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Inside The Mind Of An AddictStop Falling for Empty Apologies: Here’s What to Look ForEmpty Apologies: How to Know If They Really Mean It
Sick of hearing “I’m sorry” on repeat with no real change? You’re not alone. In this live session, Amber breaks down the frustrating cycle of empty apologies, what they look like, why they keep happening, and how to distinguish between true remorse and just another excuse.
You’ll learn:
Key signs someone is actually ready to change
How to set boundaries that stick
Why accountability matters more than words
Whether you're dealing with an addicted loved one...2025-07-3035 min
Untoxicated PodcastEp306 – A Unique Recovery Approach with Amber HollingsworthAmber Hollingsworth makes her fourth appearance on the podcast to talk about how she developed her innovative approach to addiction recovery that involves both the substance user and the family members. As a licensed addiction counselor with over two decades of experience, if you like what Amber has to say, please check out her Put the Shovel Down YouTube channel.
If you love or loved an alcoholic, and your recovery could benefit from connection with people who understand, please check out our Echoes of Recovery program.
If you would like to support the Untoxicated Podcast with...2025-07-2858 minAddiction – Untoxicated PodcastEp306 – A Unique Recovery Approach with Amber HollingsworthAmber Hollingsworth makes her fourth appearance on the podcast to talk about how she developed her innovative approach to addiction recovery that involves both the substance user and the family members. As a licensed addiction counselor with over two decades of experience, if you like what Amber has to say, please check out her Put the Shovel Down YouTube channel.
If you love or loved an alcoholic, and your recovery could benefit from connection with people who understand, please check out our Echoes of Recovery program.
If you would like to support the Untoxicated Podcast with...2025-07-2858 minUntoxicated PodcastSoberlink Endorsement from Amber HollingsworthAmber Hollingsworth is a licensed addiction counselor who has been working with individuals and families struggling with addiction since 2004. She hosts and produces one of the most valuable resources in the recovery community, the Put the Shovel Down YouTube channel. About Soberlink, Amber says, “It is the most effective tool out there for getting someone sober and keeping them sober. More effective than going to meetings.” Please listen to Amber’s full unsolicited endorsement. For a promo code for $50 off your Soberlink device, please go to soberlink.com/untoxicated.
2025-07-2505 minUntoxicated PodcastSoberlink Endorsement from Amber HollingsworthAmber Hollingsworth is a licensed addiction counselor who has been working with individuals and families struggling with addiction since 2004. She hosts and produces one of the most valuable resources in the recovery community, the Put the Shovel Down YouTube channel. About Soberlink, Amber says, “It is the most effective tool out there for getting someone sober and keeping them sober. More effective than going to meetings.” Please listen to Amber’s full unsolicited endorsement. For a promo code for $50 off your Soberlink device, please go to soberlink.com/untoxicated.
2025-07-2505 minAddiction – Untoxicated PodcastSoberlink Endorsement from Amber HollingsworthAmber Hollingsworth is a licensed addiction counselor who has been working with individuals and families struggling with addiction since 2004. She hosts and produces one of the most valuable resources in the recovery community, the Put the Shovel Down YouTube channel. About Soberlink, Amber says, “It is the most effective tool out there for getting someone sober and keeping them sober. More effective than going to meetings.” Please listen to Amber’s full unsolicited endorsement. For a promo code for $50 off your Soberlink device, please go to soberlink.com/untoxicated.
2025-07-2505 min
Sober FriendsE236: Angels with Dirty Faces: Amber Hollingsworth on Seeing the Good in AddictionSend us a textWhat if the person you love isn’t broken—just buried under addiction?In this powerful episode, I sit down with addiction counselor and YouTube creator Amber Hollingsworth of Put The Shovel Down to talk about something we don’t hear enough in recovery: how to actually help a loved one struggling with addiction—without enabling or playing the villain.Amber shares insight from two decades of working with addicts and their families, including:Why tough love often backfiresThe dangers of playing the “bad guy” roleHow denial is a defense me...2025-07-2241 min
Inside The Mind Of An AddictWhy Your Past Self is Sabotaging Your Recovery (And How to Stop It)Why Your Past Keeps Pulling You Back (and How to Break Free)
Ever feel like no matter how hard you try to move forward in recovery, your old habits keep dragging you back? In this episode, Amber Hollingsworth breaks down why that happens and what you can do to finally break the cycle.
You’ll discover:
The psychology behind self-sabotage and why it's so common in recovery
How your past beliefs and habits can quietly derail your progress
Clear, practical strategies to overcome these roadblocks and start building the li...2025-07-1641 min
Inside The Mind Of An AddictAccountability Without Shame: How to Support Recovery with CompassionHolding your loved one accountable doesn’t have to feel like punishment. In this episode, Amber shares how accountability, when done with empathy, can be a powerful tool for long-term recovery, not a trap for blame or guilt. You’ll learn how to build trust, set structure, and use tools like Soberlink to support success without shame.
🔗 Helpful Links from the Episode:
✅ Learn More About Soberlink (and get $50 off): https://www.soberlink.com/amber
✅ At-Home Drug Test Kits (Amazon Affiliate): https://www.amazon.com/shop/addictionrecoveryresources-hopeforfamilies/list/2R1NPH6MOQY9N?ref_=cm_sw...2025-07-0941 min
Inside The Mind Of An AddictStop Feeling Guilty: Responding to Their Victim Mindset
Setting boundaries with an addicted loved one is hard enough, but what happens when those boundaries trigger guilt trips, blame-shifting, or full-blown victim responses? In this episode, we’re tackling one of the trickiest dynamics in addiction recovery: navigating victim mentality after you set healthy boundaries.
You’ll discover: ✅ Why boundaries often bring out a victim response in someone struggling with addiction. ✅ Common reactions like guilt-tripping, blame-shifting, and minimizing—and how to spot them. ✅ Practical ways to respond with empathy while staying firm. ✅ How to avoid the trap of over-explaining or justifying your...2025-06-2536 min
Inside The Mind Of An AddictWhy They Keep Promising to Cut Back (And Why It Never Works)“I’ll Cut Back, I Promise” — Why It Rarely Sticks
You’ve heard it before: “I’ll cut back. I promise.” But time after time, the same patterns return. In this episode, we break down why these promises feel so hopeful in the moment—and why they often fall apart.
Amber Hollingsworth dives into:
The psychology behind well-meaning but empty promises
Why “cutting back” can actually fuel the addiction cycle
How you can respond in ways that protect your peace
Steps to turn frustration into action—and help your loved one move...2025-06-1137 min
Inside The Mind Of An AddictAlcohol Broke Us...Can We Fix It?How Alcohol Erodes Trust & Connection in Relationships (And How to Rebuild It)
Alcohol doesn’t just fuel conflict—it slowly breaks down emotional safety, trust, and connection in relationships. From secrecy and role reversals to emotional chaos and betrayal trauma, this episode explores the ripple effects of alcohol misuse on couples and families.
But there’s hope. Amber shares practical strategies to rebuild trust, set boundaries, and begin healing together. Whether you're the partner of someone struggling or in early recovery yourself, this episode offers a roadmap to reconnect.
