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Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Life is buildingClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "But it's a thing to when you know, then when you actually accept it. And I've accepted, I've accepted the life that I'm in right now. I accepted that I'm a single woman with two children that I solely care for 95% of the time."2025-07-2306 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | GrowClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "You know what I don't know about the world, but I know about me. I'm not concerned about other things outside of my realm because it doesn't concern me. I don't know how they feel, but I know how I feel. I don't know how they live, but I know how I live. I don't know what they don't like, but I know what I don't like and I know what I like."2025-07-2202 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | That’s an opinions. Lovely you know.Click here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "But when it comes to somebody that we don't know, that we feel that has some kind of stature or some kind of position, whether it be at your word or just somebody that you met in public, then we want to be like, oh, well, they're a good person. Well, is your sister a good person? Is she a good person that you just battle with because things didn't go your way?"2025-07-2205 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | A graduation celebrationClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "Now on my trip, I did take my daughter on vacation for her graduating. I have this deal with my kids that when they're 16, we'll start to take a trip and just me and them, like a short, two, three day trip. At 16 and 17 and 18, it'd be a whole week trip and we would go to somewhere that's a surprise. Well, life changed a whole lot since then. Finances are different, Got a big car payment."2025-07-2107 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | I’m so emotional I don’t know where reality really hit!Click here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "You know, it's just me. All right, it will be just me and Nyburn, of course, my son, but, you know, laying across my bed and her silly talks and conversation in the middle of the night. Yes, I know she'll call me on the cell phone instead, but it's gonna be different. I watched her, how she was born into this world and given not so good information at her birth, but she beat all odds."2025-07-1303 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Go to your boundaryClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "And the matter of fact is that I had given these parents, I had given them information stating that I would be going on vacation half of the day on Friday and that I would return on the 21st and they just didn't want to give me my boundary. But I kept true to myself and instead of allowing them to affect me."2025-07-1202 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Remove yourselfClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "That's not how life works, you know, that's not how it works. In this specific situation, it was a worker wanting to stop the meetings or the visitation for a parent, all because she got mad because the child told her that the child reported that the parent said something. Now the child, you know, sometimes children, they do what they think because they want to make others happy. And this situation, this is exactly what happened."2025-07-0903 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Take time out to recoup and take care of yourselfClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "I believe in the mission of what my job entails, and that is providing quality, stable homes for youth in need while providing services to help them better themselves and to build new foundations so that when they reach their goal, they. They lead better. What they came. That's the way I'm going to describe it. But the weekend or actually last year, last year, a little bit over a year ago, the company that I work for provided some mental health services for."2025-07-0706 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | I was harassed today by a previous employee of mine and the police did nothingClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "Their store has video. They didn't even bother to ask that thing or nothing. And I'm so frustrated. But I know what kind of person I am, and I know what he said is not true. And I. And I've always thought of things this way because anytime in life that someone has did wrong or, you know, went against me evilly, I've had. I have not had to do anything because God is our protector and God takes care of everything."2025-07-0608 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | So the app change yet once again ….., ughClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "There's been another change on this app, and this time I'm here to say that it is a bad choice. Whoever changed what, for whatever reasons, it was not a good choice because now you can't see the posts that you made. You can't see them. I guess you gotta search through whatever, but you can't just go to the main page and see them."2025-07-0302 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Who we are is based off of what we’ve been throughClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "Disciplinary things, all because of how I was raised and the abuse that I experienced. But I did not transfer it to them. I refused. And anytime that I found myself not being the parent that I desire, I'll give an apology. They don't deserve to be in certain situations or treatment because that's what I promised myself I would not do. I have great conversations with my children because I had a mom that didn't have conversations with me."2025-07-0209 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Good morning …. A little motoClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "How many times have you said you didn't want a person that does this or does that or you didn't. You weren't going to deal with this or that, but then you find yourself dealing with it. That's because you allowed them to squeeze you into their little bitty bubble. They squeeze you to a little bitty bubble, and now you're lacking oxygen and you can't think clearly because you allowed them to squeeze you into a little bitty bubble."2025-07-0105 