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LET IT OUTReactivity and the Romance Myth with Dean SpadeThis week I spoke with longtime activist and author Dean Spade about the complexities of relationships and the challenges we face in a society shaped by disposability culture. We discussed the fear of being wrong in public and of conflict and feedback. He spoke about why self-help often falls short in addressing systemic issues and shared some insights from his latest book, Love in a F*cked Up World, which offers practical advice on navigating personal growth and connection in a world that often feels isolating and disconnected. I loved both the book and this conversation. Let us know...2025-07-231h 32
Feminist Survival ProjectThe Problem With HopeIf hope is your reason to do nothing, that’s delusion. But what is hope? Do you need it? The second half of the episode gets a little dark, but hopefully it’ll be helpful to hear. Help is available right away. The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 988 or 1-800-273-8255, 1-800-273-TALK - websiteTrans Lifeline: 1-877-565-8860 - websiteLinks:FSP 2025: We're Stronger Than the FireIs...2025-03-061h 28
Bawdy Storytelling‘Both My Vaginas’ (Sara Lederach)Is Sex one of your favorite ways to meet people? Sultry midwest feminist and sex-positive realtor Sara Lederach is a mother and wife who had squished herself small to serve others, but everything changes when she opens up her failing marriage, gets on Tinder, and meets the love of her life, Chuck. So when Sara reveals that she has fully functional diphallia, he rewards her bravery with the ultimate in fantasy fulfillment: a custom DP. Because isn't that what love is, really? Song: ‘Believe in Yourself’ (Shirley Gnome) About the Storyteller: 2024-09-0136 min
Hello Seven PodcastWe Asked 4 World-Class Coaches How To Be THE BEST LeaderWhat happens when you put 4 world-class coaches in one room and ask them for their best advice? You get a brand-new episode of Hello Seven of course! Ranging from career coaches to therapists to e-commerce pioneers to project management mentors, this is an absolute masterclass from the best of the best. Hear exactly how these individuals all established themselves as successful, impactful coaches – and learn how you can become an impactful leader too! Together, the panel discuss: – Overcoming the anxiety of ‘am I qualified enough to be a coach’? – How to price yourself fa...2024-08-2358 minHello Seven PodcastWe Asked 4 World-Class Coaches How To Be THE BEST LeaderWhat happens when you put 4 world-class coaches in one room and ask them for their best advice? You get a brand-new episode of Hello Seven of course! Ranging from career coaches to therapists to e-commerce pioneers to project management mentors, this is an absolute masterclass from the best of the best. Hear exactly how these individuals all established themselves as successful, impactful coaches – and learn how you can become an impactful leader too! Together, the panel discuss: – Overcoming the anxiety of ‘am I qualified enough to be a coach’? – How to price yourself fa...2024-08-2358 min
Horny For LifeHow Does Exploring Gender Open Doors to Play, Possibility, and Pleasure? with Rae McDaniel, Author of Gender MagicTalking about gender can get very serious very quickly, but my guest, Rae McDaniel, squashes that. They are all about reinfusing gender with play, possibility, and pleasure. They show us how in their amazing book, Gender Magic, and share some of their gender wisdom with me today. For Rae, gender magic asks how each of us can discover who we are and express our magic to the world in a way that doesn’t send her suffering. This requires a healthy dose of softening boundaries, doing away with rigid definitions, and eliminating dichotomies. Instead, we must...2024-08-2035 min
Smart Sex, Smart Love with Dr Joe KortRae McDaniel: step into your most authentic self“If suffering is at the very core of the trans experience, what do we have to look forward to?” questions Rae McDaniel, a non-binary, therapist, coach, and transgender diversity and inclusion educator. “I think the world is better when we all get to be our authentic self, free from shame and guilt.”McDaniel is the author of a book, “Gender Magic: Live Shamelessly, Reclaim your Joy and Step into your Most Authentic Self,”a first-of-its-kind practical guide to achieving gender freedom with joy, curiosity and pleasure for transgender and non-binary individuals, gender explorers and those who love them....2024-08-0229 min
CIIS Public ProgramsRae McDaniel: On Gender MagicSome podcast apps may not display links from our show notes (see below) properly, so we have included a list of links at the end of this description.
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Non-binary therapist, certified sex therapist, and transgender diversity and inclusion educator Rae McDaniel has spent decades exploring gender. Their recent book, Gender Magic, is a first-of-its-kind practical guide to achieving gender freedom with joy, curiosity, and pleasure for transgender and non-binary individuals, gender explorers, and those who love them.