🔗 Resources Mentioned in This Episode:2025-06-0441 min
Inside The Mind Of An AddictWhy Promises to Change Don’t Stick (The Missing Piece)Promises, Promises: When They Say They’ll Get Help… But Don’t”
If you’ve ever held onto hope after hearing, “I’ll stop drinking” or “I just need time”—only to be let down again—you’re not alone. In this powerful episode, Amber Hollingsworth unpacks one of the most painful patterns families face in addiction recovery: the cycle of broken promises.
This episode explores:
The line between manipulation and genuine intent
Why addiction makes follow-through so difficult—even when intentions are real
What families can do to encourage real change instea...2025-05-2845 min
Inside The Mind Of An AddictHow to Stop Feeling Stuck and Start Loving Your LifeFeeling stuck or wondering why change takes so long? This episode unpacks the real pace of personal growth and recovery—and why it’s worth the wait. Learn how to stay motivated when progress feels invisible, and discover how every effort you make today is shaping the life you want tomorrow. If you’re craving peace, purpose, and lasting change, this one’s for you. 💪✨
🎙️ Resources & coaching links:
☑️⭐Instant 24/7 Advice with Amber AI https://www.familyrecoveryacademy.online/24-7-coaching-with-amber-ai
☑️RECOVERY COACHING WITH AMBER Coaching is designed to build you up, NOT tear you down! https://www.familyreco...2025-05-2140 min
Inside The Mind Of An Addict*BONUS* The Secret to Navigating Tough Conversations in Recovery (with AI!)Rebuilding Trust: Navigating Tough Conversations in Early Recovery
Early recovery is full of emotional landmines—for both the person getting sober and the family trying to support them. In this episode, we’re tackling the messy, real-life conversations that come with rebuilding trust after addiction. From setting boundaries to addressing old wounds, we’ll walk through practical, compassionate strategies for communicating without spiraling into conflict. Whether you're in recovery or loving someone who is, this episode will help you move from tension to connection—one conversation at a time.
🔗 Get 24/7 recovery support with Amber AI: familyrecov...2025-05-1451 min
Inside The Mind Of An AddictThis Innovation Will Help More People Recover Than Ever BeforeHow AI is Revolutionizing Addiction Recovery
In this episode, we explore the powerful ways artificial intelligence is reshaping addiction recovery. From personalized relapse prevention strategies to creating safe, nonjudgmental spaces for open dialogue, AI is offering fresh hope and support for individuals and families navigating recovery.
Whether you're facing addiction, supporting a loved one, or working in the field, this breakthrough technology could be a game-changer. Tune in to discover how AI is making treatment more accessible, effective, and uniquely tailored to each person’s journey.
🔗 Learn more about Amber AI: 24/7 Coaching with Amber 2025-04-2346 min
Inside The Mind Of An AddictHow To Set Boundaries without Being The Bad Guy🎙️ The Life-Changing Power of Setting Boundaries with Confidence with Amber Hollingsworth
Imagine waking up feeling calm, in control, and confident—no longer drained by someone else’s chaos. In this powerful episode, Amber breaks down how setting boundaries isn’t about being harsh—it’s about reclaiming your peace, your energy, and your sense of self.
You’ll learn:
✔️ How to set boundaries without guilt ✔️ Why confident boundaries lead to healthier relationships ✔️ How to stop living in reaction mode and take back control ✔️ What it really means to protect your peace
If you're ready...2025-04-1638 min
Inside The Mind Of An AddictWhy can’t you just accept me as I am? (The TRUTH behind this question)Why Can’t You Just Accept Me as I Am? — Navigating Guilt, Boundaries & Love in Addiction Recovery
Have you ever heard your addicted loved one say, “Why can’t you just accept me as I am?” If so, you know how emotionally charged and confusing that moment can be.
You're caught between wanting to love them unconditionally and not wanting to enable behavior that’s harming them — and you.
In this eye-opening episode, we break down what your loved one might really mean when they say this and how you can respond in a way that sho...2025-04-0941 min
Wake Up with MarciAddiction & Recovery: How addiction affects Families with Amber HollingsworthIn this powerful episode, we sit down with addiction expert Amber Hollingsworth to uncover the truth about addiction, recovery, and lasting change. Whether you or someone you love is struggling, Amber shares eye-opening insights, practical strategies, and real-life stories to help you break free from the cycle of addiction. We’ll discuss: ✅ The psychology behind addiction ✅ How to support a loved one in recovery ✅ Practical steps for overcoming addiction ✅ Common myths and misconceptions 🔗 Connect with Amber Hollingsworth:Website: [https://www.familyrecoveryacademy.online](https://www.familyrecoveryacademy.online) YouTube: [https://www.youtube.com/@PutTheShovelDow...2025-04-0350 min
Inside The Mind Of An AddictFinding Purpose: Marci Hopkins on Sobriety and Healing Finding Purpose Through Sobriety with Marci Hopkins
In this heartfelt and inspiring episode, we sit down with Marci Hopkins, host of the award-winning talk show Wake Up With Marci. Marci opens up about her personal journey to sobriety and how it helped her uncover a deeper sense of purpose and joy in life.
She shares powerful insights on the role of family in the recovery process, emphasizing how healing can happen together. Whether you're walking your own path to sobriety or supporting someone you love, Marci’s story offers hope, practical wisdom, and a reminder tha...2025-03-2641 min
Inside The Mind Of An AddictHow rationalizations slowly steal your lifeThe Slow Erosion of Self – How Addiction Rewires You
Addiction doesn’t announce itself with a bang—it creeps in, reshaping your thoughts, choices, and identity so gradually that you don’t even realize what’s happening. One day, you're justifying small things, bending your values just a little, and before you know it, you're in the wreckage of a life you no longer recognize. It’s not about making one bad decision—it’s a slow shift, a survival mode that traps you in its cycle.
In this episode, we dive deep into the subtle ways addi...2025-03-1943 min
Inside The Mind Of An AddictAddiction And Money: How to Stop the Cycle of Financial ChaosSetting Financial Boundaries with a Loved One Struggling with Addiction
One of the toughest but most essential steps in loving someone through addiction is setting financial boundaries. In this episode, we explore the emotional and practical sides of protecting your finances while still offering support in a way that fosters true recovery.
You’ll learn:
✔️ How addiction impacts financial stability
✔️ Practical strategies for setting healthy financial boundaries
✔️ Compassionate ways to communicate your limits
✔️ Real-life stories from those who’ve been in your shoes
If you’re battling guilt, fea...2025-03-1243 min
Inside The Mind Of An AddictNavigating Difficult Conversations: 5 Game-Changing Tips!Mastering Difficult Conversations with Confidence
Ever been in a conversation where tensions rise, and suddenly, it feels like a tug-of-war? You want to express your thoughts, but so does the other person. If you “win,” what have you really gained?