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Make your tomorrow better than todayClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "So it's not that we all don't have the opportunity, because we all have it. It's what we choose to do with our lives. If we choose to keep, you know, on that same path that we grew up on that wasn't so good, then that's us. You know, I didn't grow up in the best household, but the parts of life that I grew up in that I felt that were good, I kept and I."2025-06-2905 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | We must do better : Life is give-and-takeClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "But at no time can we just say, forget it, and we're going to go on about our business and not worry about our children. Make sure they're fed, make sure they're clothed, make sure that they're happy, talk to them when they got issues going on. That's what being a parent is. Being a parent is flexibility. It's not about being one way or the other."2025-06-2106 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Happy Father’s Day !Click here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "There are many men out there who grew up in fatherless homes and have learned how to be a father because they don't want to repeat the cycle. And there are those who grew up in fatherless homes who continue to repeat the cycle and are not there for their children. There are those men who grew up in homes with great fathers and are not great fathers themselves. And then there are those people who grew up with great fathers and are great fathers."2025-06-1504 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Everybody wants me to date, but I don’t want to so I’m notClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "You know, that's just a matter of fact. But like I said, I'm just sharing today. I'm just talking. And if you. If you want to talk and you got something to say about your relationship or about something you're going through, please do. If you want to talk about why you're not dating or why you're acting dating, please do. There are no right or wrong answers. We do not judge in my room. We do not."2025-06-1507 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Why does rent keep raising?Click here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "Hello, swelling. Good evening. I'm coming here to fuss. Yes, I am coming here to fuss because I don't understand why come rent keeps going up every year. I don't understand. So you let new people come in for a discounted price, and then once they're in, you penalize them for staying by raising their rent every year. It seems like it's a little backwards."2025-06-1304 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Relationship : Finding someone who can be your peaceClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "When you are with somebody, you're not with them because you don't want to get anything out of them. We all want to get something out of somebody because if we didn't, then we wouldn't be seeking, like, we feel like there could be opportunity or chance. Like we want to grow, we want to see a future, you know, or else we wouldn't be pursuing. Right. But anyway, that's the end of that comment, if you will."2025-06-1304 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Staffing and turnoverClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "Sometimes too, when it comes to a therapist, they want to pay the therapist more than what I make because, you know, they have that licensure, but then I'm the one who's the boss of them and everybody else. So I don't agree with that. And this last time we were able to fix it to where, you know, it was a."2025-06-1307 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | The cycle continues. Teen pregnancy.Click here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "So we, we did create a new cycle, you know, but when I look at the little girl, I'm kind of like, you know, you just want to hug her. You know, I just want to like be a support and a leadership for her to know so that she knows that she doesn't have to repeat the cycle. The cycle of being at home, pregnant at a teenage, you know, in her teenage years."2025-06-1110 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Cicadas be gone !Click here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "They're supposed to be gone in the end of next month or beginning of July. And I can't wait. Like, I really can't. They're worse than light wasp, even though they don't sting. But I'm sitting in my car right now getting ready to go into the office, and I just see them flying around like, I hate bugs. As a girl who hates bugs, they are a torture. So just let me know."2025-06-1002 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Life lessons learnedClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "You see, sometimes in the life of parents, we tend to protect our children by trying to help them reach goals and that maybe they can't reach on their own because they're not mature enough yet. Yet they fail to understand that the reason we do things is not to hurt them, but to also teach. But to teach them so that they can learn how to be independent on their own."2025-06-0804 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Morning rant : it's so hard to work with black culture and I don't understand why ?!Click here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "I have some people who are not African American, but most of them are. And I find it quite difficult when you're working as a leader, as a manager, and your staff is predominantly black. Reason being is that."2025-06-0606 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Balance means everything : How do you manage your schedule??Click here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "And if I forget about appointment or I want to know what his appointment was, all I do is pull up his, my chart and, or my, my chart to see what the schedules are. And then of course I keep up with my dad's stuff. So I have a lot of things to keep up with."2025-06-0506 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Audible book suggestionsClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "I know I like self help and I want books on like, money management, finances, things like that, and like, what are, you know, mental well being, things like that. But I also like a good memoir and, and I like a good fiction story, but