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The Divorced Dad DiariesEpisode 45 - Denial - Understanding the First Stage of DivorceIn this week’s episode of The Divorce Dad Diaries, we guide listeners through the "denial" phase–often the first stage experienced during the divorce process. We try to highlight the diverse elements of denial and provide a compassionate perspective drawn from my own personal experiences, helping listeners understand how denial can manifest both pre and post-divorce Please feel free to reach me at TheDivorcedDadDiaries@gmail.com for any comments, or questions or to share your stories! Or on Instagram @TheDivorcedDadDiaries You can also visit www.TheDivorcedDadDiaries.com for more! All the...2024-02-2920 min

The Divorced Dad DiariesEpisode 44 - Jingle All the Way - Navigating Divorce During the HolidaysIt is already this time of year! This week, on The Divorced Dad Diaries, I am of course talking about the holidays and how to try to navigate through them. It is not always an easy time, but hopefully everyone can enjoy some time with the ones they love. A very Merry Christmas and Happy New year to everyone! :) Please feel free to reach me at TheDivorcedDadDiaries@gmail.com for any comments, or questions or to share your stories! Or on Instagram @TheDivorcedDadDiaries You can also visit www.TheDivorcedDadDiaries.com for mo...2023-12-2318 min

The Divorced Dad DiariesEpisode 43 - The Five Stages of Grief in DivorceThis week on The Divorced Dad Diaries, I will talk about the grief during divorce. A person going through a divorce will go through a grieving process resembling the five stages of grieving death (denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance). Those 5 stages are often defined as a sequence of steps that one must get through in order to heal from a divorce. The next 5 episodes will be dedicated and focus on every stage. Please feel free to reach me at TheDivorcedDadDiaries@gmail.com for any comments, or questions or to share your stories! ...2023-07-2025 min

The Divorced Dad DiariesEpisode 42 - Shedding Light on GaslightingThis week on The Divorced Dad Diaries, I discussed Divorce and Gaslighting. A word that has been used and re-used in all situations, and for many different reasons. But what does it mean... I mean, what does it really mean? And why is it so overused these days? Please feel free to reach me at TheDivorcedDadDiaries@gmail.com for any comments, or questions or to share your stories! Or on Instagram @TheDivorcedDadDiaries You can also visit www.TheDivorcedDadDiaries.com for more! All the best to you all, and stay safe! 2023-04-1928 min

The Divorced Dad DiariesEpisode 41 - Divorce, Stress and the WorkplaceThis week on The Divorced Dad Diaries, I talk about how how stressful divorce is compared to other life events. We get time off at work for a multitude of reasons and life events, but nothing yet when it comes to divorce. Why is that, and is that fair? Please feel free to reach me at TheDivorcedDadDiaries@gmail.com for any comments, or questions or to share your stories! Or on Instagram @TheDivorcedDadDiaries You can also visit www.TheDivorcedDadDiaries.com for more! All the best to you all, and stay safe!2023-02-2827 min

The Divorced Dad DiariesEpisode 40 - To Serve or not to ServeHappy New Year 2023 to all! :) This week on The Divorced Dad Diaries, I try give my perspective on the best way to go forward when things are stalling. How do I file for divorce? Should I serve the papers and how do I do that? A few questions that are not that obvious when you realize there has been no progress for a while, and nothing seems to change! Please feel free to reach me at TheDivorcedDadDiaries@gmail.com for any comments, or questions or to share your stories! Or on Instagram @TheDivorcedDadDiaries ...2023-01-2820 min

The Divorced Dad DiariesEpisode 39 - What can I tell my kidsHappy Holidays to all! :) This week on The Divorced Dad Diaries, I talk about what I can or should or should not talk about with my kids. They might have a lo of questions or concerns about the divorce, about their parents and the situation. It can sometime make things a bit tricky! Please feel free to reach me at TheDivorcedDadDiaries@gmail.com for any comments, or questions or to share your stories! Or on Instagram @TheDivorcedDadDiaries You can also visit www.TheDivorcedDadDiaries.com for more! All the best to...2022-12-2428 min

