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Simpin After DarkYou're Gonna Want Me BackApril joins me to talk about Kali Uchis' latest single, "I Wish you Roses", from her highly anticipated album, Red Moon in Venus, dropping March 3rd, 2023. It's all about releasing people with love and grace, and trusting that you'll be better off, and they'll get what's coming to them. She emphasizes that she expects to be treated like a queen, and if that isn't happening then she'll be gone, and it's their loss. A true bop about self love and not jeopardizing your peace or letting them see you sweat.Then we deep dive some of the...2023-02-161h 11Simpin After DarkIs There More to Love?Today I start by explaining the brat kink that I promised I'd get into last episode, and the kink of telling your sub what to wear. While searching for what that kink is called or if it's even a thing at all, I learned about candaulism, and dollification, which are super interesting so brace yourself for a little history and BDSM sidebar.Elle Eliades's latest single, "More to Love" is a beautiful, soulful tune about feeling bored and distant in a relationship, and wondering if there's more to look forward to or if that's all there is...2023-01-2643 minSimpin After DarkAin't Your Girl No MoreToday I'm getting into UK R&B singer, Jaz Karis's, 7 song EP, "DEAR JAZ" (2022). It's an honest and vulnerable expression of the difficulty of breakups, the back and forths, and becoming whole again. She realizes she's dealing with a narcissist who is breaking her down and making her feel as if she's an option, so she makes the difficult decision to move on and heal, which is a story that many women can relate to. It's a cathartic, moody listen, perfect for a night drive, or for crying your heart out to if you're also going through a break...2023-01-1945 minSimpin After DarkYou Know I Love You GirlHappy new year angels! Tonight I get into an upcoming rnb artist, Avenoir's recent single, "Shameless". His music and vibes are very reminiscent of Brent Faiyaz so you can expect just the perfect dash of toxic lyrics (aka avoidant attachment dynamic). The song is about a back and forth between him and a girl who he "loves" but can't be serious with because of his trust issues and basically telling her that it's a dead end with him so to not pursue him. We've all been there, so we know sometimes these situations can turn into something real, even...2023-01-1246 minSimpin After DarkY'all Lack Humanity, Drowning in VanitySZA finally dropped an album after five long years and I'm getting into some of my favorite tracks from this amazing project, S.O.S. The pick me's made it a point to go out of their way to proclaim how they can not relate and are above the themes that S.Z.A. poured her heart and soul into, so I'm going out of my way to explain why their takes are so surface level, annoying, and unnecessary. A specific femininity coach engaged with a really weird misogynistic tweet so I talk about that and segue into how...2022-12-151h 13Simpin After DarkIf Love Is TrueYung Student Loans joins me to do a deep dive into his latest release, "KING OF THE LOWKEY: AN EMO SPACE ODYSSEY (STORY MODE)". This album tells the story of Yung Student Loans finding out a girl he's been messing with has been proposed to, and the way his feelings change from the beginning to the end. He starts as a side piece who's down for a good time but slowly begins to question if maybe there's more to it. We go on a fun tangent about Kendrick Lamar's song "We Cry Together (ft. Taylour Paige)", and the normalization...2022-12-081h 32Simpin After DarkLost Without YouAlmondmilkhunni joins me today to talk about her new song "MISS U". It's about missing her man when he leaves to go on tour, and trying to hold it together and to not act out because of it. It's similar to being in a long distance relationship so we talk about the ups and downs and how to get through it. We talk about her journey as an artist for a bit and her process of making music and staying true to herself and what she loves. Then we dive into Teal Swan and the phenomenon of the social...2022-12-011h 24Simpin After DarkCould've Been a LoverTonight I'm getting into JAKHKOY's latest single, "Bitter", which is all about grieving something that could've been. We've all had talking stages that failed, or even just grieved a potential future with someone that keeps giving you hope but stays bailing. It sucks, and we might feel bitter, but all you can do is accept it and move on. Then I get into some really good Tik Tok material that all focuses on Men's Mental Health Awareness Month. A lot of men don't want to hear it but toxic masculinity goes hand in hand with having poor mental health...2022-11-2452 minSimpin After DarkCan't Make Him BetterMy guest, Karagan, joins me today to get into some of Lana Del Rey's songs including, "Young and Beautiful", "Shades of Cool", and an unreleased song, "Put Me in a Movie". They all dance around the themes of society's obsession with women's youth and beauty and its perceived time limit, the power that men hold over women and their desire for that youth, and just age gaps in relationships in general. Men seem to be freaking out that women are ok with being single more and more, so we dissect how that pushes them to go after younger women...2022-11-101h 18Simpin After DarkPsycho Lover Vol. 3It's the Halloween special edition episode! Join me and my reoccurring guest, April (my sister), to talk about the songs, "Pain" & "Just For Me", from PinkPantheress's 2021 mixtape, "To Hell Wit It". Both songs lean into the themes of unhealthy romantic obsessions and breakups. We talk about creepy behaviors we may or may not have participated in before like driving by someone's house to catch them cheating, obsessing over an ex, doing weird things to manipulate someone into a relationship, and lots more. Then I read three listener submitted stories about your experiences with psycho lovers and dealing with stalkers...2022-11-031h 27Simpin After DarkBe Honest with MyselfToday I'm getting into the lyrics behind Baby Tate's latest mixtape, Mani/Pedi. It focuses on being honest about the relationships we have with others, and ourselves. I picked 8 songs: “Ain’t No Love” (ft. 2 Chainz), Do Better, Karma, Sl*t Him Out Again (ft. Kali), Mani, 4Lifers, What’s Love, & Honest. There are so many great themes from being smart about who you cry over, being scared to fall for someone, reevaluating what love means to you, being honest with yourself about your own toxic habits, and lots more. I also had time for the Pick Me Patrol segment...2022-10-2754 minSimpin After DarkBlocking You on EverythingWelcome to season 6 of Simpin After Dark!Today I’m talkin about Ari Lennox’s newest album, age/sex/location, focusing on the songs: “POF”, “Waste My Time”, “Boy Bye (Ft. Lucky Daye)”, “Leak it (Ft. Chlöe)”, “Blocking You”, & “Queen Space (Ft. Summer Walker”. It’s all about the transitional space of growth and self-love that most of us go through at some point in our healing journey. It’s normal and natural to crave love and connection but learning to get past being desperate is important if we want to find healthy relationships.Ari sings about dealing with play...2022-10-201h 04Simpin After DarkBridesmaids, Weddings, and Bad BunnyIt's the season finale y'all! I had to end it off with my girls April and Alexa so it's a family affair and we're talking Bad Bunny's song "Tití Me Preguntó" from his