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LifeNorth.Church Talk it OverLifeNorth.Church Talk it OverThe Habit of SimplifyingYou might be feeling a little pressure to change some things about yourself. Maybe you want to hit the gym, save money, or accomplish more at work. Instead of adding more New Year’s habits to your plate, what if you simplified instead? Join us as Ian, Leanne, and Dave unpack the message "The Habit of Simplifying" from Pastor Craig Groeschel and talk over what it might mean in our lives. Don't forget to leave a comment and give us a thumbs up. #LifeNorthChurch #talkitover #lnctalkitover ABOUT THIS MESSAGE In new seasons, we often focus on what we should do...2024-01-1521 minLifeNorth.Church Talk it OverLifeNorth.Church Talk it OverStop Controlling ThatListen in as Ian and Dave unpack the message, "Stop Controlling That" from Pastor Craig Groeschel and talk over what it might mean in our lives. Don't forget to leave a comment and give us a thumbs up. #LifeNorthChurch #beenthere #talkitover #lnctalkitover Check out the full message https://youtu.be/jbvzuSIEXDg New to LifeNorth.Church? Click here: https://lifenorth.breezechms.com/form/2e6b19 We would love to pray with you! You can leave a comment below or request prayer here: https://lifenorth.breezechms.com/form/71c05f ABOUT LIFENORTH.CHURCH Wherever you are in life, you have a...2023-04-1031 minLifeNorth.Church Talk it OverLifeNorth.Church Talk it OverFinding Peace In Your PanicListen in as Ian and Carolyn unpack the message, "Finding Peace In Your Panic" from Pastor Craig Groeschel and talk over what it might mean in our lives. Don't forget to leave a comment and give us a thumbs up. #LifeNorthChurch #miracles #talkitover #lnctalkitover Check out the full message https://youtu.be/tGTfDk2g4ik New to LifeNorth.Church? Click here: https://lifenorth.breezechms.com/form/2e6b19 We would love to pray with you! You can leave a comment below or request prayer here: https://lifenorth.breezechms.com/form/71c05f ABOUT LIFENORTH.CHURCH Wherever you are in...2023-04-0330 minLifeNorth.Church Talk it OverLifeNorth.Church Talk it OverYou in 5 yearsListen in as Ian and Dave unpack the message, "You in 5 years" from Pastor Craig Groeschel and talk over what it might mean in our lives. Don't forget to leave a comment and give us a thumbs up. #LifeNorthChurch #thepowertochange #talkitover #lnctalkitover Check out the full message https://youtu.be/Wh_CIfyW2b4 New to LifeNorth.Church? Click here: https://lifenorth.breezechms.com/form/2e6b19 We would love to pray with you! You can leave a comment below or request prayer here: https://lifenorth.breezechms.com/form/71c05f ABOUT LIFENORTH.CHURCH Wherever you are in life, you...2023-03-1829 minLifeNorth.Church Talk it OverLifeNorth.Church Talk it OverYou Don't Win By TryingListen in as Ian and Michaela unpack the message, "You Don't Win By Trying" from Pastor Craig Groeschel and talk over what it might mean in our lives. Don't forget to leave a comment and give us a thumbs up. #LifeNorthChurch #thepowertochange #talkitover #lnctalkitover  Check out the full message https://youtu.be/ou3oOgNp230  New to LifeNorth.Church? Click here: https://lifenorth.breezechms.com/form/2e6b19 We would love to pray with you! You can leave a comment below or request prayer here: https://lifenorth.br...2023-03-0734 minLifeNorth.Church Talk it OverLifeNorth.Church Talk it OverBreak the Cycle That’s Breaking Your LifeListen in as Ian and Leanne unpack the message, "Break the Cycle That’s Breaking Your Life" from Pastor Craig Groeschel and talk over what it might mean in our lives. Don't forget to leave a comment and give us a thumbs up. #LifeNorthChurch #thepowertochange #talkitover #lnctalkitover  Check out the full message https://youtu.be/1n_6gsdxe4I  New to LifeNorth.Church? Click here: https://lifenorth.breezechms.com/form/2e6b19 We would love to pray with you! You can leave a comment below or request prayer here: https://life...2023-02-2727 minLifeNorth.Church Talk it OverLifeNorth.Church Talk it OverVideo: Stop the negative self-talkListen in as Ian and Michaela unpack the message, "Stop the negative self-talk" from Pastor Craig Groeschel and talk over what it might mean in our lives. Don't forget to leave a comment and give us a thumbs up. #LifeNorthChurch #thepowertochange #talkitover #lnctalkitover2023-02-0637 minLifeNorth.Church Talk it OverLifeNorth.Church Talk it OverStop the negative self-talkListen in as Ian and Michaela unpack the message, "Stop the negative self-talk" from Pastor Craig Groeschel and talk over what it might mean in our lives. Don't forget to leave a comment and give us a thumbs up. #LifeNorthChurch #thepowertochange #talkitover #lnctalkitover  Check out the full message https://youtu.be/Ttc3mU7SsB0  New to LifeNorth.Church? Click here: https://lifenorth.breezechms.com/form/2e6b19We would love to pray with you! You can leave a comment below or request prayer here: https://lifenorth.breezechms.co...2023-02-0537 minLifeNorth.Church Talk it OverLifeNorth.Church Talk it OverLetting go of lonelinessListen in as Ian and Dave unpack the message, "Letting go of loneliness" from Pastor Craig Groeschel and talk over what it might mean in our lives. Don't forget to leave a comment and give us a thumbs up. #LifeNorthChurch #wearethechurch #talkitover #lnctalkitover  Check out the full message https://youtu.be/YTLkUqM5ahk New to LifeNorth.Church? Click here: https://lifenorth.breezechms.com/form/2e6b19 We would love to pray with you! You can leave a comment below or request prayer here: https://lifenorth.breezechms.com/form/71c05f...2023-01-2232 minLifeNorth.Church Talk it OverLifeNorth.Church Talk it OverThe Miracle you need mostListen in as Ian and Dave unpack the message, "The miracle you need most" from Pastor Craig Groeschel and talk over what it might mean in our lives. Don't forget to leave a comment and give us a thumbs up. #LifeNorthChurch #wearethechurch #talkitover #lnctalkitover  Check out the full message https://youtu.be/ixTYPVqrEtM  New to LifeNorth.Church? Click here: https://lifenorth.breezechms.com/form/2e6b19 We would love to pray with you! You can leave a comment below or request prayer here: https://lifenorth.breezechms.com/form/71c05f  ...2023-01-1529 minLifeNorth.Church Talk it OverLifeNorth.Church Talk it Over3 Mindsets for a Better YearListen in as Ian and Michaela unpack the message, "3 Mindsets for a Better Year" from Pastor Craig Groeschel and talk over what it might mean in our lives. Don't forget to leave a comment and give us a thumbs up. #LifeNorthChurch #wearethechurch #talkitover #lnctalkitover Check out the full message https://youtu.be/B8gEKr14NhU New to LifeNorth.Church? Click here: https://lifenorth.breezechms.com/form/2e6b19 We would love to pray with you! You can leave a comment below or request prayer here: https://lifenorth.breezechms.com/form/71c05f 2023-01-0932 minLifeNorth.Church Talk it OverLifeNorth.Church Talk it OverInside Pastor Craig & Amy’s MarriageListen in as Ian and Carolyn talk over the message, "Inside Pastor Craig & Amy's Marriage" from Pastor Craig Groeschel and talk over what it might mean in our lives. Don't forget to leave a comment and give us a thumbs up. #LifeNorthChurch #savethedate #talkitover #lnctalkitover  Check out the full message https://youtu.be/MAPNxB1HQS8  New to LifeNorth.Church? Click here: https://lifenorth.breezechms.com/form/2e6b19 We would love to pray with you! You can request prayer here: https://lifenorth.breezechms.com/form/71c05f ...2022-11-2734 minLifeNorth.Church Talk it OverLifeNorth.Church Talk it Over3 Qualities You Need Before MarriageListen in as Ian and Dave unpack the message, "3 Qualities You Need Before Marriage" from Pastor Craig Groeschel and talk over what it might mean in our lives. Don't forget to leave a comment and give us a thumbs up. #LifeNorthChurch #savethedate #talkitover #lnctalkitover  Check out the full message https://youtu.be/mh89m2E64_k  New to LifeNorth.Church? Click here: https://lifenorth.breezechms.com/form/2e6b19 We would love to pray with you! You can leave a comment below or request prayer here: ht...2022-11-0631 minLifeNorth.Church Talk it OverLifeNorth.Church Talk it OverWe All Need a Fresh StartListen in as Ian and Michaela unpack the message, "We All Need a Fresh Start" from Pastor Earl McClellan and talk over what it might mean in our lives. Don't forget to leave a comment and give us a thumbs up. #LifeNorthChurch #overflow #talkitover #lnctalkitover Check out the full message https://youtu.be/VuGZSPVHM0E New to LifeNorth.Church? Click here: https://lifenorth.breezechms.com/form/2e6b19 We would love to pray with you! You can leave a comment below or request prayer here: https://lifenorth.breezechms.com/form/71c05f2022-10-1734 minLifeNorth.Church Talk it OverLifeNorth.Church Talk it OverMore BlessedListen in as Ian and Dave unpack the message, "More blessed" from Pastor Earl McClellan and talk over what it might mean in our lives. Don't forget to leave a comment and give us a thumbs up. #LifeNorthChurch #overflow #talkitover #lnctalkitover Check out the full message https://youtu.be/x_8SsAkxeFk New to LifeNorth.Church?    