I need something that's going to keep me entertained. Anyone who has any suggestions, please comment so that I can go check it out. Thanks so much."2025-06-0400 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Will there be change, comes opportunity and growthClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "Whether they want to remove themselves or if the universe does it for them. So just know that things are going to work out just fine. Don't stress, you know, realize the positivity that there is and everything that doesn't go our way because we don't get everything the way we want it and when we want it, sometimes we gotta be still, you know, and this is the be still moment."2025-05-3004 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Peace and comfortClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "You know, it's a lot that life brings our way and no one's ever ready for death, even if they knew it was coming. So with that said, I want to just remind everyone that if you are dealing with some kind of sorrow, please acknowledge so that you can step towards the healing process. Healing sometimes comes in cycles. Sometimes we heal, and then we have setbacks, and we heal, and then we may have another setback."2025-05-2904 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Proud mom here!Click here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "My mom's sister was here and she was talking about how I used to always go to the gym and how being I was like, oh yeah, no, I ain't been. I used to go five, six times a week and now I'm lucky if I do anything once a week. So I really need to get in there. But this is kind of like just a throne together post."2025-05-2903 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | I finally got a car !!Click here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "The kids don't deserve for it to be have to deal with the bitterness of the things in life. I'm not going to say that you're going to get along all the time because that's not what happens. You know, we do argue sometimes over little things, but then I don't hold it there because I don't want that. I want peace. And it's not about caring for someone or wanting to be with someone because I don't."2025-05-2506 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | I just love seeing all the loveClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "And just the fact that I'm looking and I see all these children spending time with parents and role models, it's a beautiful thing. I mean, I work in the field of fostering, and one of my foster mothers, she actually is doing respite this weekend, and she's keeping a kid for another foster dad that I have on my caseload, because I have a caseload right now. But it doesn't matter because I really do love doing case management."2025-05-1903 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | My kids, dad best friend from high school tried to pursue me and I didn't realize it until nowClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "But I'm so glad that it didn't go more than just to talk, you know, I'm so glad because that would have been really strange to be talking to your baby daddy and all of a sudden like his best friend in high school you done been with. So no, I'm so glad. But anyway, just sharing that story. I thought it was pretty funny and pretty unique because you never know who you're going to meet or who you're going to encounter."2025-05-1705 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | How do you show Love ❤️Click here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "Is there a moment that you discovered that someone else doesn't love the same way? You know, we have to learn how to adapt to people who may not love our way. If we love them because. Because we're taking away part of them. If we're forcing them to see love and to accept it the way that we are and this our way that we do. And this is why so many relationships fail. Thank you so much for listening."2025-05-1504 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Is there ending to Cliniquish his behaviors?Click here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "But on another note, today's topic is clicks at the age we are now, most of us on this app or, you know, late 20s on up, you know, I haven't really met anyone on here that is of a lower age than that, you know, And I find that even as we age, there are still clickish behaviors, you know, in the world."2025-05-1502 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Life is not about others. It's about you.Click here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "Today, the weight loss drug is used so much that people don't know what it means to go to a gym. They don't know what it means to watch your food intake and to eat healthy. What they do know, though, is if they take a shot once a week, it will cause them not to eat, eventually leading to the end result that they dreamed of. It doesn't matter about the consequences that they've taken for doing so."2025-05-1505 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Happy foster care awareness month !Click here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "Hello. If you don't know, this month is foster care awareness month. And I wanted to share with you all something I got today. If you look at the picture, you'll see. So I was having a kind of a rush week at work, which work is always demanding. I work a high stress job, a high demand job. A lot of times my life is put on hold because I have to go to help someone else."2025-05-1401 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | I haven't had to use additional insulin and !!Click here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "Now, last two days I've been following this plan and I strictly cut my carbs down to only carbs that come from plants, no carbs that don't come from plants. Every carb that I eat is a natural carb. Thus I have not had to add additional insulin to my pump. You know, each day, each hour, I get one unit of insulin and that's to keep me balanced because I'm just on short acting instead of short and long."2025-05-1403 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | As A boss I have say: Morning rantClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "Why? Because that means that they don't trust me. If I'm going to leave something, I need to know that I'm trusted and I'm valued. So that is a discussion