In this episode, I'm sharing five game-changing tips that will transform the way you handle difficult conversations so you can navigate them with clarity, confidence, and connection. Forget the overused “I feel…” statements and embrace powerful new strategies to:
✅ Stay calm and centered—even when emotions run high ✅ Foster deeper understanding and empathy ✅ Ap...2025-03-0542 min
Inside The Mind Of An Addict5 Important Signs of Genuine Life ChangeWelcome to an inspiring episode where we dive into the transformative power of perseverance and commitment. In today’s discussion, we explore how real, meaningful change often follows a series of setbacks, proving that every stumble is a stepping stone on the journey to growth. We'll unpack the subtle signs of true commitment—both in ourselves and in those we support—and share insights on how progress can manifest in powerful, life-changing ways.
In This Episode:
Discover why failure is not the end but the beginning of transformation.
Learn how to recognize and nurture the real signs...2025-02-2633 min
Inside The Mind Of An Addict4 Things Addicts Do To SABOTAGE Their SOBRIETY Without RealizingRelapse isn't always caused by obvious triggers—sometimes, it's the subtle, overlooked habits that can derail recovery. In this episode, we uncover four common yet often unnoticed behaviors that can sabotage sobriety without anyone realizing it. Understanding these pitfalls is crucial for long-term recovery and a healthier lifestyle.
🎧 Listen in to learn:✅ The surprising habits that lead to relapse✅ Subtle warning signs that often go unnoticed✅ Practical tips to stay on track in your recovery journey
🎁 FREE Resources for People in Early Recovery:
✔️ Daily Relapse Prevention Strategies✔️ Amber's 5 Essential Recovery Skills✔️...2025-02-1935 min
Real Recovery TalkCan you FORCE sobriety on someone? with Amber Hollingsworth Invisible Intervention: https://www.familyrecoveryacademy.online/a/33563/TceuSFbe Soberlink: https://www.soberlink.com/amber Join our Big Book Study! https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/bigbookstudy Join our FREE FB Support group!: https://www.facebook.com/groups/realrecoverytalk Download our free guides!: https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/guides PUT THE SHOVEL DOWN: https://www.youtube.com/@UCT8PE1v0xFR9zLXOijxM6hg Chat with us! https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/services On today’s episode, we sit down with Amber Hollingsworth, the founder and CEO of Put the...2025-02-121h 10Real Recovery TalkCan you FORCE sobriety on someone? with Amber Hollingsworth Invisible Intervention: https://www.familyrecoveryacademy.online/a/33563/TceuSFbe Soberlink: https://www.soberlink.com/amber Join our Big Book Study! https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/bigbookstudy Join our FREE FB Support group!: https://www.facebook.com/groups/realrecoverytalk Download our free guides!: https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/guides PUT THE SHOVEL DOWN: https://www.youtube.com/@UCT8PE1v0xFR9zLXOijxM6hg Chat with us! https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/services On today’s episode, we sit down with Amber Hollingsworth, the founder and CEO of Put the...2025-02-121h 10
Inside The Mind Of An AddictHe Relapsed Within A Week Of Leaving TreatmentWhy Most Addiction Treatments Fail (And How to Fix It!)
Many people enter treatment believing that the methods alone will save them, but the truth is the most important factor is often overlooked.
In this episode, we dive deep into why most addiction treatments fall short—hint it’s not because they lack effectiveness. We’ll uncover the key ingredient that makes all the difference: motivation. Learn how shifting the focus to motivation first can create a foundation for lasting recovery and meaningful skill development.
Tune in now for game-changing insights that could transf...2025-02-0552 min
Inside The Mind Of An AddictThe Truth About Forced Addiction TreatmentDo People Forced Into Treatment Stay Sober?
In this thought-provoking episode, we tackle the controversial topic of forced addiction treatment. From involuntary commitment to court-mandated programs and family interventions, we examine whether these approaches help or hinder recovery. Join us as we unpack the complexities of these scenarios and offer real-life insights into their effectiveness.
What we’re covering: ✅ Involuntary Commitment: We break down the 5150, Baker Act, 304 Commitment, and Pink Papers—exploring how being deemed a danger to oneself or others can lead to mandatory treatment and its impact on recovery.
✅ Court-Mandated Treatmen...2025-01-2934 min
Inside The Mind Of An AddictAddiction Denial MASTERCLASSPodcast Episode Summary: Breaking Through Denial in Addiction
In this episode, Amber dives into the powerful role of denial in addiction and how it keeps individuals trapped in harmful cycles. Through relatable examples and expert insights, she unpacks the psychology behind denial and the distorted thinking patterns that enable substance abuse.
Key Takeaways:
The Psychology of Denial: Understanding how denial manifests and why it serves as a mental defense mechanism.
Common Cognitive Distortions: Exploring thinking traps like black-and-white thinking, catastrophizing, and selective memory that fuel addiction.
Justification Tactics: Recognizing techniques addicts use to rationalize...2025-01-2239 min
Till The Wheels Fall OffPut the Shovel Down: Insights from Amber Hollingsworth on Addiction, Accountability, and SupportHave an episode suggestion? Text us!In this episode of Till the Wheels Fall Off, we are joined by Amber Hollingsworth, the creator of the YouTube channel Put the Shovel Down and founder of Hope for Families Recovery Center. Together, we explore the misunderstood role of spouses in the recovery process, the power of influence over control, and why tough love often misses the mark. Amber shares insights on using accountability tools like SoberLink, balancing empathy with boundaries, and how to recognize genuine effort in recovery. Whether you're in the midst of addiction, supporting a loved one...2025-01-221h 35
Inside The Mind Of An Addict12-Steps On Your Own TermsReclaiming the 12 Steps with Arlina A.
In this enlightening episode, we sit down with Arlina A., author of 12 Steps for Skeptics, to unpack the myths and misconceptions surrounding the 12-step program. Arlina shares her personal journey as a skeptic, offering practical advice for those who may feel disillusioned or struggle with the spiritual aspects of the program.
We explore: ✅ The most common myths about 12-step groups and how Arlina addresses them in her book. ✅ Arlina’s experience overcoming skepticism and finding value in the 12 steps. ✅ Tips for navigating the religious or spiritual language...2025-01-1558 min
Inside The Mind Of An AddictChildhood Conditioning: Breaking the Cycle of Self-Sabotaging Behaviors Learned Early in LifeBreaking Free from Childhood Conditioning: Healing Self-Sabotage
Welcome to today’s episode of [Podcast Name], where we’re diving deep into the profound impact our childhood experiences have on who we are today. From the beliefs we carry to the coping mechanisms we rely on, the survival strategies we developed as kids often evolve into ingrained patterns that shape—and sometimes sabotage—our adult lives.
In This Episode:
The Roots of Self-SabotageWe’ll explore how childhood wounds and conditioning manifest in limiting beliefs, self-defeating tendencies, and deeply rooted insecurities. You’ll learn how th...2025-01-0830 min
Inside The Mind Of An AddictSurviving the Holidays During Difficult Times
Surviving the Holidays: Finding Peace and Hope Amidst Life’s Challenges
The holidays can be a joyful time, but for many, it’s a season filled with heightened emotions, mental health struggles, addiction challenges, or grief. In today’s episode, we’re diving into a compassionate and practical Holiday Survival Guide—because no one should have to face these challenges alone. Let’s talk about finding pockets of peace, joy, and meaning, even amidst the chaos.