Click here: https://lifenorth.breezechms.com/form/2e6b19 We would love to pray with you! You can leave a comment below or request prayer here: https://lifenorth.breezechms.com/form/71c05f ABOUT LIFENORTH.CH...2022-10-0232 minLifeNorth.Church Talk it OverLifeNorth.Church Talk it OverBeating BurnoutListen in as Ian, Pastor Dave and John - during their LifeGroup time unpack the message, "Beating Burnout" from Pastor Craig Groeschel and talk over what it might mean in our lives. Don't forget to leave a comment and give us a thumbs up. #LifeNorthChurch #peaceofmind #talkitover #lnctalkitover  Check out the full message https://youtu.be/8VFVo6Ev5Dk 00:00 Welcome 01:09 Catch up 04:00 Message review   11:42 Talk it Over Questions    New to LifeNorth.Church?   Click here: https://lifenorth.breezechms.com/form/2e6b19...2022-09-2734 minLifeNorth.Church Talk it OverLifeNorth.Church Talk it Over3 Ways to Seek Healing From TraumaListen in as Ian and Carolyn unpack the message, "3 ways to seek healing from trauma" from Pastor Craig Groeschel and talk over what it might mean in our lives. Don't forget to leave a comment and give us a thumbs up. #LifeNorthChurch #peaceofmind #talkitover #lnctalkitover  Check out the full message https://youtu.be/sqEVNGegUew  00:00 Welcome 01:09 Catch up 04:00 Message review   11:42 Talk it Over Questions    New to LifeNorth.Church?   Click here: https://lifenorth.breezechms.com/form/2e6b19 We would love t...2022-09-2031 minLifeNorth.Church Talk it OverLifeNorth.Church Talk it OverSilence Your Negative ThoughtsListen in as we unpack the message, "Silence your negative thoughts", from Pastor Craig Groeschel and talk over what it might mean in our lives. Don't forget to leave a comment and give us a thumbs up. #LifeNorthChurch #peaceofmind #talkitover #lnctalkitover  New to LifeNorth.Church?   Click here: https://lifenorth.breezechms.com/form/2e6b19 We would love to pray with you! You can leave a comment below or request prayer here: https://lifenorth.breezechms.com/form/71c05f  ABOUT LIFENORTH.CHURCH Wherever you are in lif...2022-09-1227 minLifeNorth.Church Talk it OverLifeNorth.Church Talk it OverWhy do I always worry?Listen in as we unpack the message, "Why do I always worry?", from Pastor Craig Groeschel and talk over what it might mean in our lives. Don't forget to leave a comment and give us a thumbs up. #LifeNorthChurch #Peaceofmind #talkitover  00:00 Welcome 00:50 Catch up 03:25 Message review   09:50 Questions    #lifenorthchurch    New to LifeNorth.Church?   Click here: https://lifenorth.breezechms.com/form/2e6b19 We would love to pray with you! You can leave a comment below or request prayer here: https://lifenorth.breezechms.com/form/71c05f  2022-09-0534 minLifeNorth.Church Talk it OverLifeNorth.Church Talk it Over3 Secrets to the marriage you wantListen in as we unpack the message, "Am I too bad for God?", from Pastor Craig Groeschel and talk over what it might mean in our lives. Don't forget to leave a comment and give us a thumbs up. #LifeNorthChurch #DoubtingGod #talkitover   00:00 Welcome 00:50 Catch up 02:50 Message review   09:35 Questions    #lifenorthchurch   New to LifeNorth.Church?   Click here: https://lifenorth.breezechms.com/form/2e6b19 We would love to pray with you! You can leave a comment below or request prayer here: https://lifenorth.breezechms.com/form/7...2022-07-0331 minLifeNorth.Church Talk it OverLifeNorth.Church Talk it OverAm I Too Bad for God?Listen in as we unpack the message, "Am I too bad for God?", from Pastor Craig Groeschel and talk over what it might mean in our lives. Don't forget to leave a comment and give us a thumbs up.  #LifeNorthChurch #DoubtingGod #talkitover  00:00 Welcome 00:38 Catch up 03:37 Message review   09:54 Questions    New to LifeNorth.Church?   Click here: https://lifenorth.breezechms.com/form/2e6b19 We would love to pray with you! You can leave a comment below or request prayer here: https://lifenorth.breezechms.com/form/7...2022-05-1632 minLifeNorth.Church Talk it OverLifeNorth.Church Talk it OverWhen Christians Let Us DownListen in as we unpack the message, "When Christians Let You Down", from Pastor Craig Groeschel and talk over what it might mean in our lives. Don't forget to leave a comment and give us a thumbs up. #LifeNorthChurch #DoubtingGod #talkitover  00:00 Welcome 01:04 Catch up 04:51 Message review   11:05 Questions    New to LifeNorth.Church?   Click here: https://lifenorth.breezechms.com/form/2e6b19 We would love to pray with you! You can leave a comment below or request prayer here: https://lifenorth.breezechms.com/form/71c05f  ...2022-05-0929 minSG² Steve Gladen on Small GroupsSG² Steve Gladen on Small GroupsINSIDE SADDLEBACK: Is Sermon-Based Curriculum Hazardous to your Small Group’s Health?saddleback.com/talkitover smallgroupnetwork.com/basecamp ★ Support this podcast ★ 2021-06-0241 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedWhat Is A Healthy Relationship For You? Team Trish vs Team Olin / Part2The battle between team Trish and team Olin is continuing. Are you ready for a pillow fight in our big Ole bed? The topic is as hot as usual and is obviously adding to the fire: What is a healthy relationship for you?  Does it mean a safe environment when you can be yourself and express your thoughts freely without being judged? Can a couple be in healthy relationships but have disagreements? Does it mean to keep your independence or spend every moment together? There are so many scenarios, healthy for one and unhealthy for another, and w...2021-06-0138 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedWhat Is A Healthy Relationship For You? Team Trish vs Team Olin / Part 1Finally, we have a battle that many were waiting for: team Trish and team Olin are meeting in one big Ole bed to duel it out. And the topic is hotter than ever: What is a healthy relationship for you? Does it involve honesty, transparency, give & take, trust, communication, empathy, or just a desire to talk it over? Is women's perspective on healthy relationships any different from male's? The conversation got so hot that the executive producer KI from Bed-Stuy couldn't help himself from jumping in.  Join us for the next 4 weeks for the fiery series: Team T...2021-05-2528 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedWhen your partner doesn’t believe in you… (PART 2)Great minds don't always feel supported by their significant others. How do you succeed if your loved one doesn't believe in your dreams? Should you even stay in this relationship? Does every dreamer need to have a provider?  We are not trying to find the right answers. We are just talking it over in our Big Ole Bed. Now let's pull back the sheets...  Producers: KI from Bed-Stuy and Anna Treyer-Simakova Podcast host and co-producer: Olin - ‘Big O - keeping you in the know’; Podcast co-hosts: Tricia Grannum aka Trish  Our expert: ...2021-05-1834 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedWhen your partner doesn't believe in you...What do you do if your significant other doesn't believe in you or your dreams? Will this relationship have a chance to survive? Not everybody is equally yoked: someone is learning by doing, someone needs to get inspired... Can one support his/her partner despite not seeing the big picture? How important is your partner's support for you? Where is the line between practical criticism and disbelief?  