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My Rejection StoryHow to Deal with Book Publishing Rejection, & Tips for Landing the Book Deal with Allison LaneWhy does book rejection feel so personal—so final? Why does a book rejection letter have the power to stall a project for years, even when the idea still matters? And how do some authors seem to land book deals—sometimes before the book is even written—while others stay stuck in endless rejection cycles?In this episode of My Rejection Story, Alice is joined by Allison Lane, founder of Allison Lane Literary, a former PR executive turned book strategist who has helped every one of her clients land an agent and secure a book publishing deal. Togeth...
2026-01-281h 03
My Rejection StoryWhat is Family Estrangement? (Brooklyn Beckham Mess & More)What does it actually mean when someone cuts off their family — and why does family estrangement provoke such intense reactions from the outside world?In this short solo episode, Alice uses the recent public fallout involving Brooklyn Beckham, David Beckham, and Victoria Beckham as a cultural moment to explore family rejection and estrangement, one of the most misunderstood — and stigmatized — forms of rejection.Rather than speculating about who is right or wrong in the Beckham situation, Alice explains why public stories about family conflict are almost always incomplete. She unpacks why family estrangement in adulthood can be...
2026-01-2122 min
My Rejection StoryWhy Are We So Afraid of Rejection? A Survival-Based Exploration from an Evolution ExpertWhy does rejection feel so threatening—sometimes even more destabilizing than physical danger? Why does losing approval, status, or belonging shake our confidence so deeply? And why does the fear of rejection seem impossible to fully “heal” or outgrow?In this episode of My Rejection Story, Alice is joined by Jeremy Sherman, an evolution and social science researcher who studies the origins of life, human behavior, and what he calls the “black market of confidence.” Together, they explore rejection not as a psychological flaw—but as a survival mechanism rooted deep in human evolution.Jeremy challenges t...
2026-01-071h 05
My Rejection StoryTracy Otsuka: How to Overcome Learned Helplessness with ADHDIn this episode, ADHD thought leader, author, and host of the Tracy Otsuka podcast joins Alice for a conversation about identity, rejection, and the quiet conditioning that teaches so many women to shrink. Drawing from her own story and the research behind learned helplessness psychology, Tracy explains why women with ADHD are especially vulnerable to internalizing criticism — and how those early messages of “you’re too much,” “you’re not enough,” “you’re disorganized,” shape a lifetime of self-doubt.Tracy breaks down the learned helplessness meaning in practical terms: the moment you stop trying because every attempt has been shut down...
2025-12-2425 min
My Rejection StoryWhy Death is the Ultimate Motivator, with Jodi WellmanIn this powerful mini replay, positive psychology practitioner and author Jodi Wellman joins Alice for a conversation about mortality, motivation, and the brave work of actually living our lives instead of waiting for the perfect moment. Jodi — known for her viral TED Talk, her book You Only Die Once, and her work at Four Thousand Mondays — explains why death is a great motivator, and why many of us need the uncomfortable truth of our finiteness to finally stop procrastinating the things that matter most.Jodi shares how her mother’s early death shaped her philosophy, and why the re...
2025-12-1721 minMy Rejection StoryWhy Rejection Hurts So Much — And How To RecoverWhy does rejection hurt so intensely — even when the relationship was brief, online, or never fully real? Why do some rejections destabilize your entire sense of self while others barely register? In this solo episode, Alice breaks down exactly what rejection does to a person, why you may be taking rejection so hard, and how to recover with science-backed compassion.Alice opens with a story from early 2020: a fast, dopamine-fueled pandemic connection with someone she never met — and the emotional crash that followed when it abruptly ended. If you’ve ever wondered “why am I so hurt by rejec...
2025-12-1019 min
My Rejection StoryLoneliness in Dubai, Making Friends as an Adult, and Life as an Expat, featuring Afshan NasseriIn this episode, multicultural marketing strategist and founder of aam creative, Afshan Nasseri, joins Alice to unpack a quietly growing crisis among expats: the rise of loneliness in Dubai and the emotional reality of why it’s hard to make friends as an adult. Whether you’ve just moved to the UAE, you’re struggling to build community, or you feel disconnected despite being surrounded by people, Afshan brings language to something so many feel but rarely admit.Afshan’s story spans Boston, Montreal, India, Iran, and now Dubai. She grew up in a home overflowing with culture...
2025-12-031h 01
My Rejection StoryHow to Negotiate with a Narcissist in Divorce, featuring Lisa JohnsonIn this episode, high-conflict divorce strategist and advocate Lisa Johnson joins Alice to unpack one of the most overwhelming and destabilizing experiences anyone can face: navigating divorce with a narcissist. Whether you're trying to divorce a narcissistic husband, divorce a narcissist wife, or find your footing after divorce after abusive marriage, Lisa offers clarity that is both deeply validating and strategically life-saving. Lisa’s story is astonishing: a 20-year relationship built on hidden lives and deception, a $100,000 divorce in year one, and nearly a decade of court battles where she eventually represented herself more than 100 times. Her te...
2025-11-2659 min
My Rejection StoryNarcissism Doctor: What Happens When You Reject A Narcissist (featuring Dr. Sterlin Mosely)In this episode, human relations professor and author Dr. Sterlin Mosley joins Alice to break down one of the most confusing and destabilizing experiences anyone can face: what happens when you reject a narcissist — romantically, sexually, emotionally, or otherwise.If you’ve ever wondered how to reject a narcissist safely, what narcissists do when you reject them, or why even highly intelligent people end up trapped in cycles of love bombing, self-doubt, and psychological whiplash, this conversation is going to hit with startling clarity.Sterlin opens with a statistic that flips the entire narrative on its...
2025-11-201h 09
My Rejection StoryWhitney Goodman: How To Deal With Toxic PositivityIn this mini replay episode, therapist and bestselling author Whitney Goodman joins Alice for an unflinchingly honest conversation about toxic positivity — what it is, how it shows up, and why so many of us default to forced optimism instead of honest connection.Whitney Goodman, known online as @sitwithwit and the author behind the viral toxic positivity book, breaks down toxic positivity explained in a way that finally feels human. She talks about how social media has turned everyday life into a public performance, why people feel pressure to appear happy even when they’re not, and how posi...
2025-11-0528 min
My Rejection StoryEva Langston: "My Novel Died On Submission" — Publisher Rejection, Landing a Book Agent, & Fostering a Writing CommunityIn this episode, novelist and writing instructor Eva Langston joins Alice to break open one of the most under-discussed truths in publishing: sometimes your book dies even after you’ve done everything “right.”After years in the query trenches, eight manuscripts, and dozens of literary agent queries, Eva finally landed representation — the milestone so many writers dream of. But what happened next wasn’t the success story she expected. Her agented novel went out on submission and became what the industry quietly calls a rejected book. Then the next one died on submission, too.Eva shares the...
2025-10-291h 03
My Rejection StoryFrom Lawyer to Dancer & Speaker: Kim Bolourtchi on Strategic UnrulinessIn this episode, keynote speaker and former litigator Kim Bolourtchi joins Alice to unpack what happens when following all the rules still leaves you feeling hollow.After building a high-powered legal career, Kim realized that the very traits that made her “successful” — discipline, control, and achievement — were also keeping her small. She opens up about the moment her two worlds collided: arguing before the Missouri Supreme Court when her husband revealed her secret life as a Latin dancer. What felt like career sabotage became the spark that changed everything.Kim and Alice dive deep into the invi...
