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WellishClosing the gap between your inner world and your outer identityWhat if the version of you you’re meant to be is already here — she’s just waiting for privacy, honesty, and imperfection to let her breathe?In this episode of Wellish, Sarah peels back the layers between the person you are in private and the one you perform for the world. We talk about the quiet truth of identity — the moments you can’t post, the thoughts you censor, and the parts of yourself that only come out when no one’s watching.You’ll learn how to close the gap between your inner voice and your...
2025-11-1027 min
WellishThe algorithmic glow up vs the soul level glow upWe talk about glow-ups like they’re visible — new wardrobes, better apartments, a life that photographs well. But the kind of transformation that actually changes your life happens in silence. In this episode, Sarah explores the difference between the algorithmic glow-up — the one everyone can see — and the soul glow-up — the one only you can feel. It’s about learning to like yourself in private, trusting the growth no one notices, and redefining what transformation really means.
2025-10-2732 min
WellishChasing perfection is blocking your self growthYou can’t “heal” perfectly. You can’t “manifest” perfectly. And you definitely can’t “surrender” perfectly — but that doesn’t stop so many of us from trying.In this episode, Sarah breaks down the hidden perfectionism that’s taken over modern spirituality — the pressure to meditate daily, feel high-vibe, never spiral, and always “trust the universe.” She explores how this obsession with getting it right actually blocks connection, intuition, and meaning.Instead, she offers a gentler, truer path: one rooted in embodiment, intuition, and imperfection as spiritual practice. You’ll learn how to release the pressure to perform your gro...
2025-10-2040 min
WellishThe cure to achievement addiction with Ashley JordanWhat if the real transformation isn’t about doing more—it’s about finally slowing down enough to ask why you’re doing it at all? In this soulful convo, Sarah sits down with writer and author Ashley Jordan (Unhappy Achiever) to explore what happens when success stops satisfying, self-improvement becomes another mask, and “becoming” quietly turns into self-rejection. Ashley shares the moment her biggest career win felt…numb, how grief cracked her open, and why the path forward is an unbecoming—peeling back perfection, releasing the “good girl,” and choosing a life that feels aligned over one that only looks the part...
2025-10-171h 12
WellishHow to get signs from the universe (without forcing them)You don’t manifest signs by chasing them — you receive them by softening.In this episode, Sarah explores the energy shift that makes synchronicities start showing up everywhere. You’ll learn how to move from control into receptivity, rebuild trust with your intuition, and understand why signs appear only when you’re finally open enough to notice them.This isn’t about magical thinking — it’s about getting quiet enough to hear what’s been whispering to you all along. When you stop gripping and start trusting, life starts reflecting your alignment right back to you.
2025-10-1340 min
WellishThe conversations that prove you can make your higher self realWhat if your higher self isn’t someone you’re chasing — but someone you’re remembering? In this reflective Wellish compilation, Sarah revisits past guest conversations that reveal what becoming your higher self actually looks like in real life: the breakdowns, the surrenders, and the quiet shifts that turn healing into transformation.Through raw, soulful clips and her own reflections, this episode explores the subtle art of self-evolution — how to live as your higher self now, without waiting for perfect.
2025-10-0924 min
WellishMindfully Respond to Your Environment Rather Than Emotionally React: A Beginner's GuideDo you ever feel like your emotions run the show, leaving you frazzled and overwhelmed? In this episode of Wellish, we're diving into how to shift from reacting with high emotions to responding mindfully in any situation. Sarah shares personal stories—like a frantic moment over holiday plans—and the lessons she's learning about grounding herself, recognizing triggers, and embracing progress over perfection.
2025-01-2027 minWellishWhy Am I So Resistant to 'Mom Culture'? with Sarah PraiseI've got a confession to make: I've always felt a little...resistant when it comes to traditional "mom culture." You know, mom as a personality trait, the Pinterest-perfect lifestyle, and the endless #MomLife posts on social media. But why do we feel this judgement? In this episode, I'm digging deep to unpack the discomfort with embracing that full on 'mom' identity and what that really looks like. Is it just fear of losing ourselves, or is there something more behind the resistance? We are talking with personal trainer, yoga instructor, CEO, business woman and, of course, mom, Sarah Praise...
2024-11-1152 minWellishTransforming Brain Chaos into Calm and Clarity & Reclaiming Control from Burnout with Kira LeskewIn this episode, we dive into the hidden toll that chronic stress and burnout take on our lives—and how we can begin to turn things around. Meditation master Kira Leskew joins us to discuss her journey of transforming stress into resilience, even after decades of seeing stress as “normal.” Learn how years of chronic stress shape our bodies and minds to the point that true calm feels foreign, and hear compelling stories of entrepreneurs who found new clarity, even with high-pressure demands. Whether you’re overwhelmed, burned out, or just looking to find better balance, this episode offers practica...
2024-11-0451 min
WellishDay 5: Body Image with Heather GaleTo honor our typical Monday release during the 28 Days of Self Love, Sarah and Heather engaged in a conversation about the significance of body image and the role of somatics in healing. They discussed the impact of external messages on body image and self-worth. They also explored the role of exercise and healthy eating in maintaining a positive body image. Heather and Sarah discussed the importance of self-worth and body image, and how external appearance does not determine self-worth. They also explored the complexities of body image issues, the importance of self-esteem and how to improve your confidence when...
2024-02-0552 min
WellishDay 3: Defining Who You AreIn order to authentically love yourself you need to know who you love. But knowing who you are can feel like such a daunting concept to dig through. It can feel overwhelming and confusing. This episode is not going to help you define who you are, but feel at ease doing it. Sarah finishes the episode solidifying you knowing of who you are by connecting it back to self love.
2024-02-0314 minWellishControl Your Emotions Instead of Letting Them Control YouOn this weeks solo episode Sarah describes metacognition and how understanding how to develop the skill of metacognition will skyrocket your ability to become the best version of yourself. Using science to help explain why emotions happen and what happens in your body that causes us to experience our emotions in the way that we do. Even better, she discusses how to develop the ability to choose a response that will put us in the drivers seat so we don’t feel like a slave to our emotions and start to feel we truly are our Elite selves.