We are not trying to find the right answers. We are just talking it over in our Big Ole Bed. Now let's pull back the sheets...  Producers: KI fro...2021-05-1135 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedHow comfortable are you with being alone? Part 2Being alone isn't the same as being lonely. Can you be your own best friend? Or do you always need to be surrounded by people?  What does aloneness mean to you? Would you consider yourself being alone while being in multiple situationships? How long would you wait before starting a new relationship?  We are not trying to find the right answers. We are just talking it over in our Big Ole Bed. Now let's pull back the sheets...  Producers: KI from Bed-Stuy and Anna Treyer-Simakova Podcast host and co-producer: Olin - ‘Big O - keepi...2021-05-0428 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedHow comfortable are you with being alone?Everyone has limits, how long before being alone becomes intolerable? How comfortable are you with aloneness? Is going from relationship to relationship healthy? Do you give yourself enough time to reflect on a broken relationship before jumping to a new one? How important is giving yourself a break? Being in-between relationships, can you just focus on yourself?  We are not trying to find the right answers. We are just talking it over in our Big Ole Bed. Now let's pull back the sheets...  Producers: KI from Bed-Stuy and Anna Treyer-Simakova Podcast host and co...2021-04-2727 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedCan a neat freak and a slob be in a relationship? Part2What is worse: to date a slob or a neat freak? When the obsession with cleanliness becomes a disorder? On the opposite spectrum, would you be with someone, who is a hoarder? How to find and set the right boundaries?  We are not trying to find the right answers. We are just talking it over in our Big Ole Bed. Now let's pull back the sheets...  Producers: KI from Bed-Stuy and Anna Treyer-Simakova Podcast host and co-producer: Olin - ‘Big O - keeping you in the know’; Podcast co-hosts: Tricia Grannum aka Trish  Guest...2021-04-2029 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedCan a neat freak and a slob be in a relationship? Part 1Is being messy a deal-breaker? Can a neat person date a slob? Does the untidy environment reflect the messiness of the inner world of the person? Is being busy an excuse to be a slob? What if you are an artist and you need a little bit of mess to create? How to find the balance?  We are not trying to find the right answers. We are just talking it over in our Big Ole Bed. Now let's pull back the sheets...  Producers: KI from Bed-Stuy and Anna Treyer-Simakova Podcast host and co-producer: Olin...2021-04-1328 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedHow to avoid the most common first-date mistakes? PART2We are continuing to talk about the most common biggest first-date mistakes. Unfortunately, dealing with the first date disappointment is a natural process of dating. How to prevent common mistakes? How many phone conversations required before going on a date? How to manage expectations? Can you recover from a bad date? There is a lot to talk about in our big Ole bed. Now let's pull back the sheets...  Producers: KI from Bed-Stuy and Anna Treyer-Simakova Podcast host and co-producer: Olin - ‘Big O - keeping you in the know’; Podcast co-hosts: Tricia Grannum aka Trish  ...2021-04-0637 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedHow to avoid the most common first-date mistakes? PART 1This episode is about a 'failure to launch': the most common biggest first-date mistakes. What is more stressful for you: the first date or a job interview? In both instances, you need to sell your personality. How to keep your authenticity and not scare away a potential new love? How to make the first date enjoyable and not stressful? How to define mistakes that are irreversible or can be forgiven? Being late, constantly checking your phone, focusing on yourself, coming too strong, lacking manners... there is no unifying recipe for a failure on the first date, but we can...2021-03-3028 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedShould You Have A Problem If Your Partner Has A Wandering Eye?Is it normal to have a 'wandering eye'? None of us are immune to temptation. We all have our own reasons. Is it ok if someone likes to 'check out the menu without ordering? Does a wandering eye have to lead to infidelity? Is there any difference between online and in-person wandering? Is it a sign of insecurity if your partner's 'wandering eye' makes you feel upset? Can you talk it over?  We are not trying to find the right answers. We are just talking it over in our Big Ole Bed. Now let's pull back the s...2021-03-231h 01TalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedWhat Is Your Conflict Style In A Relationship?How do you deal with conflicts? Are you critical or understanding? Do you have a conflict avoidance strategy or are you a straight shooter? How to deal with these differences? Is miscommunication ripping the fabric of your relationship? Can two people talk it over?  How to resolve the conflict after the conflict? What does it take to start listening to each other?  We are not trying to find the right answers. We are just talking it over in our Big Ole Bed. And shout out to the comments from the streets. Now let's pull back the sheets...  ...2021-03-1652 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedWould You Date Someone With Young Kids?Would you date a single parent? Do you have your own children? Are you ready to become a stepparent? Do you realize that when you dating someone with children you are not just dating - you are committing? Do you even like kids? What questions do you need to discuss with your potential loved one before stepping into this minefield? Are you ready to deal with teenager problems? Will your partner be ok if you start to discipline his/her child? It doesn't matter if you have answers now. When you start dating someone with young kids, get ready...2021-03-0952 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedHow to stay friends with your ex?Can you really be friends with your ex? Did you ask yourself, why you want to be friends with your ex? Are there still some feelings involved? Are you in a new relationship? How does your new love react to your ex's existence? Does your family support you? How do you avoid unnecessary drunken arguments that can often accompany transitions? How do you know when to set boundaries, and when to keep that person close?  There is a lot to talk it over. Please meet our amazing guests and let's pull back the sheets...  Producers: KI...2021-03-0250 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedHarmony in diversity: are we too different to make it work?How can religious/cultural/racial differences impact your relationships? What if your family or community does not support your choice due to historical or cultural experiences and/or prejudices? Is it bigotry, close-mindedness, or just preference? Is it a typical dilemma for families, where parents are following their traditional beliefs but children don't stay within the cultural/racial boundaries? How to navigate dating life when you are struggling to find your own identity? What is worse: racial or religious prejudice?  We have a very complex topic today and 50 min is not enough to cover all the nuances, s...2021-02-2353 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedMoney Imbalance In RelationshipsOne of the toughest struggles in the dating process is to create an open line of communication about money. What if your partner is experiencing a job loss due to the pandemic or going through a career change? Can you openly talk about it? Would you feel diminished if you are dating someone who has more money/status than you? How do you feel about a partner who earns less and cannot afford to pay for dinner? Is financial status one of your priorities in choosing a partner? What is the difference between self-worth and net worth?  