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The Musings Of An Angry WomanChapter 5: Never "Do It" For The ChildrenIn this chapter I share how I stayed unhappy for too long, because I thought I had to sacrifice my happiness and put my children's needs first, in order to be a "good" mother. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2021-08-1413 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanChapter 4: Choose AgainIn this chapter I talk about the ability to re-choose your destiny. You do not have to remain where you are. Your life is your story, and you can change the plot any time you wish! Do not become chained to one way of thinking or doing things. There are so many roads that lead to where you want to be. We're not going to be lucky enough to choose the fastest route the first try! Start over again at any time. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport t...2021-08-1215 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanChapter 3: Mistakes Are Meant To Be RepeatedIn this chapter, I talk about repeating patterns, and how we sometimes just match on to someone just so we aren't alone. I have since learned that being alone, was the best thing for my heart, mind, and soul. It allows healing to take place with no distraction of "love", that may not be genuine at the time. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2021-08-0913 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanChapter 2: Get OutTake a listen to Chapter 2 of The Calcination Of A Volatile Life. I tell all about my marriage(s) and hopefully give some good advice. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2021-08-0620 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanChapter 1: When Things Get Bad, They Can Only Get Worse.I've decided to share my book, The Calcination Of A Volatile Life, to this Podcast. I will be posting 2 chapters per week. I believe in sharing what I've learned about myself, in the hopes that my experiences may help someone else in their life. Please excuse some background noise here and there, for I just have the most simple equipment for recording. It is authentically me. ❤❤❤--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2021-08-0511 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanMy Repurposed LifeWho doesn't like to find that 1 of a kind item that has a completely different use than what it was created for? I love searching Goodwills and Saint Vinny's, or garage sale cast-offs, looking for items that I can turn into something useful in my life. Today's Podcast talks about recreating yourself. Coming into the person that you are meant to be. Letting go of old thoughts and opinions that you may have had about yourself or somebody else, and rethinking them, as to see them in a different light. Creating something beautiful from something that was once thought ugly...2021-08-0213 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanWhy I'll Remain SingleI have found that being single isn't the worst thing that has ever happened in my life. It has actually turned out to be the greatest experience I've ever known. And bless all of you in a relationship where you have found someone to compliment your life. But as for me...I think I finally found the one. 😘--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2021-07-3013 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanWhen the Door of Opportunity Can Only Squeeze Through One.How many of you are trying to make changes in your life while holding on to everything you have now? Sometimes change means letting go. Sometimes you have to walk it alone because there is only room for one. Are you going to let the door of opportunity close because it's only slightly ajar, where only you can squeeze through? Sometimes you just can't take everything and everybody with you.But you can come back for those that truly loved and stayed with you during your climb to the top. ❤--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to...2021-07-2411 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanGrieving the Loss of Someone That Never ExistedWe've all been there. And it's crushing. When that person turns out to be not who you thought they were. You were in love with a fake all along. Someone who pretended to be your soulmate. Your friend. And now you are angry and sad at the same time. How will you ever trust again?--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2021-07-2213 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanStop Explaining YourselfEven though I know all the steps to take in a more confident life, I still find myself getting triggered by those that may not have as much faith in my life choices. Their little snide remarks made under their breath, still cause me to feel the need to explain myself to people that don't deserve a word from me. It's just a basic human need to feel accepted by others. And sometimes that includes the naysayers that are not in your corner. STOP! You only need to prove to yourself what you are able to do and why you...2021-07-1511 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanWhat If Change, Changes Everything?We've all heard change is good. I live my life based on this rule. But change can also mean loss. Not only the loss of your old life but everyone that was in it. When finding friendship in others we seem to choose people with like interests. People that we don't have to explain anything too because they already know. So when we make a choice to cut something out of our life chances are we'll be cutting some of the people that went along with it out too. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to m...2021-07-1216 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanYou Are Not Meant To Live In FearThis episode is to reach out to those uncertain. Uncertain on whether or not their lives have any worth or value, because they may feel unimportant. The reason you feel unimportant is because you were either raised unimportant or you are shown every day that you are unimportant by another. It is not who you really are. You have so much to offer the world but are being held back by another. Stop using that excuse and break free. You are meant to be free. Please listen, and allow the love for yourself to creep back into your heart once...2021-07-0616 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanQuit Showing Them You'll Stay Through AnythingYou know, there are those devoted people out there that will stay with somebody no matter what...and in the end, they get, the no matter what. I'm sorry to say that this world is full of more takers than givers. And if you keep giving them chances, they are going to keep on taking. It is impossible for one person to keep a 2 person relationship going. All your efforts are just going to end up in the trash. Open your eyes and see what's going on. Because it's not love. It's control and manipulation.--- This episode is sponsored...2021-07-0214 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanJumping Through HoopsWe've all been there at one time or another, where we are required to do something, or pass a test that another presents in order to prove your love for them. BULLSHIT! Real love and affection doesn't do that. Love is natural. Love is comforting and relaxed. Never forced or attained by hoops of any kind. In this Podcast I speak from my heart and my gut. I lived it and I share it in order for others to learn and protect themselves from a life of constant questioning, and passing tests. That's not love. ❤💯💥--- This episode is sponsored by · Anc...2021-06-2713 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanChapter 10 "Take A Break and Pour Yourself A Drink"Being a mom is hard sometimes. Not only are you expected to maintain a household and participate in the breadwinning, but you're also responsible for other human beings...aka children. I don't care who you are or how much money you make... that's a lot of responsibility. You don't have to do it perfect. Quit comparing your lives to others and don't listen to the mom shamers. There's no one Handbook to this shit. You raise your kids the way you want to raise your kids. The goal is happy and healthy. And that goes for you too.--- This...2021-06-1011 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanEarly RiserJust something short and sweet and to the point. I woke up this morning feeling good. I mean really good. Well how can you feel good when it's still dark outside? I just do. Early mornings are my best hours of the day. I remember thinking "I'm old" when I started going to bed early. Party girl Paula, at one time, closed the bars down. For years. Rising early had caused me to slow down. I've grown to love it so much that I build my daily life around it. If it keeps me up past 10pm... I'm out. Don't...2021-06-0805 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanThe Calm After the StormWe've all heard the phrase "the calm before the storm". But that phrase just invokes worry on what's coming next. It implies that we are never to remain calm because there's always a storm around the corner. That we must never be content where we are now, because everything could change in a blink of an eye. Sure everything can change in a blink of an eye. But I will relish in my contentment knowing that I found my happiness where I am now and not worry what comes next, because I know where to find my happiness again. I...2021-06-0314 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanLoneliness vs SolitudeDon't ever confuse the two. One brings despair and the other brings strength. For years I feared being alone. I surrounded myself with people and ways to keep busy so that I wouldn't be alone. I lived in dread of it. Sometimes the very thing you are afraid of can change your life completely. Face your fears. Dig into them and find the answers that may be there. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2021-05-2312 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanHealing Isn't EasyI want to be openly honest and a little vulnerable with you today. I've been going through some things. It started to surface during the writing of my book *The Calcification of a Volatile Life. Everything I wrote about is something I personally have lived through. I left a while lot of nasty things out, because I felt it violated my family's personal life. Now I am convinced that being completely honest about everything is not only going to make me feel better, but it's also going to help someone else out there going through the same thing. I will...2021-05-2119 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanChapter 6 *The Musings Of an Angry WomanAs many of you know I released a publication in February 'The Calcination of a Volatile Life', and am very proud of myself for taking the steps to make it happen. I have been diligently working on my second book 'The Musings of an Angry Woman', which will release in July of this year. I will read a bit from Chapter 6 to give you a little taste of what my book will be about. It is for the ladies, and does contain explicit language. I hope you enjoy. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a...2021-05-1315 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanBe A LadyI got this reading off of a site that I follow on Instagram @sheonthetipofhertongue. It perfectly describes how women are meant to be all things. It is ridiculous the amount of bullshit we are told throughout our lives. Here is some excellent advice... look as you'd like. Act how you'd like. Be exactly who you want to be and stop apologizing and making excuses for someone else's shitty behavior. 💯 You're either a good human or a horrible human. And your looks have nothing to do with it! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podc...2021-05-0710 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanThe MeetingI recently found myself transported back in time after reading a certain chapter in a new book I bought over the weekend. It reminded me of a certain night, when a chance meeting almost caught me off guard. It's so tragic that women have to constantly keep watch over who they give their affection to. So many predators that come in all shapes and sizes. My advice to you is just remain your true self and honor every feeling that doesn't sit right with you. Don't let your emotions throw you in front of the bus. Because after the climax...2021-05-0307 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanStarting OverSince when is starting over a bad thing? To have the chance at a clean slate and a new beginning is a gift. Sure, there will be hard work involved, but why would that stop you? Look at what you've done up until now? It's been an uphill battle that maybe hasn't worked out for you. So why would you keep choosing to do the hard work and struggle of remaining where you are, over the hard work of creating a new way of life that in the end, will bring you freedom and joy? You do not need to...2021-04-3011 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanMake A ChangeI thought I would get on today and read some more out of my book The Calcination of Volatile Life. It's a book that I wrote to help others obtain the right mindset to achieve goals and to believe in themselves. You need to forgive your past and move forward. Stop allowing pain and embrace feeling good. You're worth it. If you're interested in reading, it is available on Amazon in paperback and e-book. Have a great day!--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.f...2021-04-2714 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanHappy versus ExcitedSo many of us have been taught that being happy and content isn't the way to live. That we need that constant adrenaline rush of feeling excited about everyday. I find that feeling excited is needed to keep us going at times, but happiness is always there to have our backs. It is our safety net. What may seem boring to some, may be exciting to others. We need to stop comparing and listening to what others tell us we need in our lives. Our lives are uniquely different in every way. Be happy in your choices that make you...2021-04-1913 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanWho Are Your People?Just because their family does not mean they are your people. Would you choose some your family members as friends? Would they choose you? Just because we are born into a certain group of people, does not mean we have to continue allowing them to remain in our lives. If they CHOOSE to treat you with malice and harm, it should then be our CHOICE if we want them in our lives or not. You do not have control over where you are placed, but you do have control who you gather with. Let go of the guilt. You have...2021-04-1306 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanBeing Family Does Not Give You a Hall PassFamily can bring so much joy and comfort to our life. But some will not experience that heaven. Family can also bring destruction and despair to our lives. It all comes down to choices. Just because somebody is family does not give them the right to be intentionally hurtful and suffer no consequences for their actions. Family members need to own up to their behavior and take the steps needed to change. If they can't do that, then you have every right to break away from the ties that bind. 💯--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to m...2021-04-1011 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanFill It Up!Sometimes we search our whole lives for that one thing that we are meant to do. Our "purpose" in life. When there are so many other things we are meant to do too. Why do we limit ourselves when it comes to living our lives to the fullest they can be? You are meant for many blessings and wonderful experiences! Your life should be so full that there is no room for "what ifs" or "should haves". Stop living in fear of what others think. Stop allowing yourself to be told what you can or cannot do. You decide. Stop...2021-04-0513 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanLearn To Laugh at ItLife is so much easier when you learn to laugh at some of the crap that goes on. Don't be ruled by your emotions. Sometimes our emotions make what's happening a lot worse than what it actually is. When you go through life afraid people are going to find out how you failed, you're just sabotaging your own happiness. Share your failures. Failure just means you tried something. Your not alone! Laugh at it and move on. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/p...2021-04-0116 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanThe Power of HopeHope has to be the most powerful tool we possess in life. It gets us through some pretty tough times. Through illness and loss. Through heartbreak and the trials of everyday life. We are responsible for our hope. It lies within all of us. Protected and fueled by what we feed it. No one else has the power to distinguish it. Only we have the ability to lose all hope. Quit blaming others for stealing your hope. They don't have the power... You do.--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.f...2021-03-2909 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanBless and ReleaseWe've all been told to forgive and forget. But forgiveness is a gift. It is a gift to the offender but it also is a gift to ourselves. Do not make light of an apology. And I am here to tell you to not forgive so easily. It is a choice. It is a choice that is ours and no one else's. Your feelings are genuine. And your warning signs legit. Learn to tell the difference between a heartfelt apology and a manipulative tactic. Don't be afraid to let go if needed. Forgive doesn't mean to remain. --- This episode...2021-03-2516 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanAuthenticityI have found an Instagram account @sheonthetipofhertongue that inspires me with writings and artwork. I will read a piece that describes exactly what happens as we awaken as women. When age creeps in and you realize what is important and what isn't. I refer to it as "the awakening". When you start to see people for who they really are. When you know the actual truth, versus the lies you've been told. