Shows
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 52: The Nemesis PartyMs. V. envisions a new political party, named after the Goddess of Retribution, that builds a better country for everyone while prioritizing women's leadership, women's rights, and women's safety and comfort.
Would you cast your vote for the Nemesis Party?
https://nemsisparty.com
https://devidasa.org
https://gynarchy.io
2026-02-0516 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 51: New MasculinityMs. V. reads a chapter from The Dasa's Guide to Sacred Gynarchy on what it means to be a man in the Gynarchy, and the facets of gender.
https://devidasa.org
https://gynarchy.io
2026-01-2936 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 50: RitualMs. Viola's short erotic story about a ritual...
Celebrating my 50th podcast!!!
gynarchy.io
devidasa.org
2026-01-2206 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 49: LilithMs V. discusses the book Lilith by Nikki Marmery and declares it a canon religious text for the Gynarchy.
gynarachy.io
devidasa.org
2026-01-1523 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 48: The Dasa CodeMs. V reads the code of conduct expected from those who live as her personal servants, a.k.a, dasas.
Included in her new book The Dasa's Guide to Sacred Gynarchy: How to Serve a Living Goddess.
https://devidasa.org
https://gynarchy.io
2026-01-0811 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 47: The Dasa's GuideMs. V reads from her new book The Dasa's Guide to Sacred Gynarchy, available wherever you buy books on January 12, 2026.
Get your special one-of-a-kind copy at devidasa.org.
https://gynarchy.io
https://cathexishouse.com
2026-01-0216 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 46: The Gate to Women's CountryMs. V. discusses the book The Gate to Women's Country by Sherri S. Tepper, published in 1988. Tepper solves the "man problem" in imagining matriarchy.
Sponsored by https://goodboygogo.com
2025-09-1417 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 45: Pimps, Chimps, SimpsIf you are not a simp, you are a chimp or a pimp. What kind of male are you? Ms. V. talks about why she loves simps.
Sponsored by GoodBoy GoGo
2025-09-0710 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 44: The Bliss of DenialMs. V. introduces her dasa, Max, who has had placed his sexuality under her control for six months. He talks about the intense journey of edging and cultivating erotic energy. This is a firsthand account of long-term semen retention, surrendering control fully to a Goddess.
#cockcontrol #semenretention #chastity #Ds #surrender
Sponsored by GoodBoy GoGo - good products for good boys.
Train with Ms. V. at https://obedient.love/
2025-08-3123 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 43: Devi Dasa Sacred GynarchyMs. V. explains her overall vision and all that she is working toward to create an alternative to the patriarchy. An introduction to the Devi Dasa Sacred Gynarchy, and he new church.
https://devidasa.org
https://gynarchy.io
2025-08-2317 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 42: For CouplesAre you hoping to transform your more traditional or egalitarian partnership into a female-led relationship? MS. V. talks about the two most common roadblocks along the way and ways for women to find their power and for men to let go of their egos.
Sign up to get an e-mail when Ms. V.'s new couple workshop is about to launch:
https://obedient.love/flr4couples
Media, Education, and Community for a Women-led World:
https://gynachy.io
Ms. V's FREE 3 day FLR course for...
2024-08-0623 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 41: Test Driving MenMs. V. does not like to date in the ordinary sense. Instead, she likes to test-drive men.
https://gynarchy.io
https://violavoltairine.com
2024-07-2315 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 40: CNC, Trauma, and AlchemyConsensual Non-Consent is a complicated topic; Ms. V. tells her story and invites you to consider the implications for trauma survivors and how to use it as a tool.
https://gynarchy.io
https://violavoltairine.com
2024-07-1622 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 39: My Dark SideHow do I reconcile the dichotomy within me, between wanting an ethical world and enjoying the perverse play of power and degradation?
http://gynarchy.io
2024-07-0920 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 38: The PivotYou can feel it, can't you? The result of a long history of struggle and progress leading to the inevitable end to male dominance. How did we get here, and where are we going? And why is this an exciting time for submissive men and Dominant Women?
