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Jillian on LoveWhen a Relationship is Beyond Repair with Jay ShettyJillian sits down with Jay Shetty to talk about what “the work” in love actually looks like — in real time. Jay shares why he created Messy Love (his Audible Original), where listeners get to “sit in the room” with real couples as they navigate cheating narratives, unmet expectations, old wounds, and the messy middle between conflict and connection. Jillian and Jay unpack why compassion isn’t permissive — it’s structured, boundaried, and powerful — and why most relationship fights spiral into accusation, criticism, and defense… leaving zero room for love. If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re asking your partner to change…or ask...
2026-01-261h 25Jillian on LoveRed Flag: The Controlling PartnerWhat happens when a relationship starts with intensity, reassurance, and “I’ve done the work” — and then slowly turns into jealousy, control, and emotional chaos? In this coaching session, Jillian helps a listener unpack why she keeps choosing emotionally unstable partners, how early red flags get missed, and what emotional stability actually looks like in real life. This episode is about learning to trust your body, stop dating potential, and finally choose a partner who can meet you where you are.
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2026-01-191h 02Jillian on LoveDating in 2026: The Rules Have ChangedDating in 2026 feels harder than ever—but what if the problem isn’t you, it’s how you’re approaching it? In this episode, Jillian breaks down the biggest mindset shifts she’s seen actually work with her clients—from letting go of the pressure to “find the one,” to raising your standards in the right way, slowing down attraction, and learning how to choose connection over fantasy. If you’re tired of repeating the same dating patterns and want to feel more grounded, confident, and clear, this episode will reset how you think about love.
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2026-01-1230 minJillian on LoveAnxiety: How to Not Sabotage a Healthy RelationshipHave you ever been in a healthy relationship and still felt anxious waiting for it to fall apart? In this coaching episode, Jillian works one-on-one with a woman who can’t stop overthinking as her relationship moves out of the honeymoon phase. Together, they unpack why reassurance fades, how anxiety quietly sabotages connection, and what actually keeps love secure—without creating problems where none exist.
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2026-01-051h 06Jillian on LoveLust is Not the Same Thing as LoveIn this episode, Jillian reads from It Begins With You to break down one of the most painful patterns in modern dating: confusing lust, intensity, and obsession with real love. She explains why chemistry can feel intoxicating—and why it so often leads to confusion, unmet needs, and heartbreak. If you’ve ever felt addicted to someone who couldn’t show up for you, this episode brings clarity back to where love actually begins.
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2025-12-2932 minJillian on LoveStop Falling in Love With Their PotentialWhat if the reason your relationship feels so painful is because you’re loving someone’s potential instead of who they actually are? In this episode, Jillian unpacks why trying to fix or change a partner creates resentment, pressure, and emotional burnout. She explores emotional capacity, radical self-honesty, and how to communicate your needs without turning love into a project.
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2025-12-2233 minJillian on LoveStop Chasing: How to Date with ConfidenceIn this special coaching episode, Jillian sits down with a 38-year-old listener who’s four dates into a new connection and stuck in her head about one big question: Is he actually interested, or just passive? Together, they unpack why slow, calm chemistry can feel confusing when you’re used to intensity, what to do when someone’s texting and effort don’t quite match your needs, and how to treat early dating as data instead of a referendum on your worth. Jillian coaches her on how to flirt, set the tone without over-pursuing, keep dating other people, and show up...
2025-12-1548 minJillian on LoveThe 5 Reasons You’re Attracted to Toxic PeopleMany people feel pulled toward someone who isn’t good for them, even when they know the relationship is toxic. In this episode, Jillian breaks down the five core reasons we become addicted to people who mistreat us — from erotic charge, to low self-worth, to boredom and unmet needs. She shares personal experience, clinical insight, and the psychology of desire to help listeners finally understand their patterns. This episode is about clarity, self-compassion, and choosing something better.
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2025-12-0838 minJillian on LoveIs It Embarrassing to Have a Boyfriend?Is it really “embarrassing” to have a boyfriend? In this episode, Jillian unpacks the viral Vogue UK article and the cultural shift that’s convincing women to hide their relationships. She explores the deeper shadow dynamics at play — jealousy, shrinking ourselves to belong, and the fear of being judged if a relationship ends. Jillian makes a powerful case for owning your joy, celebrating healthy love, and refusing to dim your light for anyone.
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2025-12-0135 minJillian on Love10 Hard Lessons That Will Change Your Love LifeIn this episode, Jillian breaks down ten of the most important — and sometimes painful — lessons she’s learned about love. From why chemistry without safety creates chaos, to how habits shape happiness, to the truth about readiness, accountability, and emotional maturity, she walks through the mindsets that actually build lasting connection. These lessons are equal parts grounding and liberating, helping you step into relationships with more clarity, strength, and self-trust.
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2025-11-2434 minJillian on LoveHow to Know When It's Time to Walk AwayIn this special live coaching session, Jillian speaks with a woman who is struggling to end her 17-year marriage to a good man—and wrestling with overwhelming guilt about breaking up her family. As they unpack the story, a deeper truth emerges: the real turning point wasn’t “lack of growth” or “misaligned goals,” but a painful and confusing experience in which her husband repeatedly encouraged her to date other men in hopes of fixing their intimacy. Jillian helps her name the hurt, the rejection, and the sense of being unseen that she’s been carrying alone. This conversation is a powerful...
2025-11-1754 minJillian on LoveUnmet Needs vs. Unrealistic Standards: How to Know the DifferenceJillian dives into one of the most confusing parts of love—telling the difference between an unmet need and an unrealistic expectation. She breaks down how projection, attachment, and self-awareness shape what we ask for in relationships, and what happens when those needs go unanswered. Plus, she answers a moving listener question about letting go of unrequited love, sharing tangible ways to find peace and move forward.
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2025-11-1048 minJillian on LoveHow to Get Over the Worst Heartbreak & Get Your Power BackJillian dives into heartbreak—the kind that feels endless—and explains why “just move on” misses the mark. She reframes breakups as a form of living grief and walks listeners through a practical healing plan: stop romanticizing the ex, rewrite the story from multiple perspectives, and choose proactive recovery. With personal examples and grounded tools, Jillian shows how to transform rejection into redirection, rebuild self-worth, and let go without losing yourself.