that's going to be had today with the fact that here lately I've been feeling like, you know, I'm not trusted in certain situations. Now I will tell you this specific person that was in HR I've had issues with before because and our relationship has not been the same since."2025-05-1407 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Situation help me out ; Let me know what you would doClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "Upon the client leaving the business, the client states that they were not aware of issues and concerns. Not only do they claim they were not aware of issues and concerns, but they claim that a signature that is on a piece of paper is not theirs. You are appointed by leadership, your leadership stating that the signature that is on the paper looks like one of the people who are in the office, one of the staff members who are assigned to handle situations of policies and procedures."2025-05-1304 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Sacrifice equal successClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "You know, the most successful people stay hungry. They stay hu. They never can get enough. And so they, they're always trying to do better the next day than they did the day before. You know, they're trying to perfect things. So let's work together this week. I'm talking to myself and let's get those goals."2025-05-1206 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | A Mother's Day without a mom 😇Click here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "And you don't know what it's like. A lot of people say different things, but you don't know what it's like to lose a mother until you lost one. Just like you don't know what it's like to lose a child until you lost one. But anyways, this is not a sad pose, but this is just one. Just acknowledging everything, you know? So I hope everyone had a happy Mother's Day."2025-05-1208 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Mind your business !Click here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "And those things that we view as one thing or view as not so pretty becomes the most beautiful thing we've ever done, you know, are one of the most beautiful things we have the ability to touch several people if we try. You know, I'm grateful whenever someone reminds me of what I should be doing and where I should be going, because sometimes life gets busy and we get caught up in the hustle of it all."2025-05-0905 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Placenta brain is it a real thing ?Click here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "Good morning. Swell. I hope everyone's doing amazing on this Thursday morning. I'm in a car on the way back home. It's early, but I thought I'd do a swell and ask you all a question. Now there has been a lot of people, a lot of women who have been pregnant over time and there has been a lot of women who have quoted what I'm going to say and there has also been studies on what I'm going to say."2025-05-0805 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | In honor of mental Health month: This is my storyClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "So in honor of Mental Health Month, I want to encourage you to face your fears and to not be ashamed of any struggles that you have. If you would like to talk on here or you like to share your story, please do. I would love to give some insight. I would love to give you positive words, affirmation. I would love to do that."2025-05-0810 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Tell me, what do you love about a man or a woman?Click here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "So it's not about necessarily the sexes, you know, even though we're talking about it, but it's about the good things that we see when we examine each other. Whether it's the opposite sex or whether it's the same sex. Who told you you couldn't say good things about either one? Nobody can tell you how to think, right, because we have our own thoughts, have our own feelings."2025-05-0804 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Energy is transferableClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "But anyway, nevertheless, what I'm saying is that your body remembers. It definitely does. It remembered my mom's passing because November through January, I was out of commission for so long and I didn't realize why I would get mad. I didn't understand. But then I realized my body remembers. This is something I teach other people too."2025-05-0705 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | What's your day routine for medication's and vitamins? I found something that I really enjoy.Click here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "So naturally when that happens, that's when my body starts to be a little bit different because I am diabetic and I do take blood pressure medication and cholesterol medication which I'm supposed to be taking. And I gotta go pick that up because I ran out of it. So I gotta go get that. But I really don't need cholesterol medicine. It's just because I'm a diabetic that I have to take it. Because they want your cholesterol really low. It's a diabetic."2025-05-0504 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | A little nighttime self therapy : Sometimes you gotta talk it outClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "So I'm just sitting here thinking, I'm thinking about like just how much people were around when, you know, when I didn't have a son that was sick or when I didn't have a busy job, or when I didn't, you know, when I had a mother or when my dad wasn't sick, you know, I began to realize that people were more accessible. You know, when you have something that requires your attention. Like my dad having bipolar disorder."2025-05-0208 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | You can't prevent heartbreakClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "When you don't have that, if you start to compare yourself with the world, you'll notice that the things that you wanted, you didn't get, but somebody else did. And that could lead to heartbreak. So that's why it's very important to be prepared to mend yourself. We can't always depend on somebody to mend our hearts. We just can't. But we cannot prevent heartbreak either."2025-05-0103 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Our kids, they sure do know how to play with us don't they?Click