2025-10-2253 min
Get UnrulyTurning Rejection into Rocket Fuel: How Rule-Breaking & Resilience Made Alice Draper UnstoppableSend us a text🔥 What if rejection could be your greatest advantage? In this powerful episode, host Kim Bolourtchi sits down with publicity powerhouse and “My Rejection Story” founder Alice Draper, who reveals how re-framing failure and daring to break the rules transformed her life. Discover the hidden stories behind big successes, why rule-breakers might just change the world, and practical strategies for turning adversity into unstoppable momentum. If you’ve ever felt like you just don’t fit the mold—or wondered if your toughest moments could lead to your biggest breakthroughs—don’t miss this honest, inspiring...
2025-10-2023 min
My Rejection StoryTara Jaye Frank: Leaving A Marriage, Learning Through Publisher’s Rejection, & The Helper’s DilemmaIn this episode, bestselling author and former Hallmark executive Tara Jaye Frank joins Alice to talk about the messy, courageous process of letting go—of careers, of marriages, and of identities that no longer fit. From leaving a long-term marriage to walking away from a lucrative book deal, Tara opens up about what it means to choose yourself when everything in you has been wired for people-pleasing behavior.She shares the subtle shifts that whisper when to leave a marriage—and how she found peace in deciding to leave, even when it meant stepping into uncertainty. Tara also...
2025-10-0857 min
Author’s Edge: Smart visibility, marketing, and publishing strategies for experts and authors5 Proven Ways to Land High-Impact Podcast Interviews with Alice DraperWhat if the fastest way to grow your author visibility had nothing to do with social media? Allison Lane is joined by podcast pitching expert Alice Draper, who shares why landing podcast interviews is one of the most effective book promotion strategies for authors. And how you can start pitching yourself even if you don’t have a book yet.If you want to reach more readers, position yourself as an authority, and make podcast guesting part of your book launch strategy, this episode is packed with practical insights you can apply right away. Tune in...
2025-10-0727 min
My Rejection StoryJamie Varon on Delayed Gratification versus Instant Gratification & How To Detach From ResultsWhat if success takes longer than expected?In this reflective and empowering episode, writer and creative entrepreneur Jamie Varon joins My Rejection Story to talk about the uncomfortable space between effort and outcome. We dig deep into the psychology of delayed gratification vs instant gratification, what it means to stay motivated when the world isn’t watching, and how to keep creating even when the payoff is years away.Jamie shares how she rebuilt her creative process around trusting herself first—detaching from results, resisting the urge to quit too soon, and embracing the art of d...
2025-09-2421 min
Unleashing YOUR Great WorkRejection Resilience: How Alice Draper Makes Publicity AccessibleIn this episode of Unleashing Your Great Work, Amanda sits down with Alice Draper, founder of Hustling Writers and host of the award-winning podcast My Rejection Story. Alice is on a mission to make publicity accessible by helping creators and entrepreneurs build what she calls rejection resilience.Alice shares her personal story of caregiving during the pandemic, facing loss, and discovering that life becomes richer when we stop self-rejecting. She explains how rejection shows up in our brains as real pain, why building a “rejection muscle” is essential, and how community makes the process of visibility more sust...
2025-09-2340 min
My Rejection StoryArielle Estoria on The Human Need for Belonging & UnfoldingWhat if the fear of rejection is actually a fear of being fully seen?In this poetic and soul-searching episode, author and spoken word artist Arielle Estoria opens up about what it means to grow beyond who the world expects you to be—and how devastating, liberating, and cyclical that journey can be.Best known for her viral Arielle Estoria poems, her book The Unfolding, and her ability to speak straight to the soul, Arielle shares the deeply personal story behind her own “unfolding.” She discusses the grief of leavin...
2025-09-1746 min
My Rejection StoryMarques Ogden on Life After NFL, Identity Loss, Losing a $25M Construction Biz, & MoreWhat happens when the dream ends and you're left with nothing?In this raw and powerful episode of My Rejection Story, former NFL player turned motivational speaker Marques Ogden shares his incredible journey through identity loss, business collapse, and ultimately, self-reinvention.At one point, Marques was at the top: running a $25 million construction company, driving luxury cars, and living the life of a successful ex-athlete. But behind the scenes, ego, poor financial decisions, and misplaced trust led to a devastating fall. He lost it all—his home, his cars, and his sense of purpose....
2025-09-1043 min
My Rejection StoryDr. Amanda Crowell: The “Great Work” Psychologist & How Defensive Failure Is Getting In The WayEver heard of defensive failure? What about productive failure?In this deeply honest and psychologically rich episode, cognitive psychologist and bestselling author Dr. Amanda Crowell unpacks what it means to do the work that truly matters. We explore the Great Work framework, the emotional toll of overachievement, and the quiet sabotage of “defensive failure”—a pattern that stops us from even attempting the things we care about most.Amanda shares her own story of striving for approval, hitting burnout, and experiencing a health collapse that forced her to radically rethink her life. From panic attacks and au...
2025-09-0351 minMy Rejection StoryAlice Draper: How to Cope With Rejection Sensitive DysphoriaWhat if the thing that hurts the most isn’t rejection itself, but how your brain processes it?In this emotionally resonant solo episode, host Alice Draper unpacks the lived experience of Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD): a lesser-known but deeply felt condition experienced by many, especially those with ADHD. Through childhood memories, Reddit stories, and peer-reviewed research, she explores why RSD feels like a punch in the gut, and what we can do to cope with it.Alice shares a painful moment from her teenage years that still echoes today: being excluded by a close fr...
2025-08-2724 min
My Rejection StoryJessica Zweig: "It Was More Painful To Stay!" Walking Away From A Successful Business To Find AlignmentWhat happens when success becomes a prison?In this candid and soul-baring episode, bestselling author and branding expert Jessica Zweig opens up about the emotional cost of staying in a business that no longer aligned with her truth. She shares the moment she realized it was more painful to stay than to leave—and what followed was a journey of healing, identity loss, and radical self-reinvention.Jessica speaks about the real-life complexities of leaving a business partnership without an agreement, navigating debt in entrepreneurship, and the slow unraveling that comes when you’ve built something that...
2025-08-2051 min
My Rejection StoryMeredith Carder: ADHD Masking Burnout & When Masking Can HelpIn this short and powerful replay, ADHD coach, creator, and author Meredith Carder explains why masking happens, what ADHD masking symptoms look like, and how to make strategic choices about when to mask and when to unmask. Many people with ADHD mask their symptoms (at work, with friends, or in public) to fit in and avoid judgment. But masking comes at a cost, and for some, it can lead to ADHD masking burnout. Meredith shares practical ADHD masking examples and her “low-reward masking” approach for reducing the energy drain of constant self-monitoring. We also talk about finding mask...