recent album Un Verano Sin Ti. It's about him loving his single life and being too scared of love, or trusting anyone. In the music video, he gets kidnapped and dropped off at his wedding where his real life girlfriend comes down from the sky looking like an angel and they get married, so we dive into what this all could mean and what it must be l...2022-06-091h 24Simpin After DarkHow Could You Switch UpMaster Steph came through to get into Ella Mai's song, "How" ft. Roddy Rich, from her latest album Heart On My Sleeve. It's all about someone switching up on you when you least expected it, so in turn you have to learn to be on your own and work on your self, because at the end of the day, time heals, but you gotta do the work if you wanna come out better than before. We jump straight into the Netflix show, "The Ultimatum", which is about 6 couples who all gave their partner an. ultimatum to get married to mo...2022-06-021h 27Simpin After DarkBaby I Ain’t The EnemyI got a solo episode talking about ImaniCarolyn's 2021 song, "Water". It's a bop! It's all about tryna break free from someone who won't stop playing games but also won't let you go. I'm also catching up on a few topics from previous episodes that slipped my mind. I'm talking about girls that try to be the cool girlfriend by breaking their neck to check out girls asses with their men. There are layers to how dumb and embarrassing it is. I also read an excerpt from "Attached" about the importance of having a "secure base" in a relationship and...2022-05-2649 min
Simpin After DarkThat’s Why I Love HerToday I'm getting into Ne-Yo's 2008 song, "Miss Independent", with a guest - ceci bendita. The song is all about Ne-Yo seeing a woman being a boss, getting it all by herself, and him being obsessed and so happy that it seems like he doesn't need to offer or do anything for her. It's funny hearing this song and thinking about the meaning now that we’re older. We talk about the relevance the song had back in 2008 when women were first starting to celebrate being on their own, making their own money, and divorcing ain't sh** dudes. Before that, wo...2022-05-191h 29Simpin After DarkAin’t Plan To Be Stuck With YouI'm getting into Megan Thee Stallion's song, "Plan B" today! It's all about knowing your worth and not putting your faith into an ain't sh** man. I talk about how some jealous insecure people will try to date your ex when you're done with them and how a lot of times it's because they wanna be you, but you can't pay them no mind. Of course I had to get into abortion rights and contraception, being that the title is "Plan B", and that women's rights are being threatened. I strongly encourage women to be smart about who they...2022-05-1256 minSimpin After DarkSomething About YouIt's a special episode today! I'm getting into the song "ABT U", by BLKGLFNKS, who also happens to be my guest today. It's his second time on the podcast, and we're going over his lyrics on his new song dropping this Friday, April 29th, so we're getting a special sneak peak! "ABT U" is about meeting someone that looks just like ur type and becoming immediately infatuated and watching your whole life together flash before ur eyes. It all seems like a dream until you start psyching yourself out and thinking about all the ways it can go wrong...2022-04-281h 31Simpin After DarkThe Problem With YouThis episode I'm getting into Sabrina Claudio's song, "Problem With You", from her 2019 album Truth is. It's all about the struggles of an over thinker with an anxious attachment dealing with a partner that doesn't take any accountability about the way their behavior is damaging the relationship and the way they feel. Part of the problem of course can be the nitpicking and constant over-analyzing, but dealing with someone that leaves you hanging and puts you in a position to constantly fill in the blanks, is only gonna make the situation worse. I also talk about JT, lil uzi ve...2022-04-1450 minSimpin After DarkFor This Lifetime and MoreToday I'm getting into MARG's song, "Promise Me" which is all about falling for someone quickly and feeling like it was destined and you're meant for one another. It leads into a conversation about how when we apply to much pressure with someone that doesn't like you, you look like a creep, and some people need to learn to read social cues better. I also talk about the difference between being controlling and setting boundaries. Then I talk about dealing with anxiety in a relationship whether it be you or your partner, and the effects of being in fight...2022-04-0748 minSimpin After DarkDon’t Wanna RewindI'm getting into Lucky Daye's song, "Over", from his recent album Candydrip. It's about that toxic relationship that you keep going back to and feels impossible to let go of. He compares it to being trapped in a bad dream that you can't escape. Sometimes we fear letting go of someone because we think they might change for the next person and if we would've just been patient and given them one more chance, then it could've been us. Then i get into some Twitter discourse about a woman saying she stopped seeing a guy because he didn't compliment h...2022-03-3139 minSimpin After DarkShoulda Stayed CelibateI'm getting into "Post Nut Clarity" by Alemeda this week so you know I have lots of fun topics. Alemeda's music is super fun, and in this song she speaks on some really relatable feelings that most woman have probably been through. It's all about hooking up with someone when your mind wasn't right, and immediately regretting it and feeling like it wasn't worth it at all. Sex should be a mutually enjoyable thing and you should only be with someone that you're comfortable enough with to speak up about your needs. Hookup culture has kinda proven itself to...2022-03-2439 minSimpin After DarkUsed To Be In LoveYung Student Loans joins me for tonight's episode. We get into Reggie Becton's song "Issues" from his 2021 debut album, California. It's about a relationship gone sour because of too many issues and games being played. We talk about "dating" versus "hanging out", and why you need to always communicate what a situation is. Then we get into the phenomenon of post-nut clarity and post-nut euphoria in terms of a bumpy relationship, and whether continuing to have sex in those situations is even a good idea or if you should remain celibate. Is there such thing as over-communication? Someone sent...2022-03-171h 23Simpin After DarkIt Ain’t EasyToday's song and conversation starter is "Ain't Easy" by Muni Long. She's a singer and songwriter who's been in the game for a long time. She used to go by Priscilla Renea when she was doin more songwriting and in the pop lane, but recently did a rebrand and went full R&B when she put out her EP "Public Displays of Attention". The most popular song from it is probably "Hrs and Hrs", but today I wanted to be real about toxic relationships and the way a fight can really make a couple hate each other and forget...2022-03-1642 minSimpin After DarkWhen It’s RealI got another solo episode for u guys today, featuring a song by an artist that is new to my rotation that I'm super excited about. Lou Val's song "Eternal Sunshine" from his EP, Tayo And The Dreamer, is such a dreamy love song with a psychedelic indie pop feel and just the right amount of R&B. It's all about the infatuation stage of falling in love. The part where you're blind to any possible red flags, and everything is all rainbows and butterflies. Everyone