2024-01-2935 minWellishSharon Banyas Hefetz: How To Transform Your MindsetOn this weeks episode Sarah and Sharon discuss their experiences of feeling disconnected from their authentic selves and the importance of rediscovering oneself through mindfulness and intentional living. They also discuss the power of positive thinking and the concept of manifesting a desired life. The conversation shifts to handling difficult situations like a high-risk multiple myeloma diagnosis and the importance of self-love, positive thinking, and resilience. They touch upon the societal pressure to please others and the importance of self-compassion. The discussion then moves to the power of thought control and its impact on one's reality. Sarah and Sharon...
2024-01-2254 minWellish4 Signs You Are Subconsciously Comparing Yourself to Others and How To Use That Energy to Level Up InsteadWe have over come the battle of just looking at others and feeling jealous wanting to have what they have. I guarantee you will not have even been presented with the 4 things I discuss in this weeks episode as to ways you are still comparing yourself to others. The biggest take away I want the Elite to get from this episode is how to stop living for other people and how to start living for yourself. If you are someone who never feels satisfied with their own life and who they are no matter how hard you try this...
2024-01-1538 minWellishSarah Armstrong: Dealing with DivorceOn this episode I sat down with Sarah Armstrong, vice president of global marketing operations at Google, who has mentored women and men her entire career and avid “good divorce” proponent and the author of The Mom’s Guide to a Good Divorce: What to Think Through When Children Are Involved,” whose personal mission is offering insights and tips to moms – and dads – about how they too can have a “good divorce.” We discuss how to choose happiness despite hardship, the role children play in a role form both the perspective of the parents and the child and determining what your life w...
2024-01-0855 minWellishBalance Your Expectations with RealityOn this weeks solo episode we are leaning into the social norm of creating New Year's resolutions. There's nothing wrong with capitalizing on a surge of motivation, so let's set the goals, but let's do so in a way that we can actually get a win instead of feeling like whatever we set the intention to do eventually fades away. I am giving you guys concrete ways to actually feel like you are completing your resolution and becoming the best version of yourself. Including a guided exercise at minute 21:47! Here's to 2024!
2024-01-0132 minWellishOvercome HolidanxietyWe all handle stress differently, but everyday stress is so much different than holiday stress. We have to make time to connect with so many people, we have money anxiety and are stressing to find the perfect gift, we have to see our family, potentially a significant other's family, and Christmas just donesn't feel they way it used to. Sarah addresses not just holiday anxiety, but the ways we can so quickly sacrifice ourselves for the happiness of others because that's what you're supposed to do at this time of year. If you are a people pleaser that is...
2023-12-2932 minWellishChallenges on the Path to Self GrowthOn this week's Q&A episode Sarah is answering the Elite's questions. From friendship issues to how to validate yourself to no longer identifying with your old self Sarah is providing best friend advice to help you with your self improvement progression. If you are feeling stuck on your journey to become the best version of yourself and like you have tried too many self improvement things but have had very little clarity this episode is for you.
2023-12-191h 01WellishI'm not too hard on myself I have high standards! Right?This list of signs that you are too hard on yourself is a bit more subliminal. Sarah discusses the way she never used to claim the identity of being too hard on herself out of a deeper, and quite honestly, kinder, self awareness that she is hard working and has a strong work ethic. She begins to peel back layers to reveal some things that we may not even realize we are doing that could indicate you are being too hard on yourself. Do you think that could be you?
2023-12-1126 minWellishStop Letting People Get Under Your SkinOn this weeks solo episode Sarah gets into a topic that she finds incredibly challenging. She speaks from the place of the beginner in this new journey closer to becoming her best self compared to a place of mastery. Over explaining, talking to much, and giving people more justification than they may deserve is a bad habit she is working hard to break, so Sarah has listed out the 3 mindset shifts that she has taken in her own life to shift away from being so bothered by people and events out of her control and towards and more calm...
2023-12-0422 minWellishStop Listening to This "Self Improvement" Advise On this week's solo episode Sarah walks the Elite through 6 pieces of self improvement advise that not only are unhelpful, but actually have the opposite effect you intended the self help to have. Without awareness, it can cause you to build a mental checklist that you use as ammunition against yourself making you feel like even more of a failure than you started off feeling like. Sarah explains how it is what you do most of the time that matters and you have to do what works for you, not what works for someone else. If you feel like...
2023-11-2745 minWellishMiriam Ortiz y Pino: How To Organize Your Space And Keep It That WayThis week Sarah sat down with Miriam Ortiz y Pino, Certified Professional Organizer (one of the first in the world), Simplicity Expert & Money Breakthrough Business Coach to discussed her systematic solution to cleaning your space for the long term. Sarah and Miriam discussed the ties between personal development and organization and how organizing helps you not only gain control and freedom of your life, but can teach you who you are. They explain how to use intentional decision-making and habit-building as a technique in organization and the impact of organizing on productivity and well-being. They also touched on the...
2023-11-2051 minWellishBreakthroughs That Skyrocketed My Latest Personal Development TransformationOn this weeks solo episode Sarah is talking the Elite through the 4 major breakthroughs she has had on her latest personal development growth spurt to inspire your own breakthroughs. We’re talking the truth about the quotes we see plastered all of the internet, the underlying lessons of standing up for yourself, how to stop holding your current self hostage for your past selfies level of knowledge, and trusting yourself to create the life you want to live. If you are someone who feels like they just haven’t been able to get it right lately this episode is for...
2023-11-1350 minWellishHeidi Smith: Your Emotions Are a Message From Your Elite SelfThis week Sarah sat down with Bestselling Author, Transformative Guide, Speaker and Accelerated Evolution Academy Master Coach and Trainer Heidi Smith to discuss working with our minds instead of suppressing our feelings and experiences, working against them causing self hatred and consistent misery. Sarah and Heidi have a conversation about self-improvement and personal growth, emphasizing the importance of self-acceptance and progress over perfection. Heidi shares her personal journey with alcoholism and self-sabotage, and highlights the importance of physical and mental well-being. They also discussed the significance of understanding and accepting one's emotions, setting healthy boundaries, self-responsibility in relationships, and...