2025-08-1321 min
My Rejection StoryChristine Platt: Reinvention, Collective Covid-19 Grief, & Redefining SelfishnessChristine Platt boldly embraces the power of less. She has written more than two dozen books, and spent more than 20 years advocating for social justice and the environment in academia, governments, non-profits and the private sector. After writing The Afrominimalist’s Guide to Living with Less,she became widely known as the Afro-minimalist, a black woman who started a movement. In the book, she radically revisions minimalism, integrating it with history and heritage. In this episode, Christine Platt explores how rejection can lead us to tell self-limiting stories about ourselves. By reframing these rejection stories, we can open up opportunities fo...
2025-08-061h 00My Rejection StoryAlice Draper: Messy Activism, Jenna Kutcher Speaking Up, & MoreThis episode is personal, vulnerable, and messy — for a reason.Alice reflects on the fear of saying the wrong thing, the rejection that often follows speaking up, and what happened when influencer Jenna Kutcher finally broke her silence on Palestine.This is a conversation about rejection, shame, activism, and the paralysis of perfectionism in the age of public scrutiny.Chapters:00:00 Opening — fear, paralysis, and why this episode feels scary01:23 Jenna Kutcher’s post on Gaza03:00 Background information on Palestine04:40 Silence after October 7 and influencer inaction06:32 Why some people...
2025-07-3026 min
My Rejection StoryKatie Horwitch: "Lonely Is Love with Nowhere to Go" — Navigating Identity, Eating Disorders, & MoreYour loneliness isn't weakness, it's love without a home.In this raw and reflective episode, writer and mindset coach Katie Horwitch joins Alice to explore the emotional roots of identity, self-talk, loneliness, and healing. Katie shares her journey from childhood eating disorders to building a platform that helps others shift their inner narratives—without sugarcoating the messiness of that process.Together, they dive into the stories we tell ourselves when we’re rejected, the parts of us we learn to perform, and why so many high-functioning people are secretly lonely.You’ll hear:W...
2025-07-2359 min
My Rejection StoryGuy Winch On The Science Of Why You NEED To Unfollow Your ExHeartbreak doesn’t just feel like withdrawal. It is withdrawal.In this short, powerful replay, psychologist and author Guy Winch explains why breakups hurt so much and why trying to “stay friends” with your ex might be sabotaging your recovery.He breaks down the neuroscience of heartbreak, compares it to addiction, and shares why going cold turkey - unfollowing, muting, and cutting contact - isn’t dramatic. It’s necessary.You’ll hear:Why heartbreak activates the same brain regions as physical painThe science behind why you’re obsessively th...
2025-07-1614 min
My Rejection StoryJesse J. Anderson: "I Would Blow Up" — RSD & ADHD in Life, Marriage, & FriendshipsWhat if every tiny criticism (real or imagined) felt like a full-body betrayal?In this validating and deeply personal episode, ADHD educator and author Jesse J. Anderson joins Alice to unpack what rejection-sensitive dysphoria (RSD) really feels like, and how it’s shaped his relationships, self-perception, and emotional responses.Jesse shares how RSD used to hijack his nervous system, leading to blow-ups in conversations with his wife and shame spirals that lasted for days. But over time, he’s learned to pause, name what’s happening, and create space for a different response.You’ll...
2025-07-0954 minMy Rejection StoryAlice Draper: I Am Still Terrified Of Friendship Rejection. Here's How I Cope.Why do we still fear being left out, even in safe, loving friendships?In this solo episode, Alice opens up about a vivid dream that left her in tears and the deeper fears it uncovered. Despite being a grown adult with supportive relationships, her subconscious still clings to the belief that one day, the people she loves might just… stop loving her.This episode dives into the science behind social rejection, the wounds we carry from childhood friendship dynamics, and what rejection-sensitive dysphoria looks like in everyday life (yes, even in dreams). With warmth, insight, an...
2025-07-0220 min
My Rejection StoryMarina Iakovleva: "Buzzfeed Stole My Idea And Went Viral", Growing To 675K+ Subscribers, Dating Abroad, + MoreWhat would you do if a media giant stole your idea—and then went viral with it?In this deeply personal and surprisingly funny episode, Alice sits down with Marina Iakovleva, the creator of Dating Beyond Borders, a wildly popular YouTube channel with over 675,000 subscribers. Marina built her brand from a scrappy video experiment in Panama to a global platform exploring intercultural relationships—and she did it without a team, a big budget, or any media backing.But along the way, her ideas were copied by Buzzfeed and other production companies with massive teams and bigg...
2025-06-251h 07
My Rejection StoryTracy Otsuka: "ADHDers feel more emotion" & the Brain Science of RejectionWhy does criticism feel like a punch to the gut when you have ADHD? And why do so many women with ADHD go undiagnosed for decades?In this bold and eye-opening episode, bestselling author and podcast host Tracy Otsuka joins Alice to unpack how rejection shows up in the ADHD brain, and why it’s often misunderstood, minimized, or masked.Tracy shares the brain science behind rejection-sensitive dysphoria, the gendered shame baked into our understanding of ADHD, and how her son’s diagnosis ultimately led to her own. You’ll hear candid stories of failure, identi...
2025-06-1852 min
This Is Woman's Work with Nicole KalilChasing Rejection: The Wild Strategy That Works with Alice Draper | 316Let’s face it—rejection sucks. Whether it’s a gut-punch text, a polite but painful “no,” or the opportunity you swore was yours slipping through your fingers—it all sucks. But if you’re putting yourself out there (pitching, applying, risking anything at all), rejection isn’t a bug in the system. It is the system.
Enter: Alice Draper. She’s the host of the My Rejection Story podcast, founder of Hustling Writers, and a woman who knows how to turn every “no” into a bigger, better “hell yes.” Her work makes podcast guesting and publicity accessible for anyone brav...
2025-06-0937 min
My Rejection StoryJason Silver: Crashing A Startup & The Science of Enjoyment at WorkWhat if success wasn't the reward for grinding through work—but the result of actually enjoying it?In this candid and deeply insightful episode, multi-time founder and former Airbnb leader Jason Silver joins Alice to unpack the often backwards narratives we hold about work, ambition, and rejection.Jason shares the raw story of crashing his startup—and the surprising way that failure led to a life-changing opportunity at Airbnb. He also dives into the neuroscience behind why so many people regret changing jobs, what "hedonic adaptation" has to do with your career dissatisfaction, and how he r...
2025-06-041h 05My Rejection StoryAlice Draper: Uncertainty Is a Portal, Not a PunishmentUncertainty can feel like standing on the edge of a cliff, waiting for instructions that never arrive.In this solo episode, Alice reflects on her early career decision to turn down traditional jobs and lean into freelancing—not because it felt brave, but because it made a strange kind of sense. Years later, she’s still navigating the discomfort of not-knowing, and learning to stay present through the fog.This is a gentle, personal reflection on:The subtle self-rejection baked into chasing certaintyHow clarity doesn’t always come with a five-s...
2025-05-2813 min
A Productive ConversationAlice Draper Talks About Rejection, Resilience, and Podcast PitchingWhat if rejection wasn’t something to fear—but a skill to build? In this episode of A Productive Conversation, I chat with Alice Draper, founder of Hustling Writers and host of My Rejection Story. Alice has helped clients land interviews on hundreds of top podcasts and is on a mission to demystify the power of rejection, especially for creatives and entrepreneurs.We explore what it means to navigate self-rejection, build visibility in an increasingly noisy world, and pitch yourself without compromising your voice. As someone who’s been on both sides of the podcast pitch, Alice shares...