Segment 1: Why the Holidays Can Be Especially Hard
The holiday season often brings unique pressures—family dynamics, financial stres...2024-12-2830 min
Inside The Mind Of An AddictHidden Agendas In Addicted Family Systems - A House DividedIn this episode, we dive deep into the hidden tensions and conflicting agendas that complicate recovery within addicted family systems. The discussion uncovers the unspoken power struggles, divergent perspectives, and covert dynamics that can fracture family relationships, making the path to healing even more challenging.
We explore how these underlying dynamics influence communication and decision-making, offering insights to help families recognize and address these barriers effectively.
For those seeking further support, Family Recovery Academy provides a range of resources to help navigate these challenges. From strengths-based coaching to communication quizzes, free tools, and private support...2024-12-1836 min
Inside The Mind Of An AddictWhy 'One-Size-Fits-All' Recovery Models Fail - And What to Do InsteadUnlocking Lasting Sobriety Through Your Enneagram Type with Dr. Tom Lahue
In this episode, host Amber dives into a game-changing approach to addiction recovery with Enneagram expert Dr. Tom Lahue. If you're tired of the one-size-fits-all recovery methods that just don't seem to work, this conversation is for you.
Dr. Lahue reveals how understanding your unique Enneagram personality type can be the missing piece in your sobriety journey. They discuss why generic recovery programs often fall short, and how identifying your core motivations can lead to personalized strategies that actually stick.
You’ll di...2024-12-1153 min
Inside The Mind Of An AddictWill I Eventually Be Able to Drink Normally? (if I address the underlying cause of my addiction)Is Controlled Drinking Possible After Addiction Recovery?
Have you ever wondered if drinking in moderation is possible after overcoming addiction?
For many who’ve battled substance abuse, the idea of returning to controlled, recreational drinking seems like a hopeful possibility. But what does the research say?
We dive into the science, realities, and personal stories surrounding this controversial topic.
Here’s what you’ll discover:
Myths vs. Reality: Unpacking common misconceptions about "curing" addiction and the potential to return to normal drinking.
Root Causes Explored: How mental health, trauma, and other...2024-11-2034 min
Inside The Mind Of An AddictWhen a Drunk Loved One Oversteps (and they don't even remember it)Want to confront a loved one (or friend) about their behavior while drunk/or high? If someone you care about struggles with addiction, you've likely encountered situations where they said or did inappropriate things while intoxicated, only to have no memory of it the next day. This can be an incredibly frustrating and heartbreaking experience for those who care about the person.
In this episode, we'll address how to handle those "morning after" conversations when your loved one's drunken behaviors come to light. As someone supporting an individual with an addiction, you'll gain insights on whether you...2024-11-1324 min
Inside The Mind Of An AddictWhat Therapists Get Wrong About Self-Esteem and AddictionBreaking the Cycle: How Addiction Impacts Self-Esteem and How to Rebuild It**
In this episode, we dive deep into the vicious cycle of addiction and self-esteem, examining how substance abuse systematically wears down your self-confidence, self-acceptance, and sense of self-worth. We’ll explore the harsh effects addiction can have on self-esteem, from feelings of guilt and shame to a loss of control and the negative consequences it can create in one’s life.
But there’s hope. We’ll also share actionable strategies to help break this cycle and rebuild self-esteem during recovery. Tune in to learn...2024-11-0635 min
Inside The Mind Of An AddictProblematic Behavior vs. Real Addiction: Understanding The DifferenceWondering if you or a loved one is battling addiction or simply facing problematic habits? Mislabeling can cause harm, but missing the signs of true addiction can be even more damaging. In today’s episode, we’ll dive into the vital differences between problematic substance use and clinically diagnosed substance use disorder. You'll discover:
The signs distinguishing problematic use from addiction
How substance use can progress into a disorder
The role of tolerance, withdrawal, and impaired control
Why accurate terminology matters for getting the right help
Practical strategies to assess your substance use or a loved one’s
Unde...2024-10-3037 min
Inside The Mind Of An AddictNavigating Complicated Addicted Family DynamicsIn this podcast episode, Amber Hollingsworth and Campbell Manning discuss how addiction impacts family relationships, offering practical tools to overcome resentment, improve communication, and restore trust. They share strategies to break free from toxic dynamics and rebuild supportive, healthy relationships. Key topics include letting go of blame, fostering teamwork, and regaining faith in the recovery process.
Additional Resources:Family Communication Effectiveness Quiz Free Resources Join Private Coaching Community
For more, visit Family Recovery Academy online.2024-10-1640 min
Inside The Mind Of An AddictWant To Put Your Addiction Past Behind You?You're serious about sobriety, but you're tired of talking about it. It's natural to want to put addiction behind you. However, your loved ones can't seem to move forward. They want to talk about it constantly and freak out if you even mention not wanting to keep going to meetings and/or counseling forever. This video is about breaking free from addictions shadow.
What you'll learn:
✅Strategies for Redirecting Family Conversations to the Present
✅Addressing Your Families Ongoing Concerns
✅Establishing Boundaries About Rehasing the Past
✅Reclaiming Your Whole Identity
AD...2024-10-0236 min
Inside The Mind Of An AddictThe Impact of Alcohol on Relationships: A Deeper LookPodcast Summary: Alcohol’s Impact on Relationships
In this episode, we dive deep into the ways alcohol misuse can fracture even the strongest relationships. From communication breakdowns and infidelity to financial strain and domestic abuse, the fallout from alcohol addiction is vast and often devastating.
We'll hear from relationship experts who shed light on the unique challenges couples face when alcohol becomes an unwelcome third party. The episode also highlights actionable strategies for supporting a partner struggling with alcohol use disorder, rebuilding trust, and paving the way toward healing.
Whether you’re personally batt...2024-09-2543 min
Inside The Mind Of An AddictHow to Get an Addict to Understand Your PerspectiveIn today’s episode, we dive into the challenges of communicating with a loved one struggling with addiction or alcoholism. If you’ve ever felt misunderstood or frustrated in these conversations, you’re not alone. I’m sharing practical tips and strategies to help you navigate these difficult discussions with empathy and effectiveness.
What You’ll Learn:
- Starting the Conversation: Discover effective ways to open dialogue in a non-confrontational manner that encourages mutual understanding.- Common Mistakes to Avoid: Learn about common pitfalls that can derail your conversations and how to avoid them to keep th...2024-09-1838 min
Inside The Mind Of An AddictIs It Possible To Beat Addiction Without Getting Help?The good news is... You can beat an addiction without getting professional help. However, there are some drawbacks to the DIY recovery model. This video will examine the pros and cons of "Self-Help vs. Professional Help. 🔍
What You'll Learn:
Key indicators that it's time to seek help
The differences between self-recovery and professional support
The benefits of reaching out to addiction specialists
What kind of help should you look for
ADDITIONAL RESOURCES:
🔵Addiction Severity Self-Assessment: https://hffrc-sud.scoreapp.com
🔵Insiders Guide To Treatment Options: https://www.familyrecoveryacademy.online/motivational-interviewing-session-1
🔵Alcohol Moni...2024-09-1141 min
Inside The Mind Of An Addict7 Clear Signs You Need to Set Stronger Boundaries ☢️Welcome to another episode of our podcast, where today we’re diving deep into the importance of setting and maintaining healthy boundaries. It’s easy to notice when others don’t have good boundaries, but what about our own? Often, we overlook the signs that we, too, need better boundaries in our lives.