2023-11-061h 17WellishDo You Think That or Do You Think You Think That?Strap in for some validation. This week I am talking to the Elite about something every single one of us is effected by and may be the reason you are so hard on yourself and not able to achieve what you have never felt like enough. So much of what we think, believe, feel, like, dislike, etc. has been handed to us by outside forces and not our own true opinions. On this episode we are going to decipher what thoughts have been given to you and what thoughts are really yours. You are not wrong for living how...
2023-10-3034 minWellishThe Answer to Finally Transform Into Your Elite SelfOn this week's solo episode I am giving you guys the secret sauce to becoming the best version of yourself. If you have spent so much energy and effort towards consistent self improvement: reading the books, watching the videos, following all the social media accounts, looking for an answer, this is the answer for you. Don't get me wrong, still utilize your resources, but if you are looking to finally cross the threshold into embodying your highest self the only answer you need is in this episode. Then you can refer back to your other resources to really solidify...
2023-10-2335 minWellishGet Unstuck! How to Effectively Practice Self Improvement to See ResultsWhy is it that it makes sense that to become great, or even decent at a new skill -- playing a sport, learning a new instrument, painting a picture, a new job, WHATEVER, practice makes perfect makes perfect sense. But when it comes to new skills we want to improve on mentally, gaining confidence, setting boundaries, loving ourselves, feeling less overwhelmed, loving ourselves more, we expect to be good at the new self improvement tool the MOMENT we learned it just because we're intelligent enough to understand what needs to be done to improve. On this solo episode I...
2023-10-0930 minWellish My Overactive Mind Is Controlling My LifeOn this week's solo episode I am helping The Elite take back control of their minds to behave in the way that aligns with our most elite selves, exude confidence, and honestly to not feel like our mind and emotions are running the show more than we ourselves are. I am teaching my two phase process to first help ease your overactive mind to get rid of that horrible unraveling feeling and regain our power. I give advise on how to not let anyone disrespect you, including yourself, in an attainable, not intimidating way.
2023-10-0243 minWellishFrank Carl Jr: Break the Toxic Cycle & Attract a Fulfilling RelationshipThis week Sarah is sitting down with someone she NEVER thought she would have on the show - her boyfriend, Frank Carl. The couple discusses transitioning from consistent toxic relationships to a healthy one. We discuss relationship myths, relationship FAQs and our own personal complexities in our current & past relationships to help you better navigate your own. This high energy episode covers the couples best advise on satisfying relationships and their own exploitation of their toxic behaviors. If you’re looking for advise on how to improve your current relationship or create the space to welcome a healthy relationship in...
2023-09-251h 23WellishQ&A: Wellness RouletteThis week we are celebrating Wellish's one year anniversary with the show's first ever Q&A because what better way to celebrate one year than with the Elite team of Ishes that make this show what it is. We are all across the board with wellness on this one from relationships to friendships to mindfulness to physical health Sarah cover's it all. Make sure to submit your questions and stories for the next Q&A using the story highlight on Wellish's IG @wellishpodcast. Happy Anniversary!
2023-09-1838 minWellishSigns of a Fake Friend, Friendship Icks, & Friend Pet Peeves This week Sarah rehashes her least favorite qualities she has experienced in friendships to help inspire realization if you have a friend in your life that is causing more harm than good. She reviews qualities and behaviors that she thinks reflects a bad friend based on her own personal opinion as well as some suggestions from her Ishes. We discuss normalizing friendship breakups, being lonely or being around friends who drain you, and how to know if a friend is a fake.
2023-09-1143 minWellishDr Lynn Anderson: Stop Overcomplicating Wellness & Achieve ProsperityThis week Sarah sits down with natropathetic doctor and karma master Dr Lynn Anderson to discuss how to dance with the chaos of life in order to allow creation compared to destruction. On this episode, Dr Anderson opens up about how realistic and simple it is to create of prosperous life instead of the complicated ways the media tells us we need to operate to be good enough almost having a counter effect on us. She discusses how to use karma as a practical guide, how to operate your body for long term wellness, working with our natural desire for...
2023-09-0450 minWellishHow To Change Who You AreWarning! This episode is not your typical uplifting self improvement podcast that will tell you that you are perfect the way you are. Because while that's true, we all have a version of ourselves we picture in our heads that we will one day embody, Sarah walks the Ishies through the 4 step process to begin evolving into the person you desire to be and to make it last for real this time.
2023-08-2838 minWellishGinny Priem: Am I in a Manipulative Relationship?This week Sarah sat down with Master Certified Life Coach and #1 best selling author Ginny Priem to discuss her traumatic and shocking end to a romantic relationship as the man she thought was living in her house turned out to not be the man she thought he was at all sending her on her own path of healing and growing. She now focuses on transforming the lives of others to grow from adversity through her book and coaching work as well as public speaking and hosting her podcast Drinking With Gin. On this episode, She opens up about common...
2023-08-2158 minWellishA Beginner's Guide to Believing in YourselfOn this solo episode I am opening up about my challenge with believing myself and how it has inhibited me from feeling proud of myself on a daily basis. From my relationship with my physical health, to routines, to planning my day I do my best to follow the "self improvement" lifestyle in order to reach my version of success and find myself consistently in a spiral of failure when I cannot flawlessly stick to what I believe will control my commercial success. I walk the Ishes through what my personal limiting beliefs are and what I am doing to...
2023-08-1444 minWellishChristina Ray Stanton: Using Your Trauma to Empower Your Future SuccessThis week, Christina Ray Stanton, survivor of the two most shattering events to hit our country in the past century. 9/11 and a near-fatal battle with Covid, opens up about about how she used her trauma to guide her towards a life filled with love, success, laughter and giving. She tells about how even though you have the power to create the life you want, it is only to a certain extent thanks to the curveball life inevitably throws at you. With the right skills though, you can utilize the curveballs to your advantage to reach your desired destination. Christina...