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2021-03-2211 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanTake A Hammer to That ClockI'd like to know where your expiration date is stamped on you. Can't find it? Well, maybe that's because WE DON'T HAVE ONE. Why do we feel rushed when young thinking we have to get everything aligned just right, so that we can just ride the wave for the next 50-60 years? You don't need all the answers ever. You can switch it up at any time. There is no time limit. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2021-03-1519 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanMen Know Exactly What They WantDon't let them fool you. The reason they aren't acting like you are the one, is because you aren't. They already know what they want in a wife, or "soulmate". As defeating as that may be, you have to quit allowing yourself to be used and manipulated. If you are solid in knowing that it might not be forever, and you just want to have a good time, then carry on. But if you are breaking your own heart by staying, knowing what's to come, then end it. End it now, before you're too damaged for the guy that's been...2021-03-1019 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanJust Say It!Why do we hide things from the people that we are going to see naked one day? Why are we so fraid to expose our true feelings to someone we are going to end up living with or have children with one day? Quit beating around the Bush when it comes to how you actually feel about certain things in your life. Quit tip-toeing around the fact that their doing something that's pissing you off and you want it to stop! Here's a little excerpt from my new book that will be released probably in the next couple months. And...2021-03-0714 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanMonday Motivational RantI believe in women. I believe we have the ability to do anything we set our minds to do. Yet we ourselves are guilty in exploiting our bodies and using sex as a way of getting attention. We are as much to blame as men. If you want change you need to create change. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2021-03-0111 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanYour World Doesn't Need Another DickQuit giving him the satisfaction knowing you can't live one day without him... because you can. And live well. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2021-02-2304 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanMonday MotivationJust because you give a little love to yourself does not make you a selfish person. Showing yourself some love by allowing time to do the things that bring you joy, is one of the best gifts that you can give yourself. Finding joy during your work week is as easy as scheduling it in there on your weekly calendar.--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2021-02-2214 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanYou Are Allowed To Be "Difficult"Don't be afraid to be non-compliant. Don't be afraid to say " I don't want that". Don't back down because someone calls you defiant. You know what you want and what you DON'T want. Why would you want to just follow the crowd anyway? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2021-02-1811 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanThe Gift of NothingSometimes, the time we spend alone doing absolutely nothing, we find the most profound. Silence allows thought. Intentional thought. It is where ideas are born. Where dreams are started. Make sure you are allowing time for nothing in your life. And make sure you gift it to others within the home. It is the most precious gift there is. 💖--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2021-02-1513 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanAm I Dreaming Too Big?We all have those nagging urges to get something done. We all have those nagging urges to get something done. And sometimes that something is a neglected dream that we've always had our eye on off in the distance. It's time to bring it into focus! No, you are not dreaming too big!--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2021-02-1115 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanWhy am I Procrastinating?I can see the end in sight. The light at the end of the tunnel. My end goal in view. So, why am I afraid of it actually happening?--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2021-02-0807 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanPrecious TimeMany of us do not realise the importance of time. Time slips through our hands so fast, and we can't get it back. Make sure you are giving the gift of your time to the right people in your life. It is more valuable than any earthly materialistic gift. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2021-02-0313 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanWeapons of Mass DistractionYou are the only thing getting in your way. Your problem is you are thinking way too hard about getting something done. You need to pick and choose what really needs to get done during the day, and let the rest wait. You need to start a new routine. And you need to schedule what you really love doing into your life.--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2021-01-2911 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanThe Want For More MoneyWhat's wrong with wanting more money? And why do people think it's wrong? Money has done great things throughout history. We need to stop the preconceived perceptions that we have formed in our minds about money and financial success.