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In this episode, Rae is joined by Poarch Creek Two-Spirit Indigequeer soma-cultural sex therapist and sexuality educator Roger Kuhn for an empowering conversation...2024-05-021h 05
The Trouble with SexGender MagicDr. Tammy sits down with therapist, author and gender specialist Rae McDaniel to talk about the pleasure of self discovery, language and labels around gender, and their book Gender Magic: Live Shamelessly, Reclaim Your Joy, & Step into Your Most Authentic Self.DR. TAMMY WANTS TO ANSWER YOUR QUESTIONS about Sex, Love & Relationship and help you with your Trouble with Sex. Send your questions to drtammy@thetroublewithsex.com.OUR GUESTRae McDaniel is a licensed therapist, certified sex therapist, gender specialist, coach, educator, and author. They are the Founder and CEO...2024-04-0536 min
The Coaches ForumGender Magic w/ Rae McDanielNo matter your gender identity—trans, nonbinary, or cisgender—we all have so many expectations put on how we show up in the world based on very restrictive ideas around gender. But my guest in today’s episode, Rae McDaniel, is passionate about empowering people of all gender identities to show up as congruent, authentic, and aligned with the person they really want to be. Rae is a licensed clinical therapist, certified sex therapist, transgender DEI educator, and author of Gender Magic. Listen in as we talk about gender, gender inclusion, and gender freedom. ...2024-03-1237 min
Dreaming and Doing PodcastS01 Ep09: Having the Audacity to Be Your Authentic Self with Rae McDanielIf there’s one common struggle I regularly see as a therapist, it’s the challenge of accepting ourselves, believing that who we are is good, and allowing ourselves to be our most authentic selves in the world. Joining me on today’s episode is speaker, author, sex therapist, and entrepreneur, Rae McDaniel (they/them), whose book, Gender Magic, is a practical guide to achieving gender freedom with joy, curiosity, and pleasure for transgender and non-binary individuals, gender explorers, and those who love them. In this episode, you’ll hear Rae:Define the concept of...2024-02-1338 min
Courage SpeaksCourage Speaks Ep.5: Gender Magic with Rae McDaniel MEd, LCPC, CSTRae McDaniel is a leading LGBTQ+ advocate, therapist, and author, renowned for their dedicated support of transgender and non-binary communities. Their most recent literary creation, "Gender Magic," delves into the realms of identity and self-discovery, presenting a profound and transformative outlook on the concept of gender. Rae's commitment to advocacy extends well beyond their writing, encompassing dynamic workshops, impactful speaking engagements, and grassroots activism, all with the shared goal of fostering a more inclusive world. With their potent words and unwavering advocacy, Rae serves as a guiding light, igniting change and fostering understanding, making them a source of inspiration...2023-12-0950 min
The Terri Cole Show559 GENDER MAGIC with Rae McDanielI am so happy to have Rae McDaniel (they/them) on the show. Rae is a non-binary Speaker, Therapist, Certified Sex Therapist, Coach, and Transgender Diversity and Inclusion Educator. They are also the author of Gender Magic, which came out earlier this year. Rae's style of teaching is so accessible and inviting, and we cover their backstory, setting boundaries while staying true to yourself, moving from fear into empowerment, finding chosen family, intimacy and friendships, and so much more. I love following Rae on Instagram because I always learn something from them, and I think...2023-11-1631 min
UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for EveryoneGender Exploration for Everyone: A Conversation with Rae McDaniel Author of Gender MagicRae McDaniel, gender and sex therapist and author of Gender Magic, joins me on the podcast this week to talk about the role of gender in a world where we all desire to walk around as our most authentic selves. Even if we don’t have questions about our gender identity, we may question how we’ve been socialized in our genders or how to support others who have questions about their identity. Listen in as we discuss how a positive vision for your future can make it easier to handle challenges you encounter on your journey, gender freedom and what...2023-11-0943 min
The Bad Therapist ShowGender Magic: Transforming Therapy with Rae McDaniel [Ep 31]In today's episode of the Bad Therapist Show, I'm joined by Rae McDaniel, a Certified Sex Therapist and the Author of the book "Gender Magic." We discuss Rae's journey into therapy, their impactful work with the LGBTQ+ community, and the importance of authenticity in the online age as a therapist. Rae also gives us an exclusive insight into their groundbreaking book, "Gender Magic," which aims to help trans and non-binary individuals achieve gender freedom and explores the joy and celebration that can come with gender exploration.But this episode isn't just for therapists or those in the...2023-10-1653 min