W...2021-02-1657 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedWhat is your sex language?We already know that there are 5 Love Languages (check the episode from Jan 26, 2021). Apparently, there are another 5 languages that define our relationship with sex and each other. How do you like to be loved? Have you ever felt like you and a partner were not speaking the same language in the bedroom? Have you ever felt misunderstood for your sex preferences or judged your partner for his/her? But wait, are there only 5 categories on what is turning us on and how we most like to receive pleasure? Aren't we all unique and sexually wired differently?  Let's p...2021-02-0952 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedWhat are your biggest fears in starting a new relationship?Do you know what happens if you invite a writer, a comedian, a marriage therapist, a wellness coach, and a producer to the show and put them in one big ole bed? - you have an amazing episode of TalkItOver. And we are going to talk about the biggest fears in starting a new relationship.  Have you ever heard that the word FEAR is an acronym for False Evidence Appearing Real? Basically, there’s no threat or risk of a failure in the present but our mind reconstructs an illusion based on the past experiences that prevent us...2021-02-0258 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedLove languages: how to read them and do they need to match?Love languages: can you name all five of them? What if your partner's love languages don't match yours? Can you adjust if you really care about your loved one? What to do if your partner keeps misinterpreting your needs and, for example, brings you chocolate when what you really need is a hug? Should you learn all five languages to prevent any misunderstandings? Do your love languages change through time?  We have an amazing group of people in our big ole bed and even a professional audience next to it. Now let's pull back the sheets... 2021-01-261h 05TalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedIs it a deal-breaker if someone is lying on a dating profile?If you have ever created a dating account, you know that most dating sites require a short story/bio to complete your profile. But must the story also be 100% true to be effective? Can lies assist you to attract the right one? Or will it be a big turn-off when the truth is revealed? Is any lie a deal-breaker? Or can a small exaggeration get a pass? What's the fine line between deception and embellishment? A Kaspersky survey of online daters from around the world found that over half of online daters lie. Why are so many people making up...2021-01-1953 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedHow soon is too soon to begin dating after a breakup?How soon is too soon to begin dating after a breakup? Is the first person you date after a breakup, the "rebound"? What are the chances that a post-breakup partner will heal the wound but also become the ONE? Do you need to have a rebound to fix a self-confidence breach? After being hurt by your ex-relationship, is it fair to use and potentially hurt someone else? We cannot control the pain caused by a breakup, but can we learn a lot from it? Would it be better to start re-building yourself from within before re-entering the dating world...2021-01-1256 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedCan you fall In love with a married Man/Women?Can you have a full-on relationship with someone who is taken? What if you fell in love with a married man/woman? Is it an open relationship when all parties know what is going on? Or is it one gate play? Are you familiar with the phrase: if you have to hide it, you know it is wrong? Are you ok to be a second priority? What happens when you are married and get engaged in a side relationship? Is it possible to keep both parties satisfied? But is having an affair on a side indicates a deeper personal...2021-01-051h 12TalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedA conversation inspired by JBJ Soul Foundation's storyWe always start our episodes with a feel-good story to create unity among the guests and the right mood for the question-of-the-day conversation. This time, the story about JBJ Soul Foundation's initiative brought up by our co-host Maya-Mae engaged everyone in a 35 min stand-alone discussion about problems of homelessness in New York and beyond. There are 57,341 homeless people, including 18,653 children, sleeping each night in the New York City municipal shelter system. New York City has more than 111,000 homeless students. Covid has only increased the size of the issue. It just happened that our p...2020-12-2933 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedSex - Lay it all on the table? Or keep it to yourself?For the first time in the history of the TalkItOver show, we are going to talk in our big ole bed about SEX. Why so many people are afraid to talk about sex while dating? Is it a bad habit to avoid this conversation to keep the mystery? How to address sensitive issues without making a wrong impression? Does talking about sex mean that you up for it? Should you lay it all right away on the table or keep it to yourself? Can the first sex fiasco with a new partner kill the future of this relationship? Does...2020-12-221h 02TalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedRejection in Love: a loss or blessing in disguise?There are multiple ways to break up. It appears that texting is not the worst method of all. There are Facebook, WhatsApp, Email, phone call, ask a friend-options that can be equally painful... How to end your relationship in a less harmful way? Does this way even exist? How to handle a break-up in an abusive relationship? Will the remote breakup come in handy? How to navigate your emotions and communication during pandemics? How to see the end of relationships as an opportunity and re-direction to better yourself? How to not let rejection define you but find lessons in you?    ...2020-12-1557 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedIs Marriage Still A Goal?Is marriage still seen as an essential step in a successful life? According to the Pew Research Center only about half of Americans over age 18 are married. This is down from 72% then we had 40 years ago, while divorce rates have been significantly raising especially among older Americans. So, is Marriage still a goal? Why are men and women shying away from commitment? Is it a natural fear of rejection or being controlled? Could we see it as a positive trend? What if a delay in marriage allows young people to avoid mistakes, first learn about themselves before...2020-12-081h 01TalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedDo women understand men better than men understand women or vice versa?What are the emotional differences between males and females? Are women more complicated than men? How does this difference affect dating and relationships? What does a woman's "Fine" actually mean? What are the clues to read women's reactions? Is it even possible for men to understand women and vice versa? Is it going to remain an unsolved mystery? Or should you start by understanding yourself first?  We are not trying to find the right answers. We are just talking it over in our Big Ole Bed and we have perfect guests for a very frank conversation. Now l...2020-12-0148 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedBringing Someone Home For The Holidays...While we are fast approaching the holiday season, it comes with the pressure of meeting with the family and socializing. Imagine on top of that you are planning to invite your significant other to the family gathering for the first time? Have you discussed it with your beau? What if your celebration-styles don’t match? What if your partner doesn’t like holidays or doesn't like your family? Do you need to make a choice and spend a holiday season with your partner or your family? Ultimately, holidays are often the test for relationships — it's actually the most common time o...2020-11-2454 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedIs it ok to be courting more than one person?Before going deep into the topic let's clarify the semantics: courting vs dating. What comes first? What term has a more serious connotation and consequences? Is it fair to your potential and yourself to be committed to monogamy from the first date? Or is dating a numbers game? At what stage of 'courting'/'dating' do two or people need to communicate their expectations and set the boundaries? Why is this conversation difficult for some? How do different attachment styles affect your dating behavior?  