02-08
00 min
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327 – 7-eyed Model of Supervision in Clinical Practice
PD Groups for Counsellors - Supportive Supervision before Placement In Episode 327 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: Firstly, in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we explore the 7-eyed model of supervision in clinical practice. Then, in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Dr. Sonja Falck about facilitating personal development (PD) groups and their importance for both trainees and qualified counsellors. And lastly, in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken discuss the essential topic of accessing supervision before going into placement and why it's crucial to be well-prepared. 7-eyed Model of Supervision...
2025-02-01
00 min
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326 – Ambiguous Loss
Virtual Reality in Therapy - Vicarious Trauma In Episode 326 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: First up in Ethical, Sustainable Practice: Understanding ambiguous loss, its complexities, and how it presents in therapy. Then in Practice Matters: Rory speaks with Nina Solomons about the innovative use of virtual reality in therapy. Lastly, in Student Services: Rory and Ken discuss a critique of the person-centred model, addressing its strengths and limitations. Ambiguous Loss [starts at 03:07 mins] In this week's Ethical, Sustainable Practice, Rory and Ken explore ambiguous loss...
2025-01-25
00 min
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325 – Applying Attachment Theory
Neurodivergence and Eating Disorders - Managing Overwhelm In Episode 325 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: Firstly, in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice,' we look at applying Attachment Theory in therapy and how understanding attachment styles helps build a strong therapeutic relationship. Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Bernie Wright and Lisa Smith about the connection between eating disorders, disordered eating, and neurodivergence. Lastly, in 'Student Services, Rory and Ken discuss how counselling students can manage overwhelm and stay motivated through their training journey. Applying Attachment Theory [starts...
2025-01-18
00 min
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324 – Regulation of Counselling and Psychotherapy
Managing Risk in Online Therapy - Contracting in Counselling In Episode 324 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: Firstly, in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at managing risk in online therapy and the considerations for safe practice. Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Meg Moss about the regulation of counselling and psychotherapy. And lastly, in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken discuss the importance of contracting in counselling. Managing Risk in Online Therapy [starts at 04:30 mins] Managing risk in online therapy is essential to ensure the safety of...
2025-01-11
00 min
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323 – Engaging with Clinical Supervision
Regulation in Counselling and Psychotherapy - Power Up your Counselling Skills through Observation In Episode 323 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at engaging with clinical supervision and how to get the most from it. Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Susie Jamerson in the second part of a three-part series exploring regulation in counselling and psychotherapy. And lastly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken discuss powering up your counselling skills through observation. Engaging with Clinical Supervision [starts at 03:54 mins] ...
2025-01-04
00 min
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322 – Theory of Mind
Statutory Regulation in Counselling and Psychotherapy - Dual Relationships in Counselling In Episode 322 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: Firstly, in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we discuss the theory of mind and its implications in neurodivergence. Then, in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Dr. Anne Guy about the pros and cons of statutory regulation in counselling and psychotherapy. And lastly, in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken explore managing dual relationships in counselling. Theory of Mind [starts at 04:38 mins] In this section, Rory and Ken discuss Theory of Mind...
2024-12-14
00 min
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321 – Online Counselling for Neurodivergent Clients
Counselling Boys and Men Part 2 - Managing Boundaries in Counselling In Episode 321 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly guide us through this week's three topics: Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice' we look at effective online counselling for neurodivergent clients. Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory interviews Phil Mitchell about part two of his lecture on counselling boys and men. And lastly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken discuss managing boundaries in counselling. Online Counselling for Neurodivergent Clients [starts at 03:41 mins] In this section, Rory and Ken explore the unique considerations of offering online counselling for n...
2024-12-07
00 min
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319 – Double Empathy Problem
Navigating the Complaints Process - Developing Your Inner Supervisor In Episode 319 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at understanding the Double Empathy Problem in Neurodivergent Therapy. Then in 'Practice Matters', we have the first part of an interview where Rory speaks with Susie Jamieson about her journey navigating the complaints process. And lastly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken discuss developing your inner supervisor. Double Empathy Problem [starts at 03:33 mins] When working with neurodivergent individuals, we might encounter barriers to...
2024-11-23
00 min
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317 – Strengths and Challenges in Autism
Finding Work through EAP - Closing a Skills Session In Episode 317 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly look at this week's three topics: Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at the different strengths and challenges in autism that individuals may face. Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Sharon McCormick about how an ethical EAP (Employment Assistant Program) operates and the benefits for both clients and employers. And lastly in 'Student Services, Rory and Ken discuss closing a skills session. Strengths and Challenges in Autism [starts at 02:55 mins] There are some traits that...
2024-11-09
00 min
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315 – Neurodivergence and Autism
Digital Tools in Online Therapy Sessions - Developing an Emotional Vocabulary In Episode 315 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: First up in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', Rory and Ken discuss Neurodivergence-Affirming Psychotherapy. Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Ellie Finch about using digital tools in online therapy sessions. And lastly in 'Student Services', we look at developing an emotional vocabulary. Neurodivergence and Autism [starts at 03:19 mins] All clients deserve to feel seen and understood within the therapy room. In this section, Rory and Ken discuss neurodivergence and...
2024-10-26
00 min
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314 – Perspectives and Definitions of Trauma
Language and the Therapeutic Relationship - Research Projects and What to Research In Episode 314 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at understanding the diverse perspectives and definitions of trauma. Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Nadine Pittham about how our use of language can develop and strengthen the therapeutic relationship. And lastly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken talk about research projects, and more specifically, what should you research? Perspectives and Definitions of Trauma [starts at 03:19 mins] Working with...
2024-10-12
00 min
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313 – What is Trauma-Informed Practice
Transitioning from Student to Qualified Practitioner - Working Around Barriers in Communication In Episode 313 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', Rory and Ken ask what is trauma-informed practice? Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Alex Gulland about her transition from student to qualified counsellor. And lastly in 'Student Services', we look at barriers in communication. What is Trauma-Informed Practice [starts at 03:13 mins] Understanding and responding to the impact of trauma is essential to be able to best serve our clients. In...
