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Sex Ed with TimS4: E32 - Come and Get Some with Michelle FischlerJoin me and Michelle Fischler, host of the GETSOME podcast, as we talk about our sex lives, the sex lives of our clients, and the importance of having a somewhat decent orgasm face.How to support Michelle:TherapyEducation______________________________________________________________________________Use code SEXEDWITHTIM for awesome discounts!15% all regular-priced items off when you shop at Love Shop25% off your entire purchase at dalekuda, b-Vibe, and le WandCode TIM45LUST at erikalust.com for 45% off your subscriptionFriends of the pod:2024-12-131h 12
The Divorcing Religion PodcastMichelle Fischler - Sex EducatorMichelle Fischler, a trailblazer in the realm of sex therapy, is renowned for her innovative approach to fostering sexual wellness and education. As a Registered Social Worker/Psychotherapist and ASTO Certified Sex Therapist, she seamlessly blends her expertise with her role as a dynamic therapist, interviewer, and speaker. A highlight of her work is her biweekly podcast, GETSOME.Through her virtual sex therapy practice and the creation of the Unlearning Sexual Shame sex education module, Michelle provides a platform that encourages transformative conversations about sex, sexuality, gender, and pleasure. Her aim is to dispel the shadows of...2024-08-211h 02
GETSOMEThe Professional With a Kinky SideLITTLE MISS BEE IS LIVING A DOUBLE LIFE.By day, she’s a high-powered working professional proudly shattering glass ceilings and climbing the corporate ladder. But off the clock, she’s a kink-positive, active member of the rope bondage community. In the final episode of the 3rd season of the GETSOME Podcast, we discuss personal authority, self-acceptance, and keeping it kinky. Our guest, Little Miss Bee, manages to keep her professional and personal worlds completely separate without losing touch with either side of herself. Ultimately, her openness and experiences give us the space to reflect on ou...2024-05-2234 min
GETSOMEThe Perks of Being a Bi GuyImagine being stuck in the “in betweens” of your sexuality.You’re not “gay enough,” but you’re not “straight enough.” Your sexuality is constantly oversimplified, or oversexualized. You’re stuck wondering… “Am I bisexual enough???”Though that may not be the reality for all bisexual men, it certainly is a struggle that a lot of people face. Our guest on today’s episode, West, is a bisexual man who learned to embrace his sexuality and accept that he is “enough” exactly as he is. In his young adulthood, West thought his bisexuality might just be youthful curiosit...2024-05-0822 min
11 WINS PODCASTSex w Michelle - Ep.181 - Disciplined Stoners PodcastCertified Sex Therapist Michelle Fischler joins us for a fresh take on intimate relations with self and others.
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GETSOMEThe Boy in the Tighty WhitiesChances are, if you have a unique sexual turn-on, there are many others with the exact same inclination. So many, in fact, that you might just be able to make a career out of it. That's what Milo Miles did. We met Milo last winter at the Dan Savage Amateur Erotic Film Festival, Humpfest. Milo starred in the documentary film "The Boy with the Tighty Whities." The film was selected from hundreds of submissions and was chosen to be showcased in theaters worldwide. This was the first time he revealed a more intimate side of himself and his kink...2023-09-0734 min
GETSOMESex With Sue Legacy [Quickie]Where were you when you heard that Sue Johanson had died? Did you text someone with the news, or did someone text you? Today's episode is about grief. Host Michelle Fischler, who has openly credited her career as a certified sex therapist to sex educator Sue Johanson, recounts the moment she found out about Sue's passing through a text from her 15-year-old son. Michelle has never met Sue and never will, but the loss of Sue Johanson will leave a lasting impact on Canadians.Show Notes[00:00:00] IntroductionGETSOME host Certified Sex Therapist Michelle Fischler...2023-07-0605 min