We are not subject matter experts, but one of our special guests definitely is. R...2020-11-1750 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedCan We Date Through Political Differences?What to do if you are dating someone who is on the opposite side of the political, cultural and/or religious spectrum? Would you date someone who didn’t share your political beliefs and voted for the "other guy"? It might have been harder to do during the current nontraditional presidency, but can we still listen to each other and cherish our shared values? Following famous JFK words: "ask not what your country can do for you, ask what you can do for your country" - can two people live, love and serve their community together despite their different pa...2020-11-1050 minEcho.ChurchEcho.Church(Not So) Little Things | Faith[full] (Pt. 1) | Andy Wood“How do I make a difference? How do I live a life that counts?”When we focus on doing big things, the little things often get overlooked. But we can’t underestimate being faithful in the everyday tasks right in front of us.Join us today as Pastor Andy kicks off our new series, Faith[full], with a message on how perhaps the little things in life aren’t so little after all - and in fact, could be the things that matter the most.--------------------RESOURCES→ If you found this message helpful, SHARE IT with a friend! Like & subscribe so you don’t...2020-11-0937 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedHow to introduce someone you’re courting to your colleagues and/or friends?How to introduce your date to your colleagues and/or friends for the first time? What if you just run into your coworker or aunt while on a first or second outing with your new possibility? Is there a protocol?  How to introduce someone without labels and further unnecessary questions? When should you discuss the 'introduction protocol' with your 'possibility'? Are you both comfortable with "boyfriend" or "girlfriend" titles? Is there recovery after the wrong introduction?  We are not trying to find the right answers. We are just talking it over in our Big Ole Bed and we...2020-11-0357 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedGames: who plays them the most? Men or women?Tit for Tat: who really does play the most games (innocent or otherwise) in courtship? According to some statistics, females give false names, males give a false relationship status. Females lie about their weight, guys lie about the height... Why do people lie when they are dating, especially dating online? Is dishonesty a part of human nature? Or is it a defense mechanism or a sign of insecurity? What lies are forgivable and what lies should raise red flags?  We are not trying to find the right answers. We are just talking it over in our Big O...2020-10-2757 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedCan Love Conquer All?Can love overcome any obstacles and conquer all? What is love and does it really have such powers? Is it the only ingredient that guarantees "happily-ever-after"? Or is it another 'big fat lie' about relationships? Where does love go when life is not perfect and/or when people aren't perfect? Or does real love help to get past the bad times and give you a reason to work harder at your relationship? Can love overcome hate and change the world?  We are not trying to find the right answers. We are just talking it over in our B...2020-10-2039 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedIs jealousy healthy in a relationship? (Part 2)Is jealousy healthy in a relationship? Part 2 - it is a revisiting of one of the hot topics/episodes posted in early 2020 and received the most attention from the podcast listeners. What is jealousy? Is it a symptom of insecurity? Or is it an indication of a lack of respect or attention from your partner? How should it be addressed? Can jealousy be cured? Or is it an integral part of love? We are not trying to find the right answers. We are just talking it over in our Big Ole Bed. Now let's pull back the...2020-10-1356 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedShould Ambitions Match in Relationships?Draw me a picture: should goals and ambitions match? Should you be open about your intentions? For example, what if you want to get married or looking for a sugar daddy? Or what if you look for a business partner or investor? Should you be clear about your intentions from day one? Can you date a less ambitious person or do you​ ​need to be with someone who accepts your level of ambition and doesn't get in the way? Is there a healthy recipe for a healthy career path and love life?    We are not trying to find the right answe...2020-10-0647 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedWhat Is Love? (Part 2): Situationship vs RelationshipWhat Is Love? Does it last forever? - it was the very first topic that TalkItOver podcast was launched with back in December and collected the highest number of listeners. Nine months later, we are revisiting this hot topic with the new guests and a new twist: Situationship vs Relationship. How to determine which of the 'ships' you are in? What is a situationship? Aren't we all in some sort of 'situation' as it pertains to relationships? Can a situationship become a relationship?  We are not trying to find the right answers. We are just talking it o...2020-09-2957 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedCan love-relationships change your personality?“As a man changes his own nature, so does the attitude of the world change towards him.” - Gandhi. Does the same principle apply to love-relationships? Do you even agree that personality is changing through life? Does true love mean that your love partner loves you as you are? When is it necessary to change because your bachelor's habits affecting your love-relationships? Or how to deal with your partner's personality change because of aging? If personality is not fixed, how much you can expect or ask your love-partner to change? Or should you first try to change yourself instead of try...2020-09-2255 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedHonesty vs Oversharing: is it ok to keep secrets?Does sharing your life with someone mean being always honest? What if your 'past love' skeletons have the potential to harm your new relationships? What is a comfortable level of sharing? Do you need to tell your date about your strange little habits and/or a one-night stand in college? How soon into courting should you start to share information that might affect your relationship?  We are not trying to find the right answers. We are just talking it over in our Big Ole Bed. Now let's pull back the sheets... Host & Producer: KI from Bed...2020-09-1556 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTravel vs Relationships: How to Choose?The topic of today's episode is: How to balance/choose between the desire to travel and being in relationships. What happens if your partner wants to settle down and not excited about the next flight and a hotel stay? What if your partner cannot travel with you, will you stay? Travel is supposed to broaden the perspective...can travel help you understand who you are? Do some people choose travel vs relationships to escape from the existing reality and run away from themselves? How to find the balance?  