questions whether they're falling too fast but it feels good so you don't ev...2022-03-1650 minSimpin After DarkPretty and SadI'm getting into FKA twig's mixtape, CAPRISONGS, today because I've been obsessed and it has such a good message while also being fun and playful. Trigger warning for this episode I'm getting into some explicit-ish details about her relationship with Shia LaBeouf, which was very abusive, so the details can definitely be upsetting. She's done many interviews in order to be a voice for women who have had to deal with abuse, both physical and emotional. Her story is inspiring and she was able to use this mixtape as a cathartic experience to regain her self confidence, self identity...2022-02-2458 minSimpin After DarkDrunk On LoveWelcome back everyone! It’s the season premier and I’m jumping right into all the fun juicy topics with a recurring special guest, April - director & producer at Wild 7 Studios (also, my sister). As always I picked a bop to get into - “Party Tricks” by Äyanna, which is all about being stupidly in love with someone who doesn’t love you back and could not care less if you disappeared from their life. This beautiful and sad song ties in so perfectly with some other topics we get into - Euphoria episode 04, Maddy’s messy a** birthday party. This s...2022-02-171h 28Simpin After DarkYou Were Busy ChasingIt's the season finale y'all! I picked a song from 2019 cuz it's a bop and it still hits - "Hide Out" by Mahalia, from her album Love and Compromise. It samples bits from an Eartha Kitt interview throughout the song, that go along with the theme of self love and the unwillingness to compromise when you know your worth. Mahalia addresses a man that cheated on her and was chasing women while feeding her false promises of a future together. I get into a lot of topics including, going through phones, serial cheaters, rumors, liking other girls pics on i...2021-12-0251 minSimpin After DarkYou‘re Driving Me AwayAdele finally dropped an album, 30, and it did not disappoint. The whole project is so beautiful and sad from front to back, but I'm talking about the song, "Woman Like Me". It's the "diss track" of the album and it hits for anyone going through a breakup or divorce. She is super honest and vulnerable but she keeps it classy of course. It's the perfect song for anyone that knows their worth and knows that they tried their best in a relationship, but in the end has to let go of someone who can't match their energy. Th...2021-11-2541 minSimpin After DarkStill Over ItYou know I had to get into Summer Walker's highly anticipated sophomore studio album, Still Over It. Not gonna lie it's definitely still growing on me, but to be fair, it's hard to top Over It, so it's understandable. I talk about my favorite song on the album, and then I get into all the drama between Summer & London on Da Track. I start at the top of the album and work my way down, touching on topics like, being bitter, being a ride or die for a dude that ain't sh**, baby mama & baby daddy drama, cheating, healing...2021-11-1133 minSimpin After DarkPsycho Lover Vol. 2This is the second annual Halloween special edition episode, Psycho Lover Vol. 2. Master Steph joins me to get into Mariah The Scientist's song, "2 You", from her latest album RY RY WORLD. It has the perfect haunting vibes for this episode, and it's about grieving a relationship that had to end, but looking back and appreciating it for what it meant to her.Then we dive into attachment theory and how it pertains to relationships. The different attachment styles are secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized/fearful avoidant. They all have negative effects on relationships and it's important to b...2021-10-281h 30Simpin After DarkWho Knew We‘d Make It This Far?This episode is all about marriage, and my girl Erica Mo came thru to dive all the way into it. Of course marriage is a beautiful thing, but this episode we're getting into all the not so fun parts that people don't really talk about. Marriage isn't some willy nilly decision you can take lightly so we get into all the things you should consider before saying "I do". Jagged Edge has probably the most popular RnB wedding song in the game, "Let's Get Married", so I had to get into some of those lyrics, and one of their...2021-10-212h 12Simpin After DarkI Broke Your Heart, Huh?Today I'm talking about the song "Your Heart", by Joyner Lucas & J. Cole. It's such a bop and it's all about this dude facing the reality that he lost a good girl and that it's all his fault for being a f***boy. J. Cole hops on to hold his homie accountable and let him know that, yeah she's probably about to be out doing her own thing and you can't even be mad because you did this to yourself. Like he says in the song, "What goes around, comes around". I talk about whether getting dick for revenge...2021-10-1450 minSimpin After DarkNow You‘re Scared To Be AloneBLKGLFNKS joins me on this episode to talk about Doja Cat's song "Alone", from her latest album Planet Her, released in June. It's all about feeling alone in a relationship and being ready to dip out and be alone. Sometime we stay in a relationship because of comfortability or because we don't wanna be alone, even if it's turned toxic and we know deep down it's best to be alone. We also talk about the scandalous situation of meeting someone and then realizing maybe you like their friend better, but how maybe that's the way it was meant to...2021-09-301h 26Simpin After DarkOver and Over AgainI'm talking about Shelley FKA DRAM's song "Exposure", from his self titled comeback project released in February of this year. It is soo good and all about deep sensual love. He talks about the vulnerability of opening up and "exposing" yourself to someone you love in order to build a life together. I also briefly get into his hiatus, the reason for his stage name changing, and his relationship.Then I get into a poll I did on instagram about whether or not it's a good idea for men to stay sober with their wives for the...2021-09-2335 minSimpin After DarkSomething Inside Has DiedThis episode I'm getting into the myth that after marriage your sex life dies, and how the blame seems to be put on women. I'm also talking about Fousheé's song "2 l8" from her latest project Time Machine, which uses the chorus from the 1971 song "It's Too Late", by Carole King. The original song is a timeless classic and I really love Fousheé's rendition because it takes on a different perspective on a love that has gone past the point of salvation. You gotta nurture the relationship while it's good or lose it forever.I came ac...2021-09-1637 minSimpin After DarkThat‘s How Much I Love YouThis episode I'm covering a lot of important juicy topics. First I start with getting into Tinashe's song "Unconditional" from her album, 333. The album is one of my favorites so far this year and although it's bop after bop, I picked this song to get into because it perfectly sheds light on how toxic the idea of unconditional love is. It's really manipulative and women have been brainwashed into eating up the idea that being a "ride or die" is something to be proud of. In reality, with the wrong partner, it's degrading, humiliating, and will wear you down...2021-09-021h 01Simpin After DarkYou Don‘t Know What Love IsRyan & Troy from the AntiArt Podcast joined me for a fun crossover episode. We talked all about breakups, from how messy they can be, to different ways