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2025-11-0334 minJillian on LoveAnxious or Avoidant? The Truth About Your Attachment StyleJillian breaks down one of the most talked-about topics in modern psychology: attachment styles. But instead of sticking to labels, she challenges the oversimplified ways we use them—and offers a more grounded, compassionate way to understand why we love, cling, or pull away. Jillian shares personal insights into how she healed her own attachment wounds and explains the deeper influences of culture, family conditioning, trauma, and life context on our relationships. This is your guide to moving beyond “anxious” or “avoidant” and toward true emotional security and connection.
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2025-10-2742 minJillian on LoveDO NOT BREAK UP: When Staying Is the Better ChoiceWhat happens when you love your partner but the passion is gone? In this episode, Jillian dives deep into one of the most common struggles in long-term relationships — losing physical and emotional spark. She breaks down why attraction fades, what it really takes to rekindle chemistry, and how to tell if it can truly come back.
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2025-10-2033 minJillian on LoveRUN: How to Know When It’s Time to Leave a Toxic RelationshipSometimes, the hardest truth to face is that the person you love is the one you need to walk away from. Today, Jillian answers three listener letters from people stuck in relationships where love, addiction, betrayal, or avoidance are keeping them trapped. She dives deep into what it means to trust yourself again, why you can’t save someone who’s drowning, and how self-respect—not attachment—is what sets you free.
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2025-10-1333 minJillian on LoveHow to Actually Manifest Your SoulmateJillian teaches how to truly manifest a soulmate—without the “woo.” She shares a proven step-by-step method that has helped thousands of people attract emotionally healthy, aligned relationships—complete with simple daily practices to calm your system, raise your standards, and date with intention. Jillian reframes manifestation as an intentional, grounded process of co-creation: She breaks down what a soulmate actually is (and isn’t), why waiting keeps you disconnected from your power, and how nervous system regulation becomes the foundation for clarity, confidence, and discernment in love.
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2025-10-0624 minJillian on LoveWhat I Do When I Feel Sad, Stuck, and Lost.Feeling stuck, lost, or like life just isn’t turning out how you hoped? In this personal episode, Jillian shares practical tools to help you navigate life’s harder seasons—whether you’re in a crisis or simply in a rut. She explores how movement, connection, mindset shifts, and boundaries can help you break free from emotional burnout and rediscover joy. Drawing from her own upbringing, client experiences, and hard-earned lessons, Jillian reminds us that it’s never too late to create a more fulfilling life.
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2025-09-0828 minJillian on LoveThe Habit That Destroys RelationshipsWhat if the reason your relationship feels off has nothing to do with your partner—and everything to do with a pattern you don’t even realize you’re stuck in? In this episode, Jillian breaks down the one habit that quietly sabotages even the healthiest relationships: keeping score. From romantic partnerships to friendships and family dynamics, scorekeeping erodes emotional intimacy and creates distance. Jillian explores why we fall into this pattern, how masculine and feminine energies often give love differently, and how resentment can build when those efforts go unrecognized.
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2025-07-0729 minJillian on LoveThe Psychology Behind Why You Keep Going Back to The Wrong PersonHave you ever found yourself giving someone yet another chance—even though deep down, you know they’re not right for you? In this episode, Jillian dives into the emotional patterns and deeper psychological reasons behind why we keep returning to unhealthy relationships. Using a powerful real-life story, she explores how unmet needs, emotional voids, and familiar pain can lure us back into toxic dynamics—and how to break free.
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2025-06-1634 minJillian on LoveWhen One Partner Changes & How to Grow TogetherIn honor of Men’s Health Month, Jillian sits down with Jeff Krasno and Schuyler Grant—co-founders of Wanderlust and longtime partners—for a powerful conversation about how a major health crisis became a wake-up call not just for Jeff, but for their entire relationship. They dive into the hidden costs of male burnout, how physical health impacts emotional connection, and what it means to show up for your partner during life’s most difficult seasons.
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2025-06-091h 19Jillian on Love5 Things to Know Before Marrying the Wrong PersonJillian opens up about five things she wishes she’d known before getting married—things that could’ve saved her a lot of pain. She talks about the pressure to rush into commitment, the importance of knowing your non-negotiables, and why avoiding hard conversations can cost you more than you think.
If you’ve ever felt unsure in a relationship or afraid to speak up about what you really need, this episode will hit home.
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2025-06-0235 minJillian on LoveHow to Let Go, Move On, and Never Look BackWe’ve all heard it: you have to forgive to move on. But what if that’s not true?
In this episode, Jillian challenges one of the most commonly held beliefs in the self-help and spiritual world: that forgiveness is required for healing. She unpacks what it really means to let go, move on, and find peace—without having to forgive someone who hurt you.
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2025-05-2635 minJillian on LoveNever Chase Anyone: You Can't Convince Someone to Love YouTrying to convince someone to love you is one of the most painful patterns to get stuck in—and it can quietly destroy your mental health. In this episode, Jillian goes deep on the emotional toll of chasing love that isn’t mutual. She breaks down why connection isn’t enough, what real commitment looks like, and why settling for someone who’s one foot in and one foot out is a form of self-abandonment.
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2025-05-1933 minJillian on LoveMel Robbins: How the Let Them Theory Can Heal Your RelationshipsJillian sits down with Mel Robbins to unpack the Let Them Theory — a mindset shift that helps you stop trying to control others and start focusing on your own emotional wellbeing. They explore how the urge to control often stems from stress and fear, and how letting go can actually lead to deeper healing, stronger boundaries, and more self-trust. If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or stuck in relationship patterns that drain you, this conversation offers a path back to clarity and inner strength.
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2025-05-121h 22Jillian on LoveWhat to Do When Your Partner Shuts DownAs part of Mental Health Awareness Month, this episode explores one of the most destabilizing relationship dynamics: when a partner shuts down during conflict. Jillian coaches a listener through the emotional toll of being avoided and unpacks how this behavior impacts your mental health, sense of safety, and self-worth. With guidance on emotional regulation, accountability, and what it really takes to break unhealthy cycles, this conversation is a powerful reminder that protecting your peace starts from within.
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2025-05-0535 minJillian on LoveHow to Heal Your Relationship With Money and Scarcity with Lewis HowesYour relationship with money is one of the most emotionally intimate relationships you have—and it’s time to start treating it that way. In this episode, Jillian welcomes bestselling author and host of The School of Greatness, Lewis Howes, to dive deep into what our financial habits, fears, and beliefs really say about us. Inspired by his new book, Make Money Easy, this conversation is about so much more than dollars and cents—it's about self-worth, safety, and the emotional wiring behind our financial behaviors.Buy Lewis’s new book, Make Money Easy
2025-04-281h 04Jillian on LoveThe Healthy Relationship: How To Break Destructive Relationship PatternsWe all have patterns in relationships—some helpful, some destructive. In this solo episode, Jillian breaks down the unconscious behaviors we fall into when we feel out of control—like fighting, fixing, or fleeing—and how they keep us stuck in cycles of disconnection. Whether you're single, dating, or deep in partnership, this episode will help you take ownership of your reactions and shift the dynamic (without waiting for your partner to change first).Record and submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://askjillian.com/ Order Jillian's NEW book It...