2025-05-2833 min
My Rejection StoryMY BEST FRIEND: On Burnout, People-Pleasing, Suicide And Reinventionwith Senamile ZunguIn this episode, Alice sits down with her best friend Senamile Zungu for the most personal conversation ever recorded on My Rejection Story. Sena opens up about what it took to unravel—and survive—after years of perfectionism, people-pleasing, and pushing through pain.From two psychiatric hospitalizations to setting boundaries that cost her relationships, this is the story of what happens when a woman chooses herself for the very first time.Together, Alice and Sena reflect on friendship, anger, grief, and the violent pressure to be everything to everyone. It’s a ra...
2025-05-2157 min
My Rejection StoryJodi Wellman: Death Is the Best Motivator You’re Not UsingWe all know we’re going to die. So why do we live like we have unlimited time?In this episode, author and life design coach Jodi Wellman joins Alice to talk about the surprising power of using your mortality as a motivator for living a bigger, bolder life. Jodi shares how rejection, boredom, and “just fine” living are often symptoms of a life stuck in autopilot—and how death can wake us up to the urgency of now.From the “stapler moment” that made Jodi realize she was stuck in a corporate loop she didn’t want...
2025-05-1459 min
My Rejection StoryNicole Kalil: I Was Promoted And I Was Miserable. I Had to Rethink Everything.What happens when you reach the next level—and feel worse, not better?In this episode, confidence coach and podcast host Nicole Kalil shares the story of climbing the corporate ladder, earning the promotion she thought she wanted… and realizing she was completely misaligned with the life she was building.We talk about what it’s like to have external success and internal disconnection, why so many women feel like frauds in rooms they worked hard to enter, and how Nicole began untangling her identity from titles, praise, and other people’s expectations.This epi...
2025-05-081h 04
My Rejection StoryConfidence Expert: “Poop Soup” and the Pain of Not Knowing What's NextWhat happens when everything you’ve worked for starts to feel misaligned—but you’re too successful to quit and too scared to stay?In this episode, Kelli Thompson, leadership coach and author of Closing the Confidence Gap, returns to the show to talk about the messy middle—what she calls the “Poop Soup” phase—when clarity hasn’t arrived, but your gut already knows it’s time for change.Kelli shares the story of her own career pivot, the rejection that woke her up, and the internal unraveling that followed. We talk about why doubt is a feature...
2025-05-0155 min
Travis Makes MoneyMake Money with a Podcast Booking Agency | Alice DraperAlice Draper is the founder of Hustling Writers, a podcast guest booking agency, and the host of the podcast My Rejection Story. Alice specializes in making publicity accessible for entrepreneurs and authors by reframing rejection and helping clients secure interviews on top podcasts. With a background in freelance writing and a knack for creative pitching, Alice has placed clients on some of the highest-ranked shows in the industry. Her journey from childhood entrepreneur to agency owner is marked by resourcefulness, resilience, and a passion for helping others share their stories.
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2025-04-2728 minTravis Makes MoneyMake Money with a Podcast Booking Agency | Alice DraperAlice Draper is the founder of Hustling Writers, a podcast guest booking agency, and the host of the podcast My Rejection Story. Alice specializes in making publicity accessible for entrepreneurs and authors by reframing rejection and helping clients secure interviews on top podcasts. With a background in freelance writing and a knack for creative pitching, Alice has placed clients on some of the highest-ranked shows in the industry. Her journey from childhood entrepreneur to agency owner is marked by resourcefulness, resilience, and a passion for helping others share their stories.
On this episode we talk about:
2025-04-2728 min
My Rejection StoryIman Hariri-Kia: On Rewriting the Shame Teen Magazines Sold UsWhy did so many of us grow up believing we were too loud, too hairy, too much?In this episode, journalist, author, and personal essayist Iman Hariri-Kia joins Alice to unpack how early media shaped our shame—and how she’s spent her adult life writing herself out of it. From reading Cosmo and Seventeen at an age when she barely understood her own body, to publishing her debut novel and watching it become eerily prophetic, Iman shares what it means to unlearn cultural conditioning, take up space on your own terms, and write the stories you neve...
2025-04-231h 08
Insider Secrets to a Top 100 Podcast with Courtney Elmer | Podcasting Strategy for Business GrowthHow to Train for Rejection and Use It to Grow Your Podcast Faster | Alice DraperStill waiting to feel “ready” before you start pitching the guests or sponsors you really want?In this episode, HuffPost contributor and media expert Alice Draper is back to show you the exact process she uses to turn rejection into a measurable growth strategy for your podcast. You’ll learn how to build your “rejection muscle,” set rejection goals that lead to more yeses, and use data from ignored or declined pitches to refine your messaging and land bigger and better opportunities.So if you’ve been overthinking your pitch or convincing yourself you need a bigger aud...
2025-04-1718 minMy Rejection StoryAlice Draper: Regret Minimization during Uncertain TimesWhat do you do when business slows down, your confidence wavers, and you're tempted to disappear?In this solo episode, Alice gets real about what it looks like to keep showing up in uncertain time, not because things feel easy or clear, but because she’s learned how to minimize regret, even when momentum stalls.She shares the mental tug-of-war between self-protection and putting yourself out there, how internal rejection creeps in when you're not paying attention, and the one mindset shift that helps her stay in motion, even wh...
2025-04-1624 minInsider Secrets to a Top 100 Podcast with Courtney Elmer | Podcasting Strategy for Business GrowthThe Real Reason You’re Still Sitting on That Guest or Sponsor Pitch | Alice DraperYou know that pitch you *almost* sent? Or that big guest or sponsor you’re telling yourself you’ll reach out to “once you’re ready”? That idea you keep researching but haven’t acted on yet? This episode is about that moment—when you're stuck between wanting more for your podcast and actually going after it.HuffPost contributor and media expert Alice Draper has helped clients land guest spots on 500+ podcasts, including WorkLife with Adam Grant and UnF*ck Your Brain. She joins me to unpack the psychology behind rejection, why your brain sees “no” as a survival threat...
2025-04-1618 min
My Rejection StoryWhitney Goodman: Toxic Positivity and the Pain of Being Misunderstood OnlineWhat happens when you're known for helping people feel seen—but suddenly, you're the one being misunderstood?In this episode, therapist and bestselling author Whitney Goodman joins Alice to talk about the emotional labor of being visible online, the backlash that followed her viral posts, and how she’s built resilience without losing authenticity. But this conversation goes far beyond internet culture.They unpack the hidden costs of toxic positivity, how emotional suppression shows up in our daily lives, what denial really feels like inside a family system, and why we need better tools for hand...
2025-04-1053 minMy Rejection StoryAlice Draper: Visibility is Vulnerable. Here’s How I Deal With ItWhy does sharing your story feel like standing naked in a room full of strangers?In this solo episode, Alice reflects on the hidden vulnerability behind visibility. She shares the behind-the-scenes truth of how she promotes her own brand and books guests like Guy Winch and Neil Patel, how most great pitches begin with fear, and what to do when visibility feels like a personal attack.From recounting a brutal rejection that left her physically sick to explaining how storytelling makes your work more compelling (but more exposing), Alice breaks down how to pitch yourself...
