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Recalibrate with MiltonHOLINESS VS. HAPPINESS: The Truth About Marriage No One Tells YouMarriage isn’t just about finding the right person—it’s about becoming the right person. In this episode, we dive deep into the true purpose of marriage, breaking the cultural myth that it’s all about happiness. Instead, we explore how marriage is a refining process designed to make us more like Christ.
🔹 The World’s View vs. God’s Design for Marriage
🔹 Why 75% of people unconsciously marry a partner who mirrors their worst parent
🔹 The hidden reason marriage triggers deep emotional wounds—and how God can heal them
🔹 The Four Predictors of Divorce & How to Guard Aga...2025-02-1245 minRecalibrate with MiltonCAMBIA TU HISTORIA: Libérate de Viejos Patrones y Renueva tu MenteEn este poderoso mensaje, exploramos el camino hacia la renovación de nuestra mente y la liberación de creencias limitantes, patrones heredados y fortalezas invisibles. Basado en principios de psicología y escritura, este episodio examina cómo nuestra vida de pensamientos da forma a nuestra realidad y cómo podemos aprovechar el poder de la mente para lograr una verdadera transformación espiritual. Descubre pasos prácticos para romper barreras ocultas, deshacerte de viejos patrones y alinearte con el propósito de Dios. Si estás listo para desafiar tus antiguos pensamientos y comenzar un “desintoxicación mental” y es...2024-11-1244 minRecalibrate with MiltonFLIP THE NARRATIVE: Break Free from Old Patterns and Renew Your MindIn this powerful message, we dive into the journey of renewing our minds and breaking free from limiting beliefs, inherited patterns, and unseen strongholds. Based on principles from psychology and scripture, this episode explores how our thought life shapes our reality and how we can harness the mind’s power for true spiritual transformation. Learn practical steps for breaking free, uncovering hidden strongholds, and aligning with God’s purpose. If you’re ready to challenge old patterns and step into a renewed way of thinking, this episode will encourage and equip you to begin your own mental and spiritual “detox.”2024-11-1244 minRecalibrate with MiltonTHINKING FOR A CHANGE - Healing for your whole body
In this episode of "Thinking for a Change," recorded live at TFC McAllen on July 24, we delve deeply into the transformative power of neuroplasticity and the timeless wisdom found in Psalm 23. We explore how our thoughts shape our reality and the vital importance of aligning them with God's Word to achieve true healing and transformation. By examining Psalm 23, we uncover profound insights into God's role as our Shepherd, providing guidance, peace, and restoration in every season of life.
We start by understanding the impact of our thoughts and the concept of synaptic plasticity, which is the brain's...2024-07-2549 minRecalibrate with MiltonCONTRACORRIENTE: Navegando la Fe en la Cultura SecularEn el episodio de hoy de nuestro podcast, exploramos cómo nos relacionamos con la cultura y nuestro papel como creyentes en ella. Discutimos la creencia común de que para influir en la cultura, debemos parecernos a ella, sumergiéndonos en su lenguaje, música y estilos. Esta idea es especialmente popular entre los jóvenes que consideran que, para tener un impacto significativo, necesitan ganar aceptación en los sectores más influyentes de la sociedad. Sin embargo, reflexionamos sobre el desafío de interactuar con la cultura de manera consciente y deliberada, asegurándonos de que nuestra f...2024-06-1249 minRecalibrate with MiltonCULTURAL OUTLIERS: Engaging Faith in a Transformative WayWelcome to today’s episode, where we dive deep into the crucial challenge of engaging with our culture thoughtfully and intentionally. How can we ensure that our faith influences the culture rather than allowing the culture to dilute our faith? This question lies at the heart of our discussion.
There's a prevalent belief, especially among younger generations, that to impact and transform culture significantly, we must fully assimilate into it, gaining acceptance and recognition in the most influential sectors of society. Some even argue that while embedded in the culture, we should avoid being overtly Christian to pr...2024-06-0446 minRecalibrate with MiltonMINDFUL RENEWAL: Embracing Faith and TransformationIn today's enlightening episode, we delve into the transformative power of the mind and the spiritual journey toward fulfillment. We explore the profound message of Romans 12:2, which urges us not to conform to this world but to be transformed by renewing our minds. This scripture serves as a cornerstone for our discussion, illuminating the path to discerning God's will.
We'll also dive into the intriguing world of neuroplasticity and how it relates to our spiritual practices. You'll discover how journaling, a simple yet powerful tool, activates the basal ganglia and the motor cortex, integrating our brain's emotional...2024-01-0549 minRecalibrate with MiltonTransformación y Renovación: MENTE, CUERPO, Y ESPIRITUEn el episodio de hoy, exploramos el poder transformador de la mente y el viaje espiritual hacia la realización, basándonos en el último sermón que prediqué este año en The Family Church en McAllen, Texas. Profundizamos en el mensaje de Romanos 12:2, que nos insta a no conformarnos con este mundo, sino a transformarnos mediante la renovación de nuestra mente. Esta escritura es la piedra angular de nuestra discusión, iluminando el camino para discernir la voluntad de Dios.
Además, nos adentramos en el fascinante mundo de la neuroplasticidad y su relación con nues...2024-01-0553 minRecalibrate with MiltonP23 | Medicine For Your Soul
Welcome to a transformative episode of "P23: Medicine for the Soul," where we journey through the restorative and comforting verses of Psalm 23. Just as medicine heals the body, Psalm 23 serves as a remedy for the soul's anxieties and uncertainties. Join us as we dive into this timeless scripture that brings solace, hope, and guidance in every season of life.
In "P23: Medicine for the Soul," we explore how this beloved psalm acts as a soothing balm for the challenges we face. We'll uncover the hidden gems within each verse, shedding light on the profound promises and imagery...2023-08-2358 minRecalibrate with MiltonUNTETHERED: Embracing Forgiveness for True FreedomIn this empowering episode on Forgiveness", we embark on a profound exploration of the liberating power of forgiveness from a biblical worldview. Throughout this transformative journey, we delve deep into the extraordinary benefits that forgiveness bestows upon our mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual dimensions, urging us to make the conscious choice of embracing forgiveness.
Within this episode, we unveil five life-changing revelations that grace our lives when we choose the path of forgiveness:
• Mental Liberation: Forgiveness liberates our minds from the heavy burden of resentment, granting us clarity and peace within.
• Emotional Healing: The...2023-08-0645 minRecalibrate with MiltonFATHERS: Building Strong Foundations for Godly LegaciesIn this impactful Father's Day sermon titled "Sharpening Arrows: A Father's Call to Equip His Children for God's Kingdom," the speaker emphasizes the vital role of fathers in raising their children to follow God's path. The sermon begins with personal anecdotes, highlighting fathers' profound influence on their children's lives.