here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "You tell us this, and then if we don't do that, like, you. You give the look, and then you give the voice, and that's when we know you real mad. I'm just like, okay, you know, And I kind of chuckled, but this is so true. Children learn you. They know exactly what to do. This morning, my daughter was."2025-04-3004 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Work story : I remember when my boss stole my extension cordClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "Good morning. Swell. Happy Wednesday. So I was in the car, or I'm still in the car this morning and on the way to get some fingerprints done. And I was thinking about my job and the previous supervisor I had or previous director I had before I become director. And I was thinking about the time that I had bought a food cooker. It was like one of those that originates I believe from like Asian culture."2025-04-3003 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Sometimes you have to breatheClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "You know, there's always a risk factor and there are some risks that maybe I'm not willing to take, but there are some, some that I am. And I always dissect whatever it is that I'm going through so that I can understand and I can process it. These are some skill sets that teach to our children as they grow. We need to teach them how to adapt and how to speak."2025-04-2904 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Our first kid cancer awareness eventClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "When I looked it up for the weekend that we were going, it was rating at about 600 a night. Not sure if it really was it, but that's what I saw. It has an indoor water park and bowling alley and some other stuff. So it was really fun. And they fed us every day for breakfast, you know, and it wasn't just the lazy kind of breakfast was a good kind. And then we also had dinner every night."2025-04-2803 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Dating life story. Handling emotion.Click here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "And I remember, like, yesterday, him and his little Charlie Brown sweater. But, you know, I said that to him and nothing. And I noticed that with him, when there's something that kind of has some emotion to where he kind of backs off, you kind of got to catch him. And I've had this issue with different men that I've dated off and on. It seems like they don't like to express their feelings that much or they're scared to do so."2025-04-2508 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | It's not just 18 !!Click here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "Well, the sister turns 18 tomorrow. So the foster parent did not know. But see, what happens is that when you work in the agency, there are people, foster parents, who will go around and they will talk in a click, you know, they have clicks. Just like. Just like high school, you know, it's almost like, you know, it reminds you of high school, how silly it can be sometimes. But I was told."2025-04-2408 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Leadership isn't just telling somebody something it's also listening and being supportiveClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "And sometimes we, we actually guess that why. And we could be wrong or we could be right, but it's always good to stop and just ask somebody what they're going through because you never know. While I know she just found out recently, but that's a lot to carry. And she does have a husband, and that's their first baby together, and she has three other children, and this will be the fourth. But still, she needs that love and support."2025-04-2203 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Why is it we invite negativity into every good moment ?Click here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "You know, that is something for you to discuss. I just find that whenever you say happy, happy anniversary to me and my husband, you know, just leave it there or either have ver. Happy anniversary. Me and my husband, we're celebrating five years of love and commitment. And I love you so much. I love you so much. And I'm so proud and blessed to have you in my life. Something like that. Not. Today's our anniversary."2025-04-2103 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Is it just me or am I getting more emotional as I age?Click here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "That wasn't me years ago, you know But I just, I just wanted to ask the question, do you find yourself as you get older, especially like 40 plus that you find yourself getting really emotional? And if this is you and you find yourself getting emotional, let me know if I'm going to be living in a puddle by the end of my life because I am so sensitive and I am an empath."2025-04-2003 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | We must listen to hear and to speakClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "Hello. Happy Saturday. Swell. Thanks so much for listening. If you listened, and if you haven't listened, I hope you will. Well, so this is a little bit about the dating world, which I share a little bit because I always feel that when you share a little bit about you, there's always someone out there that is listening and they can relate, and sometimes they can't relate, which is okay."2025-04-1907 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | PromClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "So this is a real quick one. Just quick. Tonight, my daughter had her first. Sorry, I was looking at something else. But tonight, my daughter had her first prom. My first and last prom. Well, maybe not last, but she's the senior this year, and I just want to share pictures because I like to share my kids. So if you, like, take a look and if you, like, share your own."2025-04-1900 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | How Important is sexual chemistry? What do you say when someone who does not fulfill you sexually?Click here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "So I think we need to take a look at reality and realize that while we want to be pleasured, we have to know that person, learn that person and we have to see if they fit in to our lives, cuz we don't want a life to where we're disappointed all the time. That's just like having someone who yells at