of breaking up, reasons for breakups, common courtesy, rebounds, rules, and more. We had to get into Summer Walker's song "Session 32" which is super short and sweet but one of my favorites. It's about peoples definition of love and fighting for a relationship that's falling apart, with a dash of toxic sentiments. Ryan and Troy shared some stories about crazy relationships, breakups they've gone through, boundaries, staying friends with exes and more...2021-08-261h 16Simpin After DarkNo Matter the DistanceGot another solo episode today with lots of tips and information about long distance relationships. It's probably no ones ideal situation but life happens and you never know if you might end up on one one day. The most common reasons are going away for school, getting a new job, or some kind fo family emergency where you have to tag along. Another reason could be if you have to travel a lot for your job, which is what Ambré talks about in her song "The Catch Up", which was released along with "Alone" in December of 2020. It's about b...2021-08-1957 minSimpin After DarkCan't Be True LoveThis episode I'm talking about South African singer, Elaine, and her latest single "Right Now". It's all about dealing with someone who is all talk with no progress to make up for their BS, and being ready to move on from that. It's all about focusing on yourself so much to the point that there's no looking back, and even if you wanted to, you're too busy to even consider it. Breakups are hard but when your a bad b**** you can not date someone insecure, because they will tear you down. They will be your number one undercover...2021-08-1228 minSimpin After DarkEverything I'd Never WantWelcome back! This is the Season 4 kickoff and new episodes will be back every week from now on, Wednesdays at 7pm PST. Yung Student Loans (featured on Season 3's episode "Wanna Give You Love") joins me again to talk all about dating apps. We start by getting into Jenevieve's 2020 song, Baby Powder. It was the second single she dropped right after Medallion, which is another bop. She's a new artist on the come up, working on her album and I'm excited to hear more. Baby Powder is about being really into someone but then you see who t...2021-08-051h 25Simpin After DarkDaddy IssuesThis is technically episode 1 of season 4, BUT, think of it more as a preseason episode before I come back in August with regularly scheduled episodes. I'm talking "daddy issues" in honor of Father's Day which just happened this past weekend. I get into Rihanna's song "Kiss It Better" off her ANTI album and use it to show how her relationship with her dad affected her adult relationships, specifically the one with Chris Brown. It's such an amazing song with so much emotion and too many relatable sentiments of pride, desiring affection, and toxic relationships. I talk about how misogyny...2021-06-2444 minSimpin After DarkBout to Feel the Wrath of a MenaceLast episode of the season! Master Steph joins me again to talk all about narcissistic personality disorder (npd), and most importantly the scary real life effects of narcissistic abuse. It can have detrimental effects on the brain and one's mental health. As always we get into some lyrics to get the conversation started, so for this episode we talk Jhené Aiko's "Triggered (Freestyle)". I also played a tik tok made by Lee Hammock (@mentalhealness) to get into the topic of gaslighting, manipulation, and reactive abuse. We also talk about an article that was sent to me about a woman, V...2021-05-201h 17Simpin After DarkLivin With Your BooThis episode is dedicated to all of the important things people need to talk about before moving in with their significant other. The lovely VAL, host of the Reflections with VAL. podcast, or Soulfully_VAL on instagram, joined me and blessed me with her experience and knowledge on the topic. Together we went over all the submitted tips people gave me on instagram and dove deep, because there was a lot. We touch on machismo, using babies/moving in together as a "quick fix" to save a relationship, boundaries with having visitors, cleanliness, date nights, splitting bills, personal space...2021-05-131h 20Simpin After DarkAlways Ready For Your LoveThis episode my girl Krystal joins me to talk about Charlotte Day Wilson's song "Take Care of You" ft Syd. It's another simpy one, this song is basically about being so passionately in love with someone who isn't ready for your love quite yet. We talk about how people should always give their all in a relationship even if you've been hurt before cause that's the only way you'll ever find real love again. The conversation takes some wild turns and we get into the topics of porn, masturbation, intimacy & sexual compatibility, dating while being bisexual/queer, staying friends...2021-05-061h 01Simpin After DarkDon't Wanna Be Your Game BoyThis episode I'm talking about Alex Mali's song, "Start It Up", from her 2019 EP, Sweet & Sour. Joining me today is the talented Ivan Leon, who is a creative director in Los Angeles. He came through with some wisdom and we had a blast talking about the many facets and current state of dating culture. He's an Aquarius & I'm a Virgo so we get into our similarities and differences when it comes to questions like - Is omitting info the same as lying? How to tell if someone actually likes u or just wants to mess with u? Can it...2021-04-291h 03Simpin After DarkNeed a Real One By Your SideNightshade Collective joins me once again for a fun episode talking about Yo Trane's song, "Rider" from his 2021 album Time & Space. April & Alexa chime in on the topic of being an "alpha" woman - being independent, making your own money, being outspoken, not taking anyone's bullsh**. A woman who is independent is idealized in so many ways but in reality a lot of people can't handle it. We also talk about being the "naggy" partner and why it's misconstrued and actually a good thing. Then we dive into the dreaded topic of submitting to your partner in a relationship, w...2021-04-221h 17Simpin After DarkWhen Did I Say I Was Interested?I got a solo episode today and I'm talking about Numi's song "Hit Me Up", from 2018. We all know those guys that won't take no for an answer that keep asking you out, so you finally give in but you let them know it's just as friends, and they STILL get the wrong idea. Or the guy that slides in you and all your girls DM's thinking that's the move. Some men cannot read social cues, so that's what I'm talking about today, cause someone needs to help them.I also get into a tweet that went...2021-04-1539 minSimpin After DarkI Pray You Catch MeThis episode is all about cheating and staying together. It happens more often than we think, yet it's still frowned upon and shamed, but we don't judge over here, so we're talking about how to make that work, why it happens, and when you should or shouldn't give it a shot. Not all cheaters are created equal so this is not to normalize it at all, but more to give some insight into what it takes and how much work is required to make it to the other side in a healthy way. My guests Ailec & Ayvione are a...2021-04-081h 23Simpin After DarkWanna Give You LoveYung Student Loans joins me on this episode, where we get into anaïs & Azekel's song, "Learn To Love". We also listen to a clip of his latest song "iiWii" and he explains the meaning behind it and why he doesn't f*** with sending generic love songs as a way to be romantic. We talk about his experience