--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2021-01-2518 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanWhat The Hell Is Wrong With Being Single?Why do we get that look when we tell someone we're single? Why must we divulge information on why we're single? Why are we assumingly looking for a mate, because we're single? We need to quit seeing our relationship status, or our sexuality, as something that defines us. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2021-01-2116 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanDivine InterventionSometimes it takes an act of God to interrupt the foolish thoughts that we have. Literally...--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2021-01-1816 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanDo It For The KidsWe all love our children. It's a natural part of parenthood to want to make everything perfect for them. But what happens if it's not? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2021-01-1519 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanThe Elephant StoryI am sharing this story in the hopes that you can see yourself through an elephants eyes. It's a good one. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2021-01-1415 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanComplainers vs ProducersToday is the first day of the new week. What are you going to be? Someone who starts the day with reasons why you're miserable? Or someone who knows why they're miserable, and starts to produce the life they crave. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2021-01-1115 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanI Was BornI absolutely love, love, love this piece written by Sanne Burger. We all can resonate with bits and pieces of this. It cries out to my soul. We are born. Born into this world to learn from our mistakes. To stumble and fall. But, rise again. To rise with more wisdom than before. We all need to find what makes us happy. What gives us life. Quit holding yourself back for somebody else. You were born to live YOUR life.--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: h...2021-01-0906 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanLet's Just Turn It Off!!Let's not give them the attention they want. We have control over how we react to what is going on in our world. Let's just turn it off and keep going towards our goals!--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2021-01-0709 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanPeople Pleaser or a Liar?When you pretend everything is ok, you not only lie to yourself, but everyone else around you too. Who are you trying to help by not being honest about how you really feel? Guess what? You're not helping anyone! Stop pretending everything's OK, and confront the problem head on, so that the steps can be taken to help correct it. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2021-01-0410 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanWho Are You?We all know where we come from, but who are you? Your identity isn't what you do for a living. Your identity isn't how much money you make, or where you live. Your identity includes your beliefs, and your ideals. And just like everything else, it changes sometimes as you get older. You are not the same person you used to be when you were younger. And you will not be the same person you are now, when you get older. It's just a fact. In order to make the right decisions in our life we need to figure out...2021-01-0218 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanStop Treating Yourself Like ShitLet's make this New Year the one where we stop allowing ourselves to be treated badly. Let's learn to have more self-respect. Let's talk kinder about ourselves. Let's feed ourselves healthier food. Let's give ourselves the break we need. Let's forgive ourselves if our mistakes and vow to keep forgiving ourselves. We are human. We with fail. We will fall. But so will everyone else. Quit Beating Yourself Up and start being your best friend! Here's to a new way of living! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport t...2020-12-3109 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanIs It your Passion, or Addiction?Sometimes just a change in your vocabulary can give a whole new meaning and perspective to your mind. We need to learn that how we talk about ourselves or how we talk about others does affect us. In this Podcast I give an example of how just a simple word change, can make you think a little differently.--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2020-12-2910 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanAre you happy with little or miserable with a lot?We are always wanting more. I don't think we are ever truly satisfied. As we go into the new year, let's reflect on what we already have. Let's practice being thankful. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2020-12-2113 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanQuit Beating Yourself UpWe all fail in life. It's just a fact. We don't have all the answers. And we don't always know the right path to take. We need to realize mistakes are going to be a major part in learning about ourselves and others. Accept failure as a gift to try again, or to try something completely different. We have that choice. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2020-12-1810 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanHow to handle the Pot StirrersWe all have certain people in our life that like to create a scene, or drama. They love having an audience, in case they make you lose your cool. They feed off of your reaction. Working in customer service, pretty much my whole adult life, I've learned a few things. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2020-12-1714 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanDare to be DifferentFor many of us we are starting to think of our New Year resolution. Some of us will attempt once again doing the same resolution we hadat the beginning of this year. We need to ask ourselves why, and are we doing this for ourselves? Our goals need to be catered to the real version of who we are. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2020-12-1415 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanQuit asking for permissionThis is for the ladies out there. And I say ladies because it's mostly ladies asking for permission. For some reason we fail to do anything we want to do, without asking somebody first if it's OK to do it. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2020-12-1314 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanHow Not to Lose Your Shit this Covid ChristmasHow are you all doing? Are you trying to keep it together like I am? Are you going to this holiday with blinders on, trying your hardest not to let Covid put a damper on your Christmas? You're not alone. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2020-12-0810 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanQuit playing small for himGirls I understand completely how when you meet somebody that makes your heart flutter, you want to do everything you can to make him love you. But, not being true to yourself isn't the answer. Quit pretending to be something your not for love. If he loved you... he'd love the real you. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2020-12-0718 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanStart reprogramming your mind todayI know it sounds robotic.. like you're done kind of computer. But, in reality you are. You have a brain that can hold endless amounts of information, but consciously only use 95% off its power. Let's look deeper into your amazing mind. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2020-12-0417 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanAre you a Complainer, Consumer, or a ContributorThe longer I live the more I see there are really only 3 categories that people fall into. Which one are you? Let's take a closer look. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2020-12-0218 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanPreciousIt's easy sometimes to forget how significant we are. It took a lot of planning for you to be here. You are not a mistake.--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2020-11-3012 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanPrettyWhy is a person's looks so important to us. For some people, it's the only thing that matters. Why are we drawn to the pretty face? It's actually scientific. But in the real world it takes on a different meaning--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2020-11-2914 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanGaslightingThe oldest form of mind control and manipulation. Some are so good at it, that you don't even realize it's happening to you. I have done some research on the subject, and have also added my own experiences with gaslighting. I hope this helps somebody see the signs. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2020-11-2723 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanThe Brain DumpA full brain causes you to feel overwhelmed. This time of year especially! In this podcast I am explaining why is important to take out the trash. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2020-11-2411 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanKarmaDo you believe in karma? Do you silently sit and wait for karma to show up? How much of your life have you wasted waiting? I for one do not believe in karma. And in this Podcast I will explain why.--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2020-11-2212 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanWhy are you sorry?Too many times, we are apologizing, for all the wrong reasons. To keep the peace. To pacify someone's disruptive behavior. To make someone feel better. This type of behavior is destructive to not only yourself, but it is in no way, helping the other person. Quit being a Fixer!--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2020-11-2015 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanThe TreeLet's take a closer look at the life of the tree. How does it relate to our lives? Well you'll be surprised. I have found nature to be a great teacher these days. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2020-11-1813 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanRunning your life on EmotionsWe all know some people, that take us on every emotional up and down ride they have. People who run on emotion. They are fueled by drama. These people are screaming for help, but they are talking to the wrong people. And a lot of them really don't want help... they thrive on causing drama. In this episode I am going to talk about the emotional roller-coaster we all experience, yet some of us have boundaries, and decide to keep them private. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport t...2020-11-1615 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanAre You A Fixer?Simple question right? Are you the type of person that feels the need to try to fix everything? Not only in your life, but everyone else's too? You're not alone. There are many of us. In going to share my personal experience on how I became a Fixer. It's scary for me to open up about my past, but I feel it might help some of you out there, realize why I talk about some of the things I do. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: h...2020-11-1222 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanReplacing a Habit with another HabitHow many of us have gone to quit something only to find it resurface later on. Bad habits are so hard to quit. And good habits are so hard to establish. We need to replace one habit with another habit, in order for that initial habit to remain gone. But sometimes bad habits aren't always what we eat, or smoke and drink. Sometimes the way we respond, or how we think and act, are just as detrimental to our quality of life. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport t...2020-11-0912 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanBe RealWhy do we spend most of our lives transforming into someone we aren't, just to please somebody? What is wrong with just being yourself? Do you even know who you are? I think the most important step in self-awareness is really learning who we are inside. What do we stand for? What do we believe in? How are you going to ever gain anyone's trust, if you are just pretending to be someone else? We need genuine friendships and relationships in order to be truly happy in life. Don't conform to what they want you to be. All those people...2020-11-0807 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanThe MoonQuietly she sits in the sky, unaffected by us. She influences in silence. She causes many changes in us and on earth, yet her different phases remain the same, as they have for 4.5 billion years. The mystery, and romance that she has evoked. The many poems, books, movies she has inspired. Prayers she has heard, and horrors she has seen. Yet she remains. No harm comes from her rays. We can look at her in all her glory, without shielding our eyes. I hope you come to know her many powers. Look up into the night sky this weekend and...2020-10-3005 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanWomenFor years we have been accused of being mysterious, and unearthly creatures. We see things that sometimes a man cannot. We have an intuition that we can't explain. We were created this way, and have been punished throughout history. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2020-10-2607 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanGirl...You Are Not A BitchThis is for all the ladies out there, that have been told they are cold, and unfeeling because they don't fall for somebody's shit. You are not a bitch... you are just aware. As women, we have a natural instinct to fix things, and make everything better. STOP! The narcissist will prey on people like you! So many times you lend a hand, and they pull you down in the hole with them! Just because you don't fall for their "I'm the victim" act, does not mean you are a bitch. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest w...2020-10-2307 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanWho Are You Begging For Support?I am one of those people that isn't afraid to try new things... Trust me. I have done many things, and put myself out there. And I have flopped, but I also have succeeded in many of them. If you really want to be successful in your new quest, you need to associate with other people that have like passions as you. It's a simple as that. You can follow the course steps, step-by-step. You can read all the how-to books. You can watch all the videos... but you need to surround yourself with motivated people, that share the same...2020-10-1909 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanWhy Do We Get Triggered?We all have that one word that sets us off. We let what people say bother us. Some like to just get a reaction or if us. They find it comical. So why do we continue to give them what they want?--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2020-10-1208 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanYou Are Worthy Of Good ThingsHave you ever been taught that want for things is evil? That wanting is selfish and greedy? Have you ever been called materialistic, because you love to collect things? We need to re-condition our minds. Wanting certain things that bring us joy is part of who we are. We want the best. Instead of opting for the generic version because you feel guilty... wouldn't you love to gift yourself with the real deal? Quit down playing your life. Live it to the fullest with all the things your heart desires. Create your ideal surrounding. Create your little slice of heaven...2020-10-1006 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanStart With An End In MindWe all have dreams. Some of us dream our whole lives without them ever coming true. But how are they going to come true, if we don't breathe life into them? We sit in our hands and pray every night for a miracle. Ummm...no. It's not the actual dream that we crave. It's the person living the dream that we want to be. The end result person. We need to start being that person. That is who we're suppose to be. That is the real you waiting to be born and actually live! Don't just keep your eyes on...2020-10-0806 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanA Lesson in GardeningSometimes we need to tend to our lives, as intending to a garden. Sometimes we need to cut, dig up, rip out, and replant. Life is harsh. In order to flourish sometimes we need to damage ourselves. Sometimes we need to deadhead. Sometimes the lessons are right before our eyes.--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2020-10-0508 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanSunday DinnerDid you ever wish you could go back in time and be that little kid sitting at your grandma's dining room table in Sunday? I miss this memories more and more, now that I'm getting older. I never realized how important those days were. It was the same every Sunday. The same routine every Sunday. But I never tired of it. I want to bring it back. And I hope you do too. Create those memories so that your grandchildren can one day do the same. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. h...2020-09-2808 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanThe Power of PositivityHave you ever noticed, as soon as you give yourself to the universe, and all of its powerful positive energy, all the bad shit seems to fall in your lap? Why is that? And how should we handle it?