Courage and SpiceHow to cultivate a healthy body image with Prof. Phillippa DiedrichsThis episode kicks off an occasional Courage & Spice series on body image, with my brilliant guest and dear friend Professor Phillippa Diedrichs!Phil is a research psychologist at the Centre for Appearance Research in Bristol, as well as the founder of Everybody Consulting, an academic led consultancy working with global brands to drive social change and improve wellbeing. Tune in for Phil’s expert perspective on what forms our (often complex) relationship with our own bodies, and the ways we can react to and challenge the effects of the media, capitalism, and societal pressures on our...2023-10-111h 01
Big Idea To BestsellerHow To Get a 6 Figure Book Deal with a Traditional Publisher With Meghan StevensonYou don't want to miss this episode with Special Guest Meghan Stevenson, an entrepreneur, educator, ghost writer and book editor!Tune in as Jake Kelfer, 4x bestselling author and book coach, connects with Meghan to discuss all things publishing.What You’ll LearnHow to sell books and promote your author brandHow to get a 6 figure book dealWhat traditional publishers actually look for in potential dealsThe three P’s to getting a publishing dealThe biggest myths in self vs traditional publishingAbout MeghanMeghan Stevenson is an entrepreneur, educator, ghostwriter, book...2023-10-0936 min
Lavender Lines and LowdownsLavender Lines and Lowdowns-Season 2-Episode OneI'm finally back! After four mostly minor surgeries and two injuries, I'm finally back at my desk. It's been a rough two years physically for me but I'm getting back in shape and excited to be writing and producing content again. My goals for the rest of this year are to produce at least one podcast a month, finish my new book, and start on the fourth book of the Coffee and Emeralds series. Jo and Sarah will be back soon!
The topic for this week's episode: Trying to keep things positive in an everchanging, aggressive, Karen...2023-09-2907 min
TamarindoLatina Literary Legends: Myriam Gurba and Esmeralda SantiagoOn this episode of Tamarindo, we speak to two literary legends. We’ll first speak to Mexican American writer and artist Myriam Gurba about her new collection of essays, Creep and her love of language. Creep: Accusations and Confessions, is a deep dive into the dark recesses of toxic traditions that plague the United States and creates the abusers who haunt us. Learn more about Myriam: myriamgurba.comThen, we talk about nostalgia, memories, and natural disasters with Puerto Rican author Esmeralda Santigo, the themes of her new novel, Las Madres a powerful novel of...2023-09-0657 min
Queer Magic PodcastGender MagicI had the incredible opportunity to interview the brilliant Rae McDaniel (They/Them), author of the groundbreaking book, "Gender Magic." 🎉
In this eye-opening conversation, we delved deep into the importance of joy and pleasure in gender exploration and transition. Here are my top three takeaways:
1️⃣ Joy and Pleasure in Gender: The author emphasized the need to celebrate the joy and pleasure that can be found in gender exploration and transition. By incorporating positive psychology and recognizing the power of joy and pleasure in connecting with our authentic selves, we can redefine the narrati...2023-08-3135 min
BraaainsSense8, The Politician, and Gender FreedomOur guest Rae McDaniel is a non-binary Speaker, Author, Therapist, Certified Sex Therapist, Coach, and Transgender Diversity and Inclusion Educator. In this episode, we talk about gender identity, exploration, expression, AND freedom and how your mental health is overwhelmingly better when you can authentically be yourself. We also discuss TV shows like Pose, Sense8, The Politician, and Mae Martin’s Feel Good that include or showcase stories of transgender and non-binary individuals and explore the impact of that representation. Contact us: BraaainsPodcast.com Follow: @BraaainsPodcast Music: @_Deppisch_ Design: Perpetualnotion.ca...2023-08-2952 min
SOBER SEXGender Magic with Rae McDanielRae McDaniel is a non-binary therapist, certified sex therapist, transgender diversity and inclusion educator, speaker and author of ‘Gender Magic’. They are the founder and CEO of Practical Audacity, a gender and sex therapy practice based in Chicago, and an international advocate for gender freedom. We are thrilled to welcome Rae to the show today.