https://pillarsofgynarchy.com
https://gynarchy.io
https://gynarchyshops.com
2024-06-0517 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 37: The HiveA few of the men in my community made one of my big wishes for this summer come true. As promised, that means I'm bringing back the Obedient Love podcast! Welcome to Obedient Love 37, where I tell you about a place where women are safe and pampered, and men can serve them 24/7. Manifest our collective dream! Join me!
https://thepillarsofgynarchy.com
https://gynarchy.io
https://gynarchyshops.com
2024-05-2815 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 36: What is Power?Ms. V. discusses the definition of power and how it plays out in different ways in relationships and in our everyday lives.
gynarchy.io
FREE FLR LESSONS: obedient.love
2023-02-1919 min
Obedient Love PodcastThe Company: An IntroductionEver wondered if the Company was real. It is. And here's your limited opportunity to serve us.
gynarchy.io
2022-07-0306 min
Obedient Love PodcastSuccubus Tech: An IntroductionMs. V's methods of erotic hypnosis and mind control for psychological edge play.
gynarchy.io
2022-06-2518 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 35: Submissive in a Vanilla MarriageMs. V asks: What if you are a submissive in a vanilla marriage? What are your options? What are some roadmaps to make it work?
gynarchy.io
2022-05-2623 min
Obedient Love Podcastgynarchy.ioA little change of pace from my usual philosophical and instruction podcasts to explain an exciting new project.
https://www.gynarchy.io
2022-03-1215 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 34: Psychological Edgeplay, pt. 1In this first in a series of discussions of psychological edgeplay, Ms. V talks about erotic hypnosis, tulpamancy and an army of Bambis and bimbos. She offers a brief intro to succubus tech.
Cathexis House 24/7 D/s household: http://cathexishouse.com
Ms. V.'s book 150 Years of Gynarchy: http://150yearsofgynarchy.com
Free 3-day FLR class: http://obedient.love
2022-01-0516 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 33: The Benefits of Long Term ChastityMs. Viola talks about the benefits of semen retention, orgasm denial, and chastity for 30 days or more. Happy Locktober!
Follow Ms. V's various projects at: http://violavoltairine.com
2021-10-0417 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 32: For Women - Why Not Dominate Him?Ms. Viola asks women about their reaction to submissive men and dispels some misconceptions about FemDom for women who are new to (or put off by) Dominating men. Women's feedback is welcome!
Lil Simz, Woman: https://youtu.be/zHGf6tmnLYE
Kasia Urbaniak: https://www.youtube.com/c/KasiaUrbaniakYT
Cathexis House - Ms. V's 24/7 D/s household + lessons in FLR for men: http://cathexishouse.com
Ms. V's movie based on the book by Renee Lane: http://artvamp.com/femdomfilm
Ms. V's book, 150 Years of Gyanrchy: http://150years...
2021-09-0622 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 31: FemDom as ReligionMs. V. delves into the dangerous territory of the patriarchy vs. the divine feminine, witchcraft as liberation, and the Living Goddess tradition.
Caliban and the Witch: https://g.co/kgs/7Y6r3d
Can a woman be a Goddess? https://youtu.be/UOhZtpp5L9M
Cathexis House, journals and lessons from Ms. V's 24/7 D/s household: http://cathexishouse.com
Ms. V's book, 150 Years of Gynarchy: https://g.co/kgs/Pf8PmY
Ms. V's upcoming movie, based on the book by Renee Lane: http://artvamp.com/femdo...
2021-07-1325 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 30: Submissive PrideAs Pride month comes to a close, Ms. V. encourages you to follow the example of history and feel bold and proud in being who you are.
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2021-06-2813 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 29: Generative PowerJust the beginnings of some of Ms. V's rambling musings on how we might unthink hierarchy and focus on the nature of generative power. This one is a bit less practical and more about changing our modes of thinking to facilitate new modes of of structuring consensual power relationships.
FOR MORE:
Follow Ms. Viola's full-time D/s household and take take lessons on how to find and maintain a FLR at http://cathexhishouse.com
Read Ms. Viola's book, 150 Years of Gynarchy at: http://www.smantics.com/VVoltairine/BookInfo.html
Si...
2021-06-1408 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 28: Domestic Service - Level up!Ms. Viola rants a bit about what is and is not real domestic service, and and tells you how to take your service to new levels, beyond being simply a good considerate partner.