2023-08-071h 30WellishDeveloping a Kinda Well Kinda Toxic Lifestyle is the Solution You Have Been Searching ForFor this weeks solo episode I wanted to break down a powerful mindset shift that has changed the way I operate. It has allowed me to no longer feel the need to chase the higher version of myself, but accept that I am her right now even though I am not 100% healed, healthy, and well. I can still work towards becoming better without feeling like there is something wrong with present me. I walk you guys through how to make the decision to control your emotions compared to allowing them to control you using realistic examples that will trigger...
2023-07-3150 minWellishMichael Kohan: Elevating Your Life & How to Build the Skill of Attaining FulfillmentThis week I sat down with I.C.F. certified life coach Michael Kohan to discuss how he helps others discover their powerful inner strengths and give clients and students the tools they need to make more meaningful decisions to Aim Higher and Elevate Their Life. We discuss how being intentional even in the smallest of ways can shift the trajectory of your life so you can look back from the rocking chair and feel proud of your accomplishments rather than wondering if you could have done more. Michael discusses this in a realistic way that involves accepting your...
2023-07-241h 15WellishKylie Douglas: Developing Your Skills to Create the Life You Want & Overcoming Beauty StandardsThis week I sat down with esthetician and business owner Kylie Douglas. We discuss how to develop a mindset that produces the life you want to experience, how to take care of your skin in a realistic way, and challenging beauty standards deciphering how to rise above them and not be so hard on yourself while still feeling confident in your own skin. Kylie discusses her difficulties starting her own business, but being fearless in your pursuit for greatness is a one way ticket towards success.Connect with Kylie! IG & FB: @kylieanneesthetics Booking...
2023-07-1059 minWellishKoshin Paley Ellison: The Secret to Becoming Your Higher SelfThis week I sat down with world renowned Zen Buddhist Teacher and Jungian Psychotherapist, Koshin Paley Ellison. I wanted to get inside the mind of a person who has an outlook of peace, clarity, courage, and compassion. We discuss the common misconception of becoming a whole version of yourself, how to stop being your own worst enemy, and how to live a happier life. Koshin provides a fresh perspective on shifting your mindset in a way that doesn't require you to lift a finger.Link to the Zen New York Center: https://zencare.org/ Get...
2023-06-261h 02WellishCorrin Hansen: How Do I End My Toxic Relationship?TW: sexual assault This week I sat down with my very old friend Corrin Hansen, MA in psychology specializing in domestic abuse relationships. Corrin’s goal was to figure out how we end up in these toxic situations and what we can do to successfully leave. Corrin’s passion for the psychology behind domestic abuse and toxic relationships comes from lived experience that she openly shares on the episode. Together, we bring awareness on how to strengthen our own self perception by overcoming our need to fit in and identify attachment styles with you may have with your partner and how...
2023-06-191h 07WellishRain Clements: The Fear of Other People's Opinions & Creating a Positive MindsetThis week I sat down with influencer, reality show "Playground" season 2 cast member, and most importantly ;) Wellish listener, Rain Clements to talk about her experience growing her online presence. We discuss how amassing such a large following has impacted her perception of herself and what she does to cope with the emotions and expectations that come with it. She opens up about her struggle with other people's opinions, but how she works hard to challenge herself in her pursuit to overcome the fear completely. We also get into her journey shifting from living life with a negative mindset to...
2023-06-1238 minWellishSavannah Hauk: How To Become Your True SelfThis week I sat down with TEDx Speaker, co-host of the Fox and the Phoenix podcast, award winning author Savannah Hauk to discuss her advocacy for the cross dressing and LGBTQ+ community. Identifying as a dual gender individual, as caused her to strive for self acceptance, self confidence and braving the challenge of learning who she is and loving herself unconditionally. Savannah provides valuable insight on how to peel back your layers and uncover the truth of who you are to build on your self expression and evolve into a genuine fulfilled version of yourself.
2023-06-051h 10WellishBonnie Surie: Achieve Your Ideal Life Through an Improved Self Relationship TW: Discussion involving self mutilation, suicidal thoughts, and attempted suicide. Skip 39:45-43:49 if necessary. This week Sarah sat down for a very powerful discussion with self relationship and intuitive breakthrough coach, Bonnie Surie, to discuss her evolution from living a life she barley had the desire to hold onto to one that is full of love, self awareness, and self acceptance. She provides her tools to begin identifying the reasons why you do not have a well developed relationship with yourself and the steps you can begin to take to get yourself there. She then helps us understand what our...
2023-05-2952 minWellishVictoria Pelletier: How To Become UnstoppableThis week I sat down with corporate executive, public speaker, and author Victoria Pelletier to discuss how she overcame extreme adversity and it to drive her towards a successful life she is proud to live. Victoria walks us through her journey from becoming COO by the age of 24, President by 35 and CEO by 41, and the mental habits she learned along the way. She explains how she learned her very important boundary setting skills, defining success for yourself, building your resilience muscle and her driving mantras to not make excuses and be unstoppable. Victoria does not take no for an...
2023-05-2244 minWellishForcing Relationships, You're Not A Self Improvement Project, & Self TrustThis week I have a plethora of self improvement realizations to share with the Ishes. From knowing whether or not relationships (friends or romantic) are right for you, to preventing the obsession with becoming the best version of yourself to have a clear mind while still making strides to become the person you dream of being, to taking all the bullsh*t you have decided are reasons to not trust yourself and flipping that into a way to build self trust we are learning to lighten the f*ck up. Of course, we're never letting up the reigns on improving...
2023-05-1536 minWellishDr. Emy Tafelski: Reweave Your Soul and Unweave Threads of PatriarchyThis week I sat down with licensed therapist turned integrative soul coach Dr. Emy Tafelski to talk about post traumatic growth. We discuss how she helps women reweave their souls into wholeness after loss or trauma by unweaving threads that do not belong to us, including the threads of patriarchy most of us carry, to become a more connected, authentic, grounded, whole version of ourselves. She educates us on her 4 step program to reweave the soul and what it looks like to be a person who has returned their souls tapestry to a state that aligns with their most...