being polyamorous, why he doesn't experience jealousy, and the science of threesomes. We also talk all about the Saweetie & Quavo situation, open relationships in Hollywood, Will & Jada, and more.Follow Yung Student Loans on IG @yungstudentloansCheckout h...2021-04-011h 20Simpin After DarkGood Day in My MindWarning: We discuss certain drugs in this episode, not to promote their irresponsible or illegal use, but to educate and inform people of responsible hypothetical consumption.This episode I'm talking magic mushrooms & weed, with my girls April Mendoza (my sis) & Master Stephanie. We get into SZA's latest single, "Good Days", and talk all about our experience with shrooms, weed, mental health, staying present, spirituality, psychosis, etc. Steph mentions how important it is to be aware of the drugs u consume and doing research beforehand, especially if you're combining them. Certain drugs can have horrible reactions together and...2021-03-251h 02Simpin After DarkThat's My Best FriendThis episode is all about friendships, and I'm talking about the song "Girl", by Destiny's Child, with my girls Alexa & Crystal. The song focuses on Beyoncé and Michelle trying to get Kelly to open up to them about her relationship because they can see it's bringing her down. We've all been on both sides of that situation as friends so we talk about how we handle situations like that and how people shouldn't go about it. We also touch on the importance of having solid friends, how we handle falling outs w friends, having friends of the opposite sex w...2021-03-1839 minSimpin After DarkIf You Tryna Lay in These ArmsGot another solo episode for you today I'm talking about Anderson .Paak and Bruno Mars' new song, "Leave The Door Open". They formed a group, Silk Sonic and they are on their funky, soulful, simpy sh*t so u know I had to get into it. I recorded this episode on international women's day btw so I also went on a tangent about women supremacy and how some of you men don't deserve us cause u ain't doing enough. Had to rant about feminism & the patriarchy for a second so bare with me I just needed to get it o...2021-03-1132 minSimpin After DarkTipsy on Your LoveToday I'm talking Chloe x Halle's song "Tipsy" from their album Ungodly Hour, w my special guest Naz Red. He talks about his experience being love bombed and dealing with some crazy a** women, and how we sometimes miss huge red flags. We talk about how the older we get the less shit we're willing to put up with and how dedication to your career can sometimes mean putting your love life on hold. Also, do better looking women get away with being more crazy? How early is too early to make the "don't break my heart or I'll k...2021-03-0450 minSimpin After DarkFine Line Between Love & HateTRIGGER WARNING: Self harm/Physical & emotional abuse/SuicideThis episode I have April Mendoza and Alexa Morales (my Nightshade Collective sisters) on to get into some wild topics. We talk all about the new Netflix movie, "Malcolm and Marie" starring Zendaya and John David Washington, which, in short, is about a couple having a crazy a** fight, so SPOILER ALERT. We tie it all together by getting into Raveena's song, "If Only", which is about her getting out of an abusive relationship, reflecting on it, and dealing with the aftermath. Me and the girls reflect on our...2021-02-251h 16Simpin After DarkAin't Here For LoveThis episode I talk CHIKA's song, "FWB", with my guest Stephanie. We've all either been involved in a friends with benefits situation or have contemplated it, so we discuss the factors that need to be considered. Sometimes people decide they want a FWB because of the timing and things goin on in their life, but sometimes they decide based on a predetermined criteria they have for potential partners vs f*ckbuddies. I asked my instagram followers on my story what their criteria is, so I went over all that with Stephanie and we talked about our own. We also...2021-02-1853 minSimpin After DarkStill My BabyI'm simpin alone tonight y'all, and of course I picked the saddest song ever, "Stuck On You", by Giveon. It's the last song on his EP, When It's All Said And Done, and it's all about that relationship you just can't bare to leave. It's that one relationship that is stuck in purgatory and you're too embarrassed to even tell your friends that you're still seeing that person. I think we've all been there at some point in our lives and hopefully you escaped that cycle cause it is like an addiction. I make sure to distinguish between a r...2021-02-1129 minSimpin After DarkLove Me Like You DoWe're talking Ariana Grande's song "pov" from her 2020 album Positions. It's the last song on the album and it's the perfect culmination of her learning to love herself, radiating her sensual side, and continuing to accept love from another person fully without letting it define her or break her. In POV she's grateful for the love she's receiving from someone and she just wishes she could see herself through his point of view so that she can love and trust herself the same way. People always say that the hardest relationship you'll have is the healthy one after a t...2021-02-0443 minSimpin After DarkHeaux and TellFor our season 3 opener we are diving all the way into Jazmine Sullivan's EP, Heaux Tales. It's such a cohesive body of work that it wouldn't have been fair to just pick one song. It gets into the complexities and struggles of being a woman which are all too relatable whether you're in your early or late twenties, thirties, or even sixties and beyond. We touch on all the controversial and highly debated topics of using sex appeal to bag a rich dude, financial standards while dating, hoeing and being reckless to cope with the remorse of messing up...2021-01-281h 42Simpin After DarkGot Me Way Too OpenYou already know we love Kehlani on Simpin After Dark so we had to do her song "Open(Passionate)" from her amazing album, It Was Good Until It Wasn't. We also have a special guest for this episode! Zoey Trope, a relationship coach specializing in polyamory, takes our phone call and answers all our questions about the topic. We asked our listeners on instagram to send us questions to ask so we got right to it. We cover everything from common misconceptions, jealousy, communication, boundaries, hierarchy, terminology, sex and STI safe practices, and so much more. Make sure to f...2020-12-241h 21Simpin After DarkASStrology HoesThis episode we're talking all about astrology with our girl Alexa. We picked Beyonce's song "Signs" from her album Dangerously in Love, just as a fun recap of all 12 signs. We briefly get into every sign's modality, element and traits. We also talk about body parts the signs rule and what planets they're ruled by and how it can affect them. Alexa explains how astrology can be used as a tool to help anyone from people in romantic relationships, friendships, family, to self reflection and growth. A really important part of learning about astrology is discovering your own natal...2020-12-171h 43Simpin After DarkAre You Lowkey Bitter?This episode we're talking about Melii's song "See Me" from her album phAses. We also had our friend Mayron on as a guest to chime in from a dude's perspective. We talk all about being lowkey hurt by someone but trying to front on social media like you're not. Sometimes it's obvious to the other person and we know this yet we still do it. Sometimes we do it because it's part of the healing process. Mayron tells us his