The Divorced Dad DiariesEpisode 38 - Hot Tub ConfessionsThis week on The Divorced Dad Diaries, I share with you all some of the very interesting discussions I had with my son, while enjoying the hot tub during our Thanksgiving weekend. Please feel free to reach me at TheDivorcedDadDiaries@gmail.com for any comments, or questions or to share your stories! Or on Instagram @TheDivorcedDadDiaries You can also visit www.TheDivorcedDadDiaries.com for more! All the best to you all, and stay safe! 2022-11-1621 min

The Divorced Dad DiariesEpisode 37 - When do you know it’s timeThis week on The Divorced Dad Diaries, I talk about the moment when you know it is over, the moment when you know it's time. Time to make a move, to leave, to get a separation or get divorced. Do we ever really know? Please feel free to reach me at TheDivorcedDadDiaries@gmail.com for any comments, or questions or to share your stories! Or on Instagram @TheDivorcedDadDiaries You can also visit www.TheDivorcedDadDiaries.com for more! All the best to you all, and stay safe! 2022-10-1422 min

The Divorced Dad DiariesEpisode 36 - Moving OnThis week on The Divorced Dad Diaries, I am reflecting on the past 6 years while cleaning & sweeping my old place, getting ready to move into my new apartment and start a new chapter in my life. A lot of emotions and harder than I thought to let go, but definitely time to move on, and looking forward to what is to come. Please feel free to reach me at TheDivorcedDadDiaries@gmail.com for any comments, or questions or to share your stories! Or on Instagram @TheDivorcedDadDiaries You can also visit www.TheDivorcedDadDiaries.com f...2022-09-0216 min

The Divorced Dad DiariesEpisode 35 - Money is not enoughIt been a while since my last episode, but I haven't forgotten about you all! Summer vacations, moving and work all kept me especially busy :) That said, this week, on The Divorced Dad Diaries, I am talking about money once again. And how you might want this that at the end it's all about the number, and how much you get from your spouse, while you should think about the impact of trying to "take it all". Please feel free to reach me at TheDivorcedDadDiaries@gmail.com for any comments, or questions or to share yo...2022-08-0520 min

UnDeletable Dad26. Stéphane Jutras on what happens when your teens want to live with you all the time.Check out Stéphane's podcast The Divorced Dad Diaries via thedivorceddaddiaries.com or wherever you go to find podcasts. You can reach me at tracy@undeletabledad.com for more information about the evolution of parenting and consciousness.2022-05-2719 min

The Divorced Dad DiariesEpisode 34 - Kids and GuiltDivorce is hard. For us, but also for our kids. We all love our children. We want to see them as much as we can, and we want them enjoy the time they spend with us. Have we ever stopped and think though, do they enjoy coming over, spending time with us, or are they doing it just out of guilt? Please feel free to reach me at TheDivorcedDadDiaries@gmail.com for any comments, or questions or to share your stories! Or on Instagram @TheDivorcedDadDiaries You can also visit www.TheDivorcedDadDiaries.com...2022-05-2021 min

The Divorced Dad DiariesEpisode 33 - The Only Two Certainties in LifeIn this week's episode, we start with a famous quote from our friend Benjamin Franklin mentioning the two certainties in life... Death and Taxes! I'll try to stay positive and keep the topic of death for another time, but since it is tax season, I thought I'd stop and reflect on divorce and various decisions you might make which, at the end, may have huge tax implications. Please feel free to reach me at TheDivorcedDadDiaries@gmail.com for any comments, or questions or to share your stories! Or on Instagram @TheDivorcedDadDiaries ...2022-04-0819 min

The Divorced Dad DiariesEpisode 32 - What if... More Money Less ProblemsA divorce can be very expensive, but what if you could go back in time and have more money and less problems? This week we talk about money and direct (and indirect) cost of divorce, and of course, a few statistics to support all this! Please feel free to reach me at TheDivorcedDadDiaries@gmail.com for any comments, or questions or to share your stories! Or on Instagram @TheDivorcedDadDiaries You can also visit www.TheDivorcedDadDiaries.com for more! All the best to you all, and stay safe! 2022-03-1023 min