In this episode, I’ll be sharing practical tips to help you identify where your boundaries might be lacking and how to strengthen them. Whether you're feeling overwhelmed by others' demands or struggling to say no, this conversation is for you! You'll also hear from our...2024-08-2841 min
Inside The Mind Of An AddictConfronting The After Effects Of AddictionIn this episode of "Confronting the After Effects of Addiction," we explore the profound and lasting impact of addiction on individuals, families, and communities. Addiction's ripple effects extend far beyond the person struggling with it, often leaving emotional and psychological scars that require attention and healing.
What You'll Discover:
Insights into the emotional and psychological aftermath of addiction for individuals.
A deep dive into how addiction disrupts family dynamics and relationships.
Practical strategies for personal recovery and healing.
Tips for families on supporting their loved ones and themselves throughout the recovery process.
Real-life stories of resilience...2024-08-2145 min
Inside The Mind Of An AddictThe Shame Trap: Why It’s So Hard to Break Free from AddictionIn this episode, we dive into the complex relationship between shame, guilt, and addiction. These emotions can be powerful motivators for change but can also trap individuals in the very behaviors they seek to escape. Join us as we explore how shame and guilt can either propel someone toward recovery or keep them stuck in a cycle of addiction. You'll learn the importance of balancing these emotions and creating a safe space for healing. Whether you're on a personal recovery journey or supporting a loved one, this episode offers valuable insights to help you navigate the challenges of addiction...2024-08-1439 min
Inside The Mind Of An AddictThe Art of Influence: How to Inspire Change Without PressureJoin us for an enlightening episode as we delve into the powerful techniques of persuasion that can inspire meaningful change in ourselves and others—without the pressure or push. In this engaging session, we’ll explore:
✨ The difference between persuasion and pressure ✨ Key strategies to effectively communicate your ideas ✨ Real-life examples of inspiring change through influence ✨ Tips for fostering an open dialogue and building trust ✨ How to cultivate a mindset of empathy and understanding
Whether you’re looking to motivate an addicted loved one, encourage friends, or simply improve your communication skills, this epi...2024-07-3137 min
Inside The Mind Of An AddictTurning Challenges into Opportunities: A Guide To Family RecoveryIn this episode, we dive deep into strategies and insights on how to rise above triggers and navigate through difficult situations, fostering resilience and growth along the way. Discover how to transform setbacks into stepping stones towards healing and transformation in your family dynamics. Let's embark on this transformative journey together and empower ourselves to forge a path of recovery and renewal. Don't miss out on this empowering guide to family recovery!
Episode Highlights:- Rising above triggers- Navigating through difficult situations- Fostering resilience and growth- Transforming setbacks into stepping...2024-07-2440 min
Inside The Mind Of An Addict"Only An Addict Can Help Another Addict" Is a MYTH, and here's why...Today's episode delves into a crucial but often overlooked aspect of the recovery journey. While support and solidarity are essential in the process of healing, there are instances where well-meaning individuals on their own path to recovery might unknowingly hinder the progress of others. Join us as we explore the nuances of this phenomenon and discuss how we can navigate these challenges with empathy and understanding. Whether you're a recovering individual or someone supporting a loved one through their journey, this insightful discussion offers valuable insights into fostering a more inclusive and supportive recovery community.
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Inside The Mind Of An AddictUnderstanding the Difference Between Anxiety and IntuitionIn this enlightening session, we will unravel the complexities of these feelings that often tug at our hearts and minds. Join us for a deep dive into the intricate realms of the mind as we explore "Understanding the Difference Between Anxiety and Intuition: Self-Sabotage vs. Gut Instinct.
🔍 Have you ever wondered if that voice inside your head is guiding you towards success or holding you back in fear? We'll explore how to distinguish between anxiety-driven self-sabotage and the subtle nudges of intuition that lead us toward our true path.
🌿 Discover practical tips and insights to help y...2024-07-1033 min
Inside The Mind Of An AddictBalancing Support and Self-Preservation in Addiction RecoveryDelve into the crucial topic of setting boundaries and navigating the fine line between support and self-preservation when helping a loved one with addiction. In this engaging episode, we will explore the importance of empowering boundaries in addiction recovery, offering insights on how to strike a healthy balance between showing love and setting limits. Whether you're struggling to define your boundaries or seeking guidance on navigating tough choices in supporting someone with addiction, this episode promises valuable insights and practical advice to help you on your journey.
Tune in to better understand ultimatums versus boundaries and discover...2024-07-0227 min
Inside The Mind Of An AddictConquer Self-Sabotaging Behaviors and Break Free From Unhealthy Relationship CyclesIn this empowering and insightful episode, we will delve into the crucial topic of confronting toxic behaviors and embracing positivity for personal growth. Join us as we explore the steps to break free from negative patterns and heal from self-sabotaging behaviors.
This discussion is especially relevant for individuals (and families) on the path to addiction recovery, as breaking free from toxic traits and behaviors is a fundamental aspect of the healing journey. By confronting these destructive patterns and embracing positivity, we can pave the way for lasting change and a brighter future.
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Inside The Mind Of An AddictBehind Closed Doors: Secrets, Lies, and HeartbreakUnmasking the secrets, lies, and tears that often lurk behind closed doors in families affected by addiction. Through personal stories and expert insights, we shed light on the complexities of addiction and the toll it takes on relationships, communication, and overall well-being. Join us on this journey to uncover the truth about addiction and the importance of seeking help and support. Let's break the stigma and start the conversation on how we can heal and overcome the challenges of addiction together.
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Inside The Mind Of An AddictEmotional Healing: Rebuilding Life Post-AddictionEmotional Healing: Rebuilding Life Post-Addiction 🌟 Join us as we delve into the journey of overcoming addiction and the crucial process of rebuilding a fulfilling life thereafter. In this empowering discussion, we will explore strategies for emotional healing, navigating the complexities of addiction recovery, and reshaping thought patterns to break free from the cycle of addiction. Whether you're on your own path to recovery, supporting a loved one, or seeking insights into addiction and healing, this session is designed to offer guidance, inspiration, and a sense of community.
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Inside The Mind Of An AddictThe Hidden Effects of Parental Addiction on KidsThe Impact of Parental Addiction on Children
In this episode, we delve into the often overlooked and heartbreaking impact that addiction can have on children with addicted parents. From emotional turmoil to disrupted family dynamics, parental addiction can leave a lasting mark on a child's mental health and well-being. We explore the challenges and struggles faced by these young individuals, as well as the impact it has on their adult relationships. Join us as we shed light on the silent victims of addiction and discuss ways to break the cycle for a brighter future for these children.2024-06-0535 min
Inside The Mind Of An AddictUnderstanding Addiction: Why do people go from one addiction to another?🔍 Intrigued by the phenomenon of addiction transfer? Dive into the fascinating world of habit-swapping with us in this eye-opening video! 🔄
In this thought-provoking episode, we explore the reasons why individuals may switch from one addiction to another while on the path to recovery. Join us as we uncover the psychological and behavioral aspects behind addiction transfer and shed light on the complexities of breaking free from harmful habits.