you, but you can't stand someone yelling."2025-04-1705 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Losing someone you love and the process towards acceptanceClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "I said, and your boyfriend is different than you. The way that he handles death or way he handles things in his life may not be the same as you handle him, but that doesn't mean that the way that he handles it is wrong. Harry tried to get on medication. She got on medication because she wasn't getting any sleep."2025-04-1708 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Life of a mom : He scared meClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "And I'm like, okay, so what, you want to go here? No. Go here? No. So then his dad takes us to the Chinese buffet and backs in because he says that he want to go see, and then maybe he'll eat there. But then he says, I'm not going to eat there if I don't want anything."2025-04-1306 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Is she being a little bomed or am I tripping?Click here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "They went on a date finally this week, I think was Monday, Sunday or Monday. And she texted me and told me they went on a day. I'm like, okay. She sent me some pictures and she said she didn't want to take pictures with him, but it didn't look like that she was taking pictures, smiling. You know, I found that that was odd for a first date because people don't do that on the first date."2025-04-1210 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | What happened to having a voice? Do you have one or do you not?Click here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "But she gets up and she does her speech and her age. I believe that she could be young and still know something. But I do believe that in a position to where you want your company to grow, your agency to be seen, you need someone that's got a little bit of something underneath their heel."2025-04-0910 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | My son asked and we deliveredClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "And in the divorce, I wanted to make sure that the children were able to feel as if their dad had not left their life and that they. I wanted to make their life growing up as a teen or as a kid as normal as possible. I wanted them to feel like they had both parents in their lives. And this is why I allow their dad to come around and to get them whenever."2025-04-0704 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Jet lag it's no jokeClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "Hello. Swell. Happy Sunday evening. I'm sitting in the room and just recovering from the trip. And I'll tell you one thing, this, what they call it jet lag is a real thing. I mean I. Last night I was unable to sleep because Hawaii time here is six hours difference. And so I was up until 10:30am I mean at 4:00am I was like, hello. 5, 6, 7. I was like, okay, let me go to grocery store."2025-04-0702 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | We went to Hawaii ! A memory to Cherish ! Make your wish !Click here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "And I thought about all the things that, you know, sometimes I say, you know, I'm not where I want to be, but I'm very blessed to be where I am. And that's some of the things that the trip helped me to see. You know, I have a job that I don't regret going to."2025-04-0609 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | What did we add to the potion that made it lose his flavor : swell isn't swellingClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "So we could be guilty of not being as dedicated to a platform because maybe we got other things to worry about, or maybe we're subconsciously not paying attention, or we're going about our day and next thing we know, like, it's like, man, I meant to do this. Well, I forgot. I'll do it tomorrow. Then tomorrow comes and we say it again, and then before we know it, it's been a month and we haven't been here."2025-03-2504 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Going too soon at childhood friendClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "And, you know, I just hope that, you know, I hope that his kids have a mom's going to be able to carry on their dad's legacy. It's going be able to let them know that their dad loved them, but he's not here. And I hope that she's going to teach them how to be healthy if she hadn't already done it, because we want to end those cycles."2025-03-2406 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Don't be afraid to take a breakClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "You know, when we say we're taking a break or whatever and we're trying to spend time with our families and we're on on Internet things like spoil cast and you know, Tick Tock, Instagram. Even if we're on YouTube looking up something, if we're on there for most of the day. Because when we get on these platforms, we Actually kind of get stuck a little bit because we. We say we're gonna look."2025-03-2406 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Just a little singing Join if ya want .Click here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "I wanna cry sometime. Anyway, that's it. So if you want to join, please do. I'm a little rusty, but I remember so much about the joys of singing. And actually, when I get home, I'm gonna put on my 90s r b and I'm just gonna start singing and have a great day for me. And you have a. I'm coming back. Because I probably didn't say the words right. I was just saying it."2025-03-2202 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | All loud voice is not always confidence sometimes it's fearClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "It's been done so many times over years, yet we continue to fall into the same trap. We may think we're doing better because we think we're on top, but you're not doing better if you're looking down at the person below and having something to say other than giving advice to help them reach the top as well. Thanks so much for listening."2025-03-2205 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Never be ashamed of the gifts God has given you : a start off to a beautiful morningClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "I said the simple things, but we only say simple things because that's what society has taught us. But if you