2025-04-2149 minJillian on LoveMicro-Cheating: Why It Destroys RelationshipsToday, Jillian dives into a topic that’s quietly damaging relationships everywhere: micro cheating. What counts as cheating in the digital age? Is following an ex on Instagram a red flag—or just harmless history?If you've ever questioned whether your partner's behavior is crossing the line—or if you've caught yourself doing something you'd never do with your partner watching—this conversation will open your eyes. It's not about playing morality police; it's about understanding the values you bring to a relationship and being honest with yourself about your actions.Plu...
2025-04-1449 minJillian on LoveAttracting Your Soul Mate and Manifesting Abundance with David GhiyamToday, Jillian sits down with David Ghiyam—co-founder of MaryRuth Organics and the leading expert of the wisdom of Kabbalah—for a powerful and candid conversation about manifestation, healthy love, and creating a life that feels aligned with your deepest self. They dive into the difference between attracting love and choosing it, how to move on from heartbreak from a spiritual lens, and what it really means to manifest abundance—not just financially, but emotionally and spiritually too.
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2025-04-071h 24Jillian on LoveJillian LIVE at 92NY: How She Rewrote Her Story & Reclaimed Her PowerIn this special LIVE episode of Jillian on Love, Jillian sits down with Case Kenny at the iconic 92nd Street Y in New York City during the launch of her new book, It Begins With You. Together, they unpack the nine hard truths about love that can transform your life—starting with the one relationship that matters most: the one you have with yourself.Jillian gets personal, sharing the journey that led her to finally write this book, how her relationship with herself evolved over the years, and why timing and self-trust were everything. Fr...
2025-04-011h 10Jillian on LoveWhy You Attract Emotionally Unavailable PeopleIf you feel like you're stuck in a loop of dating people who can’t—or won’t—go deep with you, this one’s for you. Jillian is diving into one of the most common relationship patterns: attracting emotionally unavailable partners.This episode is all about increasing self-awareness, challenging the labels we put on others, and learning to recognize partners who are ready to show up fully.Whether you’re navigating dating or in a long-term relationship, Jillian shares five key insights that could completely shift how you show up—and...
2025-03-2453 minJillian on LoveHow to Become a Master Communicator with Jefferson FisherIn this episode of Jillian on Love, Jillian sits down with renowned trial attorney and communication expert, Jefferson Fisher, to discuss the art of navigating difficult conversations with confidence, clarity, and connection. Whether it’s a tough discussion with a romantic partner, responding to gaslighting, a workplace negotiation, or a friend disagreement, Jefferson shares practical techniques to help you argue less and talk more.Order Jefferson’s new book, The Next Conversation, Today!Record and submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://askjillian.com/ Ord...
2025-03-171h 17Jillian on LoveThe Red Flag You Must Never IgnoreIn this episode of Jillian on Love, Jillian answers three listener questions. She unpacks the red flags when a partner still longs for their ex, challenges a listener’s fixation on finding their "ideal" partner, and offers a fresh perspective on dealing with an overbearing mother-in-law. If you’ve ever struggled with relationship uncertainty, this episode is for you. And if you love this format, where Jillian answers listener questions, you’ll love Jillian on Love+, where she tackles new questions every week. Send your questions to hello@jillianonlove.com Record and submit your relatio...
2025-03-1045 minJillian on LoveMasculine and Feminine Energies Explained with Dené LoganToday, Jillian welcomes couples therapist and author Dené Logan to explore how true healing in relationships begins within. Drawing from her new book, Sovereign Love: A Guide to Healing Relationships by Reclaiming the Masculine and Feminine Within, Dené shares powerful insights on taking 100% responsibility for our own energy, embracing shadow work, and shifting away from transactional, 50/50 relationship mindsets. Together, Jillian and Dené break down the complexities of masculine and feminine energies, discuss how to create harmony by integrating all parts of ourselves, and offer practical tools to navigate dating and relationships with authenticity, love, and self-awareness.
2025-03-031h 06Jillian on LoveHow To Master Self-Awareness & Growth in Relationships with Yung PuebloJillian sits down with Diego Perez, known as Yung Pueblo, to explore themes from his upcoming book, How to Love Better. They discuss how self-love and healing directly impact relationships, the power of meditation, and finding harmony with your partner. Diego shares his personal journey from a tumultuous past to a thriving marriage, offering practical insights on balancing autonomy and connection, recognizing red and green flags, and navigating healthy versus toxic arguments.Get your tickets for Jillian’s live event at 92NY here: https://www.92ny.org/event/jillian-tureckiPr...
2025-02-241h 12Jillian on LoveThe Dark Night of the Soul: How to Move Forward After Life’s Hardest MomentsToday, Jillian explores the profound and often painful experience of the dark night of the soul—a period of deep existential crisis triggered by major life changes such as breakups, loss, or a sense of stagnation. She breaks down the misconceptions around this challenging phase, explaining that it is not a punishment but a natural part of life’s evolution.Get your tickets for Jillian’s live event at 92NY here: https://www.92ny.org/event/jillian-turecki Record and submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://askjillian.com/
2025-02-1754 minJillian on LoveHow to Love Yourself: 9 Lessons In Radical Self-WorthIn this special Valentine's Day episode of Jillian on Love, Jillian shares nine essential, yet often overlooked, lessons in self-love and self-acceptance. Whether you're single, in a relationship, or somewhere in between, these insights will help you cultivate a deeper sense of self-worth, make better choices, and create healthier relationships. From radical acceptance to knowing your value, Jillian unpacks the mindset shifts that will empower you to have your own back—no matter where you are in your love journey.Record and submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://askjillian.com/ ...
2025-02-1052 minJillian on LoveThe Signs You're Dealing with a Narcissist: Dr. RamaniToday, Jillian speaks with renowned narcissism expert Dr. Ramani to unpack the true meaning of narcissistic relationships and why the term is often misused. They explore the red flags, the psychological toll of these relationships, and why leaving can feel impossible. Dr. Ramani shares expert insights on healing, setting boundaries, and breaking free from toxic patterns, while also answering a heartfelt listener question about escaping a painful cycle. If you've ever struggled with self-doubt in a relationship or wondered how to protect yourself from emotional manipulation, this episode is a must-listen.Record and submit...