GETSOMEShe's Hungry For Sex [Quickie]We've heard countless tales of sex-starved married men, but have you ever wondered about the untold stories of sex-starved married women? We're delving into the unique challenges faced by women in this predicament.Show Notes00:00 She wants more sex than him and he thinks something is wrong with her00:57 Painful to hear her friends talk about always being pursued for sex by their husbands01:46 She feels undesirable and feels a lot of shame02:19 Reasons he may not be wanting to have sex with her03:18 If you are...2023-07-0505 min
Sex in Space#24 - GET SOME with Michelle Fischler / All things sex in spaceWe're excited to share a recording of our team—Jane, Toshi, and Tim—chatting with the incredible Michelle Fischler for her podcast, GETSOME. Michelle is a certified Sex Therapist who fearlessly and insatiably explores human sexuality, inspiring transformative conversations across cultures, belief systems, and lifestyles. We discussed everything from Kangaroo Vaginas to literal sex in space. A huge thanks to Michelle for inviting us and allowing us to share this recording. Let's get started! Make sure to check out GETSOME with Michelle Fischler on all major podcast platforms. For more information about Michelle, visit michellefischler.ca.2023-07-0422 min
11 WINS PODCASTGet Some w Michelle Fischler - Ep.146 - Disciplined Stoners PodcastThank you so much for watching/listening to our podcast. We are here to learn and offer valuable information about the cannabis and wellness space! Please like this video and subscribe for weekly podcasts, meditations, and affirmations.
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GETSOMEOffline Matchmaking [Quickie]Does the thought of online dating stress you out? Are you looking for a more traditional dating approach? Do in-person matchmaking evenings still exist? If they don't, they should. Michelle recalls a brief yet hilarious encounter from her younger days when she was asked to fill in as the missing woman in an unevenly numbered matchmaking event. The evening was not only intriguing but also eye-opening. So, who's up for the challenge? Let the matchmaking games begin!Show Notes[00:00:00] In person matching making events for those that are dating app adverse[00:00:46] The matchmaker...2023-06-2104 min
GETSOMESex, Drugs and MasculinityHave you ever found yourself curious about the unique experiences of being gay in today's world? Join us as we dive into the vibrant, nuanced realm of gay dating, sex, drugs, and masculinity with board-certified sexology educator and host of the Sex Ed With Tim Podcast, Tim Lagman. Known for his unapologetic authenticity as a 'chaotic homo', Tim is dedicated to advocating for LGBT sexual health, pleasure, and social activism. With his charismatic humor and enlightening insights, he'll guide us on an entertaining, laughter-filled journey through the intricacies of gay love and relationships. Get ready to step into a...2023-06-1536 min
GETSOMEErectile DisappointmentShow notes:00:07 90% of people with a penis who are between 35 and 55 have struggled to get an erection firm enough for intercourse03:17 What is Erectile Self Efficacy?03:40 Autonomous sexual erections aren’t realistic04:42 The alternative to panicking and apologizing04:52 The "Good Enough Sex" Model05:26 It's almost always the man's choice to stop having sex07:32 Where did we go wrong in having guys believe that sex is always supposed to be this one way?07:53 Men have been lied to about their sexuality08:21 Responsive ma...2023-06-0126 min
GETSOMEGETSOME's Birthday [Quickie]Who's leveling up in the game of life? Raise a toast and light some virtual candles because GETSOME turns one today! Listen to the three knowledge bombs dropped over the past year that expanded our minds like cosmic jelly beans.
2023-05-2605 min
Being BiMichelle Fischler and The Best "Lube" EverEpisode 19 finds our host Jeff Woods digging into conversation with the well educated, mindful, compassionate, sex positive Michelle Fischler -- host of The Getsome podcast – exposing society's fuckery when it comes to sex. She's been working in the mental health field since 2003, with her own practice as a therapist since 2013. Michelle is a registered social worker, a registered Psychotherapist, and a Certified Sex Therapist, and jumps into the deep end with Jeff, on where sex lands in the hierarchy of their lives, and into thoughts around online dating, and they share in their love for Sex with Sue (Sue Jo...2023-04-141h 10
GETSOMELost in Translation: A Valentine’s Journey Through a Strange New WorldCurious about how Valentine's Day came to be?