2024-10-05
00 min
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312 – Working Within Your Competence
Critical Incident Debriefing - The Importance of your 'Why' In Episode 312 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at working within your competence in counselling and psychotherapy. Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Karen Moore about Critical Incident debriefing. And lastly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken talk about using your 'why' when things get tough. Working Within Your Competence [starts at 03:41 mins] Understanding working within your competence with clients is so important. In this section, Rory and Ken highlight wh...
2024-09-28
00 min
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309 – How to Recognise Vicarious Trauma
Online Trauma Therapy - Exploring Neurodivergence Creatively in Therapy In Episode 309 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at online trauma therapy. Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Amy Peters about exploring neurodiversity creatively. And lastly,in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken talk about how to recognise vicarious trauma. Online Trauma Therapy [starts at 03:10 mins] Online and telephone counselling have become increasingly popular in recent years, making it even more important that we're aware of the challenges that can come...
2024-09-07
00 min
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308– Grounding Techniques for Trauma
Writing Creatively in Therapy - Trauma: What Counselling Students Need to Know In Episode 308 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at grounding techniques for trauma. Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Dr Jessica J. Clapham about writing creatively in therapy and its benefits to well-being. And lastly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken talk about trauma, and what to know as a counselling student. Grounding Techniques for Trauma [starts at 03:43 mins] Grounding techniques are an essential skill when working...
2024-08-31
00 min
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306 – Recognising Suicide Risk in Therapy Clients
Unmasking Neurodivergence and Ethnicity Using Digital Tools - Giving Feedback to Your Tutors In Episode 306 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at recognising suicide risk in your therapy clients. Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Lesley Simpson-Gray about unmasking neurodivergence and ethnicity using digital tools. And lastly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken talk about how to give feedback to your tutors. Recognising Suicide Risk in Therapy Clients [starts at 03:41 mins] Supporting a client who is at risk of...
2024-06-22
58 min
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304 – Autism-Informed Supervisor
Psychotherapeutic Needs of Mothers Returning to Work after Maternity Leave - Taking a Course during the Summer Break In Episode 304 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly are back for this week's three topics: Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', Rory and Ken go through what to look for in an autism-informed supervisor. Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Cathy Sansom about the psychotherapeutic needs of mothers returning to work after maternity leave. And lastly in 'Student Services', we look at things to consider when taking a course over the summer break between your studies. ...
2024-06-08
51 min
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303 – Safeguarding Clients in Online or Phone Therapy
Supporting Frontline Workers: Interview with Frontline19 CEO - Getting Books and Resources for the Next Leg of Your Studies In Episode 303 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly are back with this week's three topics: Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at safeguarding clients in online or phone therapy. Then in 'Practice Matters' Rory speaks with Claire Goodwin-Fee about her role as CEO of Frontline19, an organisation that provides confidential psychological support for people working in the NHS and other frontline services in the UK. And lastly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken offer...
2024-06-01
49 min
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299 – Differences between Counselling Young People and Adults
Taking Risks in Therapy - Referencing for Assignments In Episode 299 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly are back with this week's three topics: Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at the differences between counselling children and young people vs. adults. Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Sally-Anne Armitage about taking risks in therapy. And lastly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken look at the art of referencing in your assignments. Differences between Counselling Young People and Adults [starts at 03:24 mins] Some students might already know that they want to work with children...
2024-04-27
1h 11
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298 – Self-Care for Counsellors
Addressing Racial Identity - Neurodivergence within PD Groups In Episode 298 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly are back with this week's three topics: Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at resilience and self-care for counsellors and therapists. Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Sarah Henry about the significance of addressing racial identity. And lastly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken discuss neurodivergence within PD groups. Resilience and Self-Care for Counsellors [starts at 02:00 mins] In order to look after your practice, you need to look after yourself. In this section, Rory and Ken...
2024-04-20
1h 18
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296 – Counsellor Safety
Working with Men Abused by Women - Preparing for Your Counselling Residential In Episode 296 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly are back with this week's three topics: First up in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at counsellor safety and self-care strategies when navigating lone working. Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Phil Mitchell about abuse by women towards men, delving into misandry and how it is viewed. And lastly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken discuss preparing for your counselling residential experience. Counsellor Safety during Lone Working [starts at 03:25 mins] It's never nice...
2024-03-23
1h 02
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295 – Outdoor Therapy for Children
Enhancing Your First Contact with Counselling Clients - Challenges of Compulsory Placement Supervision In Episode 295 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly are back with this week's three topics: Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at crafting meaningful connections and enhancing that first contact with potential clients. Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Kate Beckwith about how she uses the outdoors, animals, and art to provide children and young people with a unique therapeutic experience. And lastly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken look at the challenges of being asked to have compulsory...
2024-03-16
1h 23
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294 – Linking Theory to Practice in Counselling
Finding New Therapy Clients through Blogging - Combining REBT with Fitness Coaching In Episode 294 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly are back with this week's three topics: First up in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at how to unlock new clients through blogging. Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks to Ruth Hill about how she combines REBT with fitness coaching. And lastly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken look at linking theory to practice in counselling, or recognising where theory applies to actual practice in the therapy room. Finding New Therapy Clients through Blogging...
2024-03-09
1h 05
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293 – EAP Counselling
Why Hire an Accountant - How to Handle Negative Feedback In Episode 293 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly discuss this week's three topics: Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we take a deep dive into Employment Assistant Programs or EAP counselling. Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Kassim Harunani about why you might hire an accountant as a counsellor in private practice. And lastly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken look at how to handle, receive, and process negative feedback. EAP Counselling Pros and Cons [starts at 03:28 mins] The EAP are there for companies...
2024-03-02
1h 17
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290 – Trauma-Informed Therapist
Counselling Transgender People - Why Students Should Have Their Own Insurance In Episode 290 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly are back with this week's three topics: Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at 5 reasons to become a trauma-informed therapist. Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Dorothy Hodgkinson about working with transgender people. And lastly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken discuss some of the reasons students should have their own insurance. 5 Reasons to Become a Trauma-Informed Therapist [starts at 02:56 mins] With trauma coming up more frequently in the therapy room, there has...