The same as last week, before jumping to a re...2020-09-081h 13TalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedMeet The Parents: How To Keep Love and DistanceThe topic of today's episode is: How to create a healthy well-balanced relationship with your parents? What if you are dating while living with your parents? What if your parents are too involved in your personal life? How to set boundaries? Is it your or your partner's responsibility? But before pulling back the sheets and jump to a regular discussion, we'd like to start our episode with the team's temperature check and reflection on the current social unrest and injustice.  The summer is over and let's admit, we are facing September with even stronger issues and uncertainty. T...2020-09-0158 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedIs it a deal-breaker if your partner calls you by a different name?What does it mean when your significant other calls you by the wrong name? Is it a big problem for you? Is it his/her ex or a family member or a boss? Did it happen more than once? Or what if your partner calls you by several different names? Is it enough reason to be suspicious? It is definitely enough reason to have a conversation and talk it over, the same way we are talking it over in our Big Ole Bed. Now let's pull back the sheets... Host & Producer: KI from Bedstuy; Podcast host and co...2020-08-2553 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedHealthy Compromise: To Give Or Not To Give?According to Max Baucus: "A true definition of compromise – a little give, a little take”. As stated by Elitesingles.com: "Reaching a compromise is a chance to expand your emotional intelligence and capacity for empathy." Is the winning formula in compromise to incorporate both of your needs to create a new version? How to know when to compromise in a relationship and when to say no? What is a healthy compromise? Does compromise mean to surrender? How to find a happy medium? What are the areas of relationships for you that are non-negotiable?    We are not trying to find the right a...2020-08-1849 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedHow To Address Sensitive Issues?What is your first reaction when you hear: "We Need To Talk"? Are you in trouble? How to address sensitive issues without hurting your partner's feelings? How to maintain healthy relationships and develop positive communications while raising unpleasant topics in personal life/work/family? According to a relationship coach Dr. Susan Edelman: "When you can express yourself to your partner in a constructive way, it often brings you closer together. You’re not likely to feel understood if you can’t tell your partner how you feel."  Are there certain sensitive topics that you should bring up with yo...2020-08-1156 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedThe Most Important PersonShould you be the most important person in your significant other's life? We all agree that great relationships don't happen by itself, they require constant work and effort. Does this involve prioritizing your partner before anything else: before Friends, before Family, before Children? If you met "the love of your life', does that mean that the majority of your time and attention must be devoted to him/her? Is it ok to tuck away some of your own goals and aspirations because something has to give?    We don't have the answers. We are just talking it...2020-08-0450 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedChampion or Challenger?Should your partner be your champion or your challenger? Can two people who are polar opposites on the political/social/cultural spectrum be in healthy relationships? Can you date a person with extreme political views? Can they talk it over? Who would you prefer to be locked with during pandemic? Can one person combine both characteristics depending on the situation?  We don't have the answers. We are just talking it over in our Big Ole Bed. Now let's pull back the sheets... Host & Producer: KI from Bedstuy; Podcast host and co-producer: Olin - ‘Big O - keepi...2020-07-281h 01TalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalk It Over Team: Temperature CheckWhile the summer temperature outdoor is rising, the TalkItOver team and friends are getting together to check up on the team's temperature. Dealing with Coronavirus since March has been a big test for everyone's sanity and well being, but it’s certainly not the only unprecedented challenge we’re facing right now. The social unrest we are witnessing in the US for the last couple of months revealed a bigger virus that we have been dealing for centuries. Although the show is about dating and relationships, we decided that we cannot avoid this conversation that is affecting our...2020-07-2156 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedOpen Relationships: What Is It? Pros and Cons(April recording) Would you be open to having a conversation about opening your relationship? How is it different from other non-monogamy types? Why do some people still need to explore more options when they have great loved-one at home? Do open relationships require a certain level of maturity and communication? Is it for everyone? How important are emotional and sexual boundaries in open relationships? How is it different from the traditional ones? Do open relationships mean couples are having more sex or committed to more work?  Well, we are not subject matter experts but some of our gu...2020-07-1442 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedWhat to do if parents don't approve your relationship?How do you deal with the situation when you are in love with someone but yours and/or your partner's parents don't approve? How to deal with the parents not liking your boyfriend/girlfriend based on cultural, religious, racial, or social differences? Are there any peaceful ways to open parents' minds? What if parents may have a very legitimate reason for disliking their child’s choice? How to justify that they have the right concerns especially if you are in love?  We are not trying to find the right answers. We are just talking it over in our Big Ole B...2020-07-0751 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedLove lessons: how to unlearn them? What love lessons did you have to unlearn from childhood? Where did you learn it? TV? Books? Parents? Peers? Or maybe your last break-up? How many of them does a person need to overcome and learn that there is no such thing as a perfect relationship? Is Love is a learning process with the main objective to learn more about yourself? And if so might it take a lifetime...?   We are not subject matter experts and not trying to find the right answers. We are just talking it over in our individual beds, as the Talk It Over team takes so...2020-07-0152 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bed"Dogs and Cats Living Together" "...dogs and cats living together... mass hysteria!" - Dr. Peter Venkman, Ghostbusters. Can dogs live with cats? Do you think a dog person and a cat person can date and get along as a couple? Are you a cat person or a dog person and does it influence your dating life? According to some surveys, a dog person is more outgoing, enthusiastic and easy to get along, while a cat person is likely to be curious, independent, and more prone to worry than dog people. But there is no one formula for all. Our latest podcast is a perfect example...2020-06-1746 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedHow To Recognize An Emotional Manipulator?How to recognize when you have been emotionally manipulated? How to address it? There are many different forms of manipulation, ranging from a jealous, needy friend to an emotionally abusive partner. Some situations or behaviors are easier to spot than others. But what unites manipulators of all kinds is a desire to control other people. They are emotional black holes and can undermine your sense of who you are and even make you doubt your own sanity. How to protect yourself?  