GETSOME delves into the various legends surrounding the origins of Valentine's Day and some of the unique traditions that vary from culture to culture including some of the places in the world where celebrating can be downright dangerous.
Despite the variations in how the holiday is celebrated, the central themes of love, affection, and appreciation remain consistent. So, no matter how you choose to celebrate, the essence of the day remains the same, to show love and appreciation to those who matter the most.
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GETSOMEConfessions #1Confession #1: Married, bi-identified cis man in an open relationship with a cis woman is struggling to find romantic relationships on dating apps. He’s either fetishized as the “straight guy’ on gay dating apps or met with suspicion by women on heterosexual dating apps.
Confession #2: "I orgasm faster with a “full” vagina."
Confession #3: "My boyfriend wants me to pretend I’m a pig and oink during sex."
Show Notes:
0:53 Men only want to hookup and women think I’m gay
2:56 Dating apps for bi identified men in open relationships?
5:34 Fill...2023-01-2610 min
GETSOMESensate Focused TherapyIf you are having sex you should know about Sensate Focused Therapy, a widely used technique amongst sex therapists. This form of therapy helps support clients in getting out of their head and into their bodies when giving or receiving touch. It can be useful for a range of different relationships like those with a history of pelvic pain, people with penises experiencing anxiety around getting an erection, relationships where a desire discrepancy has been present and more. Not in a relationship, not a problem, sensate is versatile.
Today’s guest, Linda Weiner, a licensed cli...2023-01-1246 min
GETSOMESelling Sex at a Cost
Various organizations across Canada are advocating for the decriminalization of sex work. This includes the Canadian Association of Social Workers, who’s code of ethics seeks to balance the protection of individuals and the principle of doing no harm with autonomy and self-determination. The advocacy only applies to the selling of sex between two consenting adults.
Today’s guests, Elizabeth Weisz and Katherine Van Meyl, are supporters of the decriminalization of sex work. Elizabeth Weisz is a companion and sex worker who has been in the industry for almost seven years. Katherine Van Meyl i...2022-12-291h 07
GETSOMEWOMEN in IranA revolutionary anti-government protest in Iran was sparked on Sept 16th, 2022, after 22-year-old Iranian woman Mahsa Amini was picked up and detained by Iran’s "morality police" for showing too much hair. About three months have passed, and innocent lives have been lost yet the people of Iran continue to hold their ground and fight back. For women, for life, for freedom. We invited our guest “Iran”, who asked to be anonymous for safety reasons, back in November to reflect on Iran’s political regime and how growing up queer in the Islamic republic, where a woman’s value is worth ha...2022-12-151h 10
GETSOMEWOMEN in IranA revolutionary anti-government protest in Iran was sparked on Sept 16th, 2022, after 22-year-old Iranian woman Mahsa Amini was picked up and detained by Iran’s "morality police" for showing too much hair. About three months have passed, and innocent lives have been lost yet the people of Iran continue to hold their ground and fight back. For women, for life, for freedom. We invited our guest “Iran”, who asked to be anonymous for safety reasons, back in November to reflect on Iran’s political regime and how growing up queer in the Islamic republic, where a woman’s value is worth ha...2022-12-151h 10
GETSOMESex Education Does Pop CultureWhen a film uses entertaining storylines and humour to shine a light on sexual culture and sex education, what do you get?
An awarding-winning show produced by Netflix called Sex Education portraying a shame-free, comedic approach to all things sex. Questioning gender and sexuality, heartbreak, fake orgasms, early ejaculation, sexual assault, interracial relationships, sex education at school, and sex therapy......the story unfolds through the lives of a bunch of sharp-witted teenagers navigating life in high school.