2024-02-03
1h 09
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289 – Why Become a Clinical Supervisor
Using Digital Tools in Online Therapy - Comparing and Contrasting Counselling Theories In Episode 289 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly discuss this week's three topics: Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at 5 reasons why become a clinical supervisor. Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Ellie Finch and Lesley Simpson-Gray about using digital tools in online practice. And lastly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken compare and contrast some of the main counselling theories. Why Become a Clinical Supervisor [starts at 04:23 mins] If you've been wondering how you can take your career a...
2024-01-27
1h 10
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285 – Canine Therapy
Getting Your Counselling Assignment in Order - How Abuse Narratives in the Media Generate Inquiries In Episode 285 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: Firstly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken share their advice for getting your assignments in order. Then in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at the ripple effect - how the abuse narratives in the media can generate specific inquiries. And lastly in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Hilary McNair about canine therapy and her work with her own dog, Oscar. Getting Your Counselling Assignment...
2023-12-16
1h 06
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284 – Dangers of Smart Devices in the Therapy Room
Why We Learn Counselling Theory - Managing Client Breaks Over the Holidays In Episode 284 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly are back with this week's three topics: Firstly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken think about why we learn counselling theory. Then in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at managing client breaks over the holidays. And lastly in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Cath Knibbs about the dangers of having smart devices in the therapy room. Why We Learn Counselling Theory [starts at 02:28 mins] If you've ever questioned the importance of learning counselling theory...
2023-12-09
1h 07
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283 – Legal Obligations of Counsellors
Idiosyncratic Empathy - Being a Placement Manager In Episode 283 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: Firstly in 'Student Services', we look at idiosyncratic empathy. Then in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', Rory and Ken discuss the legal obligations of counsellors, particularly in relation to the coroner's court. And lastly in this week's 'Practice Matters', Rory interviews Nikaela Morrison about her work as a placement manager, and her project Trainbee. Idiosyncratic Empathy [starts at 02:56 mins] Idiosyncratic empathy is a term coined by Gerald Bozarth, and in this section, Rory and...
2023-12-02
59 min
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281 – Cancellation Policy for Therapists
Counselling Fundamentals - Aphantasia In Episode 281 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: Up first in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken discuss the benefits of going back to the counselling fundamentals. Then in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at the importance of cancellation policy for therapists. And lastly in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Sassy Smith, founder of Aphantasia Academy, as she shares her insight into one specific area of neurodivergence, aphantasia - the inability to visualise. Counselling Fundamentals [starts at 02:30 mins] Whether you're a student or an...
2023-11-18
1h 01
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276 – Career Counselling
Carl Rogers' Potato Analogy - Client-Centred Ethics In Episode 276 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly are back with this week's three topics: First up in 'Student Services' we look at Carl Rogers' potato observation, focusing on self-actualisation and hopes. Then in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', Rory and Ken speak about client-centred ethics and navigating outcomes and limitation in therapy. And lastly in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Richard Rotberg on career counselling. Carl Rogers' Potato Analogy [starts at 02:50 mins] Carl Rogers' potato observation offers a new perspective for us to take into the therapy room...
2023-10-07
51 min
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272 – Roleplaying Games in Therapy
The Myth of the Core Conditions - Should You Become an Accredited Counsellor? In Episode 272 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly are back with our latest three topics: Firstly in 'Student Services' we look at the myth of the core conditions. Then in 'Ethical, Sustainable Counselling', Rory and Ken discuss reasons you might, and might not, look into becoming an accredited counsellor. And lastly in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Daniel Hand about using roleplaying games in therapy. The Myth of the Core Conditions [starts at 03:12 mins] In this section, Rory and Ken discuss...
2023-09-09
52 min
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270 – Looking Up Therapy Clients on Social Media
Processing Endings - Pet Bereavement In Episode 270 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast - the last of this academic year - your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly discuss three new topics: First up in 'Theory in Practice', we look at processing endings. Then in 'Practice Today', Rory and Ken discuss their opinions on looking up therapy clients on social media. And lastly in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Carrie Kearns about pet bereavement. Processing Endings [starts at 02:44 mins] When it comes to the end of your time with a group you've become comfortable with, it can sometimes be difficult to...
2023-07-01
56 min
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268 – Recovered Memory Therapy
Post-Modern Counselling Theories - The ABC Grief Model In Episode 268 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts, Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly bring us this week's three topics: Firstly with 'Theory in Practice', we look at what is post-modern counselling and its theories. Then in 'Practice Today', listen as Rory and Ken discuss recovered memory therapy. And lastly in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Mandy Gosling about the ABC grief model. Post-Modern Counselling Theories [starts at 02:25 mins] For anyone that hasn't previously looked at post-modern counselling theories, it can be difficult to grasp straight away. Listen as Rory and Ken...
2023-06-17
51 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
267– How to Write a Counselling CV
How to Protect Yourself as a Therapist - Working as an Interpreter for Counselling In Episode 267 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly discuss this week's three topics: Firstly in 'Theory in Practice', how to write a counselling CV. Then in 'Practice Today', Rory and Ken discuss protecting yourself as a therapist. And lastly in this week's 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Eniko Koncz about being an interpreter for counselling. How to Write a Counselling CV [starts at 02:26 mins] When it comes to putting together a CV, you want to be presenting the best of...
2023-06-10
1h 00
Counselling Tutor podcast
266 – Anti-Oppressive Practice in Counselling
Moving to the Next Level in Your Counselling Journey - Can You Be Too Congruent? In Episode 266 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly are back with this week's three topics: Up first in 'Theory in Practice', we look at moving to the next level in your counselling journey. Then in 'Practice Today', Rory and Ken have an interesting discussion about whether you can be too congruent And lastly in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Mamood Ahmad about anti-oppressive practice in counselling. Moving to the Next Level in Your Counselling Journey [starts at 02:25 mins] Taking...
2023-06-03
51 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
265 – How to Set Up a Therapy Room
Barriers to Communication in Therapy - Interview with the NCS Chief Executive In Episode 265 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly are back with this week's three topics: Firstly in 'Theory in Practice' we look at barriers to communication in counselling. Then in 'Practice Today', Rory and Ken discuss how to set up a therapy room. And lastly in 'Practice Matters', we see the end of our 6-week-long series looking into the National Counselling Society (soon to be the National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society) by speaking with CEO Jyles Robillard-Day. Barriers to Communication in Therapy...