2023-05-0848 minWellishGenevieve Piturro: How To Find Your PurposeThis week I sat down with founder of the inspirational speaker, purpose consultant, author, and TEDx speaker, and of course, founder of the national non profit, The Pajama Program, Genevieve Piturro. We cover her journey to success highlighting on how she left her corporate job she spent 12 years climbing the ladder for, to hearing a little girl ask a simple question that triggered her to channel into her true purpose changing the lives of millions. We discuss the truth behind Genevieve's thoughts and emotions through this journey and how someone can find a way to spend their life following...
2023-05-0146 minWellishMichelle E. Dickinson: Building The Skill of Resilience, Preventing Burnout & Using Adversity to Your AdvantageThis week I sat down with resilience coach & workplace resilience strategiest, author, & TED speaker, Michelle E. Dickinson to discuss the strategy behind building the skill of resilience. We cover the possibilities people have to grow their natural skill of resilience, how to prevent burnout and living the same day over and over again, and how to shift your perspective to use your adversity to your advantage instead of allowing it to cripple you. Michelle shares insightful and powerful information to help us understand how resilience as a lifestyle is apart of learning how to enjoy the journey....
2023-04-2445 minWellish5 Things I Wish I Knew When I Started My Well(ish)ness JourneyThis week I am breaking down 5 things that if I had only known sooner, would have sped up my journey towards mental clarity tenfold. I get into my behavior in my unhealthiest state, exploiting myself for your entertainment per usual, and how making these VERY SIMPLE changes/realizations instantly propelled me forward in becoming a higher version of myself.
2023-04-1747 minWellishBeing Judgemental Is A Self Improvement ToolPassing judgement isn't toxic. It becomes toxic when we start imposing our judgements on others. If we keep them to ourselves they can be used for what I think this inevitable feeling is truly for. Allowing our judgements to point us towards our ideal selves, getting to know ourselves better, and helping us decipher the things we do and don't believe in to create a life we're proud to live. I'm sick of feeling like an a*shole every time I judge someone and never being able to maintain the unbreakable habit of being impeccable with my word. As...
2023-04-1042 minWellishListen To This If You've Ever Felt Insecure For Being The Relationship TypeIf you are the relationship type and have ever felt insecure about not being the casual dating type. Relationships have been given this stigma of being too much work and/or commitment, too boring or stagnant, essentially as soon as you are in one, you lose your edge. While casual dating is glorified and sexy, but most of the time can actually feel much more miserable than the long term relationship. If you have ever felt less than good enough for not being here for the hoe phase, we are normalizing long term relationships feeling sexy.
2023-03-2732 minWellishShoulding Is For The WeakIf you're like me and find yourself shoulding yourself all too often, essentially you are telling yourself you're not good enough. You have to put intention behind making this mindset shift and today we are walking through specific ways to start doing this. We get into the question of who we are and how intertwined a shoulding mentality is with this concept because of how much we get caught up in the shoulding that we lose touch with what we actually want. This leads to us knowing the person we're supposed to be and not actually who we are. Navigating...
2023-03-2043 minWellishAlign Your Ideal Life With Your Current LifeLast week I was tearing myself to shreds that I wasn't living the life I wanted to live. I am so sick of listening to other people's success stories to make me feel better or hearing the advice of look how far you've come. It doesn't satiate my desire to attain the life I continuously find myself picturing in my head. This week we're talking about what does satiate that desire, how to stop beating yourself up over the life you're currently living.
2023-03-1323 minWellishBeing Kinda Toxic Is What Makes Life InterestingAfter spending the last month telling you guys how we can love ourselves to the fullest I feel like I leaned so much into the kinda well side of myself that I don't want the kinda toxic part of me (literally 50% of who I am) to slip through the cracks. This week I am breaking down for you all of my toxic traits from petty ones to ones that I should probably look into fixing a little harder. All in all, isn't it our toxic traits that make life a little more entertaining though?
2023-03-0630 min
WellishDay 28: Being Fully Healed Is A Myth, But Fully Loving Yourself Is NotFor our last day of this month long series together I want to of course ease some of the pressure. I never expected you to get all the way through the 28 Days Of Self Love and be completely healed from whatever was troubling you when you began the challenge. That's because there will always be shit to heal from. We can't expect to be fully healed to just be knocked down by life's bullshit that so much of the time is out of our control. But we can love ourselves 100%. The same way that you continue to love another...
2023-02-2812 min
WellishDay 27: Trust Your InstinctsYou are not stupid. There is a reason behind your thoughts. At the end of the day there is a reason you are having them. This is not to be mixed up with your overthinking mind, but looking at your initial thoughts and diving into the core of it to discover the truth is going to save you a lot of time and grief compared to not listening to it and finding out, typically in a harder way, that you were right.
2023-02-2711 min
WellishDay 26: The Fear Of Being SeenAs we come to the end of our self love journey together I want to talk to you guys about one of my biggest fears. I believe that the more you step into the the best version of yourself the more you are becoming your truest, most genuine, self. Therefore, when you are given the opportunity to show people this evolved version of you and you face the possibility of being rejected or judged for who you ACTUALLY are??? Phew, terrifying. Not to mention the possibility of losing the current people in your life who have already accepted the...
2023-02-2614 min
WellishDay 25: Give Yourself Permission To EvolveThe word evolution sounds soooo long term. No thanks. I want to feel like the best version of myself now. I don't want the only answer for this to be that I need to accept myself flaws and all as I am right now because again that's something that takes practice, in other words, time. I want answers now and to feel good about who I am now compared to constantly waiting to meet this better future version of myself that never actually arrives. Evolution doesn't have to be long term and I want to tell you guys how...