2025-02-031h 07Jillian on LoveStop Chasing Love: How To Love Yourself by Letting Them GoToday, Jillian tackles one of the hardest truths in love: you can’t convince someone to love you. She shares heartfelt advice and personal insights from her book, It Begins with You, while answering two listener stories—one about heartbreak after years of unreciprocated love and another about the pain of sudden rejection after a first love. Through their experiences, Jillian offers compassionate guidance on letting go with dignity and recognizing the difference between fighting for love and fighting for yourself.Order Jillian's NEW book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That...
2025-01-2751 minJillian on LoveFind Healthy Love: How To Break Patterns and Heal Your RelationshipsIn this very special episode, Jillian shares the first chapter of her transformative new book, It Begins with You, launching TOMORROW, January 14th. Centered on the empowering truth that every relationship begins with the one we have with ourselves, Jillian dives into themes like personal responsibility, breaking unhealthy patterns, and learning how to create fulfilling, secure relationships. As a thank you to her loyal listeners, she’s offering this exclusive sneak peek of the audiobook to inspire reflection and growth in 2025Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You", available January 14th, 2025 at https://www.ji...
2025-01-1352 minJillian on LoveFrom Anxious To Secure: How To Stand Up For Your NeedsIn this deeply personal and vulnerable episode of Jillian on Love, Jillian reflects on her own experiences of feeling powerless in relationships and the journey to reclaim her voice. Featuring a heartfelt reading from her new book, It Begins With You (out January 14th), she shares raw insights and practical tools to help listeners identify their needs, communicate authentically, and build emotional security for healthier, more fulfilling relationships.Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You", available January 14th, 2025 at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book~~...
2025-01-0651 minJillian on LoveRelationship Goals For 2025: Embracing Growth, Self-Worth, and ConnectionAs we close out the year, Jillian offers a heartfelt guide to self-reflection and personal growth, exploring key questions that illuminate how we navigate loneliness, shame, and emotional discomfort. She shares actionable advice on building healthier habits, strengthening relationships, and approaching conflict with empathy. Jillian also discusses how to heal from betrayal and heartbreak, drawing on her own experiences to inspire listeners to let go of past pain and embrace 2025 with intention and self-compassion. This is an episode for anyone seeking deeper fulfillment and connection in the new year.Join Jillian’s LIVE MASTERCLASS wi...
2024-12-3045 minJillian on LoveThe Black Cat and Golden Retriever Theory: Truth vs. BSJillian unpacks the viral "Black Cat and Golden Retriever" dating theory that has taken over social media. She explores its heteronormative roots, its misguided take on relationship dynamics, and why it sets people up for failure. She dissects the archetypes of the aloof femme fatale and the obsessive pursuer, shedding light on how they perpetuate insecurity and avoid true intimacy. She offers practical advice on fostering healthier relationships, maintaining individuality, and breaking free from toxic dating myths.Join Jillian’s LIVE MASTERCLASS with Matthew Hussey at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book-extras
2024-12-2357 minJillian on LoveHow Childhood Conditioning Shapes Your Love LifeToday, Jillian opens up and dives deep into the roots of our fears in relationships, uncovering how childhood conditioning and self-esteem impact our romantic lives. She shares personal stories, profound insights, and actionable advice to help you break toxic cycles, understand your emotional triggers, and build healthier, more fulfilling relationships. This episode is a powerful reminder that true healing begins with you.Join Jillian’s LIVE MASTERCLASS with Matthew Hussey at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book-extrasPre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You", available January 14th, 2025 at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book...
2024-12-1655 minJillian on LoveShould You Stay or Go? When You Should NOT Break-UpWhile it's often brave to leave a relationship that's not working, Jillian delves into when the most courageous act is to stay and work it out. She discusses the importance of understanding your partner’s needs, recognizing your role in relationship struggles, and overcoming ego-driven narratives. Through real-life examples and thought-provoking questions, this episode encourages listeners to reflect deeply on their own patterns, communication breakdowns, and the transformative potential of love when nurtured with vulnerability and accountability.Join Jillian’s LIVE MASTERCLASS with Matthew Hussey at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book-extras ...
2024-12-0954 minJillian on LoveThe Unhealthy Relationship: How to Let Go of The Wrong Person and Choose YourselfJillian dives deep into the emotionally charged topic of letting go, especially when it comes to relationships that are very unhealthy, misaligned, or emotionally unsafe. Sharing personal anecdotes, hard truths, and actionable steps, she explores why we cling to relationships that don't serve us and how to move forward with self-awareness and courage. She challenges listeners to confront the lies we tell ourselves, examine the beliefs keeping us stuck, and prioritize character over chemistry.Join Jillian’s LIVE MASTERCLASS with Matthew Hussey at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book-extras Pre-order Jil...
2024-12-0254 minJillian on LoveUnmet Needs vs. Unrealistic Expectations: Where to Draw the Line in a RelationshipJillian unpacks one of the most common yet complex relationship dilemmas: distinguishing between unmet needs and unrealistic expectations. Are you holding your partner to impossible standards, or are your needs simply not being met? Jillian takes a deep dive into the psychology of relationships, exploring how projections, attachment, and self-awareness play a role in our connections. She also answers a listener's heartfelt question about letting go of an unrequited love, offering actionable insights for reclaiming your peace and freedom.Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You" at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book
2024-11-2551 minJillian on LoveSafe Conversations: How to Talk to Your Partner with Harville & HelenToday, Jillian welcomes two very special guests—Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt. As internationally renowned authors and relationship experts, Harville and Helen have spent decades helping people build healthier, more connected relationships, and today, we’re discussing their newest book, How to Talk with Anyone about Anything: The Practice of Safe Conversations. In a world that’s become increasingly divided and disconnected, their revolutionary approach to dialogue offers us a way back to empathy, understanding, and true connection.Be sure to check out their new book How to Talk with Anyone about Anything: The Pr...
2024-11-1841 minJillian on LoveHow to Create a Healthy Relationship & Avoid a Toxic OneIn this episode of Jillian on Love, Jillian shares the two MOST essential things you need for a healthy relationship. She dives into the life-changing power of a good relationship, sharing why they’re essential for both our emotional and physical well-being. Reflecting on recent studies, she explores how fulfilling relationships built on trust, respect, and emotional safety can actually extend our lives and make us healthier. Jillian gets real about the importance of selecting the right partner, explaining how understanding ourselves is crucial to choosing someone who aligns with our values and goals. Whether you're in a relationship, da...