2023-05-20
55 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
264 – Counselling a Client You Don’t Like
Phenomenology in Philosophy and Counselling - NCS Campaigns In Episode 264 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: Up first in 'Theory in Practice', we look at the philosophy of phenomenology and counselling. Then in 'Practice Today', Rory and Ken speak about counselling a client you don't like as a person. And lastly in 'Practice Matters', Rory is once again speaking with Meg Moss, head of policy and public affairs at the National Counselling Society (soon to be the National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society) about some of the campaigns...
2023-05-13
50 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
258 – Touch in Therapy
Psychological Contact - Managing Risk in Counselling In Episode 258 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly are back with this week's three topics: Firstly in 'Theory in Practice', we look at psychological contact. Then in 'Practice Today', Rory and Ken share their thoughts on touch in therapy. And finally in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Sally-Anne Armitage on managing risk. Psychological Contact [starts at 02:30 mins] Psychological contact was recognised by Carl Rogers as an important condition of person-centered therapy. In this section, Rory and Ken discuss psychological contact, and the things that may stand in...
2023-03-18
47 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
246 – Paid Advertising for Therapists
Petruska Clarkson's 5 Relationship Model - Working with Otherness in Counselling In Episode 246 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly are back to discuss this week's three topics: Firstly in 'Theory in Practice' we'll look at Petruska Clarkson's 5 Relationship Model. Then in 'Practice Partner', Rory and Ken discuss options when it comes to paid advertising for therapists, and the possible pros and cons. Then lastly in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Dr. Dwight Turner about working with otherness. Petruska Clarkson's 5 Relationship Model [starts at 02:48 mins] In this section, Rory and Ken go through some of the...
2022-12-03
1h 01
Counselling Tutor podcast
239 – Carl Rogers’ Fully Functioning Person
Getting the Best from Directory Listings - Breathwork for Counsellors In Episode 239 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: Firstly, in 'Theory in Practice' we look at the fully functioning person according to Carl Rogers. Then in 'Practice Partner', Rory and Ken look at ways to get the best from a directory listing. Lastly in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Barbara Pidgeon about breathwork for counsellors. Carl Rogers' Fully Functioning Person [starts at 02:54 mins] In this section, Rory and Ken discuss the term fully functioning person as used...
2022-10-08
57 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
235 – Making a Counselling Business Plan
Introjected Values - Carl Jung's Theories on Ego and Self In Episode 235 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly are back with this week's three topics: Firstly in 'Theory in Practice', we look at introjected values. Then in 'Practice Partner', Rory and Ken discuss making a counselling business plan. And lastly in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Dr. Jessica Bockler about Carl Gustav Jung's theories on ego and self. Introjected Values [starts at 02:40 mins] We start today with Rory and Ken discussing introjected values, and how these may present themselves in the therapy room. The...
2022-09-10
1h 00
Counselling Tutor podcast
230 – Metacognitive Therapy
Existential Therapy - Adapting Your Therapeutic Model In Episode 230 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: First, in 'Counselling Foundations', we look at existential therapy. Then in 'Focus on Self', Rory and Ken discuss adapting your therapeutic model. And lastly in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Dr Pia Callesen about metacognitive therapy. Existential Therapy [starts at 01:45 mins] In this section on existential therapy, Rory and Ken briefly discuss the philosophy behind existential thoughts and some things you can give clients to think about in order to help them...
2022-06-11
45 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
222 – Time-Limited Counselling
Counselling and the Law - Developing a Safe Emotional Space for Clients In Episode 222 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly are back with this week's three topics: In 'Counselling Foundations' - counselling and the law. Then in 'Focus on Self', Rory and Ken discuss creating a safe emotional space for clients. And finally in 'Practice Matters', Ken speaks with Amy Launder on time-limited counselling in the NHS. Counselling and the Law [starts at 2:15 mins] As a counsellor, it is our responsibility to be aware of the laws we must abide by when dealing with...
2022-03-26
57 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
214 – Social Media Considerations for Therapists
The Skill of Questioning in Counselling - Leaving Client Material Behind In Episode 214 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, listen as Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly discuss this week's three topics: In this episode's 'Counselling Foundations', Rory and Ken look at the skill of appropriate questioning. Next in 'Focus on Self', we think about leaving client material behind. And lastly in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with James Taylor on social media considerations for therapists, with a focus on online etiquette. The Skill of Questioning in Counselling [starts at 02:03 mins] Your approach to asking questions will differ depending on the modality of...
2022-01-22
52 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
213 – Using Role-Playing Games in Therapy
Relational Depth in Counselling - Dealing with Failure In Episode 213 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly discuss this week's three new topics: In 'Counselling Foundations', Rory and Ken explore the relational depth. Then in 'Focus on Self', we think about failure. And finally in this week's 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Daniel Hand on introducing role-playing games (RPGs) in therapy. Relational Depth in Counselling [starts at 02:54 mins] Relational depth is connecting with each other in a meaningful way, not necessarily just in therapy. In this section, Rory and Ken look further into this idea of relational...
2022-01-15
48 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
212 – Psychosexual Therapy
The Skill of Summarising - Managing Personal Relationships during Counselling Training In Episode 212 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: In this episode's 'Counselling Foundations', Rory and Ken discuss the skill of summarising. Next, in 'Focus on Self' we'll look at managing our personal relationships. And finally in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Michelle Harrison-Lee on psychosexual therapy. The Skill of Summarising [starts at 2:07 mins] Listen as Rory and Ken discuss the benefits and applications of the skill of summarising: It can be used at the end of sessions to...
2022-01-08
54 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
211 – Self-Disclosure and Immediacy in Counselling
Choosing Your Ethical Body - Engaging with Supervision In Episode 211 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly return with three more topics: First in 'Counselling Foundations', Ken and Rory will go over self-disclosure and immediacy in counselling. Then in 'Focus on Self', we'll look at choosing your ethical body. And finally in this week's 'Practice Matters', Ken will speak with our very own Rory Lees-Oakes on his upcoming lecture about engaging with supervision. Self-Disclosure and Immediacy in Counselling [starts in 1:55 mins] In this week's 'Counselling Foundations', listen as Rory and Ken discuss the skill of...