2023-02-2511 min
WellishDay 24: Make Self Love SexySometimes the thought of being what the world considers sexy is daunting. Especially now that we live in a world that has examples of what it means to be sexy everywhere you look. And all of those examples some how look....the same? lol. So what do you do if you don't fit that specific mold? That means you can't be classified as sexy. I refuse to succumb to that pressure. I want to challenge what it means to be sexy so you can feel good about how you specifically radiate sexy.
2023-02-2408 min
WellishDay 23: Strengthen Your Decision Making SkillsWe know that making decisions easier is something that comes from confidence and that being able to make decisions is something you're "supposed" to be able to do. But from one indecisive mfer to another, how can we start incorporating this into our lives? I have a couple tricks up my sleeve to make the daunting decision making task a little easier!
2023-02-2313 min
WellishDay 22: Stop Doubting Yourself BroSelf doubt is so far engrained in my daily way of thinking I don't realize the subtle ways that I constantly do this. Other times it's very obvious and I feel like I'm drowning in a deep pit of uncertainty of who I am, what I doing, why sh*t happens the way it does the list goes on & on. I want to talk about a way to stop this that doesn't require you to love yourself first. The only thing you need to make this happen instantly is a little bit of courage.
2023-02-2213 min
WellishDay 21: Slow Your Spiraling MindIf any of my episodes are calling the kettle black, it's this one. I used to live my life in a constant state of rumination. It is one of my least favorite feelings because not only would I be driving myself nuts, I would want so badly for it to stop, but have no capability of putting an end to the issue. Looking back, I was never given anything concrete to try. I want to give you things you can actually utilize to calm your spiraling mind. Find that in today's episode!
2023-02-2123 min
WellishDay 20: Learn Your Needs & Create The Life You WantOne of the feelings I hate the absolute most is feeling like I cannot get a handle on how I act in order to align with how I want other people to view me. Honestly, I have a hard time aligning my actions with how I want to view myself sometimes. Learning my needs has been one of my favorite tools in nailing down who I am, loving who I am for understanding those needs, and capitalizing on them in order to create a life I love. I want you to have the ability to do the same, so...
2023-02-2012 min
WellishDay 19: ComparisonI would never insult my Ishies intelligence by letting them know "comparison is bad". Old f*cking news. It's so much deeper than that. Instead I want to help open your eyes to the ways that you may be doing this you're not even aware of and give you a new perspective on why you need to knock that sh*t off.
2023-02-1913 min
WellishDay 18: How To Love Yourself While Being The Center Of AttentionWe always hear how once we love ourselves we will be able to handle these awkward situations like being the center of attention. But, while that's true, that's not how life works. Life happens, these awkward situations happen, while we are learning to love ourselves and if we don't enter the situation with intention, we fall into the trap of lessening our love for ourselves. The exact opposite of what we want to do. Learn how to enter the situation of being the center of attention knowing what to do and love yourself more because of it.
2023-02-1814 min
WellishDay 17: A Safe Environment Is Crucial To Love YourselfCreating a safe environment that allows yourself the space to grow and the intention to focus on your self love is crucial when it comes to loving yourself. It is next to impossible to fill yourself up when you are constantly surrounded by negativity draining you of your energy. While this isn't feasible for everyone all of the time there are things you can do to create a safer environment for yourself that allows you to put the intention back on yourself without cause too much havoc in your life.
2023-02-1713 min
WellishDay 16: Realistic Tips To Manifest Your Ideal PartnerSure, it's good to work on yourself gain confidence and self worth to attract someone that is worth while into your life. But the real answers are a much simpler than that. A lot of the time we have no control over who pops in and out of our lives and when and it won't perfectly align with our own personal wellness journey. So, how do you manifest and ideal partner while still working in yourself? Find out on today's episode!
2023-02-1617 min
WellishDay 15: Listen To Your EgoIf you've ever taken a psychology class or heard of Sigmund Freud you have probably heard of the concept of the id, superego, and ego. I need cold hard evidence that the bullshit my brain is putting me through is for a reason and lot of the time I have a hard time finding the happy medium with what I am willing to settle for mentally. I am going to apply this psychoanalytic personality theory to our self love and mental health and hopefully make your brain a little bit nicer to you in a way that your brain...
2023-02-1518 min
WellishDay 14: Date Yourself & Feel Satisfied With ItThe concept of dating yourself isn't a new one. It's definitely a good idea and gives us a little bit of a perspective on how to love ourselves better. But the expectations we set when it comes to dating ourselves have been a tad skewed. We must find a way to date ourselves not to replace the feelings we get from a relationship or to become more independent and not need those things from a relationship, because that's just unrealistic. The idea here is to build the habit of caring for yourself that way if you're in the best...
2023-02-1417 min
WellishDay 13: Body MaintenanceYou want to learn to love yourself but you're stuck in all awareness stage of loving yourself mentally? Let's start with the basics. Loving yourself doesn't have to be that complicated and sometimes we can find the most pride in what we can feel accomplished in physically. The evidence of what we have done to love ourselves is right in front of our faces when it comes to body maintenance compared to the progress we have made mentally that may not feel as apparent.
2023-02-1313 min
WellishDay 12: Body ImageBecause body image is a HUGE part of self love it is so often talked about that the idea becomes too broad and we are not looking at what realistically is going to help us. We start wondering why our body isn't good enough to fit into whatever beautiful standard is racing across the internet. I want to find a way to ease that though process that can whip us into psycho buy every product we can get our hands that will help me mode!
2023-02-1213 min
WellishDay 11: Embarrassment, Shame & Self LoveA big piece of the issue with loving ourselves is the embarrassment and shame we feel whether thats in the moment of an embarrassing thing happening or a random memory from 10 years ago pops into our head and we can't help but cringe. We have to learn how to detach our identity from the shitty embarrassing things that inevitably make their way into our lives.
2023-02-1111 min
WellishDay 10: Learn The Skill Of Saying NoThere are two types of saying no: saying no to others and saying no to yourself. Both come with difficulty. But the good news is that with enough practice and applying the right techniques you not only can show yourself that you are capable of saying no guilt free, but that most people don't respond in a negative way. If anything it shows your confidence, love for yourself, and helps gain respect. Listen and find out how!