The Divorced Dad DiariesEpisode 31 - What if... No Divorce?My first episode of the year, and hoping everyone is ready for another great one! This week, I ask myself... What if... What if I never got divorced? How would my life be? Better? Worst? It's a tough question to ask, and even tougher to answer! But I was curious to see if I could answer it! Please feel free to reach me at TheDivorcedDadDiaries@gmail.com for any comments, or questions or to share your stories! Or on Instagram @TheDivorcedDadDiaries You can also visit www.TheDivorcedDadDiaries.com for more...2022-02-0822 min

The Divorced Dad DiariesEpisode 30 - A Wonderful Divorced LifeHappy Holidays to all the Divorced Dad Diaries listeners! In this episode, I talk about how to navigate through the holidays, scheduling, gifts and of course, some of my best gift ideas :) I hope you all enjoy the episode and looking forward to hear from you all, and also to the new year coming very quickly! Please feel free to reach me at TheDivorcedDadDiaries@gmail.com for any comments, or questions or to share your stories! Or on Instagram @TheDivorcedDadDiaries You can also visit www.TheDivorcedDadDiaries.com for more!2021-12-2419 min

The Divorced Dad DiariesEpisode 29 - Am I too old?Am I too old to start over? Or to be happy? It's a tough question to ask yourself when you have been in a relationship or marriage for a long time. Once you hit a certain age, you often ask yourself, am I too old to do this? This week in The Divorced Dad Diaries, we try to figure out if there's such a thing as too old to start a new life and be happy! Please feel free to reach me at TheDivorcedDadDiaries@gmail.com for any comments, or questions or to share your sto...2021-11-3030 min

The Divorced Dad DiariesEpisode 28 - Wedding AnniversaryIn this episode of The Divorced Dad Diaries,I talk about Wedding anniversaries, my wedding anniversary, and what to do on those days. How do I feel? Happy, sad or just a day I want to forget? What to do on that day? Or what not to do! Please feel free to reach me at TheDivorcedDadDiaries@gmail.com for any comments, or questions or to share your stories! Or on Instagram @TheDivorcedDadDiaries You can also visit www.TheDivorcedDadDiaries.com for more! Stay safe! 2021-10-2715 min

The Divorced Dad DiariesEpisode 27 - Am I a Narcissist?In this episode of The Divorced Dad Diaries, we talk about narcissists and what it means… It seems that we talk about it more and more these days. Let's talk about how it is used and misused at times. I asked myself that question…. Am I a narcissist? Please feel free to reach me at TheDivorcedDadDiaries@gmail.com for any comments, or questions or to share your stories! Or on Instagram @TheDivorcedDadDiaries You can also visit www.TheDivorcedDadDiaries.com for more! And go visit my good friend's page m&msfoodtravelfun if you l...2021-09-1117 min

The Divorced Dad DiariesEpisode 26 - The Day AfterIn this episode, I talk about what it is like the Day After you have the talk, and decide to move forward with your separation or divorce. It is a scary moment, and a lot of unknown, but also a chance for a new beginning. Please feel free to reach me at TheDivorcedDadDiaries@gmail.com for any comments, or questions or to share your stories! Or on Instagram @TheDivorcedDadDiaries You can also visit www.TheDivorcedDadDiaries.com for more! And go visit my good friends page m&msfoodtravelfun if you love food a...2021-08-0225 min

The Divorced Dad DiariesEpisode 25 - Father’s DayThis year, I had a pretty quiet Father's Day. But at the same time, it was one of the best one I had. Being a parent is not easy, but sometimes, you need that little boost to make you feel better. That is what I'll be sharing with you this week... And I hope it makes you think and inspire you a little bit... All I can say is hang in there, you're doing a great job! :) Please feel free to reach me at TheDivorcedDadDiaries@gmail.com for any comments, or questions or to share your...2021-06-2820 min

The Divorced Dad DiariesEpisode 24 - He said, she S.A.I.D. - Interview with Bruce MclaughlinThis week, I have the pleasure of having Bruce Mclaughlin, author of the book He said, She S.A.I.D., and then he went to jail. We talk about his incredible story, his book, and also talk about what divorce and custody battle can do to a family. Part memoir, part thriller, and part horror story, He Said, She S.A.I.D., retells the story of one man’s arrest, trial, conviction, escape attempt, and 4-year incarceration before he was able to prove his innocence and finally win his freedom. His story is particularly relevant rea...2021-05-1041 min