But, today’s episode is not only about the show. Certified Sex Therapist Michelle Fischl...2022-12-0145 minGETSOMESex Therapy is Something RealGET SOME is a team, hosted by Michelle Fischler and produced by Yuetong Liu.
Growing up in different cultures, their experience based on sex was extremely different. How did they meet? How did their teenage view of sex differ growing up in the East versus the West? Sexual cultural shock? How did Michelle become a sex therapist? What kind of questions do people ask Yuetong when they find out she’s working with a sex therapist? Would a sex therapist ever need sex therapy?
Chatting about all these questions received from friends, both Mich...2022-11-1750 min
GETSOMEPelvic Floor PhysiotherapyHas anyone ever told you that your sexual concerns are all in your head? Well, that’s not always the case. There is another treatment option worth exploring. Pelvic Floor Physiotherapy can help treat sexual and pelvic concerns such as painful intercourse or penetration, early or delayed ejaculation, and can also support the recovery from gender affirmation surgery. Excited to learn more? We invited Michiko Caringal to GET SOME to discuss pelvic pain for penises and vulvas from a physiotherapy and sex therapy perspective.
Time to take a deep breath and Get Happy Down There!
Sho...2022-11-0355 min
GETSOMEDude, Feeling Feminized is EroticCan I find wearing feminine clothing arousing, and also be straight?
Yes, Why not? This time, we invited Certified Sex Therapist Rob Peach MSW, RSW to join us in talking about conventional and often toxic attitudes towards male sexuality that can leave heterosexually identified men feeling confused, conflicted, and often misunderstood.
Show Notes:
02’08 Sometimes, heterosexual men feel confused
03’32 Attracted to women and their female themed clothing
05’20 Feeling feminine is erotic
06’35 Just through their own eyes, it’s about their own femininity
09’21 Am I normal? Penis...2022-10-2034 min
GETSOMEMore Than A Sex ClubSexual liberation is not a fresh concept these days.
But, when we mention a sex club, what comes to mind for you? A space that allows curiosity to unfold surrounded by like-minded people? This time we invited Fatima Mechtab (a.k.a. ‘Miss F’) to introduce us to the sex club, Oasis Aqualounge – a water themed, adult private membership spa and lounge in downtown Toronto.
Shownotes:
01’47 Oasis Aqualounge is a water-themed sex club
05’20 Full-swap, soft-swap, single and multiple
12’05 Wow she is so confident, so beautiful
15’35 It’s all...2022-10-0652 min
GETSOMEMenopause and Pelvic PainDid you know that the average person will spend a third of their life in the menopause transition?
We invite Certified Sex Therapist Nicole Schroeder this time to talk about ways to get comfortable with this stage of our life; How Generation X is pushing forward the conversation about menopause more than any other generation and, where to go for help when you are struggling with symptoms of perimenopause?
Show notes:
00:35 Our Guest Nicole Schroeder – Introduction
02:10 Everyone that has ovaries will go through menopause
06:40 How do you kno...2022-09-2359 min
GETSOMESensuality of Burundian Woman
Fatima Kamenge (She/Her), an Auntie, Human, and Joybonbon, is the founder of Social Ausum, a consulting firm based in Toronto, Canada that helps business owners build more socially responsible enterprises. What does this business consultant do in their spare time you ask? A sensuality workshop of course! Fatima is a true entrepreneur
In this episode we talk about:
Burundian Culture and Sex
How Sex and Spirituality are always intertwined
Sex and Community
Sex and Belonging
Sex with Self and the Sacred Orgasm
...2022-09-0547 min
GETSOMEConfession Booth Episode. Questioning, Erectile Challenges, and a Date at the Sex Club.
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A woman in a heterosexual relationship who's developing romantic feelings for another woman at work.
A newly single man struggling with getting erections with new lovers.
A steamy confession from a Toronto woman who stumbled into a sex club on a first date.