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🔴Exploring the emotional triggers of addictive behavior...2024-04-2428 min
Inside The Mind Of An AddictWhen "I can quit on my own" Becomes a Broken RecordWhen a loved one insists they can quit on their own, it often becomes a frustrating and painful cycle of broken promises. But there's hope. Join us as we explore practical strategies and compassionate approaches to supporting your addicted family member.
We'll tackle the myth of self-reliance in addiction recovery through personal anecdotes, expert insights, and real-world advice. You'll discover why simply saying "I can quit anytime" is rarely the solution and how you can empower your loved one to seek the help they truly need.
Whether you're grappling with a partner, parent, sibling, or...2024-03-2727 min
Inside The Mind Of An AddictWhen Your Addicted/Alcoholic Loved One Isn't Experiencing Any Consequences... Do ThisDoes it seem like, your addicted loved one is just getting away with their bad behavior without having any consequences? Are you fearful that they'll never get out of denial? Although it may be hard to see from the outside, there are always negative consequences of addiction. In this video, I'll show you how to break through their denial by uncovering the hidden consequences of their addiction. Thanks for watching the video. Don't forget to subscribe to our channel for more helpful tips and support.
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Inside The Mind Of An AddictTo Call Out or Not: Navigating Lies and Secrets in AddictionIn the complex landscape of addiction, honesty can be elusive, and secrets and lies often become woven into the fabric of relationships. But when you suspect that a loved one battling addiction is not being truthful, the decision to confront them can feel like navigating a minefield. In this candid and insightful episode, join us as we delve into the delicate balance of addressing lies and secrets in the journey of addiction recovery. Drawing from both personal experience and professional expertise, we'll explore the nuances of this challenging dilemma.
Is it better to confront the lies head-on...2024-03-1344 min
Inside The Mind Of An AddictThe Key to Helping Your Alcoholic Spouse Understand Your PerspectiveBeing in a relationship with someone who has an addiction to drugs or alcohol feels very lonely. All of your partner's time and energy goes to their addiction, and other people judge you. Some people blame you for the problem, and others can't understand why you stay in a relationship with an addict. It's a very isolating way of life. How can you communicate to your addicted loved one that they're not only destroying their life but yours too?
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Inside The Mind Of An AddictProven Strategies To Boost Willpower In Those Fighting Addiction/AlcoholismAre you struggling with cravings, temptations, and relapses? In this episode, we'll teach you how to increase your willpower to overcome addiction and achieve a successful recovery. But it's not just for drug/alcohol addictions - these techniques can be applied to any area of your life that requires willpower. Discover the secrets to building resilience and staying on track towards a happier, healthier you. Don't miss out - subscribe now for more valuable tips and strategies!
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Inside The Mind Of An AddictBuilding a Meaningful Life In RecoverySobriety shouldn't be about what you're giving up; it should be what you're gaining. Recovery is hard work, but the payoff is immensely rewarding, especially for those who know how to rebuild a life full of happiness and joy. In today's video, Amber will reveal the key ingredients for building a joyful life after addiction.
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Inside The Mind Of An AddictWhy Do People Get Addicted? Amber Reveals The TruthEveryone talks about the "underlying" causes of addiction, but most people get it wrong. In fact, it's actually the exact opposite of the popular opinion. Unfortunately, because of this misconception, people solve the problem incorrectly. Amber Hollingsworth reveals the surprising truth about how addiction works.
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Inside The Mind Of An AddictUnmasking the Truth: Unlocking Honesty in People Struggling With AddictionsAre you tired of the lies you hear from your loved ones struggling with alcohol addiction? Do you long to unmask the truth? In this episode, we will share powerful strategies to help you get the truth from your addicted loved one.
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Inside The Mind Of An AddictWhat do Alcoholics/Addicts Think When You Set A Boundary?No matter how small of a request you make, your addicted/alcoholic loved one just can't seem to respect your boundaries. You can lower your expectations to the absolute bare minimum, and they still won't follow through. What could possibly be going through their mind? Find out! Addiction expert, Amber Hollingsworth explains how the alcoholic/addict mind interprets boundary setting.
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Inside The Mind Of An AddictDrawing the Line: How To Stop Enabling Someone Else's Alcoholism/AddictionMany of us want to help our loved ones struggling with alcohol addiction, but it's essential to draw the line between helping and enabling. Even if you're not giving money or housing to your alcoholic/addicted loved one, you could be enabling. Watch this video to learn the difference between helping and enabling. It could mean the difference between your loved one finding recovery or continuing to fall into the destruction of addiction.
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Inside The Mind Of An AddictThe truth about living as a functional alcoholicContrary to popular belief, being a functional alcoholic does not mean you can control your drinking. In fact, you may rely on alcohol to function in your everyday life. While you may appear to have it all together on the outside, inside, you struggle. Alcohol dependency can become a vicious cycle, where you numb your pain with alcohol, but it only perpetuates your problems.
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Inside The Mind Of An AddictUnderstanding the Psychological Patterns of Alcoholism and AddictionAddiction is deeply rooted in the psychology of the human brain. As addiction progresses, it changes key aspects of the person's judgment, morality, and personality. These addictive changes happen in a predictable pattern. In this episode, we'll explore the psychological stages addicts and alcoholics go through.
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Inside The Mind Of An AddictAddiction Expert Amber Hollingsworth Answers All Your Questions About Addiction RecoveryReal stories of transformation and hope: Addiction Recovery
"I just wanted to let you know that your methods truly work. Living with addiction is really difficult, and this past week has been tough, too. Your videos and teachings make it a little easier for us to navigate through these uncertainties. I kept trying to do all you teach, and slowly, things started getting better. My husband never even touched alcohol until 2016. He started drinking socially in 2017. His drinking started to escalate during quarantine and became a noticeable problem by 2022.
We were constantly fighting, yelling, and c...2024-01-0325 min
Inside The Mind Of An Addict6 Toxic Behaviors That Destroy RelationshipsIn this thought-provoking podcast, we delve into the topic of "relationship-destroying behaviors" and uncover the insidious toxic behaviors that can cause irreparable damage to even the strongest bonds. Join us as we explore 6 common behaviors that can unravel relationships and provide insightful tips on how to avoid falling into these detrimental patterns. From communication breakdowns to lack of trust, this podcast sheds light on the warning signs and provides invaluable guidance for nurturing healthy, thriving relationships. Don't let these destructive behaviors ruin your chance at long-lasting happiness with your partner. Listen now and make a positive change for a...2023-12-2733 min
Inside The Mind Of An AddictRebuilding Trust: Journey to Healing After AddictionTrust. It's a fragile thread that connects us to the ones we love. But what happens when that thread is broken by addiction? The pain, the betrayals, the shattered promises... It can seem impossible to rebuild trust once addiction takes hold. But trust after addiction is not beyond reach. It's a journey, a journey to healing. It starts with recognizing the damage caused and facing those who were hurt.