Gratitude and thankfulness are emphasized as essential attributes for believers, reminding fathers to approach their role with a thankful heart and recognize the blessings their children are. The message urges fathers to prioritize their children's salvation above all else, seeking God's guidance and interceding on their behalf.
2023-06-2149 minRecalibrate with MiltonTHE GREAT EXCHANGE |Letting go and letting GOD take overThis episode delves into the importance of forgiveness and the consequences of holding onto grudges and resentment. In this episode, we explore the power of forgiveness, drawing inspiration from the ultimate act of forgiveness demonstrated by Jesus Christ on the cross at Golgotha.
Through the lens of Christ's example, we examine the spiritual, emotional, and physical impacts of refusing to forgive those who have offended us. We'll explore the harm that grudges and resentment can cause to our mental and physical well-being and the damage they can inflict on our relationships.
Join us as we...2023-04-1848 minRecalibrate with MiltonFROM DOUBT TO BELIEF | Clavius and the Resurrection of Christ
In this episode, we hear the story of Clavius, a Roman centurion who was present at the crucifixion of Jesus Christ. Through Clavius' eyes, we witness the harrowing events of the crucifixion, including the mocking, the scourging, and the eventual death of Jesus.
As the episode progresses, we learn more about Clavius himself - his background, his beliefs, and his inner struggle as he witnesses the events of that fateful day. Despite being a soldier of Rome, Clavius begins to question his own loyalties and beliefs in the face of the powerful and inexplicable events he witnesses.2023-04-0818 minRecalibrate with MiltonDOCTORS GIVE THE DIAGNOSIS BUT GOD GIVES THE PROGNOSIS -my storyOne of the most powerful examples of enduring the process in order to receive the blessing can be found in the biblical story of Job. Despite being a righteous man, Job faced numerous trials and tribulations, including the loss of his wealth, his children, and his health. But even in the midst of his suffering, Job held fast to his faith in God, refusing to curse Him despite the urging of his friends.
In Job 42:10, we see how God ultimately turned what the enemy meant for evil into good for Job. It reads, "And the Lord restored...2023-02-2143 minRecalibrate with Milton8 DECADAS - tributo en vida a mi padreEste episodio fue grabado el 18 de Diciembre del 2022 en el cumpleaños # 80 de mi padre. Es un tributo lleno de sabiduria y testimonios de la misericordia de Dios.
2022-12-1945 minRecalibrate with MiltonFROM THE GOLDEN GATE BRIDGE TO MOUNT CARMEL - overcoming fear with faithProv 29:18
“Where there is no vision the people perish, but he that keeps that law happy is he”
My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge (Hosea 4:6)
Vision is a powerful God-given gift that many have forsaken.
Sight is of the eyes but vision is of the heart. (Helen Keller - the only thing worse than being blind is having sight yet no vision)
Vision is not a “name it and claim type thing- vision goes hand in hand with God’s promise for you and your family.
People of great faith are able to envisi...2022-11-0752 minRecalibrate with MiltonJESUS TAKE THE WHEEL -tearjerker testimonyThe Darren Harrison testimony. Amazing! Listen to His voice.
2022-10-1909 minRecalibrate with MiltonLA GENERACION Z -una guerra de filosofias e ideologiasLa generación Z, también conocida como Zillennials, comprende a aquellos nacidos en los últimos años de los 90's e inicio de los 2000 (1995-2000) aunque aún no se encuentre bien definido. Aunque pareciera ser similar a los millennials la verdad es que tienen rasgos muy definidos.
La Generación Z es la de los nativos digitales, sus integrantes nacieron con un móvil y una tablet bajo el brazo. Ven en el uso de la tecnología una virtud y el entorno digital como un contexto de la comunicación, entienden la tecnología de una forma...2022-10-061h 36Recalibrate with MiltonABUSED, NEGLECTED, AND SICK - The adverse childhood experience journeyAdverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) are potentially traumatic events that occur in childhood.
ACEs are linked to chronic health problems, mental illness, and substance misuse in adulthood. However, ACEs can be prevented. Preventing ACEs can help children and adults thrive and potentially: Lower risk for conditions like depression, asthma, cancer, and diabetes in adulthood.
The 10 ACEs of Trauma
Physical abuse.
Sexual abuse.
Emotional abuse.
Physical neglect.
Emotional neglect.
Mental illness.
Divorce.
Substance abuse.
2022-10-0345 minRecalibrate with MiltonNAME SWAP - the culture’s pursuit to confuse our youth’s identityI use God’s mighty weapons, not those made by men, to knock down the devil’s strongholds. 5 These weapons can break down every proud argument against God and every wall that can be built to keep men from finding him. With these weapons, I can capture rebels and bring them back to God and change them into men whose hearts’ desire is obedience to Christ. 6 I will use these weapons against every rebel who remains after I have first used them on you yourselves and you surrender to Christ - 2 Cor 10:4-6
2022-09-0842 minRecalibrate with MiltonDEEP BREATHING RELAXATION - 13 minute stress relief with binaural beats1. Find a comfortable place and position.
2. Wear headphones.
3. Don't listen to this audio while driving or performing an activity that requires focus and attention.
4. Breathe.
2022-09-0715 minRecalibrate with MiltonLA PSICOLOGIA DEL PERDON - el poder del corazon humilde¿Quién no ha sido herido por las acciones o las palabras de otra persona? Tal vez uno de tus padres te criticó constantemente cuando crecías, un colega saboteó uno de tus proyectos, o tu pareja te engañó. O quizás tuviste una experiencia traumática, como abuso físico o emocional a manos de una persona en quien confiabas.
Estas heridas pueden dejarte con sentimientos duraderos de enojo y amargura — y hasta deseos de venganza.
Pero si no aprendes a perdonar, quizás seas tú quien pague el precio más alto. Al aceptar el perd...2022-08-2558 minRecalibrate with MiltonTHE PSYCHOLOGY OF LETTING GO - the power of a forgiving heartUnforgiveness is the act of not letting go of an offense. Holding on to hurt. Holding on to a grievance. Holding a grudge in an effort to punish the offender but at the end the only person that suffers the most is the individual that is unwilling to forgive.
To be a Christian means to forgive the inexcusable, because God has forgiven the inexcusable in you.- C.S. Lewis
Forgiveness is an act of the will and not something that is birthed out of our emotions.
Unforgiveness is
Rooted in PRIDE
It...2022-08-1846 minRecalibrate with MiltonINVITADO ESPECIAL - mi mentor, maestro e influencia en mi vida...MI PADRERelatos, historias, refranes, y gemas de sabiduria compartidas por mi papa.
2022-07-141h 32Recalibrate with MiltonTHE EMASCULATED FATHER - a sign of the timesThe power of a dad in a child’s life is unmatched, unprecedented, unequaled, its unrivaled ONLY GOD supersedes such power.