2021-12-18
53 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
209 – Working as a School Counsellor
Building a Therapeutic Relationship - Counselling through Personal Adversity In Episode 209 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly discuss this week's three topics: In 'Counselling Foundations' this week, Rory and Ken look at the therapeutic relationship. Next in 'Focus on Self', we look at counselling through your own adversity. And finally, in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Caroline Peacock about working as a school counsellor with children and young people. Building a Therapeutic Relationship [starts in 1:37 mins] Your relationship with a client can be the backbone of your sessions, and in this section, Rory and Ken discuss...
2021-12-04
49 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
207 – The Wounded Healer Counsellor
First Counselling Session - Counselling Paperwork In Episode 207 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly return with your favourite three sections: This week's 'Counselling Foundations' looks at the first counselling sessions - both your first session as a counsellor and the first session with each client. Then in 'Focus on Self', Rory and Ken discuss the wounded healer counsellor. And finally in this week's 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Tamara Howell about paperwork. First Counselling Session [starts in 1:50 mins] First counselling sessions are bound to be nerve-racking, whether it's your first session with a new client or...
2021-11-20
49 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
204 – What is Ambiguous Loss
Barriers in Communication - Applying Theory to Self In Episode 204 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly return with three new topics of discussion: In today's 'Counselling Foundations' we look at barriers in communication. Then in 'Focus on Self', Rory and Ken discuss applying theories to self. And finally in 'Practice Matters', Rory and Chloe Swinton discuss what is ambiguous loss. Barriers in Communication [starts at 1:40 mins] Counselling is all about communication, but sometimes there are certain things that can get in the way such as simply not listening or not knowing how to respond. In this...
2021-10-23
56 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
203 – Counselling Clients with Sex Addiction
Importance of Ethics in Counselling - Knowing your Attachment Style In Episode 203 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly discuss this week's three segments: 'Counselling Foundations' - where we look at why ethics are important. 'Focus on Self' - where we look at knowing your attachment style. And finally in today's 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Karen Lawrence about counselling clients with sex addiction. Importance of Ethics in Counselling [starts at 1:33 mins] The very basics of ethics can be boiled down to doing the right thing, but during this section, Rory and Ken will discuss in greater...
2021-10-16
44 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
202 – Counselling LGBTQ Clients
Pacing Yourself in Counselling - Importance of Journaling In Episode 202 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly discuss today's three topics: 'Counselling Foundations' - where today's focus lies in pacing yourself within your sessions. 'Focus on Self' - where Rory and Ken discuss the importance of journaling. And finally 'Practice Matters', where today Rory is speaking to Chloe Foster about counselling LGBTQ clients and working inclusively in your practice. Pacing Yourself in Counselling [starts in 1:26 mins] Being able to control your pace is an important skill to have when in the therapy room. During this...
2021-10-09
52 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
201 – Non-judgemental Attitude in Therapy
Setting Boundaries as a Therapist - Talking Respectfully about Sexuality and Gender Identity In Episode 201 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly return to discuss today's three topics: 'Counselling Foundations' - where today Rory and Ken focus on developing a non-judgemental attitude in therapy. 'Focus on Self' - with how we set our boundaries as a therapist. And lastly in today's 'Practice Matters', Rory discusses talking respectfully about sexuality and gender identity with Daniel Winstanley. Non-Judgemental Attitude in Therapy [starts at 1:17 mins] Developing a non-judgemental attitude is a difficult step in the counselling journey, putting aside the...
2021-10-02
46 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
200 – Working with Addictions in Therapy
Becoming Congruent - Feeling Incompetent as a Therapist In Episode 200 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes celebrate nearing 2 million podcast downloads before outlining today's three segments: 'Counselling Foundations' where in this episode Ken and Rory discuss becoming congruent. In today's 'Focus on Self,' we look at feelings of incompetence. And finally in today's 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Marion Elkin-Greener about working with addictions in therapy. Becoming Congruent [starts at 3:35 mins] Being congruent and genuine, both with yourself and with the client, is an important skill to bring into the therapy room. In this section...
2021-09-25
51 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
199 – Resilience in the Counselling Practice
Empathy in Counselling - Maternal Mental Health In Episode 199 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly return with your three favourite segments: 'Counselling Foundations' - where today's focus is enhancing your empathy. 'Focus on Self' - where Rory and Ken introduce how to gain the necessary resilience in your counselling practice to cope with a client's personal struggles. And once again ending with 'Practice Matters', where today Rory is joined by Emma Chapman to discuss maternal mental health. Empathy in Counselling (starts at 1:16 mins) If there's something you will use from beginning to end during your journey...
2021-09-18
40 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
198 – Use of Silence in Counselling
Does Your History Inform Your Practice? - Race and Culture In Episode 198 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through three topics: 'Counselling Foundations' - where in this episode the use of silence within counselling will be explored. 'Focus on Self' - where Rory and Ken discuss the question, "Does your history inform who you are in your practice?" And lastly in today's 'Practice Matters', an interview with psychotherapist Mamood Ahmad focusing on race and culture. Use of Silence in Counselling (starts at 2.15 mins) The importance of silence within the therapy room can be a...
2021-09-11
41 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
197 – Academic Writing in Counselling
Who Are You in Your Practice? - Working with Moral Injury In Episode 197 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast - the first of the new season, as we enter the start of the 2021/22 academic year - presenters Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly introduce two new regular slots: 'Counselling Foundations' - this section will explore theory, skills and practice points that underpin counselling practice, and is intended to be useful to both students and qualified practitioners. The focus in this episode is on academic writing in counselling. 'Focus on Self' - this recognises the importance of self in counselling training and work...