The Divorced Dad DiariesEpisode 23 - Marriage Counselling & TherapyThis week, I talked about Marriage Counselling and Therapy. Should we go through it, and is it really worth it? Could it save my marriage (and avoid a divorce)? Or is it just a wishful thinking? I've asked around and got some really interesting feedback on all this... And what about you, what do you think? :) Please feel free to reach me at TheDivorcedDadDiaries@gmail.com for any comments! Or on Instagram @TheDivorcedDadDiaries You can also visit www.TheDivorcedDadDiaries.com for more! 2021-04-1425 min

The Divorced Dad DiariesEpisode 22 - Honey I want the kidsIn this episode, I talked about the children's custody and the different ways to share time with your kids. But at the end, what should we do with our kids when they're with us? Or when they are not? How can everyone be happy? Please feel free to reach me at TheDivorcedDadDiaries@gmail.com for any comments! Or on Instagram @TheDivorcedDadDiaries You can also visit www.TheDivorcedDadDiaries.com for more! 2021-03-2824 min

The Divorced Dad DiariesEpisode 21 - You have the right to remain silentIn this episode, I discuss how, when and what should be (or shouldn't be!) communicated to your ex-spouse. What is best? Text, email or a phone call? Or just none of the above? Please feel free to reach me at TheDivorcedDadDiaries@gmail.com for any comments! Or on Instagram @TheDivorcedDadDiaries And please visit www.TheDivorcedDadDiaries.com for more! 2021-03-0419 min

The Divorced Dad DiariesEpisode 20 - RelapseThis week, I talk about relapse. Everything might look better, go better, all seemed aligned, but there's always a risk for a relapse. How can you deal with it and get back on your feet? Feel free to share your thoughts on this! Email: TheDivorcedDadDiaries@gmail.com Website: http://www.TheDivorcedDadDiaries.com Instagram: @TheDivorcedDadDiaries Stay safe! 2021-02-0116 min

The Divorced Dad DiariesEpisode 19 - Dads just want to have funLet's try to settle this once and for all... Is that true that Dads just want to have fun? :) In this episode, I decided to talk about the myth or reality that dads just want to have fun. We're never serious, or never the serious parent in a relationship. Is that true? And how so? Can we also be a strict that nowadays? Why not both? Feel free to share your thoughts on this! Email: TheDivorcedDadDiaries@gmail.com Website: http://www.TheDivorcedDadDiaries.com Instagram: @TheDivorcedDadDiaries Stay safe! :) 2021-01-0828 min

The Divorced Dad DiariesEpisode 18 - A Very Merry Divorced ChristmasIt is this time of year! Holidays are almost here, and as much as it was never easy to plan when married, with family and friends, it can be even more challenging when you're divorced. We talk about planning, which is key to successful holidays, our first Christmas alone, and also out with the old and in with the new traditions with the kids! It's not something easy, but we can make it fun and start something new all together! I hope you all have a very Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays! ...2020-12-1525 min

The Divorced Dad DiariesEpisode 17 - Interview with Tracy Poizner from Essential StepmomThis week, I had the pleasure to meet with Tracy Poizner from The Essential Stepmom. In addition to her group for stepmoms, Tracy hosts a Facebook community for divorced dads called "One for the Dads" to create a safe, private space on social media for asking questions and sharing challenges. She recently asked the group what they were having the most trouble with in their parenting and they said they wanted to know "How do you stick to your guns and hold limits with your kids, without feeling like a bad guy". So...2020-11-2940 min

The Divorced Dad DiariesEpisode 16 - GuiltyDo you every feel guilty about your separation? Your divorce? Your life? Me neither! In this episode, I talk about all the guilt that can sometime keep us up at night, and how to try to deal with it. And even live with it. Please come by and say hi! Email: TheDivorcedDadDiaries@gmail.com Website: http://www.TheDivorcedDadDiaries.com Facebook Page: http://www.facebook.com/TheDivorcedDadDiaries Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/DivorcedDiaries Instagram: @TheDivorcedDadDiaries Stay safe! :) 2020-11-1129 min