One hug from dad is worth 20 kisses from mom
Who we are as dads speaks of who our children will become in the future
Your son will become like you
Your daughter will end up marrying someone like you
Men, you have the power to impact your children either for good or for bad, you words bless them or curse them, you have the power to lif...2022-06-2050 minRecalibrate with MiltonTRANSFORMACION - evidencia de salvacionLa salvacion genuina siempre llevara a la transformacion. Este podcast es un mensaje que se compartio el 12 de Junio 2022 en The Family Church de McAllen, Texas.
2022-06-1545 minRecalibrate with MiltonOVEJA O CABRA - conociendo al Pastor del SalmoConoces al Pastor del Salmo o al Salmo del Pastor? La diferencia es abismal...
Jehová es mi pastor; nada me faltará.En lugares de delicados pastos me hará descansar; Junto a aguas de reposo me pastoreará. Confortará mi alma; Me guiará por sendas de justicia por amor de su nombre. Aunque ande en valle de sombra de muerte, No temeré mal alguno, porque tú estarás conmigo; Tu vara y tu cayado me infundirán aliento. Aderezas mesa delante de mí en presencia de mis angustiadores; Unges mi cabeza con aceite; mi copa está rebosando. Ciertamente el bien y la mi...2022-06-0947 minRecalibrate with MiltonKEEP YOUR EYES ON THE POST - evidence of being a Christ followerHow do I know that I am saved? This is the million dollar question. I raised my hand, and I said the prayer verbatim, is that enough? I felt goosebumps all over at church when I repeated the sinner's prayer, does that mean that I am born again? Can I have an assurance of true salvation? Yes!
2022-06-0442 minRecalibrate with MiltonTHE DAY MICKEY WENT WOKE -indoctrination through entertainmentWe are living in a war of cultures, ideas, philosophies, and ideologies. This woke culture has gained momentum and it is no longer subtle or even subliminal. It is LOUD and evident everywhere you turn. The hearts of our children are the targets and the goal is to capture them in an effort to reframe their minds and reprogram. Guarding their hearts and minds has never been as important as is today. The LGBTQIA2S+ movement is aggressive and infiltrating all forms of media and education. The greatest tool of indoctrination is through education and thus you must become...2022-05-0436 minRecalibrate with MiltonTHE SLAP THAT WAS HEARD AROUND THE WORLD -Will Smith’s response to stress and childhood traumaThe explicit proximal cause seems clear. Comedian Chris Rock made a joke in bad taste in reference to Will Smith’s wife, Jada Pinkett Smith. Smith got angry, walked on stage, and slapped Rock. Chris insulted Jada; Will punished Chris.
While this narrative is a good start, it does not explain why Smith would perform such a socially unacceptable and inappropriate behavior—notwithstanding a form of physical violence—in such a public forum. In fact, the forum itself, with its cameras everywhere, may have played a large part in the story.
Psychological science has a rich h...2022-04-1243 minRecalibrate with MiltonELIAS Y LOS 450 - la fe que vence al temorSolo se requiere de dos elementos para mover montanas. El poder de Dios en el nombre de Cristo y la fe del hombre. Combinando las dos genera grandes maravillas.
2022-04-0631 minRecalibrate with MiltonMODERN DAY PRODIGAL - my storyIt happened to me and could very well happen to you.
2022-03-1135 minRecalibrate with MiltonWHAT DID YOU SAY??? -the unleashed power of your wordsWords are not simply sounds caused by our mouths shaping air passing through our larynx. Words have real power. God spoke the world into being by the power of His words (Hebrews 11:3). Humans are made in God's image, and our words also have power. To be clear, human words do not have the power to manifest reality. But our words do more than convey information; they have an impact on people. The power of our words can burden one’s spirit, even stir up hatred and violence. Words can exacerbate wounds and inflict them directly. Alternately, words can build up...2022-03-1002 minRecalibrate with MiltonTIRO AL BLANCO -el arte de construir saetasComo saetas en mano del valiente, así son los hijos habidos en la juventud. Bienaventurado el hombre que llenó su aljaba de ellos; no será avergonzado cuando hablare con los enemigos en la puerta. Salmos 127: 1, 4 y 5
¿Qué es la saeta en la Biblia? Proyectil que se dispara con el arco. Las saetas o flechas antiguas consistían de: 1. Una punta o cabeza, hecha en tiempos primitivos de pedernal, más tarde de bronce y en tiempos romanos de hierro. Rom_2 Una vara larga, mayormente de caña, ocasionalmente de madera pulida.
2022-03-1045 minRecalibrate with MiltonCON LA SOGA EN EL CUELLO - rompiendo cadenas y ataduras espiritualesUna atadura es una limitación que obstaculiza el proceso de algo, y muchas personas no se han dado cuenta que en sus vidas hay ataduras, que tienen que ser quebrantadas. Las ataduras pueden permanecer en la vida de una persona y transferirse a otra.
Un paradigma es un esquema mental o idea que has decidido conservar, conformando un arquetipo a través del cual representas el mundo.
La palabra cosmovisión quiere decir visión del mundo, esto es, la perspectiva, concepto o representación mental que una determinada cultura o persona se forma de la realidad. Po...2022-02-2349 minRecalibrate with MiltonSUPERBOWL IMMUNITY - look mom no mask!Celebrities spotted not wearing a mask at Sunday's Super Bowl game were met with cries of "hypocrisy" by some on social media.Those attending the event at SoFi Stadium in LA were given KN95 masks because Los Angeles county requires masks to prevent the spread of Covid-19 at "mega events."
But few of the more than 70,000 attendees at the game were seen wearing them the open-air venue. A Twitter user shared a video of some of the stars, including Jennifer Lopez with Ben Affleck, Matt Damon, Jay-Z and LeBron James in the stands without masks.
"...2022-02-2134 minRecalibrate with MiltonOSOS, PERROS CHIHUAHUA, Y OMICRON - el temor y su fuerza destructivaEl temor es una reacción adaptativa que nos prepara para actuar ante un posible peligro. Cuando sentimos miedo, nuestro cuerpo reacciona produciendo una secuencia de efectos, tanto físicos como psicológicos. Algunos estudios afirman que el miedo es la emoción que más consecuencias produce en nuestro interior.