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Inside The Mind Of An AddictHow to Break Free From Being A Codependent Person: A Guide For Addicts and Non-AddictsIf you really want to break free from codependent behavior, you must get to the root of why the behavior exists. It's not enough to just promise yourself you'll no longer do _____________.
If you want to put a stop to your codependent tendencies, then you must address the root of the codependency once and for all!
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Inside The Mind Of An AddictWhat Really Causes Addiction Relapse?If you notice these changes, you're headed toward relapse. Please don't ignore the warning signs. Most people don't really understand how relapse occurs when someone has been doing well in their sobriety. Stress, cravings, and triggers make you more vulnerable to a drug or alcohol relapse, but that's not actually what causes it. In this podcast episode, Amber will explain the psychological mechanisms that lead to relapse.
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Inside The Mind Of An AddictWhy Do Addicts Push You AwayAmber Hollingsworth explores the complex emotions and psychological struggles that underlie addictive thinking and the push-pull dynamics that create in their relationships... Discover the intricate web of fear, guilt, and self-preservation that can drive people with an addiction to distance themselves from those who care most about them. By understanding the underlying pain that fuels these dynamics, you'll gain a new perspective on addiction and its impact on relationships. Need help navigating the relationship with your addicted loved one?
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Inside The Mind Of An AddictSupporting An Addict (or Alcoholic's) Path To Recovery (When and How To Push For Change)Timing and approach are crucial when offering support to someone battling addiction. Recognizing those moments when gentle encouragement can propel a person with addiction toward positive change is essential. Join us as we explore various aspects of addiction recovery, from recognizing signs of progress to fostering an environment that encourages healthy decision-making. Drawing from personal experiences and expert advice, we aim to equip you with tools to assist your loved ones on their recovery journey. This video highlights strategies and techniques that have proven effective in supporting positive change. We delve into the importance of open communication, setting boundaries...2023-10-2528 min
Inside The Mind Of An AddictHow To Get Your Loved One To Agree To Go To CounselingDoes your addicted loved one have tons of excuses for not getting help? Does your addicted/alcoholic loved one say things like... "I don't believe in counseling." "it's a waste of money," "I've already tried it, and it doesn't work," or "I can do it myself." In today's video, Amber Hollingsworth will explain how to respond to these common objections to counseling. You'll learn exactly what to say/not say to help your addicted/alcoholic loved one overcome these obstacles. Help your loved one put the shovel down and get on the path to recovery.
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Inside The Mind Of An AddictWhat Happens When An Addicted Loved One Refuses TreatmentDownload a FREE copy of Amber's Insiders Guide to Addiction Treatment Options
Welcome to Inside the Mind of an Addict, your go-to resource for valuable insights on addiction recovery and support. In today's episode, we delve into the crucial steps you can take to guide your addicted family member toward seeking professional help. We'll explore strategies that foster open communication, address denial, and ultimately pave the way for their journey to recovery.
Segment 1: The Importance of Open Communication In the first segment, we emphasize the significance of open and non-judgmental communication with your addicted family...2023-09-2739 min
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Amber Hollingsworth's wealth of experience in addiction counseling brings a compassionate touch, while Liz Read's tech expertise drives the innovation behind Clearlee. This cutting-edge process involves facial recognition for accura...2023-08-091h 00
Inside The Mind Of An AddictThe Only Way To Get A Functional Alcoholic/Addict Out Of DenialThis episode delves into the delicate process of bringing functional alcoholics and addicts out of denial and into recovery. We explore the common misconception that merely pointing out their problem will trigger a realization and instead shed light on a more effective approach that accelerates their journey to recovery.
With years of denial standing in the way, it becomes crucial to understand the unique dynamics of functional addiction and alcoholism. We examine the reasons behind their ability to maintain seemingly normal lives while battling their internal struggles, emphasizing the importance of a compassionate and patient approach.
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Inside The Mind Of An AddictThe NO B.S. Way To Get/Stay Sober!In this podcast, Amber highlights the necessary measures for achieving genuine transformation and attaining sobriety. She emphasizes the significance of severing all connections with a toxic addiction and replacing it with a constructive pursuit.
Amber stresses the importance of taking proactive steps to maintain sobriety and steering clear of common errors, like attempting to reduce consumption instead of quitting altogether. She also underscores the value of complete abstinence and making a firm commitment to it.
Towards the end, Amber responds to queries on accountability, guiding principles on sobriety, and supporting individuals in their recovery journey.2023-06-2137 min
Inside The Mind Of An AddictImportant Dos and Don'ts For Helping Someone With A Drinking ProblemHow can you help an alcoholic loved one? Is it okay to drink about someone who has an alcohol problem? What types of places should they avoid? Should you bring it up? This video covers all these questions and more...
This podcast tells you the important do's and don'ts for helping someone with a drinking problem. Amber also emphasizes being mindful of the person's needs during social situations, modifying lifestyle choices, and creating a safe and supportive environment.
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Inside The Mind Of An AddictDo addicts/alcoholics regret losing you?Sometimes you must put distance between yourself and an addicted loved one. It's a tough decision and usually comes after MANY failed attempts to help the person. It's heartbreaking💔 Amber explores the complexities of addiction in relationships. Addicts and alcoholics often have a twisted thinking process, making it difficult to empathize and connect with loved ones.
They may regret losing the benefits of a relationship but not regret losing the person themselves, and the fight/flight or high/withdrawal state induced by addiction can create chaos and make it harder to connect with people.
Th...2023-05-3145 min
Inside The Mind Of An AddictThe Most Courageous Addiction Recovery Story I've Ever HeardBrad had experienced every type of consequence because of his addiction. (jail, homelessness, etc...) But none of that made him change. Brad's moment of clarity came at the most unpredictable moment. From that point forward, he was determined to do anything and everything to turn his life around. Brad is living proof that recovery is possible! Listen to Brad's Sober Motivation Podcast👉🏻https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/sober-motivation-sharing-sobriety-stories/id1650658049
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Inside The Mind Of An AddictOnce An Addict Always An Addict (True or False?)Can addiction ever be cured completely, or is it a lifelong struggle? How do you know if you're cured? Let's talk about it....
This episode addresses whether addiction is curable; Amber explains that while addiction isn't curable, it can be managed by avoiding the substance or behavior altogether. She also emphasizes the importance of connection and building supportive relationships to combat addiction, reassuring you that recovery is possible and not a lifelong sentence.
Additionally, Amber advises dealing with loved ones struggling with addiction and cautions against attempting to control the situation, emphasizing forgiveness...2023-05-0325 min
Inside The Mind Of An AddictThe Most Critical Do's and Don'ts of Helping someone With An AddictionYou can't force someone to stop an addiction to drugs/alcohol, but you can most certainly influence it! In this episode, we'll help you outsmart addiction by telling you what works and what doesn't when it comes to helping an addict or alcoholic overcome a Substance abuse problem. Amber provides various critical dos and don'ts that a person should remember while helping a loved one overcome addiction or alcoholism.