2021-09-04
47 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
196 – Importance of Self-Care in Supervision
Interview with a Student - Goals in Therapy In Episode 196 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast - the last of this season, prior to the summer break - presenter Rory Lees-Oakes interviews student Ruth Watson in 'Student Check-In'. 'Focus on Supervision' then sees Rory and Ken Kelly looking at self-care in supervision. Finally, Rory talks with Professor Mick Cooper about using goals in therapy. Interview with a Student (starts at 4.05 mins) Rory talks with student Ruth Watson about her experience of counselling training. Ruth explains: where she is based and is studying her training journey, from a fast-track level 2 qualification to...
2021-07-03
46 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
193 – Tackling Destructive Thought Patterns
Personal Development Linked to Theory - Boundaries in Supervision Episode 193 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast opens with 'Student Check-In', in which presenters Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly discuss the importance of personal development for both trainee and qualified counsellors, and how this links to theory. Next - in our new slot 'Focus on Supervision' - Ken and Rory talk about the importance of boundaries in supervision. Finally, in 'Practice Matters', Rory interviews Clint Adams about how to support clients in tackling destructive thought patterns. Personal Development Linked to Theory (starts at 1.55 mins) Personal development is a topic that arises frequently...
2021-06-12
47 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
192 – The Supervision Triangle
Key Theory in Counselling - Creative Arts Therapy In episode 192 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, presenters Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly talk in 'Student Check-In' about key theory in counselling. Then - in the first instalment of 'Focus on Supervision' - Ken and Rory talk about the supervision triangle. To end, in 'Practice Matters', Rory talks to counsellor and trainer Ani de la Prida about working with creative arts therapy. Key Theory in Counselling (starts at 1.30 mins) Understanding counselling theory can be tricky, coming as it does with a whole new language. And as a student of counselling or psychotherapy...
2021-05-29
36 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
179 – Counselling Research Projects: Tips for Students
New Book from Counselling Tutor - Peek into Rory's Practice In episode 179 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly offer tips for students on succeeding in their counselling research projects. There's then an exciting announcement in 'Digital Counselling Revolution' about a brand-new book from the team. Finally, in 'Practice Matters', the presenters launch a new feature - 'Peek into Practice' - which they illustrate through a conversation about Rory's experience as a school counsellor. Counselling Research Projects: Tips for Students (starts at 1.50 mins) All practitioner-level counselling training courses include a research project as one of the final-year...
2021-02-06
47 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
166 – Is Online Therapy Effective?
Self-Concept and the Johari Window - Writing Counselling Notes In episode 166 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes kick off with the Student Check-in, talking about self-concept and how the Johari window can be used to promote personal development. 'The Digital Counselling Revolution' then focuses on the question 'Is online therapy effective' and the research evidence for its effectiveness. Then, in 'Practice Matters', the presenters provide tips on writing counselling notes. Self-Concept and the Johari Window (starts at 1.20 mins) We choose topics for this section from emails that we receive or from posts on our Facebook page...
2020-10-17
36 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
161 – Synchronous and Asynchronous Communication in Counselling
Managing Study Anxiety - Is Assessment Misunderstood? In episode 161 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes provide tips on how to manage the anxiety that you may naturally be feeling at the prospect of starting the new academic year. 'The Digital Counselling Revolution' then looks at synchronous and asynchronous communication in counselling - what these are and the various pros and cons of each. Last, in 'Practice Matters', the presenters discuss counselling assessment, with reference to a lecture in Counsellor CPD. Managing Study Anxiety (starts at 1.30 mins) Ken recalls his feelings of anxiety when beginning his counselling...
2020-09-12
39 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
115 – How to Grow as a Counsellor
Valuing Yourself as a Professional - Using Academic Breaks Productively In episode 115 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes look at the importance of valuing yourself as a professional. Then - in 'Practice Matters' - Rory explores how to grow as a counsellor. Last, the presenters discuss how you can use your academic breaks productively. Valuing Yourself as a Professional (starts at 1.47 mins) It is easy for students starting on placements to undervalue themselves and what they have to offer. Ken and Rory urge you to remember: You have earned your seat! You are the client's counsellor...
2019-06-01
25 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
108 – Personal Development as a Counsellor
Writing Letters to Other Professionals - Working with a Client's Emotional Age In episode 108 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes describe why it is important to link theory to your personal development as a counsellor, and how you can do so. In 'Practice Matters', Rory explains how to write letters to other professionals. Finally, the presenters discuss the challenges of working with a client's emotional - as opposed to chronological - age. Linking Theory to Personal Development as a Counsellor (starts at 1.44 mins) Why might you wish to link theory to your own personal development as...
2019-03-30
35 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
100 – Success in Counselling
Celebrations in the Counselling Room - Achieving 100 Client Hours Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes are very proud and excited to present the 100th episode of the Counselling Tutor Podcast! There have been over 600,000 downloads of the podcast since it began - that's about the population of Glasgow - with a total running time of over 20 years (day and night)! To mark this special episode, Ken and Rory focus on the theme of celebration, looking first at owning your success. In 'Practice Matters', Rory then explores his experience of celebrating clients' success in counselling. Finally, the presenters talk about reaching 100 client...
2019-01-26
31 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
093 – Personal Development Linked to Theory in Counselling
In episode 93 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes talk about what it means to be dyslexic as a counselling student. In 'Practice Matters', Rory talks about immediacy as a skill. Last, the presenters discuss personal development (PD) and its connection to theory. Dyslexia and Counselling Studies (starts at 1.48 mins) Both Rory and Ken are dyslexic - and proud to be so! With their personal experience of what this means for counselling students, they offer the following tips: Bear in mind that being dyslexic is in essence a form of neurodiversity - and, as we all know...
2018-11-10
27 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
023 – Lone Working – Stereotypes – Creating a Brochure – Referencing
In episode 23 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly discuss lone working. 'Theory with Rory' looks at stereotyping, and 'Person-Centred Business' explains how to create a brochure about your services. Finally, the presenters describe how to get the referencing right in your assignments. Lone Working If your counselling work involves you visiting clients in their homes, or seeing clients alone at your home, it is important to consider how best to ensure you stay safe. Rory and Ken give some top tips on this: Plan ahead for every eventuality. If working for an agency, make sure you...