En primer lugar, algunas personas se quedan paralizadas y bloqueadas ante el miedo, experimentan sudoración, taquicardia... Pero esta emoción también cambia nuestra esfera cognitiva, percibimos el mundo de un modo distinto y experimentamos las sensaciones con mayor intensidad. Por todo ello, en este artículo...2022-01-3047 minRecalibrate with MiltonBEARS, CHIHUAHUAS, AND OMICRON - the destructive forces of fear"So, first of all, let me assert my firm belief that the only thing we have to fear is...fear itself — nameless, unreasoning, unjustified terror which paralyzes needed efforts to convert retreat into advance." - FDR (1933 Inaugural address)
Fear's Impact:
Physical health. Fear weakens our immune system and can cause cardiovascular damage, gastrointestinal problems such as ulcers and irritable bowel syndrome and decreased fertility. It can lead to accelerated aging and even premature death.
Memory. Fear can impair formation of long-term memories and cause damage to certain parts of the brain, such as the hippocam...2022-01-2441 minRecalibrate with MiltonENCUENTRO CON DIOS - en la tempestadEn medio de la tempestad Job tuvo un encuentro con Dios y dijo "de oidas te habia oido mas ahora mis ojos te ven" Dios se volvio mas real y tangible para Job despues de haber atravezado por un valle oscuro en la vida. Quizas tu estas en medio de una tempestad de circunstancias y esto te ha distraido. Te animo que enfoques tu mirada y corazon no en la tormenta sino en aquel que tiene el poder de apagarla.
2022-01-1904 minRecalibrate with MiltonTHE PROFIT WITHIN THE PROCESS - lessons from a butterflyHardly anyone enjoys the painful process of growth. The process will always produce a profit whenever the individual endures the affliction until the end. Otherwise he/she misses out on the benefits the process can potentially generate. If you abort the process you forfeit the blessings.
2022-01-1904 minRecalibrate with MiltonLIFE HACK II - mindset isn’t everythingMost self-help books and "gurus" will sell this idea that mindset is everything and that if you manage to simply think more positive then everything will fall into place. Mindset is important but it's just one part of. the equation. We are mind, body, and spirit and must therefore work on all three and nurture them equally otherwise it's like trying to sit on a three legged stool that has lost a leg. You will end up face down on the ground.
2022-01-1022 minRecalibrate with MiltonA CHANGED MIND -where the mind goes, the man followsI love what the Apostle Paul writes to the Romans in chapter 12 verse 2: "don't conform to the ways of the world but be transformed by the renewing of your mind"... A transformed life begins with a mind that has been renewed. It is not an easy task however if you are intentional, disciplined, and consistent over time you will see gradual and complete transformation.
2022-01-0704 minRecalibrate with MiltonGUARDA TU CORAZON - establece limitesUna de las palabras mas poderosas en cualquier idioma es "NO". Es una palabra pequena pero a muchos se les dificulta pronunciarla porque luchan con establecer limites. Los limites son necesarios en toda relacion de otra manera saldras lastimado. Dios nos llama a "guardar nuestros corazones" y la manera mas facil de hacerlos y a traves de los limites.
2022-01-0603 minRecalibrate with MiltonLIFE HACK - the art of unlearning and relearningMaking other people's urgencies your own priority causes you to neglect yourself. You may not see the immediate consequence to such life decisions however eventually you will. Sooner or later the painful truth will wreak havoc in all areas of your life. It's time for you to unlearn whats become natural to you and relearn new ways of doing things.
2022-01-0509 minRecalibrate with MiltonNO MORE TEARS TO CRY - learning to encourage yourselfWe often times seek encouragement from external sources (i.e. social media influencers) however that type of encouragement will only last an average of 72 hours at best. Encouragement that comes from within especially the kind that is rooted in God's Word endures trials and afflictions. As David, we all go through a ZIKLAG moment in our lives. Whenever you are there seek to encourage yourself in the Lord God and in Him find strength.
2022-01-0311 minRecalibrate with MiltonQUE ESTABAS PENSANDO - tus pensamientos determinan tu destinoLos pensamientos tienen el poder de dirigir nuestro destino. Existe una programacion en nuestra mente subconsciente que desconocemos por completo. Solo a traves de la terapia se pueden descubrir o al meditar en la Palabra de Dios El nos revela aquello que nos tiene atado. Lo que pensamos ya sea verdadero o sea mentira es recibido por la mente subconsciente como si fuera verdadero y esto determina hasta la manera que nos sentimos animicamente y/o fisicamente. Cuida mucho de los que piensas ya que puede ser tu por enemigo o tu mas grande porrista.
2022-01-0304 minRecalibrate with MiltonNO MIRES HACIA ATRAS - columnas de sal en el desiertoLa pregunta millonaria que me hace la gente al termino del 2021 y en la vispera del 2022 es "que consejo me das para poder vivir mejor?"
La verdad es que es pregunta aunque sencilla resulta ser compleja ya que habria que definir que es una mejor vida. Sin embargo, la respuesta que les doy es facil de entender mas dificil de aplicar... "no mires hacia atras".
Si vamos a avanzar a algo mejor en el area fisica, espiritual, y mental de nuestras vidas entonces sera de suma importancia mantener la mirada fija en lo que esta...2021-12-2845 minRecalibrate with MiltonGET YOUR HOUSE IN ORDER - 2022 goalsPeople ask me… what should I focus on in 2022 “Get Your House in Order” A house without order is a dysfunctional one and “dysfunction breeds distorted vision" Proverbs 29:18 Where there is no vision the people perish.
For our homes to be in order we must first make sure that we are vertically aligned with the true God. He should have no rivals - there should be no idolatry in our homes. At times prosperity becomes the greatest impediment (obstruction). Because if the enemy can’t make you bad he will make you busy.
I am often aske...2021-12-2854 minRecalibrate with MiltonLA LUCHA POR LA SIGUIENTE GENERACION -guerra cultural, ataduras, y cambio de identidadEstamos viviendo una guerra cultural de ideas y filosofias y la siguiente generacion es el blanco. Quien quiera a la siguiente generacion mas, los obtendra. La guerra cultural tiene como objectivo generar confusion y duda en cuanto a la identidad de esta siguiente generacion y todo comienza a nivel mental. Las filosofias que escuchen a menudo, lo que tanto se les repita aunque sea mentira sera aceptada por su menta a nivel subconsciente si no se les ensena la verdad. Los padres deben entender que no pueden dar lo que no tienen, ensenar lo que no saben, o guiar...2021-12-0349 minRecalibrate with MiltonIDENTITY CONFUSION - the culture‘s subtle message to the next generationToday's culture is very quietly but yet forcefully inducting the next generation into a state of identity confusion. This is not relegated to the non-believing generation, Christian men and women are also the target and they are getting hit hard. The Apostle Paul wrote "See to it that no one takes you captive through hollow and deceptive philosophy, which depends on human tradition and the elemental spiritual forces of this world rather than on Christ".
The current educational system and trends on social media are trying to change the next generation's identity. Through propaganda they are repeating t...2021-12-0146 minRecalibrate with MiltonNEXT GENERATION -whoever wants them the most will get themA MESSAGE FOR PARENTS!!!