2023-02-1014 min
WellishDay 9: Gaining Confidence Instantly & Long TermConfidence means trust. Can you build self trust enough in order to become confident? For one of the most talked about topics, it's interesting that so many people continue to struggle so much to achieve it. Today I am walking you through some ways that will give you the instant gratification of confidence when you need it and when applied enough will help improve your confidence for the long term. I also dive into what deep roots you need to work through in order to become a confident person long term. There's something for every Ish here. Tune in!
2023-02-0922 min
WellishDay 8: Standing Up For Yourself: The Most Powerful Skill You Will LearnIshes this is probably my favorite topic of all time. Standing up for myself has been one of the most difficult things I have had to overcome, it has been my biggest insecurity from the time I was a little girl. Because of that, it has been my proudest achievement learning how to stand up for myself and being able to apply it in my life. I tell you guys some pretty intense stories from my life and give you realistic step by step ways to start incorporating this into your life in order to love yourself, not tolerate...
2023-02-0820 min
WellishDay 7: Your Toolbox For The Terror Of Social SituationsI am in no way shape or form a therapist that has the answers that will cure your social anxiety. I also am fortunate enough to not be a person who has suffered with social anxiety my whole life. I am however a person who has developed this fear through the repetition of rejection. It was become a learned fear in my life. Because of that, I get frustrated because I know life doesn't have to be this way and am often trying to combat it. I wanted to share with you the things that have been the most...
2023-02-0717 min
WellishDay 6: Using Negative Self Talk To Your BenefitHi Ishes!!! I felt you guys deserved more than the average self talk convo. This one isn't going to be about how flip your negative mindset to be more positive or how to get rid of the negative self talk completely. Although not impossible, truthfully, I think that those are both pretty unrealistic expectations. I want to give the Ishes a way to use the negative thoughts to strategically shift them to benefit you on your self love journey.
2023-02-0615 min
WellishDay 5: How To Validate YourselfI am so tired of the classic idea that we need to replace internal validation with external validation. They are not the same! You will never get the same feeling from internal validation that you will with external validation. That's because the external validation is a temporary high that doesn't come with the long term satiation of internal validation. But how do we make this happen for ourselves in a way that allows us to curb the external validation AND feel good about that, for good? Listen to episode 22 to find out!
2023-02-0516 min
WellishDay 4: Defining Who You AreToday I am diving into the 3 main things that I think you ishes need in order to truly define who you are. Defining who you are is the first major step you need to practice in order to love yourself because if you don't know who you are, you will not know what it is you stand by and therefore you will constantly find yourself questioning what you say and what you do. When you truly know who you are you can fully love who you are. How are you supposed to love someone you don't know? Learn how...
2023-02-0415 min
WellishDay 3: Acceptance & SurrenderToday I am coming to you guys from my actual death bed I am so sick and if that doesn't make for a better you just have to accept the shit that happens to you, surrender to it, and decide how you are going to respond and move forward, I don't know what is! I am talking to you guys about the lack of control we have over the things that show up in our lives. Sometimes we just need to learn to ride the wave in whatever way best suites you.
2023-02-0315 min
WellishDay 2: Generational Curses: Breaking The CycleToday I wanted to talk to you guys about the role your families shaping you has played in your self love journey. This is NOT saying there is a right or wrong way to raise children. All I am saying that the way the people who raised you behave and their conscious and subconscious beliefs contribute to yours and that does not exclude the ways in which you struggle to love yourself. It might be less obvious than you think!
2023-02-0214 min
WellishDay 1: Getting To The Root Of Your ProblemToday I wanted to talk to you guys about the pressure of digging deep into your unconscious mind, doing shadow work, healing your inner child, the list goes on and how you might be overlooking to obvious issue behind your struggle to love yourself fully. I then get into taking responsibility for your issues with loving yourself and forgiving yourself for not loving yourself as you should thus fair. I end the episode with some reflection questions for you to notate in your workbook.
2023-02-0112 minWellishListen To This If You Want To Love Yourself (The 28 Days of Self Love Challenge)We constantly hear about and a striving to achieve this concept of self love. But some times it can really feel so unfathomable. On this episode I am breaking down the why behind that. The topic is far too broad for something that is so specific for each individual person. I will walk you first through my self love journey, my most impactful breakthroughs when it comes to self love, and at long last the exciting secret I have been keeping from you ishes the last couple weeks. Join me for the first annual 28 Days of Self Love Challenge...
2023-01-3054 minWellishSerena Battista: Falling In Love With FailureThis week I sat down with online fitness coach and avid travel junkie Serena Batista. We discuss how to use failure as a tool to achieve success since essentially you only tried the thing you failed at with hopes of succeeding. We break down what it means to have the courage to try and fail in order to eventually reach success. We discuss the story we tell ourselves in our heads that we preventing us from prevailing, being stuck between the old and new you, listening to the messages given to you by a higher power, and finding the...
2023-01-2354 minWellishJust Do What Feels Good ManThis week I am breaking down my new way to make myself feel good about myself, live in the present, and not put so much damn pressure on myself that I am going to fail if I don't do the right thing. And the good news is I am giving you my step by step tips on how to ACTUALLY implement it into your life so you don't have to live one more moment trapped in self depreciation mode.
2023-01-1636 minWellishCreate Genuine Female Friendships (ft. Marissa Carlson & Sarah Bochnik)This week I brought on two of my close girlfriends to discuss the highs and lows of female friendships and what goes into having a genuine friendship with a woman that you can rely on. We dive into this unspoken desire to be apart of a friend group and how we so often find ourselves tying our self worth to and how it tends to be the relationships with fewer people that are deeper than surface level connections. We then move into the reason women can be so close compared to male friendships, understanding your friends love languages and...