2016-11-05
43 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
020 – Gifts from Clients – Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs – Following Up Enquiries – Counselling Placements
In episode 20 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly discuss the dilemma of gifts from clients. Rory then explains Maslow's hierarchy of needs, and Ken - in 'Person-Centred Business' - looks at what to do following a telephone or email enquiry from a client. Last, the presenters discuss counselling placements. Gifts from Counselling Clients When a client offers you a gift at their final session, this can be symbolic to the journey you have accompanied them on. Refusing the gift may be hurtful to them or prevent them from experiencing a satisfactory ending to counselling - but...
2016-10-08
47 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
017 – Returning to Study – Defence Mechanisms – Person-Centred Business – BACP Ethical Framework
In episode 17 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast – the first in season 2 – Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly talk about returning to study after the summer break. ‘Theory with Rory’ looks at defence mechanisms, while Ken introduces a new segment, ‘Person-Centred Business’, with ideas on using your counselling skills to earn money. Finally, the presenters turn to the new Ethical Framework for the Counselling Professions, published by the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP). Returning to Study Rory and Ken discuss the challenges and opportunities of returning to study after a break, offering various tips: Keep calm – you will be given time to settle...
2016-09-18
38 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
CTP 015 - Counselling young people - Scripts Injunctions and Drivers - Appropriate Referrals in Counselling and Progression
In this weeks episode of the Counselling Tutor Podcast Rory and ken cover the topic of counselling children and adolescents. Rory takes a look at the Transactional Analysis theory of Scripts, Drivers and Injunctions. Ken speaks about making appropriate referrals in counselling and we end with a debate on progression. Counselling young people is a specialism that requires additional training post graduation. Rory and Ken explore some of the challenges of working with children and adolescents and they share some resources that will be useful if you would like to learn more about the subject.
2016-05-29
56 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
CTP 014 - Assignments - 19 Propositions - Rapport Building Integrative Counselling
In this weeks episode of the Counselling Tutor Podcast Rory and Ken bring a valued packed episode number 14. This time of year many counselling courses are requiring assignments to evidence where learners are in their study. We look at assignment referrals and what learning we can take from this. Rory continues on from last week in his exploration of the Nineteen Propositions. Ken speaks about the importance that rapport building has in counselling and we close off by debating the difference between eclectic counselling and integrative therapeutic working. Assignment Time Many learners will b...
2016-05-21
48 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
013 – Third Person in the Room – 19 Propositions 1 – Simile and Metaphor – Personal Philosophy in Counselling
In episode 13 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly discuss the 'third person in the room'. 'Theory with Rory' introduces Carl Rogers' 19 propositions, and Ken looks at working with imagery. Last, Ken and Rory ask: what is your counselling philosophy? The Third Person in the Room When is it permissible to have a third person in the room? For example, a client might need an interpreter (when the counsellor and client do not share a language, including sign language). It is vital that clients have the support they need, but interpreters should be professional ones (not friends or r...
2016-05-14
44 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
CTP 013 - 3rd person in the room - 19 Propositions - Metaphor and Simile and Counselling Philosophy
n this weeks episode of the Counselling Tutor podcast Rory and Ken explore the effect of having interpreters or careers in the counselling relationship. Rory digs deep into Carl Rogers' 19 Propositions while Ken speaks about Metaphor and Simile in the therapeutic relationship. We end with a debate about your philosophy of counselling and how this affects your practice going forward. 3rd Person in the Room How would you work with a client who has an interpreter or carer who needs to be in the room? Having someone other than th...
2016-05-14
44 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
CTP 012 - Self actualisation - Ethical Problem Solving - Seven Stages Of Process Part 2 and the difference between Counselling and Psychotherapy
In the 1960's Abraham Maslow developed a theory called 'Self Actualisation. This was linked to his later theory we know as Maslow's Triangle or Maslow hierarchy of needs. Carl Rogers was influenced by Maslow's' theory and adopted self actualisation as a core principle in his Person Centered Approach to counselling. Ken and Rory debate the concept of self actualisation and they examine the different stages of Maslow's higher achy of needs. Professor Tim Bond is the major author of the new BACP Ethical Framework that will come into effect in the UK on the 1st...
2016-04-30
58 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
011 - Note Taking - Transactional Analysis - 7 Stages of Process in Practice and Supervision
Note Taking - Transactional Analysis - 7 Stages of Process in Practice and Supervision In this weeks episode of the Counselling Tutor Podcast Rory and Ken look at note taking for counsellors. Rory explores the ego states of Transactional Analysis. In Skills with Ken the seven stages of process are related to practice. Ken and Rory end the podcast speaking about how to best use supervision. Counsellor Note Taking Rory and Ken discuss note taking for counsellors and look at some interesting ways of keeping notes. Record are kept for 6 years then de...
2016-04-23
55 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
011 – Note-Taking – Transactional Analysis – Seven Stages of Process in Practice 1 – Supervision
In episode 11 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly look at note-taking for counsellors. 'Theory with Rory' explores the ego states of transactional analysis (TA), while 'Skills with Ken' relates the seven stages of process to practice. Our presenters end the podcast by speaking about how best to use supervision. Note-Taking for Counsellors Rory and Ken describe their own methods of formal note-taking, and explain the importance of these being purely factual, and not mentioning clients by name (for example, using code numbers). The new Ethical Framework for the Counselling Professions, published by the British Association for...
2016-04-23
55 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
010 - REBT - Endings in Counselling and Ethics vs Culture
In this episode of the Counselling tutor Podcast Rory takes a close look at Albert Ellis’ REBT, Ken talks about endings in counselling and in Ask Ken and Rory we debate ethics vests culture in counselling. Albert Ellis developed the behavioural therapy Rational Emotive Behavioural Therapy known as REBT. Rory gives some examples that explain how the ABC model of (A) activating event leads to (B) a faulty belief that results in (C) consequences. Rory gives us some real life examples of how the belief can be (D) disputed using (E) evidence. En...
2016-04-16
50 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
009 - Power in Counselling - Carl Rogers Biography - Skill of Challenge and Psychopathology vs Person Centred Therapy
In this weeks episode of the Counselling Tutor podcast Rory and Ken look at Power in the therapeutic relationship, Rory shares a biography of Carl Rogers, Ken looks at the skill of challenge and we end with a debate about Psychopathology and how it varies from the Person Centred Approach. This weeks question comes from Anne Walker who asks We are talking about power role in a therapeutic relationship. Who has the power how does it shift Etc. Just wondered your thoughts are. Power in Counselling Ken and R...