2025-04-0228 min
My Rejection StorySuccess Mentor: Women’s Rejection Sensitivity Is Wired Into SurvivalWhat if your fear of rejection isn’t a flaw—but a survival strategy passed down through generations?This week’s guest is Vera Milan Gervais, a speaker, author, and success mentor who has spent her life pushing against the systems that tried to define her. From being disowned by her father at 19 to rewriting the story of a childhood medical trauma, Vera has learned how to reclaim power in the face of rejection.In this episode, she shares the scientific and ancestral roots of rejection sensitivity, the ways women are taught to reject first before...
2025-03-261h 04
My Rejection StoryHannah Brencher: Friendship Rejections &The Dark Side of Oversharing OnlineHannah Brencher has built a career around sharing her life openly, but at what cost? In this episode, she gets brutally honest about the dark side of public vulnerability, the pressure to turn your life into content, and the raw reality of rejection.She shares the moment she realized she was burning out from oversharing, the painful lesson of being turned into content herself, and why one friend muted her on Instagram because her life seemed too perfect.Ever had a moment where you thought, maybe I should stop putting my life online? This episode...
2025-03-191h 01
My Rejection StoryListener Favorite: Jason VanRuler on Rejection in RelationshipsIn this episode of My Rejection Story, host Alice Draper speaks with therapist and author Jason VanRuler about the complexities of rejection, particularly in relationships. They discuss the importance of rewriting personal narratives, the necessity of grieving losses, and the journey towards authenticity. Jason shares his experiences with rejection and how they shaped his path to becoming a thought leader in the mental health space. The conversation emphasizes the value of community, the challenge of faulty beliefs, and the growth that comes from embracing rejection.Takeaways:You can rewrite your story and make it true.Grieving...
2025-03-1255 min
My Rejection StoryJamie Varon: The Fork In The Road—Do You Trust Yourself or Let Rejection Define You?Why is it so terrifying to truly try? According to writer and creative entrepreneur Jamie Varon, it’s because trying means opening yourself up to rejection. It’s easier to self-reject, to stay small, to convince yourself you didn’t really want it anyway. But what if the real risk isn’t rejection—it’s never trying at all?In this episode, Jamie and Alice unpack the deep emotional weight of putting yourself out there. They explore why self-rejection is often the biggest hurdle, how social media tricks us into idolizing effortless success, and what happens when you stop cha...
2025-03-051h 04
My Rejection StoryChrissy King: Thinness Is Back! How To Stop Rejecting Our Bodies💡 Why does thinness always seem to make a comeback?Chrissy King is a writer, speaker, and the author of The Body Liberation Project. She’s spent years examining the toxic cycles of diet culture, thin privilege, and body liberation—only to watch mainstream culture backslide into the same outdated beauty standards.In this episode, Chrissy and Alice discuss:✔ Why thinness is “back with a vengeance” and how body liberation lost momentum✔ The privilege of thinness—and the price Chrissy paid to maintain it✔ The diet industry’s billion-dollar lie and why it thrives on self-re...
2025-02-261h 01My Rejection StoryAlice Draper: When Life Rejects Your PlansWhat happens when rejection isn’t a person telling you no—but life itself pushing back?We talk a lot about rejection from others—failed pitches, book rejections, heartbreak. But what about the times when rejection comes in unexpected forms? When your body, mental health, or circumstances force you to hit pause, even when you desperately want to keep going?In this solo episode, I get real about my own recent setbacks—curveballs that have thrown my 2025 goals off track. I dive into:✔ Why our brains catastrophize setbacks and how to reframe the fear of “losing...
2025-02-1922 min
Invincible Minds#05 - Alice Draper | The South African Visionary Reframing RejectionTurning Rejection into Resilience: A Conversation with Alice DraperRejection - it’s the one thing every writer, dreamer, and creator will face on the road to success. But what if rejection wasn’t the end of the story, but the very thing that shaped it?In this powerful episode, we sit down with Alice Draper, a trailblazing South African freelance journalist and the visionary Founder of Hustling Writers. Alice’s work has graced the pages of renowned publications like HuffPost, Refinery29, VICE, and Business Insider, cementing her place as a force in the wo...
2025-02-1857 min
My Rejection StoryPsychologist Guy Winch: How To Heal A Broken HeartWhy does heartbreak hurt so much? According to psychologist and bestselling author Guy Winch, it’s not just emotional—it’s biological. Heartbreak hijacks your brain like an addiction, making it one of the most painful experiences a person can endure. In this episode, Guy breaks down the science of heartbreak, the biggest mistakes people make when trying to move on, and why heartbreak needs a mourning ritual—just like grief. If you’ve ever struggled to let go, this episode is for you.Website:https://www.guywinch.comGuy’s TED Talks:https://www...
2025-02-1250 min
My Rejection StoryADHD Expert: Meredith Carder On RSD and Why ADHDers Struggle With RejectionMeredith Carder is a trailblazing ADHD coach, author, and advocate who knows firsthand the challenges of navigating life with ADHD. From the weight of rejection to the struggle of masking, Meredith has been there—and now she’s helping others rewrite their stories. As the author of It All Makes Sense Now: Embrace Your ADHD Brain to Live a Creative and Colorful Life, she’s a powerful voice for adults learning to thrive with neurodivergence.
In this episode, Meredith takes us inside the ADHD brain, breaking down the emotional toll of Rejection-Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD), the burnout of perfec...
2025-02-0558 min
My Rejection StoryGrant Faulkner: The Brain Science of Rejection & How to Beat the OddsGrant Faulkner is a creative leader, prolific author, and the former Executive Director of National Novel Writing Month (NaNoWriMo). He’s seen rejection from every angle—both as an author and as someone who supports a global community of creators. With books like Pep Talks for Writers: 52 Insights and Actions to Boost Your Creative Mojo and The Art of Brevity: Crafting the Very Short Story, Grant has helped thousands of writers navigate rejection, build resilience, and discover the power of their creative voice.
Grant has done extensive research on the topic of rejection for writers as part of h...
2025-01-2952 min
My Rejection StoryBook Deal Veteran: The Long Game—Secrets To Thriving Before And AFTER The Book DealCourtney Maum is an accomplished author, writing coach, and publishing industry insider who’s been through it all—devastating rejections, canceled book deals, and the highs and lows of a 15-year career. She’s the author of Before and After the Book Deal: A Writer’s Guide to Finishing, Publishing, Promoting, and Surviving Your First Book and a champion for writers navigating the tricky waters of the publishing world.
For anyone listening, you can order a copy of "Before And After The Book Deal" here: https://books.catapult.co/books/before-and-after-the-book-deal/
Subscribe to Courtney’s Substack: B...
2025-01-221h 08
My Rejection StoryGenerational Healer: Breaking the Chains of Family ConditioningThis episode features EbonyJanice Moore, an activist, author, and thought leader, as she delves into her journey of overcoming rejection, breaking generational cycles, and reclaiming softness as a revolutionary act. EbonyJanice discusses her childhood experiences, personal revelations, and professional successes, offering deep insights into healing, growth, and liberation.