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Inside The Mind Of An AddictI wish every person struggling with an addiction could watch this videoThe qualities that make someone an addict are those that make someone a genius or superstar. Anyone who's ever done anything significant has been overfocused, obsessive, and relentless about their pursuits. Do you think Steve Jobs, Ben Franklin, or Nikola were "balanced" individuals? Of course not. They were 100% addicted! To do great things in this world, you have to be addicted. Addiction isn't a disease or moral failing; It's just a misdirected superpower. This episode offers various perspectives on addiction and strategies to redirect addictive personalities toward more positive goals. Amber argues against pathologizing addiction as a...2023-04-1918 min
Inside The Mind Of An AddictThe Reality of Early Sobriety | What To Expect In Early Sobriety 😥🥵Early Sobriety is rocky and stressful for the individual and the family. In this episode, Amber discusses the challenges and realities of early sobriety. She emphasizes the importance of making sobriety the primary concern and getting enough sleep to fill one's willpower gas tank. Amber cautions family members against overburdening their loved ones in early recovery and encourages them to trust in the process and be reasonable with their expectations. Amber also addresses viewer questions and shares insights and advice on addiction and recovery. They highlight the challenges of communicating with someone actively using substances and suggest finding w...2023-04-1250 min
Inside The Mind Of An AddictThe Silent Trauma of Living With An Addict/Alcoholic: How It Changes You ForeverLiving with addiction will turn you into a completely different person. You'll find yourself saying and doing things entirely out of character. Don't lose yourself to their illness!
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Inside The Mind Of An AddictHow to Outsmart Addiction and Change your Life (and family) Forever!Beating Drug or Alcohol Addiction requires strategy! Addiction Specialist, Amber Hollingsworth, reveals her methods for outsmarting addiction so that you can get your life and family back on track.
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The One Day At A Time Recovery PodcastAmber Hollingsworth on How to Get Your Family Off Your Back, and Advise For Families of Alcoholics and AddictsToday my guest is Amber Hollingsworth. She is the owner, founder, and counselor at Hope for Families. Amber grew up in a family plagued with addiction so she has first hand experience of what it’s like to live in a dysfunctional home. She is also a content creator and has a very educational youtube channel called Put the shovel down, so I highly recommend you check that out too. I learned so much from speaking with Amber and I hope you will too. Before we jump in, I just want to thank you all for...2023-03-091h 01Untoxicated PodcastEp181 – Put the Shovel Down with Amber HollingsworthShe is an addiction counselor who values the role of the family in the addiction recovery process. She shares a wealth of resources on her Hope for Families website. But many of our listeners know her for her engaging and informative YouTube channel, Put the Shovel Down. She is the one and only Amber Hollingsworth, and to Sheri's and Matt's considerable delight, she is our guest on this episode. We cover a lot of ground from what it means to be addicted to someone, to the impact of the trauma of addiction, to dealing with resentment and restoring intimacy. Amber...2023-03-061h 13
BEYOND THE BOOZE - Christian Sobriety, Alcohol Free Lifestyle, Quit Drinking, Sober Curious, Sobriety20. Discover What Your Triggers Are and Where You Are in the Stages of Change with Master Addiction Counselor Amber Hollingsworth from Put The Shovel Down on YoutubeIn Today's episode, I had the pleasure of picking the brain of Amber Hollingsworth, a Master Addiction Counselor.
Amber is a Master Addiction Counselor. She is the founder of Hope For Families Recovery Center where she and her team help bring families back from the brink of addiction. In 2016, Amber started a YouTube channel called Put The Shovel Down, where she and her team have built a huge library of free Addiction Recovery Resources. Her mission is to help you stay 5 steps of addiction at all times.
I asked her to teach us about triggers a...2023-01-2333 minBEYOND THE BOOZE - Christian Sobriety, Alcohol Free Lifestyle, Quit Drinking, Sober Curious, Sobriety20. Discover What Your Triggers Are and Where You Are in the Stages of Change with Master Addiction Counselor Amber Hollingsworth from Put The Shovel Down on YoutubeIn Today's episode, I had the pleasure of picking the brain of Amber Hollingsworth, a Master Addiction Counselor.
Amber is a Master Addiction Counselor. She is the founder of Hope For Families Recovery Center where she and her team help bring families back from the brink of addiction. In 2016, Amber started a YouTube channel called Put The Shovel Down, where she and her team have built a huge library of free Addiction Recovery Resources. Her mission is to help you stay 5 steps of addiction at all times.
I asked her to teach us about triggers a...2023-01-2333 min
Therapy in a NutshellThe Surprising Way Alcohol MakesYour Brain More Anxious with Amber HollingsworthLooking for affordable online counseling? My sponsor, BetterHelp, connects you to a licensed professional from the comfort of your own home. Try it now for 10% off your first month: https://betterhelp.com/therapyinanutshell Check out Amber's channel here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCT8PE1v0xFR9zLXOijxM6hg Alcohol use changes your brain chemistry in a way that makes you more anxious. It also changes how you think- which can make you more anxious. And when you’re drunk, you might do stuff that makes you more anxious later…whether you or a family member has a problem with alco...2022-12-2412 min
Therapy in a NutshellThe Surprising Way Alcohol MakesYour Brain More Anxious with Amber HollingsworthLooking for affordable online counseling? My sponsor, BetterHelp, connects you to a licensed professional from the comfort of your own home. Try it now for 10% off your first month: https://betterhelp.com/therapyinanutshell
Check out Amber's channel here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCT8PE1v0xFR9zLXOijxM6hg
Alcohol use changes your brain chemistry in a way that makes you more anxious. It also changes how you think- which can make you more anxious. And when you’re drunk, you might do stuff that makes you more anxious later…whether you or a family memb...2022-12-2408 min
Our Power Is Within: Heal Chronic Illness & Pain89: How Boundaries Can Support Our Well Being w/ Amber HollingsworthOur guest today is Amber Hollingsworth. Amber is a Licensed Professional Counselor in the State of South Carolina and a nationally certified Master Addiction Counselor. She has more than 18 years of experience working with individuals and families struggling with addiction and other mental health issues. In 2011, Amber opened a private practice specializing in treating whole family systems struggling with addiction. She also has a YouTube channel called, Put The Shovel Down, that provides education and support to families and individuals struggling with addictions. She comes to the show today to talk all about boundaries. We learn what a boundary actu...2022-06-071h 09
Moms of Tweens and TeensHow To Talk To Your Kids About Drugs, Drinking and Addiction with Amber HollingsworthSend us a textIf you want to know how to talk to your kids about drugs, drinking, or addiction or you have a teen who is using drugs and/or alcohol you are going to learn so much from my very special guest Amber Hollingsworth. Amber is the expert when it comes to addiction and family systems. She is a licensed professional counselor and a master addiction counselor, She is also the founder of Hope For Families Recovery Center. She has an AWESOME YouTube channel, wh...2020-12-2935 min
Crossover PodcastCongressional Candidate Amber IveyAmber Ivey is running for the United States House of Representatives. She sat down with me to discuss politics, growing up in a military family, education, wage gaps, and more!Host: Alex HollingsworthGuest: Amber IveyFollow Crossover on Twitter and Instagram2020-08-031h 03