Well, we are not subject matter experts but some of our guests are. Now let's pull back the she...2020-06-0944 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedLOVE vs The Idea of Being in LoveHow do you know if it is love? We are in love with the idea of being in love perhaps. We are chasing this elusive feeling, the spark, the butterflies... but as soon as it fades away we are disappointed and ready for a new search. Being in love - is it just a moment? Is LOVE a feeling or a state of mind? Can one love and care about someone regardless of relationship status?  We are not subject matter experts but some of our guests are. Thanks to them we had an especially genuine and openhearted c...2020-06-0247 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedAre You Dating A Momma's Boy?How to know if you’re dating a momma's boy? There’s a difference between a man who is close to and loves his mother and a man who is still clutching his mother's apron strings. He still lives with his mom, needs her approval in everything, sleeps in a twin bed with Star Wars sheets and cannot do his own laundry... how do you deal with that? What about dating a daddy's girl? Should one expect the same issues? The Pew Research Center discovered that shockingly the majority of millennial men can be classified as momma's boys. The study...2020-05-2644 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedSecond-first Impression: when does the make-up come off?How long before we reveal our true selves in a relationship? What is the timeline for the second-first impression? When does the real make-up come off? Anyone in a relationship will tell there’s no exact timeline when it comes to navigating the love territory. When is the right time to say ‘I love you’ or share dreams for the future? When is it acceptable to dress down in front of your partner or skip wearing make-up? When is the right time to start planning the first travel together? When do you start choosing Netflix over sex? We are not try...2020-05-1954 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedWorkplace romance: how to make it work?Work romance: should you stay away from it? How to handle an awkward affair that isn't yours? Spending an immense amount of hours at work, an office might be the only logical way to find a partner. According to CareerBuilder.com over 30 percent of workers who started dating at work ended up getting married, although 41 present of workers had to keep their romance a secret. Getting involved in an office romance, it’s important to think through the risks and be mindful of possible consequences. What if a couple is working together on the same project? How to make it...2020-05-1244 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedLong-distance relationships: do they work? Maintaining a healthy relationship requires a lot of effort - while maintaining a long-distance relationship is an art form. It requires a lot of self-awareness, a high level of trust, confidence, and of course, a solid set of communication skills. With the advancement of technology over the last decade, long-distance relationships have become much easier to manage than in the past but it is still a lot of work. Would you be in a long-distance relationship? How long do these types of relationships last? What does it take to overcome distance, time differences, and geographical separation? How to make...2020-05-0541 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedIs it ok to be selfish in a relationship?Today's episode is all about “Selfishness”. Is "Being Selfish" unfairly depicted negatively? How can it affect the dating/relationship dynamics? What forms of selfishness are ok? What is the difference between self-care and selfishness? Is there a healthy amount of selfishness that actually can help to build a better relationship and beyond? We are spending every second with ourselves, don't we deserve more self-love? We are not subject matter experts and not trying to find the right answers. We are just talking it over in our individual beds, as the Talk It Over team takes social distancing very seriously. Now le...2020-04-2842 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedDo Lifestyles Have To Match?She starts her day with 30 min run before the sunrise and practicing yoga in the evening, he sleeps late and is watching the sports channel from his favorite couch.  Can these individuals find happiness inside of dating/relationships? Is it important for those in a relationship to have similar lifestyle priorities and habits, especially physical activities? To make a relationship work, do both people really have to be going at the same speed in the same direction at the same time? How do lifestyle differences connect to shared values? We are not subject matter experts and not trying to f...2020-04-2153 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedHow has dating changed through generations?Times are changing and so are some rituals and rules of courting. The older generation keeps saying that the way millennials date can’t be called “dating”...well, wait until Gen Z starts setting dating trends. What was once unacceptable is considered to be the norm today and vice versa. How has dating changed through ages? How are people from different generations adapting to new realities? We've been lucky to get together an amazing group of people in our big ole beds to discuss this hot topic. We are not subject matter experts we are merely talking it over and sh...2020-04-1445 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedDATING IN THE ERA OF SOCIAL DISTANCINGIt is probably the best time to validate cliche phrases like: 'Love knows no boundaries or distance'... or 'When two or more people are meant for each other, no distance is too far, no time is too long', and no virus outbreak can break them apart. While dating or looking for love in the era of social distancing, what new measures should we take? Can we look at a new unfortunate reality as an opportunity to be creative in finding new ways to maintain relationships, communicate on a deeper level, learn to talk it over and become more intimate...2020-04-0733 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedIS AGE JUST A NUMBER?Does age really matter that much in dating/relationship? Do couples with large age gaps experience poorer relationship outcomes? What is an acceptable range when it comes to our own relationships? What if age has nothing to do with the success of a relationship, which much rather depends on the extent to which partners share similar values, goals and lifestyles? So is age just a number? We are not subject matter experts and not trying to find the right answers. We are just talking it over in our 'Big Ole bed'... in our individual beds actually, as the Talk It O...2020-03-3142 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedWhen to introduce your significant other to your parents and friends?At what stage, if any, should you know all of your significant other's friends? When should you meet his/her parents? According to new data from dating app Hinge, millennials bring their dates home to meet mom and dad after 10 or more dates, or a little more than two months into the relationship on average. Although, relationship experts are recommending to wait at least five to six months until it's a serious, committed relationship. Is there ever a "right time" to meet the parents? And what about close and not so close friends? Do they need to know and how s...2020-03-2447 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedVideo Podcast. How far would you go on a first date? (part 2)(Part 2) Here is a preview of the TalkItOver video podcast, our 'big ole bed' and the show crew and guests. How far would you go on a first date? Now let's pull back the sheets and connect voices to the faces...   Host & producer: KI from Bedstuy; Podcast Hosts: Olin - ‘Big O - keeping you in the know’, Briana Fuller aka ‘Bri with a Tea’; Podcast guests: Avis 'A Divine' Bey, Maya Graffagna, Anel Carmona, Cory Jimenez;  Engineer & co-producer: Bumpy's Fun House; Co-producer: Anna Treyer-Simakova    2020-03-1703 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedVideo Podcast. How far would you go on a first date? (part 1)A preview of the TalkItOver video podcast and our big ole bed is here. How far would you go on a first date?  