Chapters:
00:01 - Welcome & Introduction
03:10 - Childhood Rejection: The Kickball Memory
03:34 - The Role of Colorism in Family Dynamics
12:08 - Reclaiming Body Autonomy: A Personal Revelation
17:38 - Coming Out Theologically and Spiritually
23:44 - The Greatest...
2025-01-151h 15My Rejection StoryThe 5 BEST Rejection Insights From 2024's Interviews (Mashup)In this dynamic episode of My Rejection Story, Alice Draper brings together highlights from past interviews with thought leaders who’ve transformed rejection into resilience and success. Through inspiring stories and actionable advice, this episode dives into how to turn setbacks into opportunities, rewrite your personal narrative, and embrace vulnerability as a strength.
Featured Clips & Highlights:
1. Tina Wells: Packaging and Turning a No into a Yes
Tina shares how to package your ideas and opportunities in a way that transforms rejection into a resounding yes. She reveals the art of reframing and how perseverance and creativity can lead to br...
2025-01-0818 min
My Rejection StoryListener Favorite: "The NYT Trashed My Book!" Geraldine DeRuiter on RejectionGeraldine DeRuiter, a James Beard award-winning writer and author, discusses her experience with a negative review of her book and how her community turned it around to make it a bestseller.
Geraldine also reflects on her ambition as a child and the importance of perseverance and authenticity in her writing journey. Geraldine shares her experience of how her blog gained traction and how she navigated rejection in her writing career. She emphasizes the importance of putting yourself out there and not being afraid of rejection. She also discusses the fear of stating what you want and offers...
2024-12-251h 07
My Rejection StoryAlice Draper: The 100 Rejection Challenge That Changed My LifeThis episode originally appeared on The Best Advice Show hosted by Zak Rosen. Find the original episode here: https://bestadvice.show/episodes/you-need-to-get-rejected-a-lot-more-with-alice-draper
In this episode, Zak speaks with writer and publicist Alice Draper about the transformative power of embracing rejection. Alice shares how taking on the "100 Rejection Challenge" not only improved her freelance journalism career but also revolutionized her personal life, from dating to building resilience after her father's dementia diagnosis. Learn how seeking out micro rejections can build your rejection resilience muscle and lead to unexpected successes.
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2024-12-1807 min
My Rejection StoryNon-Obvious Thinker: The ONE Question That Will Transform Networking, Book Publishing Secrets & MoreIn this episode of My Rejection Story, host Alice Draper speaks with Rohit Bhargava about his experiences with rejection, the importance of non-obvious thinking, and the journey of founding Idea Press Publishing. They discuss how childhood experiences shape our relationship with rejection, the impact of confidence on overcoming challenges, and the significance of storytelling in conversations. Rohit shares insights on hybrid publishing, marketing strategies for authors, and the value of networking through weak ties.
Find Rohit Bhargava here on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rohitbhargava/
To find out...
2024-12-111h 01
Weirdly Helpful (formerly The Best Advice Show)You Need to Get Rejected A LOT MORE with Alice DraperAlice Draper shares her experience with rejection and how it can lead to greater success, both personally and professionally and then she offers strategies for all of us to build our own rejection resilience muscle. Alice Draper is the founder of Hustling Writers, a podcast guesting agency that has secured clients on hundreds of podcasts, including most of the top 0.5% shows. Her newly-launched podcast, My Rejection Story, features interviews with Neil Patel, Jason VanRuler, and Gay Hendricks. She has written for HuffPost, Refinery29, Business Insider, and more.
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2024-12-1107 minMy Rejection StoryAlice Draper: I Feel Like An Imposter! Winning A Podcast Award ReflectionsIn this episode, Alice Draper reflects on the journey of her podcast, celebrating its recent award while grappling with feelings of imposter syndrome. She discusses the importance of agency and resilience in the face of rejection, emphasizing the need to embrace vulnerability in content creation. Alice shares insights on navigating the challenges of low status and self-sabotage, encouraging listeners to pursue their passions despite fears of failure.
Substack post mentioned in episode: https://usefulfictions.substack.com/p/how-to-be-more-agentic
2024-12-0416 min
My Rejection StoryHybrid Publisher: Our Authors Keep 90% Of Royalties. This Is NOT Normal In Traditional PublishingIn this episode of My Rejection Story, host Alice Draper interviews Nick Courtright, the CEO of Atmosphere Press, a hybrid publishing company, and author himself, who shares his journey through rejection and the lessons learned along the way. Nick discusses the impact of rejection on his career, the importance of hybrid publishing, and the support authors can receive in this model. He emphasizes the emotional journey of writing and publishing, the significance of audience engagement, and the need for authors to take charge of their creative destinies. Nick also explores the themes of his latest book, 'The Forgotten World...
2024-11-2753 min
My Rejection StoryThe Literary Agent: "To land a nonfiction book deal you need 1 of these 3 things"In this episode of My Rejection Story, Alice Draper speaks with Sarah Bullen, a multi-published author, writing coach, and literary agent. They discuss the journey of overcoming rejection in the writing process, the importance of developing a thick skin, and the role of literary agents in navigating the publishing world. Sarah shares insights on market trends, the unpredictability of novel success, and the significance of genre in writing. They also explore the challenges of writing standout books in a saturated market, the realities of book sales, and the value of writing as a passion project. The conversation concludes with...
2024-11-201h 12
My Rejection StoryAyodeji Awosika: “I studied 3-star Amazon reviews!” Reaching millions through self-publishingIn this conversation, Alice Draper and Ayodeji Awosika explore the multifaceted journey of self-publishing, from overcoming the fear of failure to the intricacies of writing, editing, and marketing a book. They discuss the importance of building an audience, effective time management strategies, and the decision-making process behind choosing self-publishing over traditional routes. Ayodeji shares insights on personal growth, accountability, and the evolving nature of careers in today's world, emphasizing the need for adaptability and self-awareness. The conversation concludes with practical advice for aspiring podcasters and content creators, highlighting the significance of focusing on what works and continuously improving one's...
2024-11-131h 17
My Rejection StoryAlice Draper: "Rejection threatens our ability to survive."This episode originally aired on ADHD-ish hosted by Diann Wingert. Episode link here: https://www.diannwingertcoaching.com/blog/risk-rejection-resilience
In this conversation, Alice Draper is interviewed by Diann Wingert, the host of the ADHD-ish podcast. Together, they discuss the complex nature of rejection, its historical roots in human survival, and the psychological impacts it has on individuals, particularly those with ADHD and marginalized identities. The dialogue explores the science behind rejection sensitivity, cultural conditioning, and a gendered perspectives on failure.
Check out: The ADHD-ish Podcast. This podcast alternates between straight-shooting solo episodes, guest interviews with ot...
2024-11-0648 minMy Rejection StoryAlice Draper: "Losing my father to dementia is the worst and best thing that happened to me"In this episode, Alice Draper reflects on her journey through the first 11 episodes of her podcast, focusing on the theme of rejection and personal growth. She shares her own experiences with rejection, trauma, and caregiving, emphasizing how these challenges have shaped her resilience and identity. The conversation explores the duality of rejection and success, highlighting that both can coexist and lead to personal transformation. Alice encourages listeners to embrace their rejection stories as sources of strength and motivation for growth.
takeaways
Rejection is a universal experience that everyone faces.