listen and you say, stayed along with me and you feel this morning that you want to share your gift no matter what it may be, like I said, no matter what it may be, maybe you're able to make someone look beautiful. You're able to lift them up. Maybe you're able to coach people. I apologize."2025-03-2108 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | When a child is venting, is it disrespect or is it being vocal and having an opinion?Click here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "And I've always been a believer that your energy can transfer to other people. And so I'm not at the house. I'm away. I'm trying to get myself rebalanced so I can go in and it can be a calmer situation and so that we can all get back on track. So let me know. Do you allow your children to vent without punishing them? Would you allow them to have a personality and a thought without suddenly seeing that they are being rude or disrespectful?"2025-03-2106 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Pay attention I challenge youClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "You know, I didn't see that people are working, you know, I know that they're working at that time, but I didn't see that people are working real early or just getting off at that time in the morning while I'm in bed sleep, because I was sleeping. You know, we don't, we in society, we often don't acknowledge things or deal with them until we have to."2025-03-1906 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Have you ever fired someone only for them to refuse to leave?Click here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "Good morning. Swell. It is 5:30am and I've been up since 4:45 because I've been having to share this car and I'm so tired. But anyways, I'm coming this morning to ask you all the question. Those of you who have worked in a management field, have you ever fired somebody and they refuse to leave? Yes, I said it. Have you ever fired somebody and they refuse to leave?"2025-03-1808 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | My car broke down. What should I do?Click here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "But if I get a lease, the car payment may be cheaper and then I get to keep the car for two years and then I have to turn it in and it just had to be under the mileage. So I'm at a point right now like I'm trying to figure out what I need to do. Do. Yeah. First I'm going to see what's going on with the car. But it, it."2025-03-1507 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Your story doesn't always have to be betterClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "And when we cut people off or when we try to make our story bigger than theirs, we don't give them the chance to heal, you know, And a lot of times people don't tell us their whole story. At times I've heard people be like, man, you know, whatever. But that person didn't tell you everything with the story. They left something out. Because people don't tell the entire stories. They don't."2025-03-1305 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Angel numbers it's 11:11Click here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "So I was meeting up for a weekend trip and I remember we had room reservations and the room was 111. And at the time I didn't think nothing about it. But later on I was like, oh, 111. Does that mean that that's the. That you know, we are really in love? That's the true love of my life, you know. But I believe that even without the numbers. But sometimes life don't work out when you want it to."2025-03-1304 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | I tried something new : Hypnosis weight lossClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "Now in a way it felt good and in a way it felt scary. So I'm not gonna give up on it. But I'll tell you what. I have really been enjoying the meditation that I've been doing, because meditation is something that I love. I'm going to add a photo on here to talk a little bit about the hypnosis weight loss thing. I can't tell you that it works. I can't. Cuz I'm. I'm doing change myself right now."2025-03-1203 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Dating Chronicles : I was stood up, but I look cute thoughClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "A simple response by text or phone that you're late would have been sufficient. And he made an excuse, which I didn't take, and then he was gone. He'll probably come back because they always do. But you know, after a while of dating and just meeting people who aren't worth anything, I don't keep people's numbers. I don't say them. I don't."2025-03-1205 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Work drama : I fired an employee and now they're questioning meClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "So I had an issue with HR myself at one point because I had hired a person and because they messed up, my person ended up quitting. But she's back now. She came back, thank goodness. But yesterday my new office manager started work. I had sent her home early because she was done with training and everything. I sent her out to market, actually."2025-03-1113 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | We listen more than we speak : Challenge to respond moreClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "You'll notice that we live in a world who always has something to say, yet when it matters the most, we remain silent. This is a platform that allows you to have a voice. It allows you to talk about things in your life that are interest to you or to other people. It allows you to not only give information, but to receive it. Think about it again. It allows you to give and receive information, yet were hush."2025-03-1002 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Do you have grandkids yet if you don't do your friends have them ?Click here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "And it just appears that everybody has started the secondary family. You know, when I say secondary I mean kids or starting families. And I don't have any grandkids, which I couldn't imagine having it but. And I'm very grateful cuz my daughter's 18, my son's 13, but it just seems like that life, I don't know, like it just has started and has flown another direction for a lot of the friends I had in high school."2025-03-0902 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Question am I right about