2024-11-1148 minJillian on LoveOvercome Relationship Anxiety and Find Secure Love with Sabrina ZoharJillian sits down with Sabrina Zohar, a no-nonsense dating and anxiety coach and the voice behind The Sabrina Zohar Show. Together, they dive into the nitty-gritty of love while dealing with anxiety, self-doubt, and the need for validation. Sabrina opens up about her personal journey from anxious attachment to self-acceptance, sharing hard-earned lessons and practical advice for anyone feeling stuck in familiar patterns or looking to build a healthier approach to love.Find Sabrina on Instagram and TikTok. Want to work with Sabrina? Click hereJoin Jillian in celebrating the release of her new book...
2024-11-041h 09Jillian on LoveHow to Actually Love and Accept YourselfIn this episode, Jillian explores the balance between self-love and healthy relationships. She opens up about the challenges of accepting ourselves, especially when past experiences make it hard. Jillian offers practical tips on breaking the cycle of self-neglect and replacing it with positive actions, authenticity, and open communication. She emphasizes the importance of self-care in creating more fulfilling relationships and personal growth. Join Jillian in celebrating the release of her new book, live in New York (1/13/2025), and Miami (1/16/2025).Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You" at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book~~F...
2024-10-2842 minJillian on LoveThe Sex Expert: Dr. Emily Morse on the Power of Communication in IntimacyIn today's episode, Dr. Emily Morse and Jillian have an open and honest conversation about the role of communication in both sexual and romantic relationships. They dig into how society often shapes women into people-pleasers, and why it’s so empowering to truly understand your own sexual pleasure and desires. They also touch on some deeply important topics like sexual trauma, mismatched desires, and how to navigate expectations in the bedroom—while busting myths around sexual performance. Plus, they highlight the importance of knowing about STIs and the true power of consent, encouraging more mindful, intimate connections. Be su...
2024-10-2156 minJillian on LoveSpotting Relationship Warning Signs: Red Flags vs. Green FlagsIn this episode, Jillian dives even deeper into the world of red and green flags and highlights ones that people should never ignore. She uncovers some surprising red flags that might have more to do with you than your partner, and the most important green flags that are the greatest predictors of longevity and health in a relationship.Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You" at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book~~Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonloveEmail the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ o...
2024-10-1451 minJillian on LoveThe Trauma Expert: Peter A. Levine on Somatic Therapy for Healing TraumaJillian welcomes Peter A. Levine to the show. Peter is the world's leading expert on somatic therapy for healig trauma and reclaiming your life. He is the author of multiple best-selling books and the developer and founder of Somatic Experiencing, a naturalistic and neurobiological approach to healing trauma, which he has developed over the past 50 years. This is a profound conversation in which he shares tools and wisdom that every human being needs to hear.Be sure to check out Peter’s new book, An Autobiography of Trauma: A Healing JourneyPre-order Jillian's book "It Be...
2024-10-071h 02Jillian on LoveEsther Perel: How to Bring The Spark Back in a Relationship.Jillian welcomes Esther Perel, a world-renowned psychotherapist, relationship expert, speaker, and bestselling author. In this episode, she explains the difference between erotic intelligence and emotional intelligence, sexuality vs eroticism, and the nuance art of desire in both committed relationships and beyond. She explains how to sustain desire and attraction in a long-term relationship as well as the deeper roots of what causes friction between a couple. Please enjoy this powerful conversation! Check out Esther’s new course, The Desire Bundle and use code JILLIAN15 at checkout for 15% off at https://www.estherperel.com/course-bundles/the...
2024-09-231h 08Jillian on LoveFrom Insecure to Self-Love: How To Conquer Your Anxiety In RelationshipsIn this robust episode, Jillian shares 9 strategies and pearls of wisdom to boost your self-worth and confidence in relationships regardless of your relationship status or attachment style.Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You" at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book~~Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonloveEmail the show at hello@jillianonlove.comSubscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or PatreonFind Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love RecommendationsFollow Jillian Turecki onInstagram...
2024-09-1650 minJillian on LoveWhat To Do When Your Life Is Not What You Hoped It Would BeThe health of a relationship begins with our relationship with ourselves. One of the leading causes of suffering - depression and anxiety, is a life that has not gone according to plan. Whether it's because you're single or childless at a certain age, your work is not what you want it to be, or you've experienced certain losses that you were not prepared to cope with. In this episode, Jillian shares what to do when life has gone down an unexpected path.Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You" at https://www.jillianturecki.com...
2024-09-0941 minJillian on LoveThe Dating Guru: How To Find Love with Damona HoffmanJillian welcomes renowned dating coach, author and podcast host Damona Hoffman to the show to discuss how to date like a pro on and off the apps so that you can find true love. Get ready to take notes!Damona's book "F the Fairy Tale" is out now. Find her at The Dates & Mates Podcast or IG: @damonahoffmanPre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You" at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book~~Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonloveEmail the show...
2024-09-0259 minJillian on LoveThe Myth of the Right PartnerWhat makes someone "right"? What makes someone the wrong partner? What makes US "right"? Jillian shares three prevailing patterns that are responsible for unhealthy partnership, and teaches things in this episode that she has never taught before. Whether you're in a relationship or not, this episode is for you. Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You" at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book~~Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonloveEmail the show at hello@jillianonlove.comSubscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon
2024-08-1954 minJillian on LoveFrom Anxious To Secure: How To Choose YourselfIn this powerful episode, Jillian teaches how to overcome relationship insecurity and to finally choose yourself. Think of this episode as one branch of a tree as Jillian continues to expand on how to become more secure in love in future episodes. Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You" at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book~~Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonloveEmail the show at hello@jillianonlove.comSubscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or PatreonFind Resources mentioned in the show...
2024-08-1252 minJillian on LoveHow To Be The Best and Most Confident Version of Yourself with Lisa BilyeuGet ready to take notes! Jillian welcomes entrepreneur, producer, best-selling author, public speaker, and host of the Women Of Impact podcast Lisa Bilyeu. In this incredible conversation, Lisa shares her journey from toxic relationships to finding radical confidence in life and in her relationship. Get ready to learn some incredible communication skills! Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You" at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book~~Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonloveEmail the show at hello@jillianonlove.comSubscribe to Jillian on Love+...