Whoever wants the next generation the most will get them.
Whoever speaks the loudest will get their attention. Whoever spends the most time with them will have the greatest influence over their lives.
Whatever they hear repeated over time will become their reality and the driving force of their life.
Luke 6:40 "the student is not above the teacher, but the student who is fully trained will become like the teacher"...
Who is teaching your children and grandchildren? Who are you allowing to mold and shape t...2021-11-0840 minRecalibrate with MiltonWHEN BAD THINGS HAPPEN TO GOOD PEOPLE -the building blocks of pain within a processAt times our foundations are shaken by certain situations and circumstances that hit us out of the blue. Unknowingly we are confronted with pain coming from all directions and we question how a Good God could ever allow something like that in our lives.
It seems like everything is coming apart and beneath us. But I want to remind you that those who put their faith in God will not be swallowed up by such events. We have a firm foundation in God! Even in the midst of affliction God is at work doing a new thing...2021-10-0436 minRecalibrate with MiltonBROKEN VESSELS -Interview with Maria Bridwell; her JOURNEY and TESTIMONYThe "Spiritual Kintsugi" episode a few weeks ago was inspired by a conversation that I had with Maria Bridwell. And today she is my guest on Recalibrate. I hope that her journey and testimony inspire you to break free from toxic thought patterns and to see yourself healed and moving forward. Maria shared from her heart and there are a lot of take-aways in her story.
Every moment of every day you are changing your brain with your thoughts in a positive or negative direction. Every time you think and choose, you cause structural change in your b...2021-09-2040 minRecalibrate with MiltonSPIRITUAL KINTSUGI - God‘s mending of a broken individualKintsugi is the Japanese art of putting broken pottery pieces back together with gold — built on the idea that in embracing flaws and imperfections, you can create an even stronger, more beautiful piece of art. Every break is unique and instead of repairing an item like new, the 400-year-old technique actually highlights the "scars" as a part of the design. Using this as a metaphor for healing ourselves teaches us an important lesson: Sometimes in the process of repairing things that have broken, we actually create something more unique, beautiful and resilient.
God is the Potter and we...2021-09-0731 minRecalibrate with MiltonTHE ENEMY'S GREATEST LIE - the one you have believed to be trueAs I stood in the foyer of a church in Lubbock, Texas I was approached by a church member that asked me "What is the enemy's (devil's) greatest lie"? My answer: the one you have believed. The enemy knows your buttons and weaknesses. He's been studying you since day one. Jesus reminded us that "the thief (devil, enemy) comes to steal, kill, and destroy"
Many individuals have been programmed to fail during their childhood years. They have been programmed to see a faulty (unreal) image of themselves in the mirror. This faulty way of thinking are mental c...2021-08-2354 minRecalibrate with MiltonA PRISON WITHOUT WALLS - unforgiveness creates a prison in the mind and the heart of the individualUnforgiveness is a sin that will destroy its own container. Unforgiveness is a sin that will destroy you like an incurable cancer. Unforgiveness is a sin that causes bitterness in our life.
The Bible warns about bitterness: “Looking carefully lest anyone fall short of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up cause trouble, and by this many become defiled” (Hebrews 12:15).
The word “bitterness” comes from the Greek word “pikria.” It’s used in Acts 8:23 of a condition of extreme wickedness, “gall of bitterness” or “bitter gall.” Romans 3:14 says it’s a mouth full of cursing an...2021-07-1649 minRecalibrate with MiltonTHE WAR FOR THE MINDS OF THE NEXT GENERATION PART II -the enemy's agendaEducation is by far the easiest way to capture and influence the minds of the next generation. Between the ages of 5-18 a child will spend a total of 16,000 hours in a school exposing his/her mind to the philosophies and ideologies of the teacher. The same child will spend no more than 750 hours at church however they will expose their minds to social media an average of 15,000 hours during the same period of time. So the question is, who has the greatest power to mold and shape the minds of children based on the length of exposure?
2021-06-2229 minRecalibrate with MiltonCOVID-19 FATIGUE PART II - a conversation for parentsTeen depression can be defined as a serious mental condition where the teen experiences prolonged feelings of sadness, negativity, and irritability. These feelings permeate through their social and personal life, causing them to become withdrawn and lonely, thus affecting their self-image and physical life.
Teenagers of this generation are required to create a mark for themselves and rise from the choices they make. Choices that are confusing, stress filled and chaotic. Very often teenagers themselves don't understand the gravity of the consequences of the choices they have made.
Pleasure seeking and impulsiveness are honored by...2021-05-2424 minRecalibrate with MiltonTHE WAR FOR THE MINDS OF THE NEXT GENERATION - education and its power to form or deform the minds of childrenThis is a short series that will address the power of influence and indoctrination that the school system has on the lives of our children. The power to form or deform values, basic principles and moral standards. There is a war for the minds of the next generation and many parents are failing to see it. It is more serious than most tend to believe. The repetition of certain philosophies, beliefs, and ideologies will become their reality. When concepts are repeated consistently over time it doesn't matter if they are right or wrong as long as no one negates...2021-05-1225 minRecalibrate with MiltonON THE OTHER SIDE OF FEAR - faith believes it, faith sees it, faith receives it~Faith Believes It, Faith Sees It, and Faith Receives it~ On The Other Side Of Fear Was recorded a few months before the world knew of the pandemic. Fear is always lurking in the minds of people, fear is as real as people want to believe. Fear is False, Evidence, Appearing, Real. And fear is a liar. As you repeat that one particular lie to yourself, that one thought that stirs your fear, eventually your subconscious will believe in its veracity. Break the cycle. Break free from that mental construct and be free!
2021-04-2640 minRecalibrate with MiltonTHE BEST MEDICINE FOR AN ANXIOUS HEART - Psalm 23Just like any medication prescribed by a doctor to be taken 3 times a day for 7 days, I challenge you to repeat Psalm 23 seven times a day for 7 days and watch your mindset and heartset transform.
The Lord is my shepherd;
I shall not want.
He makes me to lie down in green pastures;
He leads me beside the still waters. He restores my soul;
He leads me in the paths of righteousness
For His name’s sake.
Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death,
I wi...2021-04-1239 minRecalibrate with MiltonCOVID-19 FATIGUE - An Adolescent Mental Health EpisodeIf you are experiencing general feelings of stress and social isolation and have been for months, you are not alone. Those feelings may be compounded by potential economic hardships and exacerbating preexisting depression or anxiety disorders that many already had.
“COVID-19 fatigue and/or burnout implies a person has reached his or her capacity to cope and is experiencing various mental, emotional and physical symptoms as a result of the constant exposure to pandemic stressors, including social distancing, isolation from family/friends, fears of contracting COVID-19, numerous virtual meetings, grief, financial stress, and more"...