Mentioned
Marie Kondo: https://shop.konmari.com/products/the-life-changing-magic-of-tidying-up-1
Do Easy: https://youtu.be/-pjQ0FNzkLQ
150 Years of Gynarchy, by Viola Voltairine:
http://150yearsofgynarchy.com
Follow the day-to-day life at Ms. Viola's 27/7 D/s household Cathexis House, and take lessons on being the best submissive you can be:
http...
2021-05-2616 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 27: PeggingMs. V goes over the ins and outs of anal play and pegging for men and their partners.
This is a segment taken from Obedient Love FLR classes, found at
http://cathexishouse.com
2021-04-2916 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 26: The Hidden Dynamics of D/sMs. Viola discusses the hidden dynamics of attention and energy as they relate to Dominance and submission.
Learn more:
http://cathexishouse.com
Buy Ms. Viola's new book, 150 Years of Gynarchy:
http://150YearsofGynarchy.com
2021-04-1512 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 25: Slave in My PocketMs. Viola talks about how long distance FLRs can be intensely intimate.
http://cathexishouse.com
2021-02-2312 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 24: My Life in a Female SupremacyAt the intersection of Female Led Society and Feminism, Natalia Stroika shares her essay My Life in a Female Supremacy where she envisions a world where women rule. Afterward, she talks a little bit more about the role of imagination and what she might change if she rewrote this today.
Ms. V. mentions the film No Men Beyond This Point: https://youtu.be/cH2LvXVx7uI
For daily journals about living in a 24/7 D/s household, and lessons in FLR:
http://cathexishouse.com
To see clips from Ms. Viola new...
2021-02-0825 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 23: The Company, the DoctorA continuation of our story of slaveC38 as the Doctor preps his body for the initiation ritual.
Transcripts, journals and lessons in FLR at http://cathexishouse.com
2021-01-1817 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 22: The Company, continued...We follow slave38 through his initiation into the world of the Company. And finally, it's Her!
For journals, text, and early uploads: http://cathexishouse.com
Special thanks to Ms. Viola's Trainees and Devotees:
Brett
Phoenix
Wingnut
Jeffbezos
Felix
Hurtle
Soyokaze
rotwang1971
Bruce
Jack
Jason
Justin
Christopher
Nvrmore
and all of the Voyeurs of Cathexis House!
2021-01-0922 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 21: SymbiosisSymbiosis - Ms. Viola discusses what types are there and how that relates relate to D/s and FemDom in particular, and the evolution of the human race in general.
Learn more at http://cathexishouse.com
2020-12-2914 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 20Ms. Viola talks about the many aspects of long term chastity.
Custom devices:
https://www.maturemetal.com/
https://www.evotionwearables.com/
Uniquely Us by Ms. Rika:
https://www.lulu.com/en/us/shop/msrika-/uniquely-us/ebook/product-1v96ge7v.html
2020-11-0419 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 19Part two of the story of The Company. An application to sign your soul away... and a key...
http://cathexishouse.com
Learn how to find and attract Dominant Women by taking the free 3-day video course: http://obedient.love
2020-09-0814 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 18The Company, Part 1: The story of a man draw into something that he may live to regret...
http://cathexishouse.com
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2020-07-2814 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 17A quick first in what will likely become a series on Reality vs. Fantasy in a female led D/s lifestyle. Ms. V. transgresses the taboo topic of raising a child in a real FemDom household, and the unrealistic fantasies about a gynarchic world. Let's begin living the fantasy, and fantasizing about the world we want to live in.
Follow the daily life Ms. Viola's full-time D/s household at http://cathexishouse.com
Learn how to find and attract Dominant Women by taking the free 3-day video course: http://obedient.love
2020-06-2210 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 16Ms. Viola reads a passage from Finding Love Through Female Domination, Chapter 6, Humiliation. In it we get an idea of how Renee thinks and how devoted she has become to the life project of bringing Butler into a state of total surrender. In her writing we get a sense of her persnality, and also how her lover Heather comes into play.
To learn more about the book and the upcoming movie: http://artvamp.com/femdomfilm/
To contribute to the making of the first scene: https://gogetfunding.com/finding-love/
To learn more about full time D...