2024-08-051h 03Jillian on Love7 Reasons Why You're Ready For A RelationshipOne of the most frequently asked questions Jillian receives is "How do I know I'm ready for a relationship?" A lot of people think they have to be fully healed to be in a relationship, which isn't true. But it is also true that some people need to heal more before they can build something healthy with someone. In this informative episode, Jillian breaks it down.Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You" at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book~~Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove...
2024-07-2249 minJillian on LoveRegulate Your Emotions: How to Pause Before You React and Save Your RelationshipsThe uncomfortable truth is that when we can't regulate ourselves, our relationships spiral. Practicing "the pause" when we're triggered is not only the most important relationship skill, it is the most important life skill. In this long waited episode, Jillian teaches how to practice the pause and regulate your emotions.Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You" at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book~~Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonloveEmail the show at hello@jillianonlove.comSubscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple...
2024-07-1548 minJillian on LoveHeal Your Attachment Style with Thais GibsonJillian welcomes guest Thais Gibson, a leading expert on attachment style and the founder of The Personal Development school. Get ready for an incredile education on the nuances of all the insecure attachment styles and how to heal them.Find out more about her book, "Learning Love" at https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=jillian_on_Love&utm_medium=public_relations&utm_campaign=Jillian+on+Love&el=jillian_on_loveListeners can use jillian25off for a discounted rate at The Personal Development School: https://university.personaldevelopmentschool.com/
2024-07-081h 12Jillian on LoveHow To Break the Cycle of Unhealthy Relationships that Wreck Your Nervous SystemThere are some relationships that feel like a rollercoaster, spiking our cortisol and adrenaline levels. But, are they actually addictive? What if a safe, peaceful relationship feels boring, or makes you want to sabotage it? In this powerful episode, Jillian shares insight we are sure you haven't heard before, and she shares HOW people are able to break the cycle. Register today for Jillian’s 5 week course, Choose Yourself: How to find your person from a place of high self-worth, security, and wisdom.https://chooseyourself.jillianturecki.com/1718054877281~~...
2024-06-2450 minJillian on LoveThe Highly Sensitive Empath and The NarcissistJillian finally addresses the trauma associated with being "highly sensitive" and an "empath" and how one's sensitivity impacts their relationships and makes them more susceptible to attaching to toxic people. But, there is a way out. And Jillian explains in detail how.~~Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonloveEmail the show at hello@jillianonlove.comSubscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or PatreonFind Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love RecommendationsFollow Jillian Turecki onInstagram...
2024-06-0348 minJillian on LoveWhat Mentally Strong Couples Do NOT Do: A Conversation with Amy MorinAmy Morin is a therapist, bestselling author, and has given one of the most popular TED talks of all time in 2015. Her books about mental strength are born out of her personal experience with tragedy and are some of Jillian's favorite self-help books of all time. In this riveting conversation, Jillian and Amy discuss what strong, healthy couples do NOT do, and Amy gives incredible advice on how to deal with difficult relationship issues.~~Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonloveEmail the show at hello@jillianonlove.comSubscribe...
2024-03-2558 minJillian on LoveLove Is Blind Summary: The Truth Behind the Cast's DynamicsYou asked, Jillian delivers. Love Is Blind on Netflix has reached epic levels of popularity, and in this episode, Jillian breaks down her interpretation of the couples' dynamics.~~Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonloveEmail the show at hello@jillianonlove.comSubscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or PatreonFind Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love RecommendationsFollow Jillian Turecki onInstagram: @jilliantureckiTikTok: @jillian.tureckiX: @JillianTureckiVisit her...
2024-03-1842 minJillian on LoveHow to Let Go of Your Ex: A Live Coaching Call with JillianWhat Would Jillian Say? In this special episode, Jillian speaks to a listener who is having a hard time letting go and moving on from an unhealthy relationship. This is a riveting conversation in which Jillian helps Emily change her perspective so that she can finally move on and choose herself.~~Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonloveEmail the show at hello@jillianonlove.comSubscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or PatreonFind Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love RecommendationsFollow...
2024-02-261h 13Jillian on LoveChasing The Emotionally Unavailable: How to Break the CycleJillian delves into the complex issue of forming relationships with emotionally unavailable partners. She discusses the patterns that lead people to attract and choose unavailable partners, offering insights into the roots of emotional unavailability, including past traumas and fear of intimacy. Jillian provides listeners with strategies to recognize emotional unavailability from the outset, the significance of building emotional intimacy, and the courage to walk away from relationships that do not serve their emotional needs. ~~Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonloveEmail the show at hello@jillianonlove.comSubscribe to Jillian on L...
2024-02-0550 minJillian on LoveHow To Stop Obsessing About Them.This is a very eye-opening episode where Jillian explains why we obsess over people we don't know very well as well as why we obsess after a breakup. Expect to feel a lot more freedom after listening.Are you ready to change your life and feel whole again? The 7 Steps To Survive Heartbreak course created by Jillian is where you’ll learn to break the patterns holding you back and discover how to move on with confidence, grace, and clarity. This will be the last time EVER that live interactive coaching with Jillian is offered, so secure yo...
2023-12-1840 minJillian on LoveAnxious and Avoidant Attachment: How it Shows Up in a Relationship and What To Do About ItIn this illuminating episode, expect to learn insights into attachment theory that you have not learned anywhere else. Jillian busts certain myths, clarifies avoidance and anxiety in a relationship, and points out two of the biggest red flags to look out for.Are you ready to change your life and feel whole again? The 7 Steps To Survive Heartbreak course created by Jillian is where you’ll learn to break the patterns holding you back and discover how to move on with confidence, grace, and clarity. This will be the last time EVER that live interactive coaching with Ji...
2023-12-1149 minJillian on LoveI Can't Let Go of My Toxic Ex: A Live Coaching Call with JillianHave you ever struggled to let go of an ex even though you knew they were not good for you? In today's episode, Jillian speaks with a man who feels very stuck on his ex. Listen to hear how Jillian reframes his obsession with his ex to mean something more significant - how he feels about himself. For anyone struggling with self-esteem and/or heartbreak, this episode will be illuminating.~~Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonloveEmail the show at hello@jillianonlove.comSubscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts...
2023-11-2050 minJillian on LoveWhat Would Jillian Say? A Live Coaching Call with Jillian"What Would Jillian Say?" is Jillian On Love's first episode that features Jillian coaching a caller live, on her love life. The anonymous caller is a young woman living in NYC who believes she's not meant to have the relationship she craves because she hasn't found a deep connection with anyone. Jillian gently explores this belief with the caller, and together, they discover where it comes from and how she can change her approach to dating.~~Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonloveEmail the show at hello@jillianonlove.comSubscribe to...