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2021-03-1841 minRecalibrate with MiltonWaffles and Spaghetti - UNDERSTANDING HIS AND HER NEEDSAt the very beginning of history God said, ” ‘Let us make man in our image, after our likeness.’ … So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them” (Genesis 1:26-27).
It was in God’s plan to make men and women different from each other from the moment He imagined us. The original plan was to use these differences as a starting point for building intimate, fulfilling relationships. But in our sin-filled world, what started out as an advantage has become a frequent source of frustration.2021-03-0946 minRecalibrate with MiltonWill you be my Valentine??? PART 2 - HOW TO BULLETPROOF YOUR RELATIONSHIPRelational conflict is inevitable and only those who know how to effectively resolve it are the ones whose relationships and marriages endure.
The Antidote to Criticism: Gentle Start-Up
A complaint focuses on a specific behavior, but criticism attacks a person’s very character. The antidote for criticism is to complain without blame by using a soft or gentle start-up. Avoid saying “you,” which can indicate blame, and instead talk about your feelings using “I” statements and express what you need in a positive way.
To put it simply, think of these two things to formulate your soft start...2021-02-1538 minRecalibrate with MiltonWill you be my Valentine??? - HOW TO BULLETPROOF YOUR RELATIONSHIPDr. Gottman calls the four indicators of a failing relationship "the four horsemen of the Apocalypse" and they are:
1. Criticism
The first horseman is criticism. Criticizing your partner is different than offering a critique or voicing a complaint. The latter two are about specific issues, whereas the former is an ad hominem attack. It is an attack on your partner at the core of their character. In effect, you are dismantling their whole being when you criticize.
The important thing is to learn the difference between expressing a complaint and criticizing:
Complaint: “I was sca...2021-02-0250 minRecalibrate with MiltonRESOLVE TO BE RESILIENT - creating new pathways leading to better outcomes
What does resilience mean?
It's the capability of a strained body to recover its size and shape after deformation caused especially by compressive stress and the ability to recover from or adjust easily to misfortune or change.
Seven Skills of Resilience
Principle 1: Cultivate a Belief in Your Ability to Cope.
Principle 2: Stay Connected With Sources of Support.
Principle 3: Talk About What You're Going Through.
Principle 4: Be Helpful to Others.
Principle 5: Activate Positive Emotion.
Principle 6: Cultivate an Attitude of Survivorship.
Principle 7: Seek Meaning.
A growth mindset, proposed by Stanford professor Carol Dweck in her book Mindset, describes people who believe that th...2021-01-2540 minRecalibrate with MiltonPORCUPINE PERSONALITIES - breaking from from the critical spiritDo you criticize and pass judgment on others? Do you find yourself with a negative disposition, always finding fault with something or someone? Is it difficult for you to see the positive in a person or a situation because the negative is so glaring in your eye? Are you compelled to give your critical point of view for the good of all mankind?
If you answered yes to one of these questions, then you have a critical spirit and you are in danger. Not getting hit-by-a-truck-kind-of-danger, but an even more serious kind—and that is spiritual danger. A...2021-01-1247 minRecalibrate with MiltonDON'T LOOK BACK ~letting go of your history to pursue God's destiny for your lifeNobody drives a car while looking through the rearview mirror unless of course they are going in reverse. As you press on into the new year "2021" make sure to look ahead, stay focused on the prize, and DON'T LOOK BACK!
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2020-12-2844 minRecalibrate with MiltonLIFE HACK SERIES - Part II
Over the past few years the concept of "Mindset" or the "Mindset Factor" has been over-glamorized. We have been taught that mindset is everything and that it determines the course of our life. There is a lot of truth to this, however there are three more important components (factors) to consider; "heartset", "soulset", and "healthset".
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2020-12-1930 minRecalibrate with MiltonLIFE HACK SERIES - Part ISetting your life's priorities in the proper order is key to living a life of significance, and purpose. If you are feeling burnt out, out of breath, and you find yourself having a hard time saying no to other people's request well then you have a priority issue. If other individual's urgencies all of a sudden become your priorities I can guarantee that you feel unaccomplished and dead. The Life Hack Series is a series of short episodes that will make YOU the main focus. The Life Hack Series' goal is to help you get from point A to...2020-12-0710 minRecalibrate with MiltonONE DECISION - you are either one decision away from stupid or one decision away from succeedingLife is all about the decisions and choices we make. One simple decision can catapult you into a completely different destination. A simple change in your decision making process can create a different outcome. It's easiest to blame the world for our greatest demise however at the end of the day we can only blame ourselves. You need to get to a point in your life in which you stop blaming your biology and genealogy for the crap in your life and start accepting that it's your psychology that needs to be renewed.
2020-12-0552 minRecalibrate with MiltonYOUR BRAIN ON PORN - the power of porn to rewire your brainBelieve it or not, studies show that those who consume pornography more frequently have brains that are less connected, less active, and even smaller in some areas.
To be fair, the studies only show that there’s a correlation between porn consumption and smaller, less active brains, but they raise the question: Can porn literally change your brain?
Scientists used to believe that once you finished childhood, your brain lost the ability to grow. They thought that nothing except illness or injury could physically alter an adult brain. Now we know that the brain goes on...2020-11-241h 01Recalibrate with MiltonMONKEY SEE, MONKEY DO ~the power of persuasion, manipulation, and indoctrinationSo what exactly is persuasion? In The Dynamics of Persuasion, Perloff defines persuasion as "...a symbolic process in which communicators try to convince other people to change their attitudes or behaviors regarding an issue through the transmission of a message in an atmosphere of free choice."
Key Elements
Persuasion involves a deliberate attempt to influence others
People are not coerced; they are instead free to choose through self-persuasion
Persuasive messages are transmitted in a variety of ways, including
verbally and nonverbally via television, radio, internet, or face to face communication.
Persuasion is symbolic, utilizing words, im...2020-11-1340 minRecalibrate with Milton13 REASONS WHY NOT - an episode on teen suicideSuicidal ideation (or suicidal thoughts) is thinking about suicide with deliberate consideration or planning. It is not a diagnosis in the DSM-5, but is rather a symptom of many mental disorders.
Youth Suicide: Facts, Signs and Risk Factors
Suicide is the second leading cause of death in the United States—starting with children at age 10 all the way up to adults at age 33.
More teenagers and young adults die from suicide than from cancer, heart disease, AIDS, birth defects, stroke, pneumonia, influenza, and chronic lung disease combined.
Suicide is the 10th leading cause of death in the US for all ages. (C...2020-11-0434 minRecalibrate with MiltonPICTURE PERFECT - breaking free from the perfectionism trapPerfectionism by definition: perfectionism is an outward expression of an inward lack of peace.