this guy or am I just assuming?Click here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "But it was a little bit, and he knew who I was, so I was like, okay, well, maybe he's not. Maybe he's serious. On his app, he says that he's looking for marriage, which, before that word terrify me. But then I told myself, hey, if there's something you want in the future, then why would it be terrifying? So I'm over it."2025-03-0808 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | I believe my daughter's friend is being abusedClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "Because the little girl told my daughter that she's so scared that she's going to have to go into foster care. And I told her, I said she can call, talk to me, but she probably doesn't want to. So I gave her the crisis hotline for her to call in case she was feeling depressed. I told her to give that to her friend. But to me, the little girl is just so terrified. It just feels to me like she is in an abusive home."2025-03-0704 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | The diabetic life : Why won't government just make insulin supplies and medication free?!!Click here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "And my blood sugar, my insulin pump is not giving me the insulin at one unit per hour like it generally does. And I was very honest with my doctor today about those issues because there's no need for me to not be honest about them, you know, so I was honest with her about them, and she understood it. She said that she was going to contact the person to see if I could get insulin pump supplies, you know, delivered to me despite the bill."2025-03-0706 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Teacher commit suicide in his classroom before schoolClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "And I do know that they do offer mental health, like therapy through insurance for a lot of companies. And it is free. Usually it's 10 sessions. And a lot of employees do not take advantage of it. But I have little details for the story as far as his personal life, whether he was attending mental health sessions, whether he was taking medication, whether he had a diagnosis. S. But it's just a horrible story. It's just horrible."2025-03-0704 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Celebrity news. I'm so tired of seeing it.Click here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "You know, I don't want to see celebrity stuff because I could care less about what a celebrity is doing or has done or whatever. Like, I don't want to see that. I just wish that there was a. Some kind of selection where you can say that you don't want to partake in celebrity gossip. Because like I said, I don't care. I care about my life and I care about the people's lives that I know, but I don't care about celebrity."2025-03-0401 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Happy Monday ! Let's go to work!!Click here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "Like I'm mama and I got to tell my kids what to do, you know, as far as staffing. But I know that my leadership skills is a skill set that's going to help them to be leaders themselves. And I pride, you know, I'm very proud of myself for being able to give those, give those techniques to the people that I manage."2025-03-0305 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Can we get a premium undo button?Click here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "That's something that's lacking on this app. So that's what I'm going to talk about. I believe they need to put a button on here. We can go back, and if you made a premium, you can make it free. Because sometimes we do make mistakes. Just like they have it to where, you know, you can go back and you can change the title. I think they should have it where you can go back."2025-03-0202 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | Let's not give false hope: Reality and foster careClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "Now, when she gets her adult, she could do what she wants. She has a few years. But right now, we're providing her everything that she needs. Everything that she needs. Dad's been in prison. She hadn't needed that. Dad has not been available. Dad is feeding her false information. Dad's giving her negativity. Those are things that she doesn't need. Dad's causing her more burden."2025-02-2604 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | A little bit of this and a little bit of thatClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "So, you know, she got some scholarships, but, you know, she could use some more, you know, to try to get the school paid for. But, you know, we pray and we know that God's going to make the things happen. He's going to lead and guide us and everything is going to go according to his plans, you know, not we want, but to his plans."2025-02-2607 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | My son got me !Click here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "Well, talking about teenage boys in the home and how they automatically step up to be the man of the house, you know, it's almost like they feel like they got to do it. And my son has actually told me before he's the man of the house. And, you know, while I look at him and he is a teenage boy, he's 13, I think of just how much he's learning and how much that mentality of being a man is installed in him."2025-02-2404 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | A teenage love : JeromeClick here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "And, you know, and it was once point, one point of time to where we thought about rekindling that. But I told him that I don't know if I could trust him. And that let. That caused him to run off. So it, you know, that was okay with me because that was me aside that he wasn't there for me. But like I said, this dream is just like. It's just like a teenage love."2025-02-1607 min

Kitha Larie@chitchatwithkk | What's your favorite Trader Joe's wine?Click here to reply to @chitchatwithkk "There is a rose that I really like and it's a beautiful bottle, clear bottle. And it kind of looks like it has like little flowers on the side with a little. The top is a little different. It's like a push down top. It's beautiful. And I really like that one and I like another one too, but I can't remember the name of it. But I just want to try something different."2025-02-1601 min