Using rejection as a...
2024-10-3038 min
My Rejection StoryTina Wells: “No one looked like me when I started my business in 1996”Tina Wells shares her rejection story and the pivotal moment in her life when she felt rejected. She talks about the changes in the agency world and how she had to confront the rejection and make a decision. Tina emphasizes the importance of taking a pause and becoming present with oneself to navigate through rejection.
For anyone listening, you can order a copy of The Elevation Approach: Harness the Power of Work-Life Harmony to Unlock Your Creativity, Cultivate Joy, and Reach Your Biggest Goals on Amazon: https://a.co/d/boRRTDv
2024-10-2350 min
FLOWcastFLOW community: MY REJECTION STORY - Alice DraperWelcome to the FLOW Community Podcast. Tune into this episode here: https://www.flowwithcommunity.com/post/flowcast-alice-draper-my-rejection-story , please sign up for FREE to unlock content. Get inspired by the life journeys, dreams, and creations of our community members. Here, everyone is invited to share their unique stories and inspire others.
On this flowcast, Alice Draper, the host of My Rejection Story podcast, shares her insights on resilience, rejection, and how embracing rejection can lead to growth and success. The conversation dives into Alice’s personal experiences and her journey toward building resilience in the face of rejection, both professionally an...
2024-10-2204 min
My Rejection StoryKimberly Brown: "It is never too late to change careers"In this episode of My Rejection Story, Kimberly Brown shares her personal journey of rejection and redirection in her career. She discusses the emotional impact of job rejections, the importance of vulnerability, and how to navigate the job market effectively. Kimberly emphasizes the significance of asking questions during interviews and the need for self-coaching in professional development. She also opens up about her experience as an author, the challenges of promoting her book, and the importance of community support. The conversation concludes with practical advice for growing a podcast and engaging with an audience.
Takeaways:
Rejection...
2024-10-161h 07
My Rejection StoryJason VanRuler: "I didn't know how to have a secure relationship"In this episode of My Rejection Story, host Alice Draper speaks with therapist and author Jason VanRuler about the complexities of rejection, particularly in relationships. They discuss the importance of rewriting personal narratives, the necessity of grieving losses, and the journey towards authenticity. Jason shares his experiences with rejection and how they shaped his path to becoming a thought leader in the mental health space. The conversation emphasizes the value of community, the challenge of faulty beliefs, and the growth that comes from embracing rejection.
Takeaways:
You can rewrite your story and make...
2024-10-0955 min
My Rejection StoryElizabeth Fremantle: "Getting expelled from school at 15 drove my ambition"Elizabeth Fremantle shares her experiences of rejection, starting with being expelled from school at a young age. She felt unjustly labeled as a bad influence and struggled to overcome the rejection. However, her desire to be a writer motivated her to go back to university as a mature student and pursue her passion.
Elizabeth emphasizes the importance of finding a way back from early rejection and not letting it define one's future. She also discusses the impact of rejection on her writing career, including the rejection of multiple novels before finding success with her fourth book. Elizabeth r...
2024-10-021h 07
Your Dream BusinessEmbracing Rejection: Building Resilience and Visibility with Alice DraperIn this episode, I delve into the often-dreaded topic of rejection, particularly as it affects women entrepreneurs. I interviewed Alice Draper, founder and chief strategist at Hustle Writers, who shared valuable insights into why rejection feels so daunting and how women are often socially conditioned to avoid it.
We discussed strategies for building resilience to rejection and provided practical tips for crafting effective pitches to increase visibility. We also shared personal stories of rejection to emphasize that it's a common experience, even for seasoned professionals.
Join the conversation to learn how...
2024-09-3042 min
My Rejection StoryJill Mansell: “I'm on book 37, and I still get anxious”Jill Mansell shares her journey as a writer, from her early experiences with rejection to becoming a bestselling author. She talks about the challenges of finding an agent and receiving rejections from publishers. Despite the setbacks, she persevered and found success with her unique style of writing.
Jill discusses the fear and anxiety she still feels with each new book, as well as the joy of connecting with readers and making a positive impact on their lives. In this conversation, Jill discusses the importance of constructive feedback and incorporating diverse perspectives into her writing. She shares how s...
2024-09-251h 03
The Business Power Hour with Deb KrierAlice DraperAlice Draper is the host of the podcast “My Rejection Story” and the founder of the podcast guesting company, Hustling Writers. She is on a mission to make publicity accessible by reframing rejection. Alice has secured her clients on countless podcasts, including most of the top 0.5% shows. On her podcast, My Rejection Story, you can listen to bestselling authors like Neil Patel, Jason VanRuler, or Tina Wells share how they navigated the toughest periods of their personal and professional lives, and how this shaped the success they now experience today. Her words can be found in Hu...
2024-09-191h 02
My Rejection StoryHaley Jakobson: “I got 40+ rejections for Old Enough”Haley Jakobson, a writer and playwright, discusses her relationship with rejection and the journey to publishing her debut novel, 'Old Enough'. She shares her fear of rejection and the mantra of choosing herself, which worked until she had to face the vulnerability of publishing a book. Haley talks about the 40+ rejections she received and the tools she developed to navigate rejection, including zooming out and realizing that her career is not defined by one project, leaning on her community for support, and finding joy in other aspects of her life. She also discusses the changes in her life since...
2024-09-181h 06
My Rejection StoryPaulette Perhach: “I feel like a hypocrite for being the F*ck-Off Fund girl”Paulette Perhach, an award-winning writer and author, shares her experiences with rejection and failure.
She emphasizes the importance of being open and vulnerable as a writer and navigating the challenges that come with it.
She discusses her journey with ADHD and how it has influenced her relationship with rejection.
Paulette also talks about the importance of self-compassion and seeking external help when needed. She shares personal stories of infidelity and how she stays open despite past experiences.
In this conversation, Paulette Perhach discusses the importance of feeling and embracing vulnerability, the...
2024-09-1159 min
My Rejection StoryNeil Patel: “Rejection doesn’t need to sting”Neil Patel, a renowned marketer and author, shares his insights on rejection and success. He emphasizes the importance of not letting rejection sting and the need to embrace rejection as a part of life and business. Neil discusses his own experiences with rejection and how he learned to be patient and persistent.
He also talks about the mindset of not having much to lose, which allowed him to take risks and pursue his dreams. Neil shares his thoughts on long-term planning, adapting to change, and the importance of community and support in overcoming rejection...
2024-09-0528 min
My Rejection StoryNokuhle Kumalo: “I’m A Realistic Delulu Person”Nokuhle Kumalo shares her journey of feeling rejected by her accounting career and making the decision to leave and pursue her own business.
She discusses the challenges and doubts she faced along the way, as well as the support she received from her community. Nokuhle emphasizes the importance of finding a career that aligns with your personality and values, as well as the satisfaction that comes from living according to your purpose. She also talks about the audacious confidence she has always had and how it has helped her go after what she wants in life.