You can find more about Rae and their awesome work at https://www.gendermagic.com/ and https://rae-mcdaniel.com/2023-08-211h 06
Wild & SublimePride Show: "Gender Magic" + storyteller Lily BeSend us a textOur Pride Edition show part two features guest host Matthew Amador interviewing sex and gender therapist Rae McDaniel on their new book “Gender Magic,” plus recurring storyteller Lily Be’s comedic story on experiencing her asexuality as a teen. Includes Karen Yates’ Sermon on the Pubic Mound. Recorded at Hungry Brain in Chicago.Live show sponsor: Rowan Tree CounselingFIFTH ANNIVERSARY SHOW! October 7, 2023, at Constellation in Chicago. GET TICKETSLeave a tip for our work or join our monthly Patreon members’ club, the Afterglow, for discounts and other good...2023-07-2744 min
Unicorn Millionaire Podcast: LGBTQ+ BIPOC Financial Coaching to Crush Debt & Retire Early51. Gender Magic, Pleasure, and Intimacy w/ Rae McDanielI have been shouting from the rooftops about non-binary sex therapist Rae McDaniel's new book, Gender Magic, since it came out. It has really helped me look past internalized transphobia and shame, ESPECIALLY as it's come up for me in dating while trans. It's reminded me that trans folks not only deserve basic human rights, but that we are f'in magical, desirable, and that we deserve all the pleasure in the world. Listen to this episode to learn more about the process of writing the book, gender freedom, intimacy, pleasure, and self care. Their book, Gender Magic, is gold...2023-07-2447 min
Modern Anarchy117. Playing with the Pleasure of Your Gender Magic with Rae McDanielOn today's episode, we have non-binary gender and sex therapist and author, Rae McDaniel, (They/Them) join us for a conversation about embracing more play and pleasure. Together we talk about the beauty of chosen family, following your expansion, and when labels become a box.
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Women Who SoarFREEDOM- an episode with the author of Gender Magic, Rae McDanielI'm super giddy with excitement to share the Gender Magic podcast episode, titled "FREEDOM" which drops TODAY inside The Women Who Soar Podcast! I recently read Gender Magic then listened to Gender Magic and am THRILLED to share an unforgettable interview with the author. Truly, my absolute new favorite author, so this better be book one, Rae McDaniel! If you haven't read the book it's beyond important you do. Now, not tomorrow. Yes, bossy Dora said now!!! Start here by listening to an incredible moment with my friend and author Rae. Link to list...2023-07-0424 min
Joyful Courage for Parenting TeensGender magic with Rae McDanielMy guest today is Rae McDaniel. Rae is back to share about their new book, Gender Magic. They share what hurdles they see in advocacy for trans & non-binary people like vocal habits and making assumptions. We talk about how transitioning isn’t the point, but living authentically, shamelessly, and joyfully is. I ask Rae to share more about their personal experience as a nonbinary person, and they tell me about dismantling the idea that being transgender is a burden to others. We get into gender norms, exploring gender in a lighter way, intimacy, and freedom...2023-06-2653 minJoyful Courage for Parenting TeensGender magic with Rae McDanielMy guest today is Rae McDaniel. Rae is back to share about their new book, Gender Magic. They share what hurdles they see in advocacy for trans & non-binary people like vocal habits and making assumptions. We talk about how transitioning isn’t the point, but living authentically, shamelessly, and joyfully is. I ask Rae to share more about their personal experience as a nonbinary person, and they tell me about dismantling the idea that being transgender is a burden to others. We get into gender norms, exploring gender in a lighter way, intimacy, and freedom...2023-06-2653 min
Girl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesGender Magic Q&A with Rae McDanielWhat if you’re not sure what gender identity or label suits you? Or you’re cisgender want to date someone who’s trans or nonbinary? How can cisgender folks become better allies? In this bonus episode, you’ll hear August's conversation with Rae McDaniel, sex therapist, speaker, DEI consultant and author of Gender Magic: Live Shamelessly, Reclaim Your Joy, & Step into Your Most Authentic Self. You’ll learn about the book, related themes and Rae’s answers to thoughtful listener questions! Follow Rae on Instagram: @theraemcdaniel More Girl Boner...2023-06-2136 min