experience with being ghosted and the struggles of the single life and dealing with people who aren't up front...2020-12-1057 minSimpin After DarkSingle AF & Ready For WhateverThis episode we're talking about Fousheé's new song "Single AF". Her song "Deep End" went viral on Tik Tok, so V checked the rest of her catalogue and found this lil bop. It's a soulful, feel good song whether you're single or not. We talk about the importance of taking time for yourself after a breakup in order to make sure you let all the sad out, and reflect on everything that happened. If you don't do this then you can't really glow up, sorry, we don't make the rules. Once you know you've put in the work t...2020-12-0339 minSimpin After DarkJust Like HeavenThis episode we talk about the song "New Religion" by NSTASIA, from her 2017 album New Religion. It's another simpy mushy episode! The comparison between love and religion is made all the time in music, and it's beautiful, we can't get enough, but we gotta talk about how songs like this, or music/movies in general, maybe set an unrealistic expectation of what love is supposed to feel like. Idealizing love can be harmful to your romantic relationships or to your own emotional wellbeing, because it can leave you feeling empty, disappointed, or unfulfilled. On the positive side, it's ok to...2020-11-2551 minSimpin After DarkCould Never Be RealThis episode we're talking "The Recipe" by SiR, from his album Chasing Summer. It's about a woman being super into him and him letting her know that it's just a fling. She keeps wanting more of him but it's something he can't give her. We dissect a lyric in which he insinuates in a double entendre that this fling doesn't compare to his girl back home, so we dive into the topic of temptation. There is always going to be temptation when you're in a relationship but you can't act on fleeting emotions, or you'll ruin something real. SiR...2020-11-1956 minSimpin After DarkLovers and FriendsThis episode we’re talking "More Than a Lover" by Etta Bond ft. SiR, off her 2019 album, He's Mine. We discuss losing yourself in a romantic relationship and three major points:People that forget all about their friends when they get a significant otherDifferent types of soulmates - can your friends be more fulfilling in your life than a S/O ?How to maintain a sense of self in a relationship We talk about losing friends and losing ourselves, and everything in between. Sometimes you can have a toxic friendship and find a partner to help you out...2020-11-1252 minSimpin After DarkCant' Get EnoughThis week we have another special episode! We talk "Love On the Brain" by Rihanna, from her album ANTI, and we had Stephanie come back to talk all about narcissistic personality disorder(NPD) and how it can affect relationships. TRIGGER WARNING: We talk about NPD, borderline personality disorder (BPD), codependency, abuse - both physical and mental/emotional, and things of that sort. Just listening to Rihanna's lyrics we can assume she is singing about someone with NPD, and also that she has codependency issues, which can be a trait of an individual with BPD. Someone with NPD b...2020-11-051h 34Simpin After DarkPsycho LoverThis is our special edition Halloween episode, and we're talking about relationship horror stories. We cover everything from, horrible tinder dates and scary one night stands, to psychotic exes and toxic revenge stories. We asked our listeners to send us voice memos or emails, and we set all the spooky campfire vibes, so stick around till the very end for all the scary stories.The song we listen to this week is "Wicked Games", by The Weeknd. It starts and ends with all the right toxic ass lyrics, and has the perfect dark vibe to it. It's...2020-10-291h 41Simpin After DarkDo You Miss Me?This week we're listening to DVSN's song "Miss Me?" from their album A Muse in Her Feelings. It says all the things we want to say to that one person we're always missing but too scared to spill our true feelings to. Sometimes we turn to going out and consuming some drinks to help cope with missing someone, but everyone is different. It's always hard being on the receiving end of an "I miss you" text or call, because you gotta wonder if they mean it or if they're just lonely and in their feelings, maybe drunk, who knows? W...2020-10-2241 minSimpin After DarkLive with LIFE ELSEWHEREIf you tuned in last Wednesday you knew we had a special live episode with none other than @lifeelsewhere2k2k We talked Snoh Aalegra’s ‘Dying 4 Your Love’ which you know got us all in our feelings. We talk creative process, lyrics inspiration, and of course some ex’s. We also did our first giveaway, shout out to @neaakan and @rshiau for interacting with us, so make sure you tune in to our lives for fresh artists and merch giveaways. Follow Me on IG/Twitter/Tik Tok @simpinafterdarkFollow Ashley @ash_friday_ on IGGo like...2020-10-2154 minSimpin After DarkRide or DieWe got a bonus episode this week in honor of Wild 7 Week y'all! We're talking Blxst's song, "Wrong or Right". We all love a loyal partner that works hard and when those things happen, we're down to ride or die. We will hold it down for someone if and only if they are worth holding it down for. A controversial topic we bring up is whether being supported financially makes it harder to leave if your partner were to cheat. There's also an issue with the way some men define "ride or die". We think if your girl isn't...2020-10-1734 minSimpin After DarkMy Heart Or YouThis week we're diving into H.E.R.'s song "Hard Place". It's about being torn between leaving or staying in a relationship that is no longer making you happy. As much as we may receive good advice, or know exactly what the right thing to do is, it isn't an easy decision to make. We also talk about trauma bonds, which is when one person or both people in a relationship are unable to leave each other even though things are clearly toxic and not working. There is this false sense of hope that things will change, and...2020-10-1539 minSimpin After DarkNeed A RiotThis episode we're finally talking about one of our favorite R&B girls, Summer Walker. She had too many bops to choose from on her album Over It, and we couldn't decide, so we picked "Riot" off her 2019 EP, Clear. It's all about expressing to someone that you need passion in your relationship, and that some boring, too-easy love, isn't gonna cut it. It's so relatable because we've been conditioned to think love has to be this fiery passionate thing, but sometimes that can become unrealistic in a long term situation, and borderline toxic. Is passion overrated? There has to...2020-10-0847 minSimpin After DarkOpen Your Heart UpWe're talking SZA once again, because it's SZA. "Garden (Say It Like That)" from the album CTRL, is all about being vulnerable and the insecurity of not being worth the love you're getting. It's so scary to acknowledge that sometimes you really do need that reassurance from your person in order to feel confident and loved. We talk about loving someone so deeply that you just pray they won't change and won't hurt you, and despite knowing you'll love them through it all, you don't know if they could love you in the same way. We also talk about...2020-10-0141 minSimpin After DarkYou Should Keep It Pushin'This week we're talkin "Keep It Pushin'" by Russ ft. Mahalia. It's all about someone wanting to focus on themselves and having to cut someone off because it's not going anywhere