Now let's pull back the sheets and connect voices to the faces...   Host & producer: KI from Bedstuy; Podcast Hosts: Olin - ‘Big O - keeping you in the know’, Briana Fuller aka ‘Bri with a Tea’ 2020-03-1703 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedIntro to Video Podcast and Dating TV ShowIf you were wondering what our big ole bed looks like and the personalities behind the voices stay tuned for this week's dating/relationship question of the day. Here is a brief introduction from the show's creator KI from Bedstuy. Later on today we'll post a sneak preview into the video podcast as well as the sizzle reel for dating TV show that we've been prepping for months and filming all last weekend. Check our Instagram page Talkitover.show 2020-03-1003 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedDo Gender Roles Still Matter in Dating and Relationships?While pop culture embraces gender-fluid-style in fashion, over 40% of  American wives are making more money than their husbands, and more men are eager to take care of domestic tasks... the dating field is also experiencing a dramatic behavioral change as well. How are gender-roles transforming and pushing antiquated dating rules and stereotypes? Will the continuing shift in gender-specific behaviors lead to our extinction or evolution? We are not trying to find the right answers, we are just talking it over in our 'Big Ole bed'. Now let's pull back the sheets...   Host & producer: KI from Bedstuy; Podcast Hosts: Ol...2020-03-0348 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedWOULD YOU DATE A FRIEND?Remember the age-old question in the movie When Harry Met Sally: “Men and women can never be friends,” Billy Crystal’s character tells Meg Ryan, “because the sex part always gets in the way.” Is it still accurate for Millenials? Would you date a friend who might know too much about you? Does turning a friendship into a relationship ruin the friendship?  We are not trying to find the right answer, we are just talking it over in our 'Big Ole bed'. Now let's pull back the sheets...   Host & producer: KI from Bedstuy; Podcast hosts: Olin - ‘Big O - keeping you i...2020-02-2549 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedPolyamory: could you be in a relationship with more than one person?Let's talk about another hot topic of the day - POLYAMORY. What is it all about? Are we talking about emotional or just a physical connection? According to experts, polyamory is all about respect, communications and ability to live on the terms that work for the good of all involved. Is it the same requirements for any other form of relationship? Could you be in a relationship with more than one person? If you do, it must have been a very eventful Valentine's day for you. Let's pull back those sheets and talk it over in our big ole...2020-02-1840 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedWhat's the big deal with Valentine's Day?Don’t miss our special V-Day episode! What's the big deal with Valentine's Day? We almost ended up in a big ole pillow fight in our 'Big Ole bed' over the topic. Is it a festival of love or celebration of consumerism? How high are your and your friends' expectations? What if you love the holiday but your partner doesn't? Can you still talk it over? Now let's pull back the sheets...   Host & producer: KI from Bedstuy; Podcast Hosts: Olin - ‘Big O - keeping you in the know’, Briana Fuller aka ‘Bri with a Tea’, Podcast guests: Anna 'Banana...2020-02-1446 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedShould you date/be in a relationship with a soulmate?How would you describe a soulmate? Is it the one and only to find and to live happily ever after? Do you even have to be in a romantic relationship with a soulmate? Can a person has multiple soulmates to come in and out of his or her life over the years? Or maybe you cannot find a single one... Sometimes we spend a lifetime looking for a soulmate... would it be easier to find your soul-self first? We don't know the answer, we are just talking it over in our 'Big Ole bed'. Now let's pull back the sheets...  ...2020-02-1155 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedYour Friends Vs Your Partner: Synergy Or Competition?What happens if your partner doesn't like your friend(s) or vice versa? Does it even matter if your friend(s) don't like your partner? It is hard enough to navigate relationships between two people, why add the third party, a best friend, in the dating equation? Who matters more? And does it have to be a competition? We are not trying to find the right answer, we are just talking it over in our 'Big Ole bed'. Now let's pull back the sheets...   Host & producer: KI from Bedstuy; Podcast guests: Olin - ‘Big O - keeping you in th...2020-02-0445 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedWould You Date Someone Who Has Young Children?Being in a relationship is hard, but being in a relationship with someone who has children can become a mission impossible. Would you date someone who has young children? What if you have determined the child (children) are a disruptive force in cultivating a relationship? What if the other parent is opposed to you being around their child? What if your partner's child doesn't like you? We are not trying to find a unified answer, we are just talking it over in our 'Big Ole bed'. Now let's pull back the sheets...   Host & producer: KI from Bedstuy; Podcast g...2020-01-2846 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedWould You Date/ Be in Relationship With a Workaholic?There is a difference between working hard and be a workaholic, which in most cases is a sign of insecurity. What about people who are just passionate about their job? Work always will be their first priority. But it doesn't mean that all workaholics are doomed to be alone. According to EliteDaily.com, dating someone who will not invest as much time in your relationship as you want – can actually be healthy and make you a 'Power Couple' that motivates each other to succeed. We are not trying to find a unified answer, we are just talking it over in...2020-01-2147 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedIs Jealousy Healthy In a Relationship?Jealousy - is it a signal of insecurity or low self-esteem? Is it a natural emotion that can and needs to be controlled? What is the difference between jealousy and envy? We are not subject matter experts but we are open for a heated discussion in one of the most intimate places to share...the bed.  Let's pull back the sheets and talk it over.  Host & producer: KI from Bedstuy;  CAST: Olin T Gibson 'Big O', Briana Fuller aka ‘Bri with a Tea’, Chris Means 'Just Ask a BROTHA', Anna 'Banana' Simakova;  Special appearance: Bill M...2020-01-1447 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedDoes Social Media Influence Your Dating/Relationships? Are you ready to exchange your wedding vows or breakup via twitter post? Does the social media profile and number of likes validate your personality? How does social media affect the quality of our relationships? Or is it just a new electronic form of communication that should be accepted and mastered? KI and his guests are ready to pull back the sheets and talk it over in the bed.  Host & producer: KI from Bedstuy; Podcast guests: Olin - ‘Big O - keeping you in the know’, 'Phons' Alphonso Vanlow, Special Kat From BK; Special appearance: Charmaine “The Maine” Delato...2020-01-0743 minTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedTalkItOver: The only dating show that begins in bedWhat is LOVE and does it last forever?Humans have been searching, praying, fighting and dying for it, praising and cursing it, but what is it? Romanticized by Holywood, finding true love has become a social requirement and confirmation of the main life accomplishment. But what is this love that many are so obsessed about? Does it last forever? And does it have to? KI and his guests are ready to pull back the sheets and talk it over in the bed.  Host & producer: KI from Bedstuy; Podcast guests: Olin - ‘Big O - keeping you in the know’,  Briana Fuller aka ‘Bri with a Tea’, Christopher...2019-12-2743 min