The Queer SpiritThe Magic of Gender Exploration with Rae McDanielRae McDaniel (they/them) is a non-binary speaker, author, therapist, Certified Sex Therapist, coach and Transgender Diversity & Inclusion Educator. Rae helps audiences gain the sheer audacity to be themselves in the world through play, pleasure, and possibility. Their book Gender Magic is a first-of-its-kind practical guide to achieving gender freedom with joy, curiosity, and pleasure for transgender and non-binary individuals, gender explorers, and those who love them. Rae is also the founder and CEO of Practical Audacity, a Gender & Sex Therapy practice in Chicago, serving over 300 clients yearly. Episode Highlights During our shared time...2023-06-2144 minThe Queer SpiritThe Magic of Gender Exploration with Rae McDanielRae McDaniel (they/them) is a non-binary speaker, author, therapist, Certified Sex Therapist, coach and Transgender Diversity & Inclusion Educator. Rae helps audiences gain the sheer audacity to be themselves in the world through play, pleasure, and possibility. Their book Gender Magic is a first-of-its-kind practical guide to achieving gender freedom with joy, curiosity, and pleasure for transgender and non-binary individuals, gender explorers, and those who love them. Rae is also the founder and CEO of Practical Audacity, a Gender & Sex Therapy practice in Chicago, serving over 300 clients yearly. Episode Highlights During our shared time...2023-06-2144 min
The Well+Good PodcastExploring Our Gender MagicEvery month at Well+Good is Pride month. But this month, as anti-LGBTQ+ legislation continues to threaten the LGBTQ+ community, we're shining a light on spots for hope—and joy—for trans and gender nonconforming folks.This week we’re in conversation with gender and sex therapist Rae McDaniel discussing their new book Gender Magic. The book serves as a guide for trans and non-binary folks to live shamelessly, reclaim joy, and step into their most authentic selves.HOST: Taylor Camille, Director of Podcasts at Well+Good GUESTS: Rae McDaniel, MEd, LCPC, Certified Sex The...2023-06-1428 minLET IT OUT"Queering in Friendships": Rae McDaniel, Sex Therapist & Author of Gender Magic ReturnsThis week Rae McDaniel is back. Rae is a non-binary gender and sex therapist who works primarily with transgender/non-binary/questioning folks transitioning their gender identity. We talk about how everybody has an opportunity to look at their gender identity and decide how they want to express it to see they want to present themselves. You might remember from our last episode they were writing a book. It's out now and called: Gender Magic—I read an early copy and loved it. We covered some of my favorite parts like how they see gender as a galaxy, human centered des...2023-06-101h 03
Shameless Leadership765: Guest Panel: Prepping Your Family for PrideHappy Pride, my friends! A couple of weeks ago, I had the absolute honor to moderate a panel of LGBTQIA+ leaders who were collaborating in support of The Pride and Joy Foundation as they had an incredible conversation about how to support our LGBTQIA+ youth during Pride month (and all year long!) When the conversation was over, I asked Executive Director of the Pride and Joy Foundation founder (and past SMA guest), Elena Joy Thurston, if we could share the recording of this conversation as a podcast episode. I just knew our community would love to learn from these lea...2023-06-051h 06
OutWithDanEP 50 - Rae McDaniel - GENDER MAGICRae McDaniel chats with Dan about GENDER MAGIC. This book talks about gender and identity in a very direct manner that all humans can relate to. Finding our own gender and identities is a necessary component to living an healthy and true life.2023-06-0214 min
Out of QueeriosityPride & Joy Parents: Preparing for Pride 2023!The replay of our live panel with Junior Mintt, Rae McDaniel, Kaleyla Josephs, Elena Joy, and Sara Dean. A fundraiser for the Pride & Joy Foundation, this event supported parents and loved ones of LGBTQ+ youth in learning how to increase well-being and safety in preparation for Pride 2023.
Happening May 16, 2023, on Zoom, this was a collaboration with Shameless Mom Academy. Sara Dean created this long-running podcast and large community over the past decade. She has a curated audience of 10,000+ parents who are motivated to learn new skills including anti-racism and authentic LGBTQ+ allyship. She is inviting her audience and...2023-06-011h 02
Dr. Streicher’s Inside Information: Menopause, Midlife, and MoreGender Magic with Rae McDanielAs a sexual medicine expert, I interact with people every day who are confused, mystified, and often put off by the very idea that someone does not define themselves by the sex they were assigned at birth. My guest is Rae McDaniel - a non-binary therapist, certified sex therapist, transgender diversity and inclusion educator, and the author of Gender Magic- Live Shamelessly, Reclaim Your Joy and step into Your Most Authentic Self.
Gender Magic is not only a road map for individuals that do not neatly fit into a binary world but also for those who want to support a...2023-06-0150 min