anymore. Mahalia sings from the perspective of the person being left behind, being told to not wait up for a text at night. The lyrics are harsh but straight up and very relatable on both ends. Sometimes a relationship's only purpose is to teach you something about life, love or about yourself. Just know when it's time to leave it behind if it isn't serving you and your...2020-09-2447 minSimpin After DarkDon't Be A SnitchThis episode is real slimy we love it. We go over the song, "HOMEGIRL" by Leven Kali, ft. Smino and Topaz Jones. The chorus is literally "that ain’t my bitch, that’s my motherfuckin’ homegirl, don’t be a snitch, we ain’t doin’ nothing wrong, girl". You know it sounds messy. We talk about all the perspectives in this situation and whether you should snitch or not? We also talk about open relationships and non-monogamy. We also touch on - what are the requirements or standards to what constitutes being a hoe? And who decides? Also, is withholding the...2020-09-1743 minSimpin After DarkDo What I WantThis is our petty episode and we go in for another hour long convo. This week we get into Kali Uchis and Rico Nasty's song "Aqui Yo Mando". It's in Spanish so Ashley translates some lyrics and Victoria talks about her flakey date experience. We also talk about second chances and why they do or don't work, or how many chances you're willing to give someone before you cut them off. This episode is filled with lots of random topics (waxing vs shaving, getting ready before a date) but we get real petty so it's a good one.2020-09-101h 12Simpin After DarkAt Least You Payin' AttentionThis episode we talk about Kiana Ledé's song "Attention" off her 2020 album, KIKI. It's about starting fights with your boo and doing desperate unhealthy shit in order to try to get attention and salvage a dying relationship. Our friend Stephanie, who is studying and training to become a therapist, comes through as a guest, and breaks down maladaptive schemas for us. We figure out what some of our stereotypes about life are, and how we cope with them and in turn how that affects our relationships. We get deep into the psychology of picking a certain type of p...2020-09-0357 minSimpin After DarkAnything For Some KissesWe're taking it back this week with some T-Pain, "I'm Sprung". This is a major simpin song and we love a good R&B throwback. We talk about all the things we do for someone when we're sprung and how it feels like you're hypnotized. It's that honey moon phase of falling for someone and being so blinded by love that you may miss red flags. T-Pain is being smart and recognizing that this girl is only gonna hurt him in the end so he leaves her, but it's hard. At first you try to feel good about being...2020-08-2731 minSimpin After DarkWAP Episode Part IIThis week we do part II to Cardi B and Megan Thee Stallion's song, "WAP", with Kory as our guest again. There is a lot of double standards in the music industry due to patriarchy, and lots of misogyny so we address those topics. Women in rap catch a lot of heat for being sexually explicit and liberated. There is an unspoken rule where if a woman sings sexual lyrics, versus rapping them, then it's more acceptable, even praised at times. Men can rap or sing about drugs, f*cking hoes, their dicks, killing people and everything but never...2020-08-2033 minSimpin After DarkThe WAP EpisodeWe're talking about "WAP" today by Cardi B featuring Megan Thee Stallion. We also have our first ever guest on the show. Kory gives his male perspective on pick me's, baecations, and other juicy topics. We cry a little bit that Covid 19 ruined our hot girl summer, then we get straight into a tweet about which type of girl is more likely to get cheated on - the perfect girl next door that does everything for her man (cooks and cleans), or the independent, wild, "ratchet" type. In the end you should live the life you want to live...2020-08-1333 minSimpin After DarkBaby Don't Be MadThis episode we're talking about the king of f*ckboys, Brent Faiyaz. We picked his song "Fuck The World (Summer in London)" because issa bop and it covers some great topics. We talk about how shady it can be to text someone that your partner has a bad feeling about. Sometimes it's innocent but the betrayal of finding out it was always what your gut was warning you about is the worst. From Brents pov we talk about people who only want someone for a good time and nothing else, and how the person on the other end of...2020-08-0633 minSimpin After DarkBoyz 2 MenThis episode is pretty self explanatory. We talk about SAYGRACE's song "Boys Ain't Shit". It escalates quickly, we talk about a lot of different controversial topics. Why do we excuse mens behavior by letting them off as boys? Why do we call women females, but men, men? Also should men contribute more financially than women in this age of feminism? Another wild card, child birth and pregnancy. We're just bouncing ideas here, so tune in and let us know what you think. Follow Me on IG/Twitter/Tik Tok @simpinafterdarkFollow Ashley @ash_frida...2020-07-3031 minSimpin After DarkReally Wanna Show You LoveThis episode we break down our feelings about UMI's song "Open Up" off her recent EP Introspection. We talk about how hard it is to be vulnerable in new relationships, especially after being hurt. It's hard to open up and let people in, and building trust is even harder to do when there are little red flags. You need to find a balance between finding someone who accepts you and all your flaws, and someone who pushes you to be better. It's important that your person understands all the little things that mean the most to you in terms o...2020-07-2332 minSimpin After DarkGoing in CirclesToday we talk about one of the best breakup songs ever, "Frontline", by Kelela, off her 2017 Take Me Apart album. It's about that pivotal moment, when you've finally worked up the courage to walk away from a relationship that is holding you back, and you feel unstoppable. This song is empowering and focuses on holding on to that feeling before you cave in. Break ups are hard but listen to this album to help you get through it, and also listen to us obviously. Then for the Twitter segment we talk about body count, drag some "pick-me's" because it's...2020-07-1626 minSimpin After DarkTo the Side HoesFirst thing is first we LOVE SZA with all the love we have in our hearts and soul, and CTRL is an album that has resonated on so many levels with us and we are so happy we get to talk about it finally. We talk about SZA's song "The Weekend", and we asked our listeners to send us voice memos or messages with their opinions and experiences about it. We go through the submissions during the episode and give our own opinions as well. Some listeners gave good insight as to the reasoning behind maybe being down to...2020-07-0939 minSimpin After DarkTemperature Changes Every TimeToday we talk about "Temperature" by TeaMarr, which Victoria found while watching Issa Rae's show "Insecure" on HBO. It's about how her mood changes so easily when she's around her man. We've all been there - you're having an amazing time with your boo then they say one wrong thing and it just flips the entire mood around. But maybe secretly you're still waiting for them to fix it so you can do what you really wanna do, if you know what I mean. We also talk red flags with phones - sharing passcodes, going through phones, do they...2020-07-0228 minSimpin After DarkFake It Till You Make ItWe cover some