The Divorced Dad DiariesEpisode 15 - Paper Anniversary ShowHappy 1st Annversary to The Divorced Dad Diaries!! It's so incredible, it's already been a year... In this episode, I look back at what we have achieved, how awesome you all are to be there with me, and what will be coming up next! Also, be sure to listen to the episode and stay tuned for some birthday goodies for you, without who this would have never been possible...! Please feel free to email me at TheDivorcedDadDiaries@gmail.com or you can find everything you need at ht...2020-10-2912 min

Essential Stepmom PodcastESP 6.2 The Divorced Dad Diaries with Stephane JutrasYou can find Stephane's podcast on every platform, and by visiting his website, thedivorceddaddiaries.com You can find my blog and other resources at essentialstepmom.com If it's time for you to get another level of support for your stepmom journey, reach out for a 1:1 coaching session or two. Email me for more info at info@essentialstepmom.com or just go ahead and book your first appointment at tracypoizner.bookafy.com 2020-10-2033 min

The Divorced Dad DiariesEpisode 14 - So thankfulHappy Canadian Thanksgiving to all! In this episode, I talk about the good things about separation and divorce (and yes, there are!) and all I am thankful for in my life. Through all the pain and negativity, what are you thankful for? You can reach me at TheDivorcedDadDiaries@gmail.com or visit my website at http://www.TheDivorcedDadDiaires.com Also, follow me on Instagram and say hi! (@thedivorceddaddiaries) Stay safe! 2020-10-1818 min

Divorce: The First Six Months with Peter MaestreyStephane Jutras - Ep. 12.1 - In the end I conceded to a lot of things because it had to end.Say hello to Stephane Jutras. A divorced man and father of two teenagers. A business owner and fellow podcaster. I am excited that you have the opportunity to meet him and hear his story. He is a man who has found his voice within this topic labeled divorce and shares it freely, both to me and his own audience on his podcast. It was refreshing to find someone else who has braved the experience and created something out of it who appreciates what he learned along the way. Embracing the good and the bad.You can find...2020-10-1713 min

The Divorced Dad DiariesEpisode 13 - Mars and VenusIn this episode, I talk about the differences and some stereotypes that exists when we talk about divorced men and women. Are men still from Mars and women from Venus? Please feel free to leave me some comments about this episode and any other ones at TheDivorcedDadDiaries@gmail.com And you can also visit my website at www.TheDivorcedDadDiaries.com Stay safe and take care! 2020-10-0123 min

The Divorced Dad DiariesEpisode 12 - Interview With My SonIn this episode, I have the immense pleasure to have my son as a guest! As opposed to his sister, he has been staying with me full time, and he talks about how it is, the challenges, stereotypes and also the good parts to it! Please feel free to reach out to me or him at TheDivorcedDadDiaries@gmail.com Stay safe and enjoy! 2020-09-2331 min

The Divorced Dad DiariesEpisode 11 - Interview with Peter MaestreyIn this episode, I have the pleasure to talk to Peter Maestrey, host of the new podcast Divorce - The First Six Months. Peter is a divorced man with no children who believes that within every loss we have the ability to gain. Peter was kind enough to come on the show to have a chat and also share his story as a divorced man, and how his journey made him a better person after all. You can also listen to his podcast and listen to his guests at: www.DivorceTheFirstSix.com 2020-09-0658 min

The Divorced Dad DiariesEpisode 10 - Money For NothingIn this episode, I finally talk about a very common and often very hot topic - Money. How to manage it, how to spend it, how to save some... It's all about what I have learned and wish I had known! Please feel free to reach out with questions or just to say hi to TheDivorcedDadDiaries@gmail.com or please visit my website and leave me a voicemail at http://www.TheDivorcedDadDiaries.com Thank you and hope you enjoy! 2020-08-2837 min

The Divorced Dad DiariesEpisode 9 - Interview with Angela S Walker - Relationship Designer and CoachThis week, on The Divorced Dad Diaries, I have a very special guest who accepted to join me and discuss relationships for men and dads after a divorce. Angela S Walker is a Relationship Designer and Certified Coach with over 10yrs of experience. She has dedicated her life to helping singles and couples design relationship strategies that are comprehensive and customized for their specific relationship needs. The personal obstacles she has overcome makes assisting others on their relationship journey very rewarding. After a 14 year marriage that failed due to infidelity, verbal and emotional abuse as...2020-07-3135 min