2023-11-1340 minJillian on LoveAnniversary Special: How to Break Patterns and Choose YourselfIn celebration of the 1-year anniversary of Jillian On Love, Jillian invited 3 listeners of the podcast to share their stories of change and get some expert advice on how to continue moving forward. Get ready to be super inspired!~~Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonloveEmail the show at hello@jillianonlove.comSubscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or PatreonFind Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love RecommendationsFollow Jillian Turecki onInstagram: @jilliantureckiTik Tok: @jillian...
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Habits and HustleEpisode 255: Jillian Turecki: The #1 Reason Why Dating Is So Hard These DaysWe've all experienced it: the gut-wrenching pain of a heartbreak and the eventual struggle to understand the dynamics of relationships. In this episode of Habits and Hustle, we dive deep into the intricacies of relationships, discussing everything from the psychology behind relationship patterns to the role of stress, selfishness, and fear of rejection with Jillian Turecki. Jillian enlightened us with her distinctive insights on topics such as the reality of soulmates and the idea that a long-term relationship requires continuous choices. We also took a hard look at trauma bonds, anxious attachment, and the i...
2023-07-0454 minJillian on LoveHow to Talk to Your Partner about Social Media & Porn with Connor BeatonJillian welcomes Connor Beaton, best-selling author, host of the podcast ManTalks, and Men's coach to thousands of men trying to better their lives. In this illuminating episode, Jillian and Connor discuss the biggest struggles men face today, and the struggles those who date them experience. They discuss why people get addicted to porn, and how to discuss social media and pornography boundaries with man you're dating.~~Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonloveEmail the show at hello@jillianonlove.comSubscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or PatreonFind...
2023-07-031h 18Jillian on LoveBoundaries: "Special" Friendships Outside of Your Relationship.In this unique episode, Jillian answers a listener's complex question about what she should do if she feels threatened by one of her partner's friendships. What Jillian says might surprise you, and it will definitely help you navigate how to approach this and similar circumstances in your own relationship or future partnership.~~Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonloveEmail the show at hello@jillianonlove.comSubscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or PatreonFind Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations
2023-06-1934 minJillian on LoveHow to Sustain Physical Attraction in a RelationshipIn this powerful episode, Jillian dares to go where other's don't. She explains the habits and things we do unconsciously that impact physical attraction and desire. With both compassion and sense of humor, Jillian shares what we need to stop doing and start doing if we want to remain attracted to each other in a committed relationship.~~Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonloveEmail the show at hello@jillianonlove.comSubscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or PatreonFind Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Lov...
2023-06-1245 minJillian on LoveThe Chaser and The Runner: the Pattern that Destroys a Relationship Part 2Jillian shares Part 2 of one of her most popular episodes: The Chaser and The Runner. How do two people who love each other get trapped in a pattern of anxiety and avoidance? How can they break free of it? Jillian shares the truth about this dynamic and how easily it can erupt between two people. Get ready to learn things about this pattern you have never learned before.~~Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonloveEmail the show at hello@jillianonlove.comSubscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon...
2023-05-1542 minJillian on LoveFrom Rock Bottom to Thriving: A story of transformation with Doug BopstJillian interviews Doug Bobst, a former felon and drug addict who transformed his life. Today he is an award winning personal trainer, author, speaker and podcaster. His story from victim to hero and the unlikely guide who helped him transform is one that will both touch and inspire you. Plus, Jillian coaches him on his love life! Not to be missed. Doug BobstInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/dougbopst/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC1xly1FdiIE2s8c5wUr2dgwPodcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-adversity-advantage/id1496406333
2023-04-241h 09Jillian on LoveThe Silent Destroyer of A RelationshipIn honor of Stress Awareness Month, Jillian describes the impact of stress and chronic negativity on a relationship's health. Almost all relationship problems are at the ROOT caused by our consistent reaction to the stressors in our lives. Stress, or how we react to stress has the power to end relationships that could have lasted. In this powerful episode, Jillian gives actionable and practical steps to manage stress better so that you can prevent it from sabotagng your current or future relationship.~~Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonloveEmail the show at hello@ji...
2023-04-0347 minJillian on LoveEnding the cycle of toxic and abusive relationshipsIn this powerful episode, Jillian outlines the differences between unhealthy relationships and abuse, and how BOTH present similar patterns. She shares some of the signs of relationship toxicity and what it means to value honor and respect in a relationship. Jillian also shares her personal story with an abusive partner, and the hard truths one must face within themselves to heal from an abusive or unhealthy relationship.Episode Resources:National Domestic Violence Hotline Hours: 24/7. Languages: English, Spanish and 200+ through interpretation service Learn more 800-799-7233~~Follow the show...
2023-03-1359 minJillian on LoveWhen Your Partner is Depressed: What to do to help them AND yourselfOne of the most frequently asked questions Jillian receives is: "How do I help my depressed partner?" Although every situation is different and each circumstance is unique and nuanced, Jillian explains what are some of the things you can do AND stop doing if your siginificant other is struggling with a bout of depression. What you'll learn in this episode will likely surprise you.Episode Resources:https://www.mentalhealth.govhttps://mentalhealthhotline.org/~~Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonloveEmail the show at hello@ji...
2023-02-2719 minJillian on LoveFrom Single and Lost to Marriage with Anna GoldsteinAnna Goldstein is an OG coach, having been in the business long before it was trendy. She was also Jillian's first coach, and without Anna, Jillian wouldn't be where she is today. In this riveting episode, Jillian and Anna discuss how Anna went from being completely lost in life and love to finding purpose and a life partner. They get real about the ups and downs of long term relationship, and how we can bring more self-awareness and minfulness to partnership. Whether you're single or have been married for decades, this episode is a must listen.
2023-02-201h 17Jillian on LoveDating with a chronic illness with Jillian TuchmanIn this episode, Jillian speaks to Jillian Tuchman, a brilliant functional medicine dietitian and trauma coach who helps those with chronic conditions heal and reclaim their lives. Her work focuses on the nervous system and the role of emotions -specifically shame, on our physical states. Both Jillians discuss the impact of shame on dating and our love lives and how to date with more confidence.Jillian TuchmanWebsite: www.workyourgenes.comInstagram: @JillianTuchmanLinks for waitlists:Dating With Chronic Illness: Your Toolkit to Navigating Something Hard...