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GETSOMEMexico's Sex PoliticsThe politics of sex in Mexico contradict its modern metropolis. I speak with Sexologist, Dr. Selfa González Gomar Montesano and Sex Therapist Dr. Maria de Lourdes Martínez Staines about how traditional religious and patriarchal belief systems in Mexico continue to reinforce the prevalence of gender based violence, incest, abortion access, and LGBTQ hate crimes.Dr. Selfa González Gomar Montesano earned her Psychology Degree from Iberoamericana University in 2001. She completed her training in Gestalt Psychotherapy in 2006 and went on to complete her training in Bioenergetic Body Work in Buenos Aires Argentina. Selfa earned a Mas...2022-08-0832 min
GETSOMEThe Politics of Sex in MexicoThe politics of sex in Mexico contradict its modern metropolis. I speak with Sexologist, Dr. Selfa González Gomar Montesano and Sex Therapist Dr. Maria de Lourdes Martínez Staines about how traditional religious and patriarchal belief systems in Mexico continue to reinforce the prevalence of gender based violence, incest, abortion access, and LGBTQ hate crimes.
Dr. Selfa González Gomar Montesano earned her Psychology Degree from Iberoamericana University in 2001. She completed her training in Gestalt Psychotherapy in 2006 and went on to complete her training in Bioenergetic Body Work in Buenos Aires Argentina. Selfa earned a Ma...2022-08-0832 min
GETSOMESexual Surrogacy in Israel
Surrogate Partner Therapy (SPT), also sometimes referred to as sexual surrogacy, was first introduced by sex researchers, Masters and Johnson. They introduced the concept of sexual surrogacy to support un-partnered individuals to work towards sexual goals with another person in a controlled and supportive environment.
A Certified Sex Therapist trained in SPT has the ability to refer a client to a partner surrogate when the sexual goals of the talk therapy have been met and the client wants to test out the new skills with another person to build sexual confidence in a structured and supportive...2022-07-2447 min
GETSOMEDating After Apartheid
Do you ever wonder about how the intergenerational consequences of Apartheid continue to influence South Africa's dating scene? I speak with Rahim Thawer, currently living between Johannesburg and Cape Town as a visiting international scholar about how dating and socializing continue to be impacted by racial divisions that have yet to be dismantled.
Rahim is South Asian (Indian), Muslim, and Queer, practicing as a social worker / psychotherapist, writer, and public speaker in Toronto, Canada. Rahim speaks and writes on topics such as systemic oppression and mental health, LGBTQ Muslim mental health, shame, sexuality and homophobia. ...2022-07-1236 min
GETSOMEA fun conversation about Infidelity and Porn with Canadian Certified Sex Therapist Lisa PelletierLisa Pelletier is an extraordinary woman. A Certified Sex Therapist, Registered Marital and Family Therapist and bubble machine connoisseur. LIsa welcomed me into her home in Collingwood Ontario for a weekend of bubbles, giggles and a card game called The School of Life. We pulled the hot topic cards on Infidelity and porn.
Also, the confession booth has a disclosure. Hear what I have to say about desire discrepancy and ethical non-monogamy.
Resources and Links:
Lisa Pelletier's Website: https://heartflame.ca/lisa-pelletier-msc-rp-rmft/
Books:
Desire Discrepancy:
McC...2022-06-2721 min
GETSOMETime To Change Your StoryShow Notes00:26 What is a sexual narrative?01:02 Sexual facts Vs interpretations01:44 Adding flexibility to your sexual narrative02:24 Sex therapy topics that come up in my practice02:38 Fear of sex02:48 Arranged marriages03:13 Open relationships03:23 Low sex relationships03:26 Affair recovery 03:53 Sex addiction04:37 Gender Journey04:41 Sex therapy clients and their personalities05:25 Talking about sex can bring relief05:52 Sex gets easier to talk about the more you talk about it.06:21 Fertility treatments and s...2022-06-1320 min