2020-06-0514 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 15This one is an experiment. Will you allow Ms. Viola to manipulate your unconscious mind? Do you give your consent?
http://cathexishouse.com
FOR MORE:
http://www.kruufm.com/node/6863/Listen+Live.m3u
https://www.google.com/books/edition/Dhalgren/o-5cAgAAQBAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&printsec=frontcover
https://vnsmatrix.net/projects/the-cyberfeminist-manifesto-for-the-21st-century
https://www.utne.com/economy/artificial-scarcity-zm0z15uzsau?fbclid=IwAR1pJ6pE1X3H83QuIdBvkMKZs9zM4eGrLKQQnkuUs0j-6uIr2kCwJSM8vRw
2020-05-2414 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 14This podcast is for couples already in a D/s relationship or for those who want to better understand how to navigate one once they are in it. Ms. Viola talks about the framework of long term full-time D/s, and the communications styles and techniques that make them work!
Books mentioned:
Uniquely Rika and Uniquely Us by Ms. Rika
https://www.lulu.com/en/us/shop/msrika-/uniquely-rika/ebook/product-18nnnpwz.html
https://www.lulu.com/en/us/shop/msrika/uniquely-us/ebook/product-23271408.html
Surrender, Submit, Serve Her by...
2020-05-0525 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 13A midnight full moon special... Ms. Viola muses on Bewitchment and reads an excerpt from Apocalyptic Witchcraft. Surrender at the altar of the dark goddess...
2020-04-0914 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 12Part 2 of Ms. Viola's talk on service. How can a submissive man serve outside of the home, both in his everyday interactions and within the systems of power surrounding us?
And if you want to follow Ms. Viola's day to day journals about her Female Led Household, go to: http://cathexishouse.com
Mentioned:
https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/609114/the-seven-necessary-sins-for-women-and-girls-by-mona-eltahawy/
https://www.versobooks.com/books/2924-feminism-for-the-99
https://www.theguardian.com/news/2018/jun/22/the-age-of-patriarchy-how-an-unfashionable-idea-became-a-rallying-cry-for-feminism-today
2020-01-2523 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 11Service: Ms. Viola talks about the philosophy of service and the three realms of service, and then discusses service in the home. She also shares a new poem!
Get early access to podcasts at cathexishouse.com
2020-01-1418 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 10Ms. Viola discusses consent, why we do what we do, Bob Flanagan the Supermasochist, trauma and the meaning of agency...
http://cathexishouse.com
2019-12-2514 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 09Ms. Viola's final public hypnopost. How deep do you want to go? How do you release the final blocks in the way of your surrender?
Back to the regular content next time...
http://cathexishouse.com
2019-11-0912 min
2019-10-3015 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 07Ms. Viola has something to get off her chest. She vents about entitled dicks and talks about catnip. What's the take home lesson here? And what is coming next time? http://lovethroughfemaledomination.com
2019-09-2516 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 06Who are you? Are you the perfect slave? And what's it like at Cathexis House? http://violavoltairine.com
http://www.cathexishouse.com
http://obedient.love
2019-08-2707 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 05Ms. Viola talks about the progress of her vision, as well as setting expectations for slaves and about real sacrifice and surrender.
Watch the Noami McDougall Jones's docu-series where she interview Ms. Viola at Cathexis House: https://youtu.be/_QoO8sIY46o
2019-08-2014 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 04In this episode Ms. Viola talks about taking on the role of protector for subs (even at the peril of receiving a number of angry threats), and reads from a book called Finding Love Through Female Domination. http://obedient.love
2019-08-1316 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 03Ms. Viola talks about a world where female pleasure is centered, tells you a little fantasy of hers, and interviews two submissive men about serving the needs and desires of dominant women. http://obedient.love
2019-08-0618 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 02Talk of sex toys, sex ed and another erotic story!
http://obedient.love
http://violavoltairine.com
2019-07-3015 min
Obedient Love PodcastObedient Love 01Ms. Viola Voltairine talks about the perception of Dominant Women, and then reads one of her erotic stories! Enjoy!
2019-07-2313 min