good topics today with Jessie Reyez's song "Imported" ft. 6lack. We talk about being a rebound or finding a rebound after a relationship, which we say is the best way to get over a person but can still be messy. Jessie talks about faking it till you make it which we interpret as sometimes having to pretend you're over someone until you finally are, or maybe faking the love in a new relationship until it's real. Another fun topic we bring up - Body count! Do people still ask their s/o about this or is i...2020-06-2530 minSimpin After DarkI Know That It's ToxicThis episode we talk about Saba's song "Broken Girls" off his album Care For Me. It deals with toxic relationships and being attracted to people with issues and how unhealthy it can be. Sometimes we attract the lessons we need to learn in life, and sometimes we attract the love we think we deserve. Just gotta be conscious of the choices we're making when it comes to the people we're giving our time and energy to. Not everything is gonna last a lifetime, but you better learn some lessons and come out better than how u went in!2020-06-1826 minSimpin After DarkGot Me Singing Love SongsThis episode we get real simpy talking about Kaash Paige's song "Love Songs". We relate to her lyrics about meeting someone and falling for them and sadly realizing after a while that their energy isn't matching yours anymore. We've all been on both sides of that situation, you start off with certain expectations and it sucks when reality falls short. You start off opening up, have cute nicknames for each other and then they start playing games and make it confusing. But at least we got songs like this to help us feel connected to other people who are...2020-06-1119 minSimpin After DarkAre You Drunk Right Now?It's our 10th episode and we're unofficially naming it Simpin After Drake. Drake is the pioneer of the simpin movement so it was only right to honor him by doing the simpiest song of all time, "Marvin's Room" off of Take Care. We talk about drunk dialing your exes, why we do or don't leave voicemails, feeling like you're better than the new person your ex is dealing with, and pouring your heart out to someone you're missing as a last act of desperation. Do you really miss them, or are you just drunk and lonely?Follow...2020-05-2730 minSimpin After DarkBroke Boy BabyToday we finally talk about our queen Ari Lennox. "Broke" ft. JID is such a dope song with a cool theme we wanted to talk about - Dating while being broke. Does having money make it easier or does it complicate things? Or does being broke complicate things more? As broke babies ourselves, we discuss how having to work all the time and making ends meet can take a toll on a relationship, but hopefully make it stronger in the end. If anything, it forces you to enjoy the simple things and appreciate the time you have together.2020-05-2020 minSimpin After DarkCome When You're SoberEpisode 8 we talk about the amazing song "Time" by Boogie ft. Snoh Aalegra, off his album Everythings For Sale. This is a sad one y'all! It's about two people being on different wavelengths in a relationship. Someone only trying to come through super late at night and never when they're sober, and the other person wanting it to be more than that and holding on even though it hurts. Sometimes we settle for something that's below our standards and convince ourselves it's real when we know deep down it's not, because we'd rather have something than nothing at all...2020-05-1322 minSimpin After DarkWithout My BabyWe're finally talking about the ultimate simpin hours icon, The Weeknd. "After Hours" is one of the singles he released from his album also titled After Hours, and it's the perfect song for S.A.D. We reminisce on f***boys and their f*** ways and cry about it. Why is it so hard to be honest and loyal, and how do you expect someone to want to come back after all the things you've put them through? At least we're in this together saddies, we'll get through this!Follow Me on IG/Twitter/Tik Tok @simpinafterdark2020-05-0619 minSimpin After DarkYou're So ShamefulWe had to do it to em again with Kehlani. She dropped "Valentine's Day (Shameful)", so we couldn't just not do another episode for her. We talk about acting cool when you're actually upset, and hiding your feelings of jealousy to not seem crazy. We also talk about red flags when starting a relationship, and how we handle forgiveness and the fun part called "letting go" that comes after that. It's not easy but we're here for you to know that you're not alone! Follow Me on IG/Twitter/Tik Tok @simpinafterdarkFollow Ashley @ash_frid...2020-04-2927 minSimpin After DarkTell Me What U LikeThis episode we talk about "Do U Wrong" by Leven Kali ft. the amazing Syd. It's a song about meeting someone you really like and being extremely straightforward to get them. It's hard to find people that don't play games so this song's take is refreshing. Both Leven and Kali let the person they're after know that they are down for whatever and that the ball is in their court, so we talk about how that makes us feel on the receiving end.Follow Me on IG/Twitter/Tik Tok @simpinafterdarkFollow Ashley @ash_friday_ on IG...2020-04-2219 minSimpin After DarkLet Me Catch a VibeThis episode we listen to "Easy - Remix" by DaniLeigh ft. Chris Brown. We start it off talking about what "simpin" means to us, and then get into the bop of the week. A lot of relationships start with "taking it easy", but do we actually wanna take it easy? Or do we, as women, just say this because we think it's what dudes want? Do guys like controlling the speed of the relationship? We talk about it! Follow Me on IG/Twitter/Tik Tok @simpinafterdarkFollow Ashley @ash_friday_ on IGGo like...2020-04-1518 minSimpin After DarkYou Know WassupThis episode we cover Kehlani's song "You Know Wassup". We do a quick recap on her and YG's relationship and what sparked her to drop this song, and then we get into the heartbreak. Relationship trauma, personal demons, vices, betrayal, and all that mess people go through when they decide to be a "ride or die". We also talk about love languages and expressing our needs and knowing when to walk away. Follow Me on IG/Twitter/Tik Tok @simpinafterdarkFollow Ashley @ash_friday_ on IGGo like "Simpin After Dark" Spotify Playlist by ashl...2020-04-0823 minSimpin After DarkBe on ChillThis episode we talk about Wale’s song “On Chill ft. Jeremih”, and we have A LOT to say. Labels? Social media? Acting like we’re heartless? A mess. This song is very relatable especially in this day and age so listen up to see how we feel about it. We also introduce a fun new Twitter segment, so stick around till the end!Follow Me on IG/Twitter/Tik Tok @simpinafterdarkFollow Ashley @ash_friday_ on IGGo like "Simpin After Dark" Spotify Playlist by ashleyym91Youtube - Click here to watch full epis...2020-04-0125 min
Simpin After DarkSprung up in the Spring TimeWe start off SAD with Jhené Aiko's song, "P*$$Y Fairy (OTW)", from her new album, Chilombo. We dive right into sexual compatibility, unhealthy dating behaviors, cuffing season, unrealistic relationship standards, and of course forgiveness and healing. Follow Me on IG/Twitter/Tik Tok @simpinafterdarkFollow Ashley @ash_friday_ on IGGo like "Simpin After Dark" Spotify Playlist by ashleyym91Youtube - Click here to watch full episodesIntro song - Lo-fi Type Beat - Dreaming (Prod. Lee)See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Pr...2020-03-2418 min