Perfectionism is driven primarily by internal pressures, such as the desire to avoid failure or harsh judgment. There is likely a social component as well, because perfectionistic tendencies have increased substantially among young people over the past 30 years, regardless of gender or culture. Greater academic and professional competition is thought to play a role, along with the pervasive presence of social media and the harmful social comparisons it elicits.
Perfection manifests itself in three domains. Self-oriented perfectionism is imposing an unrealistic...2020-10-2743 minRecalibrate with MiltonDYSFUNCTION - chronicles of a broken childhood What exactly is a DYSFUNCTIONAL family?
The McGraw-Hill Concise Dictionary of modern Medicine defines the term 'dysfunctional family' as "a family with multiple 'internal' conflicts, e.g. sibling rivalries, parent-child conflicts, domestic violence, mental illness, single parenthood, or 'external' conflicts, e.g. alcohol or drug abuse, extramarital affairs, gambling, unemployment-influences that affect the basic needs of the family unit."
People tend to learn their parenting styles from their parents or other caregivers. If their parents abused them, they may abuse their children. Or, they may go overboard the other direction, being unnecessarily lenient. They may m...2020-10-2149 minRecalibrate with MiltonI AM VICTIM - breaking free from the the victim mentality by adopting a new identityWhat is a Victim Mentality?
Victim mentality is a psychological term that refers to a type of dysfunctional mindset which seeks to feel persecuted in order to gain attention or avoid self-responsibility. People who struggle with the victim mentality are convinced that life is not only beyond their control, but is out to deliberately hurt them. This belief results in constant blame, finger-pointing, and pity parties that are fueled by pessimism, fear, and anger. The victim mentality is an acquired personality trait, meaning that it is the result of early life conditioning and coping mechanisms.
Why do s...2020-10-1450 minRecalibrate with MiltonBreakthrough Vision -Seeing It Happen On The Inside Before It Happens On The OutsideThe reason some of people are faltering and failing right now is that they have a visualization of themselves that does not coincide with the Word of God. And what you visualize in your spirit will happen in your life.
Vision is a powerful thing!
Thats why the enemy of our souls works diligently to abort you from having a visualization of seeing yourself any better off than you are. He does not want you to see yourself
Progressing
moving forward
Overcoming
walking in victory,
being consecrated
living holy
walking in deliverance
being the...2020-10-0828 minRecalibrate with MiltonThe Delilah Dilemma - THE PROFILE OF A CODEPENDENT RELATIONSHIP AND HOW TO BREAK FREE FROM ITBy definition: Codependency is characterized by a person belonging to a dysfunctional, one-sided relationship where one person relies on the other for meeting nearly all of their emotional and self-esteem needs. It also describes a relationship that enables another person to maintain their irresponsible, addictive, or underachieving behavior.
Signs of codependency include:
Difficulty making decisions in a relationship
Difficulty identifying your feelings
Difficulty communicating in a relationship
Valuing the approval of others more than valuing yourself
Lacking trust in yourself and having poor self-esteem
Having fears of abandonment or an obsessive need for approval
Having an...2020-09-3039 minRecalibrate with MiltonTransformed - a TRANSFORMED LIFE can only come from a RENEWED MINDWill my life ever change or am I destined to fail? Is this my lot in life? Why is life so unfair? Does this run in my DNA? Is it my family tree? Is it my parents life? Am I too old to change my destination?
These are some of the questions that I am frequently asked by people that have reached a point of frustration because life seems to never change. They continue to make the same mistakes. Their decisions/choices continue to get them into all sorts of trouble and they never seem to get...2020-09-2152 minRecalibrate with MiltonBreaking The Four Minute Mile - Overcoming Your Own ParadigmsThe Bible tells us to take every thought captive. (2 Corinthians 10:5) That means that I have a chance to do something about all thoughts that are not well-pleasing to God, before they enter my heart and become a part of me!
“As a man thinks, so is he.” Proverbs 23:7. What we think about is crucial to who we are. Scientists don’t agree on how many thoughts we have each day, but all agree there are thousands of them. Who we are is shaped moment by moment by the thoughts we choose to let into our mind and heart...2020-09-1539 minRecalibrate with MiltonPARENT FAILS - failing to be Christ-like in the home will reap a whirlwind of destruction sooner than later
Adolescent mental health issues are on the rise especially during COVID-19 and the suicidal hotline has seen a spike in their calls. Their activity has increased by 800%.
We cannot and should not turn our backs on a very evident issue we are facing today. We would like to blame it on social media, the culture of the times and some go so far as to blame it on the presidency. However, the truth of the matter is that 85% of the issues the young person is going through started in the home.
Number one mental health...2020-09-0550 minRecalibrate with MiltonUNBROKEN - finding the lesson, growth, and blessing within the trials you face every dayTrails, for some people, are a curse, bad luck, or perhaps God's heavy hand of punishment over their lives, however for others they are an opportunity for growth, sanctification, and the doorway to blessings.
Trials are the refiner's fire that removes impurities and brings forth the true value and beauty from within us. Trials are processes that God allows us to go through. He doesn't orchestrate them or cause them to happen however He uses them for our good.
Job, after having lost all that he had, stated " my ears had heard of you but n...2020-08-3032 minRecalibrate with MiltonTHE PSYCHOLOGY OF MANIPULATION - breaking free from the mind games others use to control your behavior, decisions, and emotions.Psychological manipulation can be defined as the utilization of undue power (social, relational, familial, sexual, financial, professional, etc.) for the purpose of benefiting the manipulator at the expense of their victims.
Dr. Gottman's Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse:
1. Criticism
Criticizing your partner is different than offering a critique or voicing a complaint. It is an attack on your partner at the core of their character. In effect, you are dismantling their whole being when you criticize.
2. Contempt
When we communicate in this state, we are truly mean—we treat others with disrespect, mock the...2020-08-2031 minRecalibrate with MiltonFAITH that overcomes FEAR...SEEING THE ABUNDANCE OF RAIN IN THE MIDDLE OF A DROUGHTVision is a powerful God-given gift that many have forsaken.Sight is of the eyes but vision is of the heart. (Helen Keller - the only thing worse than being blind is having sight yet no vision)Vision goes hand in hand with God’s promise for you and your family.People of great faith are able to envision God’s promises coming to fruition in their lives (affirmation and declaration without action is the beginning of insanity)
A vision that comes into alignment (vertical) with God’s word will produce a blessed outcome, however, a skewed vision will produce undesi...2020-08-1157 minRecalibrate with MiltonCOVID-19 and its three demons Part II: FEAR IS A LIARFEAR is a LIAR. FEAR incapacitates, handicaps, and paralyzes you. FEAR as an acronym:
F alse
E vidence
A ppearing
R eal
The more you repeat an idea in your mind, whether true or false, the faster your subconscious mind will accept it as a reality. And your whole physiology will come into alignment with what it believes.