The Divorced Dad DiariesEpisode 8 - Walking and AfraidPeople deal and cope differently with stress, anxiety and loneliness. It is never easy, and it can take a lot of time and effort to go through those difficult times and come out on top. In this episode, I talk about what helped me go through some tough times, and get to the light at the end of the tunnel! And dont forget to visit the new and improved www.TheDivorcedDadDiaries.com *** The Divorced Dad Diaries made it to #13 on the FeedSpot - Top 20 Divorce Podcasts You Must Follow in 2020! *** Go c...2020-07-1025 min

The Divorced Dad DiariesEpisode 7 - Interview With My DaughterGoing through a divorce is never easy, and we sometime wonder how our kids feel through this. I had the chance to interview a very special guest, very dear to my heart, who helped me understand how they felt through the process, and also agreed to share her story with us. If anyone out there needs to talk or want to reach out or just talk, feel free to reach me (or my daughter) at TheDivorcedDadDiaries@gmail.com 2020-06-1640 min

The Divorced Dad DiariesEpisode 6 - The Kids Are AlrightIn this latest episode, we talk about the kids. Did they see any of this coming? How did they react? Also, we discuss an interesting article from Scientific American about Kids and Divorce, and finally, should we stay for the kids? Feel free to send me any questions, comments or suggestions to TheDivorcedDadDiaries@gmail.com Take care and stay safe! 2020-06-0342 min

The Divorced Dad DiariesEpisode 5 - Quarantine & Children CustodyIn this episode, I talk about being stuck in quarantine and not knowing what do do as far as Children custody. I also discuss about a court case in Ontario about restricting children access during these times of self-isolation. 2020-04-1921 min

The Divorced Dad DiariesEpisode 4 - Point of No ReturnWe get to a point where we need to have a talk. THE talk. And there is no turning back. This is probably one of the toughest part of this journey. In this episode, I'll discuss how I got to this point, and specifically, what I did and how did I move forward.2020-03-1131 min

The Divorced Dad DiariesEpisode 3 - Roles and ResponsibilitiesWe all think we know better about the roles and responsibilities in a marriage or relationship, and always envy our partner. The grass seems to always be greener on the other side! In this episode, I'll be discussing the roles and responsibilities we have, or should have, or maybe even shouldn't have! The are often the cause of many discussions, disagreements and can definitely break a couple. 2019-12-1227 min

The Divorced Dad DiariesEpisode 2 - I am not a number, I'm a free man!We all compare ourselves to others in different situations. Going through separation or divorce is no different. This episode is discussing some interesting facts and statistics found on the web about divorce, and seeing where we stand throughout those numbers. Please feel free to reach out and follow me: Email: TheDivorcedDadDiaries@gmail.com Website: http://www.TheDivorcedDadDiaries.com Facebook Page: http://www.facebook.com/TheDivorcedDadDiaries Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/DivorcedDiaries Instagram: @TheDivorcedDadDiaries Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCFBj-4pKZpfzjxtPiqI6o7Q?view_as=subscriber Thank you again! 2019-11-1238 min

The Divorced Dad DiariesEpisode 1 - Who, What and Why?We're kicking off the official Episode 1 of The Divorced Dad Diaries! It will be an introduction to the new DDD, and we'll be discussing about who I am, what is this podcast about, and why, oh why, Divorced Dad Diaries? Please feel free to reach out and follow me: Email: TheDivorcedDadDiaries@gmail.com Website: http://www.TheDivorcedDadDiaries.com Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/TheDivorcedDadDiaries Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/DivorcedDiaries Instagram: @TheDivorcedDadDiaries Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCFBj-4pKZpfzjxtPiqI6o7Q?view_as=subscriber Thank you again! 2019-10-2918 min

The Divorced Dad DiariesThe Divorced Dad Diaries - TrailerThe Divorced Dad Diaries is a podcast about my journey through separation and divorce. It will hopefully help reflect on different topics that we, men, don't always like or want to talk about! 2019-10-2202 min