--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2020-09-2506 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanDon't Tell Me To SmileHey ladies.. This one's for you. How many times have you been told to smile. You're not allowed to frown. You're not allowed resting bitch face. A girl supposed to be pretty. You're upset.. just fake it. Smile for me. Why you gotta be such a downer? You don't have to smile.--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2020-09-1704 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanAll Roads Lead To NowhereI heard this quote and I had to dig into it. It reminded me of life. Our life. You know... Our journey. We may all have the same goal, but we all take our own way of getting there. Some take shortcuts. Some run into roadblocks. For some, the journey is endless. But I believe, how we feel while traveling, is our life pretty much summed up. The events, and memories are what matters. Not the actual destination. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.f...2020-09-0706 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanAnxiety...the fear of uncertaintyWe are all confronted with anxiety in life. It's just natural. But what triggers it? How can we stop it in its tracks? The power lies within you. But first, you have to ask yourself some questions. And be completely honest with yourself. It's scary at times, but beneficial in the long run. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2020-09-0411 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanIs Anybody Out There?Do you feel alone in your passion? Are you trying to get the word out, but just feel nobody is paying attention? Don't give up. Just get better at what you're doing. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2020-09-0305 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanWhen is enough...ENOUGH?Sometimes it seems we are working way too hard at being happy and content with our life. We're doing all the things, but nothing seems to be working. This segment is to maybe help you figure out why? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2020-09-0205 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanChoose Feeling GoodYou have the power over how you react to the events in your life. We make choices every day, and are so ready to blame somebody else, if things don't go as planned. Let's attract good feels. Let's just let shit go. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2020-08-3107 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanDo What You Love... And You'll Work HarderThis episode is aimed at those people afraid to take that firststep towards living out their passion, or "dream job". Most people that start their own businesses work hard. So maybe we are just afraid to work hard. Maybe we are afraid to go through all the steps, and do all the work just to fail. It's a risk... But I feel it's one willing to take. Why do you wanna work 50 years at something you can't stand to do?--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: h...2020-08-3006 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanYou Deserve to be Successful!Money is not evil in the hands of good people. We have to let go of our hidden fear of money. We have the power to be successful. It is our birthright. Just think of all the good things you could do for others, if you were financially wealthy. The first step is to be grateful, and thankful for what you have now. Think about how blessed you are at this very moment. When you feel blessed, you open up for many more blessings. Keep going... make that money. You are entitled to a future of worry free finances. Do...2020-08-2606 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanSharing is Caring... only if you really careSo many of us are out there trying to be helpful, and heard. We all have something to say. But nobody is going to listen, if they sense you really don't care about them. Do you show you care? Do you act caring in your life? Are you teaching, or preaching?--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2020-08-2404 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanDie Young as Old as PossibleGary Young once said this when asked what he wanted out of life. Who doesn't? It's simple really. Take care of your body and mind, and it will stay younger than your age. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2020-08-2205 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanNobody Hustles Harder than Someone Who Hates Asking For ShitSince day one I remember doing things myself. Even though I didn't know what the hell I was doing, I was determined to do it myself because I didn't want anybody to help me. I know that's a sickness..there's gotta be a name for it.But that's just the way I have always been, and I know there's others out there like me.--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2020-08-2104 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanMaybe You're the Reason Why You're SickWe have so many excuses on how our illness is just fate, and it was bound to happen, because stuff like this ran in the family. Really? We need to stop playing the victim, and take responsibility for our health. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2020-08-2008 minThe Musings Of An Angry WomanMy Tuesday RantWhy are some people bothered by every little thing. And why does it seem the older we get and the less time we have on this Earth.. the more that this holds true? Let that shit go!--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2020-08-1804 min
The Musings Of An Angry WomanSuccess Is Not Your RankRank determines your paycheck. Your success is created in your why. Your story on how you started, and the reasons you keep going. Your rank does not determine your success. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/paula-julson/support2020-08-1709 min