2016-04-09
52 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
009 – Power in Counselling – Carl Rogers’ Biography – Skill of Challenge – Psychopathology
In the ninth episode of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes talk about the role of power in the therapeutic relationship. Rory presents on the life of Carl Rogers, while Ken explains the skill of challenging. In 'Ask Ken and Rory', there is a debate about different models in psychopathology. Power in Counselling While in some modalities of therapy, counsellors may choose to portray themselves as experts, the person-centred approach advocates reducing the power imbalance between client and therapist. Making the power balance completely equal is impossible, simply because the client comes to us in distress, wanting o...
2016-04-09
52 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
008 - Real World Counselling Skills - Carl Rogers' Hidden Conditions - Immediacy and Therapeutic Process
In this weeks episode of the Counselling Tutor Podcast Rory and Ken look at the difference between simulated skills practice and using counselling skills with clients in the real world. Rory looks at the theory of the hidden conditions of Carl Rogers and Ken explores the counselling skill immediacy. The podcast ends with a discussion on what therapeutic process is and how you can identify when it is taking place. We received a question asking “Does anybody else find skills practice completely different to working with real clients?” Rory and Ken debate the differences between simu...
2016-04-02
39 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
007 - Phenomenology - Therapeutic Pace - Skill of Questioning and BACP Accredited courses
In this weeks episode of the Counselling Tutor Podcast Ken and Rory look at Phenomenology - Therapeutic Pace - Skill of Questioning and BACP Accredited courses for those who wish to study counselling. A question that came in through our Counselling Tutor Facebook Group asked “I have noticed that I find it challenging to balance client needs when they come in and want results fast, effectively putting pressure on me as a clinician to perform quickly and efficiently.” Isiah Palm. Rory and Ken discuss the pace of therapy and how separate a clients expe...
2016-03-19
41 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
007 – Therapeutic Pace – Phenomenology – Skill of Questioning – BACP-Accredited Courses
In this seventh episode of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes discuss how to manage client expectations about therapeutic pace, and your reaction to these. Rory looks at the theory of phenomenology, while 'Skills with Ken' examines questioning. Finally, the presenters explain about course accreditation by the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP). Managing Clients' Expectations How do we deal with the challenge of some clients' desire for fast results? Rory and Ken discuss the pace of therapy, and the importance of patience in counselling. John Shlien, one of Carl Rogers' students, used to visit a f...
2016-03-19
41 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
006 – Counselling assignment tips – Conditions of Worth – Focusing and Measuring self development
In this weeks episode of the Counselling Tutor podcast Rory and Ken give some counselling assignment tips. In Theory with Rory you will learn about Conditions of Worth and in Counselling Skills with Ken we explore the skill of focusing. The episode ends with a look at ways we can measure our own self development as a student counsellor during our training. Counselling Assignment Tips Rory has been lecturing and training counsellors for over an decade and in that time he has seen what the most common mistakes are that cause assignments to be referred.
2016-03-12
41 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
005 PD Group, Critique of Carl Rogers, Idiosyncratic Empathy and Counselling Placements
This episode of the Counselling Tutor podcast kicks off with Ken and Rory exploring the roll of the Personal Develop Group. Rory presents a critique of Carl Rogers and Ken delves into idiosyncratic empathy. The episode ends with a debate about what student counsellors should be mindful of what looking for a counselling placement. A big part of studying counselling is self growth and the “personal development group” (PD) or “process group” acts as a respectful and safe place to explore self. Carl Rogers called the PD group an Encounter Group and towards the end of his c...
2016-03-04
59 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
005 – PD Groups – Critiques of Carl Rogers – Idiosyncratic Empathy – Counselling Placements
In the fifth episode of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes discuss personal-development (PD) groups. 'Theory with Rory' looks at critiques of Carl Rogers, and 'Skills with Ken' at idiosyncratic empathy. Finally, in 'Ask Ken and Rory', the presenters offer tips on choosing a counselling placement. PD Groups A big part of studying counselling is self-growth; the PD group (also known as a 'process' group) acts as a respectful and safe place to explore self. Carl Rogers called the PD group an 'encounter' group; in his later career, he facilitated many such groups throughout the world, especially i...
2016-03-04
59 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
004 - Equality and diversity - configurations of self - opening a session - CPD
In this weeks episode of the Counselling Tutor Podcast Ken and Rory take a look at equality and diversity and how this effects the counselling relationship. In Counselling Theory with Rory, configurations of self is explored and in Counselling Skills with Ken, Ken looks at the opening and closing of the counselling session. Equality and diversity is defined Nonmaleficence (do no harm) is an ethical requirement of the BACP, communicating with clients in a multicultural society is vital in upholding this principle “The practitioner has an ethical re...
2016-02-27
57 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
003 – Counselling ‘Volume’ – Transference & Countertransference – Paraphrasing – UPR
In this third episode of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes explore how to turn down our counselling 'volume'. 'Theory with Rory' looks at transference and countertransference; and in the skills section, Ken examines paraphrasing. In a new slot, 'Ask Ken and Rory', the presenters look at the challenge of showing unconditional positive regard (UPR). Turning Down Our Counselling 'Volume' Following a question in the Facebook group about how not to be drawn into counselling family and friends, Rory and Ken use a range of personal experiences and anecdotes to illustrate how they 'turn down the volume' on...
2016-02-19
47 min
Counselling Tutor podcast
Contracting - The Core Conditions and the Skill of Silence
Counselling Tutor Podcast about contracting in counselling, the skill of silence and theory talk about the core conditions of Carl Rogers. In this the first podcast episode of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken and Rory speak about contracting as a counsellor. The theory section looks at the Core Conditions of Carl Rogers and in the skills section of the podcast Ken introduces the skill of silence. The counselling contract As counsellors we are expected to contract with our clients before therapy begins. The British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) recognises contracting in the...
2016-02-01
53 min