2023-01-0956 minWellishEliminate the Pressure Of A New Years ResolutionDo you want your New Years resolution to ACTUALLY last longer than the next few weeks? I am going to tell you how, but news flash! You're the same person on Jan. 1 as you were Dec. 31st! While the new year is a great opportunity to reset and create a new goal for yourself, don't beat yourself up for not becoming a brand new person right out of the gate. Becoming the best version of yourself is all about the process and it takes time to ensure your new habits incorporate themselves into your life for the long term.
2023-01-0251 minWellishLOOK THROUGH HIS PHONE And Other Toxic Behaviors That Should Be Given The Green LightThis week I am diving into a number of toxic behaviors that I believe should be given the green light in relationships. Or at least a yellow light. Using my own personal experiences and several of yours who wrote in I narrowed down some of the most popular toxic behaviors that we need to stop being shamed for acting on, especially when most of the time there is an underlying reason for the behavior.
2022-12-1242 minWellishSpeaking With Impeccability Is F*cking Hard Using Miguel Ruiz's book The Four Agreements as a guide, I have found myself having a really difficult time being impeccable with my word towards myself and others. Speaking with kindness is something that society so effortlessly expects, but using the power of word in the highest regard is so much deeper than just not sh*tting on yourself or gossiping about others. On this episode I walk you through my interpretation of being impeccable with your word breaking down each part of Ruiz's first agreement "Be Impeccable With Your Word" and elaborate both on what I find challenging...
2022-12-0557 min
WellishTheresa Guarriello: How To Triumph Over An Abusive RelationshipThis weeks episode takes on a topic heavier than most of the conversations we've had on Wellish so far. I am sitting down with Theresa Guarriello a survivor of a four year long abusive relationship. We will cover topics regarding her personal experience with physical, emotional, and sexual abuse, her thought patterns throughout the relationship, red flags before and during that signify the inevitable truth; that as badly as we want our partners to change for the better, they never will. We then dive into what it took for her to leave the relationship, the ways she continues to...
2022-11-281h 27WellishDr. Elizabeth Dale: Intrusive Thoughts In Your Career & The Terrifying Truth About Some Pet OwnersOn this week's episode I am joined by Doctor of Veterinary Medicine Dr. Elizabeth Dale. She walks us through what it looks like to achieve the dream job she had been working towards since she was just a little girl all the way up to today where she now works for the largest general veterinary practice in the country. Even though Dr. Dale has saved countless animals, she is no exception to the limiting beliefs that run ramped through so many of our minds. We discuss imposter syndrome and perfectionism, the truth behind what it takes to achieve your...
2022-11-211h 08WellishYou Set Your Expectations Too High & Now You Feel Like Sh*tI wanted to talk to you guys about a few different scenarios that I have been in and will hopefully help those of you that have too. I tend to paint a picture or map out an exact plan of how my life is going to go and shockingly (that's sarcasm btw) it doesn't go exactly as planned. AND EVEN BETTER I make that my own fault. It's a really fun vicious cycle I put myself through. I begin with setting too high of expectation for the direction of your life using my life altering decision to most to...
2022-11-141h 04WellishUnlock The Ability To Think Greater Than You Feel And Redirect Your LifeLast week I was NOT doing well mentally, which led me to want to talk to you guys about how easily our emotions can be manipulated, how impermanent they are, and how essentially, we can adapt into any version of ourselves we like by surfacing the emotion that best represents our desired character as frequently as possible to achieve our desired self. I first walk you through my garbage week and how I came to this conclusion, then through what I needed to do to better understand what was going on inside of my brain, and finally, of course...
2022-11-0754 minWellishOvercoming The Fear Of Experiencing Life AloneThis week Sarah strips the barrier of judgment that surrounds not being able to live life alone and be "independent" while promoting the regular practice of solitude to instill confidence and break down the barriers the fear, depression, and anger executing life's activities can bring on. The episode begins with the reason we, as humans, can feel so much resentment towards being alone and the benefits that come from leaving our comfort zone and spending time with ourselves. It then takes listener's through Sarah's experience executing the most common biggest fears of activities to do in solitude by Wellish...
2022-10-311h 11WellishSo You Had Plans But Got A Better Offer, Now What?This week Sarah navigates how to still be a good friend and not blow people off when a better offer presents itself. She talks about the current issues in her own life that have led her to this topic, how she handles it, and shares the best ways to get what you want while tending to your relationships for the long term, compared to caving to the instant gratification of the newest itinerary option.
2022-10-2435 minWellishEnding Long Term Relationships: Being Unhappy Isn't An Excuse To Make Up (ft. Sarah Bochnik)Sarah is joined this episode by her friend Sarah Bochnik who's long term relationship with her high school sweetheart has come to an end and not by any decision of Sarah's. The duo discuss the feelings that come with the ending of a long term relationship and how to deal with relapsing and running back to a situation that is less than ideal. The girls then get into expectations placed on us by society from the pressure of dating online to the expectation of having children. If you are in any stage of a breakup, sit back, hang out...
2022-10-101h 02WellishA Map To Regaining Self TrustThis week Sarah walks through the first steps of regaining what caused her self trust to be depleted in the first place, realizing what caused the leak. She walks through patterns from her childhood that have become a clear pathway to current self trust issues for decision making skills in her adult life. She then discusses what she has done to rebuild her trust in herself and practices that can help you rebuild yours.
2022-10-0339 minWellishDon't Touch My F*cking Steering WheelStrap in for episode to and maybe turn your mic volume down just a tad because we are DONE allowing our emotions to guide us through out lives. Sarah describes her newfound way of bringing the life she desires into her current reality and shares what she found most helpful as she began to stop allowing her entire life to be run by fear. She goes on to explain how we cannot be instantly gratified these ideologies become the elevated version of ourselves because we would have no experience in being able to continue the habits that must be...
2022-09-2635 minWellishDumpster FireFollow along journalist and fitness and personal development coach, Sarah Ritondale as she dives into the transparent details of her life. In her 20's, she exploits the f*ck out of her life letting you in on how what you see glimpses of, from those around you and on social media are never completely accurate. You can expect to eliminate the barrier of getting everything in your life "right" here on WELLISH.
2022-09-1929 min