2023-01-1655 minJillian on LoveHow To Actually Love Yourself and Raise Your Self-WorthHow we feel about ourselves determines the quality of of our lives. And, how we feel about ourselves is reflected in our romantic relationships. Jillian discusses how we all fear that we are not enough in some way, and a large part of our life's work is to learn to feel more secure in who we are and in what we want. She defines self-love as the ability to accept ourselves in spite of not always liking ourselves, the ability to forgive ourselves when we have done something we are not proud of, and the absence of self-hatred. Jillian...
2023-01-0956 minJillian on LoveJOL + Unlocked - Listener Questions: Am I making the right choice? How do I trust again?Happy Holidays from Jillian. In the spirit of giving, we are unlocking a taste of the Jillian On Love Plus subscription. Jillian On Love + gives listeners exclusive episodes including meditations, audience questions and deep dives into relationship topics. Sign up today for even more Jillian content via the links below. ~~Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonloveEmail the show at hello@jillianonlove.comSubscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or PatreonFind Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love RecommendationsFollo...
2022-12-2618 minJillian on LoveOver-coming childhood trauma, mindfulness, and learning how to be in a relationship with Cory AllenIn this episiode, Jillian speaks with Cory Allen, meditation teacher, podcaster, audio engineer and author of "Now Is The Way". Cory overcame some pretty heavy childhood trauma through educating himself on psychology and neuroscience and teaching himself to meditate. Through years of rigorous self-examination and a determination to thrive, he worked hard to unlearn patterns that were a result of the trauma he endured. We talk about his journey, which includes his relationship with his wife -which of course Jillian asked a lot of questions about!Cory Allen:IG: @heycoryallenWebsite: https://www.c...
2022-12-121h 00Jillian on LoveThe Uncomfortable Truth about Family and Being Triggered during the HolidaysIn this episode about family dynamics and relationships, Jillian goes super deep into healing parental wounds, and why so many people get triggered when they go home for the holidays. Jillian then shares a very personal story about overcoming triggers and rage as well as a story from when she was 19 and not listening to her mother's advice on a toxic boyfriend. This is a must listen for everyone, regardless if you're a parent or not and regardless if you are home for the holidays or not.~~Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonloveE...
2022-12-0537 minJillian on LoveSituationships: Stop tolerating less than what you deserve.In this fiery and educational episode, Jillian discusses "situationships","breadcrumbing", tolerating nonsense, self-abandonent and standing up for what you need. She then gives specific, and literal scripts of how to ask for what you need. Plus, she shares a very personal story of a red flag she ignored before she marrried who would become her ex husband. You don't want to miss this!Where The F*ck is The One!?After years of requests for her to host an event just for Singles looking for love, Jillian is finally doing it. In this rare live...
2022-11-2841 minJillian on LoveThe Truth About Emotional UnavailabilityAre you emotionally available? Are they? “Emotionally unavailable” gets tossed around a lot but what does it actually mean? In this episode, Jillian breaks it down and teaches what true emotional unavailability is, how to communicate with someone who isn’t opening to you, as well as how if we want to become better partners ourselves, we have to explore our personal barriers to intimacy.Where The F*ck is The One!?After years of requests for her to host an event just for Singles looking for love, Jillian is finally doing it. In this rare l...
2022-11-2142 minJillian on LoveOn Grief and Grieving with Nico BarrazaIn this episode, Jillian sits down with Nico Barraza - a coach and counselor who is passionate about helping his clients through the grieving process. Both Nico and Jillian are no strangers to grief so get ready to listen to a super DEEP conversation about death, the grieving process, moving on and forgiveness~~Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonloveEmail the show at hello@jillianonlove.comSubscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or PatreonFind Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations...
2022-11-1434 minJillian on LoveBreaking the Cycle of Toxic Relationships with LuluJillian welcomes Lulu, a client who faced the challenge of trying to overcome low self worth and toxic relationships. In this raw and candid conversation, Jillian and Lulu discuss what healing is and what it's not, Lulu's painful relationship past, her struggle to love herself and overcome trauma, and how she finally was able to open herself up to healthy love. They talk about sabotage and how many times she tried to push her current partner away. But with commitment and courage, Lulu is in the relationship she only thought was possible for other people.~~...
2022-10-2550 minJillian on LoveDating: 10 Things You Need to Know to Find the "Right Partner"Attention SINGLES! Jillian breaks down exactly what you need to know in order to find the "right" partner for you, as well as the habits you need to break ASAP. Jillian guarantees you will learn things that you have never heard before, so you might want to take out a pen and paper for this one.~~Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonloveEmail the show at hello@jillianonlove.comSubscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or PatreonFind Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on...
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The Zaddy ZoneJillian Turecki x Raising The Bar for RelationshipsAt the center of The Zaddy Zone is Zaddy, but at the center of every relationship is YOU. They can be tricky which is why Jillian Turecki is on to offer a bit of guidance for those not having fun. Honestly, relationships should mostly be fun, work and fun. So take some responsibilities for your half of the bed, give your partner the full loaf not bread crumbs! Navigate the new order of relationships in an equal world, identify when it's time to walk away and thank heaven for post ejaculation sobriety! These are just a few of the...
2022-09-0759 minJillian on LoveThe Relationship Truth That Will Change Your LifeThis relationship truth will change your life, and it might be hard to hear. It is not them, it's you. Why do we unconsciously sabotage our relationships? Why would we try to sabotage our chances of a fulfilling relationship? No one sets out to do this, and yet self sabotage is the #1 problem Jillian helps people with in their love loves. In this episode, Jillian also describes the role of stress in a relationship and how we can destroy connection without even realizing it. She'll also teach what you can do about it.Additional resources for dealing...
2022-09-0736 minJillian on LoveWelcome To Jillian On LoveI'm on a mission to teach people how to completely transform their love life, and where you start is by addressing the relationship you have with yourself. ~~Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonloveEmail the show at hello@jillianonlove.comSubscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or PatreonFind Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations~~Follow Jillian Turecki onInstagram: @jilliantureckiTik Tok: @jillian.tureckiTwitter: @JillianTureckiVisit her website a...
2022-09-0717 minJillian on LoveTrailer: Your love directive.Let’s build healthier and more fulfilling romantic relationships. Jillian is on a mission to teach people how to completely transform their love life, and where you start is by addressing the relationship you have with yourself. Whether you’re looking to strengthen the relationship you’re in, heal your heartbreak and choose better partners, develop a stronger sense of self, or move away from dysfunctional patterns into highly functioning ones this show is for you. Jillian Turecki is a certified relationship coach, teacher and writer who for 20 years has guided others on journeys toward fulfilling relationships.~~Fo...
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