2024-09-041h 17
My Rejection StoryGay Hendricks: “No editor cared about my book, and I’d spent the quarter of a million dollars advance”Gay Hendricks shares his personal journey of transformation and finding his zone of genius. He discusses how a moment of clarity after falling on the ice led him to discover a state of pure consciousness.
Gay emphasizes the importance of facing and accepting our emotions and experiences in order to transform our lives. He also highlights the role of meditation in connecting with our true selves and finding inner peace.
In this part of the conversation, Gay discusses the importance of self-acceptance and making new choices to create positive change.
He introduces the...
2024-09-031h 01
My Rejection StoryGeraldine DeRuiter: “I’m a rejection-avoidant bestselling author”Geraldine DeRuiter, a James Beard award-winning writer and author, discusses her experience with a negative review of her book and how her community turned it around to make it a bestseller.
She shares the personal attacks she faced in the review and the emotional toll it took on her. Despite the hurtful beginning, her community's support and the negative review actually helped boost the book's sales.
Geraldine also reflects on her ambition as a child and the importance of perseverance and authenticity in her writing journey. Geraldine shares her experience of how her blog gained...
2024-09-021h 07
My Rejection StoryINTRODUCING "My Rejection Story" with Alice Draper. Coming September 3In exclusive interviews, society's bestselling authors share how they navigated the toughest periods of their personal and professional lives, and how this shaped the success they now experience today.
You probably know your favorite authors’ success stories. After all, you chose to read their books because of their expertise, wisdom, and great storytelling skills. But do you know their rejection story? I am not talking about the glossed-over “rags to riches” story that you may hear briefly mentioned in a press interview. I’m talking about hearing — directly from them — what it was like in the thick of it.
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2024-08-3001 min
Women in AEC: Wine After WorkTurning Rejections into Resilience: A Writer's Journey with Alice Draper🎙️ In this episode, join us for a captivating conversation with Alice Draper, founder of Hustling Writers, as she shares her inspiring story of overcoming editorial rejections and turning setbacks into stepping stones toward success. 🐝 Rejection Resilience: Discover how Alice navigated the sting of editorial rejections and found a supportive community that transformed her mindset and approach towards rejection. 🌟 Gamifying Rejections: Learn how Hustling Writers gamifies the process of rejections to empower underrepresented entrepreneurs in the podcast publicity realm, fostering a culture of resilience and growth. 💡 Setting Rejection Goals: Explore actionable insights on setting rejection goals a...
2024-07-1030 min
Billionaires In Boxers GlobalClaim Your Career Crown - How You Can Overcome Your Fear of Pitching in 3 Easy Steps with Alice DraperHello, everyone, and welcome to Petite2Queen's Claim Your Career Crown podcast. This is your host Lynn, and today I am joined by our special guest, Alice Draper. Today, we’re going to be talking about How You Can Overcome Your Fear of Pitching in 3 Easy Steps. Episode promise (why listen): Pitching yourself in an authentic genuine manner is a super power. If you get a ton of value in this episode, I would love to invite you to subscribe because it costs nothing to subscribe. Alice is on a mission to make...
2024-07-0532 min
Claim Your Career CrownHow You Can Overcome Your Fear of Pitching in 3 Easy Steps with Alice Draper“The worst thing they can do is say no.” Many of us have received this advice, and yet the sting of rejection still burns! How can you master the art of pitching while building rejection resilience? We spoke with PR Strategist Alice Draper to find out.Read more: https://petite2queen.com/how-you-can-overcome-your-fear-pitching-3-easy-steps/Support the showCheck out Petite2Queen for more great interviews, podcasts, and blogs to help you achieve more, faster!https://www.petite2queen.com/
2024-06-1831 min
The Thoughtful Entrepreneur1900 – Navigating the World of Publicity with Alice DraperIn this episode of the Thoughtful Entrepreneur, your host Josh Elledge speaks with the Founder and Chief Strategist of Hustling Writers, Alice Draper.Alice Draper, the founder and chief strategist of Hustling Writers, focuses on making publicity more accessible for under-recognized entrepreneurs. Her background as a self-pitching journalist who transitioned into a publicity strategist provides deep insights into media pitching.Alice's professional journey began in journalism, where she developed her skills in writing compelling pitches that secured her features in prominent magazines such as Post and Business Insider. Her experiences underscore the importance of visibility a...
2024-05-0417 min
Own Your Lane® - Personal Brand, Leadership & LinkedIn® Visibility in the Age of AIHow to Confidently Pitch (and Get Accepted) On Podcasts: The Step-By-Step Process With Podcast Publicity Expert Alice DraperReady for PR to raise your visibility and authority in your field? Podcasts are one of the best ways to get in front of other audiences to share your message and expertise.If you're new to podcast publicity, this episode will share the exact process for getting your pitches accepted. Podcast publicity expert Alice Draper, founder of Hustinling Writers, details her best tips and brilliant ideas for handling rejection and follow-ups. Plus, get her strategies to find the perfect-fit podcasts to start pitching. LINKSConnect with Alice Draper on LinkedIn
2024-05-0325 min
Aligned and Thriving Podcast | Strategies for Work Life BalanceClosing the Gender Pay Gap: How Women Can Build Rejection Resilience Through Pitching with Alice DraperSend us your questions.In this episode of the Aligned and Thriving podcast, host Judith Bowtell is joined by Alice Draper, the founder and chief strategist at Hustling Writers. Alice is on a mission to make publicity easy and accessible for underrepresented women entrepreneurs at all stages of their businesses. They discuss Alice's journey, her approach to building rejection resilience, and the importance of normalising rejection for success, especially for women and marginalised groups.Podcast Episode SummaryAlice shares her background and how she started her...
2024-03-1046 min
The Ambitious Introvert® PodcastEpisode 163: The Art of Embracing 'No': How to Gamify Rejection with Alice DraperHow many times have you held yourself back from:Applying for a promotionAsking for a payrisePitching yourself to a podcastOr even inviting someone out on a date……in case you get told ‘no’?No one loves feeling rejected, but in order to reach our potential we need to take aligned action that leads us closer to our goals - and in this episode we’re discussing how to build the resilience to do just that.Alice Draper is a Podcast & PR expert who approached...
2023-11-0633 min
Off The Charts Business Podcast with Nathalie LussierTurning Rejections into Opportunities: Alice Draper’s Story of Personal Growth and Business SuccessThis week, we are joined by a special guest, Alice Draper, a podcast publicist who is on a mission to make publicity easy and accessible for under recognized women entrepreneurs. Alice shares her journey from freelance journalism to copywriting and eventually pivoting her business to focus on publicity. She dives into the importance of having […] This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit momentumtime.substack.com
2023-10-0429 minOff The Charts Business Podcast with Nathalie LussierTurning Rejections into Opportunities: Alice Draper’s Story of Personal Growth and Business SuccessThis week, we are joined by a special guest, Alice Draper, a podcast publicist who is on a mission to make publicity easy and accessible for under recognized women entrepreneurs. Alice shares her journey from freelance journalism to copywriting and eventually pivoting her business to focus on publicity. She dives into the importance of having […] This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit momentumtime.substack.com
2023-10-0429 min