Hardly ever is FEAR genetically coded within our DNA, 90% of the time it is learned behavior. Most of the time it's the result of our ch...2020-07-3032 minRecalibrate with MiltonCOVID-19 and its three demons: DEPRESSION, ANXIETY, and FEARCOVID-19 has three demons attached to it: DEPRESSION, ANXIETY, and FEAR.
Depression is on the rise and fear has become a normal emotion that people are learning to live with, notice I didn't say cope with I said live with.
A third of Americans show signs of clinical depression and anxiety. These and other mental conditions are becoming amplified during the recent pandemic, while COVID-19 patients and their families are also at high risk to develop depression and anxiety.
Maurizio Fava, psychiatrist-in-chief, within the Massachusetts General Hospital, is no...2020-07-2137 minRecalibrate with MiltonThe God Of The Suddenly: Elevate your hope and expect a sudden move of God in your life
I want to encourage you today to be filled with hope and to wait on the Lord who is more than able to show Himself strong in your life and who can suddenly change your circumstances
God is preparing you for the promise. He’s not preparing the promise for you though. The promise is there. It’s been there!
It’s easy to believe for someone else's healing
It’s easy to believe that God is able to set the captives free It's easy to believe that God desires to prosper his children. It’s eas...2020-07-1434 minRecalibrate with MiltonMENTAL TATTOOS: The Power of a Changed Mind
You can control your feelings if you control your thoughts and if you control your thoughts you can also control your final outcome in life!
We have been taught that we are what we eat and although there is some truth to that I am here to tell you that you are what you THINK!
*There are two solid differences between successful and unsuccessful people... they think differently and they have a different kind of attitude.
Some of my favorite quotes on thinking
“Whether you think you can, or you think yo...2020-07-0738 minRecalibrate with MiltonMental Detox: Rebooting the Mind and Creating a New NormalTaking old habits into a new chapter will only produce the same results - Changed beliefs will produce a different outcome.
*If you always do what you have always done, and you always think what you have always thought you always get what you have always gotten…
Deut 30:19 This day I call the heavens and the earth as witnesses against you that I have set before you life and death, blessings and curses. Now choose life, so that you and your children may live.
Strongholds DEFINED - A stronghold is a faulty thinking pa...2020-07-0342 minRecalibrate with MiltonFaith that sees the inconceivable and receives the impossible: THE POWER OF VISIONVision is a powerful thing!
Thats why the enemy of our souls works diligently to abort you from having a visualization of seeing yourself any better off than you are. he does not want you to see yourself
Progressing
moving forward
Overcoming
walking in victory,
being consecrated
living holy
walking in deliverance
•he would rather give you visions of
you falling
Falling
getting sick
going down
Aging
being poor
getting depressed
If you constantly envision yourself failing you will never succeed, envision yourself sick and I assure you that you won’t walk in complete heal...2020-06-2927 minRecalibrate with MiltonDaddy Issues - The Power a Father Has to Influence The Lives of His Children
I am blessed with two boys and two grandkids and my ultimate goal in life is to lead them to the Father through the Son. My focus is not that they become popular, wealthy, or attend the best universities, or land a dream job....NO... my only focus is to live a life that will cause them to thirst and hunger after God.
- your actions speak so loudly that I can’t hear what you say - R. W. Emerson
1 John 3:4 I have no greater joy than to hear that my children walk in tru...2020-06-2333 minRecalibrate with MiltonMy TED Talk (Nov 2015) "You Are What You Think"This is my TED Talk from 2015. It is a portion of my life's testimony and some of the lessons I learned through the process. I hope it blesses you.
2020-06-1811 minRecalibrate with MiltonThe Power Of The Process - Finding Strength and Opportunity In The Midst of Affliction
One of the most difficult things in life is not knowing what to do when you fall, when you fail, when you falter, when you have to face tragedy or affliction.
To know that your life is not over and the game doesn't stop just because you bruised your arm, skinned your knee or, you ran into some roadblocks
People of great faith envision trials, dark valleys and hurts as opportunities and not as setbacks...launchpads to greater things in life.
I love to talk about DAVID because David is a man after...2020-06-1728 minRecalibrate with MiltonThe boy that saw a dead dog in the mirror Part III - a series on self-worthWHY do we develop low self-worth?
We develop low self-worth for two reasons:
Due to our childhood traumas and core wounds
To protect ourselves against what we fear
Breaking free from the mental constructs that have held us back from going from point A to point B, from where we are to the place where we would like to see ourselves will require three basic mindsets:
1. Intentionality
2. Discipline
3. Consistency
People oftentimes become excited after listening to a keynote motivational speaker or after watching a motivational video. It...2020-06-0936 minRecalibrate with MiltonThe boy that saw a dead dog in the mirror Part II - a series on self-worthI hope you were able to go to the show notes for Part I and ask yourself if any of the low self-worth descriptors applied to your life. Every once, and a while I will provide you with specific questions to help you reflect on where you stand and to challenge to create a better version of yourself. Listen, you can’t defeat what you can’t define. You can’t change what you are unwilling to confront.
Self-awareness is key. Self-awareness is the conscious knowledge of one's own character, feelings, motives, and desires. Self-awareness requires three questio...2020-06-0433 minRecalibrate with MiltonThe boy that saw a dead dog in the mirror - a series on self-worthLet me ask you a question for you to reflect on… When you look at yourself in the mirror do you like what you see? On a scale of 1-10, how much do you love yourself?
Let me say this… The issues you are dealing with today in your relationships although you might blame everything on the other person, the truth of the matter is that the issue was deep rooted in you during your most formative years. Just watch your reaction when you are frustrated, upset, or sad. Your tendency is to react like that child you...2020-05-3017 minRecalibrate with MiltonGuard Your Heart - Part IIIIf you have listened to part I and II you should have a pretty clear understanding of what boundaries look like and why they are important to have in your life. Boundaries will, in essence, help you gain control. Steven Covey, the author of the 7 habits of highly effective people, once said that we must always start with the end in mind and so if the end goal is to gain control of your life then it's crucial you start by setting boundaries.
Now let me be clear, you are not trying to gain control of other p...2020-05-2515 minRecalibrate with MiltonGuard Your Heart - Part III hope you have been able to reflect on the four questions I asked you last time regarding boundaries. Were you able to determine whether or or not you are lacking healthy boundaries in your relationships?
I mentioned to you last time that although the lack of communication and broken trust are the most common predictors of a failing relationship or a marriage that is bound for divorce, the core issue is the lack of healthy boundaries. Just as countries have protective boundaries, you also need them in your relationships to guard your personal time, emotional energy...2020-05-2020 min